“I want to receive what I give” Wow, that was oddly profound, yet it’s such a simple answer. Really just helped me to come to that realization. Thank you!
We all have our days of being disappointed with ourselves. However, if I you, I wouldn’t beat myself up about how you could’ve handled situations differently to prevent heartache from relationships with friends or boyfriends. I posted about this a while ago and I think it’s perfect for how you’re feeling; stop being so forgiving because people know exactly what they are doing. It’s good to forgive, but not to the point where you’re constantly giving people the benefit of the doubt after they’ve showed you who they are at least twice. Actions speak louder than words. I’m happy that reality hit for you. It only means that you’re outgrowing your current space and realizing what’s most important. Surrounding yourself around people that have the same mindset as you and even living how you see yourself living in the future will only lead you up from here. It’s a blessing that you’re almost 26 and have succeeded a lot that majority of women your age haven’t even scratched the surface of what you’ve done (not to compare, but it’s true). Life isn’t a race, you don’t have to rush to get married or have a child. God’s willing, your parents will be there for both events. I pray that you find peace and happiness. You deserve it! Love always!!!! Thanks for sharing with us!!
I've been feeling like that for a long time...I feel just so stupid for prioritising people who would drop me at any given time without hesitation. Idk why I never learn, and it makes me angry at myself.
Also I’d like to remind you of something you said in one of my fav videos of yours.... “I need to think more about the present and the now; I think about the future too much.” Don’t let worries of tomorrow take away your peace today mama
It’s so good that you finally did realize your worth though and it’s so hard coming to terms with what everyone has done to you. You’re doing great keep rocking girl I hope you have better luck finding real ass people in your life I know exactly what you’re going through if I didn’t have my cousin I’d be going insane, my best friend of 12 years literally just walked out of my life because I gave her some normal basic advice that she asked for and just didn’t want to hear it. And keeps posting ab me on Facebook but won’t even talk about what happen because she just blocked me on everything I can’t handle that childish ass shit. You’ll find your people girl I can feel it and I’m sending love and light your way💗
Hey friend, feel you about your thoughts of late. I’ve been following for a few years and you’re such a strong and independent person. You’re not stupid and you know you’re not either lol. Too nice maybe, you have always seemed especially kind to me. Being too nice is a major problem for me. Set and keep your boundaries for your own self respect. The mantra “I radiate love and others reflect love back to me” has been magical for me. Ily! Loved this vid btw your up close eating and whispering are my favorite!
I have the same worries, having mature / older parents, but the right person for you is out there 💕 you’re soooo much better single than with someone that isn’t for you 💕
Hey girl. I've come to similar realizations over the past few years. I swear, it's insane how well people can put on a damn good show. Trust me, it's not your fault. You want to believe that people change. It's hard to really see things clearly when the devil is dressed in disguise. I know this is easier said than done, but don't blame yourself by living in the past and replaying the things that went wrong over and over. You'll drive yourself crazy with those negative thoughts. The main thing is you learned from your mistakes and you're moving forward. The best part is, you've become very aware of your surroundings so you won't let that bullshit happen again. You still have lots of this life left to live. So whatever bullshit occurred in the past, don't let it drag you down. You're smart, beautiful and don't take no shit! Wishing nothing but the best for you and Lilo for the years to come! ❤️
Baby girl i know that feeling very well!! When you pass 25 it seems like if you dont have all your shit together your life is inevitably going downhill. Its just a feeling, tho! Thats you maturing. Lemme tell you that feeling will always lowkey be there, same here, im gonna be 29 this year and sometimes im like what am i even doing with my life? Its up to you to put stuff in perspective. Everybody goes throu different paths in life, nobody says you have to accomplish a certain amount of things before a certain age in order to be a "fulfilled adult". For us hoes that have been following you since forever we clearly see how much youve grown and how much youve matured!! Make a list of things you are proud of yourself for, and read it from time to time. Like "im proud that i got my own place, im proud that im a doggy mom, im proud that i ended a toxic relationship" etc. It will help during those sad moments, i promise! Be strong queen, we love you 💖💖💖
You are a very intelligent young woman. I wish I had that same realization when I was your age. You are an amazing person and do what you need to do to take care of yourself!
You say you feel stupid but all I’m hearing is how much you’ve learned so it’s hard for me to agree w you mama. I think we’re a lot alike in that we gotta learn to spend time w people that match our level of effort and learn that it’s okay to say no to people that you know will take more than their share from you and ultimately take from your ability to thrive. You’re on the right track!! Believe in yourself 💜
You just have a big heart that’s why you give so many chances and that’s a good and bad thing but all in all I trust you everything is gonna be ok in the end
Yo. People are innately self centered. Remember that. Try to surround yourself with smarter people, especially when it comes to lovers. Cut people out and be strong, definitely don't feel bad for yourself or put yourself down, just hold yourself at a high standard and better yourself through self-reflection and realization. But always love yourself, be alone for a while if it's lovers that got you down. Getting to know yourself on that deep tip.
No your limits with people no how to say No it's up to you what you allow and control I understand what you are going through I use to deal with that I dont know more I speak up and they don't like it and you have to have I don't care attitude or people will destroy you you seem like a sweet lady don't let people take advantage of you I have my select who I deal with or not and just live your life you don't have to explain nothing to people but never do evil for evil step back from folks live your life stand up for yourself if they don't hear you walk away.
You make everything sound like it tastes good!!! I could be full and look at one of your eating/whisper videos and be hungry all over again!
she has excellent taste in food ;)
“I want to receive what I give”
Wow, that was oddly profound, yet it’s such a simple answer. Really just helped me to come to that realization. Thank you!
Don’t feel dumb or beat yourself up for things you learned from. You’re a strong person and you shine ✨ Don’t let anyone take that away 💞
Stop being so nice and protect your peace❤️
You can be nice learn how to say no and not let people change your character just no how to say no sometimes.
Funny, last time i checked this channnel it was 7 years ago, glad that something in this world is still stable
did u listen to her ? everything but her nerves are stable right now
@@brokespoiledhot we are in the end times. no one has peace. jesus is coming, praise god!
We all have our days of being disappointed with ourselves. However, if I you, I wouldn’t beat myself up about how you could’ve handled situations differently to prevent heartache from relationships with friends or boyfriends. I posted about this a while ago and I think it’s perfect for how you’re feeling; stop being so forgiving because people know exactly what they are doing. It’s good to forgive, but not to the point where you’re constantly giving people the benefit of the doubt after they’ve showed you who they are at least twice. Actions speak louder than words. I’m happy that reality hit for you. It only means that you’re outgrowing your current space and realizing what’s most important. Surrounding yourself around people that have the same mindset as you and even living how you see yourself living in the future will only lead you up from here. It’s a blessing that you’re almost 26 and have succeeded a lot that majority of women your age haven’t even scratched the surface of what you’ve done (not to compare, but it’s true). Life isn’t a race, you don’t have to rush to get married or have a child. God’s willing, your parents will be there for both events. I pray that you find peace and happiness. You deserve it! Love always!!!! Thanks for sharing with us!!
I've been feeling like that for a long time...I feel just so stupid for prioritising people who would drop me at any given time without hesitation. Idk why I never learn, and it makes me angry at myself.
You have the most soothing voice ever I’m obsessed w your rant vids. Wish we were friends irl🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️
It is really a blessed day when she uploads ❤️🥺
Also I’d like to remind you of something you said in one of my fav videos of yours.... “I need to think more about the present and the now; I think about the future too much.” Don’t let worries of tomorrow take away your peace today mama
It’s so good that you finally did realize your worth though and it’s so hard coming to terms with what everyone has done to you. You’re doing great keep rocking girl I hope you have better luck finding real ass people in your life I know exactly what you’re going through if I didn’t have my cousin I’d be going insane, my best friend of 12 years literally just walked out of my life because I gave her some normal basic advice that she asked for and just didn’t want to hear it. And keeps posting ab me on Facebook but won’t even talk about what happen because she just blocked me on everything I can’t handle that childish ass shit. You’ll find your people girl I can feel it and I’m sending love and light your way💗
So sorry to hear you feel this way, you have to put your happiness first 💛💛💛 virtual hugs from the UK
Hey friend, feel you about your thoughts of late. I’ve been following for a few years and you’re such a strong and independent person. You’re not stupid and you know you’re not either lol. Too nice maybe, you have always seemed especially kind to me. Being too nice is a major problem for me. Set and keep your boundaries for your own self respect. The mantra “I radiate love and others reflect love back to me” has been magical for me. Ily! Loved this vid btw your up close eating and whispering are my favorite!
You deserve ALL the happiness! Find someone who makes you a priority ❤️
Sounds like a spiritual awakening. Love and light everything takes balance
I relate to all of this. But time is never wasted if it helps you learn a lesson. Things will get better! ❤️
This is so frickin relaxing ☺️😴😴
I have the same worries, having mature / older parents, but the right person for you is out there 💕 you’re soooo much better single than with someone that isn’t for you 💕
I'm in the same place girl !! I'm praying for you ♡♡♡
Hey girl. I've come to similar realizations over the past few years. I swear, it's insane how well people can put on a damn good show. Trust me, it's not your fault. You want to believe that people change. It's hard to really see things clearly when the devil is dressed in disguise.
I know this is easier said than done, but don't blame yourself by living in the past and replaying the things that went wrong over and over. You'll drive yourself crazy with those negative thoughts. The main thing is you learned from your mistakes and you're moving forward. The best part is, you've become very aware of your surroundings so you won't let that bullshit happen again. You still have lots of this life left to live. So whatever bullshit occurred in the past, don't let it drag you down. You're smart, beautiful and don't take no shit! Wishing nothing but the best for you and Lilo for the years to come! ❤️
Yessss if you dont do nothin else in this world ALWAYS PROTECT YOUR PEACE
Aight ima go to sleep to this
Baby girl i know that feeling very well!! When you pass 25 it seems like if you dont have all your shit together your life is inevitably going downhill. Its just a feeling, tho! Thats you maturing. Lemme tell you that feeling will always lowkey be there, same here, im gonna be 29 this year and sometimes im like what am i even doing with my life? Its up to you to put stuff in perspective. Everybody goes throu different paths in life, nobody says you have to accomplish a certain amount of things before a certain age in order to be a "fulfilled adult". For us hoes that have been following you since forever we clearly see how much youve grown and how much youve matured!! Make a list of things you are proud of yourself for, and read it from time to time. Like "im proud that i got my own place, im proud that im a doggy mom, im proud that i ended a toxic relationship" etc. It will help during those sad moments, i promise! Be strong queen, we love you 💖💖💖
You are a very intelligent young woman. I wish I had that same realization when I was your age. You are an amazing person and do what you need to do to take care of yourself!
You say you feel stupid but all I’m hearing is how much you’ve learned so it’s hard for me to agree w you mama. I think we’re a lot alike in that we gotta learn to spend time w people that match our level of effort and learn that it’s okay to say no to people that you know will take more than their share from you and ultimately take from your ability to thrive. You’re on the right track!! Believe in yourself 💜
You just have a big heart that’s why you give so many chances and that’s a good and bad thing but all in all I trust you everything is gonna be ok in the end
"why can't anyone get it right the first time" Ouch...i felt that one...
Ur asmr is the best
JUST KNOW..you havent met him n he hasn't met you, so ur sunshine there but you havent looked his way yet, just there waiting lol
Finally a new video!!!!! Thank you!
I’ll be 26 too! Whoop! And right close to your birthday !
I love you girl and I understand how u feel I will be praying for you.
Thanks boo!
WE MISSED YOU!
love your vidssss
Good cooking up you're HAPPEINESS that is coming , don't worry them people will no longer be on you're life
earliest i’ve ever been 😂
Yo. People are innately self centered. Remember that. Try to surround yourself with smarter people, especially when it comes to lovers. Cut people out and be strong, definitely don't feel bad for yourself or put yourself down, just hold yourself at a high standard and better yourself through self-reflection and realization. But always love yourself, be alone for a while if it's lovers that got you down. Getting to know yourself on that deep tip.
YES !
finally a mukbang i can relate to xD
I’ll be in LA next weekend too
What’s the spaghetti your eating it looks SO nice 😍
🧡👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿😊
I been through the same sweetheart I know what you been through
No your limits with people no how to say No it's up to you what you allow and control I understand what you are going through I use to deal with that I dont know more I speak up and they don't like it and you have to have I don't care attitude or people will destroy you you seem like a sweet lady don't let people take advantage of you I have my select who I deal with or not and just live your life you don't have to explain nothing to people but never do evil for evil step back from folks live your life stand up for yourself if they don't hear you walk away.
Yyo
Lovely ....how you been?
hi tahteee
Cheer up beautiful
Veg etbale
If you was my girl i know how to make and keep you happy.
Film your face while you eat next time please. 🙏