I’m a 50 year old woman and I wish I knew what I know now much sooner. However, I won’t live a life of regrets and I loved growing up in the 80s and 90s. However, one day you do have to grow up, wake up and realise what’s really going on! Sooner rather than later. I know one thing, I love a strong, independent man. ❤
I totally agree with you here. People these days have absolutely no idea. They have no respect. Parenting has gone to pot. Society doesn't exist anymore. Selfishness rules. Self respect and self worth seem meaningless in these times. You have the will but the flesh is weak. You are motivated so you will succeed. 😊👍
Don't be too hard on yourself. Life shouldn't be a constant struggle. First of all, you need to be happy and do something nice for others from time to time.
@@caljohndaviesCan I suggest a famous book? "A Man's Search For Meaning" by Viktor Frankl. He was a dr. in a concentration camp. He had a purpose, so he was used and survived. He talks about watching the others and what some of them had inside themselves that helped them survive. Many gave up. He summized that if they found "meaning", their lives had become worth living.
@@gremics-gallery I would like to create a TH-cam account or any online business to keep myself accountable, but I still currently don't have any good ideas for a business. What should I do?
I know this content is for men but this came up & so I watched it. I’m not a Brit I’m an American but I still love this content!! You are 100% correct & people like you, who are strong enough to change, are going to be the ones who make it on the end!
Really thought-provoking content. Not sure how this popped up in my feed because I'm definitely not your demographic. I'm a gay 61-year-old guy from the US. I do have to say it seems your generation has an uphill battle. It reminds me of when I was a young man in my twenties working at a bank. They wanted their employees to look fortune 500 while paying us minimum wage. We are all constantly marketed to being sold things we don't need to impress people we don't care about. I'm a high school dropout and remember my mother telling me that if I don't graduate high school and get a college degree I will always be poor. That's when I decided that I was going to still have a good life even if I don't make a lot of money. I didn't have my first vehicle until I was in my mid-20s. I was able to ride my bicycle to work or walk, and I would save what little money I had left over for a little tiny mini vacation, a weekend in San Francisco or an 80 mi bicycle ride to Laguna Beach, One night in a hotel and then make the return trip back. These things made me feel wealthy even though I was broke. Sure, I had to live with roommates, rode a bicycle for transportation and took inexpensive mini vacations, however I didn't have the strangling auto and consumer debt of most of my peers. I guess what I'm trying to say is don't buy the hype. Nobody cares what kind of car you drive or the brand of your sunglasses and if they really do, then steer clear of those folks. Anyway, love the way you think, All the best on your journey. You got this!
I'm a 52yr old male and can tell you that the world and Britain is not what it was, people from my generation worked all their lives and went through ups and downs just the same. Unfortunately today the cost of living has gone skyrocketing out of control amd most people talk about being exhausted living hand to mouth.. We have mass uncontrolled immigration pushing down wages and creating massive supply and demand which then pushes up the price of houses.. Its a mess mate, I'll be homest we going into recession.. My condolences 🙏 to yourself and family, its really hard dealing with bereavement and grief, i too am suffering and heartbroken over the death of my partner who died from lung cancer with metastasis. Grief definitely does change your views on real life and it can have negative health responses both physically and mentally... I speak occasionally to lots of young people around ypur age and younger and i hear the same response " i want out of Britain, im done, relationships are another major problem these days, they have kids then the man pisses off when he realises the costs.. All i can tell you is the world is going through massive change and that is what your going through, lockdown has woke millions of people up to the new reality... Best wishes great video...
So true!! after losing somebody close it's insanely difficult to get motivated or happy about anything, the whole "time heals everything" is a load of bollox, been 2 yrs since my dad died and you wonder what the point of working hard and making effort or achieving goals is.
Maybe try understanding that another man struggling doesn’t necessarily make him weak. You don’t know what they’re going through, and your definition of a “strong man” is not universal. Have more empathy and you will be less angry
Exactly. Then this muppet starts banging on about going to war like he's some kind of spartan! War f's guys up! No one comes out of war strong! They come out broken! He's just another bs peddler who will overcharge fools for some useless course he put together in half an hour from copied stuff that has negative value. I bet you he suffers with his mental health. Ffs I'd rather hear andy tate, at least he's funny
100% Great motivational speech. Whatever you do, dont make any woman the centre of your purpose. The state, the government, culture, doesnt resect you and happy to use, abuse and dispose of you. Wake up guys.. DO NOT GET MARRIED and give all your power and leverage away to a woman who will eventually disrespect you and kick you to the curb the moment you dont supply and provision.
I'm a woman and I would advise men not to marry. Also, don't have kids if you can avoid it. Those are the regrets I have in my life. I see men get destroyed mentally and financially by both.
People are gonna do what they want to do and live how they want to live you have no control over what others do, at the end of the day worry about yourself and do whats best for you.
Love the videos. I have a different take on the priorities. I run a small company, and I think the routines can to be a distraction from the harder work of creating a product. I’m not saying they have to be, but they can be. The reason most people don’t run a company isn’t because they are fat or play video games, it’s that when they aren’t playing video games, they don’t ever sit down and put pen to paper to design a product. Normal people can work out and eat right with discipline, because those processes are known. Most normal people never design a product, mainly because the process isn’t known. Most of the actions are novel, not repetitive as with a routine.
The problem is that we're still cave men at heart and we have Netflix and Uber Eats. When you get out in nature with no luxuries and all you've got is nature and survival, you feel better because you're exercising and purpose and goals and satisfaction returns. A long, long time ago there wasn't time to sit around and think because you'd be moving and surviving from the moment you woke up because if you didn't you'd die or starve. We're incredibly lucky today because we can cut back and push ourselves and still have relative safety and help if we need it.
@@TheDeadofNightAmbiencemate the life expectancy of our ancient ancestors was about 25 with a huge infant mortality rate so I think I'll take being alive today over that😅
You describe me down to a tee. I've got today off work - what have I done so far? Sat on my arse, drank coffee, and watched YT and scrolled on X. What a fucking waste off my life. At 43, probably halfway through. Jesus!
@davidqueen7133 I feel you brother I've been there!! The self awareness actually sets you apart from most though. Would be good to connect on IG: @caljohndavies
I have a clear vision of what my purpose in life is and it is miles away from your vision. For me, your vision is outdated and too fearful. Survival of the fittest is the most ridiculous thing there is. The world doesn't work that way. Everything is bio-regulated from the spiritual realms.
Sounds to me like you need to create some sort of men's group with guys of a like mind but don't know who, what or how. I have nephews in their late 20's early thirties and a Son of the same age and I am only 48, one of my Nephews is an ex Royal Marine yet trying to get them to do anything as a group besides drinking and playing cards is difficult, they all caught up with their own families, domestication and jobs and the 24/7 same old routine.
Hi Callum! I am not at all offended by what you said in this video, you are right! Magicmaya who is a Life-Coach for us men talks about this in her videos, how to adopt humility & compassion for yourself - AND the necessary discomfort too! th-cam.com/video/8-F6ylRWxZ4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=eZwuWt0VXE1GVr0M
So happy to see this kind of content, especially UK based. After years of planning life around going football, drinking, complaining about the state of things, I realised I'd become part of the reason why things are in such a bad state. All I see is lads complain and I think what are YOU doing? We need strong resilient men, who look after and protect not just those around them but everyone and lift people up. Community. Leading by example instead of just being reactive all the time. Just be, but be fit and healthy, someone worth emulating.
Ye but mental health is real. We aint robots mate. Most of our behaviour is driven by parts of the mind we don't understand hence why psychology is a thing. The elites have demoralised us and turned society into hell so its hard to go through the monotony of the gym, dating or climbing that greasy corporate ladder
lol 😂 I understand but it’s finished! Everyone wants instant gratification and dough and want to sell coke! It is finished Ur gonna have to be on ur own and deal with ur life I got out UK 🇬🇧 and I look after myself now it’s a pointless effort to try to understand 99.99% of humanity! And most in UK 🇬🇧 talk like innit bro 😎 for real geeze!
Good video format. I like the advice about thinking of the lifestyle you don't want for yourself and working backwards from there. You have the basis for your next business starting to take shape here. I will share to (X)
Your a 30 year old im a 50 year old , but I tell you something mate , you are spot on ! One word = Internet . Turn that off and your problems will disappear
My biggest problem is alcohol. I am a high functioning alcoholic. I got a good job doing well for myself. Still feel like a bitch when I have to run to the bottle when I feel little anxious
If u know alcohol is ur problem. Step aside of what ur doing. No drink anymore. Find something doesn't matter what to do to occupy ur time so u wont even have time to drink. Anything u can do take a course in sowing cooking although that includes drinking . So maby not that. But whatever.
This isn't an original take. Just the usual boring, L take that all fraud influencers give. How much u charging for your course? I really need some more useless advice
Idk i guess i was hoping you would be more enlightening. I'm just sick of hearing the same stuff over and over. We need community bro. Britain is a joke today. It's very alienating. Am I weak because I no longer see the point in marriage and getting obscenely wealthy in today's world? It all just seems a bit pointless mate. Anyways I didn't want to come across as rude. I didn't think you'd even see my comment so I was more just yelling into the void haha
Why not do nothing? The world is fcked and life is sh!t so why not say "fck the world I ain't playing the game" "People do too much, they say too much, just sleep all day long and forget the day" - Charles Bukowski
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We are at war, a war on masculinity, health, a war psychologically.
@@lifeiswarwarislife1972This is not good. I really hope 2025 will be a great year for all of us.
I’m a 50 year old woman and I wish I knew what I know now much sooner. However, I won’t live a life of regrets and I loved growing up in the 80s and 90s. However, one day you do have to grow up, wake up and realise what’s really going on! Sooner rather than later. I know one thing, I love a strong, independent man. ❤
I totally agree with you here. People these days have absolutely no idea. They have no respect. Parenting has gone to pot. Society doesn't exist anymore. Selfishness rules. Self respect and self worth seem meaningless in these times. You have the will but the flesh is weak. You are motivated so you will succeed. 😊👍
You talk a lot of sense man, coming from a 44 year old man with the exact same outlook as yourself. Keep on doing what youre doing 👏🏼
Don't be too hard on yourself. Life shouldn't be a constant struggle. First of all, you need to be happy and do something nice for others from time to time.
i'm in a terrible procrastination loop
Follow me on IG bro @caljohndavies
Post videos on TH-cam and keep yourself accountable. People will comment and follow your journey. If that's what it takes then give it a shot.
@@caljohndaviesCan I suggest a famous book? "A Man's Search For Meaning" by Viktor Frankl. He was a dr. in a concentration camp. He had a purpose, so he was used and survived. He talks about watching the others and what some of them had inside themselves that helped them survive. Many gave up. He summized that if they found "meaning", their lives had become worth living.
HURRY HURRY HURRY BEFORE ITS TO LATE. LIFE IS SHORT
@@gremics-gallery I would like to create a TH-cam account or any online business to keep myself accountable, but I still currently don't have any good ideas for a business. What should I do?
I know this content is for men but this came up & so I watched it.
I’m not a Brit I’m an American but I still love this content!!
You are 100% correct & people like you, who are strong enough to change, are going to be the ones who make it on the end!
Hey Laura, you're more than welcome on this channel! You might just find some interesting points of view.
Yes, I am a woman and this content dropped in my feed. This is not gender exclusive. Many of us are struggling and trying to make sense of this life.
Swedish women here and totally agree to what he says. Looking forward to see the change 🙌🏼
@MindlerCamper stay tuned! 🙌🏻
I love me some empathy, emotional vulnerability, and sharing of raw feelings.
We don't want to be strong we just want to enjoy life,life is too short for monsense
Really thought-provoking content. Not sure how this popped up in my feed because I'm definitely not your demographic. I'm a gay 61-year-old guy from the US. I do have to say it seems your generation has an uphill battle. It reminds me of when I was a young man in my twenties working at a bank. They wanted their employees to look fortune 500 while paying us minimum wage. We are all constantly marketed to being sold things we don't need to impress people we don't care about.
I'm a high school dropout and remember my mother telling me that if I don't graduate high school and get a college degree I will always be poor. That's when I decided that I was going to still have a good life even if I don't make a lot of money. I didn't have my first vehicle until I was in my mid-20s. I was able to ride my bicycle to work or walk, and I would save what little money I had left over for a little tiny mini vacation, a weekend in San Francisco or an 80 mi bicycle ride to Laguna Beach, One night in a hotel and then make the return trip back. These things made me feel wealthy even though I was broke. Sure, I had to live with roommates, rode a bicycle for transportation and took inexpensive mini vacations, however I didn't have the strangling auto and consumer debt of most of my peers.
I guess what I'm trying to say is don't buy the hype. Nobody cares what kind of car you drive or the brand of your sunglasses and if they really do, then steer clear of those folks.
Anyway, love the way you think, All the best on your journey.
You got this!
This is more useful than what he said
I am a Native American male from the U.S. and always listen how men around the world are feeling. Very interesting.
You're not really native my bruddah,you're people migrated from Eastern Siberia a long time ago
I'm a 52yr old male and can tell you that the world and Britain is not what it was, people from my generation worked all their lives and went through ups and downs just the same.
Unfortunately today the cost of living has gone skyrocketing out of control amd most people talk about being exhausted living hand to mouth..
We have mass uncontrolled immigration pushing down wages and creating massive supply and demand which then pushes up the price of houses..
Its a mess mate, I'll be homest we going into recession..
My condolences 🙏 to yourself and family, its really hard dealing with bereavement and grief, i too am suffering and heartbroken over the death of my partner who died from lung cancer with metastasis.
Grief definitely does change your views on real life and it can have negative health responses both physically and mentally...
I speak occasionally to lots of young people around ypur age and younger and i hear the same response " i want out of Britain, im done, relationships are another major problem these days, they have kids then the man pisses off when he realises the costs..
All i can tell you is the world is going through massive change and that is what your going through, lockdown has woke millions of people up to the new reality...
Best wishes great video...
@KnightsTemplar-y4u thank you for your comment 🙏 wishing you all the best also!
So true!! after losing somebody close it's insanely difficult to get motivated or happy about anything, the whole "time heals everything" is a load of bollox, been 2 yrs since my dad died and you wonder what the point of working hard and making effort or achieving goals is.
The world is so messed up today. This is why we need to build community and support each other because the modern world is miserable
Maybe try understanding that another man struggling doesn’t necessarily make him weak. You don’t know what they’re going through, and your definition of a “strong man” is not universal. Have more empathy and you will be less angry
Exactly. Then this muppet starts banging on about going to war like he's some kind of spartan! War f's guys up! No one comes out of war strong! They come out broken! He's just another bs peddler who will overcharge fools for some useless course he put together in half an hour from copied stuff that has negative value. I bet you he suffers with his mental health. Ffs I'd rather hear andy tate, at least he's funny
100% Great motivational speech. Whatever you do, dont make any woman the centre of your purpose. The state, the government, culture, doesnt resect you and happy to use, abuse and dispose of you. Wake up guys.. DO NOT GET MARRIED and give all your power and leverage away to a woman who will eventually disrespect you and kick you to the curb the moment you dont supply and provision.
I'm a woman and I would advise men not to marry. Also, don't have kids if you can avoid it. Those are the regrets I have in my life. I see men get destroyed mentally and financially by both.
MGTOW is the way bro
People are gonna do what they want to do and live how they want to live you have no control over what others do, at the end of the day worry about yourself and do whats best for you.
You're on the money, fella. Keep it up. Men in the UK need to hear this 👏👏
Love the videos. I have a different take on the priorities. I run a small company, and I think the routines can to be a distraction from the harder work of creating a product. I’m not saying they have to be, but they can be. The reason most people don’t run a company isn’t because they are fat or play video games, it’s that when they aren’t playing video games, they don’t ever sit down and put pen to paper to design a product. Normal people can work out and eat right with discipline, because those processes are known. Most normal people never design a product, mainly because the process isn’t known. Most of the actions are novel, not repetitive as with a routine.
Cave man would quite like netflix and uber eats i think
The problem is that we're still cave men at heart and we have Netflix and Uber Eats. When you get out in nature with no luxuries and all you've got is nature and survival, you feel better because you're exercising and purpose and goals and satisfaction returns. A long, long time ago there wasn't time to sit around and think because you'd be moving and surviving from the moment you woke up because if you didn't you'd die or starve. We're incredibly lucky today because we can cut back and push ourselves and still have relative safety and help if we need it.
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@@TheDeadofNightAmbiencemate the life expectancy of our ancient ancestors was about 25 with a huge infant mortality rate so I think I'll take being alive today over that😅
I'm not a man, but I find your content incredibly helpful and inspiring. Thank you!
@@mariamagv you're welcome!
You describe me down to a tee. I've got today off work - what have I done so far? Sat on my arse, drank coffee, and watched YT and scrolled on X. What a fucking waste off my life. At 43, probably halfway through. Jesus!
@davidqueen7133 I feel you brother I've been there!! The self awareness actually sets you apart from most though.
Would be good to connect on IG: @caljohndavies
I have a clear vision of what my purpose in life is and it is miles away from your vision.
For me, your vision is outdated and too fearful. Survival of the fittest is the most ridiculous thing there is. The world doesn't work that way. Everything is bio-regulated from the spiritual realms.
True. That mentality just makes you self loathing and unable to realise your internal value
We just need compassionate community imo. Modern world is too lonely
Great vid callum ... keep saying it how it is, brother.
People need to hear it, wake these men up.
Yes bro 👊🏻👊🏻
Who qualifies you to judge ?
Something like this...
Good times produce weak men
Weak men produce bad times
Bad times produce strong men
Strong men produce good times
@@jimbo4375 precisely this
Sounds to me like you need to create some sort of men's group with guys of a like mind but don't know who, what or how. I have nephews in their late 20's early thirties and a Son of the same age and I am only 48, one of my Nephews is an ex Royal Marine yet trying to get them to do anything as a group besides drinking and playing cards is difficult, they all caught up with their own families, domestication and jobs and the 24/7 same old routine.
This is in the making! Head to Instagram and search @caljohndavies 👊🏻🙌🏻
This ✅
He is creating it here.
@@courtneysands6646 If so, for what aim, purpose or ideal.
These people around you. How do they feel when you tell them this? What do they say?
The austrian pain ter predicted it all
Hi Callum! I am not at all offended by what you said in this video, you are right! Magicmaya who is a Life-Coach for us men talks about this in her videos, how to adopt humility & compassion for yourself - AND the necessary discomfort too!
th-cam.com/video/8-F6ylRWxZ4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=eZwuWt0VXE1GVr0M
So happy to see this kind of content, especially UK based. After years of planning life around going football, drinking, complaining about the state of things, I realised I'd become part of the reason why things are in such a bad state. All I see is lads complain and I think what are YOU doing? We need strong resilient men, who look after and protect not just those around them but everyone and lift people up. Community. Leading by example instead of just being reactive all the time. Just be, but be fit and healthy, someone worth emulating.
@LeeAnthonyPhys couldn't agree more mate! I've been there in the football/drinking loop. Gets you nowhere unfortunately
Ye but mental health is real. We aint robots mate. Most of our behaviour is driven by parts of the mind we don't understand hence why psychology is a thing. The elites have demoralised us and turned society into hell so its hard to go through the monotony of the gym, dating or climbing that greasy corporate ladder
lol 😂 I understand but it’s finished! Everyone wants instant gratification and dough and want to sell coke!
It is finished
Ur gonna have to be on ur own and deal with ur life
I got out UK 🇬🇧 and I look after myself now it’s a pointless effort to try to understand 99.99% of humanity!
And most in UK 🇬🇧 talk like innit bro 😎 for real geeze!
The world isn't paradise outside of the Uk. If anything it gets a lot worse. Where did you go?
@ Turkey 🇹🇷
Schopenhauer tells the truth.
Nietzsche tells the response.
True, but then that leads to fascism and war. Then that loops back to blue pill, cope, hippy, wokeism, which eventually gets back to where we are now
Good video format. I like the advice about thinking of the lifestyle you don't want for yourself and working backwards from there.
You have the basis for your next business starting to take shape here.
I will share to (X)
Nothing but facts sir 🤛
FDT!!!!!!!!!!
Your a 30 year old im a 50 year old , but I tell you something mate , you are spot on ! One word = Internet . Turn that off and your problems will disappear
Lol.. you are using the internet to write that so you are failing to follow your own advice!
we are watching you for inspiration.
Wake up neo.....lol
Go join the French Foreign Legion.
❤
Crypto
Common bro, you’re healthy and can get out of bed everyday be grateful. And go watch a Alan watts video ✌️
Exactly!
I actually started thinking this was satirical because you know so little about life yet you are so judgemental of others.
Please. He's right and you know it.
Yes its a load of shite. He bangs on about us going to war lol
It pays financially to become a victim and to say you’re sick, through pensions and workers compensation law.
My biggest problem is alcohol. I am a high functioning alcoholic. I got a good job doing well for myself. Still feel like a bitch when I have to run to the bottle when I feel little anxious
If u know alcohol is ur problem. Step aside of what ur doing. No drink anymore. Find something doesn't matter what to do to occupy ur time so u wont even have time to drink. Anything u can do take a course in sowing cooking although that includes drinking . So maby not that. But whatever.
This isn't an original take. Just the usual boring, L take that all fraud influencers give. How much u charging for your course? I really need some more useless advice
....but you still click on it and watch it 😂 what were you expecting exactly? I'm talking about my own experiences mate, it is what it is.
Idk i guess i was hoping you would be more enlightening. I'm just sick of hearing the same stuff over and over. We need community bro. Britain is a joke today. It's very alienating. Am I weak because I no longer see the point in marriage and getting obscenely wealthy in today's world? It all just seems a bit pointless mate. Anyways I didn't want to come across as rude. I didn't think you'd even see my comment so I was more just yelling into the void haha
There are a lot of sloths in this world. The real problem however is the monsters. And not becoming one yourself while fending them off.
Why not do nothing? The world is fcked and life is sh!t so why not say "fck the world I ain't playing the game"
"People do too much, they say too much, just sleep all day long and forget the day"
- Charles Bukowski