Haha. Opening scene the 3 friends hearing Man Ni story ..funny how we see and voice other people's mistakes / short comings ..but don't see our own ..did anyone notice the look Jia shot at the short haired friend..can't think of her name right now
I’ve always liked Chen Yu and never understood why some were hard on him. He wasn’t to be blamed for everything. His ex wife had her faults as well. They both lacked proper clear communication. They didn’t know how to be transparent with one another. They just kept expecting for the other person to fully understand what was going on in their head.
@@Olive-999 then why don’t you move away from that “immovable wall”? Why do you continue to keep talking to it? I hope you get some help for ur issues.
She had her faults but she didn't cheat. Why couldn't he talk it out or just divorce straight up without sleeping around? There is nothing cute about continuous cheating. He meant it.
Why is Chen yu being nice all of sudden…before when they were married he never got snacks for her, say her mom is annoying them, only care about his fish…now he wants to get back with her, but it’s too late.
Chen Yu was a really bad husband but I also think his ex wife was a bad wife. She is/was quite immature. She also lives in the past. Both are really not great at all. But of course i see a lot of women blaming the husband. See your own faults too.
She watched so much drama that she thought n wanted a life like that n she is too immature n selfish , she always yells at him , marriage is hardwired n very good communication , she wanted a life like her college friend
I knw Chen Yu was a good husband...the wife kept telling him to not do somethings in the past then she suddenly forgot then label him as selfish...plus when they lost the baby,did someonei actually ask him how he felt?they just thought he dint have any emotions which is wrong.urgh!their past communication was just bad
@@yvonnettabushell6040 I agree with you both, its an easy mistake to make if the couple doesnt have enough self awareness, they turned against each other instead of sticking together when things got really tough (losing the baby). and i guess they had become complacent in their relationship but also not trying to do anything about it (Xiao Qin (I love her btw) was fine except when things would bother her and then she'd explode) I hope things work out for them. I like the little bro at work but sorry...Xiao Qin's not the one for him...
So who do you guys think the lady on the treadmill is? I am thinking she is related to Liang Zheng Xian, maybe his wife or something. I think this girl will have him wear that tie to meet Man Ni.
WTF?? I didn't like her from the second I saw her face.. I was looking for the answer to this question, bc I was curious who she was too. But now that I'm finding out, I dislike her even more now! 🤮🤬
So, it really has another woman in Hong Kong, what a pity for Man Ni. I hope this lady just tells her soon instead to try to bothering her, also this would help Man Ni to see the cruel reality : /. Chen Yu is trying so hard, that is uncomfortable and annoying. Is doing the things so lateee, and still not doing what was important, that was just to be honest with her, that thing he believes "it doesn´t matter" : / and it is base for a couple communication. Gu Jia is trying so hard, hope she be able to find an investment
Just waiting 😂 really wish GuJia, XuHuanShan and their family can really stay safe. I really admire GuJia because when you become a mum, you would do everything to give the best or protect them. I really wish that there is a good ending to this drama. Looking forward to it! - Love from Australia 静静地等着，😂 真的很希望顾佳，许幻山他们一家不会出什么事。就很羡慕他们有这么幸福的一个家。我很欣赏（也希望可以从她身上学到一些有用的东西）顾佳很聪明，可能是因为当妈吧。当了妈之后一会想尽一切办法来给孩子最好的或者保护他们。真的希望这部剧会有一个好的结局。拭目以待！- 来自澳洲的粉丝
yeah unfortunately that girl was also a really bad wife, I don't think we can blame him 100% even though yes, he is/was awful. The girl could not remember to clean the cat's litter remember? she relies too much on her parents and other people around her.
yeah you're right, and I also realised just in this episode, sure he doesnt talk much, but at least he's consistent lol, he doesnt talk about neither the good or the bad, poor guy. I just saw him pick up the shoes for the umpteenth time and put them on the rack rofl
@@saotee194he’s not consistent though! He bottled up his emotions and used to lose his temper and snap at anything. It’s hard being around someone like that, you never know what’s gonna set them off or when is a good time to talk to them.
She is a jerk…can’t stand her or that other conniving girl who works with Ju Gia’s husband. They are both awful and not nearly as attractive as the women who are being cheated on.
He's so manipulative in such a shameless way, it's disgusting. Isolating her, trying to make her dependant, so she thinks she can only be happy and safe when he'S around.... He's such a fucking weirdo.
If he had put a fraction of the effort he's using to try and get her back into his actual marriage while they were still married they wouldn't have divorced. He still hasn't done the one thing he should which is to sit down with her and tell her his regrets and tell her he wants to try and fix things. He is still not communicating with her and that was/is his problem.
Remember why a person is your EX. The husband is too creepy, liar and a schemer. Guarantee he will return right back to his old ways after his ex- wife returns to him. Exs are like “throw up” never return for seconds.
@@virginiaboone8163”protective”??? - This man was yelling at his girlfriend to get an abortion - He got mad at his mother-and-law for wanting to take care of Xiao Qin post-miscarriage even though he himself wasn’t gonna do it - He made her take taxis home even though he could’ve given her a ride - He kept abusing her cat and told her she couldn’t keep a pet while he hypocritically has a house full of fish Etc etc etc They were both selfish and immature. An abusive childhood isn’t an excuse for being a bad partner, he had years to grow up and be different.
Can anyone explain to me what the family with the food cart that is always at the end of each episode is all about I keep trying to figure out where they fit into the series?!?
It’s a contrast to show how people with significantly less are still significantly more content with their lives and familial relationships. They live and work in the same city as the main characters, so sometimes their lives intersect, like how the little boy adopted Xiao Qin’s cat
it's not funny, it's seriously worrying, that wine could have made her go horny, like what the heck, so he could use that to tie, her, He will never change,
Didn't he give his wife a beautiful ring at her birthday party and a lovely speech to her, and told her how much he loves her?? And yet he gets off the phone with wife and immediately checks his phone for the conniving woman's messages?? Yeap..and that will be the ruin of his marriage!! Dork man!!! 😠😡🤬
My favorite thing about this series is the tea story. I will never take good tea for granted again.
the way chen yu is trying so hard to win his ex wife back... chile why didnt u try this hard when u were still with xiao tong??
Its that universal thing where you dont realise how important something is until you lose it
@@Hydrang3a Humans are stupid
Ikr
It’s a man thing, he couldn’t let go of his ego
It's hopeless. She already made up her mind to divorce him a long time ago .
When Chen You said " is there a hole in your brain" it took me out, 😭 am sorry but that shit was funny 😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
I find Chen Yu really cute in the beginning though 😆💕 I think the man deserves another chance. Life has many learning processes after all
Exactly
I feel like she just jumps into conclusions with the whole thing of not giving her half of house anymore.
so why does mani ni get all of his sugar babies memberships to the same gym?!! does not seem like a good idea lol
I am proud of Gu Jia is not give up to save Tea Factory.
很喜欢顾佳这个角色，智慧兼美丽也很善良，懂的是非对错，真希望越来越多中国女性像顾佳一样.
别了，就现在中国的男性都配不上中国很多女性，女性在婚姻中付出的太多了。
她有好的方面但是不是每个人都要她这样的。
@@clevergamer6704 我就不想哈哈哈哈哈哈哈
Haha. Opening scene the 3 friends hearing Man Ni story ..funny how we see and voice other people's mistakes / short comings ..but don't see our own ..did anyone notice the look Jia shot at the short haired friend..can't think of her name right now
I’ve always liked Chen Yu and never understood why some were hard on him. He wasn’t to be blamed for everything. His ex wife had her faults as well. They both lacked proper clear communication. They didn’t know how to be transparent with one another. They just kept expecting for the other person to fully understand what was going on in their head.
how do you talk, to a immovable wall
@@Olive-999 then why don’t you move away from that “immovable wall”? Why do you continue to keep talking to it? I hope you get some help for ur issues.
She had her faults but she didn't cheat. Why couldn't he talk it out or just divorce straight up without sleeping around?
There is nothing cute about continuous cheating. He meant it.
I’m rooting for you Gu Jia
Using tricks to get your wife back. Ugh I hope they don’t.
Chen Yu is getting on my last nerves! He can communicate all of a sudden! Men=🚮
Reality is about to hit Man Ni in the face🤧
Gu Jia is ❤️
结尾的这家人，感觉他们挺幸福的。以前在北京有阿姨，阿姨和老公在北京，后来儿子又来读大学，一家人感觉很开心的。每次骑着电瓶车来我家，都是满脸笑容
Why is Chen yu being nice all of sudden…before when they were married he never got snacks for her, say her mom is annoying them, only care about his fish…now he wants to get back with her, but it’s too late.
People don't appreciate what they have until they lose them
Exactly
Chen Yu was a really bad husband but I also think his ex wife was a bad wife. She is/was quite immature. She also lives in the past. Both are really not great at all. But of course i see a lot of women blaming the husband. See your own faults too.
Hit the nail on the head ..right ..both were wrong and not working at the marriage
It's so sad, it really doesn't take much to keep a woman happy.
She watched so much drama that she thought n wanted a life like that n she is too immature n selfish , she always yells at him , marriage is hardwired n very good communication , she wanted a life like her college friend
He didn't communicate at all and she was immature & selfish
yep, both are at fault
I knw Chen Yu was a good husband...the wife kept telling him to not do somethings in the past then she suddenly forgot then label him as selfish...plus when they lost the baby,did someonei actually ask him how he felt?they just thought he dint have any emotions which is wrong.urgh!their past communication was just bad
Glad some are finally seeing the whole picture.. although not many viewers will agree with us
She was /is immature
@@yvonnettabushell6040 I agree with you both, its an easy mistake to make if the couple doesnt have enough self awareness, they turned against each other instead of sticking together when things got really tough (losing the baby). and i guess they had become complacent in their relationship but also not trying to do anything about it (Xiao Qin (I love her btw) was fine except when things would bother her and then she'd explode) I hope things work out for them. I like the little bro at work but sorry...Xiao Qin's not the one for him...
So who do you guys think the lady on the treadmill is?
I am thinking she is related to Liang Zheng Xian, maybe his wife or something.
I think this girl will have him wear that tie to meet Man Ni.
Yes she is the woman he is engaged to and the reason why he don't want Nan ni to go to Hong Kong with him
Sad. He said he didn't believe in marriage yet he's engaged?
WTF?? I didn't like her from the second I saw her face.. I was looking for the answer to this question, bc I was curious who she was too. But now that I'm finding out, I dislike her even more now! 🤮🤬
@@chisomiwuchukwu5400 was she engaged with Liang Z Xian? In Later episode she said she was with him for 6,7 year & never be his wife.
So, it really has another woman in Hong Kong, what a pity for Man Ni. I hope this lady just tells her soon instead to try to bothering her, also this would help Man Ni to see the cruel reality : /. Chen Yu is trying so hard, that is uncomfortable and annoying. Is doing the things so lateee, and still not doing what was important, that was just to be honest with her, that thing he believes "it doesn´t matter" : / and it is base for a couple communication.
Gu Jia is trying so hard, hope she be able to find an investment
😂 funny fish man. I like when they fight , they both are funny 😁
Just waiting 😂 really wish GuJia, XuHuanShan and their family can really stay safe. I really admire GuJia because when you become a mum, you would do everything to give the best or protect them. I really wish that there is a good ending to this drama. Looking forward to it! - Love from Australia
静静地等着，😂 真的很希望顾佳，许幻山他们一家不会出什么事。就很羡慕他们有这么幸福的一个家。我很欣赏（也希望可以从她身上学到一些有用的东西）顾佳很聪明，可能是因为当妈吧。当了妈之后一会想尽一切办法来给孩子最好的或者保护他们。真的希望这部剧会有一个好的结局。拭目以待！- 来自澳洲的粉丝
Katherine Tang g g g h g
yeah unfortunately that girl was also a really bad wife, I don't think we can blame him 100% even though yes, he is/was awful. The girl could not remember to clean the cat's litter remember? she relies too much on her parents and other people around her.
The guy had a really traumatic childhood and it really mess him up with his relationship in adulthood.
The two were at fault. Assuming someone doesn't or does need something was there problem
yeah you're right, and I also realised just in this episode, sure he doesnt talk much, but at least he's consistent lol, he doesnt talk about neither the good or the bad, poor guy. I just saw him pick up the shoes for the umpteenth time and put them on the rack rofl
@@saotee194he’s not consistent though! He bottled up his emotions and used to lose his temper and snap at anything. It’s hard being around someone like that, you never know what’s gonna set them off or when is a good time to talk to them.
人的性格无法改变，即使复婚也只是重复之前的不愉快。
The lady next to Man Ni at the gym seems suspicious. Now she is at Man Ni’s work.
i think she is mani's boyfriends other sugar baby
Maybe his ex
She is a jerk…can’t stand her or that other conniving girl who works with Ju Gia’s husband. They are both awful and not nearly as attractive as the women who are being cheated on.
This amusement park lady, i don't want to judge her but i feel she is clinging to President Xu because he is rich.
Nice and educative
Making someone feel useless is not the way to win them back, bro. That's cult tactics.
He's so manipulative in such a shameless way, it's disgusting. Isolating her, trying to make her dependant, so she thinks she can only be happy and safe when he'S around.... He's such a fucking weirdo.
Why so harsh? He has found out how important she is to him and is trying to win her back. It’s supposed to be comical the way he’s going about it.
@@virginiaboone8163 Except it’s not funny….at all. It’s manipulative. 😒🤷🏽♀️
@@aryella7107 I think his little brother told him about those tactics.
If he had put a fraction of the effort he's using to try and get her back into his actual marriage while they were still married they wouldn't have divorced. He still hasn't done the one thing he should which is to sit down with her and tell her his regrets and tell her he wants to try and fix things. He is still not communicating with her and that was/is his problem.
I know for sure this lady is the fiancée of Ni Ni’s boyfriend
"我不是老板，我是顾嫁" 😭
Am I the only one who finds Chen Yu getting creepy af with these tricks??
Cheng Yu learned his lesson because when Xiao Qin needed him.
找新闻编辑弄一个documentary 茶叶就火了
Exes are exes for a reason…..😐😑
Remember why a person is your EX. The husband is too creepy, liar and a schemer. Guarantee he will return right back to his old ways after his ex- wife returns to him. Exs are like “throw up” never return for seconds.
He wasn't that bad to begin with. They both were at fault nothing else
I like him… I can see he is a good person. He had a sad childhood…was abused by his father, and yet he is a kind, protective person.
@@virginiaboone8163”protective”???
- This man was yelling at his girlfriend to get an abortion
- He got mad at his mother-and-law for wanting to take care of Xiao Qin post-miscarriage even though he himself wasn’t gonna do it
- He made her take taxis home even though he could’ve given her a ride
- He kept abusing her cat and told her she couldn’t keep a pet while he hypocritically has a house full of fish
Etc etc etc
They were both selfish and immature. An abusive childhood isn’t an excuse for being a bad partner, he had years to grow up and be different.
Chen Yu was too cute in this episode. 😂😂😂😂
Hanging out 😂 just awesome show the crew story line much love a big fan from Nukunonu Tokelau 🇹🇰 Island 🌴🙋🏽♀️💐
Anyone know what kind of purse the girl from Hong Kong is holding 27:48? 有人知道这位来自香港的女孩拿着27:48的钱包吗？
大家都去我们湖南湘西买茶叶啊！！！
香港的女演員真的沒有辦法混了， 哪高海寧不知付出了什么代价，關係才能演這個配角
陈屿停电这段太搞笑了
Can anyone explain to me what the family with the food cart that is always at the end of each episode is all about I keep trying to figure out where they fit into the series?!?
It’s a contrast to show how people with significantly less are still significantly more content with their lives and familial relationships. They live and work in the same city as the main characters, so sometimes their lives intersect, like how the little boy adopted Xiao Qin’s cat
😂😂😂10:37 the trick to get the ex wife back.
it's not funny, it's seriously worrying, that wine could have made her go horny, like what the heck, so he could use that to tie, her, He will never change,
咖啡☕️男就是相信自己☕️☕️你会回来的我就这儿等着🤨咋的了！
高海宁的普通话其实比很多香港演员都好些，虽然还是挺重的港腔，但里面有了自己的语气
陳魚是故意來搞笑的吧！之前裝木讀
哈哈😄小芹很可爱啊，你后悔了是吧，后悔把房子分我一半，噗
I have never heard of anyone getting a divorce and living together.
She’s teaching you a lesson. That’s her boyfriend paying the bill. The guy you are seeing.
Ugh! How dare they give both the coworker and chenyu super cute scenes now!! How can we not be torn!!! Heartless!!!
Yes splendid presentation bud we love to see it :]
This new lady mam ni met has some connection with her biy friend, either he paid her to maje man ni more busy or she is in a relatiinship with her.
Always welcome 🙏
Didn't he give his wife a beautiful ring at her birthday party and a lovely speech to her, and told her how much he loves her?? And yet he gets off the phone with wife and immediately checks his phone for the conniving woman's messages?? Yeap..and that will be the ruin of his marriage!! Dork man!!! 😠😡🤬
健身房里的这个女生真的长得太典型港女了，连双眼皮和鼻子上的驼峰都好港哈哈哈哈，我见到过好多港女都有这个特质
那个是香港tvb 演员！
是高海宁，tvb的演技派小花旦，我很喜欢她，演技很扎实的，突然在这个剧客观，真的大吃一惊感觉在异次元哈哈哈哈
她叫高海寧生於江蘇南京，祖籍廣東潮州，十三歲時從南京秦淮區移民到香港
我就不懂的事情是她搬到苏州市然后她的工作地点在静安区。。。那她为什么要去浦东新区锻炼？呵呵每天从苏州市开过来上海上班那她对工作非常投入哦
陈屿这个闷骚男太有趣了
真不希望他们复婚
dont understand the short stories at the end ???
It's showing even in such a big city, there is always a place for a hard-working and loving family.
Angela Shen yeah. The ending makes me slightly emotional since it’s realistic and eye opening.
谁知道顾佳这集用的包哪家的款？找投资人
江疏影在演戏时故意用了一种小上海女人的那种腔调，类似“xxxx很好的”。个人认为稍显做作，不是每个上海女人都是那样说话的，因为王曼妮代表的是类似“静安女白领” 那样的新型阶层，她们追求的其实是高端洋气的那种表达，所以这种腔调稍显尴尬。
En español por fa
健身房搭讪女是谁啊哈哈哈
是不是游轮男的老婆啥的？
郭海宁
星河恋曲 高海宁
I can see myself in Xiao Qian and can definitely see myself marrying someone like Chen Yu.
难了，如果你是小芹菜，你是选择复婚还是选择姐弟恋呢？
现实中前夫是不可能突然口才爆表沟通能力爆表且整天琢磨怎么讨好你的...如果真的这样，那说明这人之前真的是心里没你....所以还是选姐弟恋吧...好马不吃回头草啊
必须姐弟恋啊。跟前夫在一起不快乐，不是一个世界的人。他前夫适合找保姆型老婆
姐弟恋，人是很难改的，既然跟前夫合不来，那就是合不来。人的脾气性情怎么可能改呢
我选钟小阳。主要是长得好看
Something weird about this woman from ( Gym) is using on Ni Ni at shop🤔
这个岳母真的不行 给女儿找事呢这不是
Who is this new lady from the gym?
I feel sorry for Chen Yu, he should just move on and stay away from the childish selfish ex-wife
They should both stay away from each other. Xiao Qin is immature, and Chen Yu is manipulative.
高海宁真的不错
那个女的不会是梁的正宫吧
既然特意请香港演员，应该是要这样演
某个角度觉得江疏影好像关晓彤是怎么回事。
我也是，早就觉得了
可能得需要
戴个眼镜了
有些角度真的很像
戴个橡胶手套开罐头就好了
你更有信心什么呀？？？？ 你做茶厂许幻山还是对的 不能做！！！！
the sleaze has too much hair gel...very greasy looking
童瑶跟章子怡很像，江疏影跟关晓彤很像，我就不明白了，童瑶和江疏影怎么也傻傻分不清呢？？？
lola sun 你是脸盲吧
可定是
陈屿越来越可爱了。
站复婚！
可爱是可爱 直男也是直男...
这种男人得到就不珍惜，没了内心就开始骚动。。。当然还是看小芹愿不愿意给他机会培养他
可能被离过一次婚，改了？
小芹自己也急需成长，学会相处
他的行为不太合逻辑啊，当时他也确实忽略确实心灰意冷怎么说变就变了，转变太突然了，他本身性格也不是冲动的类型
顾家盘起头发的样子怪怪的
Abraham C. ZHANG 因为她后脑勺太平了所以有点怪
，放下来好看
很像道姑……，不好看，配上平板的身材，太寡淡了。
她头小，脸不够饱满，嘴还有点突，盘头不适合她
逻辑还是逻辑，拉投资说自己茶好，很简单，现场给大家泡一杯茶。哎。导演水平哎
王曼尼 真的越看越丑 越来越不喜欢了 人物心理有点扭曲了
不至于吧。。可能你从小不缺物质条件，对物质不是非常在乎
她有几分颜色，想利用这个来够高枝，可惜不够打动人，够不上。看看李小姐，选美冠军出身，也是过了很多年努力奋斗，才攀上了一个二世主。
她想要的没错啊 ，能看出来她是个很有上进心的女生 ，希望有个人能领着她往前走学到新东西很正常
什么拜金，穷人不陪谈恋爱
每个人都有恋爱的权利 看的是三观合不合适 就你这种人心态扭曲 典型的gold digger不想努力只想花男人的钱 恶心
Henry Liang 就不喜欢穷人怎么滴，我自己赚，也不会倒贴男人，一人吃饱全家不饿，只用穷人才骂女人拜金，看不上，换
Hou Manlin 真傻逼 自生自灭吧
Henry Liang 你穷你有理，干你屁事，钱就是王道
Hou Manlin 不好意思并不穷 只是三观正跟你不是一条道 你这样势力的人以后会有报应的