@@lilducko You are bonkers. Most people have kids now a days at 35-40 years old (look at the statistics), when they are financially stable enough to do so. My mom had my sister at 33 and me when she was 36.
Yes you can bounce right back lol tf. Just imagine, some dude is already knocking your ex down probably better than you. They aint wasting time moving on so why should you. We are men, we don't sit around crying like bitches lmao. Go get another one!
I was with a girl for 17 years, age 15 to 32. Very much like Nick. It's been 10 years now and I still have dreams/nightmares revolving around her. The relationship is one thing, but when your best friend for a decade (while you are both still maturing) never comes back, it doesn't go away. Not anytime soon.
@@OddOtter707this really hit me hard. I lost the woman i was going to make my wife and mother of my kids three years ago. It never really goes away. You just learn how to move along with it.
same here mate, high school gf of 10 years and we broke up 5 years ago, im happier then ive ever been but i still have the odd dream involving her in some form, when you develop into adulthood with someone like that its hard to correlate "first" memories without the person
It shows how tough humans can be dealing with pain of leaving a relationship. I appreciate how vulnerable he is being about what he is going through and that he feels comfortable enough to share it. I wish him well, and I wish anybody who reads my comment well if they are also going through a tough time. ❤
@@GubiYoroi well said, alot of people (kids) dont realise, changing a habit or moving on from a 10 year old routine of knowing someone, doing things. it takes time to move on.. some take days some take months some may not and end up having someone outside the bubble help them. nicks stream just helps him cope. I do personally worry though that he is scared to have a break if he genuinly needs it, men are too good at hiding emotions.
My mom passed away a little under 2 months. I took care of her for a living for years and it has been such a change of pace not having her around. I'm sure it's similar to Nick's situation despite how different they are. It takes time to get over some of the nonsense. Nick's streams helped me while I had to spend most of my time at the hospital with my mom the last 4 or 5 months. Hug your loved ones because time is fleeting.
Idk wtf is wrong with that guy, but I'm sorry for your loss pal. I thought what you said was super empathetic as someone who's recently lost someone myself and appreciated you sharing it
Nick, heartbreak sucks, brother - don’t listen to the haters. Your friends talk about you so genuinely when it’s not for the streams. And it doesn’t have anything to do with your money.
Time doesn’t heal all wounds. You get scars that fade away a little but never go away. I have pains from all relationships if I look back at them, you just have to embrace the pain and learn from it, waiting doesn’t really help. I have some regrets from relationships 3,5,7 years ago lol
Focus on you man, coming off an 11 year relationship myself and the best thing was to focus on me and friends. Grief is going to come in waves but eventually it’ll get easier and easier
I know how you feel bro about missing your significant other. My Wife died of cancer in June and just seeing old posts from her on Facebook memories make me miss her more. I just miss talking to her in bed, shooting the shit about our day. Just being silly, and busting each others balls. We were married for almost 12 years and together for 21 years. I miss her so much.
Dealing with the same sorta thing was in a deep 5 year relationship that ended amicably on good terms for reasons. I'm just now after a year of grinding, dealing with setbacks finding myself having fun and getting back out there. I've just recently got into some of the otk crew and friends videos and you guys have helped me during my journey at the tail end of this year putting a smile on my face at times so just keep on keeping on and thx for the vids bro
Hey man, as someone who got out of a ten year relationship for seemingly similar reasons as you and at the same age, I've been through the exact same feelings (she was way out of my league too lol). It's awesome you're surrounded by great friends, more than most people have. There is no moving on. After a year it gets easier, maybe a year and a half, but that will always be the person who stuck with you before the money and "fame". Your best friend just disappears. Be careful not to move on too quickly, that'll just hurt yourself and others. Ending on a positive note it will work out. Outside of all the farming it'll work out.
Nick you will 100% not see this but on the offshoot that you do please remember it’s okay to feel sad and wallow in your feelings. It’s okay to cry and reminisce on the good old times it’s normal and absolutely valid bro. remember to work on what you did wrong and try to improve on yourself “ I don’t mean going to the gym or workout that’s some 20yo feeling suppression shit” what I mean is checking your personal faults whether it be gaslighting, attentiveness, holding yourself to account. I am 31 now and I thank my younger self everyday for working on these things before even thinking about approaching women it helps a lot in future relationships. You got this and I am sure the ppl in your life will support you through this process.
Nick maybe doesn't realize it, but he's going through the normal process. Having friends around and casually going through the days is how you heal any type of pain. You got this brother and we love you ❤️
Always rooting for Nick. Aside from the persona, you can tell he has a good heart. I know he isn't alone in this, just go and read many of the comments. In fact, I'm rooting for all of you. Im rooting for mens mental health. We cant keep pretending we dont go through shit, we sometimes need our homies or help with seeing what we may blond ourselves to. Nick, ive been in similar shoes, it gets better bud. Make it better as best you can. Many of us rooting for you.
I felt this way with my ex partner of two years for ages, I could not imagine what a decade would feel like... But it gets better and I know one day you look back on all the things heartbreak and desperation caused you to do and hate that you did em, that will be what bugs you the most...
I'll be honest with you guys, from someone else who has been in a long term relationship that came to an abrupt end, Nick is holding it together very well. Nick if you read this, just keep pushing forward man. It gets easier eventually.
At this point, I never know if Nick is doing bits for content due to the mass farming lately. This stream with Cyr was a banger Either way, I hope bro heals
who knows, but posting pictures of your ex (who doesnt want to be involved in this twitch farming stuff) to instagram seems like a very poor taste of content. So that part was probably real. But it is Nick, master farmer, and doing stuff to shame or annoy melena in the past never stopped his farming. So posting a picture of them to instagram isn't exactly crossing any lines for Nick. This entire thing could be another set of farming but now he is farming empathy rather than parasocials, afterall the parasocial stuff kinda reached its climax with the date stream
Went through a 8 year old relationship into a breakup. And people also recommended therapy or letting time pass to heal the wounds. Both of that fucked me up for the next 5 years. Hyperfocusing on the emotional side can keep you locked in that depressed state. I eventually found that making progress in other areas was what built me back up to deal with the emotions of the break up. I hope that Nick finds his key to dealing with his. Just make sure to try to keep moving. Whatever little it may be. Don’t get stuck in the mud. It is very difficult to start moving again.
Yeah, I know it’s different for everyone but therapy unironically did nothing for me but keep my mind on it. Working out and working hard at work did more for me than the therapist I paid way too much money for lmao
I'm going through the same thing and I used to think the same but I 100% get what you're going through. Accepting that the relationship is over is really hard. No shame in having a hard time about it, hope you have people you can confide yourself to. Only thing that kind of helps me is talking about how I feel to people I trust fully.
After my 3 year relationship ended recently, i thought nobody would like me like she did. But i was wrong, went on several dates in the following weeks and things are getting serious with another person now. Stay strong, you got this.
I did had a relationship of 7 ish and had plans with that person and when it ended it hurt and i couldn't move on for 2 years ... Then i started gym plus boxing and it actually help me over come my fear of being alone ... So dont worry nick its very hard to forget a person after a long time but you will be fine ... You are a free man that means you have all the time for yourself now,work on that , best streamer , gladiator
I feel the same, literally cannot sleep, you need to just leave your phone out of the room, put on some calming music and try to block everything out, but it sucks, hope you start feeling better.
That Optimus Prime edit was incredible; keep your chin up king, you got a lot of good years left before you can just get a mail order bride that will be loyal to you.
I split up from a 5 year relationship over a year ago and I've found myself at times being nostalgic for what we had especially through the early years. It makes you sad to think you lost something you can remember so fondly, now that you don't have it. I think its normal and I think there isn't especially anything you can do to get through it faster, which is why it sucks so much. You just live hopefully finding fulfilling things you can do by yourself and with friends to fill the hole. Then when you feel you can be emotionally satisfied with yourself maybe you try to connect with someone else and build something as good or better. At the end of the day I think the most important thing to do is accept your new situation, accept the emotions that come with it and not to do anything drastic.
Hey Nick I am going through something similar right now with a long term breakup as well. While it sucks, I appreciate your honesty and that what I am feeling in my situation is ok to feel. Best of luck man, hoping we both come out the other side better.
Hi Nick, Parascocial Andy here. I've been with my wife for 11 years, we started dating at 19 got married at 29. I can't begin to imagine what losing that feels like, but we are here for your journey brother. You just keep on going mate. We will keep watching and supporting from Down Under.
The thing about this relationship I’m sure the main issue was probably that Nick wanted kids and she didn’t. I’m sure if Nick just gave up on the idea of kids, they would probably still be together.
Nick I’m a lurker of your streams and mostly watch your TH-cam vids, I don’t know you on a personal level but I just wanted you to know I care, you’re a human being your feelings are valid!!
I appreciate nick pushing through the hard times to truly elevate his content. He's been working on himself, doing fresh contents. I hope he can continue to push through it for himself, or take a break if he needs to. Wish the same energy for anyone else who needs it, good vibes
took me 2-3 years before moving on from a 4y relationship. when a relationship that long end, you don't only miss them, but you're also morning the future you were expecting
Bro, I 100% get him. I'm currently going through the same. My girl and I broke up over a month ago(well, I guess she's not my girl anymore). We were together for 4 years, at a point she was the only person I'd talk to for days, and there were times when I wouldn't be able to sleep if I hadn't spoken with her. I'm 23, so I can still fit Nick's 10-year relationship into my life before i get to his age😂😂😂 If it's that bad for me, I wonder how it would be for him, with more than double the length of my own relationship, especially when you feel like it shouldn't have ended, like what caused the end could have been avoided. All those what ifs and maybes, alongside all the fun memories and the "what if I never meet anyone like her ever again". I really think he's holding it up pretty good, considering he's still able to put on a show. He's allowed to have a breakdown here and there. That was 10 years of his life he lost. Weirdly, I started tearing up while typing this... I miss my asè
around 5 years ago just before the pandemic, my fiance of 10 years and i broke up, its hard man, times your best friend and your worst enemy right now cause it gets easier but its gonna take some time. You're gonna get the memory dumps, your gonna get the memory dumps in your head and the beds gonna feel really big for a while, but you slowly process it bit by bit and start to rebuild yourself and over time things start to work itself out, haven't got much help for you mate other then it gets easier, 5 years ago i was a complete wreck, now my life's the best its ever been, just trust the process, humans are ment to feel this shit
It really does come down to independence. You can’t place your value in yourself in someone else, that’s how you get into a feedback loop of shitty relationships. It’s easier said than done, but you just have to sit and feel how you feel for as long as it takes. Theres no rule book, no set amount of time, but you can’t push it away. It’ll only make things worse. I’m only 21, and I can’t imagine what it feels like to be in a 10 year relationship that ends, but I can understand the feeling of regret, the self doubt, wishing you’d done something differently. But it’ll all work out in the end, you just have to value yourself
There is a saying that, Time doesn't heal anything It just teaches us how to live with the pain. So just give yourself as much as time you need Gladiator❤️❤️❤️
Nick is letting out the emotions, has good people around him, and is keeping busy. Now, all he can do is let time take its course The only thing he needs to do differently is let the relationship with Melena mentally die in his head
Seeing this real side of you every now and again is very important. You publicly announced splitting the same time my ex started seeing someone else. nothing remotely compares to the feeling that comes with it
Stay Strong King!! Ur surrounded by great friends who will support you!! There are dudes in this chat sobbing over their 5 month situation-ship None of us can understand the pain of a 10yr relationship ending, We love you!
I don’t think he needs love advice. I think he needs more subs. He’s a professional farmer, and I enjoyed the content. Katchii needs to go back to Texas for my amusement.
It’s nice to hear him be real for a change. This should be obvious but to be clear, going through a breakup after 10 year long relationship, means you cannot simply move on after a couple months. That would be rebound and nothing more.
If any of this shit is real, then dude needs a break from everything. Went through a Breakup, constantly putting himself online. I think we do shit without realizing how detrimental our actions are. Gotta get away from it all and work that shit out internally. Face the pain, sit in it, let that shit hurt for a few days and work it out
I was with a girl for seven years, we got together young too, so I wasn't dating at all through my early twenties when people usually get used to being single. It takes a long time to get over that. I still think about her from time to time, but as new things, new people come into your life the pain does fade and you can move on.
I think it’s crazy that these people been friends for years but don’t really know each other well , when they were opening up about their past : college and stuff both didn’t know that about each other , crazy to see that.
I'm more of a yt frog but have been watching more streams. This stream really made me like Cyr. All about the laughs but can be genuine and honest when needed
tbh, I think the worst part by far appart from like brain shutting down is trying to actually sleep well alone. if you're not used to it anymore it's hard af. I never was in a relationship for more than 1.5 years so I can't really feel what he feels after fcking 10 years but it just has to be so crushing I don't want to feel that. hope it get's better soon nick and you somehow find the strength to keep it ul❤
I was in a relationship for 2 years, and dayum man it sucks at first but as the years pass it'll become less of a weight on your shoulders. You aint too old to date, if you force a relationship you'll prolly end up with someone you can't stand after the honey moon faze. You got this m8, chip up mofo.
If you find someone that loves you, that you’re happy with, settle and try and be happy for forever. Don’t waste your time looking for the perfect person. Life is shorter than you think and hopelessness is eternal.
Beyond the farming this actually sucks for Nick. He’s at the age where he wants kids more and more, but it takes time to get over a 10 year relationship. He’ll get through it, but it sucks
yeah people act like it was just a little break-up, 10 years is like taking away a third of his life, it's not something that you just move on from. it's honestly a situation where he won't get over it until he get's to a relationship that's just as deep as what he had with melena, if you had a wife for ten years and you lot her, i know plenty of people who just wouldn't ever try to love someone again, it's not easy.
You don't just bounce back after 10 years. Ain't no rush. Feel your feels and bounce back when you're ready, mate!
There is a time limit tho cause the older he gets the older the women he can date will be, and when ur 30 it's harder for the woman to have kids
I have no idea how true this is but my mom had 5 kids starting when she was 35 so it’s definitely doable
@@lilducko You are bonkers. Most people have kids now a days at 35-40 years old (look at the statistics), when they are financially stable enough to do so. My mom had my sister at 33 and me when she was 36.
The only thing that can help with that. Is time. I completely agree.
Yes you can bounce right back lol tf. Just imagine, some dude is already knocking your ex down probably better than you. They aint wasting time moving on so why should you. We are men, we don't sit around crying like bitches lmao. Go get another one!
I was with a girl for 17 years, age 15 to 32. Very much like Nick. It's been 10 years now and I still have dreams/nightmares revolving around her. The relationship is one thing, but when your best friend for a decade (while you are both still maturing) never comes back, it doesn't go away. Not anytime soon.
Age 14 the love of my life gets killed in a car accident. It sorta speedruns you through those feelings.
@@OddOtter707this really hit me hard. I lost the woman i was going to make my wife and mother of my kids three years ago. It never really goes away. You just learn how to move along with it.
I hope all of you are doing well.
Bro why do you guys have to say this stuff I feel like I'm never gonna get better after a 2 year relationship when she just left me now
same here mate, high school gf of 10 years and we broke up 5 years ago, im happier then ive ever been but i still have the odd dream involving her in some form, when you develop into adulthood with someone like that its hard to correlate "first" memories without the person
It really is crazy to me how we are watching a man smile through the pain while he's basically going through a midlife crisis
It shows how tough humans can be dealing with pain of leaving a relationship. I appreciate how vulnerable he is being about what he is going through and that he feels comfortable enough to share it. I wish him well, and I wish anybody who reads my comment well if they are also going through a tough time. ❤
Is it a midlife crisis?
@@davidino4887 its definetly getting to that point
The humanity. Love you all. But I can tell you right now. Jesus loves you beyond what I can. Amen.
@@albinocorbino dude just hits on every girl in his life and then laughs it off and makes some weird joke.. do not care
You'll get through it. Keep your head up king 👑
No he wont he literally refuses to move on lol
@@bigmo3692 it takes time brother he cant snap out of it just like that it was 10 years together
@@GubiYoroi well said, alot of people (kids) dont realise, changing a habit or moving on from a 10 year old routine of knowing someone, doing things. it takes time to move on.. some take days some take months some may not and end up having someone outside the bubble help them. nicks stream just helps him cope.
I do personally worry though that he is scared to have a break if he genuinly needs it, men are too good at hiding emotions.
@@bigmo3692 it takes a lot to move from a relationship that long.
farming is fine for now 😎
My mom passed away a little under 2 months. I took care of her for a living for years and it has been such a change of pace not having her around. I'm sure it's similar to Nick's situation despite how different they are. It takes time to get over some of the nonsense. Nick's streams helped me while I had to spend most of my time at the hospital with my mom the last 4 or 5 months.
Hug your loved ones because time is fleeting.
Who asked
@@stewie7thst42stop being an ass
@@stewie7thst42 obv no one but you seem to still have an opinion yourself.
@@burningpapersun1 i do have opinions that no one cares about but you gotta keep ur sob story to yourself
Idk wtf is wrong with that guy, but I'm sorry for your loss pal. I thought what you said was super empathetic as someone who's recently lost someone myself and appreciated you sharing it
Nick, heartbreak sucks, brother - don’t listen to the haters. Your friends talk about you so genuinely when it’s not for the streams. And it doesn’t have anything to do with your money.
Sure it doesn't
Chats a bunch of clowns who never been through anything
@@chriskos7868 Hasan makes more bank than he does but you only ever find him praising nick. People have genuine friends believe it or not
Stay strong gladiator, you’re not alone!
Time doesn’t heal all wounds. You get scars that fade away a little but never go away. I have pains from all relationships if I look back at them, you just have to embrace the pain and learn from it, waiting doesn’t really help. I have some regrets from relationships 3,5,7 years ago lol
you never forget you just learn to cope with it
Focus on you man, coming off an 11 year relationship myself and the best thing was to focus on me and friends. Grief is going to come in waves but eventually it’ll get easier and easier
Nick has a huge heart man.
I know how you feel bro about missing your significant other. My Wife died of cancer in June and just seeing old posts from her on Facebook memories make me miss her more. I just miss talking to her in bed, shooting the shit about our day. Just being silly, and busting each others balls. We were married for almost 12 years and together for 21 years. I miss her so much.
sorry to hear about this
Give yourself time to feel the emotions, sink deep into them until you know what you feel and what you want to do and move on.
Kinda hard to do when you playfully flirt for views with every girl in sight 😅 maybe he needs to change his core mindset he has towards women
Dealing with the same sorta thing was in a deep 5 year relationship that ended amicably on good terms for reasons. I'm just now after a year of grinding, dealing with setbacks finding myself having fun and getting back out there. I've just recently got into some of the otk crew and friends videos and you guys have helped me during my journey at the tail end of this year putting a smile on my face at times so just keep on keeping on and thx for the vids bro
It takes time to get over a person. Take it easy, you will get there.
Hey man, as someone who got out of a ten year relationship for seemingly similar reasons as you and at the same age, I've been through the exact same feelings (she was way out of my league too lol). It's awesome you're surrounded by great friends, more than most people have.
There is no moving on. After a year it gets easier, maybe a year and a half, but that will always be the person who stuck with you before the money and "fame". Your best friend just disappears. Be careful not to move on too quickly, that'll just hurt yourself and others. Ending on a positive note it will work out. Outside of all the farming it'll work out.
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Nick you will 100% not see this but on the offshoot that you do please remember it’s okay to feel sad and wallow in your feelings. It’s okay to cry and reminisce on the good old times it’s normal and absolutely valid bro. remember to work on what you did wrong and try to improve on yourself “ I don’t mean going to the gym or workout that’s some 20yo feeling suppression shit” what I mean is checking your personal faults whether it be gaslighting, attentiveness, holding yourself to account. I am 31 now and I thank my younger self everyday for working on these things before even thinking about approaching women it helps a lot in future relationships. You got this and I am sure the ppl in your life will support you through this process.
PREACH
Well said
Nick maybe doesn't realize it, but he's going through the normal process. Having friends around and casually going through the days is how you heal any type of pain. You got this brother and we love you ❤️
Always rooting for Nick. Aside from the persona, you can tell he has a good heart. I know he isn't alone in this, just go and read many of the comments. In fact, I'm rooting for all of you. Im rooting for mens mental health. We cant keep pretending we dont go through shit, we sometimes need our homies or help with seeing what we may blond ourselves to. Nick, ive been in similar shoes, it gets better bud. Make it better as best you can. Many of us rooting for you.
My 10 year relationship ended in June. I’m not over it and I don’t know when I will be either.
I felt this way with my ex partner of two years for ages, I could not imagine what a decade would feel like... But it gets better and I know one day you look back on all the things heartbreak and desperation caused you to do and hate that you did em, that will be what bugs you the most...
“About relationships… I’m cooked.”
I'll be honest with you guys, from someone else who has been in a long term relationship that came to an abrupt end, Nick is holding it together very well. Nick if you read this, just keep pushing forward man. It gets easier eventually.
I know people shit on you sometimes, and I know you shit on people sometimes, but stay strong dawg. Just take a good shit.
He wasn't farming this clip
We actually will never know
Video at 2:54 had me laughing so hard, kudos to whoever edited that
One of the few times were his rant felt genuine and actually understandable
"that's not even Ja Morant." Took me clean out LOOOOOOOL 😂😂😂😂😭😭
At this point, I never know if Nick is doing bits for content due to the mass farming lately. This stream with Cyr was a banger
Either way, I hope bro heals
who knows, but posting pictures of your ex (who doesnt want to be involved in this twitch farming stuff) to instagram seems like a very poor taste of content. So that part was probably real. But it is Nick, master farmer, and doing stuff to shame or annoy melena in the past never stopped his farming. So posting a picture of them to instagram isn't exactly crossing any lines for Nick. This entire thing could be another set of farming but now he is farming empathy rather than parasocials, afterall the parasocial stuff kinda reached its climax with the date stream
"The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else" - Hawk Tuah Girl
Nora and kaitchii are just friends and it’s farming bro still grieving his relationship
Went through a 8 year old relationship into a breakup. And people also recommended therapy or letting time pass to heal the wounds.
Both of that fucked me up for the next 5 years. Hyperfocusing on the emotional side can keep you locked in that depressed state.
I eventually found that making progress in other areas was what built me back up to deal with the emotions of the break up. I hope that Nick finds his key to dealing with his.
Just make sure to try to keep moving. Whatever little it may be. Don’t get stuck in the mud. It is very difficult to start moving again.
Yeah, I know it’s different for everyone but therapy unironically did nothing for me but keep my mind on it. Working out and working hard at work did more for me than the therapist I paid way too much money for lmao
I'm going through the same thing and I used to think the same but I 100% get what you're going through. Accepting that the relationship is over is really hard. No shame in having a hard time about it, hope you have people you can confide yourself to. Only thing that kind of helps me is talking about how I feel to people I trust fully.
Hang in there man. MY relationship lasted half the time but the grief hits everyone different. Time will help forget a lot of the phantom pains.
After my 3 year relationship ended recently, i thought nobody would like me like she did. But i was wrong, went on several dates in the following weeks and things are getting serious with another person now. Stay strong, you got this.
Stay strong nick
bro its alright man .Shit happens people go,thats life man. wish you good,appreciate your content
I did had a relationship of 7 ish and had plans with that person and when it ended it hurt and i couldn't move on for 2 years ... Then i started gym plus boxing and it actually help me over come my fear of being alone ... So dont worry nick its very hard to forget a person after a long time but you will be fine ... You are a free man that means you have all the time for yourself now,work on that , best streamer , gladiator
I feel the same, literally cannot sleep, you need to just leave your phone out of the room, put on some calming music and try to block everything out, but it sucks, hope you start feeling better.
That Optimus Prime edit was incredible; keep your chin up king, you got a lot of good years left before you can just get a mail order bride that will be loyal to you.
I split up from a 5 year relationship over a year ago and I've found myself at times being nostalgic for what we had especially through the early years. It makes you sad to think you lost something you can remember so fondly, now that you don't have it. I think its normal and I think there isn't especially anything you can do to get through it faster, which is why it sucks so much. You just live hopefully finding fulfilling things you can do by yourself and with friends to fill the hole. Then when you feel you can be emotionally satisfied with yourself maybe you try to connect with someone else and build something as good or better. At the end of the day I think the most important thing to do is accept your new situation, accept the emotions that come with it and not to do anything drastic.
Hey Nick I am going through something similar right now with a long term breakup as well. While it sucks, I appreciate your honesty and that what I am feeling in my situation is ok to feel. Best of luck man, hoping we both come out the other side better.
Hope he gets better soon
Hi Nick, Parascocial Andy here.
I've been with my wife for 11 years, we started dating at 19 got married at 29. I can't begin to imagine what losing that feels like, but we are here for your journey brother.
You just keep on going mate. We will keep watching and supporting from Down Under.
The thing about this relationship I’m sure the main issue was probably that Nick wanted kids and she didn’t. I’m sure if Nick just gave up on the idea of kids, they would probably still be together.
100% boils down to time. It's impossible not to think about the last 10 years.
Nick I’m a lurker of your streams and mostly watch your TH-cam vids, I don’t know you on a personal level but I just wanted you to know I care, you’re a human being your feelings are valid!!
I appreciate nick pushing through the hard times to truly elevate his content. He's been working on himself, doing fresh contents. I hope he can continue to push through it for himself, or take a break if he needs to. Wish the same energy for anyone else who needs it, good vibes
I honestly really enjoy these types of videos from Nick. Love you Nicholas
took me 2-3 years before moving on from a 4y relationship. when a relationship that long end, you don't only miss them, but you're also morning the future you were expecting
It gets better bro trust
Bro, I 100% get him. I'm currently going through the same. My girl and I broke up over a month ago(well, I guess she's not my girl anymore).
We were together for 4 years, at a point she was the only person I'd talk to for days, and there were times when I wouldn't be able to sleep if I hadn't spoken with her. I'm 23, so I can still fit Nick's 10-year relationship into my life before i get to his age😂😂😂
If it's that bad for me, I wonder how it would be for him, with more than double the length of my own relationship, especially when you feel like it shouldn't have ended, like what caused the end could have been avoided. All those what ifs and maybes, alongside all the fun memories and the "what if I never meet anyone like her ever again". I really think he's holding it up pretty good, considering he's still able to put on a show. He's allowed to have a breakdown here and there. That was 10 years of his life he lost.
Weirdly, I started tearing up while typing this... I miss my asè
keep yr head up nick i imagine the streams can get stressful keep it up
we're rooting for you, nick
Nick took Malena roller blading. She has a serious hip condition. He wanted her to leave but he didn't want to be the one to end it.
time heals. you got this ❤
around 5 years ago just before the pandemic, my fiance of 10 years and i broke up, its hard man, times your best friend and your worst enemy right now cause it gets easier but its gonna take some time. You're gonna get the memory dumps, your gonna get the memory dumps in your head and the beds gonna feel really big for a while,
but you slowly process it bit by bit and start to rebuild yourself and over time things start to work itself out,
haven't got much help for you mate other then it gets easier, 5 years ago i was a complete wreck, now my life's the best its ever been, just trust the process, humans are ment to feel this shit
Been there, still there. Hang in there brother
I'm smelling a Dr. K episode
It really does come down to independence. You can’t place your value in yourself in someone else, that’s how you get into a feedback loop of shitty relationships. It’s easier said than done, but you just have to sit and feel how you feel for as long as it takes. Theres no rule book, no set amount of time, but you can’t push it away. It’ll only make things worse. I’m only 21, and I can’t imagine what it feels like to be in a 10 year relationship that ends, but I can understand the feeling of regret, the self doubt, wishing you’d done something differently. But it’ll all work out in the end, you just have to value yourself
Nick we are the same age. Trust me, you need to move on. Be happy it happened and turn the page to start the new chapter in your story.
There is a saying that,
Time doesn't heal anything It just teaches us how to live with the pain. So just give yourself as much as time you need Gladiator❤️❤️❤️
Give it time. Time heals everything.
"Time is greater than suffering, those you pity in your time will come to pity you in another"
Nick is letting out the emotions, has good people around him, and is keeping busy. Now, all he can do is let time take its course
The only thing he needs to do differently is let the relationship with Melena mentally die in his head
He’s just farming 😂
Seeing this real side of you every now and again is very important. You publicly announced splitting the same time my ex started seeing someone else. nothing remotely compares to the feeling that comes with it
They're Both A Real One For Unpacking Their Life Exp.
"The fact you have to think about it tells me the answer" 😂🤣
Man...hes going through it and i feel it. It ´just sucks bro.
Stay Strong King!! Ur surrounded by great friends who will support you!!
There are dudes in this chat sobbing over their 5 month situation-ship
None of us can understand the pain of a 10yr relationship ending,
We love you!
I can't imagine losing a long term girlfriend after 10 years. Something like that doesn't disappear instantly.
Keep your head up man 😢 you got this
I love reading everybody's stories they have to share
Thank you Nick, I get all my relationship advice from you and chat.
I don’t think he needs love advice. I think he needs more subs. He’s a professional farmer, and I enjoyed the content. Katchii needs to go back to Texas for my amusement.
The holidays can be a rough time of year.
It’s nice to hear him be real for a change. This should be obvious but to be clear, going through a breakup after 10 year long relationship, means you cannot simply move on after a couple months. That would be rebound and nothing more.
If any of this shit is real, then dude needs a break from everything. Went through a Breakup, constantly putting himself online. I think we do shit without realizing how detrimental our actions are. Gotta get away from it all and work that shit out internally. Face the pain, sit in it, let that shit hurt for a few days and work it out
It is said that it takes at least half the years you spent to completely get over someone. Either you let it drag you or you find a way forward
I feel like the start of this is the most honest he's actually been in the last 3 months of farming
Nick you have literally everything going for you. Yeah maybe you have a proclivity to fumble but who doesn’t!?
That video became a whole therapy session
It’s just farming 😂 I can’t believe y’all think this real
that person who found the optimus clip and put emily voice behind it like that is evil but i loved it it was to perfect lol
Being heartbroken is normal. It happens. But remember.. hurt people hurt others.
Aw man. I feel for you tbh. Try to stay happy.
Been there. Still in there. It gets better tho.
I was with a girl for seven years, we got together young too, so I wasn't dating at all through my early twenties when people usually get used to being single. It takes a long time to get over that. I still think about her from time to time, but as new things, new people come into your life the pain does fade and you can move on.
0:12 timing on that gift sub is hilarious
TwT Pain
I think it’s crazy that these people been friends for years but don’t really know each other well , when they were opening up about their past : college and stuff both didn’t know that about each other , crazy to see that.
You will heal soon 🤎🤎
I'm more of a yt frog but have been watching more streams. This stream really made me like Cyr. All about the laughs but can be genuine and honest when needed
This just made me sad and think of all my failures. Is this the content we want?😊
Reading the comments… it’s even worse 😢.
Somebody give our Gladiator a late night cuddle. He need one rn
tbh, I think the worst part by far appart from like brain shutting down is trying to actually sleep well alone. if you're not used to it anymore it's hard af. I never was in a relationship for more than 1.5 years so I can't really feel what he feels after fcking 10 years but it just has to be so crushing I don't want to feel that. hope it get's better soon nick and you somehow find the strength to keep it ul❤
I was in a relationship for 2 years, and dayum man it sucks at first but as the years pass it'll become less of a weight on your shoulders. You aint too old to date, if you force a relationship you'll prolly end up with someone you can't stand after the honey moon faze. You got this m8, chip up mofo.
ugh nick you're a good man
Yo, shout out your friend, dawg. Solid
Nick, im with your left 8 year relationship. I've been 2 months now, and im struggling. i miss her, but what can you do? It's life
If you find someone that loves you, that you’re happy with, settle and try and be happy for forever. Don’t waste your time looking for the perfect person. Life is shorter than you think and hopelessness is eternal.
Beyond the farming this actually sucks for Nick. He’s at the age where he wants kids more and more, but it takes time to get over a 10 year relationship. He’ll get through it, but it sucks
Hang in there nick ...believe me you're not alone ... its going to be terrible for a bit but thats life mn😕
I'm team nick all the way always, keep up the good streams and videos nick, we'll be here with you, love you.
yeah people act like it was just a little break-up, 10 years is like taking away a third of his life, it's not something that you just move on from. it's honestly a situation where he won't get over it until he get's to a relationship that's just as deep as what he had with melena, if you had a wife for ten years and you lot her, i know plenty of people who just wouldn't ever try to love someone again, it's not easy.