I love this. I however would love if our culture would be accomodative of young girls who's virginity was taken forcefully kubona, they miss out of these teachings and wisdom. 👌💜 La Chonco thank you so much ntombi love your energy and wisdom, stay humble and continue to touch more lives with just being you.💜
you probably dont give a shit but if you are bored like me atm then you can stream pretty much all of the new movies and series on instaflixxer. Have been binge watching with my gf during the lockdown xD
UkuSoma, intombi inxiba isikhakha xa ilele nomfana, and once umfana egqibile to wash away the sermen intombi yayiphumela pandle iyovasa ngamanzi abandayo ibe sele ibuyela emfaneni. Thanks LaConco for such informative session for our younger sisters and brothers to learn from🙏
Ave ngfisa ukuba ne one on one nawe Nonkanyiso each and every time you talk I grow umuntu ofana nawe u rare u bold u the kind of abantu besfazane that we need and Umuntu othi mekhuluma uzwe ukuth she fixes my crown I love u dearly sisi keep up ubuwena Machonco❤
20:20 So my interpretation is that Laconco is saying that amabhinca should associate with amabhinca? 🤔 I must say that I agree with her. Had a conversation with someone once and we came to the following conclusion: Like attracts like. This thing of opposites attracting only brings conflict, the only part where it brings harmony is when you two are COMPLIMENTARY. Not just different/opposing but complimentary where your weaknesses as a man are her strengths.
44:50 Ukusoma and the African Kama Sutra will help us a lot lol.. And angisho engomeni they don’t want to talk about what happens and what they teach. Even if it’s just us males, homie will NEVER tell you. Uk’soma is a beautiful thing. It shows you that sexual expression is possible even as virgins
I love that she has a male child, i have sons and want to know if there is an equivelant of Umkhosi woMhlanga for male children, so i can introduce it to my kids.
@@mynameworldwide Please PLEASE have this chat for young men. YOH! Initiation school is in a crisis. Masculinity is in a crisis. Ku NZIMA. You try to talk to cats about what happens engomeni, you don't get much. You realize that there's no tangible difference between a guy who went engomeni and a guy who didn't and you start to question the practice. You see the problems that we're plagued with. Same upbringing, same parents but the boy child ends up a nyoape addict. Physically protecting our women, sisters and mothers... we're cowards on our own streets. Mina I'm stressed as a black man. Not sure if I'm the only one. Doing what I can but I'm stressed
“Being ibhinca + being educated is a strong combination.” - Laconco Because you’re rooted and you know what to use all that information for. (P.s This quote is from a different interview)
I love this. I however would love if our culture would be accomodative of young girls who's virginity was taken forcefully kubona, they miss out of these teachings and wisdom. 👌💜 La Chonco thank you so much ntombi love your energy and wisdom, stay humble and continue to touch more lives with just being you.💜
Definitely putting this on our next lineup of chats! Thank you for the suggestion. Check us on IG @onegreatzuluman on IGTV.
you probably dont give a shit but if you are bored like me atm then you can stream pretty much all of the new movies and series on instaflixxer. Have been binge watching with my gf during the lockdown xD
@Hugh Ace yup, been using instaflixxer for years myself =)
You nailed it.
@Londiwe they do cthanduasam js that abavumelekile ukuphatha umhlanga but enyokeni bayaya🙏
Nonkanyiso Conco uyisibusiso ngobuhlakani bakho.Uzoba umongameli wokuqala wesifazane eningizimu Afrika.I love you loads
Muhle bo LaConco, and full of wisdom. So passionate about culture
Thank you so much for this conversation. Usis laChonco ugcwele ubuhlakani. 🙌🏽🙌🏽
UkuSoma, intombi inxiba isikhakha xa ilele nomfana, and once umfana egqibile to wash away the sermen intombi yayiphumela pandle iyovasa ngamanzi abandayo ibe sele ibuyela emfaneni.
Thanks LaConco for such informative session for our younger sisters and brothers to learn from🙏
Ave ngfisa ukuba ne one on one nawe Nonkanyiso each and every time you talk I grow umuntu ofana nawe u rare u bold u the kind of abantu besfazane that we need and Umuntu othi mekhuluma uzwe ukuth she fixes my crown I love u dearly sisi keep up ubuwena Machonco❤
20:20 So my interpretation is that Laconco is saying that amabhinca should associate with amabhinca? 🤔
I must say that I agree with her.
Had a conversation with someone once and we came to the following conclusion:
Like attracts like.
This thing of opposites attracting only brings conflict, the only part where it brings harmony is when you two are COMPLIMENTARY. Not just different/opposing but complimentary where your weaknesses as a man are her strengths.
Wooow.. Wooow this chatt iyandiphilisa... Aaw ngaze ndaphila
I would like to hear a lot from you Sisi... Your heart is beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
I'm in cape Town but ngitsho ndaphila emoyeni
44:50 Ukusoma and the African Kama Sutra will help us a lot lol.. And angisho engomeni they don’t want to talk about what happens and what they teach. Even if it’s just us males, homie will NEVER tell you. Uk’soma is a beautiful thing. It shows you that sexual expression is possible even as virgins
Wow that was powerful and well informed chat you guys had
Gambushe noNondaba syabonga
thank you so much laconco, for being so passionate and proud of your culture
Ngaze ngamthanda uNonkanyiso nengqondo yakhe ebuchule.❤️
Wow...so profound and informative. Im left without any words to describe the insightfulness of this interview.
Ngaze ngakuthanda Nonkanyiso Iqiniso ulibeka linjalo 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Laconco. Thank you for your wisdom.
43:20 On programmers for young men.
Young men are in a crisis and there’s no light at the end of the tunnel so far. Ku nzima. It’s DARK
I love this lady hle! Bathong
Thanks for such an insightful conversation
She is filled with wisdom i love herso much❤️
Ntokazi ubumba isizwe even onyoko umzelinqangi abusise izimfundiso zakho nawe
I love that she has a male child, i have sons and want to know if there is an equivelant of Umkhosi woMhlanga for male children, so i can introduce it to my kids.
There used to be, but I think we should then have a discussion on that so we can discuss ways to get that similar structure for our little boys
@@mynameworldwide Please PLEASE have this chat for young men. YOH!
Initiation school is in a crisis. Masculinity is in a crisis. Ku NZIMA.
You try to talk to cats about what happens engomeni, you don't get much.
You realize that there's no tangible difference between a guy who went engomeni and a guy who didn't and you start to question the practice.
You see the problems that we're plagued with. Same upbringing, same parents but the boy child ends up a nyoape addict.
Physically protecting our women, sisters and mothers... we're cowards on our own streets.
Mina I'm stressed as a black man. Not sure if I'm the only one. Doing what I can but I'm stressed
You are God given, very wise, I thank God ngawe Sisi, may God bless you.
“Being ibhinca + being educated is a strong combination.” - Laconco
Because you’re rooted and you know what to use all that information for.
(P.s This quote is from a different interview)
Nonkanyiso you are full of wisdom
Wow...😍I hv gained something from this video 👌
I love Nonkanyiso. Wisdom overload.
Not TH-cam recommending this video after her passing 🥺
Thanks Lachonco. Wayibeka imigomo yesintu
Kuhle kuyababazeka
What a combination of beauty and wisdom . Wow big ups to you my sister teach us❤😘
Oh yeah true love waits❤
Such a wise and beautiful woman 😍❤
Words of wisdom,
My fav💕
We need more of these talks 👏🏼
Thanks so much hope one day you will talk to LGBTQIA community
Wise words indeed sisi...siyabonga❤
Wow!! The wisdom I just gained 🙌, ngiyabonga
Thokoza
LaConco akazange alihle isiko lesintu , nakancane nje keep -up your beauty the are those women who look up too you how dress, talk listen
Eyi Nkosazana wakhuluma bo ama qiniso, ingabe iyezwa yini isizwe sikaPhunga noMageba.
Wow ezizinto sekwabe ndisemncinci
For those that don’t know, uk’soma is basically thigh sex - a ‘thigh job’.
😅perfect translation
Wazewanobuhlakani umama uLaChonco.
🙏♥️
WoW, ntokazi💜💜💜💜
maChonco♥️♥️♥️
Lachonco is wise😘
Akayena u "Mam'Chonco" ...