People leave relationships all the time without even getting help to sort it out because infidelity is unforgivable to most people. And no one ever wants to work it out! They just quit even being civilized to each other and they stay bitter about it for years... turning their children, family and friends against each other... nothing about that is strength. I see it all the time! Its currently happening with my cousin her husband who cheated on her. I don’t think Beyoncé’s the throw away type where she throws her and Jays entire history away over his selfish indiscretions. I think with her kind of personality, she works hard at everything in her life; work, family, extended family and her personal relationships, her community, even in the black community. Jay had to realise he had a lot to lose... he had to rise up and meet this woman where she stood. She is powerful in her own self and right, he doesn’t define her because she knows she’s a good woman to herself... NOT him! She’s strong within herself to not let anything outside of her, force her either way. I’m sure she would’ve walked out on him if he didn’t get his shit together.
The time is NOW ur making no sense if ur with someone be loyal, so ur saying if the person doesn’t have sex with u you’ll cheat 🤔. Make sense when ur talking
If he is the one who cheated he didnt "fight" to save their marriage. He in essence begged for her forgiveness. She is the one who fought for the marriage by forgiving his transgressions. Now that is a fight and it hurts like hell.
@@thandekadaliel6259 ,well said, but good character is always overlooked, just look at the presidents of usa, bill Clinton, Donald trump, all characterless people, yet successful
I'm very Proud of Jay-Z for being"Mature" enough to OWN his Mess! He is smart enough to know that if he lost Beyonce he would never be able to replace her! 🙏
‘If I were a boy’. You damn right Bey. Just look at your husband who cheated and the situation has been glorified into him managing to ‘save the marriage’.
@@jshaka3769 no it doesn’t it shows that he is selfish and doesn’t care about her at all and I think he wanted to test her and she failed he now knows she’s his slaver
@@expatbiker6598 nah...what I'm saying is...if you don't want a relationship with problems...dont fuck a lot of bitches and come home to your wife with a fake story
@Alyssa Lie i mean the news castor didn't have any say in this hes just hired to talk to jayz and agree with him to make cnn look good, but thats just how i look at it
@Likhona Mnyamana yea I can see that, and I know that redeeming ones self after cheating can be brutal and a time consuming process, but equally so for the person who was betrayed and now suffers from mistrust, a self esteem blow, and now has to heal and fix a problem that they didn’t create to begin with. Cheating is really unfair and it primes the relationship for failure. So yes I do know that being really sorry and having to change is hard and a lot of work… but those are the consequences
The best apology is “change the behavior” and “acknowledge their pain”!!!! This is something a lot of people don’t get... if you mess up you have to suffer through the other person’s pain!!!
It’s all well and good for TV. They’re publicists probably had a lot to do with this interview and the answers to the questions. Celebrities are basically “well oiled machines” in interviews. Every couple has ups and downs. I think they are different people behind closed doors. Regardless of who they are as people, there are always problems. Theirs are just heightened because they are in the publics eye.
Except.. many many time the "hurt" party will continue to use the issue as punishment to try to hurt the other. At that point it has nothing to do with working through pain.. and everything to do with being vengeful. Most people do try to acknowledge the pain.. but they have to draw a line somewhere
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Leaux Daniels I agree because there is no excuse for cheating why get in a relationship if you gonna cheat they feel like cheating is a mistake uh no its a choice
That's because it's socially acceptable for a man to cheat. It comes as no surprise. The other way, and there will be a lynch mobbing of both if the husband doesn't leave her immediately. He will constantly be bullied and attacked until he does.
Because men value themselves. They don't tolerate crap. What sort of a matrimonial home can you build with an adulterer? Women accept cheating not because they're strong but they simply don't value themselves.
Strong because he cheated. He was honesy with himself at some point as with her and he wanted and worked on changing. He chose to fight for his marriage even if it means fighting his weaknesses.
It takes strength to do good for someone who has hurt you. Or to be there for someone who is not there for you. At least to make the attempt, that's family. Reconciliation may fail, but at least you know you tried to see if it's real.
It's so Crazy and it's damning how the word strong is so misused for putting up with crap that you can for surely Live without. Why! Why! And, I sought of sense a double standard in this situation...the kind that's been through generations! Why is it still here?! In the 21st Century, come on! It has to stop, ya'll!
You'd think he had beaten cancer from the way he's speaking, not that he finally decided to stop knobbing a load of groupies and treat his wife with respect...
Channel 517 I've never thought he was even that good looking... Kinda baffles me how Beyonce would go for a guy with a mug like his... Then he goes and cheats on her... Wtf? I'd divorced him so fast...lol whatta loser
@@nolackin4012 that's okay because there are many millions and billions of men that she can go fuck And it get tiring fuking the same man as well. That's why women sometimes don't even fuck their husbands but they sure go cheat on them
Actually the more beautiful, successful and intelligent you are, the more likely you are to be cheated on. Cheating is an insecure man's way of 'fighting back.'
Men can treat women so bad wow. You could have a woman who is loyal, beautiful inside and out who is doing her part and they still look out of their marriage.
@@kcraigen there is no such thing as product of your environment... We have a choice in every thing we do , no matter what we learned or saw or experience we don't have to repeat it
Dru Chatman I agree we don’t have to repeat it but we all know that some do. The term product of your environment exists for a reason, it is not a myth. Of course we want people to make better decisions.
I don’t know exactly when he became a billionaire but I could only imagine what child support would look like. That would make a fighter out of anyone😂
@@dafreshprincestolemehbitch6340 100k a month for this lifestyle is not enough to afford it all. Anyway, an 100k a month is a lot of money for many people to live a great life with a bunch of extras, maybe not to the same level as the Carters and what was shown in the video, but a pretty decent amount of money nevertheless.
@@shelsparkle2691 , lmao i don't think he ever respected beyonce may be truly loved her, but respect is something only true gentleman have for women and especially for their wives
kmbrlybrntt844 he’s talking about HER pain. The pain He caused HER. This album was revolutionary and for the first time EVER a black man was vulnerable in that way publicly, so maybe you should shut up.
It’s not coming from his heart.Theres no emotion behind his words.Also he seems irritated,bored and a bit angry.His laugh at end was very fake! I think this interview was guided in jay favor ,.Im really good at reading body language so I can see this is some bull.
No offense or disrespect, but why would you hurt the person you love so much and then call her your soulmate. You don't hurt people you love intentionally. Come on, he knew what he was doing and how it could affect their relationship.
Thing is, cheating is not one mistake, it's a series of mistakes. From flirting with another woman, to meeting her privately, to touch her, kiss her, undress her, eventually have sex with her. Then doing it all over again. He could have stopped it at any point before having sex, or before repeating the same actions. He's not worthy of Beyonce and I hope she has the power to make herself happy again. She deserves a man who is truly devoted to her. I very much doubt that he is a changed man. He cheated multiple times, not one time. He is what he is. Imagine the times he cheated and he didn't get caught. In my opinion, it's only a matter of time until Beyonce gets tired of this situation and despite the children being in the middle, she walks away. There's only so much pain and shame a woman can take.
Bey married her dad, who treated her mom the same way! I applaud her for fighting for her marriage (her choice); however, I would not continue to waste my time on a serial cheater. Life is too short!
@@raxxcoin9937 I told my sister the same thing, how she was looking just like her mom. She really Doesn't look like herself. But struggle love will age you!!!
I hope he gives her the respect of honesty. As a woman who was betrayed, it wasn't the act that hurt so bad. It was the lying; the dishonesty, and the pain and apprehension it caused. It cuts deep. She stayed with him. She's working to trust him again. I just hope his change is genuine. I hope he feels it in his soul.
Miss Kimberly Love Queen Bey. Don’t understand how she could trust a cheater enough to have him put 2 more babies up in her. He is truly playing his pimp game. He has got the most beautiful, talented, and desirable woman in world putting up with his 💩. Sorry-a cheater is going to cheat. No matter beautiful or fabulous you are. Can’t make lemonade out of rotten lemons.
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Not all guys cheat. You're equating the trash celebrity men to all men. There are many decent men who have self control. I think that's a prerequisite to a relationship in general.
Finding out that you've been cheated on can be devastating. 💔😔😭 But if the person is accountable + truly sorry, the couple can move past it. That person MUST do the work + allow the person they hurt to grieve + express themselves. If they don't do this, moving forward will be difficult + it's best to give up. So many ppl who cheat gaslight their partners causing further pain. Jay Z has done the work to repair himself + his marriage. I respect that. 🙏🏽
move past what??? that he slept with someone else? Oh, let's ask him if he'll move past if bey dares to do this to him. I'll tell you he'll be out of the room within seconds if he finds out he got cheated on.
Randy Riley bullshit. You're probably a cheater yourself. Cheating is just a bad decision Everyone makes bad decisions in life its how you respond to them that count
because his soulmate is dreedy and decided her career and money is more important than her husband and neglected him so he cheated. got it kids ok its bed time now go the bed.
I think this interview would've been more genuine if a woman interviewed his cheating ass. Saying all the right things a little too late. The timid way he's now talking is coz he gave up his right to wear the trousers in his marriage she thought he was capable of holding up!!
No one ever mentions the fact that ri ri is disgusting as well she new he was married with kids and did not give a dam and people prays her abould being a real woman lol
edthehead916 Im assuming you’ve not experienced the life of a musician with women throwing themselves at you everyday just waiting for the moment to prey on you, catch you slipping and convince you to cheat. I’m not condoning Jay’s actions but it’s easier said than done especially in his situation. So unless anyone’s lived in his situation it’s unfair to judge him. Cheating once in 15 years, putting his pride on hold and making a whole album to publicly apologise is definitely love. Especially when in such a macho position as a rapper. Truth is once in 15 years in his position should not disqualify any evidence of him loving her. Celebrities are notorious for having non-monogamous, promiscuous relationships and couples like Jay and Beyonce who truly believe in monogamy and love ask each other are very rare in showbiz.
edthehead916 He WAS a boy and now is a MAN. He went through that journey with his wife, because they were both strong enough to go through it together, instead of being spiteful and potentially ruining their kids.
Yes. Let's change humanity to a free sex society. And let's pool our resources to care for the children. I want to be free to get my freak on for a change.
Angoswede Yep once a cheater, sorry, always a cheater. Queen Bey wanted to take lemons and make lemonade-💩 can’t make lemonade if the lemons are rotten
He didn't do any fighting. Bey is the one putting in work. She just wanted the man she loved to love her and only her. Don't give any credit to this fool for having a marriage that Bey allowed to continue.
Remy Blac You don't get it. The moment he stepped out, he surrendered the vows of his marriage. Staying loyal and not giving into temptation is how you fight for your marriage. He lost the fight, Beyonce allowed it to continue.
Remy Blac you know what would be a real expression of love? him not sticking his penis into another woman or sharing physical and emotional intimacy with someone other than his wife.
mandy baende I don’t, however I don’t think we should applaud someone for making a mistake and then moving past it, I applaud men and women that don’t make these errors that easily could be avoided, forgive and forget but I would and will never praise someone that did something so stupid
AshTheOne we’ve been together 3 years honey but just I left my ex fiancé I’ll leave him to if he does adhere to his temptation being afraid of what might happen doesn’t mean I should walk away I let time tell . And so tell me are you desperate for a fight by being desperate
Right, but it's deeper than that. Hov broke so much of his bad habits to grow whereas some don't have the tools to do so. 'Tools' of life are hard to acquire if your father left you ...
It’s interesting... He said “You have to acknowledge..” and I thought that he was about to say that you have to acknowledge that you hurt someone or that you fucked up... But he said that you have to acknowledge “their pain” and “let them have their say” and “be strong enough to listen to that pain.” Still dodging tf out of personal responsibility and making himself the hero, seems like :/ lol
She won't do it. She hasn't been on a talk show for years and years, which shows how much she values privacy. The funny thing is, no matter how private she keeps her life, she's always in the spotlight.
TL M tf? I never once judged her for being private with her life. In fact, all I pointed out was that she values privacy yet will always be in the spotlight due to her fame. Stop creating beef out of nowhere...
@ jai so true the nerve for real lol ... it's always the not so appealing men and dont let them have a little money to spend they be ready to show their ass out
Or maybe he's a tangible example to this generation that thinks giving up is the way to go that you can grow and move past a mistake when it is a MISTAKE and no a habit. He is speaking on growth and emotional literacy something that a lot of young people who are listening to him need to know.
Well what's the point of these 2 people who we have never met going on tv discussing their marital issues??? They put it out there, people are going to comment!!
@@goodyoutuber5063 you can love your wife / girlfriend and still lust for other women.. it's got nothing to do with how you feel about yourself.. it's truly a physical thing..
Oh I see. Cheating is completely physical. Sad that Love isn’t enough to stop the lusting. But ok. I agree with you. Just a question-have you ever accepted cheating?
Marriage takes work on both sides. If only one party is willing to work, then it's done. The circumstances surrounding the issues determine whether the strength is in staying or leaving.
Axel Delannay sorry you aren't capable of realizing life isn't always that easy...he addressed right in the beginning how people can be in love yet due to individual up bringing many men and woman have difficulty constantly maintaining the compromises and sometimes difficult situation that arise in real life. I am no fan of celebrity crap but I was surprised how well jay z gave HIS point of view. He's not saying this applies to everybody...if u really feel its as black and white as your comment makes it seem, try reading about critical thinking. The ability to understand and respect different perspectives when laid out logically and respectfully. You don't have to switch ur hole opinion to do this. Why is it so common for people to write divisive and argumentative comments and why don't more people want to understand instead of dismiss
I was in a relationship I thought was my soulmate, repeatedly forgave their actions and fought for the relationship, after so long I was hurt and made a mistake and he dropped me and never looked back. My worry with her is staying with a guy and forgiving him for something he'd probably leave her over if she had done herself.
@@derricksendahangarwa8361 I started talking to an ex again yes, felt guilty and admitted it after a couple of days and he was done. The ironic thing though is that he had cheated with and ex and some female friends in the past. My point here is with guys like this, they often expect endless chances and forgiveness, but would leave the girl after one bad thing. They are giving more than he will ever give, and it’s best she just leave before more drama ensues etc.
@@derricksendahangarwa8361 oh it had flirting it wasn’t innocent. It’s a long story and was after a point where they shut down for a month but I was honest and apologized but yeah it was the end. This was years ago though and for the best.
man that point he makes at 0:37 is a lesson i'm in the middle of learning. young love, moved in with my first and only adult partner after a year of dating and wheeeeew. i learned i have an avoidant attachment style and i've been cramming on knowledge in order to be a stronger and reliable partner in my relationship because i didn't realize how my actions were causing friction nor did i know how to communicate my own needs. different situations from Jay obviously but that statement he made is one of the most humbling revelations i've had at the start of my study
A publicist would have never put Jay-Z and Beyonce together. It' s like Arista being totally pissed off after Whitney decided to marry Bobby and stay with Bobby as long as she did. A publicist would have picked Jesse Williams or Marques Houston or Kobe Bryant for Beyonce, not a former drug dealer who has stabbed a man before.
S Gons I agree 100%. I’ve always said before you act on something stop and think how you would feel if your partner said/did what you’re about to do. Of course many still act out due to selfishness.
Sadly when a wife has to face this much trauma and disception and heartbreak she will never ever love that deep again ever. Beyonce use to have a deep school girl gitty love for him he got her at a young age 19 or 20 he was over 30 she was warming up her career and he seen something in her he wanted to have some so he went for it . But sadly he humiliated and embarrassed her while the whole world watched him break her heart and we will never forget 😢 . Smh men have no idea how bad they destroy the deep love we have for them 😢😢😢 im glad he well they got therapy and now it will be a constant battle for life to keep thier new bond and new way of life intact
My thoughts exactly. In her first album, she had that innocent and pure love for him. A Gift From Virgo really showcases how she felt about him. In later years, you can hear the anger in her songs. Songs like Don’t Hurt Yourself and Sorry really show her trying to protect her heart. She put her walls up because of his deception and lies. She was very young when she got with him and he ruined that pure love they had. She essentially married her dad as well…generational curses. I really feel for her. She hasn’t been the same because of the trauma Jay Z has caused her. He is lame and she should’ve left his ass. There are other men out there who would never of dreamed of causing the emotional damage Jay Z has caused her. Typical narcissistic behaviour.
Hurt people hurt people and they decided to grow and heal as individuals and as a couple. She didn't leave his ass behind to be hurt and broken. In his words, "she's the strongest woman" he knows. Love at its best will heal you. They key here...he got to a point where he realized he NEEDED to grow and did with her. Say what you want, but when someone loves the ugly out of a person, can love the wounds into lessons and when someone's love encourages a person to love themselves and grow that is a miracle.
Destiny Rodriguez I love this comment. You fight through any and every obstacle for a love that matters. I'm not condoning infedility or abuse or anything like that. But I do know that any obstacle met in light of love, as you've mentioned, is a miracle and that's true. When someone hurts you, it takes a lot of love to forgive them, yourself AND move forward with them thereafter. Your comment is absolute gold. ❤️
Noone's doubting ALL that beautiful TRUTH, the point is that it's generally ALWAYS something a woman does to/for a cheating man. Men don't typically "love through" issues like adultery, kids or not, they Split! & fast! There's NOTHING to celebrate here. he's just another typical rich guy caught cheating, When faced w/ultimatums & the threat of NOT being a billionaire or losing his little "tidal" Suddenly he realizes she's his soulmate, & their relationship & family is Everything & is soo important; even though he's the one who pushed it to the brink of destruction. NOW when faced w/divorce & financial losses, he wants to reconcile & Fight for his marriage?! ALLLL that woman! down for nobody but him! cheating on HER, like she's NOBODY! What a/b Beyonce's pain, embarrassment & humiliation caused by his betrayal & marital infidelity? Years of it. I'm STILL waiting to hear a/b diseases, babies & paternity lawsuits. I'm not convinced. NOTHING he did was motivated by love & heartbreak fr seeing the pain he caused to His beautiful, Younger, loving wife. That "I hope" statement says it ALL. If the tables were turned, I doubt he'd have forgiven Beyonce; much less loved her through deepseated pain & childhood issues. She said it in " Sorry" it was ALL a/b side chicks. If/when he can get away w/it again, there will definitely be MORE cheating & side chicks! SHE saved HIM! That's the ONLY thing NOT in doubt here!
Anonymous she’s a woman she has flaws as well you don’t see everything that goes on with them. They’re people too being celebrities doesn’t stop anything from happening to them.
Ana M. Come on he realized that he was completely wrong and that he could never care for anyone like he does for bey.He manned up, got on his knees told the painful truth.he could of kept it a secret from her and swept it under the rug but didn’t because he truly did love her. Btw my bad went on a rant
Janet why should somebody need to “find out” that you don’t cheat on a woman like Beyonce?This man has gotten away with sooooooo much be it drug dealing, shooting his brother, cheating on beyonce of all people and all he ever needs to do is serve you people a sap story that you all eat up as eagerly as little kids...And because what, of his money & success? I’m sorry but how can people be such suckers for this man’s bullshit
Beautiful thing: this is their testimony, NOT any one else's independent of any cliches, pathologies, theories and expectations, this is about Beyonce and Shaun. You as an individual have to right and run your own race based on the ingredients involved, based on the environment of your soul, based on the surroundings that you are dwelling within and the level of spiritual maturity you encompass. Growth of any kind takes a willingness, a humility, a surrender. NOT everyone is willing to step UP into that domain and answer the call. See one of the biggest differences is that he valued his relationship and was wiling to be vulnerable and do the work., NOT everyone can say that they value the person that they dishonored, nor are they willing to do the work. The weak find it very easy to just walk away and come up with a good story that confines their F IT to a short sentence. YOU never learn when you keep running YOU Must examine the protocols that have allowed you to be where you are, even if you think you have it all together. Even if you have all the money and fame, when you fail to address the monsters in the window that keep hounding your spirit, you will just continue to do more of the same things with a different person. Like he said, they were people first, not celebrity first. look past the personalities and the outward trappings, we are all humans on a whirlwind experience who need to look within to figure OUT who we are and what is NEXT. When you love someone, you find the courage to work for what you value.
Men could never accept what’s being done to them if the tables were turned. Let’s get real men have created monsters and don’t know how to deal with it. They’ve damaged women for years and when it’s time for them to settle down they’re looking for a woman that’s not damaged 🤔🤔🤔
The propensity toward damage is the only issue I see. Otherwise I see no issue with a man attempting to impregnate every healthy woman. It's our protocol.
One can forgive cheating but the relationship is never the same....you are more like a friend and not really a lover. Better be sure the infidelity is never forgotten and the day you trip even for the slightest issue, it will be too dem easy for the victim partner to walk away.
Well i have seen a guy being denied sex for more than 4 months. he loved his wife but then he also was frustrated. He cheated, i dont blame him. Everyone has their own opinion though
I'm just thinking, who else can he possibly want??? You can tell by the way Beyonce looks at him, she loves him. She's beautiful and wasn't beyond being pregnant and worrying about her figure. She's successful because she's a hard worker. She's obviously forgiving. Beyonce seems to love her family and grounded. Jay-Z's wife is batting a 100. I know noone is perfect but they are perfect together. Kudos to Jay-Z for owning his part. It takes a real man to do this
Kat Tari low life? HAHAHA last time i checked he’s one of the most successful male artist OF ALL TIME with a net worth of almost a billion dollars and constantly writing heart felt and political and meaningful rap songs and constantly putting music with symbolism on videos and album covers. Last time i checked being a lowlife doesnt mean being a multibillionaire with several businesses.. girl sit down, you know nothing. Get some education and try being successful and happy for yourself instead of being cold and miserable and lonely behind a screen hating on people’s amaaazing and successful happy lives, something you don’t have.
You can tell the people who haven't experienced fighting to save a relationship. The man made mistakes and owned up to them. Then he changed to win her back. Because they are private it didn't play out in the tabloids. By the time the public found out about it, they had already worked through it and saved their marriage. So Beyonce doesn't need people throwing eggs at her husband now. They are stronger than ever before because of what they experienced together.
Petar Jovancevic Really! This is ridiculous and he's stumbling a lot and doesn't sound sincere. He's trying to clean up his collateral damage. Was never a fan of him and I feel bad for Beyonce. 😔
“Soulmate” “person I love” lmao then why would you cheat multiple times? Why is he being glorified for fighting for a relationship when it’s his own fault for being unfaithful.
I think thats why he said "you can be in love with someone...but if you don't have tools to move forward then you gonna have complications, period. And you can either address it or pretend till it blows up in some point."
I don’t think he’s being glorified. He’s a public figure accepting responsibility for something he did that millions of people knew about. I can’t imagine the humiliation of having your business out there like that. He humbled himself, acknowledged wrongdoing, and took steps to rectify. When was the last time a politician took responsibility that way? Bill Clinton, Roy Moore, John Edwards, Donald Trump etc etc could all learn a lesson.
I appreciate Mr.Carter being candid. I love his statement of "The best apology is changed behavior." Thank you for sharing ur personal struggles. It's one thing to admit to ur wife you've cheated but to admit ur indiscretions to the public is honorable. GOD bless you Mr. & Mrs.Carter. Love from New York! 💛❤️💜♥️💙💚💛❤️
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Im so tired of people saying that strong women are forgiving and stay. You can be strong and leave. I actually think it takes more strength to leave.
Yes I agree ☝️ if a guy cheats leave
I agree!!
People leave relationships all the time without even getting help to sort it out because infidelity is unforgivable to most people. And no one ever wants to work it out! They just quit even being civilized to each other and they stay bitter about it for years... turning their children, family and friends against each other... nothing about that is strength. I see it all the time! Its currently happening with my cousin her husband who cheated on her. I don’t think Beyoncé’s the throw away type where she throws her and Jays entire history away over his selfish indiscretions. I think with her kind of personality, she works hard at everything in her life; work, family, extended family and her personal relationships, her community, even in the black community. Jay had to realise he had a lot to lose... he had to rise up and meet this woman where she stood. She is powerful in her own self and right, he doesn’t define her because she knows she’s a good woman to herself... NOT him! She’s strong within herself to not let anything outside of her, force her either way. I’m sure she would’ve walked out on him if he didn’t get his shit together.
So true !
Well it wouldnt take much effort for her to walk alway from the marriage but it would take a lot to fight for the marriage and work things out
Cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice.
WORD
I do respect this commitment, If you believe in that person hurting them should be the last thing you want to do them.
Period right .
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The time is NOW ur making no sense if ur with someone be loyal, so ur saying if the person doesn’t have sex with u you’ll cheat 🤔. Make sense when ur talking
Let Beyonce cheat. Hed be GONE. He wouldn't be talking about fighting for love then
berightwithyou she should have left is ass
Like he would tell u all he's worshiping satan dwl
You might be right but sometime couples work threw it,and sometimes not 💜
I totally agree. He would of called her every name in the book, and dragged her through the mud.
How are we sure boynce has not cheated, any man in his life will cheat a couple of times, please let's talk about something else
If he is the one who cheated he didnt "fight" to save their marriage. He in essence begged for her forgiveness. She is the one who fought for the marriage by forgiving his transgressions. Now that is a fight and it hurts like hell.
right and lets not forget how he proposed to her, said his vowels, and CHOSE to be with her and he threw it all away.
You said it!!!
Nothing strong about having access to every man on Earth and still allowing yourself to deal with cheating
Staying is being weak, leaving the man you love is an actual fight, for your own respect and values.
Say that shit!!!
The time to fight for your marriage is when you're being tempted.
Mainer so true!
Temptation for the average man and temptation for a dude like Jay z is a big difference.
Say it again for the people in the back!!
Well said!
AMEN!
A man who cheats with a child sitting at home is a coward
No no no...as Van Jones says, it's "beautiful" lol
Most men do
Jeff Womack it's horrible 😔 can't take the commitment
Thoms ANYONE who does it is scum. Is that better?
Thoms lol u don’t even know me yet calling me a bitch smh
Self control is a great character billions of people underestimate
Omg yes, character is something especially whene a man controls his lust that means everything
Self control is a virtue, it's a power....n I agree most pple overlook it
@@thandekadaliel6259 ,well said, but good character is always overlooked, just look at the presidents of usa, bill Clinton, Donald trump, all characterless people, yet successful
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If you need self control y'all in the wrong relationship to begin with.
If you married to the queen; brah you’re already blessed. Who cheats at that point?
Hahahaha you are right bro
Mohit Sharma is just another pussy just like every other pussy she just a human being bro nothing special
@@cruztvcruz7422 wow people of such so called developed nations have such respect while talking about women...what the hell
I'm very Proud of Jay-Z for being"Mature" enough to OWN his Mess! He is smart enough to know that if he lost Beyonce he would never be able to replace her! 🙏
Oliver Cruz That’s tho whole point. Why betray your life parter, best friend and business partner for just another pussy?
‘If I were a boy’. You damn right Bey. Just look at your husband who cheated and the situation has been glorified into him managing to ‘save the marriage’.
SimmerFrom England but she didn't told him : its a little too late for you to come back ... ;)
100%
Crazy .. it shows real love. A man has to excercise options to keep his women from demasculating him an ending the marriage .
Yes. Someone who cheats once will do it again and again.
@@jshaka3769 no it doesn’t it shows that he is selfish and doesn’t care about her at all and I think he wanted to test her and she failed he now knows she’s his slaver
Don't know how to take this....but my initial reaction is if u don't want a mess to clean..don't make one...it's that simple
Well
Said
Are you saying you've never caused a mess and I'm not talking about relationship. We all do.
@@expatbiker6598 nah...what I'm saying is...if you don't want a relationship with problems...dont fuck a lot of bitches and come home to your wife with a fake story
Super simple.
Amen to that brother! Short and simple. Period.
I get this feeling that it would not have been the same if it was her cheating
ElleV Pavan preach
I'm usually not a pessimist by nature but I don't see the double standards leaving us any time soon
+ElleV Pavan you're totally right
Agree
the ugly true
Wow he’s really praising this man for trying to stay in his marriage after HE cheated.
I knoooow so disgusting
@Alyssa Lie i mean the news castor didn't have any say in this hes just hired to talk to jayz and agree with him to make cnn look good, but thats just how i look at it
Must've been tough. 😂🤦🏽♀️
Yea it’s a fucking trip…
@Likhona Mnyamana yea I can see that, and I know that redeeming ones self after cheating can be brutal and a time consuming process, but equally so for the person who was betrayed and now suffers from mistrust, a self esteem blow, and now has to heal and fix a problem that they didn’t create to begin with. Cheating is really unfair and it primes the relationship for failure. So yes I do know that being really sorry and having to change is hard and a lot of work… but those are the consequences
Stop cheating on your wife and you won't have marriage problems.
Keith Fultineer W!😂
Keith Fultineer amen
New Port's 😂
Keith Fultineer What if she didn't blow him anymore? Man's got hunger and man's gotta eat.
+andod007 then if it's so important break up
The best apology is “change the behavior” and “acknowledge their pain”!!!! This is something a lot of people don’t get... if you mess up you have to suffer through the other person’s pain!!!
It’s all well and good for TV. They’re publicists probably had a lot to do with this interview and the answers to the questions. Celebrities are basically “well oiled machines” in interviews. Every couple has ups and downs. I think they are different people behind closed doors.
Regardless of who they are as people, there are always problems. Theirs are just heightened because they are in the publics eye.
This is absolutely true man. People barely get how just acknowledging someone’s feelings can go a long way to get forgiven man.
Except.. many many time the "hurt" party will continue to use the issue as punishment to try to hurt the other. At that point it has nothing to do with working through pain.. and everything to do with being vengeful. Most people do try to acknowledge the pain.. but they have to draw a line somewhere
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foreal like you’re the one that fck’d up
So she’s your soulmate and you love her so deeply so you cheat on her ???
@Posty Fan don't bring kobe into this?
@Posty Fan yes we are no one is perfect
@Posty Fan but if Beyoncé cheated he would’ve left her
@@sabrinaalvarez9400 if Bey cheated I would be very glad 😂 but knowing B that'll never happen
@@sabrinaalvarez9400 if Bey cheated I would be very glad 😂 but knowing B that'll never happen
He is so unattractive and I’m not even referring to his physical appearance. I can only imagine how many tears she sheds to this day. Poor B.
Staci Rivera it isn’t like Beyoncé is poor either she’s only with him so the kids can have a father.
@@callumboscoe8685 I never understood this reasoning… they would still have their father even if they got divorced.
@@laurenprice4542 she stayed with him because of the power and the brand they’ve built .
@@animebrospodcast4577 yeah I agree with that but I also think she just really loves that man lol
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Why is the interviewer acting like jay z is some sort of hero for cheating on Beyoncé?
solid gold lol
Right
Because unlike most people who cheat he actually changed.
solid gold How so? He's just interviewing Jay Z. You interpreted the dialogue different
That's funny
Women always seem to be stronger than men in infidelity issues if the shoe was on the other foot he would've left smh
Or weaker ..staying doesnt show strength and walking away doesn’t mean weakness ..strength is walking away and weakness is staying
Leaux Daniels I agree because there is no excuse for cheating why get in a relationship if you gonna cheat they feel like cheating is a mistake uh no its a choice
That's because it's socially acceptable for a man to cheat. It comes as no surprise. The other way, and there will be a lynch mobbing of both if the husband doesn't leave her immediately. He will constantly be bullied and attacked until he does.
Because men value themselves. They don't tolerate crap. What sort of a matrimonial home can you build with an adulterer? Women accept cheating not because they're strong but they simply don't value themselves.
He wouldn’t have left... that’s Beyoncé 🐝
“Strong,” because U cheated and she accepted it and stuck with you?! Ok...🙄
BarnesBeauty 101 lmao right
Strong because he cheated. He was honesy with himself at some point as with her and he wanted and worked on changing. He chose to fight for his marriage even if it means fighting his weaknesses.
Looooool
It takes strength to do good for someone who has hurt you. Or to be there for someone who is not there for you. At least to make the attempt, that's family. Reconciliation may fail, but at least you know you tried to see if it's real.
It's so Crazy and it's damning how the word strong is so misused for putting up with crap that you can for surely Live without. Why! Why! And, I sought of sense a double standard in this situation...the kind that's been through generations! Why is it still here?! In the 21st Century, come on! It has to stop, ya'll!
Never be with someone who doesn't know your worth.
Absolutely 💯
You'd think he had beaten cancer from the way he's speaking, not that he finally decided to stop knobbing a load of groupies and treat his wife with respect...
😹this deserves way more likes
How benevolent of him. 🙄
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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If you can't stop yourself from cheating then don't get married.
Channel 517 I've never thought he was even that good looking... Kinda baffles me how Beyonce would go for a guy with a mug like his... Then he goes and cheats on her... Wtf? I'd divorced him so fast...lol whatta loser
SO... What you're saying is... If you can't stop making mistakes, stop living.
Gurjet Singh this is one mistake u can avoid bruh. easily
Complicated is the bases for all relationships. LOVE IS REAL AND INSTINCT. HATE AN UNFORGIVING IS A LEARNED BEHAVIOR 🙏🙏🙏💓❤️💓🙏🙏🙏
How does someone find out marriage is not for them without giving it a shot?
Oh and FYI he didn’t fight for his marriage he begged and hoped for forgiveness it’s a difference. You fight for it before you cheat!! PERIOD.
Jamerson Kilgo shut up
You really don't get to comment on their marriage😒
Jamerson Kilgo Damn right!!!
Jamerson Kilgo well said
I agree
I'm shocked by the comments! I thought i was going to get sick,
by everyone sticking up for him!
I'm glad I was wrong!!
This only proves that no matter how beautiful, intelligent and successful you are, there is a man out there who will cheat on you.
Every smart beautiful woman has a man that's tired of fucking her
@@nolackin4012 that's okay because there are many millions and billions of men that she can go fuck
And it get tiring fuking the same man as well. That's why women sometimes don't even fuck their husbands but they sure go cheat on them
Actually the more beautiful, successful and intelligent you are, the more likely you are to be cheated on. Cheating is an insecure man's way of 'fighting back.'
Very cynical
@@diamond852
Or to take revenge, if they’re pissed for some reason, and isn’t just insecurity
Men can treat women so bad wow. You could have a woman who is loyal, beautiful inside and out who is doing her part and they still look out of their marriage.
Women do it to. Don't be uni-dimensional
Shakur, I agree currently women are doing it now but who did they learn it from?
@@kcraigen there is no such thing as product of your environment... We have a choice in every thing we do , no matter what we learned or saw or experience we don't have to repeat it
Dru Chatman I agree we don’t have to repeat it but we all know that some do. The term product of your environment exists for a reason, it is not a myth. Of course we want people to make better decisions.
@@kcraigen its an excuse for people who don't have self control or know how to think for them selves , you're emulating bad or negative behavior
I don’t know exactly when he became a billionaire but I could only imagine what child support would look like. That would make a fighter out of anyone😂
Jay R lmfao where is the LIE
😂😂😂
He barely sold any music pre Beyoncé
Even though Beyoncé got enough money for the kids herself that child support would be high as hell. I’m thinkin maybe 100k a month or more!
@@dafreshprincestolemehbitch6340 100k a month for this lifestyle is not enough to afford it all. Anyway, an 100k a month is a lot of money for many people to live a great life with a bunch of extras, maybe not to the same level as the Carters and what was shown in the video, but a pretty decent amount of money nevertheless.
"We were never celebrity couple, we were couple that just happen to be celebrities" wise words by Jay
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He might love her, the real question is, does he respect her enough?
Omh wow true , respect before love
@ Natasha Muhindi Better someone that respects you than love you in that case🙄
@@Latifa-ik9uk , yeah respect over love, if there's no respect for your gf/wife or your partner there never can be love
Now he does ... maybe question is does he respect himself
@@shelsparkle2691 , lmao i don't think he ever respected beyonce may be truly loved her, but respect is something only true gentleman have for women and especially for their wives
I hate how they are praising him for fighting for his marriage as if his wife didn't have the shitty end of the stick kmt
kmbrlybrntt844 like are we not gonna talk about that part?👀
Fr
They deserve each other.
Right!!
kmbrlybrntt844 he’s talking about HER pain. The pain He caused HER. This album was revolutionary and for the first time EVER a black man was vulnerable in that way publicly, so maybe you should shut up.
He's a trailblazer for not dumping the wife he cheated on? How low are your standards?
This interview is so bias. Anything JZ says the host says it’s beautiful 😫
one way to save a marriage is to not sleep around during it .... just a lil tip there buddy
yeah,his 'lil tip' ends up in a new rapper every week
Sounds like he’s just repeating what a couples therapist told him.
Yeap
Eight
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It’s not coming from his heart.Theres no emotion behind his words.Also he seems irritated,bored and a bit angry.His laugh at end was very fake! I think this interview was guided in jay favor ,.Im really good at reading body language so I can see this is some bull.
Yeah
No offense or disrespect, but why would you hurt the person you love so much and then call her your soulmate. You don't hurt people you love intentionally. Come on, he knew what he was doing and how it could affect their relationship.
Elena Tarasova he's smug about what he did
+Elena Tarsova...Agreed. He was intentional in his cheating, it was not a mistake but a choice.
Thing is, cheating is not one mistake, it's a series of mistakes. From flirting with another woman, to meeting her privately, to touch her, kiss her, undress her, eventually have sex with her. Then doing it all over again. He could have stopped it at any point before having sex, or before repeating the same actions.
He's not worthy of Beyonce and I hope she has the power to make herself happy again. She deserves a man who is truly devoted to her.
I very much doubt that he is a changed man. He cheated multiple times, not one time. He is what he is. Imagine the times he cheated and he didn't get caught.
In my opinion, it's only a matter of time until Beyonce gets tired of this situation and despite the children being in the middle, she walks away. There's only so much pain and shame a woman can take.
he knew she would not leave him
I agree!
Those who leave are strong. Those who stay are strong. Whatever your decision is, you’re right. Don’t let any of our words tell you otherwise.
Wise
If this marriage was special, then why hurt her in the first place?
But maybe she need him , black and 100000000000$
Bey married her dad, who treated her mom the same way! I applaud her for fighting for her marriage (her choice); however, I would not continue to waste my time on a serial cheater. Life is too short!
and she look just like her mom now especially at the warriors game when the Billionaires wife was asking him what she wanted to drink..?
@@raxxcoin9937 I told my sister the same thing, how she was looking just like her mom. She really Doesn't look like herself. But struggle love will age you!!!
Lol @ a serial cheater
Shut up
Life is too short and she deserves better.
I hope he gives her the respect of honesty. As a woman who was betrayed, it wasn't the act that hurt so bad. It was the lying; the dishonesty, and the pain and apprehension it caused. It cuts deep. She stayed with him. She's working to trust him again.
I just hope his change is genuine. I hope he feels it in his soul.
Miss Kimberly Love Queen Bey. Don’t understand how she could trust a cheater enough to have him put 2 more babies up in her. He is truly playing his pimp game. He has got the most beautiful, talented, and desirable woman in world putting up with his 💩. Sorry-a cheater is going to cheat. No matter beautiful or fabulous you are. Can’t make lemonade out of rotten lemons.
Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks
Not all guys cheat. You're equating the trash celebrity men to all men. There are many decent men who have self control. I think that's a prerequisite to a relationship in general.
Finding out that you've been cheated on can be devastating. 💔😔😭 But if the person is accountable + truly sorry, the couple can move past it. That person MUST do the work + allow the person they hurt to grieve + express themselves. If they don't do this, moving forward will be difficult + it's best to give up.
So many ppl who cheat gaslight their partners causing further pain. Jay Z has done the work to repair himself + his marriage. I respect that. 🙏🏽
move past what??? that he slept with someone else? Oh, let's ask him if he'll move past if bey dares to do this to him. I'll tell you he'll be out of the room within seconds if he finds out he got cheated on.
if its your soul mate how could you cheat? I just dont understand men who cheat
Randy Riley I thought all men cheated. I believe they would if they could get away with it...
Elaine M its a lot of men that do cheat but its not all...finding a good one is like looking for a needle in a haystack
Damn straight!
he was in love with Foxy brown that was who he really wanted... note I said wanted
Randy Riley bullshit. You're probably a cheater yourself. Cheating is just a bad decision
Everyone makes bad decisions in life its how you respond to them that count
Oh Lord, she deserves a man, not a third child she has to raise...
Danica 😂
Or a 4th , it's their favorite number
4th now
How
Danica no, she deserves HIM, she chose to stay with him.
This is the first time I've heard Jay-Z speak.
Carloswithac he only does interviews for big companies
Carloswithac . lol
That's not true he was on The Breakfast Club last year
Same😂
rico holla its HIS FIRST TIME
He sounds like he has been verrrry well coached by his PR team.
IF BEYONCE IS YOUR SOULMATE, WHY WOULD YOU CHEAT ON YOUR SOULMATE?
dragonfly exactly!!
why would trump remarry like 800 times?
i know right??? WHY ISN'T HE PERFECT!!!
because his soulmate is dreedy and decided her career and money is more important than her husband and neglected him so he cheated. got it kids ok its bed time now go the bed.
The Ultimate Gaming And this is relevant because...?
Yeah he had to fight for his marriage because he's the selfish person who tarnished it, that's on him! stop praising him please.
+shan r agreed
I wonder who he slept with
B.I.L.L 04689....Everybody! Apparently, he is community d!@$
Princess BC wow lol
I think this interview would've been more genuine if a woman interviewed his cheating ass. Saying all the right things a little too late. The timid way he's now talking is coz he gave up his right to wear the trousers in his marriage she thought he was capable of holding up!!
It's not the fact that he cheated.. he got caught! He would definitely take his time and cheat again!
Trust me IF JIGGA WAS BROKE...BEY WOULD HAVE BROKE WIDE.
Absolutely
No one ever mentions the fact that ri ri is disgusting as well she new he was married with kids and did not give a dam and people prays her abould being a real woman lol
He NEVER says, yes, I will forgive her if she does the same thing. He said he prays that he would... 😹 If it's not a yes, it's a No.
If she’s your soulmate and you love her That Much then how about don’t cheat on her from the first place?
sosaisappiamo it’s life. Men fuck up sometimes. He lucky him and bey worked it out not too many couples pull through.
mandy baende I know you're right and that makes me respect her even more for sticking thru that to save the family.
EXACTLY! ! !
edthehead916 Im assuming you’ve not experienced the life of a musician with women throwing themselves at you everyday just waiting for the moment to prey on you, catch you slipping and convince you to cheat.
I’m not condoning Jay’s actions but it’s easier said than done especially in his situation. So unless anyone’s lived in his situation it’s unfair to judge him. Cheating once in 15 years, putting his pride on hold and making a whole album to publicly apologise is definitely love. Especially when in such a macho position as a rapper. Truth is once in 15 years in his position should not disqualify any evidence of him loving her. Celebrities are notorious for having non-monogamous, promiscuous relationships and couples like Jay and Beyonce who truly believe in monogamy and love ask each other are very rare in showbiz.
edthehead916 He WAS a boy and now is a MAN. He went through that journey with his wife, because they were both strong enough to go through it together, instead of being spiteful and potentially ruining their kids.
The best apology is changed behavior.
Yes. Let's change humanity to a free sex society. And let's pool our resources to care for the children. I want to be free to get my freak on for a change.
Kelly Clark welll saiddddd...luvvv it
Kelly Clark That's really a good a good one and true too!!!!
clean eating means washing my food He said it in the interview not Kelly she was just quoting what he said.
Kelly Clark right on✊🏾
If you want to be difference than other "black families" then treat her difference and don't cheat. Only difference is she took him back..
Angoswede Yep once a cheater, sorry, always a cheater. Queen Bey wanted to take lemons and make lemonade-💩 can’t make lemonade if the lemons are rotten
Artis Wilkins words so untrue
Bwyonce is a fool
Facts
That part
This shows, it doesn’t matter how good you look or how much money you have. Anyone can be cheated on!
Yes because we're all humans
He didn't do any fighting. Bey is the one putting in work. She just wanted the man she loved to love her and only her. Don't give any credit to this fool for having a marriage that Bey allowed to continue.
becca elena YUP!!!
becca elena so you tslk to both of them st a dayly base?
Jonas Reichert nope not at all. Don't need to. He cheated.
Remy Blac You don't get it. The moment he stepped out, he surrendered the vows of his marriage. Staying loyal and not giving into temptation is how you fight for your marriage. He lost the fight, Beyonce allowed it to continue.
Remy Blac you know what would be a real expression of love? him not sticking his penis into another woman or sharing physical and emotional intimacy with someone other than his wife.
They created a brand. This marriage will last even if they don't love one another. Is just business.
Same with the Smith's. 😁
😂😂😂
Nah that’s just cynical.
I suspect that's the first or biggest reason why Beyonce decided to keep going on with this marriage.
Also, divorce is expensive. Especially when there's a billion dollars involved
How about having the strength not to do something in the first place
connor eden people make mistakes. You expect every relationship to be perfect
mandy baende I don’t, however I don’t think we should applaud someone for making a mistake and then moving past it, I applaud men and women that don’t make these errors that easily could be avoided, forgive and forget but I would and will never praise someone that did something so stupid
mandy baende cheating is not a ‘mistake’, you sound so brainwashed
Easy to say..
Judi Gemini says a cheater
I love their love story. I want them to write the book on love, marraige and keeping it together. 💕
You can tell he ain’t cheating no more he ain’t even grooming no more
He said a bunch of nuthin. He know damn well if she cheated on him, he'd cut her off and make a diss album
Like Justin Timberlake
Shaka Waller Illuminati 🏳️🌈 Anye Elite
Or one could just not cheat in the first place...
yes, and we could be perfect little saints.....but we are still humans
Fair, but why not instead celebrate a public figure who has not cheated instead?
Solar Gaze “Sorry I shot your brother in the face, I’m not a saint”
@Adam Hodgkinson, are you genuinely sorry and ready to do anything to make things right?
Solar Gaze I smell a cheaterrr
"He only loves me when i'm not there" awu ngeke ayikho lento
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Moghel 😂😂😂😂 sereng sezulu. I'm soo excited 💃🏾💃🏾
Yeah typical Sagittarius man
@@Badraebrad1992 yeah unfortunately most sagittarius men are disloyal 🤣😂
Tiana Thompson ughhh I’m in love with a Sagittarius man and I know he’s going to eventually adhere to his temptation
AshTheOne we’ve been together 3 years honey but just I left my ex fiancé I’ll leave him to if he does adhere to his temptation being afraid of what might happen doesn’t mean I should walk away I let time tell . And so tell me are you desperate for a fight by being desperate
yep Jay z FOUGHT FOR HIS MARRIAGE BUT LETS BE HONEST HE WAS ALSO THE REASON IT BROKE
LUMOS 😂😂😂😂i know
Him fighting for his marriage was stopping an affair he was having
Right, but it's deeper than that. Hov broke so much of his bad habits to grow whereas some don't have the tools to do so. 'Tools' of life are hard to acquire if your father left you ...
@ Erinthrelkeld, he only stopped the affair cos he got caught...
Only weak boys cheat
Real men have SELF CONTROL.
REMEMBER THE DEVIL HATES LOVE.
EVIL WANTS CHAOS.
that's just bs.
Hes a Freemason.
PREACH!
Thank you. I’m tired of people making excuses for him cheating,
He has options that you'll never have...
It’s interesting... He said “You have to acknowledge..” and I thought that he was about to say that you have to acknowledge that you hurt someone or that you fucked up... But he said that you have to acknowledge “their pain” and “let them have their say” and “be strong enough to listen to that pain.” Still dodging tf out of personal responsibility and making himself the hero, seems like :/ lol
He saw a therapist
We hear a lot of Jay Z speaking out, I really would love to hear Beyoncé’s view point.
She won't do it. She hasn't been on a talk show for years and years, which shows how much she values privacy. The funny thing is, no matter how private she keeps her life, she's always in the spotlight.
She doesn't explain herself if she doesn't have to and she won't hun so don't hold your breath
lol tim You miss her, don't You? 🤣🤣🤣
TL M I know...
TL M tf? I never once judged her for being private with her life. In fact, all I pointed out was that she values privacy yet will always be in the spotlight due to her fame. Stop creating beef out of nowhere...
The nerve of this man to cheat on Beyoncé
Jai x she’s also a human being
@@_._s_t_y_l_i_s_h_._ she gave him everything. She lost children. He saw that and still went and played with other people
@@enloveyduvey001 u do understand that nobody's exempt from gettin cheated on right? No matter your looks or status?
LMAO
@ jai so true the nerve for real lol ... it's always the not so appealing men and dont let them have a little money to spend they be ready to show their ass out
Now he’s the spokes person for infidelity.... Give me a break!
Mom The Ebayer 😂😂😂
Or maybe he's a tangible example to this generation that thinks giving up is the way to go that you can grow and move past a mistake when it is a MISTAKE and no a habit. He is speaking on growth and emotional literacy something that a lot of young people who are listening to him need to know.
Mom The Ebayer who said that Porsha voice
People can change, gatdamn ! 😭
Mom The Ebayer ...he done fucked everything in the industry
It's amazing how many people have such strong opinions about a relationship and two people they have never met and know almost nothing about 🙄🤦
You're absolutely right! It seems like all these people know everything even Jay and B don't know about themselves
Well what's the point of these 2 people who we have never met going on tv discussing their marital issues??? They put it out there, people are going to comment!!
Exactly! 🙄
Cheating is a self esteem issue. It never has anything to do with the other person.
April Brown exactly
@@ifricanqueen1798 not true.. it's all about context..
TheTechnocrat78 please explain
@@goodyoutuber5063 you can love your wife / girlfriend and still lust for other women.. it's got nothing to do with how you feel about yourself.. it's truly a physical thing..
Oh I see. Cheating is completely physical. Sad that Love isn’t enough to stop the lusting. But ok. I agree with you. Just a question-have you ever accepted cheating?
If she is your soulmate, why cheat?
Tyrone Biggums but....it's beyonce...I would never cheat on her😂😂
sexual gratification. that’s it.
"Unprecedented" like no one has ever fought for their marriage before.
F8alaty45 I think he was talking about the way he fought for his marriage, putting it out in the open and make art out of it
Marriage takes work on both sides. If only one party is willing to work, then it's done. The circumstances surrounding the issues determine whether the strength is in staying or leaving.
Some people just don't value marriage.. That's it.
I’m people.
He loves her but yet he cheated on her. She is his ‘soul-mate’ but yet he lied to her. He wants to break a circle that he started 🙃
Axel Delannay sorry you aren't capable of realizing life isn't always that easy...he addressed right in the beginning how people can be in love yet due to individual up bringing many men and woman have difficulty constantly maintaining the compromises and sometimes difficult situation that arise in real life. I am no fan of celebrity crap but I was surprised how well jay z gave HIS point of view. He's not saying this applies to everybody...if u really feel its as black and white as your comment makes it seem, try reading about critical thinking. The ability to understand and respect different perspectives when laid out logically and respectfully. You don't have to switch ur hole opinion to do this. Why is it so common for people to write divisive and argumentative comments and why don't more people want to understand instead of dismiss
he could have ended and called it quits, is that what you want??? another broken american family to add to our great statistics on marriage?
Circus-Circus
@@walexia 1 family is gonna do nothing to our statistics
I was in a relationship I thought was my soulmate, repeatedly forgave their actions and fought for the relationship, after so long I was hurt and made a mistake and he dropped me and never looked back. My worry with her is staying with a guy and forgiving him for something he'd probably leave her over if she had done herself.
With “mistake” you mean cheated?
@@derricksendahangarwa8361 I started talking to an ex again yes, felt guilty and admitted it after a couple of days and he was done. The ironic thing though is that he had cheated with and ex and some female friends in the past. My point here is with guys like this, they often expect endless chances and forgiveness, but would leave the girl after one bad thing. They are giving more than he will ever give, and it’s best she just leave before more drama ensues etc.
@@Wishfull171 I don’t see why merely talking to an ex would be a problem though that leads to a break up though. Don’t get it
@@derricksendahangarwa8361 oh it had flirting it wasn’t innocent. It’s a long story and was after a point where they shut down for a month but I was honest and apologized but yeah it was the end. This was years ago though and for the best.
@@Wishfull171 aww so sorry to hear about that man. Hope you’re feeling better now. 🙏
man that point he makes at 0:37 is a lesson i'm in the middle of learning. young love, moved in with my first and only adult partner after a year of dating and wheeeeew. i learned i have an avoidant attachment style and i've been cramming on knowledge in order to be a stronger and reliable partner in my relationship because i didn't realize how my actions were causing friction nor did i know how to communicate my own needs. different situations from Jay obviously but that statement he made is one of the most humbling revelations i've had at the start of my study
Soul mate? You don’t cheat on your soulmate
Girl shut up, yo Bf then cheated to
Hussle Crowe lmfao if you’re going to tell me to shut up, at least learn how to spell all the words correctly 😂 Shut up boy...
@@husslecrowe2774 trash 🗑
Jay-Z: we weren't a celebritie couple we were a couple that just happened to be celebrities. Reporter: That's beautiful. 🙄🤦♂️
Josh Birge
Is that the only thing you hear, his in the illuminati, too dumb to know what is going around the world.
I'm not to sure what you mean...?
Josh Birge to be fair, celebrity couples are couples who've been paired together for publicity. So in context it makes sense
Josh Birge
Hahaha. That part stood out to me too. So lame.
A publicist would have never put Jay-Z and Beyonce together. It' s like Arista being totally pissed off after Whitney decided to marry Bobby and stay with Bobby as long as she did. A publicist would have picked Jesse Williams or Marques Houston or Kobe Bryant for Beyonce, not a former drug dealer who has stabbed a man before.
If you truly love someone, you would Never cheat on your spouse. They only apologize cause they got caught.
Not true. It's like saying if you truly love someone you will never lie to them.
You don't understand people. OP.
Whet Wil lying and committing the greatest immoral act in a relationship are completely different things.
Whet Wil you're deplorable...and clearly a child
S Gons I agree 100%. I’ve always said before you act on something stop and think how you would feel if your partner said/did what you’re about to do. Of course many still act out due to selfishness.
Sadly when a wife has to face this much trauma and disception and heartbreak she will never ever love that deep again ever. Beyonce use to have a deep school girl gitty love for him he got her at a young age 19 or 20 he was over 30 she was warming up her career and he seen something in her he wanted to have some so he went for it . But sadly he humiliated and embarrassed her while the whole world watched him break her heart and we will never forget 😢 . Smh men have no idea how bad they destroy the deep love we have for them 😢😢😢 im glad he well they got therapy and now it will be a constant battle for life to keep thier new bond and new way of life intact
My thoughts exactly. In her first album, she had that innocent and pure love for him. A Gift From Virgo really showcases how she felt about him. In later years, you can hear the anger in her songs. Songs like Don’t Hurt Yourself and Sorry really show her trying to protect her heart. She put her walls up because of his deception and lies.
She was very young when she got with him and he ruined that pure love they had. She essentially married her dad as well…generational curses. I really feel for her. She hasn’t been the same because of the trauma Jay Z has caused her. He is lame and she should’ve left his ass. There are other men out there who would never of dreamed of causing the emotional damage Jay Z has caused her. Typical narcissistic behaviour.
Hurt people hurt people and they decided to grow and heal as individuals and as a couple. She didn't leave his ass behind to be hurt and broken. In his words, "she's the strongest woman" he knows. Love at its best will heal you. They key here...he got to a point where he realized he NEEDED to grow and did with her. Say what you want, but when someone loves the ugly out of a person, can love the wounds into lessons and when someone's love encourages a person to love themselves and grow that is a miracle.
She literally loved the ugly outta him 😆
Destiny Rodriguez I love this comment. You fight through any and every obstacle for a love that matters. I'm not condoning infedility or abuse or anything like that. But I do know that any obstacle met in light of love, as you've mentioned, is a miracle and that's true. When someone hurts you, it takes a lot of love to forgive them, yourself AND move forward with them thereafter. Your comment is absolute gold. ❤️
Noone's doubting ALL that beautiful TRUTH, the point is that it's generally ALWAYS something a woman does to/for a cheating man. Men don't typically "love through" issues like adultery, kids or not, they Split! & fast! There's NOTHING to celebrate here. he's just another typical rich guy caught cheating, When faced w/ultimatums & the threat of NOT being a billionaire or losing his little "tidal" Suddenly he realizes she's his soulmate, & their relationship & family is Everything & is soo important; even though he's the one who pushed it to the brink of destruction. NOW when faced w/divorce & financial losses, he wants to reconcile & Fight for his marriage?! ALLLL that woman! down for nobody but him! cheating on HER, like she's NOBODY! What a/b Beyonce's pain, embarrassment & humiliation caused by his betrayal & marital infidelity? Years of it. I'm STILL waiting to hear a/b diseases, babies & paternity lawsuits. I'm not convinced. NOTHING he did was motivated by love & heartbreak fr seeing the pain he caused to His beautiful, Younger, loving wife. That "I hope" statement says it ALL. If the tables were turned, I doubt he'd have forgiven Beyonce; much less loved her through deepseated pain & childhood issues. She said it in " Sorry" it was ALL a/b side chicks. If/when he can get away w/it again, there will definitely be MORE cheating & side chicks! SHE saved HIM! That's the ONLY thing NOT in doubt here!
strength is realizing you are in a fake marriage and leaving. Staying is not strength its stupidity.
Preach such a rational factual comment
This interview made me want to throw up.
who tf would cheat on beyonce?
Jay-Z.
Anonymous everyone
Anonymous she’s a woman she has flaws as well you don’t see everything that goes on with them. They’re people too being celebrities doesn’t stop anything from happening to them.
Anonymous uh, Jay Z?!
A man who couldn't turn down rihanna lol nosa idk
Jay Z : she’s my soulmate
Also Jay Z : still cheating to this day🙇🏻♀️
How did you know? Receipts I want to look at it
When you “love” a person and when you call someone “my soulmate”, do you hurt them, by cheating on them?!? You don’t. But Jay-Z does 💁🏼♀️
Ana M. Come on he realized that he was completely wrong and that he could never care for anyone like he does for bey.He manned up, got on his knees told the painful truth.he could of kept it a secret from her and swept it under the rug but didn’t because he truly did love her. Btw my bad went on a rant
Ana M. fEmaLeS aM I riGhT?
True, and their daughter will be raised to think soulmates cheat and it’s completely fine🤦🏽♀️. Damn it.
Janet it only took infidelity for the comparison to occur, thus, for “family to slay”.
He cheated. Point taken.
Janet why should somebody need to “find out” that you don’t cheat on a woman like Beyonce?This man has gotten away with sooooooo much be it drug dealing, shooting his brother, cheating on beyonce of all people and all he ever needs to do is serve you people a sap story that you all eat up as eagerly as little kids...And because what, of his money & success? I’m sorry but how can people be such suckers for this man’s bullshit
“What makes you fight for your marriage?” Uhhh he’s married to BEYONCÉ he better fight for that
Beyonce has a deeper voice than him lmao
HAHAHHAHAHHA! This is disturbingly true lmao.
actually i think your right! lolololololol
Sassy The Sasquatch it means you were inbreded.
"If I were a boy "
Boyonce = "Once a boy"
Beautiful thing: this is their testimony, NOT any one else's independent of any cliches, pathologies, theories and expectations, this is about Beyonce and Shaun. You as an individual have to right and run your own race based on the ingredients involved, based on the environment of your soul, based on the surroundings that you are dwelling within and the level of spiritual maturity you encompass. Growth of any kind takes a willingness, a humility, a surrender. NOT everyone is willing to step UP into that domain and answer the call. See one of the biggest differences is that he valued his relationship and was wiling to be vulnerable and do the work., NOT everyone can say that they value the person that they dishonored, nor are they willing to do the work. The weak find it very easy to just walk away and come up with a good story that confines their F IT to a short sentence. YOU never learn when you keep running YOU Must examine the protocols that have allowed you to be where you are, even if you think you have it all together. Even if you have all the money and fame, when you fail to address the monsters in the window that keep hounding your spirit, you will just continue to do more of the same things with a different person. Like he said, they were people first, not celebrity first. look past the personalities and the outward trappings, we are all humans on a whirlwind experience who need to look within to figure OUT who we are and what is NEXT. When you love someone, you find the courage to work for what you value.
Fight for you love?? Fool, you cheated on her!
so.."just a little dick not big deal" ? rigth?
Men could never accept what’s being done to them if the tables were turned. Let’s get real men have created monsters and don’t know how to deal with it. They’ve damaged women for years and when it’s time for them to settle down they’re looking for a woman that’s not damaged 🤔🤔🤔
The propensity toward damage is the only issue I see. Otherwise I see no issue with a man attempting to impregnate every healthy woman. It's our protocol.
Andre Stewart well thank god for child support and birth control.
T Hobbs facts
One can forgive cheating but the relationship is never the same....you are more like a friend and not really a lover. Better be sure the infidelity is never forgotten and the day you trip even for the slightest issue, it will be too dem easy for the victim partner to walk away.
@@D.Spann868 Dude if you cheat on a girl leave.Period.its over.Leave.Lol you gonna be stupid enough to??......Leave.No damn.
Talk like you know EVERYTHING about people's feelings. You better WOMAN UP and THINK WISER.
@@angeleye8953 TALK IS CHEAP
Why u cheat on someone u love 🙄make no damn sense
huri Mody yes you Never Cheat if you Love you Cheat if something Aint right !
It make sense, because you want to.cheating is part of love.
Well i have seen a guy being denied sex for more than 4 months. he loved his wife but then he also was frustrated. He cheated, i dont blame him. Everyone has their own opinion though
Pier Louis real talk
I truly believe that sometimes we all hurt the ones we love. On different levels.
I'm just thinking, who else can he possibly want??? You can tell by the way Beyonce looks at him, she loves him. She's beautiful and wasn't beyond being pregnant and worrying about her figure. She's successful because she's a hard worker. She's obviously forgiving. Beyonce seems to love her family and grounded. Jay-Z's wife is batting a 100. I know noone is perfect but they are perfect together. Kudos to Jay-Z for owning his part. It takes a real man to do this
I agree💯
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fight? you cheated!! plain and simple. you hafta change yourself
Kat Tari low life? HAHAHA last time i checked he’s one of the most successful male artist OF ALL TIME with a net worth of almost a billion dollars and constantly writing heart felt and political and meaningful rap songs and constantly putting music with symbolism on videos and album covers. Last time i checked being a lowlife doesnt mean being a multibillionaire with several businesses.. girl sit down, you know nothing. Get some education and try being successful and happy for yourself instead of being cold and miserable and lonely behind a screen hating on people’s amaaazing and successful happy lives, something you don’t have.
Cut him some slacs
Crystal Vanner that was the fight, changing yourself for the love of another person isn’t easy. But if you are not married you wouldn’t understand ❤️
He's trying... We all make mistakes.
You can tell the people who haven't experienced fighting to save a relationship. The man made mistakes and owned up to them. Then he changed to win her back. Because they are private it didn't play out in the tabloids. By the time the public found out about it, they had already worked through it and saved their marriage. So Beyonce doesn't need people throwing eggs at her husband now. They are stronger than ever before because of what they experienced together.
Ladies never take a cheating man back. If it was you who cheated on him, 9 times out 10 he wouldn't take you back.
Paulette Singleton To Give advice it has to be publicly factual not just personal and opinionated because everyone’s situation is different.💯
They sometimes do. When love is strong
10 /10
If she is soulmate, if she meant to him as much as he claims, he would have no problem NOT cheating.
Petar Jovancevic Really! This is ridiculous and he's stumbling a lot and doesn't sound sincere. He's trying to clean up his collateral damage. Was never a fan of him and I feel bad for Beyonce. 😔
Yes I agree, Hollywood is all about money so they even sell their soul
A guy that hurts his wife but apologizes and allow her to express herself is a trailblazer in my community 🤦🏾♀️
“Soulmate” “person I love” lmao then why would you cheat multiple times? Why is he being glorified for fighting for a relationship when it’s his own fault for being unfaithful.
I think thats why he said "you can be in love with someone...but if you don't have tools to move forward then you gonna have complications, period. And you can either address it or pretend till it blows up in some point."
I don’t think he’s being glorified. He’s a public figure accepting responsibility for something he did that millions of people knew about. I can’t imagine the humiliation of having your business out there like that. He humbled himself, acknowledged wrongdoing, and took steps to rectify. When was the last time a politician took responsibility that way? Bill Clinton, Roy Moore, John Edwards, Donald Trump etc etc could all learn a lesson.
Raice Alricson he cheated multiple times. Once is a mistake only careless people make. Multiple is knowingly doing wrong.
The double standard is alive and thriving. If she had "transgressed" would he be strong enough to forgive and move on? Is thata fk'n joke!!!
We don't know because it hasn't happened
Jay-z ain't no hero.. stop praising him smh 😞
Rishard Adams ikr these people in the music industry aren't right in the head or soul
You poor sad person, using God as a cover for the envy that eats you up.
"Illuminati conspiracist screaming Illuminati, they cant believe this much skill in human body" - JAY-Z
Preach!! The truth comes out no matter how much you try to hide it
Carol Lothian his wife ain’t no god either stop praising her
I appreciate Mr.Carter being candid. I love his statement of "The best apology is changed behavior." Thank you for sharing ur personal struggles. It's one thing to admit to ur wife you've cheated but to admit ur indiscretions to the public is honorable. GOD bless you Mr. & Mrs.Carter. Love from New York! 💛❤️💜♥️💙💚💛❤️