Let me say something about your wife … SHE IS AMAZING !!! She lets her kids be around even when she isn’t welcome. Talk about selflessness… that’s the definition of love. She’s Amazing
@@CeeBella11 I am glad my parents never did this. I am in my 40s and from an interracial family and I just don't understand. My dad would not go if my mum was not included. My spouse is Korean and my in-laws know that if I am excluded than so is my spouse. I just cannot comprehend this.
@@CeeBella11 I agree they have to accept their mother… kids will sense they’re behavior and asked questions. If they keep this up along down the road as the kids get older it may not go well and they will wise up… I know it take a process but the hate of letting it go is with the girls mother.. that’s the test there.
Proud of you Justin for never giving up and Sarah for being so understanding and humble even when not included. That is a true mother and partner putting yourself aside for children. Congratulations to the family.
I pray this doesn’t do deep psychological damage to Sarah. It’s a very toxic and unhealthy dynamic. Good on you for trying Justin, but I truly empathize with Sarah. Imagine the sweetest and purest spirit being disliked only for the shade of your skin. It makes me wonder if they would have ever changed had the children turned out darker. These kids barely look multiracial. All the best!
I think Sarah is not the only one who has suffered here. It must have been really hard for Justin himself to be rejected by his own parents and sister for all those years.
@@ivieta9634 If you have children, I feel sorry for them with the natural hate nature you display, because the world was not built to revolve around your conditional type of "love" that your children would have to live in without you. People like you, love with conditions while teaching your children to grow up to love with conditions.
@@lindc1070 I understand well the context. It’s a sad illustration of the weakness in being too homogenous. It leaves you in the dark ages with antiquated beliefs. Diversity actually strengthens your mind and literally your genetics.
@@micro-uhgresh-uhnn it isnt " antiquated" , depends which part of the world you are from. So many other parts of the world are homogeneous too, you just dont know it as you havent been there and perhaps live in a multi cultural environment. The fact is many Homogeneous societies do very well. Just look at Japan. I dont blame them for not wanting foreign elements coming in to change what they have, especially what they may deem as undesirable. The fact is Asians dont think well of cultures that arent as developed or progressive. Even another Asian culture. E.g Koreans and Japanese dont think well of Filippinos because many of them work as domestic maids in their countries, also Taiwan, Hong Kong and Singapore. As for Africans, their culturd is very different. E.g in this case their daughter in law's father practised polygamy and is muslim, that is why her parents divorced. Any Asian family would not look favourably at such a background. However, I do think they should give her the benefit of the doubt as she is trying very hard. It seems to me they are not well educated and exposed despite moving to a western country. Such people find it harder to accept outsiders.
@@ameliesayshola8854 it depends how you define Racism. Why are people of some races so keen to marry outside your race? Is it vecause you perceive other races as better?Japan would not be Japan if they had mixed with any other race even East Asian. I am not Japanese but I can see how it has worked so well for them. The fact is some races are more successful than others. We all have different cultures and values. This would be diluted by " mixing". Am not against mixed marriages per se but I do think some generalusations about race are true. Dont run away from facts. Some thingz like polygamy or female circumcision are ok in some cultures but not others. Some cultures place more emphasis on multi generational living together in family, education etc. Outsiders often dont understabd, question and cause problems. Happens in marriages between whites and Asians too. Call it Racism if you want but these make mixed marriages complicated.
I'm happy for that, but this only happen when you have a SON? They don't even speak for RESPECT with YOUR WIFE and calling her ugly things for her race, they even don't want to see your DAUGHTERS before.. The next time you have to tell your parents MY DAUGHTERS WILL COME WITH HER MOM.. This is the condition.. She is the mother and she DESERVE RESPECT!!!
I agree 💯 I think it's cruel and disrespectful to leave your wife out. If those kids had different physical features they would not be excepted. I think racism is so senseless. We all have the same needs. If the good Lord wanted this differently it would be so. Oh yea, where's your sister.😮
I don't like the racist grandma, imagine Sabrina or SHANELLE married their love of their life and the mom of the husband treat them like this woman treat to Sarah... That kind of behavior I'd not good example to the kids. I hope to see Justin give Sarah the place SHE DESERVE.
All in good time folks. Baby steps. It may happen soon. The one thing a pregnant woman DOES NOT need towards birth time is a stressful meeting like that one. I would guess that the reason they suddenly want to meet the girls is because they sense that Justin's Dad is quite ill and time is running out. Sarah should actually postpone meeting them until she has recovered from birth and the baby has acquired more immunity. Her and baby's health comes first.
I feel sad that his wife is still out of the picture in their own daughters celebrations - but hopefully they will gradually start to soften towards her as well. It was really sweet seeing the girls with their grandma
@@janvdb9258 I’m going to hope that eventually through the children they will change their view towards Sarah as well - and if they do not - I hope Justin protects his wife above all
@@swordchild0013 it's been a while...sorry but the mom is racist to her core and needs to get over her awful ugly self. Why come to Canada if youre going to bring your hate with you?
@@swordchild0013 racism is purely emotional and not logical. They feel because the kids look Korean they can ignore Sarah. I know what it’s like to feel like my mom was the black sheep and my dad’s family disrespecting her. It was painful. Justin needs to protect his family
My heart is broken for Sarah. Because Justin I feel you don’t take how this makes her feel and the possible damage you’re doing to her. I’m sorry I would NOT let my children continue to go places I AM NOT welcome. I’m so hurt for her :/
As a grandparent of 5, my heart is so FULL that your parents are getting to know their grandchildren before it is too late. All people must know that our time here is too short to miss any beautiful moments ❤ Thank God!
Happy to hear they bonding with the grandbabies🥰. But I feel so sad for Sarah, such a beautiful person inside and out, who would not love her and accept her?? Next time you should say my wife will come with the kids or not at all 🥲
There's a lightness in Justin I haven't seen before. His parents and sister were always on his mind and it weighed heavily on him. Now they have initiated contact he is brighter in spirit. I'm interested to see the video of his contact with his sister. I'm happy that they've made this effort to see the girls but until they make an equal and sincere effort with Sarah, I cannot fully commit to the celebration.
I feel the same. It's definitely a step in the right direction, though. I'm looking forward to hearing about his interaction with his sister, too. From what Justin has told us about her, she sounds almost worse than his mom. And idk how to say that in a nice way, unfortunately. It's just sad that she doesn't seem to care about her own brother at all.
So true as the children are half of Sarah too… and especially as the children look 100% Korean …. It’s not right that the grandparents may even attempt to dismiss the children’s African or philipino heritage because it’s not obvious ….I can never understand how someone can accept the children and not the parents….
This brought tears to my eyes. I have a similar situation with my in-laws. It’s not a racial issue but the fact I was a divorced single mother when my husband married me. My husband adopted my daughter and we then had 2 more kids . My in-laws always treated my oldest differently and they also treated my youngest differently too because he looks just like me. My middle daughter was doted on because she was a spitting image of her father. We tried for several years until it started taking a tremendous toll on our children emotionally . We sought professional help to handle the situation. As of right now we don’t have contact because of how toxic it became. I would have loved for my children to have loving grandparents who at least tried, even a little bit😔. I pray that your parents will become loving the loving grandparents that children and wife deserve 🙏
I'm glad you are rebuilding your relationship with your parents...but for now, I am sending so many hugs to Sarah for how she has supported this. Your wife is so amazing!
From Ireland:So happy your parents have accepted your little girls.It's a big first step.Your parents are getting older and having you back in their life must mean a lot to them.
I can’t believe that his mother can be so ignorant yet so loving to the children. The children are half of their mother. If not more with the time that goes into being such a great mother!
Sooooo happy to see your parents opening up to know their grandchildren, my heart just melted watching the girls interacting with them. I will keep your father in prayer 🙏🏽. Looking forward to your next blog.
I'm so glad that your parents are getting to know their grandchildren. It seem like they were having such a good time with the girls. I hope your dad's operation goes well.
I am happy that you are happy about seeing your parents meeting your children but I hope that your mom doesn’t share her negativity about kid’s mom with kids. So that they feel bad about who and what they are. Racism is a disease that can spread and have different negative effects to each victim. 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽 Prayers go out to your dad for good health.
They don’t hate the mom…they don’t know her. They hate the color of her skin, which is interesting as they live in a country where a certain percentage of the populace hates the color of their skin and the fact that they are emigrants. Racism is ignorance, imagine the wonderful daughter-in-law they could have.
A couple of thoughts. First off, glad to hear Justin’s dad doesn’t have cancer, or at least supposedly doesn’t. I hope the surgery went ok and he’s recovering well. Second, I’m glad to see a thawing somewhat of Grandma and Grandpa and the girls are slowly getting to know their grandparents. However Sarah being excluded is a huge issue. As the girls get older, they’re going to start asking why mom can’t come and they will eventually realize it’s because Sarah is black. And I dunno how Justin and Sarah plan to handle that but Grandma shouldn’t be surprised if the girls decide they want nothing to do with her as they get older. As for Justin’s sister, I have no idea what her issue is but she doesn’t sound like someone who needs to be around her nieces.
@@coco-cliveasmrgenealogy6171 This is not correct. Her father is Sudanese (so he is black) and her mom is from the Philippines. It’s the reason why they use the word Blasian in so many of their videos: Black + Asian. Justin’s and Sarah’s kids are one quarter Sudanese. Justin’s mom has not wanted to meet Sarah because she is biracial and was not interested in meeting her grandchildren until recently because of Sarah’s Sudanese heritage (aka being the wrong skin color). Watch their earlier videos, they explain all this. 🙂
I cant lie I haven't watched you guys in some time 😬 Just busy with a new house, grand kids..ETC. BUT this made me tear up as well as made my day . Justin im so very happy your parents are celebrating your beautiful babies special day, I think deep down I knew they would come around. Im raising my 5 y/O Grand Daughter nothing makes me happier it's hard work but the reward is everything to me. Love your beautiful family 🥰 Sarah is simply amazing.
I think your baby steps with your parents are working well. In previous videos your father absolutely refused to go to the doctor. After meeting his grandkids not only did he go to the doctor but he is doing follow up appointments. I think being with you and his grandkids might be making him want to be around longer. That’s beautiful❤️😢
I’m very proud of you and your wife for not giving up and having patience with the grandparents. This new relationship with the grandchildren will give the father a reason to live. Keep it up!
They had so many Chances and never took one of them and now when Justin and Sarah having a baby boy they suddenly changed their mind and their way of thinking? And if so...why is Sarah not welcomed? She is Justins love,the mother of the children and obviously a very nice person. I feel very sorry for her and I don't think it's ok at all
I’m feeling thankful this morning. Years ago when your wife was pregnant with your first child I ran across your channel. I was saddened by the stories of your parents lack of acceptance and involvement. But I believed they would eventually come around. I wrote messages in the comment section of your videos expressing my empathy, and attempting to encourage you. The last video I recall was when you sent your father a photo album of pictures of your first child. Now all these years later on a Sunday morning, TH-cam recommended this video to me. In this video I learned you have been blessed with 2 more children and I had the privilege of seeing your parents spend time with your girls. ❤ My heart is full. Thank you God! Thank you God! Thank you God for the things money can not buy. This was beautiful. I pray health, happiness, and joy over your entire family. I pray for more days full of grandparent’s love for your children. 🙏🏾
This really brought a huge smile to my face! I pray that soon they will be as accepting of your wife as they are the girls! You all have such a beautiful family, and I hope your parents (and even your sister) realize that fact! ✌🏾💛✨
I’m happy that your children are being celebrated by your parents. Moving forward your wife is now a package and she should be respected baby steps I guess. Take Care family.🤗🤗🤗🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
I'm so pleased to hear all went nicely with the dual birthday celebration at your parent's home. Sabrina did such an excellent job of picking up the Korean birthday song so quickly. The only thing that was missing was Sarah.. but..baby steps..at least this has been major progress. We will celebrate each victory with your precious family and I will be looking forward to the video where you , Justin get to see your Sister once again. I can't wait to see the future videos with baby boy Park included. Blessings from Beth in East Tennessee. 💗
Your story telling is impeccable! I’m so very happy that the girls relationship with their grandparents is blooming! Just from the small clips that you posted…. I can tell the love they have for one another. It’s undeniable! May God keep your dad wrapped in his arms through his journey. Thank you so much for sharing!! ❤❤❤
Justin & Sarah, I am thrilled that your persistence has paid off. Slow but sure. This is wonderful to see. My family has had issues because of our mom. Only 3 of 5 children communicate now. Thank you for sharing and I hope things continue in the right direction for all of you. Congratulations again on the birth of your son. Anxious to meet him. Much love to all of you. I hope your parents are doing well.
I am thrilled for you Justin as I know that all you wanted was for your parents to know and love your children. This is your dream come true. Congratulations!
I have been watching you for a long time. I'm so happy to hear about your family. It's been heartbreaking to watch you and your wife endure the treatment all these years. I am sitting here crying. This is a start. I hate that your wife is not there but I'm glad her heart was protected.
That's some love withstanding. God bless you and Sarah, your hearts are so big. Your breaking down that wall. I'm cheering for you. Your girls are beautiful.
Justin, this is beyond wonderful! I know people are commenting about Sarah not being there, BUT she is. Your children are the perfect image of you and her. Your love is withstanding. Sarah's love is withstanding. Very blessed, you are very blessed to have each other and those babies!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
So very proud of you and happy that you have kept the lines of communication open with your parents. Prayerfully Sarah will be able to join in the festivities with your parents.
I think it’s amazing that you are seeking to heal your family. The love between you and your wife and your willingness to set boundaries with love and tolerate and teach your parents is incredible. I will be following along and praying for all of you. Miracles happen.
Your wife is an angel 😇😇. Glad your parents finally are enjoying their grandkids. When the kids get older and they see the way their paternal grandmother is treating their mom, then the kids won't be pleased with your Mom, because kids love their mothers and especially a wonderful mom like your wife!
Amazing how having a boy changed everything.I'm very happy for you Justin,I hope that your parents finally realize that all these years they have missed out on the girls lives and of course your beautiful loving wife.Congrats from Ontario Canada.🎉🇨🇦
Go costco! breaking down racist barriers one wall at a time! 🤣 I can't wait for a full unification video. The internet will explode! North and South Korea might re-unify before your family does. 🤣🤣🤣
Iam so happy that your parents are tearing down that wall of separation! Gif bless you all! Continue to love and do what is right in the eyes of God. Blessings! ❤
So good to see that your Mom and Dad finally excepting of the girls. I think your Dad was always more open to the idea but, your Mom had a harder time with it. I'm glad to hear that your Dad's results were negative and he told you the truth. Can't wait to see the next video with your sister.
Your family has come along way. I watched your videos when your oldest girl was a baby. I did know you all had two more kids until this month, but I was very happy to see your Parents taking part in their grandkids life. It is a wonderful thing🙂
They love your daughters bc they literally look Asian with not a single drop of black in them😂 they are beyond GORGEOUS!!! Sabrina will def be a super model!
The girls are irresistibly cute so how could the grandparents resist them? 😄 Justin, your mom has a good singing voice. Sarah is extraordinary in supporting Justin's relationship with his parents. My guess is that baby Park's name starts with a J.
Glad to hear and watch that their birthday celebration went very well with your parents. I'm glad to see your parents have had a change of heart, I hope now that your sister will come around with meeting them, and for your parents to be more accepting of your wife with her also being at upcoming visits in the future. She deserves respect from them too.
This is so beautiful…Why do these stories always make me 🥹😭. Prayers for you and your family for Him to continue to open more doors of communication for you all🙌🏼🙏💞
I have a 2 month old great grandson. Your son and our new great grandson are just about the same age . I just recently found your channel. I am enjoying it very much. Thank you.
I am so glad that you had time with your parents. I pray that your parents will get closer with your children. And I pray that one day they will accept your wife. God bless your family.
The girls have a natural loving connection with their grandparents it really touches the heart I know it has to do with them being raised right you guys are awesome
Justin and Sarah you two really endure the bad treatment from your family. Your daughters did not seserve how they were rejected by your parents. They are auch beautiful children. It is good you two are filled with patience. You two keep loving each other and your family. I pray nothing but good things xome to you and your family. You have auxh a beautiful family.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I can see how happy your mother and father are with getting to know the girls. Good for you on never giving up. And Sarah continually supporting you. When the girls smile, I can see how much of their mother's expressions they have. I'm so happy things are starting to turn around. Hopefully your sister will get to know the girls.❤
Family dynamics are so very different even within the same culture & backgrounds. But, when we are speaking of different cultures, we are taking on a whole new level of dynamics. I pray that your Mother will come around & realize how blessed she is to have a son that is willing to bend over backwards to keep a relationship with his Mother who is treating him & his wife with so little respect🤦♀️ I will add you & your family to my intercessory prayer list 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Omg that is wonderful news. That’s amazing that’s just the beginning. What a blessing. What a miracle so happy his mother and sister spend some time with you and your family. That’s absolutely amazing. What a great beginning & your children are absolutely beautiful!!!!
After following you guys for so long, it makes my heart so happy to finally see your parent warming up to your beautiful girls/family. So happy for you guys! 💓
This is the first time seeing one of your videos. I want you to know that your situation is repeated many times over in families …. I am very proud of how you and your wife are handling things. Keep doing what you are doing as it is obviously working and you are making progress! Wishes for good health and a continuing change of heart for your parents. Wishes for good health for your family including your new baby and wife. Your wife is setting the bar high for her children indeed. 🥰
Something else came to mind about this situation. Justin it seems like your mother is becoming attached to your children. How do you think the children will feel about her when they're old enough to realize that she has rejected your wife their mother. Sarah is an excellent mother, and children love their mother. As time goes on you might want to hint to your mother about how her rejecting Sarah can possibly work against her relationship with her grands in the future.
So excited for you,your dad & mostly the girls! So sorry you were right in the last video,worried about your dads health. y'all have been so patient, very happy it has paid off.God Bless & will continue to pray for the continued connection.
It's a great relief to know that your relationship with your parents is improving Justin. It's such a shame so much time has been lost due to their pride. I hope and pray things will continue this way for a long time. I hope everything went well for your father's operation.
I remember discovering and watching your videos during the pandemic or perhaps even before the pandemic? I don't exactly remember but your kids weren't born yet and how the tension between you and your parents was still really bad. Now I'm watching this video seeing your parents be happy with your kids is a huge improvement. I hope they will one day accept Sarah. Sarah is doing so much, she is very strong in this situation and I believe she wants the kids to grow up knowing their grandparents. I do believe people can change but it will take time.
Praying this bonding between your parents and kids continues 🙏 And also I pray your dad truly doesn’t have cancer!! Keep up everything you are doing, you’re doing the right things 🙌
I'm so happy that you never give up on your family. Praying your Dad is alright. Sabrina is a very kind and loving woman but, I do feel sorry that they won't except her. She is a ray of sunshine, bubbly, and joy. Can't wait to find out that beautiful baby boys name.❤❤❤
Let me say something about your wife … SHE IS AMAZING !!! She lets her kids be around even when she isn’t welcome. Talk about selflessness… that’s the definition of love. She’s Amazing
Love them but I can't do it...if you don't like me you will not h have access toy precious babies
@@CeeBella11 I am glad my parents never did this. I am in my 40s and from an interracial family and I just don't understand. My dad would not go if my mum was not included. My spouse is Korean and my in-laws know that if I am excluded than so is my spouse. I just cannot comprehend this.
I think you meant selflessness.
Really, she is AMAZING. It's' about the unconditional love.
@@CeeBella11 I agree they have to accept their mother… kids will sense they’re behavior and asked questions. If they keep this up along down the road as the kids get older it may not go well and they will wise up… I know it take a process but the hate of letting it go is with the girls mother.. that’s the test there.
Proud of you Justin for never giving up and Sarah for being so understanding and humble even when not included. That is a true mother and partner putting yourself aside for children. Congratulations to the family.
No, a mother defends her children and protects them from racists.
Naw. Theyve been disrespecting the wife and children for years. The mother is probably only OK with the grandchildren because they look pretty Asian.
I pray this doesn’t do deep psychological damage to Sarah. It’s a very toxic and unhealthy dynamic. Good on you for trying Justin, but I truly empathize with Sarah. Imagine the sweetest and purest spirit being disliked only for the shade of your skin. It makes me wonder if they would have ever changed had the children turned out darker. These kids barely look multiracial. All the best!
I think Sarah is not the only one who has suffered here. It must have been really hard for Justin himself to be rejected by his own parents and sister for all those years.
@@ivieta9634 If you have children, I feel sorry for them with the natural hate nature you display, because the world was not built to revolve around your conditional type of "love" that your children would have to live in without you. People like you, love with conditions while teaching your children to grow up to love with conditions.
Respectfully, I find it most amazing that these kinds of parents produced an open-minded child. It’s a modern day miracle.
He comes from a different generation. If you were Asian, living in Asia you would not find this uncommon
@@lindc1070 I understand well the context. It’s a sad illustration of the weakness in being too homogenous. It leaves you in the dark ages with antiquated beliefs. Diversity actually strengthens your mind and literally your genetics.
@@micro-uhgresh-uhnn it isnt " antiquated" , depends which part of the world you are from. So many other parts of the world are homogeneous too, you just dont know it as you havent been there and perhaps live in a multi cultural environment. The fact is many Homogeneous societies do very well. Just look at Japan. I dont blame them for not wanting foreign elements coming in to change what they have, especially what they may deem as undesirable. The fact is Asians dont think well of cultures that arent as developed or progressive. Even another Asian culture. E.g Koreans and Japanese dont think well of Filippinos because many of them work as domestic maids in their countries, also Taiwan, Hong Kong and Singapore. As for Africans, their culturd is very different. E.g in this case their daughter in law's father practised polygamy and is muslim, that is why her parents divorced. Any Asian family would not look favourably at such a background. However, I do think they should give her the benefit of the doubt as she is trying very hard. It seems to me they are not well educated and exposed despite moving to a western country. Such people find it harder to accept outsiders.
@@lindc1070 racism is still racism and “homogeneous cultures wanting to keep undesirables out”
(the very definition of racism) don’t get a pass
@@ameliesayshola8854 it depends how you define Racism. Why are people of some races so keen to marry outside your race? Is it vecause you perceive other races as better?Japan would not be Japan if they had mixed with any other race even East Asian. I am not Japanese but I can see how it has worked so well for them. The fact is some races are more successful than others. We all have different cultures and values. This would be diluted by " mixing". Am not against mixed marriages per se but I do think some generalusations about race are true. Dont run away from facts. Some thingz like polygamy or female circumcision are ok in some cultures but not others. Some cultures place more emphasis on multi generational living together in family, education etc. Outsiders often dont understabd, question and cause problems. Happens in marriages between whites and Asians too. Call it Racism if you want but these make mixed marriages complicated.
I'm happy for that, but this only happen when you have a SON? They don't even speak for RESPECT with YOUR WIFE and calling her ugly things for her race, they even don't want to see your DAUGHTERS before..
The next time you have to tell your parents MY DAUGHTERS WILL COME WITH HER MOM.. This is the condition.. She is the mother and she DESERVE RESPECT!!!
I agree 💯
I think it's cruel and disrespectful to leave your wife out.
If those kids had different physical features they would not be excepted.
I think racism is so senseless.
We all have the same needs.
If the good Lord wanted this differently it would be so. Oh yea, where's your sister.😮
I agree too. How sad and disrespectful to the mother of their son’s children. It’s cruel.
I don't like the racist grandma, imagine Sabrina or SHANELLE married their love of their life and the mom of the husband treat them like this woman treat to Sarah...
That kind of behavior I'd not good example to the kids.
I hope to see Justin give Sarah the place SHE DESERVE.
All in good time folks. Baby steps. It may happen soon. The one thing a pregnant woman DOES NOT need towards birth time is a stressful meeting like that one. I would guess that the reason they suddenly want to meet the girls is because they sense that Justin's Dad is quite ill and time is running out. Sarah should actually postpone meeting them until she has recovered from birth and the baby has acquired more immunity. Her and baby's health comes first.
Well said 👏🏼
I’m glad that your parents finally decided to see their grandkids.
I’m still feeling some type of way about Sarah being excluded 😢
Feels disrespectful
@@ranestorypictures1738 Exactly!
As long as she's gone I bet the grandparents feel they can ignore their grandkids' Black side
Sarah is the epitome of a sweet, loving person.. its so frustrating to see her being treated unfairly.
Yeah I’m not a fan of that
I feel sad that his wife is still out of the picture in their own daughters celebrations - but hopefully they will gradually start to soften towards her as well. It was really sweet seeing the girls with their grandma
Kids will notice and ask why mom is never there and they will pick up that she is unwelcome. It's pathetic
@@janvdb9258 I’m going to hope that eventually through the children they will change their view towards Sarah as well - and if they do not - I hope Justin protects his wife above all
@@swordchild0013 it's been a while...sorry but the mom is racist to her core and needs to get over her awful ugly self. Why come to Canada if youre going to bring your hate with you?
@@swordchild0013 racism is purely emotional and not logical. They feel because the kids look Korean they can ignore Sarah. I know what it’s like to feel like my mom was the black sheep and my dad’s family disrespecting her. It was painful. Justin needs to protect his family
My heart is broken for Sarah. Because Justin I feel you don’t take how this makes her feel and the possible damage you’re doing to her. I’m sorry I would NOT let my children continue to go places I AM NOT welcome. I’m so hurt for her :/
You are a good son and an example to all of us.
As a grandparent of 5, my heart is so FULL that your parents are getting to know their grandchildren before it is too late. All people must know that our time here is too short to miss any beautiful moments ❤ Thank God!
Happy to hear they bonding with the grandbabies🥰. But I feel so sad for Sarah, such a beautiful person inside and out, who would not love her and accept her?? Next time you should say my wife will come with the kids or not at all 🥲
Exactly!
I wish your Dad nothing but the best because I can really tell he's making an effort for his grandchildren
There's a lightness in Justin I haven't seen before. His parents and sister were always on his mind and it weighed heavily on him. Now they have initiated contact he is brighter in spirit. I'm interested to see the video of his contact with his sister. I'm happy that they've made this effort to see the girls but until they make an equal and sincere effort with Sarah, I cannot fully commit to the celebration.
I feel the same. It's definitely a step in the right direction, though.
I'm looking forward to hearing about his interaction with his sister, too. From what Justin has told us about her, she sounds almost worse than his mom. And idk how to say that in a nice way, unfortunately. It's just sad that she doesn't seem to care about her own brother at all.
It’s because hes just used to their toxic dynamic and now he has poor boundaries. They are still racist.
So true as the children are half of Sarah too… and especially as the children look 100% Korean …. It’s not right that the grandparents may even attempt to dismiss the children’s African or philipino heritage because it’s not obvious ….I can never understand how someone can accept the children and not the parents….
Was the sister siding with the parents?
This brought tears to my eyes. I have a similar situation with my in-laws. It’s not a racial issue but the fact I was a divorced single mother when my husband married me. My husband adopted my daughter and we then had 2 more kids . My in-laws always treated my oldest differently and they also treated my youngest differently too because he looks just like me. My middle daughter was doted on because she was a spitting image of her father. We tried for several years until it started taking a tremendous toll on our children emotionally . We sought professional help to handle the situation. As of right now we don’t have contact because of how toxic it became. I would have loved for my children to have loving grandparents who at least tried, even a little bit😔. I pray that your parents will become loving the loving grandparents that children and wife deserve 🙏
I'm glad you are rebuilding your relationship with your parents...but for now, I am sending so many hugs to Sarah for how she has supported this. Your wife is so amazing!
You are so good to your parents. Many would not bother, likely me included. It is sad they are not kind to your loving wife.
From Ireland:So happy your parents have accepted your little girls.It's a big first step.Your parents are getting older and having you back in their life must mean a lot to them.
I can’t believe that his mother can be so ignorant yet so loving to the children. The children are half of their mother. If not more with the time that goes into being such a great mother!
Sooooo happy to see your parents opening up to know their grandchildren, my heart just melted watching the girls interacting with them. I will keep your father in prayer 🙏🏽. Looking forward to your next blog.
I'm so glad that your parents are getting to know their grandchildren. It seem like they were having such a good time with the girls. I hope your dad's operation goes well.
I am happy that you are happy about seeing your parents meeting your children but I hope that your mom doesn’t share her negativity about kid’s mom with kids. So that they feel bad about who and what they are. Racism is a disease that can spread and have different negative effects to each victim. 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽 Prayers go out to your dad for good health.
They shouldn't be left alone with her
I just realized how much the girls look like their mom! 😀 Sabrina has her smile! (So cute!)
This is awesome news. I’ve been watching you for so many years and these moments with your parents feel so surreal! ❤
How can they love the grand children and hate the mom so much,this isn't love,it's control !!
They don’t hate the mom…they don’t know her. They hate the color of her skin, which is interesting as they live in a country where a certain percentage of the populace hates the color of their skin and the fact that they are emigrants. Racism is ignorance, imagine the wonderful daughter-in-law they could have.
They hate her color,they don’t know her,but it’s their loss. She’s one amazing lady and their son hit the jackpot in a partner
She's better than me there part of the mother they come as a family a package l wouldn't be able to allow them too see the children
Congratulations. Kids are powerful, they bring everyone together. There will still be bumps on the road but I am so happy for you all.
A couple of thoughts. First off, glad to hear Justin’s dad doesn’t have cancer, or at least supposedly doesn’t. I hope the surgery went ok and he’s recovering well.
Second, I’m glad to see a thawing somewhat of Grandma and Grandpa and the girls are slowly getting to know their grandparents. However Sarah being excluded is a huge issue. As the girls get older, they’re going to start asking why mom can’t come and they will eventually realize it’s because Sarah is black. And I dunno how Justin and Sarah plan to handle that but Grandma shouldn’t be surprised if the girls decide they want nothing to do with her as they get older.
As for Justin’s sister, I have no idea what her issue is but she doesn’t sound like someone who needs to be around her nieces.
Sarah is not black, she is half Asian Filipino. So her children will be part black and Filipino too, aswell as part Korean.
@@coco-cliveasmrgenealogy6171 This is not correct. Her father is Sudanese (so he is black) and her mom is from the Philippines. It’s the reason why they use the word Blasian in so many of their videos: Black + Asian. Justin’s and Sarah’s kids are one quarter Sudanese. Justin’s mom has not wanted to meet Sarah because she is biracial and was not interested in meeting her grandchildren until recently because of Sarah’s Sudanese heritage (aka being the wrong skin color). Watch their earlier videos, they explain all this. 🙂
@@ameliesayshola8854 ok sorry and thank you for explaining to me in a polite way. We need more people like you. 🤗🙏
I cant lie I haven't watched you guys in some time 😬 Just busy with a new house, grand kids..ETC. BUT this made me tear up as well as made my day . Justin im so very happy your parents are celebrating your beautiful babies special day, I think deep down I knew they would come around. Im raising my 5 y/O Grand Daughter nothing makes me happier it's hard work but the reward is everything to me. Love your beautiful family 🥰 Sarah is simply amazing.
I think your baby steps with your parents are working well. In previous videos your father absolutely refused to go to the doctor. After meeting his grandkids not only did he go to the doctor but he is doing follow up appointments. I think being with you and his grandkids might be making him want to be around longer. That’s beautiful❤️😢
I’m very proud of you and your wife for not giving up and having patience with the grandparents. This new relationship with the grandchildren will give the father a reason to live. Keep it up!
I’m so happy that your parents finally had a chance to properly bond with the girls…better late than never. Right?😊
They had so many Chances and never took one of them and now when Justin and Sarah having a baby boy they suddenly changed their mind and their way of thinking?
And if so...why is Sarah not welcomed? She is Justins love,the mother of the children and obviously a very nice person. I feel very sorry for her and I don't think it's ok at all
I’m feeling thankful this morning. Years ago when your wife was pregnant with your first child I ran across your channel. I was saddened by the stories of your parents lack of acceptance and involvement. But I believed they would eventually come around. I wrote messages in the comment section of your videos expressing my empathy, and attempting to encourage you. The last video I recall was when you sent your father a photo album of pictures of your first child. Now all these years later on a Sunday morning, TH-cam recommended this video to me. In this video I learned you have been blessed with 2 more children and I had the privilege of seeing your parents spend time with your girls. ❤ My heart is full. Thank you God! Thank you God! Thank you God for the things money can not buy.
This was beautiful. I pray health, happiness, and joy over your entire family. I pray for more days full of grandparent’s love for your children. 🙏🏾
This really brought a huge smile to my face! I pray that soon they will be as accepting of your wife as they are the girls! You all have such a beautiful family, and I hope your parents (and even your sister) realize that fact! ✌🏾💛✨
Well said! I agree 💯!
Prayer and love always win. So happy for you, your wife, children, and your parents. Praying for your dad's health!
I’m happy that your children are being celebrated by your parents. Moving forward your wife is now a package and she should be respected baby steps I guess. Take Care family.🤗🤗🤗🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
I'm so pleased to hear all went nicely with the dual birthday celebration at your parent's home. Sabrina did such an excellent job of picking up the Korean birthday song so quickly. The only thing that was missing was Sarah.. but..baby steps..at least this has been major progress. We will celebrate each victory with your precious family and I will be looking forward to the video where you , Justin get to see your Sister once again. I can't wait to see the future videos with baby boy Park included. Blessings from Beth in East Tennessee. 💗
Such a long time waiting for unity and loving interaction ..so happy for you all..❤
All I can say on here is “Praise God,” for this big step. Praying that the transformation will happen, but it’s ONLY by the grace of God.
Your story telling is impeccable! I’m so very happy that the girls relationship with their grandparents is blooming! Just from the small clips that you posted…. I can tell the love they have for one another. It’s undeniable! May God keep your dad wrapped in his arms through his journey. Thank you so much for sharing!! ❤❤❤
The girls are so gorgeous and praise God your parents, have started bonding with their grandchildren. Your wife is AMAZING,HUMBLE, and Kind
So happy, I was one that things could change once grandchildren came. So happy I was right and blessings for all your family 🎉
So very happy for you and your family. We know this has been heavy on your heart for a long time.
your wife is so awesome she accepts everything no matter what now thats real true love
Justin & Sarah, I am thrilled that your persistence has paid off. Slow but sure. This is wonderful to see. My family has had issues because of our mom. Only 3 of 5 children communicate now. Thank you for sharing and I hope things continue in the right direction for all of you. Congratulations again on the birth of your son. Anxious to meet him. Much love to all of you. I hope your parents are doing well.
Your wife is a saint !!!!!
The fact that Sarah allows & supports this is amazing.
I am thrilled for you Justin as I know that all you wanted was for your parents to know and love your children. This is your dream come true. Congratulations!
Oh my god Shanelle's smile, my heart!!! 🥰
They can't resist their cute sweet grand babies
I have been watching you for a long time. I'm so happy to hear about your family. It's been heartbreaking to watch you and your wife endure the treatment all these years. I am sitting here crying. This is a start. I hate that your wife is not there but I'm glad her heart was protected.
Congratulations on your beautiful daughter’s, Justin you have a wonderful wife and you are a wonderful son, your parents are very unhappy themselves.
It’s so beautiful that your parents have seen the girls and are bonding with them
Justin I’m so over joyed your family has embraced your babies. May The kids laughter and beautiful faces be etched in your family hearts. ♥️
That's some love withstanding. God bless you and Sarah, your hearts are so big. Your breaking down that wall. I'm cheering for you. Your girls are beautiful.
Justin, this is beyond wonderful! I know people are commenting about Sarah not being there, BUT she is. Your children are the perfect image of you and her. Your love is withstanding. Sarah's love is withstanding. Very blessed, you are very blessed to have each other and those babies!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank God almighty for his blessing Amen 🙏 ❤
So very proud of you and happy that you have kept the lines of communication open with your parents. Prayerfully Sarah will be able to join in the festivities with your parents.
I think it’s amazing that you are seeking to heal your family. The love between you and your wife and your willingness to set boundaries with love and tolerate and teach your parents is incredible. I will be following along and praying for all of you. Miracles happen.
I'm happy that your parents are coming around to seeing and interacting with their grandchildren. Life is short and we should all make the best of it.
Finally they are opening their hearts to your family. It is beautiful to see.
Your wife is an angel 😇😇. Glad your parents finally are enjoying their grandkids. When the kids get older and they see the way their paternal grandmother is treating their mom, then the kids won't be pleased with your Mom, because kids love their mothers and especially a wonderful mom like your wife!
Amazing how having a boy changed everything.I'm very happy for you Justin,I hope that your parents finally realize that all these years they have missed out on the girls lives and of course your beautiful loving wife.Congrats from Ontario Canada.🎉🇨🇦
Kind of gross it took a boy to get their attention. Racist and sexist…
Go costco! breaking down racist barriers one wall at a time! 🤣
I can't wait for a full unification video. The internet will explode!
North and South Korea might re-unify before your family does. 🤣🤣🤣
Iam so happy that your parents are tearing down that wall of separation! Gif bless you all! Continue to love and do what is right in the eyes of God. Blessings! ❤
So good to see that your Mom and Dad finally excepting of the girls. I think your Dad was always more open to the idea but, your Mom had a harder time with it. I'm glad to hear that your Dad's results were negative and he told you the truth. Can't wait to see the next video with your sister.
Your family has come along way. I watched your videos when your oldest girl was a baby. I did know you all had two more kids until this month, but I was very happy to see your Parents taking part in their grandkids life. It is a wonderful thing🙂
This just brings tears to my eyes. Reminds me of my Korean momma w/her grand babies. ❤ ~from your Blasian sister
They love your daughters bc they literally look Asian with not a single drop of black in them😂 they are beyond GORGEOUS!!! Sabrina will def be a super model!
Crying seeing your parents bond with your girls. So glad this finally happened!!
Kids grow up so fast. It would be shame for the paternal side, to miss out on these precious kids lives.
The girls are irresistibly cute so how could the grandparents resist them? 😄
Justin, your mom has a good singing voice.
Sarah is extraordinary in supporting Justin's relationship with his parents.
My guess is that baby Park's name starts with a J.
Congratulations Justin on the progress made so far, hopefully they will be so accepting of your Wife and Son soon.
I’m so glad that they are seeing and spending time with their granddaughters now.❤️🥰😍❤️
I hope that your father has a smooth recovery. It's very nice that you can spend time together 😊
Oh Justin, I’m so proud of you for this effort!! The girls deserve this part of their heritage and culture. You’re a champ for making this happen!
Your willingness to put up with your parents, and to love them in spite of their extreme prejudice and racism is very inspiring.
Glad to hear and watch that their birthday celebration went very well with your parents. I'm glad to see your parents have had a change of heart, I hope now that your sister will come around with meeting them, and for your parents to be more accepting of your wife with her also being at upcoming visits in the future. She deserves respect from them too.
This is so beautiful…Why do these stories always make me 🥹😭.
Prayers for you and your family for Him to continue to open more doors of communication for you all🙌🏼🙏💞
I have a 2 month old great grandson. Your son and our new great grandson are just about the same age . I just recently found your channel. I am enjoying it very much. Thank you.
I am so glad that you had time with your parents. I pray that your parents will get closer with your children. And I pray that one day they will accept your wife. God bless your family.
The girls have a natural loving connection with their grandparents it really touches the heart I know it has to do with them being raised right you guys are awesome
Justin and Sarah you two really endure the bad treatment from your family. Your daughters did not seserve how they were rejected by your parents. They are auch beautiful children. It is good you two are filled with patience.
You two keep loving each other and your family. I pray nothing but good things xome to you and your family. You have auxh a beautiful family.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I can see how happy your mother and father are with getting to know the girls. Good for you on never giving up. And Sarah continually supporting you. When the girls smile, I can see how much of their mother's expressions they have. I'm so happy things are starting to turn around. Hopefully your sister will get to know the girls.❤
Sorry to hear about your dad's health....but it's great that your parents are finally bonding with the kids.
Family dynamics are so very different even within the same culture & backgrounds. But, when we are speaking of different cultures, we are taking on a whole new level of dynamics. I pray that your Mother will come around & realize how blessed she is to have a son that is willing to bend over backwards to keep a relationship with his Mother who is treating him & his wife with so little respect🤦♀️
I will add you & your family to my intercessory prayer list 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Good news indeed, I pray that your Sister will open up for you and the kids as well. Wishing your Dad quick healing. 😊
Omg that is wonderful news. That’s amazing that’s just the beginning. What a blessing. What a miracle so happy his mother and sister spend some time with you and your family. That’s absolutely amazing. What a great beginning & your children are absolutely beautiful!!!!
Love truly is WITHSTANDING!❤❤❤❤ So happy for all of you. @Love Withstanding
I'm soo happy for you Justin
I can also imagine Sarah crying watching the girls with their grandparents
thats just who I think she is
After following you guys for so long, it makes my heart so happy to finally see your parent warming up to your beautiful girls/family. So happy for you guys! 💓
This is the first time seeing one of your videos. I want you to know that your situation is repeated many times over in families ….
I am very proud of how you and your wife are handling things. Keep doing what you are doing as it is obviously working and you are making progress! Wishes for good health and a continuing change of heart for your parents. Wishes for good health for your family including your new baby and wife. Your wife is setting the bar high for her children indeed. 🥰
Something else came to mind about this situation. Justin it seems like your mother is becoming attached to your children. How do you think the children will feel about her when they're old enough to realize that she has rejected your wife their mother. Sarah is an excellent mother, and children love their mother. As time goes on you might want to hint to your mother about how her rejecting Sarah can possibly work against her relationship with her grands in the future.
So excited for you,your dad & mostly the girls! So sorry you were right in the last video,worried about your dads health. y'all have been so patient, very happy it has paid off.God Bless & will continue to pray for the continued connection.
You never gave up what's important to you. After all, love is winning. Congratulations
Beautiful this was another example of “Love Withstanding!“ I’m so happy things have changed for the better. Be blessed 🙏
it's honestly a miracle seeing your parents enjoying such a nice time with your girls
You are an honorable man! Your parents are blessed to have you for a son. May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family.❤
It's a great relief to know that your relationship with your parents is improving Justin. It's such a shame so much time has been lost due to their pride. I hope and pray things will continue this way for a long time. I hope everything went well for your father's operation.
I remember discovering and watching your videos during the pandemic or perhaps even before the pandemic? I don't exactly remember but your kids weren't born yet and how the tension between you and your parents was still really bad. Now I'm watching this video seeing your parents be happy with your kids is a huge improvement. I hope they will one day accept Sarah. Sarah is doing so much, she is very strong in this situation and I believe she wants the kids to grow up knowing their grandparents. I do believe people can change but it will take time.
Praying this bonding between your parents and kids continues 🙏 And also I pray your dad truly doesn’t have cancer!! Keep up everything you are doing, you’re doing the right things 🙌
I'm so happy that you never give up on your family. Praying your Dad is alright. Sabrina is a very kind and loving woman but, I do feel sorry that they won't except her. She is a ray of sunshine, bubbly, and joy. Can't wait to find out that beautiful baby boys name.❤❤❤
So so happy for your mum and dad bonding with the girls.
So happy for your family.
Congratulations on your new born baby boy.