You are an amazing guy..yes well told..hang in there..Love your Positive Vibes ..but because we don't have control over other's actions you do the best you can do. I am interested in van life hopefully late this year..so I follow others and now you because I like your kindness and I am sure I can learn from you..God Bless
FYaI, start sinking funds or emergency fund and keep a canister of gas. People are crazy and its no joke. Be ready to bounce and not stay in dangerous situations.
I love that he can so it with his cat. I got my tiny kitten 4 weeks abandoned in the woods after a while I put a harness on him maybe 6 months old and tried to walk him(I always had dogs) he just fell over like his legs broke. Nope he was not gonna walk. That cat Frank (lol, yep that's his real name) is now 14 years old and I want to put him on a harness so I can bring him on the balcony of my apartment so he can't walk over to the other balconies but he still does that fall over move---lol.... I have seen a lot of cats do that. So I put him in a little mesh bag so he can be outside(I live just outside a huge forest looking into the woods)
No apologies necessary. This is a good public service announcement to remind others to Beware! You did the right thing telling this story. I’m born and raised in NYC, so I don’t trust anyone ever at anytime. It’s not a fun way to live, but trust does not come easy to me. Glad you’re safe! 🙏🏽😀
OMG scariest situation. We just found your channelYesterday. You made that lady a coffee and sandwich , at Cracker Barrel. Such a sad thing. . You have such a big heart. Wish there were more kindhearted folks like you.❤️
Incredible story. I had a sex offender living on my street . An elementary school half block away. It took many town meetings to get him removed from our town.
The whole video was a creepy vibe. I especially loved the sound effects and your mellow narrative of the story. It sure kept me here until the end. Be careful out there. It's a beautiful world where bad things happen. Always keep money on you for emergencies. And holy crap! You were brave to go back to the same spot.
If you happened to get a pic of dudes van or himself , you should send it to the other van lifers especially females that you have met and have them send it to their vanlife friends so itll get passed a round and can hopefully help prevent him attacking some solo traveler .
Don't you think before anyone does that this should be verified? This seemed fishy to me. Why is John warning everyone and arguing with the guy and saying all these things he is doing and saying he is calling cops but never does? It's possible this guy John has a personal vendetta with Frankie and is trying to make his life hell. Did anyone hear these supposed arguments? I wouldn't accuse or spread someones picture without proof especially since it wouldn't be hard to verify
I was like who's been messing with my boo!! Guardian Angels come in all forms. John def did a great act of service of warning you and the other nomads. 💜
Its hard knowing that there are threats to our safety around us, sometimes closer than we realize . I have a difficult time relaxing when my grandchildren play at the park very close to our home. I watched too much of the news for too many years. You are a cheerful reminder to me that life is meant to be enjoyed. Thank you for all you share....❤
Mateo people crave reality, which is why your channel is one of my favorites. I’m 100% ok with anything you share. This story helps keep things in perspective. I truly believe it will help others to stay aware of their surroundings.
Wow that's crazy!!😮 please don't call yourself "stupid" for talking to Frankie. You're naturally a very nice guy and down to earth. You approached him with good intentions and without judgement. You didn't know his history. So no you are not stupid! Sending you so much love and positive light! Love y'all ❤☮️
Always listen to you intuition especially when your traveling on the road! You should of left no matter what and even stayed at Starbucks or something.
My goodness you’re a nice person. I’m in Australia and did van life for 12 months traveling along the coast. Our weather isn’t like yours - it was keeping cool that’s the hardest. I loved it, I loved waking up to the sound of waves and a beautiful beach.
Dont feel bad about sharing.. we are here to listen to hear about your life whether it’s good, bad, or ugly. That def is a creepy story and it’s horrible that there are ppl like that out there unfortunately. 😢 but please just be safe and don’t stop being you!!
Good advice Mateo. Always stay vigilant 24/7. Be aware & remember everybody isn’t your friend. It just takes one time for things to go left. Maybe be a little less friendly until you scope the scene. Stay safe & try to set aside “ get out now money”
John is a hero, so glad he was there to warn you. I am sorry you (and Lars) had to deal with all that. Stay safe out there and diligent for sure of everything and every one.💛
As a Max Security Corrections Officer, situational awareness is now just part of my life. You aren't being paranoid by watching your surroundings and protecting yourself. That's just self preservation. As I type, a pack of coyotes are within 100 yards of my house. My small dogs are indoors and asleep, but I'm always armed and if they enter my property, they're history. Protect yourself and what is yours. Human, animal, whatever. Don't be a victim.
Sorry that person interrupted your space and made you feel disgusted and uncomfortable. You definitely know how to tell a story. You should start Mateo's Monologue/Storytime..where people write in and you tell their stories. That would be cool.
Being aware of one's surroundings and the dangers lurking is something that comes over time. Eventually you'll be able to pick out people who are dangerous..with experience of course
I shouldn't have listened to your creepy story late at night because my plastic water bottle crackled (from the change in temp from my fridge to my warm house) near the end of your story and it scared me 😂You are a great storyteller. On a positive note you make a mean cup of hot chocolate. Love when you set the marshmellows on fire Lol 😂 I appreciated hearing the other side of living on the road. Stay Safe.
😂😂😂😂😂 not set the marshmallows on fire! 😂😂😂😂 I noticed that too, and was thinkarent you supposed to toast them, not over cook them! I'm a new subscriber this is the very first day of watching his videos enterrest contents. Think I'm gonna enjoy his videos. And I pray his protection in all his travels may the angels of the most high YAH show him favor, grace and protection in all that he does. He has such a kind spirit. Walk with him lord Jesus christ! Ameen
Honestly love that you told that story! It’s a good reminder that we still live in a crazy world, even if we are out here just tryna live out best life. Love your positivity & there’s nothing wrong with giving us insight into everything van life entails. It’s not always rainbows and sunshine, and that’s life honestly. We are here for alllll the stories goooood and bad!
We need to hear about the bad stuff.... So that we can keep ourselves and each other safe. If we don't know about these creeps we don't know to watch out for them.❤
Omg… this is so scary… I’m glad that “John “called “Frankie” was outed and told to leave. I’m glad that the mom’s with children were safe. Most of all, im glad that you’re safe from harm.
That's how SO's are able to do what they do. They're charming and charismatic so it's easy to get caught up in their B.S. Don't feel silly, just take it as a valuable lesson learned. I'm so glad to know you're safe and now you're even more informed about how some people aren't who they pretend to be; but also that you see there are great beings out there that have other people's best interests at heart as well. Please continue to be safe and well on your journey.🙏🏽
I don't remember which channel but one of the channels that has been around for a while did an interview once of this older guy in a minivan. He had all of these books under his bed and first I thought he flipped books to earn money, but they all turned out to be children's books. Every. Single. Book. He was completely nonchalant as he described how he likes to have books for young people to read. And he invites them into his van so they can read inside. I couldn't finish the video. I was mortified that he thought this was normal behavior. I'm not sure if the guy interviewing him was really that clueless or he thought he was doing a public service by letting the world know to look out for this guy. Either way, super creepy. Mateo, I am very happy that you and Lars got away from that situation. I know what it's like to get stuck somewhere without the money to move on (my experience was called COVID-19, when I went to Quartzsite in January 2020 and my plans all evaporated along with my minuscule savings). We do what we do and we adapt and overcome! We persevere, live, learn, and know that better days are coming. I know how easy it can be, especially if you're used to the nomad community that is as kind and giving as you are, to overlook the red flags that are abundantly obvious when you pay enough attention. Bad actors exist in our community as well, and it's important not to gloss over this fact. Stay aware and stay safe! We'll see you down the road!
Man i been sleeping in my car for the last few months and have changed folks tires, helped people out as much as i can but there are alot of shady characters out. Be easy Brother never go against a gut instinct.. 🙏 Stay Blessed and Safe on your journey hope to run into you one Day
You’re NOT stupid. Your a nice guy trying to meet people and I RELATE I need to push myself to be outgoing. I hope this awful experience doesn’t make you close yourself off to meeting new people but at the same time be careful and vigilant! ❤️ much love
I am so much the same way. I can be so naïve and basically have the personality of a friendly puppy. I am, however, an old lady and change my mind pretty quickly after being around someone for a few minutes. Be careful, but also don't let this ruin you on being open. Scary stuff for sure!
I Trini I trust nobody and my head stays on swivel. Amazing how many naive people especially in this day and living in the US of all places there still are.
I was on the edge of my seat with this story, it really amplified how vulnerable you are living in this way. I think your story will be helpful for all of us because we all have a tendency to trust people. Be safe on the road! You are a great storyteller!
I don't. I grew up in the city and trust no one and being overly friendly and sharing in this age is inviting trouble. You gotta watch your front and especially your back.
You even have a way of sharing upsetting events. My heart was gripped as soon as you started speaking. 😮 So glad you were not hurt and so sad you saw how vulnerable innocent people can be when you are aware of predators. Lessons learned are a benefit to you and all the beautiful friends you have. Eyes open as well as your precious heart. I wish you were not stuck because of gas money. As a mom it makes me crazy. Wish you all the best.
Please be careful. I’m glad that you decided to share this experience, this is an example of how van life isn’t always rainbows. Sharing your experiences whether good or bad can help others that is inspired by your journey❤️❤️❤️
John was way too nice with Frankie, i would've called the cops so fast. Good thing he gave you insight on who Frankie really was. I pray you don't go through anything like that again. Him peeking in your van was scary as hell.
Mateo…sharing is caring. So I appreciate you sharing all your experiences, the good and the bad. I’ll be honest with you, I don’t go on trials alone because of a bad experience. And I love walking on trails and exploring them. Many times I wanna go but will not because I don’t have anyone to go with me. You be safe. Scope out and watch the person or persons before opening up to them. Take care and enjoy your life.
Safety first...and honestly, no matter where you're at or how you choose to live, there are questionable folk. You've gotta stay vigilant and aware. Be safe y'all it's a jungle out there. 🖤
Oh My God thank you for telling this story. I'm a parent & a Nani to amazing children that I felt I have given all the safety information I had learned through the years . I now have something more to learn and teach my crew. Thank you for this eye opener. I truly believe this information is going to save someone. God bless you for opening up and telling your story.
That's super creepy. What is also super creepy is if you look over your left shoulder in the video at your van window, it looks like there's a creepy face staring at you. If you look, you can see a nose, an eye and a mouth with teeth and I saw it once, then kept looking and couldn't unsee it. Super freaky
A person like ‘Frankie’ doesn’t deserve to have his name hidden or what he looks like and drives hidden. We need to know the bad guy around us, thanks for sharing
That site was blessed that John knew of this persons past and character. I shiver thinking what if he had not informed others. 🥺 And the sad fact . . . we never know who we are really engaging with. Stay prayed up and listen to those Godly warnings. Stay safe out there dear man. 🙏🏽💓
You're such a good guy who has a huge heart, which makes you a trusting person. (I have the same "problem.") Part of being street-wise is keeping a portion of suspicion about every person you interact with. Not because people are inherently untrustworthy, but just because you never know when a situation can sudden turn sideways on you. We never know who a person truly is. More and more people are being priced out of rentals and turning to a more vagabond life. On the streets, we don't usually have that "neighborly watch" of "good looking out" that you get in a sticks & bricks community. Some people are on the road because their on the run. "Not all who wander are lost," but not all who wander are GOOD, either. I'm not saying to be leery of everyone always, but DO keep in mind that you don't know what another person's motives TRULY are. I want you to stay safe, while keeping that pure heart of yours. 🖤 That said, the PNW is a beautiful place to be, but be cautious in Washington. It's a bit weird there and not in the fun Portland--vibe kind of way. (Especially with the street folk.) Keep your gaurd up in Washington. (Especially in Seattle, but all of Washington is a bit sketch.) For real, keep your doors and windows locked, and keep your head on a swivel. WATCH other people for a bit before you start to interact. Oregon folks are all truly friendly. (Yes, I'm biased 'cause I've lived here ~25yrs) but I've lived in and spent enough time in WA to know it's suss. On the Left Coast it's easier to remember to keep your guard up in Cali, but it's easy to let it down in WA where people present friendlier. Just be careful it's not a front. No matter where you are, have some personal protection and a way out. Always have a Plan B in mind. I'm not saying be strapped at all times, but I am encouraging you to have ways of keeping yourself safe from attack or theft. You don't have to lose your ✨️"Bright & Shiny"✨️ to stay smart and one step ahead in a situation. Much Love to you and Lars. Y'all are good peeps and I think of you as a "friend I've not yet met." Just want you to keep on living your best life. 🖤💙🖤
Don’t worry about not having positivity to share all the time! Life is a balance between the good and bad, we shouldn’t be afraid to share both. Thanks for sharing your story and keeping it real:) Glad you and Lars are safe!
I’m going to end up leaving all this crap behind in this apartment ! After seeing how peaceful this looks I rather be in my ford ! The way you put the marshmallows and friend them and laid out your chair! You look at peace ☮️
Your "BEAUTIFUL" authenticity was the draw from day one, I SO HOPE to cross your path, a joy to watch. Vet away Mateo I too, have learned, not everyone is like "us" Giving folks the benefit of the doubt has always been my motto. Thank you for sharing it ALL< hugs, safe travels
I'm addicted to your videos. Glad your safe. This may seem like nothing but just a tip about food. I think you can take care of yourself. You seem very aware and conscious. Ok not asked for, but if you buy cocoa powder. Hersheys or whatever brand, and put it in milk on stove. Stir it with a whisk, with the amount of sweetener ( sugar or Splenda) you want it makes real real real hot chocolate. Want it more chocolate? Add more cocoa powder.Want it more milk chocolate add less. It's literally a taste preference. It's cheaper than the packaged stuff and healthier. Add that to toast with peanut butter dipped in, and you won't think you're on this planet anymore. Recipe from depression era.
Even though you use different names the story is detailed enough for frankie to know who you are talking about, which is creepy in of itself. Another lesson to learn. Never the less people do need to be made aware,so thank you. Be safe.
Lol on the cat hair in the cocoa....my dad used to tell my mom "it would be nice if I didn't have a cat hair in my sandwich," and she said jokingly," who do you think you are, someone special?" Lol!!😆
This is sadly more common than people would admit, evil is everywhere, but this is education on how people can behave and Hopfully will allow people to be more aware, thanks man
Just found you. I’m sorry you had this creepy experience. But don’t let it get in you. You sound like such an amazing guy! I saw your video where u made an egg sandwich for the lady in the car next to you. That was such a great act of kindness. So sad she passed away. You seem like a friend everyone needs❤️❤️❤️God bless
This is like nighttime camping storytime where you sit around a fireplace with others, toast marshmellows and tell about scary stories. You should do an audio tape series.
What an interesting and thought-provoking story, Mateo. I'm so glad you were able to get out of that potentially dangerous situation safely. It's always good to be cautious around strangers, as you never really know people's true intentions. I appreciate you sharing both the positive and negative parts of your van life experience - it helps all of us travelers stay aware. Thanks for using your platform to help educate and look out for your fellow astronauts. Wishing you many more peaceful adventures ahead! Keep the inspiring videos coming.🙂
So happy that you decided to talk about the realities of Van life. Your such a good person and so approachable……. My Mom vibes are high when I see you or Alyssa Vanilla uncomfortable, just be safe ok!!!! And hang out together more!!!! So I can relax lol ❤ Much Love from me, just outside of Toronto, Canada 🍁
Always go with your first instinct and follow your gut feelings. Stay ten toes Mateo and please keep yourself safe and keep grinding & especially shining Buddy. Always been a fan of your channel ❤🪬☮️
Aloha Mateo, So sorry you had to experience such a thing. Please don’t apologize for sharing. It may not be a light hearted kind of video, BUT the information could definitely help others to be more cautious and aware of things. Be safe out there. Keeping both you and Lars in thought 😊
I just did my first test run with my van. It was pretty crowded, I was hoping there would be more empty campsites but by the end of the first day someone had come and taken over my campsite because there weren't enough to go around. It was pretty intimidating but I was done with the fire so I just shut my curtains and stayed in my van. I'm a very distrustful person so I try to keep to myself in life and when I go out camping.
Thank you for sharing your experience with Frankie the “SO”, bravo to John for making you and others aware of this creep. This real life stuff be safe and be aware of your surroundings and beware of Frankie and monsters like him. Yes, be more selective of who you hang with 😮
Mateo, please be careful…you have a friendly disposition; but, never drop your guard…ever! Lars needs you and we all care about your safety.
Be safe brother. We got more to be on guard about. As someone stated. Watch your back and stay on code.
True. Stranger danger..caution.
You are an amazing guy..yes well told..hang in there..Love your Positive Vibes ..but because we don't have control over other's actions you do the best you can do. I am interested in van life hopefully late this year..so I follow others and now you because I like your kindness and I am sure I can learn from you..God Bless
FYaI, start sinking funds or emergency fund and keep a canister of gas. People are crazy and its no joke. Be ready to bounce and not stay in dangerous situations.
Definitely great advice ❤️
I’m so thankful you walk your cat. That’s so important for a cat’s mental wellbeing.
I love that he can so it with his cat. I got my tiny kitten 4 weeks abandoned in the woods after a while I put a harness on him maybe 6 months old and tried to walk him(I always had dogs) he just fell over like his legs broke. Nope he was not gonna walk. That cat Frank (lol, yep that's his real name) is now 14 years old and I want to put him on a harness so I can bring him on the balcony of my apartment so he can't walk over to the other balconies but he still does that fall over move---lol.... I have seen a lot of cats do that. So I put him in a little mesh bag so he can be outside(I live just outside a huge forest looking into the woods)
I didn't know cats were supposed to be walked, but that's cool.
No apologies necessary. This is a good public service announcement to remind others to Beware! You did the right thing telling this story. I’m born and raised in NYC, so I don’t trust anyone ever at anytime. It’s not a fun way to live, but trust does not come easy to me. Glad you’re safe! 🙏🏽😀
I’m in NYC as well. Being friendly but keeping people at arms length is the way to go.
@@TheCornucopiaProject-bd5jk ~ Agree 100%
I'm with you. Grew up in London and my trust is minimal. And these days that's a good trait to have
How right you are!!!
Touché! I agree.
Thank God for men like John who's not afraid to call out a bad guy.
I agree 100%. You said exactly what I was thinking
Kudos to John, Thank you for being courageous.
💯💯💯
Well he really didn't!
call 911 and not go off in public. Don't play with crazy
OMG scariest situation. We just found your channelYesterday. You made that lady a coffee and sandwich , at Cracker Barrel. Such a sad thing. . You have such a big heart.
Wish there were more kindhearted folks like you.❤️
Nomadic Introvert just posted about an attempted break-in to her a van. 😮 She locked her door just as he was pulling the door handle. Be safe!
I don't get people in this day and age leaving doors unlocked. That's basic common sense
@angellovedove dang why you say that? Lol
@KittyKat-vb1nd it's really sad we have to live this way (locked in)
Incredible story. I had a sex offender living on my street . An elementary school half block away. It took many town meetings to get him removed from our town.
Please get the likes up for this man.
"John" is that dude for real. Respect.
Your cat is living his best life and making no apologies whatsoever. Nice
Lars❤
I'm gonna leash train my two cats. I felt so bad that I couldn't take them outside but now I'm gonna work with my kittys.. thanks
The whole video was a creepy vibe. I especially loved the sound effects and your mellow narrative of the story. It sure kept me here until the end. Be careful out there. It's a beautiful world where bad things happen. Always keep money on you for emergencies. And holy crap! You were brave to go back to the same spot.
Glad you enjoyed it! Definitely learned a lot from this!
Did I miss something? When did he go back?
@@48029After he got done at Starbucks
Ditto! I really enjoyed it to the end!
I enjoyed the storytelling right to the end also. X
If you happened to get a pic of dudes van or himself , you should send it to the other van lifers especially females that you have met and have them send it to their vanlife friends so itll get passed a round and can hopefully help prevent him attacking some solo traveler .
Don't you think before anyone does that this should be verified? This seemed fishy to me. Why is John warning everyone and arguing with the guy and saying all these things he is doing and saying he is calling cops but never does? It's possible this guy John has a personal vendetta with Frankie and is trying to make his life hell. Did anyone hear these supposed arguments? I wouldn't accuse or spread someones picture without proof especially since it wouldn't be hard to verify
I did try Googling a place like this but I couldn't find it.
@@jenniffertorres9545yes I was thinking the same
@@jenniffertorres9545 you telling me the actual creepy stuff he did wasn't enough proof?
Good idea.
I was like who's been messing with my boo!! Guardian Angels come in all forms. John def did a great act of service of warning you and the other nomads. 💜
Thank you!
@@winterisbluthat background sound in the background is creepy lol
I dig that John guy for stepping up and speaking out on that creep!
Its hard knowing that there are threats to our safety around us, sometimes closer than we realize . I have a difficult time relaxing when my grandchildren play at the park very close to our home. I watched too much of the news for too many years. You are a cheerful reminder to me that life is meant to be enjoyed. Thank you for all you share....❤
I’m a Federal Clerk. I could chill you out about the creeps out there. Please take care. I think you and your cat are adorable. Be blessed.
Federal clerk? Process a lot of important information in paperwork?
75% of my job.
Retiring in 4 months after 23 years., Extremely excited for this next chapter in my life.
Mateo people crave reality, which is why your channel is one of my favorites. I’m 100% ok with anything you share. This story helps keep things in perspective. I truly believe it will help others to stay aware of their surroundings.
Wow that's crazy!!😮 please don't call yourself "stupid" for talking to Frankie. You're naturally a very nice guy and down to earth. You approached him with good intentions and without judgement. You didn't know his history. So no you are not stupid! Sending you so much love and positive light! Love y'all ❤☮️
Thank you ❤️
@@winterisblu you're welcome!
@@winterisblu See you never know!
Always listen to you intuition especially when your traveling on the road! You should of left no matter what and even stayed at Starbucks or something.
Do not go back to the area 😊
My goodness you’re a nice person. I’m in Australia and did van life for 12 months traveling along the coast. Our weather isn’t like yours - it was keeping cool that’s the hardest. I loved it, I loved waking up to the sound of waves and a beautiful beach.
As a fellow nomad, please don't let a bad experience remove you from a beautiful place love brother
Have to disagree. Listen to your instincts. That's why we have them.
Remove yourself from sketchy situations. Personal safety always comes first.
Dont feel bad about sharing.. we are here to listen to hear about your life whether it’s good, bad, or ugly. That def is a creepy story and it’s horrible that there are ppl like that out there unfortunately. 😢 but please just be safe and don’t stop being you!!
I’m glad nothing bad happened to you. Please always keep your tank full enough for a quick getaway.
#1 rule dont get in a stranger's van
Always follow your gut vibes. If you ever have an uneasy feeling about someone, some thing, or some place ....leave immediately !! Do not wait
Exactly 💯.
Good advice Mateo. Always stay vigilant 24/7. Be aware & remember everybody isn’t your friend. It just takes one time for things to go left. Maybe be a little less friendly until you scope the scene. Stay safe & try to set aside “ get out now money”
Exactly. Not everyone is a happy nomad. You got some crazy and dangerous people out there and hiding for a reason
We live in a sin sick world. We have to be prayed up on a daily. We just never know what kind of people we're gonna encounter in our life time.
My
Prayed or preyed?
Ah who cares uh 😁 👍
@@Ytnzy250 prayed
@@Selahbrooke3
Quack quack oops :-)
@Jammyfish Definitely pretty different meaning in this case!
John is a hero, so glad he was there to warn you. I am sorry you (and Lars) had to deal with all that. Stay safe out there and diligent for sure of everything and every one.💛
Agree!
Shoooot. I’m broke myself but had I known I’d have sent you some gas money!! Glad you are safe
No worrries! Thank you for watching!
As a Max Security Corrections Officer, situational awareness is now just part of my life.
You aren't being paranoid by watching your surroundings and protecting yourself. That's just self preservation.
As I type, a pack of coyotes are within 100 yards of my house. My small dogs are indoors and asleep, but I'm always armed and if they enter my property, they're history.
Protect yourself and what is yours. Human, animal, whatever. Don't be a victim.
Sorry that person interrupted your space and made you feel disgusted and uncomfortable. You definitely know how to tell a story. You should start Mateo's Monologue/Storytime..where people write in and you tell their stories. That would be cool.
Yes he tells a good story. It scared me and I live in a house in the Midwestern part of the country
That’s a great idea!!! I would subscribe for sure.
Being aware of one's surroundings and the dangers lurking is something that comes over time. Eventually you'll be able to pick out people who are dangerous..with experience of course
Glad John looks out for everyone! This world needs more like him!
Thank you for sharing this. It must not have been easy to share but 100% appreciated. With 64K views on this vid, I'm sure you saved a couple lives.
I shouldn't have listened to your creepy story late at night because my plastic water bottle crackled (from the change in temp from my fridge to my warm house) near the end of your story and it scared me 😂You are a great storyteller. On a positive note you make a mean cup of hot chocolate. Love when you set the marshmellows on fire Lol 😂 I appreciated hearing the other side of living on the road. Stay Safe.
Oh no! Sorry to scare! I’m glad you enjoyed the storytelling though! And yes torched marshmallows are a must!
😂😂😂😂😂 not set the marshmallows on fire! 😂😂😂😂 I noticed that too, and was thinkarent you supposed to toast them, not over cook them! I'm a new subscriber this is the very first day of watching his videos enterrest contents. Think I'm gonna enjoy his videos. And I pray his protection in all his travels may the angels of the most high YAH show him favor, grace and protection in all that he does. He has such a kind spirit. Walk with him lord Jesus christ! Ameen
Lmaooo this is something that would happen to me have me waking all my kids up like guys who wants a soda 😂😂😂 so I dont be up alone
😂 that happens to me too! Always terrifies me! Always late when I'm by myself of course!!
Right, I loved the hot chocolate with marshmallows. I was scared before he ever got into his story.
Its always interesting to hear weird creepy or odd encounters. Stay safe
Thanks!
Honestly love that you told that story! It’s a good reminder that we still live in a crazy world, even if we are out here just tryna live out best life. Love your positivity & there’s nothing wrong with giving us insight into everything van life entails. It’s not always rainbows and sunshine, and that’s life honestly. We are here for alllll the stories goooood and bad!
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We need to hear about the bad stuff.... So that we can keep ourselves and each other safe. If we don't know about these creeps we don't know to watch out for them.❤
Omg… this is so scary… I’m glad that “John “called “Frankie” was outed and told to leave. I’m glad that the mom’s with children were safe. Most of all, im glad that you’re safe from harm.
That's how SO's are able to do what they do. They're charming and charismatic so it's easy to get caught up in their B.S. Don't feel silly, just take it as a valuable lesson learned. I'm so glad to know you're safe and now you're even more informed about how some people aren't who they pretend to be; but also that you see there are great beings out there that have other people's best interests at heart as well. Please continue to be safe and well on your journey.🙏🏽
WOW. That's crazy. I'm so glad you are in a community where you guys look out for one another. Please be careful, Mateo. Please.
I don't remember which channel but one of the channels that has been around for a while did an interview once of this older guy in a minivan. He had all of these books under his bed and first I thought he flipped books to earn money, but they all turned out to be children's books. Every. Single. Book. He was completely nonchalant as he described how he likes to have books for young people to read. And he invites them into his van so they can read inside. I couldn't finish the video. I was mortified that he thought this was normal behavior. I'm not sure if the guy interviewing him was really that clueless or he thought he was doing a public service by letting the world know to look out for this guy. Either way, super creepy.
Mateo, I am very happy that you and Lars got away from that situation. I know what it's like to get stuck somewhere without the money to move on (my experience was called COVID-19, when I went to Quartzsite in January 2020 and my plans all evaporated along with my minuscule savings). We do what we do and we adapt and overcome! We persevere, live, learn, and know that better days are coming.
I know how easy it can be, especially if you're used to the nomad community that is as kind and giving as you are, to overlook the red flags that are abundantly obvious when you pay enough attention. Bad actors exist in our community as well, and it's important not to gloss over this fact. Stay aware and stay safe! We'll see you down the road!
You are a gifted storyteller, l was on the edge of my seat!
I know this is a serious video but the chair set up and the camera cut as you sat down gave major Netflix documentary vibes and I loved it 🤣
I thought my phone died 😂😂
Who needs reality tv with youtube videos.
Man i been sleeping in my car for the last few months and have changed folks tires, helped people out as much as i can but there are alot of shady characters out. Be easy Brother never go against a gut instinct.. 🙏 Stay Blessed and Safe on your journey hope to run into you one Day
You’re NOT stupid. Your a nice guy trying to meet people and I RELATE I need to push myself to be outgoing. I hope this awful experience doesn’t make you close yourself off to meeting new people but at the same time be careful and vigilant! ❤️ much love
I am so much the same way. I can be so naïve and basically have the personality of a friendly puppy. I am, however, an old lady and change my mind pretty quickly after being around someone for a few minutes. Be careful, but also don't let this ruin you on being open. Scary stuff for sure!
I Trini I trust nobody and my head stays on swivel. Amazing how many naive people especially in this day and living in the US of all places there still are.
I was on the edge of my seat with this story, it really amplified how vulnerable you are living in this way. I think your story will be helpful for all of us because we all have a tendency to trust people. Be safe on the road! You are a great storyteller!
I don't. I grew up in the city and trust no one and being overly friendly and sharing in this age is inviting trouble. You gotta watch your front and especially your back.
Be safe, my friend. The world is a strange place. Much love to you and Lars.
Life is not always light and fun. Thank you for being REAL, it makes people feel less alone 💕
You even have a way of sharing upsetting events. My heart was gripped as soon as you started speaking. 😮 So glad you were not hurt and so sad you saw how vulnerable innocent people can be when you are aware of predators. Lessons learned are a benefit to you and all the beautiful friends you have. Eyes open as well as your precious heart. I wish you were not stuck because of gas money. As a mom it makes me crazy. Wish you all the best.
If my Husband and I do travel once we are retired I think we'll just be visiting friends and family or go to rv parks where there's cameras! 😳
Thanks!
Thank you so much 😊 ❤️🚀
#2 rule don't eat or drink anything a stranger gives you
Ever! I won't even eat at those nasty office pot lucks. I don't know you like that.
Hi Mateo and Lars. Sorry to hear that happened to you. Yes please be careful in future. Love to you both my friend. ❤🐈⬛
Thank you, I will definitely be more careful ❤️
love Lars - such a happy cat- same with his owner
Bro you gotta be careful out there! Please stay safe, it’s some weirdos out there 🙏🏽 glad you’re safe
Mateo. Yes always be cautious. I'm glad that God was looking out for you. I pray for you and lars to always be safe. God bless you.
Please be careful. I’m glad that you decided to share this experience, this is an example of how van life isn’t always rainbows. Sharing your experiences whether good or bad can help others that is inspired by your journey❤️❤️❤️
John was way too nice with Frankie, i would've called the cops so fast. Good thing he gave you insight on who Frankie really was. I pray you don't go through anything like that again. Him peeking in your van was scary as hell.
Mateo…sharing is caring. So I appreciate you sharing all your experiences, the good and the bad. I’ll be honest with you, I don’t go on trials alone because of a bad experience. And I love walking on trails and exploring them. Many times I wanna go but will not because I don’t have anyone to go with me. You be safe. Scope out and watch the person or persons before opening up to them. Take care and enjoy your life.
this channel has become my peace, crazy story, glad it reminded me about my own disposition with ppl, thanks for sharing.
Yes you need to be very careful out there ,God Bless you and keep on being you just be safe!
That was a good story, the eerie soundtrack was good, stay safe man
May you always have strong Instincts that guide you forward!!!!!
I like the scary sound effects you added to the story.😨
Thank you for being transparent Mateo and honest about all the good and bad about Van Life!!!! Thank goodness you're okay. Be safe out there!!!!!
Safety first...and honestly, no matter where you're at or how you choose to live, there are questionable folk. You've gotta stay vigilant and aware. Be safe y'all it's a jungle out there. 🖤
Oh My God thank you for telling this story. I'm a parent & a Nani to amazing children that I felt I have given all the safety information I had learned through the years . I now have something more to learn and teach my crew. Thank you for this eye opener. I truly believe this information is going to save someone. God bless you for opening up and telling your story.
That's super creepy. What is also super creepy is if you look over your left shoulder in the video at your van window, it looks like there's a creepy face staring at you. If you look, you can see a nose, an eye and a mouth with teeth and I saw it once, then kept looking and couldn't unsee it. Super freaky
A person like ‘Frankie’ doesn’t deserve to have his name hidden or what he looks like and drives hidden. We need to know the bad guy around us, thanks for sharing
Yeah ! Tell it sis!
Good public service announcement… bc ppl do need to be aware and unfortunately it is dangerous ppl out there.. Hope you and Lars stay safe 💕
That site was blessed that John knew of this persons past and character. I shiver thinking what if he had not informed others. 🥺 And the sad fact . . . we never know who we are really engaging with. Stay prayed up and listen to those Godly warnings. Stay safe out there dear man. 🙏🏽💓
You're such a good guy who has a huge heart, which makes you a trusting person. (I have the same "problem.") Part of being street-wise is keeping a portion of suspicion about every person you interact with. Not because people are inherently untrustworthy, but just because you never know when a situation can sudden turn sideways on you. We never know who a person truly is. More and more people are being priced out of rentals and turning to a more vagabond life. On the streets, we don't usually have that "neighborly watch" of "good looking out" that you get in a sticks & bricks community. Some people are on the road because their on the run. "Not all who wander are lost," but not all who wander are GOOD, either. I'm not saying to be leery of everyone always, but DO keep in mind that you don't know what another person's motives TRULY are. I want you to stay safe, while keeping that pure heart of yours. 🖤 That said, the PNW is a beautiful place to be, but be cautious in Washington. It's a bit weird there and not in the fun Portland--vibe kind of way. (Especially with the street folk.) Keep your gaurd up in Washington. (Especially in Seattle, but all of Washington is a bit sketch.) For real, keep your doors and windows locked, and keep your head on a swivel. WATCH other people for a bit before you start to interact. Oregon folks are all truly friendly. (Yes, I'm biased 'cause I've lived here ~25yrs) but I've lived in and spent enough time in WA to know it's suss. On the Left Coast it's easier to remember to keep your guard up in Cali, but it's easy to let it down in WA where people present friendlier. Just be careful it's not a front. No matter where you are, have some personal protection and a way out. Always have a Plan B in mind. I'm not saying be strapped at all times, but I am encouraging you to have ways of keeping yourself safe from attack or theft. You don't have to lose your ✨️"Bright & Shiny"✨️ to stay smart and one step ahead in a situation. Much Love to you and Lars. Y'all are good peeps and I think of you as a "friend I've not yet met." Just want you to keep on living your best life. 🖤💙🖤
Ok this is freaking me out … the sound effects …. !!! When he appeared in the open window , I would have went into cardiac arrest ..
Don’t worry about not having positivity to share all the time! Life is a balance between the good and bad, we shouldn’t be afraid to share both. Thanks for sharing your story and keeping it real:) Glad you and Lars are safe!
I’m going to end up leaving all this crap behind in this apartment ! After seeing how peaceful this looks I rather be in my ford ! The way you put the marshmallows and friend them and laid out your chair! You look at peace ☮️
Your "BEAUTIFUL" authenticity was the draw from day one, I SO HOPE to cross your path, a joy to watch. Vet away Mateo I too, have learned, not everyone is like "us" Giving folks the benefit of the doubt has always been my motto. Thank you for sharing it ALL< hugs, safe travels
I'm addicted to your videos. Glad your safe. This may seem like nothing but just a tip about food. I think you can take care of yourself. You seem very aware and conscious. Ok not asked for, but if you buy cocoa powder. Hersheys or whatever brand, and put it in milk on stove. Stir it with a whisk, with the amount of sweetener ( sugar or Splenda) you want it makes real real real hot chocolate. Want it more chocolate? Add more cocoa powder.Want it more milk chocolate add less. It's literally a taste preference. It's cheaper than the packaged stuff and healthier. Add that to toast with peanut butter dipped in, and you won't think you're on this planet anymore. Recipe from depression era.
In Jesus Name please cover this young man with safety and protection ❤
Does Jesus have a TH-cam account? Is he a subscriber to this channel?
Amen 🙏🙏🙏and others!!
@@dddcell you can ask Him the day you stand before Him..we all will..I'll be 🙏 for you..God Bless.
I agree in Jesus name safety and protection wisdom and discernment.
Amen.
Wow Mateo!! There are creeps out there. No matter where we are. Great story telling! Be safe!
Even though you use different names the story is detailed enough for frankie to know who you are talking about, which is creepy in of itself. Another lesson to learn. Never the less people do need to be made aware,so thank you. Be safe.
Lol on the cat hair in the cocoa....my dad used to tell my mom "it would be nice if I didn't have a cat hair in my sandwich," and she said jokingly," who do you think you are, someone special?" Lol!!😆
Lol 😂
🤣🤣
Thank you 🙏🏽 we need to be aware of our surroundings
Hey there! Creepy story alright. Liked how you set the mood with the music. This is a good reminder to always be on your guard.
This is sadly more common than people would admit, evil is everywhere, but this is education on how people can behave and Hopfully will allow people to be more aware, thanks man
Just found you. I’m sorry you had this creepy experience. But don’t let it get in you. You sound like such an amazing guy! I saw your video where u made an egg sandwich for the lady in the car next to you. That was such a great act of kindness. So sad she passed away. You seem like a friend everyone needs❤️❤️❤️God bless
This is like nighttime camping storytime where you sit around a fireplace with others, toast marshmellows and tell about scary stories. You should do an audio tape series.
John was really looking out for you and the others. Stay safe!
What an interesting and thought-provoking story, Mateo. I'm so glad you were able to get out of that potentially dangerous situation safely. It's always good to be cautious around strangers, as you never really know people's true intentions. I appreciate you sharing both the positive and negative parts of your van life experience - it helps all of us travelers stay aware. Thanks for using your platform to help educate and look out for your fellow astronauts. Wishing you many more peaceful adventures ahead! Keep the inspiring videos coming.🙂
So happy that you decided to talk about the realities of Van life. Your such a good person and so approachable……. My Mom vibes are high when I see you or Alyssa Vanilla uncomfortable, just be safe ok!!!! And hang out together more!!!! So I can relax lol ❤ Much Love from me, just outside of Toronto, Canada 🍁
💜stay safe
John was an angel
Always go with your first instinct and follow your gut feelings. Stay ten toes Mateo and please keep yourself safe and keep grinding & especially shining Buddy. Always been a fan of your channel ❤🪬☮️
Thank you ❤️
I just found your channel and I'm so vested. Please be careful. You seem to be a great person but please take care when you're alone.
Aloha Mateo,
So sorry you had to experience such a thing. Please don’t apologize for sharing. It may not be a light hearted kind of video, BUT the information could definitely help others to be more cautious and aware of things. Be safe out there. Keeping both you and Lars in thought 😊
I appreciate you sharing the negative. That’s being authentic, sharing the true adventure with us so thank you.
I'm always concerned for you and Lars, keep praying and trusting God for safe travels!!🙏
I just did my first test run with my van. It was pretty crowded, I was hoping there would be more empty campsites but by the end of the first day someone had come and taken over my campsite because there weren't enough to go around. It was pretty intimidating but I was done with the fire so I just shut my curtains and stayed in my van. I'm a very distrustful person so I try to keep to myself in life and when I go out camping.
Thank you for sharing your experience with Frankie the “SO”, bravo to John for making you and others aware of this creep. This real life stuff be safe and be aware of your surroundings and beware of Frankie and monsters like him. Yes, be more selective of who you hang with 😮