How to Take Responsibility Without Self-Blame, ft. Dr. Gabor Maté
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- 🤔 🤔 How to Take Responsibility Without Self-Blame, ft. Dr. Gabor Maté
In this insightful video, Dr. Gabor Maté explores the profound impact of parental influence on children's self-concept and development. Delve into the complexities of early childhood experiences and learn how children internalize parental stress, often perceiving it as their fault.
🧠 Parental Influence on Self-Concept (00:05)
Discover how early interactions with parents shape a child's self-concept. Dr. Maté explains the critical role of parental behavior in the formation of self-worth and identity.
🤔 Understanding Fault and Responsibility (02:14)
Shame and blame are common in family dynamics, but they are not productive. Learn why understanding responsibility-stemming from awareness and conscious action-is key to personal growth and healing.
🔄 Differentiating Responsibility and Blame (07:43)
Dr. Maté clarifies the crucial difference between responsibility and blame. While blame inhibits growth, taking responsibility involves acknowledging patterns and making positive changes.
Join Dr. Gabor Maté as he shares his expertise on:
🤔 How parental stress affects children's self-concept
🤔 The impact of shame and addiction
🤔 Moving beyond blame to embrace responsibility
🤔 steps for personal growth and healing
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When we set ourselves free from all what did not belong to love , we clearly see our ancestors soul and get the key to set them all free . They gave us life there for .
Thank you for sharing this powerful insight about love and our ancestors' souls.
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Thankyou so much for this video Dr.Gabor Mate
God bless you and your family ❤
I figured out the reason I couldn't take responsibility it's definitely because my subconscious mind took responsibility as self blame..Thankgod I could relieve from emotional struggle now.
Thank you for your kind words and blessings! I'm glad you found the video helpful. Wishing you continued clarity and peace on your journey.
In this enlightening video, Dr. Gabor Maté shares his insightful perspective on how to take responsibility without falling into the trap of self-blame. Dr. Maté explains the importance of acknowledging our role in situations without criticizing ourselves, offering valuable advice on self-compassion and growth. If you've ever struggled with finding the balance between responsibility and self-blame, this video is a must-watch for you. Join us in exploring Dr. Gabor Maté's wisdom on navigating the delicate art of taking responsibility without blaming yourself.
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I have a bit of a different perspective... i agree its not always their fault.. but if you have toxic family members, and MANY do .. at the end, when you take responsibility to heal and become your best version, and you decide to express your hurt to them over the years..., you will be met with gaslighting, stonewalling, blame shifting, unwillingness to take responsibility, calling you the problematic one and smearing your name, ganging up on you...
You soon realize... they need to be released from your life so you can properly heal and once you do, you realize.. that you dont want people like that anymore in your life.. as your self love grows, the more attachments will likely be cut.. you cannot no longer accept bad behavior, and you realize these people cannot change nor are they sorry for what they did to you!
Being delusional about who such people are.. is a trauma response of avoidance .. unwillingness to accept the truth and reality.. so you go back to playing along and never really fully healing
Thank you for sharing your perspective and reminding us of the power of self-love and healing.
I was also thinking about this. When people are scapegoating a child, it really can't be completely unaware. They have to have at least some awareness of what they're doing and the pain they're causing. Further, when it's so blatant that even the neighbors are seeing it and try to talk to them about it, they can't say they don't know. Some hurt is truly unintentional and unaware. But some hurt is intentional and the perpetrators know what they're doing. And like you said, the only way to be able to heal is to completely cut off from that sickness. Total distance is the only way to have the space to see yourself as worthy of love and acceptance . They made their choice. If they can't hear or care, we have to choose our own health.
Do babies internalise stress and distress even before birth in the womb .
Thank you for bringing up such an important question. It's important to understand how prenatal experiences can impact a child's well-being.
Indeed...babies absorb thoughts and feeling in utero.