you are a really great mom! my parents never gave me the talk, which led me to finding out from friends and the internet at a very young age. then i started getting older and they just assumed i knew and completely avoided it. i’m glad you do a special day to talk about it and build that trust with your kids!
Same, and I mostly learn the disgusting parts of it, but I do ask her questions then and now but she’ll prob talk about it more when I’m older cos I’m only 11 but I know the basic!
@@paytonbrunell OMG, we did the same and our teacher made us shout out the body parts all at once! I was looking around to see if anyone else was saying it! 😬😳
Even my parents never gave me the talk and I'm 13, I kinda just know it from school and we have a chapter on reproduction this yr.....we also kidna found out abt it when we had a school workshop on periods.
This video was so much better than I was expecting. I was expecting a typical vlogger family exploiting their kids without their permission, but this was beautiful. This proves that vlogging isn't the problem. The world is good because of parents like you and obviously the love of God. These children are blessed to have such great parents❤️
My mom did this with my sister and I and I think it makes a huge impact when the parent sets aside a full date because it shows the child really how important this discussion is and how serious to take it no matter how awkward it may be
ElleCee's sweet hugs after the talk with each of you was so incredibly sweet. You could tell she felt slightly awkward but that quickly faded and you could see that she felt so loved. Such a sweet sentiment! Love this.
this made me tear up, to see the way you raise your kids, and all of them so wonderfully. im 13, and around 8-9 i got the talk, because my mom got pregnant with my brother. growing up was hard for me, because around this age i was emotionally abused by my teacher and my parents didnt know. my parents have supported me through everything, but they fight a lot and we have all had our issues. keep being such amazing parents and know, coming from a teen girl, that in the most vulnerable (and scary!) parts of our lives, your support and ucconditional love means the most to us. i promise, even if your kids dont show it all the time, they notice it. they notice how hard you work and it means the world to them. thank you, for being so perfect. its so special to see the older girls helping ellcee. every kid has been taught so so well and are all lovely people. i want to meet you guys someday.
Ellecee is a gem. Such a natural in front of the camera. Tiffany really was born to be a mom. And Benji is a great partner and dad. P.S. I love butter noodles too Ellecee 🙂
i literally cried watching this, my mom has never had the talk with me, i don’t tell her anything. i don’t feel comfortable telling her anything. she’s not an open person and she’s very hard to talk to. instead of having the talk from her, my friends have told me about periods, sex, etc. i cried because i wish my mom was just as open as you guys are. i feel like i can’t trust my parents about anything. i don’t even tell them my crushes. if i tell them anything they either turn it into a lecture, talk abt it in front of ppl i don’t want to know, or straight up tell people. you guys are such good parents. God bless you
I hope things get better...Rememeber,your mom loves you tho.I’m not an open person as well and I’m too shy to talk to anybody about things that stress me and other stuff and my mom only tells me things that I need to hear.
I love how the older kids are so supportive. Reproduction and sexuality are such important topics. Making it such a big, special event helps kids to understand they are special and loved. Opens communication so kids can feel like it's ok to bring up these topics and questions to their parents. Or in so cases siblings.
It's so beautiful to see this amazing family teach their daughter about life in a loving and meaningful way. I love how you treat all of them with love and respect and also the privacy and individuallity they deserve. Also i love how you made "the talk" a good and memorable thing and talking about the circle of trust with God was really just perfect
I think this is so special that you do this with each of your kids! I’m the same age as kennadee and never actually had this talk with my parents, I ended up learning about it through the internet and friends but watching these videos of yours inspires me to whenever I have kids to have this conversation with them to build that trust☺️
Same here and I think it's cool that she does this. I had to learn from the internet, from friends, and even from health class. I didn't even know literally anything about periods til a friend and a couple health teachers and a doctor told me
@@Unknown-me8wp same my parents never talked to me about anything, I was pulled out of s*x ed in middle school cause they didn’t want me to know about it and I learned abt periods from the internet and my brother learned about it from corn that he stubmbled across on the internet when he was like 7
My parents are divorced and the love that Tiffany has in her eyes for benji is so meaningful you guys raise your kids so well!! They are so lucky to have you guys
The moment Benji put the ring on ElleCee's finger, I cried because it was just the most purest and most beautiful moment I've ever seen on TH-cam. You guys are such an amazing and incredible family!! Honestly really, really wish that I had a family like yours. Love you guys so very much!! Stay amazing!! God bless💜💜💜💜
I think all the adults that follow your channel would be really interested to hear more about how you present ‘’the talk’’ to your kids - get tips for their own kids
I understand but by sharing that info, she basically shares the parts they want to keep private for a reason. (Their own reason but also the reason to not wanting to literally share the info of 'the talk' for everyone -including children- to see/hear. I am pretty sure they do not want any child to see this without having the talk with their own parents first. That is the whole message they try to give their own children. Also their way of telling might not be right for your or anyone else's children even if there were a way to share this without children seeing it.) That said, my idea would be (if your child is around 8! This does not count for children younger -or older for that matter-. ) my idea would be for mom to tell them what it actually is. It's not necessarily a sex talk but more a 'where do babies come from' talk. So focus on that. If your child is around 8yo, they probably know they have a penis or a vagina. So you can perfectly fine mention shortly how a man's penis going into a woman's vagina makes it for sperm and egg to come together in a woman's belly and grow a baby. For the rest just focus on how this happens when the man and woman are very much in love and are committed to each other in marriage. The practical info can be quite short. That's just 1 plus 1 is 2 basically. They are 8, they don't need to know about anything else regarding the sex side, just about the commitment and the trust side. (Someone who treats you right, someone you trust, someone who you love etc. And that they can ask you anything, now and alter, about this. Because they will not learn everything in this talk. They don't have to. The very basics are fine. Just focus on the trust and love of it all.
Love you guys so much. My mom gave me the talk about a year ago. People at my school would joke about it and make nasty comments about it so now I go to a private Christian school, and we have bible study everyday in the church. My mom made that talk so special.
can we all for a second just appreciate how much Tiffany and Benji do for all their children they put soooooo much effort into everything they do and its all just amazing. love you guys soooo much
I loved Saidee's reaction at 2:24 but this video was soo sweet and I love how you do this for your kids! Edit: I'm not trying to start different comments but people think that at 2:24 that it's LiLee but it is SaiDee
I love how you make each kid feel special and that no one's left out. What a special time for all of the kids. The cuteness and support from the other kids too. Love from across the pond 🇬🇧 x
Something I never realized until I saw this video of you teo talking to ElleCee; When Benji said; "Because we trust you." ... That really caught me off guard, the emotions coming out after hearing him say those words. So often parents ask their children to trust them. But the other way around, is never really talked about. You just have to trust your parents in everything and that's the way it is. But saying (as parents); We trust you. Gives it a whole other level of meaning and connection ♡. Beautifully done and so true btw to not tell them too late. (Not too young either, but too late is really more of an issue I think. Once it gets awkward, it's really difficult to undo that.)
Maybe you can ask him? Or someone else you trust? Really good that you want to hear it from your father! Maybe your dad is a bit awkward about it or afraid you are awkward about it so he doesn't mention it? Some things are hard for parents/adults too, but this doesn't have to mean they don't want to try for you ♡
I absolutely love that they are having “the talk” with her because some kids well group up and do it and they well most likely get pregnant and they don’t know how it happened. So I’m so glad you guys are having “the talk” with her.
That's beautiful and it made me cry, a lot of parents Don't have that talk. That's why Children grow up too fast. I like how you and your husband took her to dinner it just made it more special
That was very special! You both are amazing parents!! I remember my Mom always telling me that I could come to her about anything. No matter the situation, she would not judge me. She said, “I may not have the advice you want to hear, but I will give you the best advice I can.” She always loved me through my struggles and never judged me. My Dad always told me that most boys only wanted one thing from girls, and that I should always have a voice and know when the time was right. I had wonderful parents and miss them dearly!! They had 9 kids so we pretty much knew where babies came from. lol
beautiful tradition! helps to feel it's a safe subject to speak with your parents about if god forbid someone tries to take advantage!! love seeing parents on the same page
i’m a new mum and never thought of making the “talk” a special occasion with my kids. thank you for this video and thank you Ellecee for wanting to film it because I learnt so much and my kids are gonna benefit from this in the future ❤
My mum did the same thing with me, just without my dad, because they had a heated argument about it, and he said that I’ll find out eventually, but both my parents were young, and my dad was a workaholic and when he was home, he was never a part of my life, so I’m glad my mum did this with me, and you guys are incredible doing it with all your kids.
This was so special and cute and it gave me chills….the relationship Tiffany and Benjamin have is so special and I’m glad they teach their kids the same values they should have being in a relationship….with their future husband for example! Loved this video , and ElleCee is the most special kid ever , she is so kind
I love that you both want your children to hear about the birds and the bees from you as parents first. I especially love how sweet and memorable you make it, it may seem awkward at first but I feel like you guys make it comfortable in a way!!
Saw first one with Paislee. And that was so precious. This one just as precious. And she looked so pretty. All grown up. Her dad's eyes. He was so amazed. Pure father-daughter love.
as I always say, I'm not religious but I love the way you raise your children. I love that Benji is part of "the talk". Most families just leave it to the mom when they have daughters, and to the dad when they have sons.
This is so special. Tiffany & Benjamin are such awesome parents and you make everyone feel so special and safe! Ellecee is such a beautiful little girl she’s so pretty and sweet. You guys raised such amazing children. God bless you all. ❤❤❤
Can you please make a video where you talk about what kind of things you talk about in general when it comes to the “talk” I would love to do this when my little one gets older and I am pretty sure other parents that follow you will love to learn and hear what the conversation can sound like.
This video had me in tears! Just thinking about when ElleCee was just a little kid watching her grow up has been such a pleasure, you and Benji are such wonderful parents!
I love how u do this for the kids because growing up my mom didn’t really tell me about the birds and bees I just learned from internet and kids at school. She told me about periods but that really all.
She is so grown up now!! Such a gorgeous young lady! Tiffany is an amazing mom to each kid and the best thing is she loves them equally. You’re whole family is so… BEAUTIFUL like if you agree 👍
Okay PresLee, I see you. You are such a great sister encouraging ElleCee & telling her how pretty she looked. It was so nice to see. LiLee too! You guys probably made her feel even more comfortable about the talk. That was so sweet.
I’m the youngest of 4 and I learnt a lot from my siblings/friends/school which now as an adult I wish I didn’t there was a lot of misinformation given to me, I wish I had this opportunity as a child it would of helped me so much and it’s such a beautiful special moment that establishes so much trust. Great job Benji and Tiffany
you guys are amazing parents. coming from someone with a not so stable family, your videos relaly bring me lots of happiness knowing there are fab parents like you guys out there. Thank you
I love it when you do this with your kiddos. I think it is so amazing that it is Mom and Dad doing it. It also makes me sad a little because all your kiddos are growing up so fast!
I just love how Tiffany and Benji are just so nice with their kids!!! And they are very good and personal with their wonderful kids!!! 😊❤ You guys are amazing!!!❤
you guys are FABULOUS you truly are such good parents and so so so caring to every single one if your kids, tiffany your the mom i want to become because you are truly amazing! god loves you so much!
This video was probably one of the best ones I've seen you guys post! From wanting to wear matching outfits, to confidence about "the talk" , to go through "the talk" and then the ring and hugs... that is so precious. I hope not just ElleCee, but all kids remember this moment. Thank you Benji and Tiffany for making this special and trying not to make it awkward. God bless NEN fam 🥰😇
as someones who's parents did the same. this really helps them feel less scared to open up to you. thank you for doing his it seems small but gives a really big boost on how they trust you.
I love that Tiffany respects that some of her children don’t want this to be on social media I would have loved to see DeLayNees with her personality I feel like she would take it seriously but still make it the funniest one of these videos yet but I love that First DeLayNee told her mom that she didn’t want to film it and Second that Tiffany listened to her and didn’t film and same with all her kids that didn’t want it filmed but DeLayNee is one of if not the most camera shy in the nen fam. Love y’all’s channel ❤
Dear Tiffany and Benji, I really really love how you love your kids,especially the adopted kids,you love and care for them equally. One would not tell that they are not biological unless you mention it. May you live long and Happy because the world needs people like you 🫶🏾❤️
Presley and El are the same age which is crazy because Presley looks so much older but it is great to see now that they can bond more and talk more openly to each other since they are the same age ( just like navey and Paisley ik they are two different ages but the bond so well together) congratulations el love ye sm
I don’t know what is wrong with elementary school boys but they really do ruin your childhood. At the beginning of my fourth grade year I was wearing knee length shorts sequin T-shirts and playing with dolls now I am going into sixth and I am a completely different person. I know everything already. I’m so glad they decided to tell their kids younger so they don’t figure out at school, or on the internet. Luv u guys! ❤
I like how you guys actually tell them like the technical side of the talk (or at least I think you do) and then after you join it with the “religious” part, I’m not religious and from the outside it seems like religious people just explain the religious part and then the kids just end up clueless about the actual technical side of it, it’s good to give all the information and then after relate it to “faith” (sorry idk the actual vocabulary lol), but it’s way better than keeping them clueless cause eventually they’ll find out
You have amazing parents. I learned through school and books and im not sure if my parents know that i know but when i learned it seemed like this bad thing but after watching this i realized that its a beautiful thing the process of nature.❤❤❤
You’re so sweet. I love your videos and how you treat 16 kids the same and giving them equal amount of love. Give them their own personal space. It’s just so sweet and I love you guys so much. ❤
awe, i love this idea of going out together. i just hope theres an equally accepting environment if ellecee or one of your other kiddos does not want to marry the opposite sex and you'll still love them just as much!
Im 13 (almost 14) and never got the talk because my parents hated doing it to my two older siblings and just assumed I knew what it all was from health class. I’m glad they never did. Because the period talk with just my mom was REALLY awkward
You are such a great mom your children are so lucky the care that you put in to one of them you would think that you are a stay at home mom with one child but you treat all sixteen of you amazing children with the same amount of love and care wich is so much ❤
Love this tradition you guys have! My husband and I will definitely doing this with our future kids! I know the actual conversation with the kids is something they don't want recorded but it would be nice if you could do a video or something with what you tell them during that conversation. I just think it would be helpful to have a little guideline for families doing this for the first time. Like i really loved the part Benji talked about trust with yall and God and then eventually them and their spouse--it was super helpful I think and a really good thing to add when you have the talk.
I love you guys so much. Ellecee grew up so fast. Your an amazing mom. I love how you do this for your kids and care about them. Ellecee could pull of as a princess 😊❤
My husband and I had the talk with our daughter she was 11, and we gave her a ring as well which we call the purity ring and also reading her the meaning of purity in the Bible, she is almost fifteen now, she says her ring feels like a life line between Jesus an her an also us, she never takes it off, and she knows she can always come to us and also she has Jesus to talk to. God bless you an your family.
Tiffani, please tell your kids that I love them because I know that some are adopted and I love how they always are in a good mood and always have a smile on their face❤
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How...just HOW does she treat SIXTEEN ANGELS so PERFECTLY and FAIRLY. This family is AMAZING! ILYSM!!
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you are a really great mom! my parents never gave me the talk, which led me to finding out from friends and the internet at a very young age. then i started getting older and they just assumed i knew and completely avoided it. i’m glad you do a special day to talk about it and build that trust with your kids!
Same, and I mostly learn the disgusting parts of it, but I do ask her questions then and now but she’ll prob talk about it more when I’m older cos I’m only 11 but I know the basic!
Same with me but at my school we did the talk it was so awkward ( ☉д⊙)
@@paytonbrunell OMG, we did the same and our teacher made us shout out the body parts all at once! I was looking around to see if anyone else was saying it! 😬😳
Even my parents never gave me the talk and I'm 13, I kinda just know it from school and we have a chapter on reproduction this yr.....we also kidna found out abt it when we had a school workshop on periods.
@@Whats-updogs They tell us so casually- EVEN FOR THE BOYS-
ElleCee's hug at the end brought tears to my eyes. Such a special moment. 💗💗
@@laurengrace9146 honestly I think it's cool that they posted this, it could be helpful for parents
Yeah I agree
Who’s watching this in 2024 ❤
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This video was so much better than I was expecting. I was expecting a typical vlogger family exploiting their kids without their permission, but this was beautiful. This proves that vlogging isn't the problem. The world is good because of parents like you and obviously the love of God. These children are blessed to have such great parents❤️
she def exploits her kids
Tiffany is a great mom. She makes every single one of her kids feel special and respected, and of course loved. 😁
@@laurengrace9146 bro what
@@laurengrace9146 honestly I think it's cool that they posted this, it could be helpful for parents
Her name is Tiffany?????!
Yes, and her husbands name is Benji
@@Ur.fav.brunette505 yup that’s the Mums name
My mom did this with my sister and I and I think it makes a huge impact when the parent sets aside a full date because it shows the child really how important this discussion is and how serious to take it no matter how awkward it may be
ElleCee's sweet hugs after the talk with each of you was so incredibly sweet. You could tell she felt slightly awkward but that quickly faded and you could see that she felt so loved. Such a sweet sentiment! Love this.
luke is so iconic “just to say… it’s gon be awkward” like he’s such a mood
Yesss
The way he said it was so funny 😂💀
this made me tear up, to see the way you raise your kids, and all of them so wonderfully. im 13, and around 8-9 i got the talk, because my mom got pregnant with my brother. growing up was hard for me, because around this age i was emotionally abused by my teacher and my parents didnt know. my parents have supported me through everything, but they fight a lot and we have all had our issues. keep being such amazing parents and know, coming from a teen girl, that in the most vulnerable (and scary!) parts of our lives, your support and ucconditional love means the most to us. i promise, even if your kids dont show it all the time, they notice it. they notice how hard you work and it means the world to them. thank you, for being so perfect. its so special to see the older girls helping ellcee. every kid has been taught so so well and are all lovely people. i want to meet you guys someday.
WITH YOUR BROTHER
I literally had a dream were i met kass😊
bro do u not understand that she means her mom had her brother? like the brother was in her stomach..?@@DalaineyEmouzouki-vh7ob
your mom got pregnant with her OWN CHILD ?
NO I THINK SHE MEANS HER BROTHER WAS ON THE WAY 😭😭😭 WHY THIS REPLY SECTION CRAZY
I love how all the other siblings wished her luck and told her how pretty she looked ❤so loving.
Lol my siblings could never😂
lol same
@@GeorgiaDay-bk2eyfor a min I really though you were Alaska viloet
Yes but Presley was…🙄
Ellecee is a gem. Such a natural in front of the camera.
Tiffany really was born to be a mom. And Benji is a great partner and dad.
P.S. I love butter noodles too Ellecee 🙂
175 likes no comments? Lemme change that, also noodles are yummy 😊
@@machra19yes they are
i literally cried watching this, my mom has never had the talk with me, i don’t tell her anything. i don’t feel comfortable telling her anything. she’s not an open person and she’s very hard to talk to. instead of having the talk from her, my friends have told me about periods, sex, etc. i cried because i wish my mom was just as open as you guys are. i feel like i can’t trust my parents about anything. i don’t even tell them my crushes. if i tell them anything they either turn it into a lecture, talk abt it in front of ppl i don’t want to know, or straight up tell people. you guys are such good parents. God bless you
I feel you….my parents always turn crushes and stuff into a long lecture and talk about it in front of people I don’t want knowing ❤❤
I hope things get better...Rememeber,your mom loves you tho.I’m not an open person as well and I’m too shy to talk to anybody about things that stress me and other stuff and my mom only tells me things that I need to hear.
I’m sorry about that
Same
Feel for you... I get it ml x❤
I love how the older kids are so supportive. Reproduction and sexuality are such important topics. Making it such a big, special event helps kids to understand they are special and loved. Opens communication so kids can feel like it's ok to bring up these topics and questions to their parents. Or in so cases siblings.
SaiDee ran faster than lightning when tiff said “sex” she was like I just want a drink😭😭🤣
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This was so sweet and heartwarming. Tiffany and Benji, the two of you are such wonderful parents. God bless all of you.
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It's so beautiful to see this amazing family teach their daughter about life in a loving and meaningful way. I love how you treat all of them with love and respect and also the privacy and individuallity they deserve. Also i love how you made "the talk" a good and memorable thing and talking about the circle of trust with God was really just perfect
I think this is so special that you do this with each of your kids! I’m the same age as kennadee and never actually had this talk with my parents, I ended up learning about it through the internet and friends but watching these videos of yours inspires me to whenever I have kids to have this conversation with them to build that trust☺️
Same here and I think it's cool that she does this. I had to learn from the internet, from friends, and even from health class. I didn't even know literally anything about periods til a friend and a couple health teachers and a doctor told me
what is “the talk”
@@erm421 it’s like a simple explanation of how babies are born, and to trust the person and your parents
@@Unknown-me8wp same my parents never talked to me about anything, I was pulled out of s*x ed in middle school cause they didn’t want me to know about it and I learned abt periods from the internet and my brother learned about it from corn that he stubmbled across on the internet when he was like 7
I just feel like I can relate to this so much I was never really told about that stuff
My parents are divorced and the love that Tiffany has in her eyes for benji is so meaningful you guys raise your kids so well!! They are so lucky to have you guys
The moment Benji put the ring on ElleCee's finger, I cried because it was just the most purest and most beautiful moment I've ever seen on TH-cam. You guys are such an amazing and incredible family!! Honestly really, really wish that I had a family like yours. Love you guys so very much!! Stay amazing!! God bless💜💜💜💜
I think all the adults that follow your channel would be really interested to hear more about how you present ‘’the talk’’ to your kids - get tips for their own kids
Yes I need that. Because I have no idea what to say.
I understand but by sharing that info, she basically shares the parts they want to keep private for a reason. (Their own reason but also the reason to not wanting to literally share the info of 'the talk' for everyone -including children- to see/hear. I am pretty sure they do not want any child to see this without having the talk with their own parents first. That is the whole message they try to give their own children. Also their way of telling might not be right for your or anyone else's children even if there were a way to share this without children seeing it.)
That said, my idea would be (if your child is around 8! This does not count for children younger -or older for that matter-. ) my idea would be for mom to tell them what it actually is. It's not necessarily a sex talk but more a 'where do babies come from' talk. So focus on that. If your child is around 8yo, they probably know they have a penis or a vagina. So you can perfectly fine mention shortly how a man's penis going into a woman's vagina makes it for sperm and egg to come together in a woman's belly and grow a baby. For the rest just focus on how this happens when the man and woman are very much in love and are committed to each other in marriage. The practical info can be quite short. That's just 1 plus 1 is 2 basically. They are 8, they don't need to know about anything else regarding the sex side, just about the commitment and the trust side. (Someone who treats you right, someone you trust, someone who you love etc. And that they can ask you anything, now and alter, about this. Because they will not learn everything in this talk. They don't have to. The very basics are fine. Just focus on the trust and love of it all.
You just said that you don’t went other children to know but their you are tell everything In The commant
@@EmmaRoseandMommy or just wait until their school has it in 5th grade like I did
Love you guys so much. My mom gave me the talk about a year ago. People at my school would joke about it and make nasty comments about it so now I go to a private Christian school, and we have bible study everyday in the church. My mom made that talk so special.
Your lucky. My mom never talked to me about and just assumed I knew
My mom didn’t I just learned on my own
When she mentioned sex at 2:25 - SaiDee looked slightly terrified 😂😭 ElleCee is growing up so fast! She is beautiful! ❤✨
Idk I think it’s lilie but ya maybe it’s saidee 😂
@@Chome00 Haha, idk i'm going off other comments 😂
I died when saidee just slid right out lol 😂
poor saidee😭
She's like "alright I'm out of here"
can we all for a second just appreciate how much Tiffany and Benji do for all their children they put soooooo much effort into everything they do and its all just amazing. love you guys soooo much
I loved Saidee's reaction at 2:24 but this video was soo sweet and I love how you do this for your kids!
Edit: I'm not trying to start different comments but people think that at 2:24 that it's LiLee but it is SaiDee
@Disneyland_Charles_Tm I'm pretty sure it's Saidee
@Disneyland_Charles_Tmit is I watched the behind the scenes also I rlly don’t know how ppl mix them up they don’t look THAT alike 😭
@@addy1857 Yeah it's Saidee. I mean they kind of look alike from afar but close up they dont
@@AiyanaMcPhaillooks a lot like Lilee
Dang rlly? It looks sm like lilee
I love how you make each kid feel special and that no one's left out. What a special time for all of the kids. The cuteness and support from the other kids too. Love from across the pond 🇬🇧 x
Something I never realized until I saw this video of you teo talking to ElleCee; When Benji said; "Because we trust you." ... That really caught me off guard, the emotions coming out after hearing him say those words. So often parents ask their children to trust them. But the other way around, is never really talked about. You just have to trust your parents in everything and that's the way it is. But saying (as parents); We trust you. Gives it a whole other level of meaning and connection ♡. Beautifully done and so true btw to not tell them too late. (Not too young either, but too late is really more of an issue I think. Once it gets awkward, it's really difficult to undo that.)
I’m 13 and my dad hasn’t had the talk with me but he should because I know what it is… I’m so glad your kids have parents who do this for them!! ❤️
Maybe you can ask him? Or someone else you trust? Really good that you want to hear it from your father! Maybe your dad is a bit awkward about it or afraid you are awkward about it so he doesn't mention it? Some things are hard for parents/adults too, but this doesn't have to mean they don't want to try for you ♡
True I feel like asking your dad would be awkward not being mean or anything just saying
@@sydney999 some people are closer with there dad than mom
@@sydney999 you might not be close to ur dad but others might be so it might not be so weird
I already have mine and I haven’t had to talk
I absolutely love that they are having “the talk” with her because some kids well group up and do it and they well most likely get pregnant and they don’t know how it happened. So I’m so glad you guys are having “the talk” with her.
Tiffany and Benji are such great parents and I love the way Benji reacted when ellecee came down the stairs it was so cute. ❤
That's beautiful and it made me cry, a lot of parents Don't have that talk. That's why Children grow up too fast. I like how you and your husband took her to dinner it just made it more special
That was very special! You both are amazing parents!!
I remember my Mom always telling me that I could come to her about anything. No matter the situation, she would not judge me. She said, “I may not have the advice you want to hear, but I will give you the best advice I can.” She always loved me through my struggles and never judged me.
My Dad always told me that most boys only wanted one thing from girls, and that I should always have a voice and know when the time was right. I had wonderful parents and miss them dearly!! They had 9 kids so we pretty much knew where babies came from. lol
You did have great parents. Amazing advice. Thanks so much!
beautiful tradition! helps to feel it's a safe subject to speak with your parents about if god forbid someone tries to take advantage!! love seeing parents on the same page
i’m a new mum and never thought of making the “talk” a special occasion with my kids. thank you for this video and thank you Ellecee for wanting to film it because I learnt so much and my kids are gonna benefit from this in the future ❤
My mum did the same thing with me, just without my dad, because they had a heated argument about it, and he said that I’ll find out eventually, but both my parents were young, and my dad was a workaholic and when he was home, he was never a part of my life, so I’m glad my mum did this with me, and you guys are incredible doing it with all your kids.
ElleCee’s face turned red so many times!!! Sweet girl! It’s a hard talk to have, but they did a wonderful job.
This was so special and cute and it gave me chills….the relationship Tiffany and Benjamin have is so special and I’m glad they teach their kids the same values they should have being in a relationship….with their future husband for example! Loved this video , and ElleCee is the most special kid ever , she is so kind
Its Benji
Watching NEN has just become part of my daily routine at this point! ❤y’all
Me too lol
Same
Same
I love that you both want your children to hear about the birds and the bees from you as parents first. I especially love how sweet and memorable you make it, it may seem awkward at first but I feel like you guys make it comfortable in a way!!
That is so heartwarming, I wish I had that relationship with my dad 😢
Aww ElleCee is so grown up xx hopefully she won’t be to shy and embarrassed xxx
Hopefully
I know when I had the talk about it I was so embarrassed and felt awkward
ElleCee is so mature
Yeah same
Saw first one with Paislee. And that was so precious. This one just as precious. And she looked so pretty. All grown up. Her dad's eyes. He was so amazed. Pure father-daughter love.
This os so wrong she is 9 years old and the way the dad reacted. I am going to get hate from their loyal fans but this is really weird
@@tanyaatkin9271its not wrong its just informing them of things that are very important
I love how benji and Tiffany makes sure their kids learn about the talk with them and not other people! Totally best parents every
8? I got the talk at ten at school, and that was only really about periods and stuff
She is just preparing her ❤❤❤❤❤ it’s better than getting told by the internet or her friend no hate❤❤❤
Got the talk at 6-7 😮😅😅
@@jacquicarmen9241 oh
I got it at ten abt periods and stuff but there was boys there
@@priscillaluna9739 yeah same
as I always say, I'm not religious but I love the way you raise your children. I love that Benji is part of "the talk". Most families just leave it to the mom when they have daughters, and to the dad when they have sons.
Tiffany is a superhero for so many people her kids, her family, her fans, and so much more. Tiffany is so blessed ❤
Congratulations 🎊 Ellece is so grown up now hope this goes over well
Thanks for the likes ❤️
Me 1 of 3 kids who learnt everything from her friends and not my parents wishing this was me. I love how you guys make it so special for them
This is so special. Tiffany & Benjamin are such awesome parents and you make everyone feel so special and safe! Ellecee is such a beautiful little girl she’s so pretty and sweet. You guys raised such amazing children. God bless you all. ❤❤❤
He's name is bruce, not benjamin hahaha. He goes by benji because he is bruce nelson “the second”
Can you please make a video where you talk about what kind of things you talk about in general when it comes to the “talk” I would love to do this when my little one gets older and I am pretty sure other parents that follow you will love to learn and hear what the conversation can sound like.
the way SaiDee dipped from the kitchen after hearing the word
it got me laughing and my mom is just looking at me like i am crazy
This video had me in tears! Just thinking about when ElleCee was just a little kid watching her grow up has been such a pleasure, you and Benji are such wonderful parents!
I love how u do this for the kids because growing up my mom didn’t really tell me about the birds and bees I just learned from internet and kids at school. She told me about periods but that really all.
She is so grown up now!! Such a gorgeous young lady!
Tiffany is an amazing mom to each kid and the best thing is she loves them equally.
You’re whole family is so…
BEAUTIFUL
like if you agree 👍
I love how tiffany takes care of her 16 kiddos it makes my heart swirl
This was too cute literally had tears in my eyes, love how you make 'the talk' an event and make your child feel special
Okay PresLee, I see you. You are such a great sister encouraging ElleCee & telling her how pretty she looked. It was so nice to see. LiLee too! You guys probably made her feel even more comfortable about the talk. That was so sweet.
I’m the youngest of 4 and I learnt a lot from my siblings/friends/school which now as an adult I wish I didn’t there was a lot of misinformation given to me, I wish I had this opportunity as a child it would of helped me so much and it’s such a beautiful special moment that establishes so much trust. Great job Benji and Tiffany
I absolutely love how she makes it a big cute fancy occasion instead of just a sit down awkward convo I absolutely love that!!
you guys are amazing parents. coming from someone with a not so stable family, your videos relaly bring me lots of happiness knowing there are fab parents like you guys out there. Thank you
I love it when you do this with your kiddos. I think it is so amazing that it is Mom and Dad doing it. It also makes me sad a little because all your kiddos are growing up so fast!
I just love how Tiffany and Benji are just so nice with their kids!!! And they are very good and personal with their wonderful kids!!! 😊❤ You guys are amazing!!!❤
Her ring is so pretty 🤗 Benji and Tiffany are great parents ❤️
Yeah
Frrrr frrrrr
ElleCee is so sweet!! She makes me so happy!!!❤
Agreed!! She is the cutest thing!❤
Same!
you guys are FABULOUS you truly are such good parents and so so so caring to every single one if your kids, tiffany your the mom i want to become because you are truly amazing! god loves you so much!
This video was probably one of the best ones I've seen you guys post! From wanting to wear matching outfits, to confidence about "the talk" , to go through "the talk" and then the ring and hugs... that is so precious. I hope not just ElleCee, but all kids remember this moment. Thank you Benji and Tiffany for making this special and trying not to make it awkward. God bless NEN fam 🥰😇
as someones who's parents did the same. this really helps them feel less scared to open up to you. thank you for doing his it seems small but gives a really big boost on how they trust you.
Congratulations 🎉 ElleCee is so grown up now! ❤
Pressley absolutely cracked me up when she said “ not from learning it from a random person “ while she was scratching her head 😂😂😂😂
Her name is spelled preslee❤❤ 😊
@@nargisban7227 Ik it auto corrected
Oh sry 😔
@Nargis ban no it's spelled PresLee if you wanna get smart
I love that Tiffany respects that some of her children don’t want this to be on social media I would have loved to see DeLayNees with her personality I feel like she would take it seriously but still make it the funniest one of these videos yet but I love that First DeLayNee told her mom that she didn’t want to film it and Second that Tiffany listened to her and didn’t film and same with all her kids that didn’t want it filmed but DeLayNee is one of if not the most camera shy in the nen fam. Love y’all’s channel ❤
I love how nice and thoughtful ellcee is it reminded me of my sister laying the dresses on the floor . I'm going to cry😌
Dear Tiffany and Benji, I really really love how you love your kids,especially the adopted kids,you love and care for them equally. One would not tell that they are not biological unless you mention it. May you live long and Happy because the world needs people like you 🫶🏾❤️
Aww Ellecee did so good. You guys are amazing parents.
Benji always makes me cry. He is such a kind and caring dad. 😭
Presley and El are the same age which is crazy because Presley looks so much older but it is great to see now that they can bond more and talk more openly to each other since they are the same age ( just like navey and Paisley ik they are two different ages but the bond so well together) congratulations el love ye sm
I don’t know what is wrong with elementary school boys but they really do ruin your childhood. At the beginning of my fourth grade year I was wearing knee length shorts sequin T-shirts and playing with dolls now I am going into sixth and I am a completely different person. I know everything already. I’m so glad they decided to tell their kids younger so they don’t figure out at school, or on the internet. Luv u guys! ❤
How is she just the BEST MOM EVERRRRR AND I LOVE U SO FRICKIN MUCH 😊❤❤❤
I like how you guys actually tell them like the technical side of the talk (or at least I think you do) and then after you join it with the “religious” part, I’m not religious and from the outside it seems like religious people just explain the religious part and then the kids just end up clueless about the actual technical side of it, it’s good to give all the information and then after relate it to “faith” (sorry idk the actual vocabulary lol), but it’s way better than keeping them clueless cause eventually they’ll find out
Ellecee is the cutest! She is so kind and I love her personality💗💗💗
You have amazing parents. I learned through school and books and im not sure if my parents know that i know but when i learned it seemed like this bad thing but after watching this i realized that its a beautiful thing the process of nature.❤❤❤
Same
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Sometimes I wish I was in there fam because they are all so open and wish good on each other ❤😊
You’re so sweet. I love your videos and how you treat 16 kids the same and giving them equal amount of love. Give them their own personal space. It’s just so sweet and I love you guys so much. ❤
awe, i love this idea of going out together. i just hope theres an equally accepting environment if ellecee or one of your other kiddos does not want to marry the opposite sex and you'll still love them just as much!
Yes, very true
I knew I would see this there just trying to show them what’s u know “normal”
Yeah, I heard Benji only mention the word "husband"
@@Idklovesbasketball and marrying the someone off the same sex is Very Normal too!
@@sarahbrowne9021 is it tho?
Im 13 (almost 14) and never got the talk because my parents hated doing it to my two older siblings and just assumed I knew what it all was from health class. I’m glad they never did. Because the period talk with just my mom was REALLY awkward
IT IS OOF!😭
ElleCee growing up as such a beautiful, sweet and cute girl just makes me so happy
Seeing mom & dad dance to their song will be as powerful a memory to your daughter as the talk. Well done video...very moving.
You are such a great mom your children are so lucky the care that you put in to one of them you would think that you are a stay at home mom with one child but you treat all sixteen of you amazing children with the same amount of love and care wich is so much ❤
ElleCee is such a sweet & loving young lady... She always seems so happy! This a very special night for her!
I love how you guys tell her instead of weird kids telling her I wish my mom did this!!!
This is so amazing. I so wish my parents would have been more open about these kind of things with me. You guys are amazing!
I’m 13 and I never got the talk but I’m glad she did because it’s so much worse getting from other sources. You guys are such good parents ❤
Love this tradition you guys have! My husband and I will definitely doing this with our future kids! I know the actual conversation with the kids is something they don't want recorded but it would be nice if you could do a video or something with what you tell them during that conversation. I just think it would be helpful to have a little guideline for families doing this for the first time. Like i really loved the part Benji talked about trust with yall and God and then eventually them and their spouse--it was super helpful I think and a really good thing to add when you have the talk.
I love you guys so much. Ellecee grew up so fast. Your an amazing mom. I love how you do this for your kids and care about them. Ellecee could pull of as a princess 😊❤
My husband and I had the talk with our daughter she was 11, and we gave her a ring as well which we call the purity ring and also reading her the meaning of purity in the Bible, she is almost fifteen now, she says her ring feels like a life line between Jesus an her an also us, she never takes it off, and she knows she can always come to us and also she has Jesus to talk to. God bless you an your family.
that is so cute and a great memory to make with her also think the relationship with this family and christ is amazing and inspirational!!❤❤
Tiffany and Benji are great parents to their children.. They're just so wholesome😭❤️
I love how Tiffany cares for her children and makes sure they live a good life❤😊
Tiffani, please tell your kids that I love them because I know that some are adopted and I love how they always are in a good mood and always have a smile on their face❤
I love Sadie in the background how when you were talking about pregnancy and stuff lol 😂
Haha same
This was soo cute! Especially Benji giving Ellcee the ring ☺️ ( Tiffany and Benji are such amazing parents
I love how ElleCee is getting so grown up with her beautiful red had amd blue eyes and how her mum gave her “the talk” she’s lucky I never got one ❤