Sanam is a mature person. She is so strong minded. Often people victimise themselves after divorce, but she didn't. She stood up for her decisions even when others are not accepting.💖
Yeah she is very clear.. She decided to marry and after getting she realised oh I don’t want to do this. My mother got sick so I got a way out of this marriage and this could a perfect reason to tell the whole world to end the marriage. That’s commendable
You are right , sometimes we are so confused about our demands and decision .we actually does not know what we want and what we don't want and that's why we are unhappy in this world ..this lady is the great inspiration to every woman..Bravo
HER SENTENCE "Sitting in dubai moving furnitures was not going to make it happen"is an inspiration to youths getting struck in things not meant for them.
She’s so brave she left the guy she loved because she couldnt give up who she was that’s one of the hardest things to do. MaShAllah hope she finds someone and also doesn’t have to give up her career.
@@MegaBaddog wow really ungrateful woman who if cares for his parents is better in life and if she does for her mother she is ungrateful ... the best part is what you know you talking abt a woman who has already established a mark for herself .. it's ppl like you who are the reason of opp gender(I mean men in this case) being called jerk
Women are never ungrateful to anyone Infact they always do so much for all specially inlaws and husband without even ever getting appreciated for it... And the biggest paradox is when they do same for their own parents and siblings they are called... Selfish, Careless and yes Ungreatful too... Also every and any women can very well earn her own food and put it on table too "Herself" but she decides to be dependent on husband (killing her own career aspirations and professional dreams) so that babies can be born and can be well taken care of... Rest everybody knows... And when such one baby takes care of her mother back... They r called Ungrateful (Just because baby is a female)
@@MegaBaddog wow. Dude you are on another level. What's wrong with you? A woman is as capable of putting the food on the table. Also marriage is a partnership and an equal one at that. Unlike what you're saying.
She doesn’t say it But it’s loud n clear... a “husband” can’t stand wife making mom first priority... yet everyday men get a pat on the back for making their mom first priority... good for her. Good she left jail before kids. Then it would have become a life sentence... respect for both her n my fav host... so proud to have such amazing women as Pakistani women...
if she needs help, she shouldnnt ask from males if she is so bold and independent then and she is a no good actress coming from a rich family. nothing else
madmarvin99 ???... have no idea what you mean! Men are able to have their new family with their original family & a career because their wives are their pillars... to become pillars women sacrifice their original family & career!!! Husband now need to learn to be pillars!!! Coz women should have it all too as they give it ALL!!!
Exactly this is the reason I never gonna get married desi culture is the hypocrisy from males side.They shame girls for asking her man to leave her parents while they can't even stand anyone else being different priority.
I love this Pakistani girl..after hearing her I hv a lot respect for her.glad that she wanted to live real life not faked life..go girl..besh wishes..love from india
I am an Indian and I am amazed that such a confident honest woman is there in Pakistani Industry. Honesty and truth in her is so clear. Also we can’t judge someone else’s life we don’t know what went on, tomorrow it could happen to us also so let’s not say bad things to anybody.
@@mishekhan3367 but real mai usko hubby usko chhata tho usko divorce nh deta ma'am hamesha boy responsible nh hota k maa baap ko sambhle just bcoz Saadi ho jate hai tho iska k mtlb yh nh hai k mai beti hoo kr k side ho Jana ok aap logo k bhi smjhega marrigar relationship dono tarf s hota hai ma'am bs ldki sacrifices kare aisa kaha likha hai
Sanam is great lady who did not blame her husband. She take whole responsibility of her divorce. In reality her husband bound her in a home as only housewife and did not allow to start her career. But when her mother needs in sickness period she never compromised and sacrifice her married life. If her husband understand her and cooperate with her, May be possible she had not taken such a difficult and heartbroken decision.
she definitely doesn't look heartbroken. her mother was ill and she was busy signing deedan…...and we are fools to believe she came back for her mother?////// she certainly came back for the limelight.
women of dajjal and their lies her mother was ill and she was busy signing deedan…...and we are fools to believe she came back for her mother?@@pinkee1981
@simran khanna in this interview she herself is saying i came back to work so dat i dont want to dependent on any1 for my mothers treatment. thats d reason she signed deedan
i dont know her but she caught my attention...she didnt only leave the husband for only for family ties/mum getting sick...she was missing her real life that she used to be herself...she wasnt herself in that marraige. Glad she walked out and not compromised! Go Girl!!!
Oh this is easy. It's because you are intentionally living your life in such a way that tells the good guys that you are the type that only likes bad boys. I can just watch you and tell you that the good guys avoid you like the plague. You want some good guy to come to you on your terms. Not gonna happen. You need to get serious so that it shows that you have finally gotten past that teenage phase of your life. Hint, you're probably not gonna find him going to a bar 3-4 times a week. You're not even married yet and you're already trying to blame the guy for not coming to you and fixing your problem. Geez, will you girls never learn? If you really want a man for the rest of your life, then start acting like a woman that a man would want to spend the rest of his life with instead of acting like any man would be lucky to have you.
@@MegaBaddog What? This comment makes no sense whatsoever. Sanam was saying that she could not be who she wanted to be in her marriage and did not feel that she could give her husband what he deserved. So, the initial commenter said that she was glad that Sanam left that marriage rather than compromise. Where did you get all of these things about good guys and bad boys, going to the bar, any of that come from?
“When two people decide to get a divorce, it isn't a sign that they 'don't understand' one another, but a sign that they have, at least, begun to.” “Divorce isn't the child's fault.
Appreciate her ... at least she’s not leading a fake or show off life ... and one thing i like about this conversation is that she was honest for her husband as well she didn’t cheat or lied 🤥... its better to be honest and truthful than be a cheater and hurt someone... you go girl 😍😍
Bullshit she choose enjoyment life over decent dignified married women as per her statement in marriage she get bored in her house for doing routine works of her house
What she did is extremely commendable! How many of us can actually think of doing this.. she is so strong that she followed her heart and gut and saved herself from a life long regret
I respect her choice to divorce. And she didn't say a single negative thing about her ex husband. In fact, she still thinks that he deserves the best. But I dont appreciate the interviewer auntie.
I hope you will support your own daughter too. . She wanted to stay in show biz. She kicked a beautiful relation blessed by God. One day she will realise that.
the interviewer auntie is Samina Peerzada very senior actress she speaking to sanan this way as a senior like our parents r big sisters will talk to us .
When you are old will ask yourself questions that why when I had the time I didn’t take my chance you will ask yourself I could’ve left and things would’ve been different but I didn’t...
Ram everyday suicidal and sadistic Only 25 with a kid n an engineering degree but hav nv worked yet I dont know what to do Here it is abt the in laws not husband It is depressing
Am I the only one who feel like this host is making her uncomfortable..Like How u did that "typical desi Aunty".. She is great actress let's appreciate her acting skills..Sanam Luv from 🇮🇳
Divorce is not good thing in the sight of our creator her words are dubious like her personality she said herself that she get bored in home means usko kuch Aisa chahiye jo duniya vi ho
I agree u.. Khair inka apna personal matter tha. Sanam ne jo bhi kia accha hi kia. Reel se lekar real tak..humi logo ko ye sb baatein bohot matter karti hai
It is better to be honest rather than to pretend .....it is her life so let's not be judgemental.May Allah bless her with new relationship at some point of her life.
@@humanbeing3727 maybe next time she can be little more mature and can handle everything which comes her way.Every other person deserves another chance and can't be deprived from experiencing the sweetness of relationships.
@@fseenamber7901 life ,Rushty mazaq NAHI Hoti beta.toty jao banaty jao...Sab sy Asan Kam chor k slag hona Hota Hai..akhri dam takhalaat sy lerna chahiy..AJ ki lerki bahut educated,Aur brave hai.wo Ker Sakti Hai ..jab life k other fields mein Ker ri hai to.
Sanam Saeed you have legions of fans in India,and I am one of them. Fell in love with Kashaf, her strength of character,her insecurities,her voice,her Urdu and how her character completes her arc. Wish you the best in life! If you are as tough as your personality shown in 'Gulzar hai',you would soon find your bearing in life.
I think she’s very brave to be so open...that she basically changed her mind. If a man had done what she did, we would use some pretty nasty words to describe him. Feel sorry for her ex.
If her husband didn't cause the marriage to fail then why would she speak ill of him - then he'd just attack back in the media. I think she was not ready to let go of her guy friends and "free" lifestyle of being an actress. The way she kept talking about how men and women work together in the film/tv industry and how they have to dance together and touch each other kind of made it clear for me that she probably spend a lot of time with other guys which ultimately caused the end of their marriage.
I don't know what sort of upbringing she has...but Sanam you have become my role model....fantastic dude and I wish people raise their kids like the way your parents have raised you. If this is not what an empowered woman sounds like then I don't know what else would make the cut.
what the hell ... pyaar what rubbish... she is an individual .... n she choose Independence over commitment... good job .. well done ... love from India.. n we value ur decesion
She made choices which is I think extremely honest. It takes guts to be that honest and true to yourself even for a man . she did and I salute her for that. she loved someone and then reach to a point where she has to pick things and make a better decision for another person as well. That needs courage.
*Such a brave lady, sometimes its really hard to taKe such decisions, some girls are born to be strong enough to realise their strength. I can completely feel her feelings*
Her husband wanted her to stay at home at the times...and be his trophy wife ..which she certainly don't want her life to be...she wanted a life which she built with her hardwork and strong will..grt ❤ to you strong girl frm india....
Did u not listen to what she said? Not at any point did she say that her husband wanted a trophy wife. Instead she said clearly that she wanted something else out of life and wanted to devote herself to her mother.
Good for her, we don't even know what went on behind the scenes but she put a veil over him and her relationship and just followed her heart, good for her, I wish I could be strong like that
We are nobody to judge another persons personal life and struggles. Let her live her life. As a spectator/audience let us just focus on her acting skill. I am sure we all agree that she is an amazing actor. Why not overlook her divorce and focus on her acting. We can do that much.
I am happy to see that she is mot blaming her ex husband for the divorce .. she knows what she was going through . Mental stress is too much . I live in saudi arabia and i have kids. And literally there had been times when i would think to leave him and live in Pakistan. I still think the same as sanam sometimes, what is my life. Kids and house thats it no career. Completely dependent on husband . Life in saudia is worse for women than in dubai ..we cant even go out on our own . And so i. Told my husband that we need to move or i will go mad with depression . But some women or men are not patient enough specially. If they have other priorities.
I too live in a foreign land with children and husband. I can understand it's tough but then I think my husband is working this hard only for us. Otherwise he too could live easy life. I never leave him alone to visit even my parents. Whenever you feel like this just thank god that you have a husband who is working so hard for you. You will only love him more.
I just completed THE" ZINDGI GULZAR HAI" while watching continuously!!!!!.......... .....THAT girl was quite different from this girl!!!!......... ....shocked ..while listening her words!!!...... portrait life and real life!!!!....big difference!!!..
Why is everyone judging her? It was not working out for her, so she chose to move out of a relationship she didnt feel she was being genuine to. Atleast she left with dignity and with truth, rather than being in a relationship which she didnt want to be in and making it toxic. I see all the butthurt women saying being a house wife is not bad she shouldve sacrificed, yes its not bad FOR YOU. Because thats your nature thats what you want and like, but she literally said thats not who she is and what she wants, hence It IS BAD FOR HER. If you want that life, good for you girl, but if you dont, then you need to spend your life the way you want, aswell! She made the right decision by chosing her feelings over anyone elses, so many women in our society live life's that end up making them feel miserable just because they were too weak to stand up and leave, at the end theyve nothing but regret. Remember put your self first! You can never love someone unless you love yourself first! Self care is important and the most important feelings to secure are yours! xx
Sameena ji you are such a comfort to watch. Pataa nahin kyun,jab bhi apko dekhta hun, I feel so peaceful and warm. Apki shaqsiyat bahut hi tasalli dene wali hai. God bless. You spread warmth,love, understanding and comfort.
you both are beautiful. and I love you both. also its really sad to know about sanam's personal life. but i guess she is a strong personality with true soul. which will heal all her saddnes.. god bless you. and love
Respect... Men are respected for the choice that sanam made, where they priortise parents comfort, happiness and rights over the wife's. Whereas if a woman, wife chooses to do the same she is called names, the hypocrisy and double standard is disgusting and shameful and the sad jealous housewives that support sanam being denigrated wish they could divorce their husbands too :)
She is so classy and confident Don't know why but her personality inspires me her I don't think there is any other actresses in Pakistan who can beat her in all sectors Whether in acting personality class or confident.. Hope if she ever reads my comment Love from Nepal sanam❤️🇳🇵 Your fan from Nepal 🇳🇵
What matters is a person's happiness. If you're not happy in a marriage you should let go, no matter how stupid the reason sound to other people.. Kudos to u for chossing yourself sanam. Proud of you.
sonali M okay but if you are married you have to do some sacrifices to make the relationship work, and if you are getting married second time and don't like something again you can't just say its not comfortable and all that you have to work on on a relationship, we belong to eastern culture, whether its men or women both play role in a marriage
She didn't say she wasn't happy..she had to choose her mother because of her illness and she wouldn't be able to give time to her husband. It's her being wise.
I just had a one month of marriage.my husband said he was never married. Later i got to know he is a divorcee. N he was so miser that he did not give me a reception or honeymoon or get my domestic air tickets rather i got his tickets done. So after seeing how he lies, i decided to leave him.
I think she made the right decision. Often people give up their dreams when they get married because suddenly they have responsibilities and have to give time to their husband and most of the time their husbands prefer their wives not earning and staying at home. I think she realised that giving up acting was not what she wanted in life. It is her passion and its very hard to leave your passion. As much as she wanted to work it out with her loved one she couldnt because in life doing what you love satisfies you more and gives you the happiness you want. Yes he made her happy but she still felt empty and away from family. Yes she made an abrupt decision while marrying him and she has realised now and now she will make sure she marries someone who is from the same industry and understands her field of work and doesn’t get too controlling after marriage
And please dont say sirf larki ka kaam hota hai ghar basana. Ghar basana dono husband wife ka kaam hai. If a guy can work and earn and do something he loves then why cant a woman? I am pretty sure they tried working their relationship but it didnt work out and its always good to get a divorce if the relationship is unhealthy.
Right or wrong, its her decision. But making someone else suffer because of your decision is absolutely not right. Giving up dreams or living them for whatever reason is a choice, one chooses to give priority to, be it their dreams in which its only about me and myself, or sharing life with someone and thus making many adjustments willingly. One should have the right to choose but at the same time one must be prepared for the outcome. Its a prejudice that only women are considered to sacrifice their 'dreams'. The fact is, men also sacrifice a lot of things in order to 'run' the family. Both the genders give up something to work it out, to priorities things in life, to make a family, have mutual love and respect for each other. Its true that many men before did not want their wives to work outside home, somewhat true even now. While the idea of patriarchal ego cannot be ruled out as one of the reasons behind this, the fact that one person should be looking after home while the other goes out earning also stands as a reasonable point. Its often found that the children of both parents working grow up feeling lonely and rejected (especially in nuclear families where other family members' support is absent). The question of who will play the roles of homemaker and earner or both is also set. Normally its the male who is earning but even if the female is earning that does not incessantly mean that the male is looking after home, thus increasing the chances of the children being neglected. The role reversal is also near impossible. How many earning women would want to marry a non-earning homemaking man? I admire Sanam as an artist. If her passion was giving her satisfaction and happiness (which is again all about me, myself), she should have given it a priority and never married at the first place. Marriage is not like any other decisions of life which can be taken lightly at will. In the quest of individuality, oneself and only one's happiness people are making a mockery of the institution of marriage nowadays. (P.S. in a marriage, not only men control, both control each other at some level and if balanced, its often healthy for a relationship!
Huh! She thought she had hit a bounty but she was home bound for such women r but social climbers. After marriage life changed and she couldn't keep herself away from the party crowd n party scene. Mother's illness was just an eye wash. She will have another lame excuse the second time around as well coz such women do not know limits or settling down. God help her n all others like her.
Faisal Khan i dont think acting is known as “partying” its not easy its a very difficult job on its own. Its better to part your ways rather than living a unhealthy lifestyle in which both couples are not happy. Also i am pretty sure she was very protective of her mother. You are no one to judge and make up false accusations. Divorce hui hai tou mutually hui hai, i am sure in the end her husband understood. Sometimes you love someone but cant stay together. You’ve got to understand that
She is my favourite actress. Love you lot ma'am. I'm from India but I always see your movie and Serial. Zindagi gulzar hai my favourite serial. It's mind blowing 😍😍😘😘😃
She was a teacher where I sent my son for preschooling in Dubai . after watching ZGH I always used to think, was she the same sanam .. after listening to this episode, I’ve confirmed it was her !
How come nobody is saying a word about the other party as if that doesn’t even matter...it’s all about if she did right or wrong.....it is as it the other party is not a human being....my first question would be....if there was love and relationship involved, did the other party agreed to her decision? If not, who’s going to be held accountable for HIS sufferings from this decision. Just a thought to ponder 🤔
I am proud to be her fan. Hat off you mam. Sanam is a caring person no one would make such a decision like her honestly she is a devoted daughter. Lots of respect from india
@rashidaq were you even paying attention to the interview? No where did she say she didnt feel important. She prioritized her family and realized that giving divided attention was not healthy for a relationship and she realized she was being unfair to her husband... cant believe people still shit on women for taking care of their family or focusing on their career. Yes balance is important, totally agree with that. However, she clearly says she couldn't balance. Better she leave then regret her life and make her husband regret his life after...and this isnt some feminists crap. I speaking in considering the type of relationship she would have had if she continued sith her marriage
happy soul You're kidding me. Zaynab bint Jahsh and Zayd ibd Haaritha divorced, despite their marriage being decreed in the Quran. Ab agar iss daur mai hotay tau unki divorce 'silly reasons' ki wajha se huwi thi? If a man and a woman, who are merely sahabi, have had their marriage decreed and mentioned in the Quran and they STILL opted for divorce... i'm sure any reason, where the man or woman in the marriage is uncomfortable is valid. Her reasons might be frivolous to YOU... but her for HER, in her experience/life... those reasons hold the highest importance. Agar yeh aik choti si baat Pakistani quom seekk jaye tau kya baat hai. Sab societal problems khatam ho jayein.
Bilkul sahi kiya sanam....hamari jindgi kaise jina h ye hame hi sochna h...nice sanam...mai india se hu aur pahali baar aapko dekha h par aap badi achchhi lagi
Any fans of Zindagi Gulzar Hai here?
biggest..
Yes
Yup.........very sad to hear about her divorce
Yes
Zindagi Gulzar hai and Humsafar for life !
I wish the Interviewer allowed Sanam to complete her statements. At the end of the day, I came to watch Sanam talk. So fluid and elegant...
That's a good observation. Find it difficult to follow
U r right
Agreed
Sanam is a mature person. She is so strong minded. Often people victimise themselves after divorce, but she didn't. She stood up for her decisions even when others are not accepting.💖
Her clarity is commendable! Atleast she knows what she wants and what she doesn’t
Abhi lasha drama only
Yeah she is very clear.. She decided to marry and after getting she realised oh I don’t want to do this. My mother got sick so I got a way out of this marriage and this could a perfect reason to tell the whole world to end the marriage. That’s commendable
You are right , sometimes we are so confused about our demands and decision .we actually does not know what we want and what we don't want and that's why we are unhappy in this world ..this lady is the great inspiration to every woman..Bravo
MyLifeMyPug COCO inspiration? Wot
Rajat Chugh sarcasm level 💯😹
HER SENTENCE "Sitting in dubai moving furnitures was not going to make it happen"is an inspiration to youths getting struck in things not meant for them.
Atleast she didnt blame her husband for divorce..what she did, was her choice(her words)..
Respect❤❤❤
She’s so brave she left the guy she loved because she couldnt give up who she was that’s one of the hardest things to do. MaShAllah hope she finds someone and also doesn’t have to give up her career.
When men prioritise parents over wife they are always appreciated in society...
She did what any caring child would do... Bravo 👍👍👍
men dont priortise over parents, it is they who put food on the table for ungrateful women
@@MegaBaddog wow really ungrateful woman who if cares for his parents is better in life and if she does for her mother she is ungrateful ... the best part is what you know you talking abt a woman who has already established a mark for herself .. it's ppl like you who are the reason of opp gender(I mean men in this case) being called jerk
Women are never ungrateful to anyone Infact they always do so much for all specially inlaws and husband without even ever getting appreciated for it...
And the biggest paradox is when they do same for their own parents and siblings they are called... Selfish, Careless and yes Ungreatful too...
Also every and any women can very well earn her own food and put it on table too "Herself" but she decides to be dependent on husband (killing her own career aspirations and professional dreams) so that babies can be born and can be well taken care of... Rest everybody knows...
And when such one baby takes care of her mother back... They r called Ungrateful (Just because baby is a female)
@@MegaBaddog seems u r so fucked up with ur life..what to say..sad
@@MegaBaddog wow. Dude you are on another level. What's wrong with you? A woman is as capable of putting the food on the table. Also marriage is a partnership and an equal one at that. Unlike what you're saying.
Sanam is one hell of a strong woman. So much clarity, strength and toughness omg I wish I could inculcate some of these qualities in myself too.
true
Issi strength aur confidences ny pouri qoum ko khuddy line laga dia ha
She doesn’t say it
But it’s loud n clear... a “husband” can’t stand wife making mom first priority... yet everyday men get a pat on the back for making their mom first priority...
good for her. Good she left jail before kids. Then it would have become a life sentence...
respect for both her n my fav host... so proud to have such amazing women as Pakistani women...
if she needs help, she shouldnnt ask from males if she is so bold and independent then and she is a no good actress coming from a rich family. nothing else
madmarvin99 ???... have no idea what you mean!
Men are able to have their new family with their original family & a career because their wives are their pillars... to become pillars women sacrifice their original family & career!!!
Husband now need to learn to be pillars!!! Coz women should have it all too as they give it ALL!!!
Exactly this is the reason I never gonna get married desi culture is the hypocrisy from males side.They shame girls for asking her man to leave her parents while they can't even stand anyone else being different priority.
How much India and Pakistan fight but would never accept that the mentality of men and social psychology is same.
@@shikhathakur4353 yes n women too who try n force their husbands to brk up w their parents in the dream of living without them
I guess interviewer was her mom in Zindagi gulzar hai. Am I right ?
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oh yes , i noticed after your comment
She is very honest and not even a % fake. I salute u young lady. You are really a very strong personality. I wish i could be like you too.
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I love this Pakistani girl..after hearing her I hv a lot respect for her.glad that she wanted to live real life not faked life..go girl..besh wishes..love from india
I am an Indian and I am amazed that such a confident honest woman is there in Pakistani Industry. Honesty and truth in her is so clear. Also we can’t judge someone else’s life we don’t know what went on, tomorrow it could happen to us also so let’s not say bad things to anybody.
Lol
Pehli ladki hai jo maa-baap ko agey rakhti hai instead of "pyar"..she is a role model..for all women
Nooo ye role model ni haiiii hunsbnd b zarore hai but ye actress haiii ye hum aap logo ki trha ni rahsakte haiiii ... ye ek nasha hai
@@mishekhan3367 : sach mein. Yeh maa baap ke liye nahi aayi hai. Yeh limelight ke liye aayi hai. Maa beemar thi tabhi deedan sign karaa tha. Kaise?///// Yeh basically limelight hogger hai.
@@mishekhan3367 but real mai usko hubby usko chhata tho usko divorce nh deta ma'am hamesha boy responsible nh hota k maa baap ko sambhle just bcoz Saadi ho jate hai tho iska k mtlb yh nh hai k mai beti hoo kr k side ho Jana ok aap logo k bhi smjhega marrigar relationship dono tarf s hota hai ma'am bs ldki sacrifices kare aisa kaha likha hai
@@nuzhatshaikh4186 Allah mujha or hum sub lo asy din na dekhaye sisters but ye showbz ye nashaaa haiiii sis.....
She is not a roll model... husband maa baap sy pehly hota hai according to islam
Sanam is great lady who did not blame her husband. She take whole responsibility of her divorce. In reality her husband bound her in a home as only housewife and did not allow to start her career. But when her mother needs in sickness period she never compromised and sacrifice her married life. If her husband understand her and cooperate with her, May be possible she had not taken such a difficult and heartbroken decision.
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she definitely doesn't look heartbroken. her mother was ill and she was busy signing deedan…...and we are fools to believe she came back for her mother?////// she certainly came back for the limelight.
True her mother was her responsibility
women of dajjal and their lies her mother was ill and she was busy signing deedan…...and we are fools to believe she came back for her mother?@@pinkee1981
@simran khanna in this interview she herself is saying i came back to work so dat i dont want to dependent on any1 for my mothers treatment. thats d reason she signed deedan
She shared a part of her life honestly , n people are like more problematic with her decision than her sasu maa
Reel life mother and daughter... wow.. nice to see them together...❤️
The interviewer should let Sanam speak.
Right
Absolutly right
Exactly. Not a sign of a good interviewer. She should learn from Graham Norton.
Exactly
Exactly. She is going on cutting her
i dont know her but she caught my attention...she didnt only leave the husband for only for family ties/mum getting sick...she was missing her real life that she used to be herself...she wasnt herself in that marraige. Glad she walked out and not compromised! Go Girl!!!
Oh this is easy. It's because you are intentionally living your life in such a way that tells the good guys that you are the type that only likes bad boys. I can just watch you and tell you that the good guys avoid you like the plague. You want some good guy to come to you on your terms. Not gonna happen. You need to get serious so that it shows that you have finally gotten past that teenage phase of your life. Hint, you're probably not gonna find him going to a bar 3-4 times a week. You're not even married yet and you're already trying to blame the guy for not coming to you and fixing your problem. Geez, will you girls never learn? If you really want a man for the rest of your life, then start acting like a woman that a man would want to spend the rest of his life with instead of acting like any man would be lucky to have you.
Well said
Keep it up
@@MegaBaddog : I liked what you wrote. I mean what sanam saeed did is completely selfish.
@@MegaBaddog What? This comment makes no sense whatsoever. Sanam was saying that she could not be who she wanted to be in her marriage and did not feel that she could give her husband what he deserved. So, the initial commenter said that she was glad that Sanam left that marriage rather than compromise. Where did you get all of these things about good guys and bad boys, going to the bar, any of that come from?
Sanam is so frank and honest. God bless her and may she achieve happiness and success that she greatly deserves.
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Like her thought process. Quality of a strong woman. Living life on her own terms and understanding the real meaning of relationship.
“When two people decide to get a divorce, it isn't a sign that they 'don't understand' one another, but a sign that they have, at least, begun to.” “Divorce isn't the child's fault.
Appreciate her ... at least she’s not leading a fake or show off life ... and one thing i like about this conversation is that she was honest for her husband as well she didn’t cheat or lied 🤥... its better to be honest and truthful than be a cheater and hurt someone... you go girl 😍😍
Ayesha hear my all songs from google
Agree on this point
Ruquiya google se mere all songs suno ap esp jaane na by touseef on google
Bullshit she choose enjoyment life over decent dignified married women as per her statement in marriage she get bored in her house for doing routine works of her house
How do u know that she didn’t cheat or not lying?😀
What she did is extremely commendable! How many of us can actually think of doing this.. she is so strong that she followed her heart and gut and saved herself from a life long regret
she didn’t blame on him how beautiful and honest ❤️stay blessed
I respect her choice to divorce. And she didn't say a single negative thing about her ex husband. In fact, she still thinks that he deserves the best.
But I dont appreciate the interviewer auntie.
Aisa kuch b nahi asal mai wo azad rahna chahty hai our showbiz mai inn rahna cahty hai
I hope you will support your own daughter too. . She wanted to stay in show biz. She kicked a beautiful relation blessed by God. One day she will realise that.
@@MrHunt-ov3lo you have no right to get personal.
@@fariiqbalfari260 ap ko kis baat ki takleef hai? Ap best ho kya? Har aik ko zindgi farq hoti hai. Asal ikhlaq hai ke kisi ko bura na kaho.
the interviewer auntie is Samina Peerzada very senior actress she speaking to sanan this way as a senior like our parents r big sisters will talk to us .
Highly appreciated. Better to leave then to direct your relationship into a toxic one.
Hi Sanam...I just want to say you are like your character Kashaf in your real life too ( not the pessimistic portion)...I really appreciate that😀😘
correct...reel kashaf is real Sanaam with 2 daughter's
I became a psycho patient after becoming housewife.i wanted to commit suicide sometimes.she did excellent job.live ur life.
Honey please leave if you can don’t commit suicide
I feel suicidal too!Still married
When you are old will ask yourself questions that why when I had the time I didn’t take my chance you will ask yourself I could’ve left and things would’ve been different but I didn’t...
Ram everyday suicidal and sadistic
Only 25 with a kid n an engineering degree but hav nv worked yet
I dont know what to do
Here it is abt the in laws not husband
It is depressing
Faa sk May Allah help you and sort out all your problems, You can decide if its getting hard, aren't your parents helping you?
Am I the only one who feel like this host is making her uncomfortable..Like How u did that "typical desi Aunty"..
She is great actress let's appreciate her acting skills..Sanam Luv from 🇮🇳
I think she was just curious to know,nothing wrong in it
No. Me too! At many episodes, the host is quite cringe!
Atleast she didn't wait to be a part of future broken family. Decision made sooner than feeling sorry for kids later.
Divorce is not good thing in the sight of our creator her words are dubious like her personality she said herself that she get bored in home means usko kuch Aisa chahiye jo duniya vi ho
I agree u..
Khair inka apna personal matter tha. Sanam ne jo bhi kia accha hi kia. Reel se lekar real tak..humi logo ko ye sb baatein bohot matter karti hai
@@nehasiddique1519 tum hi logo ko?
@@galaxyofvid2738 even tumhe bhi....tbhi u put a ??
@@nehasiddique1519 acha kiya hoga vo tumhara nazriya hai ab kitna sahi hai vo alag baat hai i hope tumhe samajh ayehoga
It is better to be honest rather than to pretend .....it is her life so let's not be judgemental.May Allah bless her with new relationship at some point of her life.
She had olready broken one relation....and does not want to marry...she noes she cant hadle it...she is more interested in her acting and carer
@@humanbeing3727 maybe next time she can be little more mature and can handle everything which comes her way.Every other person deserves another chance and can't be deprived from experiencing the sweetness of relationships.
Very few have great thoughts like you.. I truly appreciate it.. @seen amber
@@masoomfathema3618 thank you... May Allah bless you too and your all wishes get fulfilled.
@@fseenamber7901 life ,Rushty mazaq NAHI Hoti beta.toty jao banaty jao...Sab sy Asan Kam chor k slag hona Hota Hai..akhri dam takhalaat sy lerna chahiy..AJ ki lerki bahut educated,Aur brave hai.wo Ker Sakti Hai ..jab life k other fields mein Ker ri hai to.
My God....never heard anything like this... Such a strong and empathetic lady...
I love this actress. She is my favorite pakistani actress and i love her drama zindgi gulzar hai.
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Me too
Yeah, also the host is kashaf's mom from the show.
Deedan Also
Sanam Saeed you have legions of fans in India,and I am one of them. Fell in love with Kashaf, her strength of character,her insecurities,her voice,her Urdu and how her character completes her arc. Wish you the best in life! If you are as tough as your personality shown in 'Gulzar hai',you would soon find your bearing in life.
I think she’s very brave to be so open...that she basically changed her mind. If a man had done what she did, we would use some pretty nasty words to describe him. Feel sorry for her ex.
Sorry but the host is like a typical interfering desi aunty! One can ask a personal question also with some level of kindness
true, bolne hi nhi de rhi, story sanam ki h
Host is also a senior actress named "samina Peerzada" and she personally knows sanam that's why she kept on interfering.
@@ayeshatahir3318 - I respect that fact. However, in public she should not do it.
I agree!
If sanam was uncomfortable,she would say it..
She's right couple should live together...I like she doesn't speak bad about her ex... Usually is situation log ek dusray ko blame krtay hai...
Agree
If her husband didn't cause the marriage to fail then why would she speak ill of him - then he'd just attack back in the media.
I think she was not ready to let go of her guy friends and "free" lifestyle of being an actress. The way she kept talking about how men and women work together in the film/tv industry and how they have to dance together and touch each other kind of made it clear for me that she probably spend a lot of time with other guys which ultimately caused the end of their marriage.
Her vibes are very strong and courageous..... Loved her fan from India 🇮🇳
Honest interview...dear...from India 😉 with lots of love...
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I don't know what sort of upbringing she has...but Sanam you have become my role model....fantastic dude and I wish people raise their kids like the way your parents have raised you. If this is not what an empowered woman sounds like then I don't know what else would make the cut.
what the hell ... pyaar what rubbish... she is an individual .... n she choose Independence over commitment... good job .. well done ... love from India.. n we value ur decesion
women are independent , have a .laugh
@@MegaBaddog who are you? An alien?
@@MegaBaddog See one live example in front of you lol, Sanam Saeed herself. So the joke's on you.
@@MegaBaddog sorry from india brother...ye hamare yha ki creepy feminist kabhi nhi smjh paenge...shayad inke ma baap ka bhi divorce hua hai
That's ok but don't destroy somebody's like. She shouldn't have married in the first place.
She made choices which is I think extremely honest. It takes guts to be that honest and true to yourself even for a man . she did and I salute her for that. she loved someone and then reach to a point where she has to pick things and make a better decision for another person as well. That needs courage.
*Such a brave lady, sometimes its really hard to taKe such decisions, some girls are born to be strong enough to realise their strength. I can completely feel her feelings*
Her husband wanted her to stay at home at the times...and be his trophy wife ..which she certainly don't want her life to be...she wanted a life which she built with her hardwork and strong will..grt ❤ to you strong girl frm india....
aakanksha vashisth she never said her husband wanted her to stay home and be his trophy. She said “ I was wrong “ at least respect her for her honesty
She is not indian
Did u not listen to what she said? Not at any point did she say that her husband wanted a trophy wife. Instead she said clearly that she wanted something else out of life and wanted to devote herself to her mother.
@@qamarhuda4898 stupid, why that comment?
@@qamarhuda4898
Idiot donkey.
Good for her, we don't even know what went on behind the scenes but she put a veil over him and her relationship and just followed her heart, good for her, I wish I could be strong like that
Sanam is amazing girl.. she is real kashaf in real life too
Anchor Mam, Let her Speak. We all got your question very well including Sanam.
Isn't the lady interviewing Sanam the actress who played Sanam's mom in Zindagi Gulzar hai ??
Yes..
Yes and her name is samina peerzada
Yes the same
Samina tried hard to paint the divorce scenario in a sad way. But it couldn't be possible because it wasn't
True
the girl exactly that what i was thinking lol
Exactly
the girl x
True
Such a strong girl she is...my favourite actress from Pakistan..loads a lv from India to u brave girl
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U r a strong girl...bravo....lots of love from India
We are nobody to judge another persons personal life and struggles. Let her live her life. As a spectator/audience let us just focus on her acting skill. I am sure we all agree that she is an amazing actor. Why not overlook her divorce and focus on her acting. We can do that much.
U are happy vd the fact that she is entertaining u...but she has ruined and breaked someones heart....she vl relaize one wat a big loss she has earned
P
Kashaf aur ammi...I loved Kashaf's ammi in zindagi Gulzar hai. Such a positive character
I am happy to see that she is mot blaming her ex husband for the divorce .. she knows what she was going through . Mental stress is too much . I live in saudi arabia and i have kids. And literally there had been times when i would think to leave him and live in Pakistan. I still think the same as sanam sometimes, what is my life. Kids and house thats it no career. Completely dependent on husband . Life in saudia is worse for women than in dubai ..we cant even go out on our own . And so i. Told my husband that we need to move or i will go mad with depression . But some women or men are not patient enough specially. If they have other priorities.
then divorce and find a job and then go around sleeping with your dream man, after 35 you wont have any real liuck
@@sanaraheem5000 just sick people are every where.just ignore the ignorant person
@@sanaraheem5000 just what was the disagreement about, you dont like the cold bitter truth.
I too live in a foreign land with children and husband. I can understand it's tough but then I think my husband is working this hard only for us. Otherwise he too could live easy life. I never leave him alone to visit even my parents. Whenever you feel like this just thank god that you have a husband who is working so hard for you. You will only love him more.
U should b thankful that ur not living with in laws ..i too live in gulf with my in laws and thats worst worst...
Oh my God... Two favorite Actresses.. love from 🇮🇳
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Amshu
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Hello 😊
Ashu Parihar yeah :)
Samina is being ridiculously invasive
I just completed THE" ZINDGI GULZAR HAI" while watching continuously!!!!!..........
.....THAT girl was quite different from this girl!!!!.........
....shocked ..while listening her words!!!...... portrait life and real life!!!!....big difference!!!..
Why is everyone judging her? It was not working out for her, so she chose to move out of a relationship she didnt feel she was being genuine to. Atleast she left with dignity and with truth, rather than being in a relationship which she didnt want to be in and making it toxic. I see all the butthurt women saying being a house wife is not bad she shouldve sacrificed, yes its not bad FOR YOU. Because thats your nature thats what you want and like, but she literally said thats not who she is and what she wants, hence It IS BAD FOR HER. If you want that life, good for you girl, but if you dont, then you need to spend your life the way you want, aswell! She made the right decision by chosing her feelings over anyone elses, so many women in our society live life's that end up making them feel miserable just because they were too weak to stand up and leave, at the end theyve nothing but regret. Remember put your self first! You can never love someone unless you love yourself first! Self care is important and the most important feelings to secure are yours! xx
This host lady is very irritating and interrupting. Why she is not letting sanam speak.
She is letting her speak. Its u whos being irritated
She is Samina Peerzada who plays the role of her mother in her most popular drama 'Zindagi Gulzar Hai'.
Samina peerzada is awsome in her work ..she is conducting the show very well.
Shukriya shakal se jyada awaz se pahchana maine bhi
So truthful. First time i ami seeing her. Amazing you Are. Love from India🇮🇳
U should watch her drama zindagi gulzar hai.. There is Very good lesson
I can totally understand you... U r a strong women who can't be tamed... Love u for that.. Love from India!
Sanam Saeed is incredible, and she has an amazingly strong character.
Sameena ji you are such a comfort to watch. Pataa nahin kyun,jab bhi apko dekhta hun, I feel so peaceful and warm. Apki shaqsiyat bahut hi tasalli dene wali hai. God bless. You spread warmth,love, understanding and comfort.
My two favorites... #ZindagiGulzarHai
lots of love from India 🇮🇳💕💕
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I love their pair since ' Zindagi Gulzar Hai'💗💗
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I wanted someone to say in the comment section ❤️❤️❤️
Zindgi gulzar h drama full kahn dekh skty hain Urdu mAi
I'm in love with kashaf murtaza ❤️❤️❤️thank you for making that character so realistic and beautiful. Love from India 🇮🇳
She is so real. She is not blaming anyone . She did what she felt . And at last she is happy.
you both are beautiful. and I love you both. also its really sad to know about sanam's personal life. but i guess she is a strong personality with true soul. which will heal all her saddnes.. god bless you. and love
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She is so clear on what she wants. Most of us are lost in the journey and the fears
Its good she didnt make his husband suffers
She wanted to continue her life without making him compromise for her
And thats good.
Her husband*
Respect... Men are respected for the choice that sanam made, where they priortise parents comfort, happiness and rights over the wife's. Whereas if a woman, wife chooses to do the same she is called names, the hypocrisy and double standard is disgusting and shameful and the sad jealous housewives that support sanam being denigrated wish they could divorce their husbands too :)
She is so classy and confident
Don't know why but her personality inspires me her
I don't think there is any other actresses in Pakistan who can beat her in all sectors
Whether in acting personality class or confident..
Hope if she ever reads my comment
Love from Nepal sanam❤️🇳🇵
Your fan from Nepal 🇳🇵
What matters is a person's happiness. If you're not happy in a marriage you should let go, no matter how stupid the reason sound to other people.. Kudos to u for chossing yourself sanam. Proud of you.
sonali M okay but if you are married you have to do some sacrifices to make the relationship work, and if you are getting married second time and don't like something again you can't just say its not comfortable and all that you have to work on on a relationship, we belong to eastern culture, whether its men or women both play role in a marriage
She didn't say she wasn't happy..she had to choose her mother because of her illness and she wouldn't be able to give time to her husband. It's her being wise.
I see no difference between kashaf and sanam, such a wonderful personality...
I just had a one month of marriage.my husband said he was never married. Later i got to know he is a divorcee. N he was so miser that he did not give me a reception or honeymoon or get my domestic air tickets rather i got his tickets done. So after seeing how he lies, i decided to leave him.
I think she made the right decision. Often people give up their dreams when they get married because suddenly they have responsibilities and have to give time to their husband and most of the time their husbands prefer their wives not earning and staying at home. I think she realised that giving up acting was not what she wanted in life. It is her passion and its very hard to leave your passion. As much as she wanted to work it out with her loved one she couldnt because in life doing what you love satisfies you more and gives you the happiness you want. Yes he made her happy but she still felt empty and away from family. Yes she made an abrupt decision while marrying him and she has realised now and now she will make sure she marries someone who is from the same industry and understands her field of work and doesn’t get too controlling after marriage
And please dont say sirf larki ka kaam hota hai ghar basana. Ghar basana dono husband wife ka kaam hai. If a guy can work and earn and do something he loves then why cant a woman? I am pretty sure they tried working their relationship but it didnt work out and its always good to get a divorce if the relationship is unhealthy.
Right or wrong, its her decision. But making someone else suffer because of your decision is absolutely not right. Giving up dreams or living them for whatever reason is a choice, one chooses to give priority to, be it their dreams in which its only about me and myself, or sharing life with someone and thus making many adjustments willingly. One should have the right to choose but at the same time one must be prepared for the outcome. Its a prejudice that only women are considered to sacrifice their 'dreams'. The fact is, men also sacrifice a lot of things in order to 'run' the family. Both the genders give up something to work it out, to priorities things in life, to make a family, have mutual love and respect for each other. Its true that many men before did not want their wives to work outside home, somewhat true even now. While the idea of patriarchal ego cannot be ruled out as one of the reasons behind this, the fact that one person should be looking after home while the other goes out earning also stands as a reasonable point. Its often found that the children of both parents working grow up feeling lonely and rejected (especially in nuclear families where other family members' support is absent). The question of who will play the roles of homemaker and earner or both is also set. Normally its the male who is earning but even if the female is earning that does not incessantly mean that the male is looking after home, thus increasing the chances of the children being neglected. The role reversal is also near impossible. How many earning women would want to marry a non-earning homemaking man?
I admire Sanam as an artist. If her passion was giving her satisfaction and happiness (which is again all about me, myself), she should have given it a priority and never married at the first place. Marriage is not like any other decisions of life which can be taken lightly at will. In the quest of individuality, oneself and only one's happiness people are making a mockery of the institution of marriage nowadays.
(P.S. in a marriage, not only men control, both control each other at some level and if balanced, its often healthy for a relationship!
@@gooddugfa I've never seen such self sacrificing men. In a marriage it's always women who suffer
Huh! She thought she had hit a bounty but she was home bound for such women r but social climbers. After marriage life changed and she couldn't keep herself away from the party crowd n party scene. Mother's illness was just an eye wash. She will have another lame excuse the second time around as well coz such women do not know limits or settling down. God help her n all others like her.
Faisal Khan i dont think acting is known as “partying” its not easy its a very difficult job on its own. Its better to part your ways rather than living a unhealthy lifestyle in which both couples are not happy. Also i am pretty sure she was very protective of her mother. You are no one to judge and make up false accusations. Divorce hui hai tou mutually hui hai, i am sure in the end her husband understood. Sometimes you love someone but cant stay together. You’ve got to understand that
Samina peerzada keeps interrupting the guests. It is so annoying.
Kashyaf and her mom interview....zindgi Gulzar h 😍
She is my favourite actress. Love you lot ma'am. I'm from India but I always see your movie and Serial. Zindagi gulzar hai my favourite serial. It's mind blowing 😍😍😘😘😃
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I love Sanam Saeed such a honest person
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MaShallah, very intelligent and self aware girl. She knows what is a priority and she came through. Bravo Sanam, you're an inspiration
She was a teacher where I sent my son for preschooling in Dubai . after watching ZGH I always used to think, was she the same sanam .. after listening to this episode, I’ve confirmed it was her !
Finally some sense ...she is such an intelligent person .
She did nothing wrong, it needs courage to take such a decision. If she taught that she can’t fulfill the needs then why would she carry a burden.
I love ur voice Sanam Saeed
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Beautiful
Luv u Sanam such a brave lady nd brave decision...luv from India
she is very strong women.inki izzat mere nazaron me aur badh gayi...she is my fav pakistani actress.lots of love from india
Basically she is dead honest.
How come nobody is saying a word about the other party as if that doesn’t even matter...it’s all about if she did right or wrong.....it is as it the other party is not a human being....my first question would be....if there was love and relationship involved, did the other party agreed to her decision? If not, who’s going to be held accountable for HIS sufferings from this decision. Just a thought to ponder 🤔
der aaye durust aaye
How do you know she's not saying everything? There could be other reasons why her marriage failed but she's not saying it.
Iska baat karne ka tarika natural hai mahira khan jaisa fake nahi.
I hate mahira khan
You are right i love Sanam
That's Mahira's own style. Stop hating.
Neelam Singh ryt
@@kavitavijaylakshmi.5634 Kareena fan talking about fakeness what an irony
I am proud to be her fan. Hat off you mam. Sanam is a caring person no one would make such a decision like her honestly she is a devoted daughter. Lots of respect from india
If they were not happy together,it's bettter they seperated their ways.
@rashidaq So? Men do that all the time. They even leave their pregnant wives for other women. It's high time women made men suffer.
@rashidaq were you even paying attention to the interview? No where did she say she didnt feel important. She prioritized her family and realized that giving divided attention was not healthy for a relationship and she realized she was being unfair to her husband... cant believe people still shit on women for taking care of their family or focusing on their career. Yes balance is important, totally agree with that. However, she clearly says she couldn't balance. Better she leave then regret her life and make her husband regret his life after...and this isnt some feminists crap. I speaking in considering the type of relationship she would have had if she continued sith her marriage
Her way of talking is very nice 👌👌👌❤❤...love u sanam
We love you Sanam Saeed. So honest and pure. Love from India!
Don't worry Sana it ur life it ur choice ....wat ever v like u
Anupama Gowda ....yes of course she has made here own decision ...she should made it before marriage instead of getting married
lmao who is sana..its sanam
It's good, divorce is not a taboo or stigma people
.sahabi also used to divorce okay ..and they were pious people
Ash Z not for such silly n selfish reason.....
happy soul You're kidding me. Zaynab bint Jahsh and Zayd ibd Haaritha divorced, despite their marriage being decreed in the Quran. Ab agar iss daur mai hotay tau unki divorce 'silly reasons' ki wajha se huwi thi? If a man and a woman, who are merely sahabi, have had their marriage decreed and mentioned in the Quran and they STILL opted for divorce... i'm sure any reason, where the man or woman in the marriage is uncomfortable is valid.
Her reasons might be frivolous to YOU... but her for HER, in her experience/life... those reasons hold the highest importance.
Agar yeh aik choti si baat Pakistani quom seekk jaye tau kya baat hai. Sab societal problems khatam ho jayein.
One of the most honest interview i have seen in in a while 😊
Zindagi gulzar h 2 plz bnaye ,yahi dono character hona chahiye
My favorite😍💕 pakistani actress & i love her voice so much😘😘😘😘😘
Lots of love from India ❣❣❣❣❣💗💗💗
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Bilkul sahi kiya sanam....hamari jindgi kaise jina h ye hame hi sochna h...nice sanam...mai india se hu aur pahali baar aapko dekha h par aap badi achchhi lagi
I don't understand what kind pepole are you