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my immediate family can't seem to understand that i don't often want physical contact. touch can make me uncomfortable, but the only time they at all respect my boundaries around it is when i'm already mad or otherwise upset. now i barely let them touch me, and they act all shocked when i'm comfortable hugging & otherwise being touched by friends & other family...
SAME omggg
Same. My mum is constantly asking for a hug and never understood that I hated physical contact. Then I got diagnosed with autism and she accepted it. But even if I wasn't autistic, she should've just respected that I didn't like hugs
Same but its for peoppe i dont know that well and dont like
Yes, same!
Hug from them seems... fake? somewhat. Very often they ask for a hug so you can show that you still love them. But they don't love you. Not the current you. They've never bothered to learn the new you and love it. They want you to stay the same, while others live the person you are today and the one you've been 10 years ago. And to be honest, I don't really want them to learn the new me, because it might disappoint them. It's not who they expected you to be. And you know it. So this hug is fake and doesn't mean much to you, only the reminder of the things you keep in the dark...
@@glittergamer765it seems like she doesn’t realize that she is allowed to say no when you ask for hugs too
My family doesn't understand that sometimes I just can't speak. I'm not being antisocial and ignoring people, I don't have the energy to speak and I need to be alone for a while until it blows over
My family will never understand why I love writing novels and stories
what kind 👀
this was my first thought at the question too
I’d love to read them sometime I’m a writer too😅
@Paper_mannequin Same here!
same
My extended family doesn't understand why I don't talk to them. I cut nearly all ties to my family. Immediate and extended family. They *all* knew I was being abused, and nobody did anything about it. My eldest sister's death was the last straw. I left (probably illegally) and never looked back. I refuse to talk to anybody who associates with them. I didn't rush home when my dad was having heart surgery or when my uncle had to have a lung removed due to cancer. I won't be going to any funerals or visiting their graves. I didn't attend my living sister's wedding. Help the children in your life. They aren't stupid.
This happened to me, my details are just a little different. But this is so close I started shaking while reading your comment. How did you move on? I just can't seem to get on with my life and move past them. I'm still so lost and angry, stuck. I don't want them to dictate anything about me, but I'm still allowing them in my head and heart. Sorry, I am just desperate.
I’m so sorry. I get so mad when people assume that just because someone has had a child that it automatically makes them a good parent.
@@rochellemarshall3804abuser's aren't worth the time and pain to think about love yourself and within time u will find others who can do so
That I feel different about a lot of things since I woke up from the coma. I'm still me, but I am not the same. I am angry at them for their laziness that almost killed me.
I'm sorry to hear that. Can you go into more details?
Please I need more story
Peace they don't understand I just want peace, to be left alone and unbothered.
My family will never understand that I am an adult. I am in my mid 20s and I still get treated like I am a teenager. They only treat me like I am my age when my partner is there.
Yeah, my narcissist mother was like that.
Drop over to my house any time she felt like it, refused to call ahead, and expected me to be available at all times.
I move in with somebody and suddenly she understands planning ahead and personal boundaries.
Once I made the connection, I felt so betrayed. She could if she wanted to, she just didn't want to. I wasn't worth the effort.
My family will never understand why I hate being social with them. They are overly draining and they often don’t understand that if I ask a question about something they ask of me it isn’t because I’m talking back but I don’t know where/how to do the thing the asked me
my family don't understand why i dont tell them anything about my life, especially my father since he will not only tell every Tom, Dick and Harry about it, even stuff that should be private and has promised to not tell anyone but also embellishes everything to the point only 90% of what he says is not true.
My family won’t understand that I’ve healed from the past. I’ve done so much research and therapy but I’ve made it out the other side. I’m not miserable anymore and they don’t understand how much work I’ve put in to become the person I am today
I am not am not the village idiot they treat me. I have a learning disability.
That’s so sad to hear. Especially because I have a learning disability and my family treats me like that too. Just remember that you are smart and you are trying your hardest and know one can make you feel otherwise. ❤❤❤
@@RaynGrimes I am graduating from college next June but they are not invited. I may not even tell them.
@@danikeebler1662keep your peace, people always say you need to update others about your life when in reality you really don’t. i wish you well
My closer family doesn't understand I have mysophobia and OCD and they don't respect I don't my stuff being touched.
My family will never understand that most of my happiness I express is fake.
I used to do that and then I started acting monotone, cold etc. and now they're concerned. Either you stop exhausting yourself with fake happiness or you concern them or get lectured for not being happy enough
@Muhammedkh275 exactly… on days when I’m so exhausted and I allow myself to express the realistic happiness that I feel, which is small, they think something is wrong with me…
Glad I’m not the only one
Why despite the intervening years, I still hate my brother who physically and psychologically abused me till I was15yo.
Older brothers are shit.. mine too.. (not trying to steal attention and whatever I'm just saying that I can sorta get it, if you need to talk about it)
@@Muhammedkh275 thank you. I hope you are doing ok.
My family will never understand that I'm in LGBTQ+.
You're brave.
As an asexual, I can fly under the radar and do.
My dad will never understand why im never at his house and why i hate my step mom
Mine don’t understand that I am more of an introvert and don’t want to spent all of the time I am awake with them
My family will never understand that having ADHD DOES affect my memory and ability to do things I don't feel like doing
Hey, normally I don't post but I hope a little kindness helps. I have ADHD too. Sometimes my memory is a disaster, forgetting things. I learned more about ADHD in my classes than from my doctors. It does sound like your parents need psycho education (but that is the professional in training in me talking). Just know that you are not alone and that there are a lot of people who understand you
My parents are the exact same way
Amen!!! Thank GOD my parents are helping me through my ADHD diagnosis and treatment!
🔫 😡 were is the fucking spaghetti
I relate to the things I don’t want to do
My family will never understand why I converted to Christianity
They'll never understand me myself, like bloody hell I used to be so cheerful and expressive and such a fun kid (sometimes annoying but i was a normal kid). Now i started to change myself and become cold, distant and unexpressive... I stay in my room and get told i don't smile enough while speaking, i don't eat with my family enough, hell they get mad when i don't want to go with them places.. but whenever i do i always get pissed off because of my brother and father.. they're so similar to each other and I'm different.. they'd be amazing if i wasn't in the family and someone else took my place but i don't like them.. hell my mother's dead and I even had a few issues with her... Whenever i vent or anything im shushed and whatever... Honestly I'm writing this in a crap way because there's nothing i can do.. I'm just so tired dude.
That sucks, I hope your situation gets better
@@AverageReader._. thanks, man... Me too
My family will never understand why I am not social anymore
That is no kit-kat
It's better
@@justjosh1992false.
They’ll never understand why I refuse to interact with my older brother.On multiple occasions,I had planned to come out to him;that was until He said something along the lines of,”Trans people are a trend,it’s about time we end it.”
Hearing those words from the man I used to look up to when I was a kid hurt so much,knowing that he wanted people like me gone.But my other siblings and my parents act like I’m being unreasonably cold to him(then again,they also refuse to see me as a boy)
My family doesn't understand 2 things about me
1, im a night owl who's brain getting extremely active when it's past midnight
2, why i ask my mum for a 2 day notice to help her with big things, i hate whenever she expects me to spend hours doing something i don't like without notice and she doesn't even say what she wants done and complains when someone doesn't do what she wants, the other day me, my mum and my brothers were doing the back garden, she complained that no one was doing anything, despite the fact i offered to help her, and that we've already done what she said
She has also said that "we" (referring to me, her and my brothers) are gonna cut by aunt's grass in her front and back garden, and she leaves, making me and my brothers do the garden, it's a big garden, we didn't even get to the back garden before we left.
She is such a pain at times
My family won't understand why it takes me longer to grieve than them
my close family cant wrap their heads around whay being trans means, granted they arent hateful just a bit confused and cant understand, my mum likes ru paul so she thinks im just a calmer drag king but ey, being mistaken for drag is much better than being told im going against god and the natural laws. my cousins all seem yo get it and accept it so thats good
My family will never understand that just because im the oldest AND that im a girl doesn't mean im entitled to babysitting my little brothers whenever my parents feel like being alone.
My family doesn’t understand how much I'm begging for my pain to be seen. I want them to look at how much I struggle everyday and finally accept that I'm different,that there is something wrong with me.
My family doesn’t understand my feelings, If I ever say what I think even if I’m right, but in their eyes I’m just immature and selfish. One event that marked me was on my 13th birthday my mom gave a Naruto headband as a gift since at that time I was obsessed with Naruto, and my little cousin who was 8 saw it and told me if he could borrow it and I told him yes, at the end of the party I asked him to give it back but then he stared crying saying that a had gifted it to him, my mother told me to just give it to him, but I wanted it back since it was a gift for my mother but everyone seemed to judge me( the party was only between family), I got the head an back but my aunt and my uncle where clearly mad at me and the my mother told me to give it to him, I stared crying but she didn’t seemed to care because she told me to give it to him, and she insisted I personally gave it to him eve though I was crying, I just left the headband on the sofa where my aunt was sitting and ran to my room and I just keep crying. Some minutes later my cousin was consoling me(she was the same age as me) and the my aunt came to my room and gave me the headband, I was happy that I got it back, but all my happiness went to the drain when after everyone left my mother came to my room and asked me that what was wrong with me, the he was to young to understand reason, that I had embarrassed her, and that I was just being ungrateful and she left angry at me. I cried until I fell asleep, the only two people who didn’t blame me for what had happened where my aunt and my cousin. This was not the fist occasion and I know it won’t be the last one since I’m still a minor, but it hurts when only other people are putted as the victim when I’m right, they make fun of me and hit me, but there’s always an excuse… and I’m always at guilt even those times they got scolded the adults where still mad at me😔
My family will never understand that I need aid.
I am an autistic male and my family refuses to help me.
Im 13 years old and I need aid, I want aid, I deserve aid, but im not gonna get aid.
My family will never understand that I am an introvert and I have emotional problems and anxiety that I can’t speak out loud unless I’m pushed because my mom is the other so I admitted that I was impression and other stuff but still my dad makes snarky comments about things because I like my phone because I can able to talk without talking but one day he made a snarky comment saying would you be depressed without it after I asked to get my phone
My father doesnt understand why i just sit around its because he made me this was anything i do is wrong he'll just take over, wanna enjoy video games nah as soon as i touch it its "your always on that stupid fucking game" wich i am but thats because if i go try and do literally anything i get met with some fucking bull shit to top it all of im already in trouble and i start yeeling explaining why i dont do anything ill get fucked up lasttime he slammed my head into the ground now just this emotionless fuck that cant relax unless im alone i despise other pepole and only want to be alone if i could id fall into a deep sleep and wake up when everybody i know if fucking dead then mabey ill have some fucking peace and beable to relax or mabey the universe will kill me off and ill have peace for eternity
Theres an endless amout of bullshit i could put but this pretty much somes it up
you feel *your* family won’t understand
#2Spirit #indigenous #queer
My parents will never understand *me.*
My gender identity, but they support me
Have you ever tried to find your mom ❔
German history im not german
I wonder why they kept them?
A part of my family is confused why I don’t stay at gatherings anymore and will leave until it’s over even at my mother’s home and it’s because of two individuals(mom and kid) who lied and almost got me sent away to juvie even though it was her husband who was touching her kid and I never received an apology and I still don’t want to be around kids cause(not to family members) assault yes, attempted manS yes, attempted murd yes, stealing yes, breaking an entering (all were abandoned) yes, battery yes (gang wars), but touching them naw but after hearing what happened to guys in prison who actually did it and whatever is on that paper means you did it then you did it even if you didn’t do it. I’m lucky it was a new judge who didn’t believe them cause the prosecutor was our cousin not the judge and my lawyer was speaking to the prosecutor beforehand and my lawyer didn’t even get my testimony and was thinking yeah he probably did it like 3,000 down the hatch. I took the opportunity to become an hvac contractor and I stay clear from that family I won’t do work for them and those that try to have me do work for them I’ll blacklist them to from my services
From this experience I don’t think I’ll ever have kids cause I’m in fear of this being accused again.
That I could easily teach a masterclass on arthurian mythology if I wanted to, but I have difficulty putting my feelings into words.
Stop punishing yourself, enjoy Christmas 🎄
My family doesn’t understand that I don’t like physical contact and repeatedly say “WhEn yOu Get A BoyFriEnd TheN You’LL bE aLl tOucHy” but little do they know that I’m Aroace so fat chance
Lol my family will never understand me being LGBTQ 😭(Gay and others)
My family won't understand my sexuality. They are accepting, but it will never change that they just don't get it. I appreciate their love, but they will never understand me the way I do
My family will never understand that im Bisexual and Trangender
My family will never understand that the reason I don’t have conversations with them that often is because they don’t know anything about the majority of my interests and I don’t like having to explain my interests to them over and over again. They’ll also never understand why I like watching TH-cam and they continuously call anything I watch “trash”.
My family cant understand that im asexual,not that its their buisiness anyway,so...
My family wont understand that theyre standards are so high even something wrong like getting an 87 can dissapoint them
Why when i was 12 i stopped calling my father 'dad'. I was introduced into BDSM. I was groomed over the next few years. I didnt know what was happening but i wanted to appease all of my supposed 'doms'. Now it brings me anxiety and stress and shame. My parents still have no idea and my dad is and will always be sad that i never called him dad again.
My parents never understand why I never talk to them. My dad doesn't believe in my opinions because "young people are inexperienced" despite I'm being the professional in the topic and mom has a habit of completing my sentence. Scratch that. Not a sentence, a whole paragraph, and none of them hit the mark.
My family won’t understand why I can’t do funerals. It isn’t a belief about death or spirits, or the sadness or anything, I just don’t show “the right amount of emotion” and I feel uncomfortable being more focused on talking with my friends on discord than I am on the deceased.
And the family will wonder why you stopped talking to them, when they themselves were the first stop talking
You should check the address from the letters and visit your MB
Sometimes I just can't talk I cant explain it and don't know why. So because I had no idea how to explain it I've just hidden in my room or outside when it just feels impossible to open my mouth and speak to another person. My family says im stupid and shouldnt be so 'antisocial' while I just dont know how to explain that I need that time to recuperate and speak again.
How much i like being alone. I love my family and spend plenty of time with them, but i still prefer the solitude and quiet of my home over anything else. I dont see the need to be around people all the time. Thankfully im an adult and got my own place, so its a non issue now. Which is exactly why ill probably never be married.
My family will never understand that my brother is a bully who is half of the reason I’m so miserable and my mum will never understand that she is the other half of the reason. My dad will never understand how much I love him because it’s incomprehensible ❤
I don't like going outside, I am comfortable in my own house. Let me be clear, I have no issue going outside and in case of family plans or meeting up freinds I don't have a problem, if I don't have to I just don't want, don't prefer to. I am not really social but not to the level that I can be consideres a creep. The interactions I have during the day is enough for me. As long as I don't feel alone, pyshical lonliness is great for me. I also don't have much freinds, just a handful and keeping in touch with them regularly is enough for me, I don't feel the need to have plans every week or so. Like I said, I am comfortable in my own house, I am comfortable being alone doing stuff that I enjoy during the day and that is enough for me. I understand their worries, I should go outside a lot more than I should because for my mental state is kind of not in the best state right now (I was always like this, I am feeling kinda down for 2 months and I do belive being a little more active can solve it or at least be helpfull) but they don't have to make passive aggresive comments, it is not hard to not to especially my sister and my dad.
I dont like being at social gatherings where most of the people there are people i dont know well enough to trust(i dont have trust issues)
My family cant understand that its not easy to be left handed when you were right handed all your life (its not about being left handed or right handed)
Mine will never understand that i don't want to be a Mormon because of my trauma and bullying Form other people
My family will never understand that im not a fucking todler and I want them to stop treating me like one
My family will never understand that i don't like them because of their shitty treatment of me
That i cant work with people who are rude and will give them even more $hit back. I get yelled at all the time for this because my mom had sibling rivaly but expects us to act differently than she and her brother did
My family cant understand that im different from them, that i cant read social situations very well and that im depressed. I talk, and they say im annoying or dumb or dont understand my tone. I stop talking, and they seem happy. I feel left out in a lot of daily family moments, and i feel like the black sheep
But at least u know the truth. I'm sorry u had to learn about it on such a happy day that reoccurs every year though. Also, have u talked to ur bio mom now that u know?
they dont know the number of scars they caused me because i dont have a lot of outside scars.
They will never understand i no longer happy with them and i just want to go far away from them but i can't for personal reasons
The reason why I don't like celebrating Christmas is cause I took my dad to the hospital on Christmas eve and we got a call saying he was gonna get released on Christmas Day and then he got worst when he was in the hospital and he passed away on the Jan 8th and I get upset around that time of year cause I was the one that took him to the hospital and the last person from the family he last talked to
i had a similar situation but i was old enough to remember my past so instead they went the route of telling me my mother could send letters and lie and say she never did to break my love for her that way
Did they make contact woth their real mother?
Daring people to do menial tasks/chores seems like a great way to hack the system
Ok look…
I understand…
just Christmas?? damn
Find her
SUE
Sounds fake to me, I'm sorry
But that's sad
Most of these Stories are fake
Well duh it's reddit
My parents will never understand why I won't tell them anything
😢😢
💔
I love my family so much and I wouldn't pick any other. But there is always a disconnect about Christmas with me too. The stress of the entire holiday as an autistic person is hell to me. I don't have good associations with the holiday and I'm not religious, but they are obsessed with all of it.
I feel like there's somewhat in the justice system to sue them
Skibidi
Trash comment
Fake. No breathing human being outside of a movie would "hide" letters and save them in a box with the receiver's name on the top of it.