Paano po kung ang Dominant di marunong makinig kay gentile supportive. Gusto nila magsasalita si gentle supportive para alam nila tapos pag nagsasalita naman si gentle supportive, di naman nakikinig si dominant. Sarili pa rin niya ang lagi dapat intindihin.
ang hirap maging gentle-supportive person, kahit super nasasaktan ka na di ka makapagsalita kasi ayaw mo ng away.. ayaw mo na ikaw nga yung tama pero sya pa yung galit na galit.. ang nagiging dating ikaw pa ang may kasalanan.. 😭
maria luisa baria True. And the moment you speak up sasabihin nagbago ka na, your not the same person anymore. Later on gagamitin un na excuse pag nagloko na sya or something.
Ganyan din ako nung una, tahimik lang, pero ngayon medyo natutu na rin akong sumagot sa asawa ko kung kailangan. At na appreciate nya kasi (alam nya kung galit ako or nagtatampo), sabi nga nya hindi sya manghuhula, ngayon na open na ako, alam nya kung saan nya ilulugar sarili nya.
Ganyan din ako peru mostly mga foreigner gusto nila na open ka ano nasa loob hindi yung umiiyak lang sa tabi tpos wlang sasabihin peru sa pinoy naman iba ayaw nila sasagot sagot ka pag sumagot ka mag aaway kayo
Gentle supportive is starting now to change; she is now speaking up right away every time there are triggers/problems/issue. But, suddenly, her partner said to her, “problema na naman? Dami ko na nga problema, dadagdag ka pa” How would you react/handle this kind of situation?
Exactly. Do you need to think and sense first if its a good time to speak up or not? If you let time pass nman our partner will say “why bring it up just now, why not then?
Single akon neh hindi pa nasubukan makipagrelasyon sa tandang ko to,😊piro isa ako sa nag aabang sa content nyo Sir & Ma’am ( Richard & Maricar). Napaka ganda ng content may aral, dito ko nadiscover sa sarili ko, kung alin sa apat na personality ako. Hahaha Marami Salamat po. 💕More content pa po.
watching your videos with my fiancé . madami kami natutunan sa inyo dalawa we've been following you for quite sometime and in FB since 2017. Ni share ko sa mga friend couple ko mga post nyo sa FB and it helped them aswell . God bless you both always. @sir Richard Poon nagkasabay na tayo sa event way Back po 2008 :) group ko before sila Paul Tagle of Serenity Band
I like the content of this video. I think i am personality number 2, and i guess most people around me will agree. But when it comes to married life, i think i have a little of gentle supportive like the girl on the story. But gladly, sometimes i have the will to talk to my husband about it. But there's still have a time na i'm afraid that it will cause more away. So i think, timing is also an option. My husband have dominant personality, that's why i need to balance it once i will tell him my feelings na. Hehe. Thanks to a friend for recommending this channel. I'm a newbie. :)
Agree. Need lang talaga mag bigayan ng chance to speak, pakinggan at ma acknowledge ang isat isa which is for me napaka important din. Thanks, RM. God bless po.
Ang hirap po kc what if ikaw nlng ng ikaw umiintindi umuunawa den paulitulit prin problem kc ung partner mo d nman nag adjust o nag babago ng aritude khit cnsbi mo n lahat lahat ung dapat iwasan and yet gnun prin sya tpos llambingin k lng ssory ok na peeo paulit ulit prin away kc gngwa prin nya mga bagay n pinaiiwasan ko gwin pra d mag away ang hirap tlga
i'm the gentle supportive. getting married soon. dealing with the exact issues discussed in this vlog. kaso napuno nlng ako. i deactivated my facebook to protect my mental health. Dominant and corrective din partner ko. kaso ako ung lagi open for communication pero si partner, ayaw nya na pnaguusapan. naging cycle lang namin for 7yrs. now, we are getting marriedsoon, ngayon lang ako napuno ng ganito. :(
My partner is a people person. I'm somewhat dominant, meticulous. Napuno ako. Everytime may misunderstanding kami, lage nalng siya nakikipaghiwalay. Kapag ako na makigpaghiwalay, sinusuyo niya ako. Paulit -ulit kaming ganito for 3yrs. Ayaw niyang makigpag-usap dahil sakit lang daw sa ulo, iniiwasan ako, blocked sa fb, hindi na uuwi sa rented house namin. Kaya umabot sa puntong napuno ako. I lashed out on his family just to get his attention. Everything I've said have hurt his parents and they felt insulted. Bakit daw ako umaastang parang asawa. Masama ugali hindi naman kami kasal. For 3 yrs, I helped him out, kung wala siyang pera padala sa parents niya, kung wala pera pambili pagkain kapatid niyang may sariling pamilya, kung may sakit siya ako sumasalo sa gastos sa checkup at gamot, tinulungan maghanap ng desenteng trabaho, nung nag-away siya sa kapatid niya at wala siyang matitirhan ako naghanap ng lugar na masisilungan niya. Kaya ko nasasabi mga ito dahil sa simpleng hiling ko na magkausap man lang kami kung may problema ay laging ayaw niya ng confrontation. May hinanakit rin ako sa parents niya dahil early on sa relationship namin lage silang nakikialam. Naghiwalay kami . Napagod rin ako.
Relate! This is my problem now... Before sinasabi ko kung ano yung problema and kung anong nararamdaman ko BUT as time goes by, the more I express it the more na may nagagalit sakin at may mga times na hindi na ko pinapansin tapos biglang nawawala yung friendship... Feeling ko lahat ng sinasabi ko mali or mali yung words... Kaya kapag may problem, I tried to come up with words na hindi sila masasaktan. Then, kakaisip ko ng words, hindi ko namamalayan na weeks ko na palang dinidibdib or months. It's really hard to keep problems and feelings. I want to overcome/change this. 😟
There are two sides to this though. Yes you have to practice na wag dibdibin ng matagal yung feelings mo... but on the other hand you cannot control the reaction of the other person. Minsan may ma-ooffend talaga kahit di naman offensive ang pagkasabi mo because they have their own issues. Don't blame yourself too much din :) Just do your part and if you are doing the right thing, be secure in that :)
I've been watching your vlogs since quarantine and I learned so many things from you. I'm blessed to found your channel! ❤️ By the way, I recommended your channel to my friends and colleagues. 🤗 Moreee content please. ❤️❤️
It's really hard to express my feelings to my husband. Ayoko ko mag away kami tatahimik lng ako pag meron kmi dinidiscus tapos uwi lng sa argue.. ayoko ko nmn na sabihan niya ako. Na hindi ako ganito nung una niya akon na kilala. Hindi ko alam kung pano ako aadjust sa partner ko.. naiiyak ako sa sitwasyon ko
A new subscriber here,,, maraming salamat, sa mga educational topics sa contents/vlog ninyo... nakikilala ko pang lalo ang sarili ko, at natutunan ko rin na mag adjust sa ibang tao in accordance to their personality traits. Feeling ko eclectic ang aking personality... hahaha... minsan sala sa init/lamig, minsan nandededma nalang, minsan maligalig... hahahaha... abnoy ba kaya tawag sakin? 🤣🤣🤣
Jan ako nahihirapan sa asawa ko pag nag aaway kami its about his family ang kinaiinis ko lang d sya marunong mag salita sa family nya lagi nyang sinasabi mas magandang manahimik na lang kesa lumaki pa at wala din naman daw sya maipag mamalaki, kaka dissapoint lang kahit konting pride wala na sya hindi man lang sya marunong mangatwiran tanggap lang ng tanggap ng insulto.. Kung d lang ako naawa sa kanya ewan ko lang kung makaka tagal pa ko eh..
@@RelationshipMattersPh eh kasi di kami mag land on the same page hehe tapos yung simpleng usapan ginagwang complicated hanggang sa maging bonggang argument. minsan ay mali madalas pala haha pag sinabi ko na nag tatampo ako kase wala na kami quality time dahil puro sya mobile games, chat at browse sa fb right after dinner hanggang madaling araw ang isasagot saken eh hindi ko na aappreciate yung pagiging good provider nya. omg so hard to explain. basta yung mga sagot nya eh ndi related sa issue at all hihi
@@RelationshipMattersPh we both knew it already. but unfortunately wala din nangyri hihi thank you so much for making my day. hugs and kisses from abu dhabi :)
Paano po kung ang Dominant di marunong makinig kay gentile supportive. Gusto nila magsasalita si gentle supportive para alam nila tapos pag nagsasalita naman si gentle supportive, di naman nakikinig si dominant. Sarili pa rin niya ang lagi dapat intindihin.
ang hirap maging gentle-supportive person, kahit super nasasaktan ka na di ka makapagsalita kasi ayaw mo ng away.. ayaw mo na ikaw nga yung tama pero sya pa yung galit na galit.. ang nagiging dating ikaw pa ang may kasalanan.. 😭
maria luisa baria True. And the moment you speak up sasabihin nagbago ka na, your not the same person anymore. Later on gagamitin un na excuse pag nagloko na sya or something.
Kaya nga tatahimik kna lang kasi ayaw mo ng away
😥😥😥
Vlog please about being very selosa na lagi ng napag uugatan ng away. How to manage it. Thank you. ☺️
Ang galing!
#RELATE. I wanna know how to stop keeping everything to myself.
First to comment from your Trans Fan in Washington DC po!
Love you Ate Maricar and Kuya Richard!
Super ralate ako dito. Mahirap din pag di mo masabi mga nasa kalooban mo. Sometimes it destroys you na pala unti-unti.
amazing couple love you guys
Ganyan din ako nung una, tahimik lang, pero ngayon medyo natutu na rin akong sumagot sa asawa ko kung kailangan. At na appreciate nya kasi (alam nya kung galit ako or nagtatampo), sabi nga nya hindi sya manghuhula, ngayon na open na ako, alam nya kung saan nya ilulugar sarili nya.
yay!!!
Ganyan din ako peru mostly mga foreigner gusto nila na open ka ano nasa loob hindi yung umiiyak lang sa tabi tpos wlang sasabihin peru sa pinoy naman iba ayaw nila sasagot sagot ka pag sumagot ka mag aaway kayo
Gentle supportive is starting now to change; she is now speaking up right away every time there are triggers/problems/issue. But, suddenly, her partner said to her, “problema na naman? Dami ko na nga problema, dadagdag ka pa” How would you react/handle this kind of situation?
Exactly. Do you need to think and sense first if its a good time to speak up or not? If you let time pass nman our partner will say “why bring it up just now, why not then?
@@darleneolvidado3924 Right po
Nangyayare sakin yan ngayon
Single akon neh hindi pa nasubukan makipagrelasyon sa tandang ko to,😊piro isa ako sa nag aabang sa content nyo Sir & Ma’am ( Richard & Maricar). Napaka ganda ng content may aral, dito ko nadiscover sa sarili ko, kung alin sa apat na personality ako. Hahaha Marami Salamat po. 💕More content pa po.
watching your videos with my fiancé . madami kami natutunan sa inyo dalawa we've been following you for quite sometime and in FB since 2017. Ni share ko sa mga friend couple ko mga post nyo sa FB and it helped them aswell . God bless you both always. @sir Richard Poon nagkasabay na tayo sa event way Back po 2008 :) group ko before sila Paul Tagle of Serenity Band
Now ko pa nalaman meron palang kayong vlog about relationship. thanks to kristels vlog
Watching from Greenland ... 👍 I like your topics
nice, Greenland :)
That is why kinekeep ko n lang sa sarili ko😢😢
I like the content of this video. I think i am personality number 2, and i guess most people around me will agree. But when it comes to married life, i think i have a little of gentle supportive like the girl on the story. But gladly, sometimes i have the will to talk to my husband about it. But there's still have a time na i'm afraid that it will cause more away. So i think, timing is also an option. My husband have dominant personality, that's why i need to balance it once i will tell him my feelings na. Hehe. Thanks to a friend for recommending this channel. I'm a newbie. :)
Agree. Need lang talaga mag bigayan ng chance to speak, pakinggan at ma acknowledge ang isat isa which is for me napaka important din.
Thanks, RM. God bless po.
Kat Kat Everything will work if both partners agree to such. Mahirap kung yung 1 mag aadapt.
Ang hirap po kc what if ikaw nlng ng ikaw umiintindi umuunawa den paulitulit prin problem kc ung partner mo d nman nag adjust o nag babago ng aritude khit cnsbi mo n lahat lahat ung dapat iwasan and yet gnun prin sya tpos llambingin k lng ssory ok na peeo paulit ulit prin away kc gngwa prin nya mga bagay n pinaiiwasan ko gwin pra d mag away ang hirap tlga
i'm the gentle supportive. getting married soon. dealing with the exact issues discussed in this vlog. kaso napuno nlng ako. i deactivated my facebook to protect my mental health. Dominant and corrective din partner ko. kaso ako ung lagi open for communication pero si partner, ayaw nya na pnaguusapan. naging cycle lang namin for 7yrs. now, we are getting marriedsoon, ngayon lang ako napuno ng ganito. :(
hello po. pag nagmemsg po sya sayo d nyo po pinapansin msgs nya?
Most couple should practice silence is golden it lessen the conflict
Love u maricar😍😍😍
Amazing couple
My partner is a people person. I'm somewhat dominant, meticulous. Napuno ako. Everytime may misunderstanding kami, lage nalng siya nakikipaghiwalay. Kapag ako na makigpaghiwalay, sinusuyo niya ako. Paulit -ulit kaming ganito for 3yrs. Ayaw niyang makigpag-usap dahil sakit lang daw sa ulo, iniiwasan ako, blocked sa fb, hindi na uuwi sa rented house namin. Kaya umabot sa puntong napuno ako. I lashed out on his family just to get his attention. Everything I've said have hurt his parents and they felt insulted. Bakit daw ako umaastang parang asawa. Masama ugali hindi naman kami kasal. For 3 yrs, I helped him out, kung wala siyang pera padala sa parents niya, kung wala pera pambili pagkain kapatid niyang may sariling pamilya, kung may sakit siya ako sumasalo sa gastos sa checkup at gamot, tinulungan maghanap ng desenteng trabaho, nung nag-away siya sa kapatid niya at wala siyang matitirhan ako naghanap ng lugar na masisilungan niya. Kaya ko nasasabi mga ito dahil sa simpleng hiling ko na magkausap man lang kami kung may problema ay laging ayaw niya ng confrontation. May hinanakit rin ako sa parents niya dahil early on sa relationship namin lage silang nakikialam.
Naghiwalay kami . Napagod rin ako.
So sad
You deserve someone better ganun lang yun pag toxic relationship it means hindi sya ang para sayo 😉
Relate much
Relate! This is my problem now... Before sinasabi ko kung ano yung problema and kung anong nararamdaman ko BUT as time goes by, the more I express it the more na may nagagalit sakin at may mga times na hindi na ko pinapansin tapos biglang nawawala yung friendship... Feeling ko lahat ng sinasabi ko mali or mali yung words... Kaya kapag may problem, I tried to come up with words na hindi sila masasaktan. Then, kakaisip ko ng words, hindi ko namamalayan na weeks ko na palang dinidibdib or months. It's really hard to keep problems and feelings. I want to overcome/change this. 😟
There are two sides to this though. Yes you have to practice na wag dibdibin ng matagal yung feelings mo... but on the other hand you cannot control the reaction of the other person. Minsan may ma-ooffend talaga kahit di naman offensive ang pagkasabi mo because they have their own issues. Don't blame yourself too much din :) Just do your part and if you are doing the right thing, be secure in that :)
Thank you this RM 💖 malaking tulong po ito para sameng mag asawa 💯❤️
I've been watching your vlogs since quarantine and I learned so many things from you. I'm blessed to found your channel! ❤️
By the way, I recommended your channel to my friends and colleagues. 🤗
Moreee content please. ❤️❤️
thank you so much for your encouraging words! yes more vids to come
vlog po please about sa relationship na toxic.
Thank you so much po..
I love this couple...
We Love you both! God bless!
Ang hirap maging gentle supportive 😔.... Lalo pag si Dominant hindi nkikinig😣
Thank you po..😍😘
Relate ako kay gentle supportive. 😭
My partner is GS and I'm dominant OC person. How can i help my partner to open up and train to talk like you Ms. Maricar?
Me as a gentle supportive haha
It's really hard to express my feelings to my husband. Ayoko ko mag away kami tatahimik lng ako pag meron kmi dinidiscus tapos uwi lng sa argue.. ayoko ko nmn na sabihan niya ako. Na hindi ako ganito nung una niya akon na kilala. Hindi ko alam kung pano ako aadjust sa partner ko.. naiiyak ako sa sitwasyon ko
Maganda ang topic lagi d2...#SaiSonOFFICIAL
A new subscriber here,,, maraming salamat, sa mga educational topics sa contents/vlog ninyo... nakikilala ko pang lalo ang sarili ko, at natutunan ko rin na mag adjust sa ibang tao in accordance to their personality traits. Feeling ko eclectic ang aking personality... hahaha... minsan sala sa init/lamig, minsan nandededma nalang, minsan maligalig... hahahaha... abnoy ba kaya tawag sakin? 🤣🤣🤣
Di naman. A lot of people are like that 👍 salamat sa pag subscribe❤
Sobrang relate. Huhu
Mister ko, gusto once a year lang pagusapan ang problema. Pwde ba un? Or hiwalayan na po?
ang hirap po talaga 😔
What if both is dominant?
Jan ako nahihirapan sa asawa ko pag nag aaway kami its about his family ang kinaiinis ko lang d sya marunong mag salita sa family nya lagi nyang sinasabi mas magandang manahimik na lang kesa lumaki pa at wala din naman daw sya maipag mamalaki, kaka dissapoint lang kahit konting pride wala na sya hindi man lang sya marunong mangatwiran tanggap lang ng tanggap ng insulto.. Kung d lang ako naawa sa kanya ewan ko lang kung makaka tagal pa ko eh..
Alam ko ang layo ng comment kung ito pero naka ilang ulit na kc ako sa imortal and na missed ko lang si samantha..... ❤
Panu Po pag same kau dominant??
Love you guys 🤣🤣❤️
Thank you Po
Ako ung type na laging nakikipag confront at nag sisita .pero ayoko na.gusto ko nlng maging GS :3
Hahhaha! Di lahat ng confrontation masama. Hope you find the right balance that works for you :)
This is deep ty
Tips how to train the your partner how to express yung hard feelings nya
Ask questions in a non-threatening manner :)
@@RelationshipMattersPh I hope meron po kayong episode na kung paano mag usap ang partner na out loud and partner na tahimik at nagkikimkim. Thanks po
photographs are a treasured memories
Super ako un. Hirap na hirap ako magsalita :(
paano po kung palagi na lang mali ang perception ng partner mo? like for the last 15 years and counting? hihihi
hahahha gosh. what do you mean exactly? bakit mo naman nasabi na PALAGING MALI ang perception niya? :)
@@RelationshipMattersPh eh kasi di kami mag land on the same page hehe tapos yung simpleng usapan ginagwang complicated hanggang sa maging bonggang argument. minsan ay mali madalas pala haha pag sinabi ko na nag tatampo ako kase wala na kami quality time dahil puro sya mobile games, chat at browse sa fb right after dinner hanggang madaling araw ang isasagot saken eh hindi ko na aappreciate yung pagiging good provider nya. omg so hard to explain. basta yung mga sagot nya eh ndi related sa issue at all hihi
Ohhhh... search nyo po yung videos namin on 10 EMOTIONAL NEEDS. baka makatulong. ❤
@@RelationshipMattersPh we both knew it already. but unfortunately wala din nangyri hihi
thank you so much for making my day. hugs and kisses from abu dhabi :)
Happy watching po
Hello po!
Hi po :)