OMG - you know my person so well! One sided connection. I continue to struggle with all this. I know the right thing to do but My feelings run so deep for him. I just have to get strong enough to break free.
Thank you, this just helped me get through the nightmare experience of trying to reconnect w/ my family of origin (after MANY years) for Thanksgiving!! Turns out, the moment of pinnacle thankfulness was in letting them know they were being judgmental, dictatorial & controlling my direction, & then leaving for home immediately afterwards! The Happy Thanksgiving Escape!! 🏃Blessings to you, a spiritual teacher I'm forever thankful for! First Thanksgiving without your husband will be tough. I trust you have a support system. 💟 Happy Thanksgiving! With you, every day is Thanksgiving! 💥💫
I had a toxic Sag ex who did eveeything you said. And for 8 years I did apologize thinking I was always the problem. I couldnt understand what I did to make him ghost me twice, call me derogatory labels/swear words, calling me borderline psychotic and eventually just psychotic at the very end in a reddit post to everyone else except me. Our "relationship" only lasted 9 months and was barely a relationship since he was super emotionally avoidant. I was always putting in the effort. He also said f-d up things to me in the past such as, "yeah, I'm not sure why, but lots of girls just fall in love with me and can't fall out of love with me and end up staying in love with me. I don't know why." He also bragged about his junk. And flirted with underaged women. For so long, I always made the effort, tried to communicate and be honest with him at all times, tried staying friends with him after we broke up, tried fixing things between us countless times, financially supported him, was always supportive of him, was an emotional crutch for him during his crippling depressive episodes and afterwards would act aloof and want nothing to do with me, could barely hold down a job, could barely live for that matter, yet blamed everyone else for HIS actions and problems. It was extremely toxic and I only realized 8 years after everything he put me through. I always asked him, "what am I to you?" And he never answered me. I saw his reddit comment calling me the psychotic one after all those years and what I did for him, that was my last straw. I finally got my closure, and I've never been happier. If he ever does grow some balls and come back to apologize to me - which is HIGHLY unlikely, my answer would be no.
Exsctly! He attracts low vibrational women like himself. You gave a very deep explanation of the man i have been dealing with. Finally i undestand. He fucks himself eventually. it is a constantloop he is in and will never get out. Thanks Laura👌
Happy Thanks Giving US collective 🙏🏽✨💫❤️❤️❤️
OMG - you know my person so well! One sided connection. I continue to struggle with all this. I know the right thing to do but My feelings run so deep for him. I just have to get strong enough to break free.
Amazing how you know the person in such detail. Thank you for the encouragement, clarity, and hope for better to come.
Thank you, this just helped me get through the nightmare experience of trying to reconnect w/ my family of origin (after MANY years) for Thanksgiving!! Turns out, the moment of pinnacle thankfulness was in letting them know they were being judgmental, dictatorial & controlling my direction, & then leaving for home immediately afterwards! The Happy Thanksgiving Escape!! 🏃Blessings to you, a spiritual teacher I'm forever thankful for! First Thanksgiving without your husband will be tough. I trust you have a support system. 💟 Happy Thanksgiving! With you, every day is Thanksgiving! 💥💫
I cringe to think I took on the role of dish rag and lowest hanging fruit. Enough time has passed I can often chuckle, but still...ugh.
Thanks, Laura! Peace and ❤️
Yay, Laura time! Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!!!
I had a toxic Sag ex who did eveeything you said. And for 8 years I did apologize thinking I was always the problem. I couldnt understand what I did to make him ghost me twice, call me derogatory labels/swear words, calling me borderline psychotic and eventually just psychotic at the very end in a reddit post to everyone else except me. Our "relationship" only lasted 9 months and was barely a relationship since he was super emotionally avoidant. I was always putting in the effort. He also said f-d up things to me in the past such as, "yeah, I'm not sure why, but lots of girls just fall in love with me and can't fall out of love with me and end up staying in love with me. I don't know why." He also bragged about his junk. And flirted with underaged women. For so long, I always made the effort, tried to communicate and be honest with him at all times, tried staying friends with him after we broke up, tried fixing things between us countless times, financially supported him, was always supportive of him, was an emotional crutch for him during his crippling depressive episodes and afterwards would act aloof and want nothing to do with me, could barely hold down a job, could barely live for that matter, yet blamed everyone else for HIS actions and problems. It was extremely toxic and I only realized 8 years after everything he put me through. I always asked him, "what am I to you?" And he never answered me. I saw his reddit comment calling me the psychotic one after all those years and what I did for him, that was my last straw. I finally got my closure, and I've never been happier. If he ever does grow some balls and come back to apologize to me - which is HIGHLY unlikely, my answer would be no.
Merciless Forgiveness. Bless you Laura on this Thanksgiving Day ❤
Thank you for the reading it was bang on…
Very well said😊
Thank you again Beautiful, Happy Thanksgiving to you n yours!
Exsctly! He attracts low vibrational women like himself. You gave a very deep explanation of the man i have been dealing with. Finally i undestand. He fucks himself eventually. it is a constantloop he is in and will never get out.
Thanks Laura👌
Title speak my entire life
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