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2 beautiful and kind filipinas. thank you ladsies!
😊 thank you
I think if you are happy somewhere.. that is all you need !.. much love and best wishes !!
Helping family too much leads to some family members become very nasty for asking money but all of them will never help you back .lesson learnt for me after 36 years of helping them ..now down to 1% of help ..lol ..life is great with out helping people who don't care 😂😂❤❤ thanks maya for this video❤❤❤
This issue is the one infuriating thing about dating Filipinas. No man is obligated to take care of his wife's family. His only obligation is to take care of his wife and their own children. Seems incredibly selfish to think that your family member's husband owes you money for nothing. SMH.
Agree.. I've been dating a filipina for 3 years and I had to check her on that. She knows better than to ask me. I don't have a problem giving a gift on birthday. Legit birthday lol cause I swear they celebrate extra birthdays for little kids which is ridiculous.
Good informative because no man is obligated in any country regardless of culture to support his wife family.
It's only in Philippine!
Nope! Just something that lazy people made up to scam foreigners out of their money!
Everything in life starts with properly setting expectations. Mia having that conversation with her family is exactly the start. The other is do not set precedents that you don’t want to be stuck doing. The last one… both of you need to put your relationship ahead of extended family relations. Requires growing a thick skin and push back/call out passive-aggressive attempts to guilt you into paying/doing things you don’t want to.
I was in the Philippines for 6 weeks last month, and I walked during the day and at night and never felt in danger. As an American I'm not sure I would feel safe in the middle east.
I loved it interesting conversation ❤❤
Glad you enjoyed it! 😊
It's so nice that Paul and Mia are there to visit. I'm sure Gio and Paul are enjoying their coffee break together. Both are very happily married men now which neither thought would happen. I'm so happy for all of you. Amping always!
Very pleasent video. 2 smart ladies.
You ladies are honest and realize the truth to keeping a relationship personal. Foreigners will help when and were they can, but we struggled for to many years to earn what we have.
Extremely informative video from the actual source of the topic.
Happy Thankgiving Maya
Thank you, for telling the truth.
Great video Maya! Two of my favorite Filipinas in one video, wow! Best wishes to both of you on your new marriages. I know you will both do well because you are both very intelligent and wise and good-hearted so I think your husbands will feel just how lucky they are. Best wishes and hello to Gio and Paul!
Thank you for this video. Really opened my eyes to that part of your culture.
So what she is saying about safety in Saudi is what i have always heard about the Philippines that the Philippines was safe.
I loved and worked in KSA for 8 years , safety is always a concern as a foriener in Saudi , biggest risk is the driving I often tell people when asked about safety there
@michaellee7985 wow! and according to her it's not an issue.
It's great seeing both of you. I'm sure you both feel family pressure 😊
Maya, that sure is a nice looking ring you are wearing !!!! Congrats
Thank you mahal i learn a lot Thank you very much
Great Topic and talk....looking forward to more such informative videos.
Thank you both.
Glad you enjoyed it!
You two have style and common sence.
Mia is very intelligent and well spoken. Very good video Maya.
Well put and said... mostly adivsable is to go and feel the ground... then communication is the key to success... good lucky for the newcomers...
Hey maya, just a tip for you and also Gio. Get a micstand so that you dont have to hold the mic the whole recording.
Great conversation ladies. Very insightful.
Congratulations to you both on your marriages! 🫶🏼
Thank you so much!
Two wise and honest Filipinas reflecting.
Intelligent interview Mrs Maya. Surprised to hear Mia's (who I like) analysis.
You and Mia seem a lot different than most Pinay's who marry Foreigners.
There's a lot of other safe places like Canada, Aus, Singapore. I'm from
the famous City of LA, unfortunately no longer safe.
When my asawa talks to me about her sister, niece, etc needs HELP - that really mean that they need MONEY. We joke about it, but we dp limit ourselves to the HELP that we give.
Great video girls, very helpful. I might even paste this directly into conversations with filipinas in dating apps hehe thank you both :)
Love the channel and very respectful of partner
Once you start helping or giving them money, they will never stop asking for money. Your family is not the only ones like that.
Mia gained weight. She looks even prettier. Great video
That was a good topic Maya....enjoyed that.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Both sobra maganda.
Thanks girls.😊
What a lovely conversation to have, I could listen to you two every week. Do you have a series?
Nice Video ..I am your new subscriber 😊 I'm also a new blogger and a Filipina too
Great video ladies and very true.
Thank you!
you two are so precious, sweet woman
These girls are adorable.
Both of you are beautiful
Once you give. It never STOPS!
Started dating my philippine girlfriend 30 months ago. She set boundaries very quickly with her family. And told them all I am not their ATM machine. And she has not asked me for money even after we got engaged to 6 months ago.
Very interesting and informative. I've heard the information before on TH-cam but never from Filipinos. For me, it's verification of the truth. Yes, I was thinking about coming to the Philippines and hopefully meeting a nice person for marriage. Currently, I am trying to learn all the information I can about its traditions and culture.
Maya great video. ❤ Many good topics u touched on.😊 Thanks. Hi Geo🙋👍
Glad you liked it!!
Maya, today’s video is very true Filipino families always asking for money if married or dating a Westerner gentleman. My case I’m married to a very beautiful Japanese lady. Never her family asked for money from me. Two different culture. Great channel. Keep up the great work on your channel. I like to add I been in & out of the Philippines since February 1977.
Filipinos should really start an independent mindset where they should have pride in earning a living for themselves and be ashamed of asking money from other people who work for their own money. Why do they think that they are entitled to spend someone else's earnings?
Yes, definitely set a boundary.
In someway it is about money....like you said your looking for a better life
Pier and I have experienced this type of behaviour..we are not married yet. Pier handles any requests the family, friends and others have and she’s tough! Lol 🤭😅💪🏻 I told her… tell them you’re not a bank!! Lmao
So many misconceptions. It’s very widespread!
It’s thought that us foreigners are swimming in cash. 🤭😅
2 very lovely and charming women 🙂.
I wouldn't object to helping my partner's family.
Love your videos! Very interesting and y'all are absolutely Beautiful and so Sweet ❤❤❤!!! Love it!!!
Great information, I've been kind with my fiancé's family and for her main family paying necessities like Power, Internet and things and ofcourse an amount for my fiancé to use for herself and our daughter. But I appreciate the reminder about having a conversation with her about boundaries and when she gets to America our immediate needs and future planning will always need to come first and that we can help at times but it shouldn't be an every payday thing.
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Imagine that someone actually does steal something from you in Saudi. Then you're like: "I can't turn him in, they'll lop his hand off"
MIa is so damn beautiful...
Well, I'm a filipina married to a foreigner for more than 2 decades already and my family NEVER asked money or any form of financial help from me and my husband, not even once....
good for you 🥳
@Hey_itsmaya Hi! Thanks for your reply! ❤️ Also, may I add that my Niece who is married to a British guy who is quite well-off, Yet my niece works very hard cuz she wants to earn her own money and not be dependent on her husband. My other niece who is still Single yet she works very hard taking 2 jobs....so, my point is, to the best of my knowledge that majority of the Filipinas are hard working and independent and knows how to earn their own money.. - Gob bless you and your family! ❤️❤️❤️
the americans blew it. they give money all over the places.........
@@dolmarf411
Those imbeciles thought they were helping!
In reality, they did much damage!
Very interested in this subject. Thanks for the information. What is the best way to handle the family if you are a Foreigner?
Mia don’t get to angry with Paul and take his head off po. 🤭 You’ll never get to go home.. hehehe 😅 Great video Maya. Big congrats to you!
Two of my favorite filipina voggers
thank you ☺
Maya said stop the violence 🌎👑🌹✈️🌹🌹🌹🌹
Thank you for making this video!
Speaking for myself, I'd stay away from dating Filipinas because of family's expectations.
I won't deal with such nonsense as I rebuke it unequivocally!
A foreigner is NOT a retirement saving plan for a woman's family.
Personally, I'd rather flush MY hard earned money down the toilet.
If I ever move there permanently, I'd have a non-Filipina partner just because of this bullshit.
great video, 2 very intelligent Filipinas. As a foreigner married to a Filipina from duma, its always good to be very honest with your extended family. For a foreigner dealing with filipino family expectations , it can be overwhelming sometimes and tiresome.
Wow, how times have changed! I remember watching Paul and Gio, the two "red pill-ers" saying how they would never get married, how it was a huge mistake, a trap, and a terrible idea for a man. Fast forward, and they are both happily married! I do think, though, that their strong skepticism about marriage helped them weed through what could have been bad relationships early on. Let's face it, both Paul and Gio hit home runs with Maya and Mia! Congratulations all around.
You both look beautiful love kiss kiss ❤❤❤❤
You two girls have such a great attitude to married life with your husbands. I am sure they know they are very priviledged to be married to you, and that your marriages will be a great success. And isn't it great that you 4 are friends also.
Hi there . are you Maya who got married to Gio and Mia who is married to Paul coz I am already subscribing and watching you all. I wish you all the best and a happy and prosperous life . Gideon
Did Mia go to Saudi to work or was it for Paul to work ? Many vloger's in the Philippines but thank you two for being natural and for having integrity.
Who ever I marry we gone do what I want...and she'll know that if she agrees to marry...not playing these slot machine 🎰 games 😅
You two are soo cute , with good English & both very morena skin tone. why did Mia go to Saudi Arabia?
She says Saudi is safer yet Women are treated like property, not even like people..🤔🤷🏻♂️
I guess I understand the thing about the dogs..
You have to be careful about the dogs, but I've been to the Philippines. Multiple times and multiple islands ;walked around everywhere. Daytime and night time and never felt as if my life was in danger.
Great video , I am planning to marry my Filipina GF who I spent 2 years with in Kuwait when I was working there. I have already had some of that conversation with her. She has 3 young daughters that I will take on as my own. I know that there will be expectations of lots of the finer things and money, and will have to deal with that when it happens. My ASAWA Knows that I can be generous, but realizes that we will have to live on a budget. I will be retired and live with her and her children at her house on her mothers property . I am so much looking forward to growing my own food and raising chickens ect. We will be living in the mountains in Luzon ( Nueva Vizcaya.) I am very excited to make this move in Nov 2024 when her contract in Kuwait is finished. I really enjoy both your and Gio`s You Tube channels. Keep up the very informative work that you both do .
I would prefer to live in the US. But... I don't really have any family left.... so doesn't really matter where I live.
You said "in Saudi a woman can walk alone at night". REALLY ?
Did they change the laws recently ? A woman is not allowed to travel anywhere without a man's permission, and always must be accompanied.
Yep! Set Boundaries on Day 1! I don't feel guilty that I'm living better than others! They Never Served in The Military with me, so why should they be entitled to my Military Retirement? I give my In-Laws 20K a Month because I love and Respect Them! Nobody's Using me, I told my wife they survived without my help just fine, so No To Loans Period! I will give money for food, gas to doctor visits and pay for Meds! Other than Birthdays,i keep my wallet closed and ear to the wall! Blessed to not have that problem too much since I have said NO right from the beginning!
No loans period!
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Nice ladies, have sis for friendship ?
Maried for 15 years now, they havnt asked for a cent..sounds like im lucky..however in a health emergency, i would help if i could, just as i would for my own parents...but as for just handing out cash here and there...NO WAY! they were fine before i came along.
Sometimes they don't give the money back, you mean most times they don't give it back.
It takes a lot of money to live well in the USA...Yall can live a LOT nicer in the Philippine(:
I wish u all the best!
I'm dealing with this right now with my family and neighbors now. I think I'm fine with playing the bad guy.
If I must be honest this has been a very sensitive topic since I've learned about the Filipino woman Thai women or for a matter of fact Asian women in general. The fact that most of all foreigners are made of money. I don't know if that traditional lifestyle is typically for men overall or for just foreign men. I often wonder do the same expectation falls for the Filipino man as a foreign man. Because I believe that Filipino women have a different type of expectation for foreigners than they do for their own counterpart Filipino man.
Short answer, pesos.
Maya is smokin hot, like a model
Ladies, why do you care what other people think of you. It is none of their business and it is your life so live it the way you want
money money money
lol its hard earned money it takes a long time just to make 2000 or 80000php and that just pays the rent in canada tons of other cost power,food,ect i let my lady know so shes educating them on my finances so they dont bother me for the money when i first went to the Philippine's i only brought 484 which was less than 18000php
I have a crush- Secret 😂
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Hi Mia, my Filipina wife and I are in Bahrain. How far are you and Paul to the border? I'll send you guys a private message, but if you guys ever want pork, we can meet you at the border. Also, pork is cheaper on the US base.
Every person I trusted in Philippines over 20 years has robbed me, even lawyers.
Oh yes, I would get asked for money over and over. I would say "Do you think that I have a money tree out the back that I can just prune"😂 😂 Baliw! Yes, they think that Farang's are automatically rich. 😂 They ask, and then say "It's okay to say no 😂 but I laugh and say "it's okay not to ask"😂. Also I ask...."What do you mean 'borrow'😂 and the reply is ..."okay, owe". 😂😂
All the western men who married ended up being extorted to send money home. Many also giving green cards to other family members. If you say "no" you get no honey. This is mostly unspoken.
What you're saying is basically other people projecting what they would do if they were in your situation instead of accepting not everyone will choose to do things as they would and they have an attitude as if they are the only person making the decision once in a relationship this is a red flag while many of their relationships would fail if they had a foreigner
MONEY
Thank you for bringing up difficult subjects.
I think the problem is that in the west we have social-security paid by taxes and you have social-security paid by family. For the westerner it will be a double taxation to support both your family and paying tax in his country. I can’t see a solution to the problem if you don’t contribute to your families, you’re escaping your responsibilities and if you pay with your husbands money he’s paying double. Whatever the solution it has to be a compromise.
The sugar-daddy/gold-digger thing is also a difficult topic. Traditionally it has been the mans role to support his woman and children, but with women working it has become difficult to draw the line between prostitution and hypergamy. Women are are attracted to men that can provide and protect by nature, but the mans role as provider and protector has more and more been taking over by the state.
In most cases the Foreigner can help his Biyenan, but should know
how to handle it. Hey, why be a cheap Charlie, lol.
Yes because they are under Sharia law there
Maya, that is the best interview you have done so far. Thank you for being so informative and truthful about Philippine family's. I heard about the family deal ETC, being in a long term relationship with a Philippine women it is a battle with the family and it is none stop. But in saying that the good out weights the bad.
Glad you enjoyed it! 🥳
A good topic and advice Maya and Mia. I’m happy to see you both happy and married now. A few years ago I would never have imagined Paul and Gio both married ( not to each other ) 😊 I’m happy that they both found what they were looking for. Congratulations.
With all respect , being from the USA , I've had to tell a few Filipinas that I want to see them , not your family. Now I know how the Philippine culture works ,and I keep hearing about it , but honestly, it doesn't hurt to consider our norms and culture.