When you refused food and a second coffee he'll have thought you wanted to cut the date short. I bet it's him who thinks you thought thanks but no thanks! If you liked him tell him you enjoyed meeting him and are sorry you were so nervous and then see how he responds.
I can't imagine he would message you so quickly after meeting if he wasn't interested. He was probably testing the waters, and sounds like your message may have looked like you weren't bothered. I think he was messaging hoping you would say you had a nice time 🙂. Plus he offered you something to eat and another coffee so wasn't rushing off was he. x x great vlog
Was so nice to see this Julie! Felt like I was your friend walking you to the coffee shop before the date haha :) hope love and happiness comes your way xx
Loved watching Julie and good luck on the dating x I was 47 when I started dating and you are right I didn’t take it seriously either I was quite happy on my own. But hey ho got married at 50 after vowing never again 😂 x he’s my soul mate and I waited so long for him xx so never say never hun. Be yourself cus you are fab !!!
I met my husband on plenty of fish in 2009 we met i went home then within a week went back to see him and moved in, engaged few weeks later been together 13 years married 12 years this October :) 2 failed marriages before him, i was 40 when we got together, its never 2 late to get out there
Ooh Julie I think you should edit out that part of Atticus at the end. That’s not good to show the world that you have that at your house. Especially I’m sure there are people who watch who live in your area. I know it doesn’t seem like much but you know what people are like
@@jacqui9026 I had my flat broken into when I lived in London and a lot of my belongings were stolen. I also had my bike stolen a separate time, in a different part of London When I was a child I was on the train from Washington, DC to New York City for vacation. I had about $80 spending money and I was flashing it about and counting it. A man told me to put my cash away - that someone might walk past and snatch it from a little kid, grab it right out of my hand! Learned my lesson right then and there
Ooh where do I start? Worst one ever was meeting a guy at a local pub when I was about 19. He turned up with 3 quid and claimed he could only buy himself a drink so i’d have to buy everything else for us 😂 Glad the date went well and glad he was a nice guy but If he didn’t seem too keen it’s obviously his loss 🥰
I think no matter how old you are, whether you've dated quite frequently or rarely, you are always going to be nervous the first encounter. Hope things went well! I'm at the age of 23 now and I have never actually been on a date. But now I'm currently with my partner who we have been friends since secondary school but we didn't actually get together till 3 years ago this year! However, our first date night was at the cinema to watch the Lion King live action when it came out and the cinema was crowded with parents and their children. Yes, I still cried at the saddest part in the film (I won't spoil if anyone hasn't seen it) but yeah it was an experience. However, when can you feel the love tonight came on, he held my hand through the full song. So I shared that moment with the entire cinema. But overall, I couldn't see myself without him. But anyway, hope things went well. Hopefully, you may see him again and good for you! You get at the age (from what I've heard) and it's a make or break. You either think yeah I think it's time to meet someone or you tend to realise that your much more content on your own and there's nothing wrong with either route. But, it does take alot of courage to meet someone you've never met before which I take my hat off to people who do it because never been on a tinder date or anything like that and I don't think I have the courage in me to do that. Great Vlog again Julie! Loving the content 💕
I'm proud of you for going out there and meeting people, not always easy. Best wishes. Loved this vlog. Also If you don't mind me asking, what is your tattoo?
I think the offer of a second drink was really positive. If someone said no to me for a second drink I would’ve been really thrown! Message and say reflecting you are sorry how nervous you may have been? Well done for getting out there ! X
Ohhh Julie! I was nervous right along with you. I could litterly feel your anxious. Good for you though getting out there. You deserve all the love in the world 🥰
Hiya, luckily for me I'm married so don't have to do the dating scene! I don't know if I'd cope now that I'm older! I do have a couple of friends who have gone on dates and said it was so nerve racking! They're like you, not serial daters but just want someone to spend time with and do things with. I remember one of my friends phoned me every 20 minutes for the first hour she was on the date and would disappear into the ladies! He asked her if she's got a bladder problem 😂. After that remark she felt at ease and they carried on their date for another 4 hours! They are now all loved up like teenagers and spend every single day together after work. Been together 1 year and to think she almost brushed him off! The right person will come along. Your a lovely warm lady and deserve to find a good man. Thank goodness I found my Mr Right! Been together 27 years this September. We also met on a dating website...dreams do come true 👍🏻 💚
Enjoyed your video 🙂 good luck with the dating, I was married for 20years + 4children, after separation of two and a half years found myself meeting someone on Plenty Of Fish and now very happily remarried 🥰, I bought an NYX butter Gloss in strawberry cheesecake...took me half an hour to get it out of the packaging 😂 but I love it, good choice x
Hi julie you ok after your coffee date...i felt nervous for you..one day Mr right will come along when you least expect it........you looked really nice in your outfit ......yes always rains on school runs.....awe aticus excited for his holiday.....have a good week xx👍☀️
I think the guy wasn’t sure how you felt to didn’t want to be to pushy! You are a stunning lady and I wouldn’t worry if you haven’t found the right person yet, I also think you pronounce it mac-rah-may.
I love your vlogs, they are my go to relaxation on a weekend with either a cuppa or a cheeky gin !!! Dress is amazing did you say it was from H&M if so is it recently. I love your fashion sense I purchased the new balance black and leopard print trainers after I saw them on you and get so many compliments when I wear them (I'm 53 years young and my motto is wear whatever makes you feel fab) happy sunday xx
Why are you taking the text as a no!!! If it was a no, he wouldn’t of texted you at all! Give him another chance. The balls in your court now, he asked you for a second drink and you declined… now it’s your turn to ask him on another date ❤️ love you!!!
Hi Julie, love your videos! That biker jacket will be put to good use! RE: Date- not too sure that message from him was him saying thanks but no thanks, since he messaged you straight after! I would say thats a nice way to start a convo just after meeting up. It sounded like you have given up too soon, give him another wee message #teamjulie
I knew a guy since school we are now 37, we kept in touch on the phone, facebook, and instagram. We met up 2020 for coffee and he walked out after 30 mins. He just said right I'm going, and left. Stopped messaging me then a few hours later noticed on his Facebook he went on a date with another lady, he even posted a photo of the two of them together. Not a good experience I was left upset and quite angry he wasted my time. Apparently, he wanted friends with benefits.
My first date was in Pizza Hut and in the summer so I wore shorts, and I was sat on the leather sofa side, and my legs stuck to the sofa and I tore my skin off when I stood up 😂
sounds like he was playing it cool , most men want a quickie on first date, he sounds a nice guy , hopefully he will get back to you and your get to meet again X
I went on a date met him through faceparty back in 2006 and we finally went on a date in 2007 and we have been together 15 years in Sept and married for 7 years
Went on first date for starbucks was awkward at first but went very good still together now month down line. I think its so hard when ur older esp with kids. U look lovely :) xxx
Julie!! you should’ve stayed for another coffee or some food at least if you liked him, by the way you described what happened if i was him i definitely would’ve thought you weren’t interested! loved this vid hahha
Final hearing divorce this week first marriage age 54 probably won’t marry again , but you are right Julie life is too short , great video glad you had a good date ❤️👏
first dates were always awkward for me, i am quite an awkward person s i basically would sit there completely silent while they tried to fill the void lol
My last date is now my partner I live with and I moved county's for . I met him of the train and it was live at first sight . But I've had some horrible ones to .like a one eyed one who took his other false out and out it in my drink one proposed on first date. One I hid in toilets from
My first date with my first bf before he asked me to be his gf was going great….until a couple of family members came into the cinema to take him out to tell him his dad suddenly passed away! He had slipped that evening on the bathroom floor & hit his head on the bath & died instantly. 😔
Julie if you really want to meet someone can I recommend (& this sounds stupid probably lol) but POF (Plenty Of Fish. Sure you know that haha) I met two absolutely lovely wonderful respectful, kind genuine men on there, (won’t go into why me & the first man aren’t together, very very sad life circumstances 😢), but me & my current man I met on there have been together nearly 7 months now (short amount of time I know). So just wanted to say I had luck twice in a row on there so maybe give it a go? Yes obviously you get your idiots on there like you do everywhere but I’ve been shown there are really decent human beings on that site. Sorry your date didn’t go any further. Your looking great & smashing the content as always 💖
Good afternoon Julie, Loved watching your video from the other day, Lush is one of my favorate shops for bath bombs, Will have to give the bubble bath a try next time. xxx😊❤
@@jacqui9026 People like you make me giggle. You hide behind a keyboard and think your words don’t have weight. You don’t even know Julie yet you seem to think you can comment on her life. Bless your heart.
My nan used to have hanging plant holders like your candle holder things definitely go round in fashion , good on you going on a date did sound like he did enjoy meeting you 🙂
You are an attractive woman. You should have your pic of guys. However my son 30 almost (has 2 children, been on his own for 5 years now) and he never has any luck. He has his own flat, car and a lovely mum n dad lol and of course 2 beautiful children. He never seems to attract woman who want more than just a laugh. I met my husband 32 years ago in a pub; I don’t rate internet dating (from his view). Good luck. Xxxx.
You're very brave Julie 👏 I met my husband when I was 49 and this year we have been married for 16 years and he is the love of my life xx
When you refused food and a second coffee he'll have thought you wanted to cut the date short. I bet it's him who thinks you thought thanks but no thanks! If you liked him tell him you enjoyed meeting him and are sorry you were so nervous and then see how he responds.
Totally agree! Plus Julie never said if she's attracted to him!!
I can't imagine he would message you so quickly after meeting if he wasn't interested. He was probably testing the waters, and sounds like your message may have looked like you weren't bothered. I think he was messaging hoping you would say you had a nice time 🙂. Plus he offered you something to eat and another coffee so wasn't rushing off was he. x x great vlog
Was so nice to see this Julie! Felt like I was your friend walking you to the coffee shop before the date haha :) hope love and happiness comes your way xx
Thank you x
I wouldn’t take that as a no, he was probably just letting you know it was a nice time and to see how you felt too ❤️❤️
Loved watching Julie and good luck on the dating x I was 47 when I started dating and you are right I didn’t take it seriously either I was quite happy on my own. But hey ho got married at 50 after vowing never again 😂 x he’s my soul mate and I waited so long for him xx so never say never hun. Be yourself cus you are fab !!!
Another great story! X
@Julie Stanton do you have a Pinterest account?
I met my husband on plenty of fish in 2009 we met i went home then within a week went back to see him and moved in, engaged few weeks later been together 13 years married 12 years this October :)
2 failed marriages before him, i was 40 when we got together, its never 2 late to get out there
Great story! X
Atticus is growing up so much 💕🥺. Love seeing you happy every time you post Julie 💕.
Love watching you Julie! You remind me so much of my mum! Good on you for getting out there and dating! You look beautiful and deserve a nice date xx
Can we just talk about how well Julie is doing. She’s succeeding so much and deserves the world. Amazing woman and amazing mum. 💖
Love ur vlogs. I can so relate I’m 47 my youngest son is 8 and we live the same kind of life. I don’t want ur vlogs to end they are so relaxing.
It’s tricky right! X
maybe he thought you weren't interested as you turned down another drink and food? Just a thought, glad you're seeing the fun side of dating :)
Aww Julie! I feel from his text that he liked you and was trying to see how you felt!! 🥰
Maybe! X
I was think this ! 😩
Ooh Julie I think you should edit out that part of Atticus at the end. That’s not good to show the world that you have that at your house. Especially I’m sure there are people who watch who live in your area. I know it doesn’t seem like much but you know what people are like
@@jacqui9026 I had my flat broken into when I lived in London and a lot of my belongings were stolen. I also had my bike stolen a separate time, in a different part of London
When I was a child I was on the train from Washington, DC to New York City for vacation. I had about $80 spending money and I was flashing it about and counting it. A man told me to put my cash away - that someone might walk past and snatch it from a little kid, grab it right out of my hand! Learned my lesson right then and there
Ooh where do I start? Worst one ever was meeting a guy at a local pub when I was about 19. He turned up with 3 quid and claimed he could only buy himself a drink so i’d have to buy everything else for us 😂 Glad the date went well and glad he was a nice guy but If he didn’t seem too keen it’s obviously his loss 🥰
Wow! X
Julie he was definitely into you but didn’t want to come off too forward!
LB I think the same, message straight = eager beaver
Looking forward to watching your Disney preparations and whilst you are there too ❤️
I wouldn’t take the text as a no Julie!! X
Might you be able to tell us how you started working from home and how you did it ? Im interested in working from home and how to go about it 🥰
Lovely Julie ,what a clever boy you are Aticus .happy weekend to you both.😊
I haven’t tried the bubble bar but twilight was the first bath bomb I ever bought from Lush🥰 always has a place in my heart hehe 😇
I think no matter how old you are, whether you've dated quite frequently or rarely, you are always going to be nervous the first encounter. Hope things went well! I'm at the age of 23 now and I have never actually been on a date. But now I'm currently with my partner who we have been friends since secondary school but we didn't actually get together till 3 years ago this year! However, our first date night was at the cinema to watch the Lion King live action when it came out and the cinema was crowded with parents and their children. Yes, I still cried at the saddest part in the film (I won't spoil if anyone hasn't seen it) but yeah it was an experience. However, when can you feel the love tonight came on, he held my hand through the full song. So I shared that moment with the entire cinema. But overall, I couldn't see myself without him.
But anyway, hope things went well. Hopefully, you may see him again and good for you! You get at the age (from what I've heard) and it's a make or break. You either think yeah I think it's time to meet someone or you tend to realise that your much more content on your own and there's nothing wrong with either route. But, it does take alot of courage to meet someone you've never met before which I take my hat off to people who do it because never been on a tinder date or anything like that and I don't think I have the courage in me to do that.
Great Vlog again Julie! Loving the content 💕
I'm proud of you for going out there and meeting people, not always easy. Best wishes.
Loved this vlog. Also If you don't mind me asking, what is your tattoo?
“As strangers go, he was a good stranger”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think the offer of a second drink was really positive. If someone said no to me for a second drink I would’ve been really thrown! Message and say reflecting you are sorry how nervous you may have been? Well done for getting out there ! X
Ohhh Julie! I was nervous right along with you. I could litterly feel your anxious. Good for you though getting out there. You deserve all the love in the world 🥰
Julie! You are the sweetest human, I love how you are being so open & honest with us all! Sending you love xxx
I’m new here. Was nice visiting with you. I’ll go find your playlist. Thank you.
Hiya, luckily for me I'm married so don't have to do the dating scene! I don't know if I'd cope now that I'm older! I do have a couple of friends who have gone on dates and said it was so nerve racking! They're like you, not serial daters but just want someone to spend time with and do things with. I remember one of my friends phoned me every 20 minutes for the first hour she was on the date and would disappear into the ladies! He asked her if she's got a bladder problem 😂. After that remark she felt at ease and they carried on their date for another 4 hours! They are now all loved up like teenagers and spend every single day together after work. Been together 1 year and to think she almost brushed him off! The right person will come along. Your a lovely warm lady and deserve to find a good man. Thank goodness I found my Mr Right! Been together 27 years this September. We also met on a dating website...dreams do come true 👍🏻 💚
27 years. Amazing! X
@@juliestanton1 thank you 😊
there's a few different ways to say the rope plant hangers but the proper way is, mac-rarm-ee essentially x
Enjoyed your video 🙂 good luck with the dating, I was married for 20years + 4children, after separation of two and a half years found myself meeting someone on Plenty Of Fish and now very happily remarried 🥰, I bought an NYX butter Gloss in strawberry cheesecake...took me half an hour to get it out of the packaging 😂 but I love it, good choice x
Hi julie you ok after your coffee date...i felt nervous for you..one day Mr right will come along when you least expect it........you looked really nice in your outfit ......yes always rains on school runs.....awe aticus excited for his holiday.....have a good week xx👍☀️
I think the guy wasn’t sure how you felt to didn’t want to be to pushy! You are a stunning lady and I wouldn’t worry if you haven’t found the right person yet, I also think you pronounce it mac-rah-may.
I met my partner of 11 years online, cant wait to watch this🥰
I love the beginning of the video Julie!
You should do a challenge where you go around the shops but don’t buy anything
"As strangers go he was a good stranger" 😂. Good for you! x
Does anyone know whether they spoke after the date or not? I’m intrigued! Lol
Whoever ends up with you is the luckiest man on the planet. You are an amazing woman in every way. You deserve the best Julie ❤️❤️
Ah, thank you x
I love your vlogs, they are my go to relaxation on a weekend with either a cuppa or a cheeky gin !!! Dress is amazing did you say it was from H&M if so is it recently. I love your fashion sense I purchased the new balance black and leopard print trainers after I saw them on you and get so many compliments when I wear them (I'm 53 years young and my motto is wear whatever makes you feel fab) happy sunday xx
Well done Julie lol I know exactly how u feel about dating and I'm only 28 single parent but to scared to get back out there. Love your vids x
Why are you taking the text as a no!!! If it was a no, he wouldn’t of texted you at all! Give him another chance. The balls in your court now, he asked you for a second drink and you declined… now it’s your turn to ask him on another date ❤️ love you!!!
Go girl! This is awesome.
Hi Julie, love your videos! That biker jacket will be put to good use! RE: Date- not too sure that message from him was him saying thanks but no thanks, since he messaged you straight after! I would say thats a nice way to start a convo just after meeting up. It sounded like you have given up too soon, give him another wee message #teamjulie
definitely!!
You could be right!
@@juliestanton1 if there was connection go for it !!! #girlpower #messagefirst
Definitely!
I knew a guy since school we are now 37, we kept in touch on the phone, facebook, and instagram. We met up 2020 for coffee and he walked out after 30 mins. He just said right I'm going, and left. Stopped messaging me then a few hours later noticed on his Facebook he went on a date with another lady, he even posted a photo of the two of them together. Not a good experience I was left upset and quite angry he wasted my time. Apparently, he wanted friends with benefits.
Julie you have made my day :) Love your sense of humour xx
That twilight Lush was amazing when I tried it! I’ve not tried the jasmine one yet but it looks lovely when I googled it 😊
His loss Julie enjoyed the vlog as always 😁💖💖
Julie, I think you're a shopaholic... 🤣🤣
My first date was in Pizza Hut and in the summer so I wore shorts, and I was sat on the leather sofa side, and my legs stuck to the sofa and I tore my skin off when I stood up 😂
Be careful who you meet online but I’m sure you know . There are some weirdos out there. Me personally wouldn’t meet anyone online
sounds like he was playing it cool , most men want a quickie on first date, he sounds a nice guy , hopefully he will get back to you and your get to meet again X
Your editing skills are getting really good
Thank you x
hair looks so soft and shiny :) what are you using/ had done?
I swear by Paul Mitchell shampoo & conditioner for coloured hair x
Olaplex bonding oil - Julie mentioned this is one of her videos xx
I went on a date met him through faceparty back in 2006 and we finally went on a date in 2007 and we have been together 15 years in Sept and married for 7 years
Good on you Julie 👍🏼another great vlog x
I thought his text was clarity that he liked you! You shouldn't have shot him down straight away, I think he wanted to know your thoughts!
Possibly!
You are so precious. Love your videos and go on girlie getting out there xxx
Went on first date for starbucks was awkward at first but went very good still together now month down line. I think its so hard when ur older esp with kids. U look lovely :) xxx
he txt you soon as he left! thats a good thing.. try firing up a conversation again!
Until they tell you they don’t like you don’t assume Julie, I think he likes you! Go for it hun! 😝
Julie!! you should’ve stayed for another coffee or some food at least if you liked him, by the way you described what happened if i was him i definitely would’ve thought you weren’t interested! loved this vid hahha
Final hearing divorce this week first marriage age 54 probably won’t marry again , but you are right Julie life is too short , great video glad you had a good date ❤️👏
Loving your vlogs so cheerful to watch xx
I really enjoyed this video, I really liked the shirt from primark and I’m glad you enjoyed your coffee date
Thank you x
He will text you again soon. I believe he didn't want to push too far
You always dress so classy, comfy and modest. I love it 😍 XX
Enjoying your vlogs Julie
Thank you x
Loved this video julie. Made me laugh I hate first dates haha
Well I hope you had a good time and the lush lip balms are Great in my opinion!!! X
Twilight one is amazing u r an inspiration juile x
You’re so brave for this! Keep trying you’ll find Mr right :)
Good luck with the dating scene I wish you lots of success you deserve a good man ❤
Ah, what’s meant to be will be x
@@juliestanton1 very true not many good ones out there don't give up ❤
Did you hear anymore from the date.
You are so cute, just want to cuddle you every time I see your videos😆 I actually prefer your videos over Anna's now 😆
Well done for doing it! Mustn't have been easy
Loved today's vlog 💖
Thank you x
love the into!!!
Love the dress Julie - what size did you get? X
first dates were always awkward for me, i am quite an awkward person s i basically would sit there completely silent while they tried to fill the void lol
Look at you uploaded 17 mins ago and already got 40 odd likes!!! You go girl!
My last date is now my partner I live with and I moved county's for .
I met him of the train and it was live at first sight .
But I've had some horrible ones to .like a one eyed one who took his other false out and out it in my drink one proposed on first date. One I hid in toilets from
Great video
Go on Julie!
He was a good stranger 😂 it was probs nerves on first date either side xx
Julie your so funny😂
Get Julie on celebs go dating!!!
Lol she’s not a celebrity she thinks she is but she’s not !!!
Lisa Jayne, I didn’t realise you can read people’s mind…and through a screen, wow!🙄
@@jacqui9026 you shouldn’t have to, but I guess you get a few of you around
@@gracesarah3104 clever aint I lol
@Lisa Jayne you clearly don’t have anything nice to say so why say it at all?
I was nervous for you 😂
My first date with my first bf before he asked me to be his gf was going great….until a couple of family members came into the cinema to take him out to tell him his dad suddenly passed away! He had slipped that evening on the bathroom floor & hit his head on the bath & died instantly. 😔
God, that’s terrible 😞
@@juliestanton1 yes it was a horrible thing to find out on a first date with someone 😔
Funny how your happy to have primark home yet find it hard to wear primark clothing 🤔
@@jacqui9026 well said I really don’t know who she thinks she is lately lol
A day in the life uno
Slay Julie !!!
Julie if you really want to meet someone can I recommend (& this sounds stupid probably lol) but POF (Plenty Of Fish. Sure you know that haha)
I met two absolutely lovely wonderful respectful, kind genuine men on there, (won’t go into why me & the first man aren’t together, very very sad life circumstances 😢), but me & my current man I met on there have been together nearly 7 months now (short amount of time I know).
So just wanted to say I had luck twice in a row on there so maybe give it a go? Yes obviously you get your idiots on there like you do everywhere but I’ve been shown there are really decent human beings on that site.
Sorry your date didn’t go any further. Your looking great & smashing the content as always 💖
Ah, thanks for this x
@@juliestanton1 your welcome! Keep up the great content 😁😁
Good afternoon Julie, Loved watching your video from the other day, Lush is one of my favorate shops for bath bombs, Will have to give the bubble bath a try next time. xxx😊❤
What is a bloat
Love your videos xx
Was he wearing fake converse 🤐 …..lucky escape for him 😂
@@jacqui9026 jealous are ya !!
@@jacqui9026 I’m
Joking 🙃
@@jacqui9026 People like you make me giggle. You hide behind a keyboard and think your words don’t have weight. You don’t even know Julie yet you seem to think you can comment on her life. Bless your heart.
@@jacqui9026 Says the one commenting on Julie’s videos 😂😂😂 Oh darling.
@@jacqui9026 INCORRECT. Just because she’s on TH-cam doesn’t give ANYONE the right to be a horrible person.
My nan used to have hanging plant holders like your candle holder things definitely go round in fashion , good on you going on a date did sound like he did enjoy meeting you 🙂
yeoo julie get it i guess
You are an attractive woman. You should have your pic of guys. However my son 30 almost (has 2 children, been on his own for 5 years now) and he never has any luck. He has his own flat, car and a lovely mum n dad lol and of course 2 beautiful children. He never seems to attract woman who want more than just a laugh. I met my husband 32 years ago in a pub; I don’t rate internet dating (from his view). Good luck. Xxxx.
You look lovely Julie!💕 What lipstick/lipgloss are you wearing? I love it!
Thank you. It’s a Nyx butter gloss x