I love his mentality! There is so few people with his mindset and it’s so appreciated when guys like him actually listen to girls and state their opinions based on both sides. They don’t make it all about them. He has the mindset of a true man and not a little boy who’s disgusted by everything.💙
You go! At the rate I’m going, I’ll probably be in the same boat by the time I’m 24. It doesn’t bother me though. Absolutely don’t be embarrassed. It can be something to be proud of.
what a special friendship you guys share - reminds me of my guy bestie and I!! thank you for your honesty and openness, love your channel and your bright vibes
Uh Joy, you are so so underrated. You deserve the world, girl. 🌍 It's just so inspiring to see a confident, honest and happy young woman who creates content on TH-cam not to please her audience but whenever she feels like it and whatever she wants to. I love how you just bring joy into all our lives, I mean you can clearly see that in the comments 🤗 Keep it going ❤️
blueberries all the way- gosh the maturity coming out of this conversation is great. Well done for being open, kind and very honest people. Showing younger people that communication is the centre of a relationship even before sex. So great!
Though I’m older then you guys (in my 30’s) with 3 teenage kids, I love watching these videos. You guys have such great conversations about these topics. I wish there was stuff like this out when I was younger, and glad my kids are growing up with more knowledge and perspective on relationships than I did. * also, I meant to mention that even though I’m older, hearing these questions and your answers/perspectives is still helpful to me
this channel has become genuinely therapeutic to me over the past few weeks. thank you joy for the immaculate vibes !!!! sending you and jahvis all the love
I rlly like how u guys just chat with us like we r frds, giving me a feeling that the ways n content u guys talked r just just for filming a TH-cam video but a deep talk session with us🥺💖💖
you just made everyone’s day better by uploading! love these videos please continue to make them in the future 💗 hope you have a beautiful day and you look stunning too 🥰
🫐 I am older than you both but I am still so inspired by your open and honest communication. Your friendship is one to cherish. Wishing you well from NYC.
6:25 So true. I've never been in a relationship, and I could tell you. Early in my life, I developed the philosophy that "why wouldn't you criticize me? It's ok to criticize, just make sure you're polite in the process." You have to be direct. In any relationship, be direct. Imagine a couple, they dance around their feeling for each other as if they're high schoolers crushing on each other except they are romantically dating. If you have a high EQ, you just cringed at that thought. That's because who would care about this hiding emotions when you're already dating. If you're dating, I guarantee that your partner wants to hear that you love them. Show them your affection and let out that repressed hopeless romantic within yourself. It will work wonders for your love life. Communicate, and be direct.
When Jahvis says “I thought I knew what love was…” and that whole interaction 😭💀 felt thaaattt! I feel like that’s just the awkward 20-25 roller coaster though
Thank you for you channel. Honestly, it’s so heartwarming and informative at the same time. It’s hard nowadays to see young people being so open minded and that respectful towards other people and their intimate lives. I’m so glad i found your content, it has helped me so much. Keep being you❤️ Lots of love from Brazil🇧🇷
I appreciate the point that starting a new relationship can be equally scary or more scary than the end of a relationship... Thx for being berry-best-friend goals and sharing your friendship with us all! ❤❤❤
about 🫐: something I maybe want to add is that although blue balls are real and apparently pretty uncomfortable (I'm sorry for that😅), they don't mean that the guys sexual partner is obliged to make him finish. Blue balls can be an issue to pressure girls and women to let the guy or man finish or continue in a sexual activity they maybe don't want to continue for the sake of him not experiencing blue balls. Maybe keep that in mind. It's uncomfortable to experience and not very pleasant but it's never a reason to keep going even if it's unwanted. Blue balls are not deadly and also he can maybe finish off himself or there are plenty other ways to either evade blue balls otherwise or to just accept that they sometimes occur. lots of love from switzerland, thank you so much for the video💕
As a guy I totally agree. I sometimes experienced this when after a lot of buildup (hours of making out) and then driving the girl home, it would hurt like hell (like a hard kick in the nuts). But coming home you finish off yourself and everything is back to normal. In no way it should be a reason to go further. Hell, I even got this after letting the girl climax. Even then it doesnt mean she owns something.
you guys need a podcast, honestly. There are so many reasons to do it!! It would be such a healthy and positive impact on younger generations (or uneducated people actually), your voices and way of talking make me feel like home and I am from Spain so idk why hahaha maybe it's the way that you guys are so respectful towards eachother, not judgemental at all, communicate so well but chill and relaxed at the same time. Just a blessing, for real
love for me is a decision. everything else is attraction (a feeling), that disappears. you cannot feel angry your whole life, but you can decide to be. anyone get that?
To the question if being a virgin changes anything: I‘d just like to add that sex really isn‘t a black or white thing anyways. So, it‘s not like you‘ve done this technique and boom you are a different/„experienced“ person. There are so many things you basically have to figure out from the start when you are with a new partner. Or you try something and realise it‘s not for you or not for you and your partner in that combination. Every couple figures things out constantly and learns what works and what doesn‘t (sexually and non-sexually). So don’t feel bad if you try anything and communicate not liking it to your partner. It is just the same whether you have been with a partner before or not. Obviously though it‘s important for a partner who has been intimate with people before to go slowly and check even more carefully if the other person is confident with what your doing as jahvis said. Great video by the way :) always great to hear thoughts from other people!
I absolutely love your channel, it's so comforting and always cheers me up, I feel super grateful I found it the other day. And I just know I'm going to watch every new video of yours, as I already binge watched all your videos. ♡
I so wish I could hang out with you two! I love that you have these conversations, especially for those who don't have people they can comfortably talk to about sex and relationships!
I'm super glad for TH-cam recommendations, I'm literally bingeing your videos😁. Thank you for your honesty and your content is dope and amazingly wholesome, on getting a tesla great job👏👏👏
Wow, I very recently discovered your channel & I really love how you speak your mind and just say things as they are. You seem so down to earth and don’t take things to seriously. This world needs more people like you ♥️💙🫐
Hi Joy! I have a video idea, can you talk about how you make guy friends? I’ve watch your videos with guys and I just love how you guys bond and interact. I feel like for some girls it’s hard to make guy friends but I think it’s really important to these kind of relationships! Just an idea! Love you!💛🫐
aw I love your videos so so much! the way you guys talk about uncomfortable topics really helps to normalize this kind of discussion and makes me feel less awkward talking to my friends about these things. thank you guys! ♥ (my computer doesn't have a blueberry emoji so here are some grapes instead :3 )🍇
![[#2024MAMA] G-DRAGON - 무제(Untitled, 2014)+POWER+HOME SWEET HOME+뱅뱅뱅+FANTASTIC BABY | Mnet 241123 방송](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/Ox29z5Nf1Uk/mqdefault.jpg)
I love his mentality! There is so few people with his mindset and it’s so appreciated when guys like him actually listen to girls and state their opinions based on both sides. They don’t make it all about them. He has the mindset of a true man and not a little boy who’s disgusted by everything.💙
❤️❤️
24 here, still a virigin and still ain't had a first kiss. So if anyone young people here are embarrassed don't be. Its more common than you think x
You go! At the rate I’m going, I’ll probably be in the same boat by the time I’m 24. It doesn’t bother me though. Absolutely don’t be embarrassed. It can be something to be proud of.
Agreed
23 same, and feels good not giving that, to someone that don't really cares about you
23 and same girl!!
21 same
I can't exaggerate this enough but your channel is just a blessing ❤️
🥺🥺🥺
Agreeee
What a lovely boy. He really considers what you ask him and explains himself so well 💗
💜💜
what a special friendship you guys share - reminds me of my guy bestie and I!! thank you for your honesty and openness, love your channel and your bright vibes
🍓 when you don't have a blueb emoji
❤️❤️❤️
Uh Joy, you are so so underrated. You deserve the world, girl. 🌍 It's just so inspiring to see a confident, honest and happy young woman who creates content on TH-cam not to please her audience but whenever she feels like it and whatever she wants to. I love how you just bring joy into all our lives, I mean you can clearly see that in the comments 🤗 Keep it going ❤️
🥺🥺🥺
blueberries all the way- gosh the maturity coming out of this conversation is great. Well done for being open, kind and very honest people. Showing younger people that communication is the centre of a relationship even before sex. So great!
If y'all had a podcast I would listen to every moment 🥺 I love hearing you guys talk
15:38 i like his mind. "masculine and feminine self" he worded it so well🥰he is beautiful inside and out
Though I’m older then you guys (in my 30’s) with 3 teenage kids, I love watching these videos. You guys have such great conversations about these topics.
I wish there was stuff like this out when I was younger, and glad my kids are growing up with more knowledge and perspective on relationships than I did.
* also, I meant to mention that even though I’m older, hearing these questions and your answers/perspectives is still helpful to me
🌹❤️🥰
Blueberries.
I love how you guys are so comfortable and open with each other. Love the chemistry
his facepalms are the cutest thing ever. 😂
Joyish has become my favorite person on youtube, i wish more people could find this channel.
this channel has become genuinely therapeutic to me over the past few weeks. thank you joy for the immaculate vibes !!!! sending you and jahvis all the love
I rlly like how u guys just chat with us like we r frds, giving me a feeling that the ways n content u guys talked r just just for filming a TH-cam video but a deep talk session with us🥺💖💖
ok, im literally so in love. where do i find a guy like jahvis?!
you just made everyone’s day better by uploading! love these videos please continue to make them in the future 💗 hope you have a beautiful day and you look stunning too 🥰
💓💖💖💓
JAHVIS IS SO NICE, LIKE HOW
love your honestly! this friendship is so pure as well. definitely one of my favourite type of vids xx
🫐 I am older than you both but I am still so inspired by your open and honest communication. Your friendship is one to cherish. Wishing you well from NYC.
I discovered your channel a week ago and now I’m obsessed
Joy you've done it again!! A fantastic video, that brought me only pure joy.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
How is Jahvis literally the most perfect guy on earth 😍
I‘ve been watching your channel for two years or more now and I just love your videos Joy😘😘
♥♥
6:25
So true. I've never been in a relationship, and I could tell you. Early in my life, I developed the philosophy that "why wouldn't you criticize me? It's ok to criticize, just make sure you're polite in the process."
You have to be direct. In any relationship, be direct. Imagine a couple, they dance around their feeling for each other as if they're high schoolers crushing on each other except they are romantically dating.
If you have a high EQ, you just cringed at that thought. That's because who would care about this hiding emotions when you're already dating. If you're dating, I guarantee that your partner wants to hear that you love them. Show them your affection and let out that repressed hopeless romantic within yourself. It will work wonders for your love life.
Communicate, and be direct.
When Jahvis says “I thought I knew what love was…” and that whole interaction 😭💀 felt thaaattt! I feel like that’s just the awkward 20-25 roller coaster though
I love how honest Jarvis was through out the entire video
You two are perfection! Literally the coolest, sweetest humans. Love this friendship and love these videos so much! ❤️❤️
Joy your channel is amazing and so inspiring!!
"The world revolves around me" 😂😂❤️
- Jahvis Loveday (2021)
Exactly right! ;)
Thank you for you channel. Honestly, it’s so heartwarming and informative at the same time. It’s hard nowadays to see young people being so open minded and that respectful towards other people and their intimate lives. I’m so glad i found your content, it has helped me so much. Keep being you❤️ Lots of love from Brazil🇧🇷
i just subscribed because your personality is just *chef’s kiss*
idk why but I just LOVE this!! it’s so educational and I love to hear you guys’ perspective on these topics💕
I'm so happy, every time i see Joy posts a new video ! ❤🤗
I appreciate the point that starting a new relationship can be equally scary or more scary than the end of a relationship... Thx for being berry-best-friend goals and sharing your friendship with us all! ❤❤❤
I've been waiting forever for this video!! You guys give off the best vibes and I'm so beyond excited to watch ahhh
I love both of you a lot. I found your channel 1 month ago and I'm obsessed since then. can't wait to see more Jahvis and Joy content.
Literally obsessed with your channel 😭🥺😻
I might get hated for this, but she is so in love with that dude.
about 🫐: something I maybe want to add is that although blue balls are real and apparently pretty uncomfortable (I'm sorry for that😅), they don't mean that the guys sexual partner is obliged to make him finish. Blue balls can be an issue to pressure girls and women to let the guy or man finish or continue in a sexual activity they maybe don't want to continue for the sake of him not experiencing blue balls. Maybe keep that in mind. It's uncomfortable to experience and not very pleasant but it's never a reason to keep going even if it's unwanted. Blue balls are not deadly and also he can maybe finish off himself or there are plenty other ways to either evade blue balls otherwise or to just accept that they sometimes occur.
lots of love from switzerland, thank you so much for the video💕
Very well said and very important ❤️❤️
Exactly right! I forgot to mention this so thankyou
yesss thank youu!
so truu
and hi fellow swiss ^^
As a guy I totally agree. I sometimes experienced this when after a lot of buildup (hours of making out) and then driving the girl home, it would hurt like hell (like a hard kick in the nuts).
But coming home you finish off yourself and everything is back to normal. In no way it should be a reason to go further. Hell, I even got this after letting the girl climax. Even then it doesnt mean she owns something.
@@sjoerdgersonius1914 thanks also for such a respectful perspective and your insight as a guy! groeten naar nederland, am I right?:)
you guys need a podcast, honestly. There are so many reasons to do it!! It would be such a healthy and positive impact on younger generations (or uneducated people actually), your voices and way of talking make me feel like home and I am from Spain so idk why hahaha maybe it's the way that you guys are so respectful towards eachother, not judgemental at all, communicate so well but chill and relaxed at the same time. Just a blessing, for real
Watched a couple of similar videos and always felt these kids need a mature/experienced person's perspective but loved Javi here
ahhh thank u joy for posting. I'm stuck in lockdown and this has really made my night!!
This was such a great video!!! Love the mutual respect you have for each other 🫐
Joy's videos brings us joy!🥰❤
This conversation needs to be had in high schools in the U.S.! You both seem like awesome people!!
We loooove Jahvis 😍 and your videos are always a blessing for everyone!!!
love for me is a decision. everything else is attraction (a feeling), that disappears. you cannot feel angry your whole life, but you can decide to be. anyone get that?
😍
Thanks for sharing so much! Being open in such a way is a true gem! This is my first vid in your youtube and i already love you guys! Sending love!
To the question if being a virgin changes anything: I‘d just like to add that sex really isn‘t a black or white thing anyways. So, it‘s not like you‘ve done this technique and boom you are a different/„experienced“ person. There are so many things you basically have to figure out from the start when you are with a new partner. Or you try something and realise it‘s not for you or not for you and your partner in that combination. Every couple figures things out constantly and learns what works and what doesn‘t (sexually and non-sexually). So don’t feel bad if you try anything and communicate not liking it to your partner. It is just the same whether you have been with a partner before or not. Obviously though it‘s important for a partner who has been intimate with people before to go slowly and check even more carefully if the other person is confident with what your doing as jahvis said. Great video by the way :) always great to hear thoughts from other people!
thank you two for putting this amazing video into the world
no bc i love this youtube channel sm omg
Thank You so much guys! 🫐🫐 Please do more videos together ☺️
your friendship is amazing! you both comfort me so much! much love from brazil
Another amazing video!! Ily Joyy 💜
I absolutely love your channel, it's so comforting and always cheers me up, I feel super grateful I found it the other day. And I just know I'm going to watch every new video of yours, as I already binge watched all your videos. ♡
I don’t know much, but I gotta say this video is a breath of fresh air. Thank you guys!!! 🫐🫐🫐
recently discovered ur channel last week and i’ve watched like twenty videos,, i love ur personality sm
You’re abele to make content that is so relatable, helpful and so heartfelt. 💓
my gurus out here! i love this video joy🥺💓🍒
Jahvis is honestly just the best guy!!♡ great video Joy🤍 xxx
Jahvis’s personality is it👏🏼I’ve watched your videos for a couple yrs, and I’m still not over it hahha
Love you Joy!! ❤️
another candid conversation with Jahvis well done 👍
you need to start a podcast together!!!
Can we get more of this but also with the other guy too please
I so wish I could hang out with you two! I love that you have these conversations, especially for those who don't have people they can comfortably talk to about sex and relationships!
I'm super glad for TH-cam recommendations, I'm literally bingeing your videos😁. Thank you for your honesty and your content is dope and amazingly wholesome, on getting a tesla great job👏👏👏
watching you both from Portugal! Found your channel 2 weeks ago and it’s been a really nice surprise 🫐
"oh i really hope my sisters aren't watching this" lmao 😂 i really love these two pretty chaotic besties ❤️
hahaha
love you both so much!!!! ahhhhh you guys are the best🫐❤️💗💕
Finally getting to watch the video
I love ya'll so much
Cuties💓
Y'all are so positive and adorable ❤️ love y'all.
You are so underrated Joy!🥺💖
Wow, I very recently discovered your channel & I really love how you speak your mind and just say things as they are. You seem so down to earth and don’t take things to seriously. This world needs more people like you ♥️💙🫐
You both are the cutest!!! 🫐 I want a friendship like this!
Wholesome video, totally feeling your friendship vibes, relaxed and comfy and trusted. 🧡💚
Absolutely amazing video Joy, I love you so much ❤️❤️
I wish more men was like him
Cannot get over how much I love your channel ! ♥️
🫐🫐!! this was so fun. I love your energy!! please get a podcast ^^
Coming 🥰🥰
Uhh the best way to start the day 😍🥳
I love you so much joy!! ❤️❤️❤️
love you guys!!❤🥰
This was really interesting and helpful. And u guys have great energy 🫐
Ok but i am obsessed with you two!!!!!!!!!! ♥️
MY FAVOURITE DUO
He’s so cute I can’t😍😍
Hi Joy! I have a video idea, can you talk about how you make guy friends? I’ve watch your videos with guys and I just love how you guys bond and interact. I feel like for some girls it’s hard to make guy friends but I think it’s really important to these kind of relationships! Just an idea! Love you!💛🫐
Joy you should start a podcast!!
This video just made my day🥰
Love you guys! 🫐💙
Hi Joy! Hope your day is going well queen :)
The best 27 mins of my life ❤️
🥰💕❤️
Having a bad day but here for some morning JOY😊
Can we just take a moment to appreciate jahvis’s side profile? He looks like a god i think I’m in love
"confidence is attractive"
* Me with crippling anxiety and social anxiety * 👁️👄👁️
IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE!! I Love you both so much. Whenever you two film it’s like magic and my day is made ❤️❤️❤️ SENDING LOVE UR WAY JOY
Jahvis and Joy podcast? 👀🫐
I love you both!! So sweet 💕
aw I love your videos so so much! the way you guys talk about uncomfortable topics really helps to normalize this kind of discussion and makes me feel less awkward talking to my friends about these things. thank you guys! ♥ (my computer doesn't have a blueberry emoji so here are some grapes instead :3 )🍇
you guys are sooo young yet so many experience already😆