Parents just be aware.

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  • @WeyMama
    @WeyMama ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Glad her kid confided in her about it and understands her vigilance. Mine thinks I'm paranoid and overprotective. Nope, I've just seen her actual web history and heard enough news stories.

  • @juliacobb4355
    @juliacobb4355 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Yes, it is!! Parents need to keep and eye on their kids. My son still monitors his babies in college😉

  • @kimbermichelle3922
    @kimbermichelle3922 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Yes, predators have found a way to get to your kids. There are many cases, kids are sneaking out but aren't making it back home💔

  • @suemetzger5302
    @suemetzger5302 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I n saw a news conference last week , where they found a 15 locked in a shed guy online convinced her to meet him . She was a few states away too.

  • @kathleenbolton5272
    @kathleenbolton5272 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is so true and all so parents,teachers and Sunday school teachers please listen when a child tells you either vocally or by their manerisums when they don't feel comfortable with any other adult !!!! Talk to the child ask questions in a way that they can tell you what's up

    • @StacyBaldwin-qv5cj
      @StacyBaldwin-qv5cj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Teachers? The biggest problem we have today is the teachers. I live in a solid red state and a small town. Several of the teachers here are pushing the far left girls can be boys bs.

    • @LeticiaAnnice
      @LeticiaAnnice 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤AMEN ❤

  • @nanaof7preciousgrands115
    @nanaof7preciousgrands115 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish parents would be more careful . Sadly we have many sick people in this world ..just terrible

  • @vMifune-vj7ik
    @vMifune-vj7ik ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here from the clock, just boosting :)

  • @shariceguerry5344
    @shariceguerry5344 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was a teen when MySpace came about. A few times a month my dad used to sit down with me and have me tell him who that friend was on my list, and how I knew them. Either from church, a classmate, or a teammate. And he would glance through my messages to make sure there was no ill intentions.

  • @vera_detroit_mixologist
    @vera_detroit_mixologist ปีที่แล้ว

    Mama Tot changed her mind 🫶🏻

  • @johanncai5184
    @johanncai5184 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yessss. Thank you for spreading this message to your audience. My (almost) 8 year old wants a tiktok and snapchat. Nope. She has an app for texting on her tablet... which is connected to a parent app on my phone and I get notifications if she wants to add someone, who she's talked to, who she talks to most, and anything she tries to do that gets blocked through parental controls. I will protect her at all costs.

  • @maryjung9147
    @maryjung9147 ปีที่แล้ว

    You always look out for all of us. Thank you mama tot! ❤❤❤

  • @vorpalalice82
    @vorpalalice82 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just another reason why it is *vital* to foster a relationship with your kids that allows them to feel safe coming to you when things happen. Things *will* happen. It is impossible to stop everything. They need to know they can tell you.

  • @shirleymaki3710
    @shirleymaki3710 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    YES! It's a whole new ballgame nowadays! Thank you for bringing this topic to the forefront. Some may not be aware.
    Pitiful it even happens. Predators lurk in the shadows, so always be on alert.

    • @ophelianichols9249
      @ophelianichols9249  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It is absolutely scary the things that I have discovered relating to social media like this. If my children were younger, they wouldn’t even have a cell phone. That’s how alarm I am

  • @cheryl8466
    @cheryl8466 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband and I have had conversations about this topic. But I wish more people would come out with reminders. It happens too much.

  • @alannahrogers9113
    @alannahrogers9113 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My daughter wasn’t allowed to have a phone and social media unless I had every username and password and I checked weekly and randomly to keep her safe. She’s grown now. I only caught one in 7 years and I caught it before she ever saw it.

    • @LauraMarin2709
      @LauraMarin2709 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Should have let her know about it. Would made her understand why you did that. But absolutely fantastic work! 👏 ❤

  • @deborahbaxter9250
    @deborahbaxter9250 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So on point! Horrible! Be safe too Mamatot! 💗💗💗💗🙌🌹

  • @traceydixon1434
    @traceydixon1434 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not a parent but I have young family members I pray all the time for those I know and don't know person!lly. I'm so happy she went to her mom about it ty GOD

  • @ana-mariahernandez6600
    @ana-mariahernandez6600 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely 💯. Thanks for spreading this important 🙏

  • @tammyv9899
    @tammyv9899 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Parents need to be able to monitor their kids socials. Also kids are getting into these apps way too young.

  • @dawnendresen1014
    @dawnendresen1014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most of my kids aren't allowed to have social media. It scares me, too. I have 5 girls from 17-6, and my 17 yr old just got social media last year, and it terrifies me.

  • @amynanos7756
    @amynanos7756 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for bringing this to the attention to parents. It’s not anything they’re doing wrong, it’s the predators who have honed their skills who are to blame. However, we have to make the warning signs crystal clear to the young people. These are not their friends, they are all strangers. My mom is a hospital supervisor and her day supervisor’s daughter was taken by a man from the internet posing as a 14 year old. By the grace of God, they retrieved her seven hours later (in the biggest mall here where she managed to escape him and hide in a clothes rack until an employee found her freaked out).

  • @lindaperry1917
    @lindaperry1917 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true mama tot . Parents need to monitor their children internet . Never know who their children are talking to

  • @michelleflannery4377
    @michelleflannery4377 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yesssss I tell my son that all the time ❤

  • @angelahand6126
    @angelahand6126 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you mama tot please be safe and thank you for caring about all your tater tots and there family

  • @danasdesknc
    @danasdesknc ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s scary! I learned a lot of help information from the Lantern Project

  • @janiceh4521
    @janiceh4521 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen! All children but social media site have age requirements and soo many parents allow kids to have it anyway bc all the other kids do. And while the age of 14 doesn’t mean they are safe it has given them and parents time to learn and work towards safety and openness between them. I know it’s supposed to be ok for kids to have privacy but not on social media until they are adults and that doesn’t protect them. Be vigilant for your kids and your friends kids. Parents speak up when you question something, even if your kids will be mad, upset at the end of the day better safe than sorry. It’s sad that there are people who have the intent to harm mentally physically or emotionally but it is the way of the world. Be safe!

  • @RootbeerMuncher
    @RootbeerMuncher ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well said. Good job

  • @kandeekay4
    @kandeekay4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So many predators out there, pretending to be other children or teens , sweet talking these children as if they’re their friends. Happened to my 9 yr old nephew, put a damn stop to that asap. Be careful what/who you believe out there behind a keyboard.

  • @pamelamaloy9778
    @pamelamaloy9778 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you MamaTot,We love you❣️🥰

  • @bayouqueenthecrazytarotlady
    @bayouqueenthecrazytarotlady ปีที่แล้ว

    I just adore you...❤ your so amazing

  • @jo4vt
    @jo4vt ปีที่แล้ว

    Ugh, you are so right.

  • @kristijones2334
    @kristijones2334 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so lucky my kids knew what to do if this happened. It's so scary in today's society. Plus the cyber bullying is horrible. It's sad 😔!

  • @TheHughes5
    @TheHughes5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People are sick these days, parents need to pay attention, most parents these days don't care and that's the sad part

  • @kuuleigarcia1490
    @kuuleigarcia1490 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes and not only on social media. My 15 yr. old has phone and his been getting messages by random people. And he's been letting me see it and I told him not to respond. This world is getting so scary 😨.

  • @julietteh39
    @julietteh39 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!

  • @cathyd.williamssaltlight5373
    @cathyd.williamssaltlight5373 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    #truth🎉

  • @kimberlycollins541
    @kimberlycollins541 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gurl! ❤ This is FACTS. #keepeyeson themyounginsandtheirscreens

  • @CherrrrBear
    @CherrrrBear 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Preach ❤

  • @jackieyoungblood0777
    @jackieyoungblood0777 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're absolutely Right, I worry about my Granddaughter who's only 12 yrs old

  • @djy1962
    @djy1962 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mama Tot public service announcement!

  • @judyspeckin5950
    @judyspeckin5950 ปีที่แล้ว

    The same thing happen to my grandson theough live video games

  • @dotem2807
    @dotem2807 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you mama tot

  • @hannahshepherd4302
    @hannahshepherd4302 ปีที่แล้ว

    Scary but so accurate

  • @amandaburton5676
    @amandaburton5676 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im 70th commenter but had to bc the seriousness of this video love ya mama tot

  • @tammybushnell6920
    @tammybushnell6920 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Even games (for example, Yahtzee) can have message features that are buried several layers deep in the menu. A friend’s kid got caught up messaging a young, sweet, nice, interesting teen who was actually a 70+ yo former inmate with pedo charges. Plans to meet were in progress!!!!!

  • @leroybrown7757
    @leroybrown7757 ปีที่แล้ว

    today's internet and social media world is SO very different than the world I grew up in or even raised my daughter in
    not trying to tell any how to parent, but..and it's a huge "but" we all need to be more restrictive and hyper aware about how & what our babies consume (.)
    ☮️&🌱's
    -tracee (LeRoy's wife)

    • @ophelianichols9249
      @ophelianichols9249  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely. I am on high alert right now and have been for quite a few months.

  • @ScienceMom11
    @ScienceMom11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Parents who put their minor children on social media should be put away for child abuse.

  • @aprilh7554
    @aprilh7554 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'M NOT JUDGING ANYONE THIS IS JUST WHAT WORKED FOR US❣️❣️
    That's why my kid's didn't have any social media until they were 18, nor did they have cell phones. This world has and always been sick. I trust nobody 💯 .

    • @nlwww
      @nlwww ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you! I’ll be doing the same with my kids. I’m not a strict parent at all but absolutely no social media/no phones in my household!!

  • @ingodwetrust9332
    @ingodwetrust9332 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely!

  • @hakes2
    @hakes2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just!!hopefully not to late to realize people can be evil and think it's funny with no remorse..something like that, watch those youngsters, they remember everything

  • @lisawhitten8400
    @lisawhitten8400 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you just pray for me. I've have a very toxic relationship with my mom. She literally told me she hates me and am just a horrible daughter. Why does my mom could actually hate something she b irthed. Please help me

  • @LauraMarin2709
    @LauraMarin2709 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Unfortunately... the online world is much more dangerous than the one on the street. Just because it is literally 99% impossible to find the aggressor

  • @lynnallen866
    @lynnallen866 ปีที่แล้ว

    For sure !!

  • @peaches4044
    @peaches4044 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely. Sad

  • @JoyceHancock-z4h
    @JoyceHancock-z4h ปีที่แล้ว

    Agree💯💯💯

  • @mandyclark3043
    @mandyclark3043 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes it really is. It's really scary

  • @snepsneppy-ey5zj
    @snepsneppy-ey5zj ปีที่แล้ว +7

    LOLOLOL after you bully a 16 year old girl??? You’re insane.

    • @coolcookie-bf2be
      @coolcookie-bf2be ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not only make a whole video with a 16 year old girls username attached. She keeps the 16 year olds account visible so her 11.3 million followers know who she is. Her followers have sent that poor girl all kinds of nasty grams and Ophelia has done nothing. She just got soooo upset cause someone called her annoying. Boohoooo. So now a 16 year old has been harassed for 48 hours because of Ophelia posting a video.
      Disgusting, honestly.

    • @exposingphonies9054
      @exposingphonies9054 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!! Safety of minors on the internet is very important!! But, how about the safety of the 16 year old that your tater twats are telling to unalive herself because of YOU, Ophelia?

    • @emilymcgee5216
      @emilymcgee5216 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh and I keep seeing them use the excuse “16 is old enough to learn.” REALLY??? Were you never 16!? Teens are dumb in general but even then, all she said was potato salad was annoying. My 5 year old calls me annoying. Am I supposed to sic my 14 followers on her for doing so? Y’all are fucking insane and evil. GROW THE FUCK UP.

  • @jamiestroleny3158
    @jamiestroleny3158 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate it but I also don’t need some random person telling me how to parent my kid. If people care they will pay attention. They don’t need some social media person telling them how to protect their children

  • @ashelythompson6204
    @ashelythompson6204 ปีที่แล้ว

    This happens everyday these people prey on children being innocent and wanting to know about life.

  • @Metalmama64
    @Metalmama64 ปีที่แล้ว

    It scary for everyone🫂❤️🙏

  • @Jp-312.
    @Jp-312. ปีที่แล้ว

    Ya parents be aware what TH-cam creators support other dangerous creators... Jessica Kent

  • @aprilinalabama9074
    @aprilinalabama9074 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's scary 😳🙏

  • @lCdGarcia
    @lCdGarcia ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes

  • @ennawarner9923
    @ennawarner9923 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And it was a straight man, not a drag queen hitting up the child

  • @candice5035
    @candice5035 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do not let my kids have social media I asked them if they want one after I told them the dangers and they said no they will stick to what I have set up my kids are 16,11,8 all boys

  • @starlinguk
    @starlinguk ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They need to teach internet safety at school.

  • @Delulubooklover
    @Delulubooklover 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is dangerous for kids it 100% is

  • @RavennaRose928
    @RavennaRose928 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I didnt tell my parents when someone threatened to r*pe me because I knew I would get in trouble. I would have been blamed for being on MySpace. Then they would have not let me get back on it. Lol I was only 15

    • @emmasarge4057
      @emmasarge4057 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This isn't funny at all.

    • @RavennaRose928
      @RavennaRose928 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@emmasarge4057 that's just how it was back in the day.

    • @emmasarge4330
      @emmasarge4330 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RavennaRose928 It hurts to know that you couldn't tell your parents about the creep who threatened you. Whoever that was should have been found and prosecuted.

    • @RavennaRose928
      @RavennaRose928 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@emmasarge4330 it doesn't bother me anymore. Actually being r*ped was a whole lot worse. Took me almost ten years to tell my parents. But it doesn't bother me. I told a friend that I don't feel traumatized by it and she said it a coping mechanism. It only bothers me that my parents don't believe me because I'm not traumatized.

  • @Running.addict
    @Running.addict ปีที่แล้ว

    How about this one: my Facebook was hacked. The person who has control of MY account ALSO has control over MY DAUGHTER'S KIDS MESSENGER. Not only that but they ALSO have access to her contacts. I have been trying (since July) to get a hold of Facebook. I have been reporting my page and reporting for child safety etc. Do you know what FACEBOOK @meta does? They spend a report to THE PARENT. That means the person who hacked my account is getting the notifications regarding THAT person having access to MY CHILD AND HER FRIENDS.

  • @chunkyhoey8649
    @chunkyhoey8649 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's true.