Ep 4: The UNMATCHED Men from Pop The Balloon Ep 23 | BM Talks To Them
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That was a crazy episode. These gentlemen deserved better
are u gonna have a catch up episode yet?? been waiting 😭
@@erikajuliette He said it's coming up 😂
@@Max-unswayed ohh okay 😼
Absolutely
@@erikajuliette12:26 12:48
Arlette and BM are quickly becoming the hardest-working couple on TH-cam. 💪
They r not the only onces. But they r hard working
...and they keep it blackity-black, the best part.
Yah like the way Arlette recall almost every moment
…smart
🎯
I really admire how you guys are counseling these young men about how to present themselves and accept criticism, warranted or not.
I also must say this this group of young men seemed to be the most well rounded, and potentially best matches for a woman seeking a decent man.
That lineup of women was weird, heightists with no sense of how tall they were. Some of these guys are well above average in the looks department.
Heightists😂😂😂 girl you not wrong!!!
It was so crazy seeing a 5’1” lady literally looking up at 6ft guy calling him short 😂
😂 Heightists!
And height as well, above average that is
Little Girls trying to act Grown and Mature. All that is
They're really the most emotionally stable men on the show, thus far😂
Their episode was so frustrating. These men were quality brothers. I love my fellow sisters but they were doing THE MOST in this episode! 😤hopefully they are brought back.
Should we bring them back?
Yes! 100%.
Yes sir
Yes!
yes please
Yes!!
Bring them back with more emotionally stable women to chose from
Right. No point in bringing them back if the women are dusty.
@@eon001😂😂😂 facts
I'm glad to see that men are finally feeling empowered to express themselves without facing shame. In today's dating scene, this has become a norm for many men. It's part of why some women are labeled as "modern women." Despite this shift, the reality is that most women under 35 are primarily interested in the top 10% of men, which is becoming increasingly obvious and will likely be studied in the future. This dynamic also explains why many men struggle with dating women who have kids at a younger age, especially when those women have been involved with men who didn't take them seriously.
They gotta give the men the balloons 🎈 next time
Youre asking for a lot 💀 a lot of them seem to fall short of that unfortunately 🤦🏾♂️
8:53 Guys, STOP asking your boy for fashion advice when you're about to go out with a woman. Ask another woman! Call your sister, cousin, lady friend (a friend who happens to be a lady), or even a lady colleague/coworker to help get you right from a female perspective. There is no excuse for wearing those dirty ass shoes bro.
😂😂
None at all
The shoes were fine. They weren't crusty. Shoes are meant to be worn. The obsession with perfect shoes is ridiculous
@villanelle1411 them shoes looked like he had just gotten done playing kickball in the rain lol
Everybody and they mommas know that shoes mean everything to a BW! You started off getting clowned for the wrong shoes back in elementary. Why would he do such? 😅😂
Those women came for exposure, not to find a partner. This is a nice group of guys. They deserve a reunion.
Unfortunately, many men and women came for attention
Came for exposure and I don’t remember a single one of them already
These are BLACK KINGS! I hope they all find a queen to compliment their greatness.
Yes. These are true children of Jacob/Israel. The chosen people of the Most High.
Y’all call every bum on the street a king.. raise your standards
@cbhughes26 this episode is a main reason why some kings date outside their race.
@geoffreyjohnson8703 some of them do, but these men have been given so much love from black women after the episode aired, that they have many more quality options now. A lot of black women were apologetic in the comments and praised them.
Are you single?
Idk what it is,but they look even more handsome in this update !!😍 😍 😍
My exact sentiments.
I agree!
So true!
yesssss omg
Ikr!! 😄💯
Im glad the consensus by most people is that that was the worst set of women lol
A lot of the lineups of women are bad, tho.
I don’t remember which ep it was, might’ve been in the first 10 but that ep had the worst lineup in history.
@@1Sakks0 spooky out here.
This line up was mediocre, but I think there's been worse men and women line-ups honestly.
@@IsiahHD there have been worse (but more entertaining) lineups. Yet this episode’s women were low vibrational AND boring. I think that’s why they were considered the worst while not being the actual worst.
They are all so handsome and most of em seemed like well rounded guys from the brief display... those women were wild.
That cat 2nd from bottom row look like a Legend of Zelda character. Look like a Aztec statue 😂😂😂.
@@jbway86he has a unique look but NOT one of those women were a 10😂😂😂
He got the temple run statue face.@@jbway86
This interview shows how handsome and intelligent these men are. But yet, they weren't chosen. smh
Right maybe I need to go on here
Anthony if you see this your nose is beautiful don’t be ashamed of your features woman want to be pro black and have a problem with a ethnic nose it fits you
Right he looks unique and majestic like he said! Reminds me of an actor I can’t put my finger on
You're absolutely correct. Anthony is extremely handsome with that unique nose. He reminds me of Heavy D's dancer,the late Trouble T-ROY.
You’re gorgeous. Go on the show
I love how they care about the participants and they really check on them after the show
Rejection is redirection! Get them back on the show for round 2 with more mature women please.
And protection 👏🏽
BM and Arlette, your workrate, ability and willingness to give the audience what they want is to be commended so let me commend y'all 🎉👏🏾
Facts
Couldn’t have been said better 🤲🏿
I appreciate how BM and Arlette listens to the comment section and moves accordingly. I also appreciate the realness of BM and keeping the show moving in the right direction. Bring those brothers back on with some quality women!
These men matched the line up from the PREVIOUS episode. Those women were so well spoken and about their business. Put the women prior with this group of guys.
Facts 💯
Anthony, i took as a compliment calling you an Egyptian statue. You are a beautiful young man
Nah. Know your history. Ancient Egypt is literally the Black people who enslaved our ancestors the Negro Israelites. Egypt doesn't like the chidren of the Most High. Don't ever compare a Negro to an Egyptian, they are NOT the same group of people. The Negroes - that you see in your screen now from Arlette to her husband to all those gentlemen, these are the true chosen people of Yahuah who people call the "God of Israel". These people are royalty even though they don't even know it. Egypt is a pagan nation. Truth is coming to light now and you will see the true chosen people of Israel /God /Yahuah come back to their true identity and be brought back from their captivity. It's biblical. Jesus is actually a Negro man too and His name is Yahusha Hamaschiach. Wake up people. Yahuah destroyed the Egyptians He said to our ancestors "the Egyptians you see today you will see no more". Know your History. The Bible is Negro history. Abraham Jacob and Isaac are negroes.
He really is though. I like his strong features.
I thought he was too, tall dark and handsome and that smile on him was everything, I kept saying “take me on a date” ❤❤
👉🏽 These men were looking for a wifey and the ladies were not about that life. 😆
The ladies were here to go viral and gain followers.
Totally agree. Felt that @@TheNyakaat
Anthony is handsome... i was really floored at how they came for his looks.
8:13 Kendalls shoes were fashionable. The scuffed up look went with the flow of the outfit. A person who is into fashion would know that. Unfortunately. Most ppl are into being told what looks good. If Kanye was to put out beat up shoes they would all have been on it.
💯
Very well worded
Exactly and if they know about fashion those shoes are “Rick Owen’s” smh , the shoes wasn’t even that dirty
Yes the girls didn’t know he had the Rick Owens on and was going for like a rap/rock vibe. It was a good outfit.
True . I agree with both of your statements ❤
Anthony’s look is so unique and exotic!The Egyptian comment as spoken before screams “ancient “ “original” “vintage” “rare”! And yes you are a King ❤
These men all deserve another chance! They present themselves incredibly respectful, kind, confident…they all seem like high value men.
The best comment from that episode: “Most men are unattractive until you get to know them, most women are attractive until you get to know them”
So true
I know the goal of BM and Arlette is to find matches but I think an unexpected and positive development is that the world gets to see what ppl have to deal with in the dating market. The whole world says that men are really the superficial ones, but in many episodes i see men hold their balloons and honestly try to hear what the women have to say while women pop in milliseconds for silly reasons
No lie detected
Bring them back if they want to come back! But have QUALITY women please
BIG ON THE QUALITY WOMEN! They weren't terrible just not reasonable. Alot of birds and few women with an opinion of their own.
A more diverse panel of women too. Curious as to how many matches there would be compared to other episodes.
Worst Episode I've watched! The women were😱 crazeee and SIMPLE! All of the men seemed like Great catches❤intelligent m, manly as well as mannerly❤
That's what I said! A whole lineup of simpletons!!!!
I don’t know why everybody keeps saying this. if you go back and watch all the episodes, women are the fastest to pop their balloon and give the most superficial answers. Some men have been annoying, but on average it’s been women being superficial
@@passionaterebellion you’re basically saying the same thing so what don’t you understand? You said you don’t know why everybody keeps saying this.
@@passionaterebellion I agree. People are saying that it was just a bad lineup, but that’s how the majority of the women have acted throughout all the episodes.
Please bring them back! Such a lovely group of handsome, well spoken and level headed men….. no comment on the women in that episode. Never been more disappointed in my life lol explains why our generation is more unmarried and single than ever before.
I appreciate that the two of you take the show seriously.
These men deserved a better experience. But this episode definitely highlighted how (some) women are the issue!
Got to bring this lineup back on the show. It’s only right!
It’s crazy to know yall watching this channel… Arlette and BM really taking over😂😂
nah ppl just butthurt that the dude won
Hiiiii Everybody!! Omg I can’t wait for them to come back on the show because all of them are so nice and all yall handsome! 0:56
They all look like hard working healthy men 1:42
Yes. These are the Children of Israel /Jacob.
My husband is peaceful and calm. And I didn’t know I needed that. He is the peace in my storm and that is underrated.
Listen, I usually don’t stan couples, but BM and Arlette seem like the real thing. I am rooting for their marriage and am so proud of how they represent themselves!
I’m sooo happy you guys spoke to these group of men! I was so disappointed with how things turned out, the ladies missed out on a great chance of love. They definitely deserve a chance!
I'm sorry I SCREAMED when everyone and their mother popped up on the screen 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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They all got off work at the same time.
@@Nestle245hilarious
@@Nestle245 😂😂
@bm is a very intelligent person. He has immaginations out of this world. I feel he will go into movy production and he will be very successful. Big up boy, you good
I hope they save their money and start their own TV channel/streaming channel.
Yes, bring them back.😊
And on another note can you do a senior pop the 🎈. I am in my 60’s from California. Thank you in advance.😊
Yes please !!!!!
😂😂😂😂 that will be so much fun 😂 I would love to see it
@@MiguelMontgomery-i5u It should be 50 and up
thank you 👍🏾
Great idea!💡
These men deserved much more respect on the episode! Very educated and well-mannered gentleman! Robert’s voice is so calm, have no idea why he was told otherwise on the show! Bring these men back😊
Women was so shallow and childish that episode
They were mean to contestent 2. His face is handsome and statuesque and he is tall. Whats the problem ladies?! Smh
That's what I said. His eyes and lips are so nice❤
i said the same!!! he’s so handsome
I find him sooo cuteeee
Different strokes. Just like men. I haven't seen the video but men are just as picky.
I personally think anyone should be allowed to pop before words are spoken...on both sides. But the show is set up to eliminate on looks to start. As a sapiosexual I would struggle with it.
That lineup of women was the craziest that's ever been on the show.
They all deserve to come back. Those ladies were horrible to them and those guys didn’t deserve that. So shallow of them. Please bring them back ASAP
The young ladies havent been hurt bad enough to appreciate a good man when he's standing right in front of them. Im 35 years old. I would love a nice guy, soft-spoken, well spoken man, well put together. If i knew then what i know now 100
You don't even know if these men are good men. Lol.
Give me a break 😂
that was the worst line up of females..
They should've been put with the women from the episode b4 theirs
Facts. Episode 17 of girls is a close 2nd
I don’t think so. that’s how the majority of Black women are in the dating market these days
@@Babybacktilleryfacts
Ignorant statement @@passionaterebellion
It's crazy how good these men were compared to the last male line-up but they end up with the worst line-up of women EVER. You should definitely bring them back, They deserve so much better!
Men wanting women to look past their physical appearance. Let that sink in.
So far, you are the ONLY person to pick up on that ironically hilarious point!!!
You know, I didn't think about that until you mentioned it. You're right. Good point.
💯 Although I felt bad for them, I agree!
I think some men did, but the women shouldn't get MAD when the men won't pick them because of how they look. Ijs
they can't help but be loud with their hypocrisy 😅
Yes. BM, they all should be brought back. I must say that these groups of men were the ideal men and husband material
Jason had me WEAK😂 not him tryna be slick and take a pic of the screen😂😂😂 and it’s the drinking OJ straight from the gallon for me
Hahaha chill you wasn’t supposed to see that 😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao somebody watching 😅
Lmao
He know he should have had a glass or cup
Honestly a great group of dudes. Dudes all pretty chill, mature and respectful.
BM and Arlette: Yes, I agree I like to see the men come back as line up.
"I want to attract calmness and peace...i don't need to raise my voice.." PERIODT! Man these ladies, missed the lottery with Robert and didn't even know it. These men were the best i have seen on this show in a while, kudos to them. BRING THEM BACK🙏🏽 but if not, i do wish everyone of them the best❤!
I'll pick Robert 24/7 he is a peaceful very demure sexy bald headed intelligent King
Yes BM and Arlette please bring all of them back. They are decent gentlemen.
The coolest thing about this, is this talk shows how much Arlette and BM listen to the viewers. 95%+ People said how terrible the women were from that episode, so it feels good to see that the hosts are watching and caring about what viewers want to see
Y’all should interview the last group of women who kept being rejected by the last lineup of men to make it fair. Now those men were ridiculous. Especially Herbert.
So true
Yes, those guy were ridiculous
Herbert was the one who looked like the crab in little mermaid? I don't like him at all
It would be cool but they're clout chasers and it would only give them more of what they want
@@nickyg1752 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That episode can kick rocks. These were stand up Men. Much luck and blessings to them.❤
Yes, please bring them all back. They deserve another chance at finding their forever love.
These are some genuine and quality fellas. I love the humbleness and communication.
they all need to come back. they got done dirty in that last episode. just from this video alone you can tell they are all solid good dudes.
those women im pretty sure can not take what their dishing hence why most men say we lack accountability, this show has definitely helped me to see all sides.
Thank you to Bam and Arlette for this i love the seriousness you guys put into this
Yep we can’t
THANK YOU for listening to our comments, great lineup of men they deserve another try forsure!
TRUAMA BONDING 😂 in the group chat !!!
Hearing all these man talk gives me a positive feedback on there are good man out there !! Very respectful panel of man 😮 Have them all back !
These men, QUALITY MEN! You should have them on a line up together!
Damn, they are Bonding over rejection!😆 Its already hard for men to approach women.
They should definitely make more rules going off clothes is crazy
They can't because it wouldn't be authentic, unfortunately this is reality. I met a girl once that cancelled a guy because she didn't like the shoe he wore to their date, his fit but guess what? She has MS, that's already a lot stacked against her. Dating has changed a lot. Maybe since 2016.
BM, you better bring all of them back and I think the show should only cast girls 28 and up. I feel like the younger girls are not serious in finding love well some of them. I feel like the show is always a success when it’s older guests.
They simply just weren't attracted to them and it's nothing wrong with that. People need to date in their league, i bet if a few Mishna's was before them, they would have been popping. Mishna is definitely beautiful and appears to be the whole package but that's not the beauty standard they want!
@@loyaltyb71052that is true but popping for something that could be changed is crazy for example the gut that wanted his women to have jewelry or colorful outfits instead of black. If we all do that then future generations is doomed and I’m only 29. To me it seems like a waste of time and money to go on a show just to pop because you didn’t like his fit or you want someone who is 2 feet taller than you.
@@143lmlm see we have to match where a person is. The worse thing you can do is go in saying well you can change that, that rarely works in your favor.
@@loyaltyb71052what do you mean date within their league. THESE MEN ARE NOT UNATTRACTIVE. They literally same level as the women if not better than Some. Stop saying silly shi
@@zion9146 well based on all of them having their balloons popped says different. I'm almost 50 and I don't find any of them attractive!
Yes, I agree that all of the men should come back on the show because they need a better opportunity for a woman to choose them and I hope a handful of them are successful at finding a match. BM and Arlette you guys are the greatest at what you all are doing for people in the dating pool. It is not easy out here at all so thank you I would like to see these guys win.
Bring them all back these are some real good brothers, and more mature sisters, because that last set of females just was it, especially that Carrington
BM THIS WAS THE BEST EPISODE SO FAR. These are intelligent, well mannered, handsome men. It's a YES . Let them come back on to find their match ❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Please bring them back! They need another chance
They all seemed like great men to date or partner with. Excited to watch this episode and their perspective.
I love this recap! They all need to come back on the show. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Please bring these gentlemen back they deserve another chance to find their person.
I feel like anyone under 27 should not be allowed to lineup because every time there is a women’s lineup in their early 20s, it’s very obvious they’re not there for love. The men’s lineup in their early 20s usually isn’t as bad as the women’s lineup, but at this point I’m fed up seeing people come on the show only to get popped because they’re too short, or they’re not wearing "nice" clothes 🤦🏾♀️
I agree the perfect age range would be 26-37. Around that age, women are ready to find real genuine love, have kids and get married!
Fully developed prefrontal cortexes ONLY
@@shamichaelwhite4462 Wait why the cut off at 37? lol
Unfortunately men want young so that won’t happen but I agree with the suggestion
@Noquarious dat part 😂💪🏾
I’m loving the consistency of their content
BM IS TOO FUNNY MAN 😂😂😂😂😂 “LETS NOT ACT LIKE WE DIDNT SEE THE SHOES” 😅😅
He's hilarious cause he has 1 facial expression the entire video.
@@Nestle245 no seriously man 😂😂😂
I wish I was 15 yrs younger, I would def be sliding in a DM. Good dudes here and they look even better here than they did on their ep. The young ladies were pissing me off with their critiques. In 5 yrs, if they’re still single, they will be asking where the good guys are. You passed them up because you didn’t like his bald head, sneakers, bottom row of teeth, voice, outfit, etc. I hope all of these guys find love off the exposure alone.
Eight beautiful and hard-working young men. Those women missed out on gems
Bring These MEN Back, they were completely wasted on those women who clearly did not know, nor understand how a relationship was supposed to work.
I agree as well. Here after watching y'all type this on y'all reaction video. Everytime they ask who do we want to see next on 'BM Talks To Them', my response is always KiteZz_ & Alex, & Tpindell. Y'all would make excellent guests coming from the reaction side of things & getting y'all perspective & input would be valid. Fans watch all 3 channels when they drop every Wednesday & feel like y'all are an important part of the overall viewing of the show just as much as the show itself. SALUTE, keep going.
@DDT61586 yes this is so true. I watch all three perspectives can't wait till they make this happen one day
this was SUCH a good lineup of men. i hate the selection of girls they had 😫 they’re all so handsome and took it very well
They deserve a second chance. All those women were bugged out.
Yes bring them back and I hope they all get chosen by some decent grateful women. Good luck handsome kings don't let anyone dim your light 💥
i'm only seeing intelligent, well-spoken, wise and fine men on this call. As a woman, I know they deserve better and they dodged a bullet
Yessssss, yall keep this content coming 😍😍😍, great perspective! Great group of gentleman
I must say, that episode and others reveals the differences between what people say they want, and what they actually go for. No offense to the dude from Philly, but he wasn't the most well spoken person since he ended his sentences with profanity at times. He also didn't say anything unique or profound. Yet, none of the women popped their balloon for a while.
He was fine as hell
Women under the age of 30 years old literally goes for looks...that's like the first thing they see. When a woman start hitting 32 looks don't even matter anymore...
@@redbluegreenwhite13 Usually it's by the mid- to late 20s that people stop hyperfocusing on looks. I've read articles that Black women do it more than other races, but it was a limited sample size.
@@ExposetheManosphere Limited sample size nothin'. We see it play out in real life, it's not a coincidence that that study confirmed what we witness and experience on a daily basis. They hyperfocus on superficial stuff more than other demographics. The truth is the truth.
The Trauma Gentlemen Crew coming in all black suits , I stand with yall 🙌🏾
the way I broke my nail trying to click when I seen the thumbnail and title 👁👁🍿🥤
This show is a good social experiment because the whole world gets to understand why this so called black love is so hard to achieve.
The men are actually looking for genuine love and appreciation while the women... who knows what they're looking for these days beside attention online.
You think this one show is indicative of why “black love “ is challenging to achieve? This is the main factor ?
Dating is hard no matter the race and the men can be just as difficult to date or superficial we’ve seen that as well…
@@AlliterativeAtheist Good question, to which i answer YES, for the most part.
It all comes down to a major lack of accountability but more importantly a terrifying lack of character, and that is mainly coming from the women or should i say the modern version of women.
Men's needs have never changed. We still desire real companionship filled with genuinely love, understanding, great advices and great communication. We want someone we feel is worth sacrificing for. Someone we can undoubtedly trust and be at peace with. We are looking for our other half and walk the path of life. Just like our grand parents did, and our parents did (at least in my generation).
Women's needs have become extremely unrealistic, which is very hard to deal with or get attached to. It just goes everywhere until we cannot make any sense out of it. And when things aren't making sense, men refuse to deal with those things because the end goal is impossible to reach and by nature we want to be able to see things through and find solutions.
That phone in your hands and your social media accounts seem to possess a greater influence on your reality than reality itself.
Bring them guys back on the show hell yeah pick better women interview those women first quality is a must
I love what the guy in the bottom right corner stated!! 24:07 this is more than just the dating world. It’s specifically the AA community. Other communities are focused on building generational wealth and leaving legacies with someone. Meanwhile our community is still focused on things that don’t have longevity (appearance, height, size, clothing) we have to do better
Yes bring them back. With more mature women. Mature in mind i mean
I really appreciate BM and Arlette. They are really grinding and genuinely trying to help and do something about uniting black couples.
Differently bring these young men back in their own lineup. BM and Arlette, please vet the ladies for high quality.
You guys should bring back these men !! WITH A TWIST have the other girls from the other episodes (girls that are the down to earth ones)… have them all on the same episode
why so these very men can treat the down the earth girls like the superficial women treated them? like chandler treated mishna? We have to date in our league, had chandler understood that what he wants is out of his reach, he wouldn't have blown it with a woman that was interested in having a future with him.
This whole podcast is awesome. I be wanting to know what they be thinking. !!! Yes yes. Get ALL the coins 💰
I loved watching this to the end,I like the guy who said he want to attract calmness
This was good and yes, please bring these brothers back. There are 8 kingdoms waiting to be developed with them as the head. I know their reappearance will not be vengeful either. This is a unique fraternity that deserves and will get better!
Amazing idea to have these wonderful men on a podcast. Definitely bring them back. Literally everyone would want to watch that.
Arlette & BM are both so infectious & creative! They KNOW their audience & I absolutely love that. I especially love the fact that they provide updates for us, their fans.Let me also shed light on how mindful and professional they are with their responses/reactions, LOVEEEELY