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6:52 Hi mommy
(1/3) Hey Tina, if you are able to read my entire comment- I think it may provide a different perspective for you… If you do start to read it- Just make sure you read until the very end…
I understand why everyone is sympathetic with you. It is because you are an awesome, bright, creative woman. I am a young woman myself. 23 years old in fact. I do not have all of life’s answers; Nor do I claim to. However, I can share my own perspective and some wisdom with you that is based on my experiences.
It may be hard to read this comment. Not just because it is long as hell, but also extremely honest. I want you to know it is coming from an earnest place of empathy and transparency. There is both fact and opinion in this comment. I want you to know that my opinions are not blind but again, coming from my own lived experience as a young woman in this world. Just like you. And many others I’ve witnessed.
Tina, I feel that you have intentionally removed your responsibility in this incident. Not out of malice or spite but because deep down you are afraid of being wrong. You are even more terrified of the world viewing you as wrong. I am too.
Throughout this whole experience, I would have analyzed the entire situation and determined my own decisions that directly contributed to the outcome (Where you are now with your landlord and property). I would ask myself “What choices did I make that have brought me here? Is there anything meaningful that I could have done differently?”. It is ofcourse, too late to change them. But you can learn a lot from them. I would also be seeking legal advice if I was going through this same situation. It would be a bit different though. I would not have shared any information of the incident on my social platform(s). Furthermore, I would not have blurred the lines between business and being victimized.
No one is expecting that you should have known everything about everything and the right way to go about it, from the very beginning. However, simple things were ‘missed’ (It may be more fitting to say skipped) that border on common sense. Because there was an excitable, romanticized dream. Which is a good thing but it can cause us to make haste decisions without a second thought.
When we begin to actually “bring our dream to life” It is easier to get creative and let passion lead when physically conceptualizing our project. Major thought and planning went into the aesthetics, interior design, layout, coloring, furniture, menu items, and image of the restaurant. Before even completing or fully planning the foundation of the space. These are all things that we enjoy and are happy to conceptualize. The “fun parts” if you will.
However, it appears as though the financial, legal, structural, demographical, foundational, paperwork, legalities, and other fundamental aspects were not given the same careful planning. The fundamental basics become overshadowed by the need to express the vision/concept they have in mind. This is an extremely common downfall to newly started businesses.
Not doing your due diligence can be chalked up to being naive. That does not equate you to being the victim. That was still your choice Tina. People cannot take advantage of you if you do not let them.
This is all a common part of business. Just like you, your landlord is making decisions with his business and livelihood in mind. Sending letters, contracts, drafting agreements, negotiations. That is what your landlord was attempting to do by agreeing to assist with renovations at first. Then submitting a proposal with terms to you for agreement. It is your choice to agree, decline, or attempt to negotiate further. At that point you decided to seek legal advice but that is not on your land lord.
Most, if not all of the situation could have been avoided with more in-depth planning. Even though the current issues you are facing are crucial parts to making your vision a reality; You chose to claim a victim mentality. I understand that it is easier that way. I have been in your shoes for the majority of my life.
We all make mistakes and nobody is perfect. However, we cannot then claim that others are villains because of our decisions.
(2/3) What is not okay is that, as your fans: We were obviously and intentionally misled. The full story was not provided and even misconstrued (based on the provided evidence) and it was portrayed that you are a victim of cruel misogyny. At every turn you were “taken advantage of”. However, I have only seen evidence that disputes your side of the story.
This does not make you a bad person. This is the easy way out Tina. I have taken it many times before… It was also disappointing to many of your fans. Ofcourse, we have not unsubscribed but it was concerning… I am not alone.
I can think of a lot that you could have done differently. I am sure you have thought about things you could have done differently as well. Everyone has things they would go back and do over again. However, you have done yourself a disservice by ignoring and even denying any responsibility.
To not even acknowledge your part and accuse someone else of taking advantage of you, does nothing constructive. It solves nothing. By pushing reality to the back of our mind we limit ourselves and our potential as human beings. We also hurt innocent people and those around us. I am not shaming you or putting you down at all. I fully understand why this was your response to the situation. It is always easier to be the victim…. I know. I know because I was the same way. I wish someone would have explained it to me. Even if it was just a fraction of the way I am trying to convey it to you. I also wish I would have listened to those who were trying to tell me in their own words.
I also want to mention something obvious: Words, body language, reactions, tone, and context are extremely valuable queues in communication and human perception.
To provide reinforcement for the victim mentality, you presented a narrative that ‘all of the sudden, after renovations were almost done’ you were sent the eviction notice and had no other alternative. After all the hard work, a ‘Misogynistic and Ageist’ landlord swooped in snatched the prize. Just as it was nearing your grasp…. And there was no way to stop it. No other choice…
Based on your own evidence this not true. When we look at the evidence you provided, it brings to light a more mundane and even common situation.
Rather than overcoming this obstacle as a business owner and learning from the situation; It was easier and more strategic for you to see yourself as someone who was taken advantage of. Maybe this is because as humans we never want others to know our mistakes. We do not like to reveal that we should have made better decisions. I think you were also afraid that you would be seen as ‘Incapable’ or ‘Not ready for this’ so you had to blame someone else for everything that has gone awry.
You want others to think you are fully in control. That everything is going perfectly and that you never make mistakes. And if issues do arise: They are either intentional on your part or completely out of your control… You have to prove the naysayers all wrong… And maybe this will be the accomplishment/event/assignment/degree/life that finally makes them proud of you… And if it doesn’t… then you’ll find a way to garner their attention in other ways…. I understand way more than you could ever know... Even though that was not anywhere near the truth. You are not stupid Tina. You have an entire tribe that will dispel the naysayers. You make millions of people proud on a regular basis. You simply got excited and made a few mistakes without doing your due diligence. That is what being human is all about, own that.
It is obvious there were other alternatives available … Such as coming to an agreement that you would handle the renovations yourself. This recent video is proof of that fact. In your previous vlog the title: ‘I’m getting evicted’ was a blatant lie. You received an agreement with specific terms and offered a choice. Which I would like to add you agreed to. In reality, at a certain point your landlord declined to pay for any additional requested renovations (the type does not matter). To which he presented you a written contract to make the agreement binding (if you agreed). You could have declined, attempted to negotiate, or agree. The same exact thing that you could have done when acquiring the property (creating a contract of your own with the landlord). Tina, you cannot convey such dishonesty… You don’t have to. Take it from me: I’ve done it so many times… It doesn’t work…
It is your channel and you choose the content you want to share, which I truly love. You can post whatever you want on your channel. As you know, being a content creator allows the world access to discuss and critique your material. Which, I wanna add: I am very grateful for. You are my favorite TH-camr, hands down. Even now, you still are. I just had to get this off my chest after you shared this situation, the evidence, and context, in a misleading way. I want you to know that you are so powerful. You don’t have to portray the victim narrative to shield yourself from judgment, Tina…
Fast Forward to your latest update: You are back in the property. Putting more blood, sweat, and tears in for your dreams. Which is what it takes to make them come true. However, there is no ignoring the shock value you were aiming for with the previous vlog. In comparison to this one; Where you, as the still victimized young woman are now seen triumphing over your oppressor… Who never oppressed you to begin with. They were simply conducting business. The same thing you are trying to do with your restaurant. The tone of your last vlog set the stage that you required sympathy. While your landlord acquired damnation… Because he sent you an agreement stating that you alone would be responsible for the renovations from there on out… Which you obviously agreed to (hence you are not actually evicted). Even the title was a lie Tina… You were not “getting evicted”. You were provided a choice, multiple choices even. Two very different things.
(3/3) In the most recent vlog, there are some subtle and some not so subtle actions that continue to enforce you as the victim and your landlord as the oppressor. Such as the mention of needing a security system specifically because of the landlord. The passive aggressive statements of “We have had incidents with…’him’” with no elaboration or supporting evidence. The reinforced victim mentality that has now mushroomed into “Kevin and I are worried for our safety”…. Yet, as soon as the security system was installed: You were comfortable enough at the rental property to begin twerking, on camera, and then posted the footage online.. Your reactions are not in any way conducive to how you present the entire situation… I also wonder why exactly are you now so afraid? Even though, you are choosing to remain there and respond in these ways…?
Afraid of your landlord? The landlord that covered some of the renovations even though he did not have to, also the same landlord who you ultimately came to an agreement with after stating they were already evicting you (Providing your evidence which was a less than truthfully translated letter from them), and finally the same landlord who you are now consciously choosing to move forward with. Even though he has ‘victimized you’….Why? In your defense I’m sure many will say “She has spent so much time and money already, what other choice does she have?”. Even though the last time you updated us… There was already ‘No choice’ and you were “getting evicted”.
To that defense and you Tina I want to say: If you were victimized by this person, which you have told us... Then the decision to move forward with the same person- I guess… It is somehow… Just another “naive” decision made by a “young woman who didn’t know any better and was taken advantage of” huh?…. Oh how the cycle repeats itself… You are so much better than this Tina. You are valuable and have worth… you do not have to be the victim to be powerful….
If you made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read what a true fan had to say. I am not angry, spiteful, or trying to hurt. I have just noticed this mentality displayed heavily in this specific situation.
I wanted to express my concern and be completely honest. Over the course of the past 6 months… I have noticed certain behaviors and changes that weren’t present or as noticeable before. Throughout multiple relationships with friends and family you’ve had, different interactions, comments, and other ways… Things common in many mental health disorder.
A specific example: The shopping at Costco scene in the current video. I am not sure if you are aware but you displayed signs of an impulse shopping episode…Associated symptoms include: Finding a reason to buy items (in excess) that you otherwise do not need, Checking/Examining many items in store with or without exclusive intent to purchase, Repeatedly examining individual items in the store, Difficulty maintaining focus on tasks/conversations/train of thought, purchasing items that you already have an excess amount of or do not have use for, feeling guilty or unsure of why you purchased specific items or an excess of items…. It is also associated with feeling a ‘rush’ or Euphoria while having an episode. Especially, right before-during-and/or after checking out. You yourself even noticed during this specific trip & stated you “went overboard”… You made a few comments after the shopping trip that hinted on doubt and guilt.
DISCLAIMER 1: “How could you possibly tell?”. I have been battling a few mental health disorders my entire life and will continue to do so. Impulse shopping is one of my most common behaviors due to said mental health disorders. As a matter of fact: The thought, depth, effort, and detail I’ve put into this speech is most likely a direct result of my OCD. That does not make it any less honest or biased. I do not let these diagnoses define my life nor does it make me any less capable. Ofcourse, everyone is different and a diagnoses must be determined by a health professional: But I would rather bring awareness and be wrong. Then stay silent and be right.
I think I chose to ignore these behaviors and bring them up beforehand because it reminded me of the lies I lived in (which is controlled) and my own mental health disorders (which are often uncontrolled). The lies I’ve portrayed to appear right and perfect… and be the Victim. It becomes addictive and dangerous even… It is hard to break but you have to first admit the truth to yourself Tina… At some point in our lives we have to take a look at ourselves and reflect… or victim shaming… You are not a victim. And you don’t have to be one in order to fill the void inside that yearns for attention and reassurance… The one that craves to hear “You are absolutely right, you did nothing wrong. What happened was predatory. It was completely unfair and out of your control”…. I know years upon years of pressure to be great, to go farther, to be perfect have caused some wounds… But this is not the way. I promise…
DISCLAIMER 2: I do not care about the responses I receive for sharing this. I am a true fan and always will be. These things can all be true in unison… While sharing my views, observations, and the reality. If you made it to the end… Thank you so much for even taking the time. I am hoping Tina will read this… even if she disagrees whole heartedly. I just wanted you to know it’s okay to mess up. And that it doesn’t help to blame others. Also, it is okay to be different and ask for help sometimes…
You will make it through this! Make sure you pay attention to your body and mind… and also practice accountability regularly… You will never accomplish your dreams if you are stuck in a perpetual state of victim mentality…. ♥️
strictly speaking those aren't CCTVs as they aren't closed circuits.
Also that brand of security camera had recently gone through some drama, it was found out that they do indeed stream the feed and save data on their servers when they said nothing is sent outside of your network.
Might be worth having a look at, depending how much you guys care about that stuff.
Boosting so she can see
100%
Kevin creeping for candy is so hilarious. His cravings will be his downfall.
That was like my favorite part 💀😭
It’s him searching for the rhubarb candy
yeH, Kevin is the funny one!
Their ability to feed off of each others comedic nature is a gas, leaving us hungry for more.
its the most danish thing ive heard him say🤣
He ran away when you presented the documents. Exactly. Getting yourself a lawyer was the best thing you could have done. Keep going and document everything. Every conversation.
Doing her due diligence is paying off.
@@rainreinaa If suing in South Korea is anything like in Japan, the effort and expense might not be worth it for either parties. Keeping a lawyer on hand is the best thing she could do.
Kepp going ☮️
@@danielc1792 Depends on how defamation and libel lawsuits work in South Korea. Again, see how Japan handles that sort of thing. If it's anywhere close to similar, then that would be a bad idea.
what is happening why he keeps trying to be like that
After all this travesty I think it would be cool to keep the “Kepp Going” grafitti in the restaurant or at least make a printed art copy of it. Seems like it was there since the beginning for a reason haha. Hopefully things will sort themselves out soon!
Definitely would be an awesome reminder down the road!
i was thinking the same. good reminder to keep calm and just keep going.
It’s so much better because it’s spelled wrong. It must stay
Hang in there Tina and Kevin. ✊🏽 Fighting! 💪🏽
🫢🥹 Tina u liked my comment?! Hey i gotta say i love your humor and quirkiness and much love 🫰🏽from the Caribbean 🏝️ please try to eat some Caribbean food 🙏🏽
Cringe
I love how no matter which Costco in the world you see, it's instantly familiar as your own local Costco. And you're totally right about always buying stuff when going there 😁
she removed the top comment that was explaining the situation unbiasedly :)
She also put the recent vids about the lawsuit and the eviction notice vid on private. Probably at the advice of her lawyers.
@@InfamyJunkie ofcourse , I would do the same thing. good luck to her, but shes losing the case 95%, her lawyer ofcourse said "ofcourse we will win bla bla bla pay me $ X AMOUNT, shes forgetting appeals court ? and then supreme court? im really interested after the case is over, if she does a breakdown of howmuch it cost her to go through all 3 levels of the court to just lose.
what did the comment say?
@@laurale6712 the landlord sent her a document stating that if she goes ahead with the repairs all costs incurred are on her, and he reserves the right to receive the property back in its original condition.
@@kokojinusa8393e's right. this girl should stick to food vids, which i guess is why people started watching (even though she absolutely butchered a few italian dishes). the ego/privilege and immaturity make this channel really cringeworthy
I’m also going through a tough time right now and watching your journey with the restaurant definitely makes me feel less alone. Our car was stolen, I’m getting kicked out of my apartment because my landlord wants to move back in, fighting with my insurance company over clerical mistakes on their end- it’s definitely all out of our control sometimes. Life is definitely not easy sometimes but it happens to everyone and it’s less about eliminating the stressors than it is about finding healthy ways to work through them. You are doing a great job and I can’t wait to see how everything turns out after renovations!! ❤❤❤🎉
I’m so sorry! I went through something similar. Getting put out of your home stinks!! I hope things get better for you soon 👍🏼
Can't wait to see it all finished. We're rooting for both you and Kevin, Tina!
I LOVE SEEING KEVIN BE MORE INTERACTIVE WITH THE CAMERA!!! "HEY GUYS!!!!!!!""" HEY KEV!!!!
Way to power up and power through Doobs when things started to feel like they were stacked against you. Congrats on your progress from another fellow female entrepreneur. Stay strong, the maturity and capabilities you gain on this journey are necessary life lessons and will prove game-changing for you regardless. You’ll thrive from this experience when you reach the key milestones on this path that life has in store for you, and you can breathe, look back, and celebrate your courage through it all…🎉
It's nice seeing Kevin comfortable with the camera and us. I hope he likes everything!
I worked at Costco Corp outside of Seattle for almost 30 yrs before I retired a few months ago, I find your shopping experience so relatable for everyone. Did you tell Kevin you were shopping at Costco for 4 and wink at him 😅. I liked what you did with the cold chicken, did the sauce have chocolate in it?
Waving from Seattle. Hi neighbor💕
the dish is called bibimyeon!
@@calicotree_ thanks
I'm wondering what the neighbours might have thought watching Kevin sneak into the building and then the alarms going off😂😂😂
It’s awesome to also see the funny side of your relationship after all this shit you went through. Also love seeing how Kevin is getting more comfortable in front of the camera! Keep going you guys
I don't understand how people act sometimes and they even think they're on the right side, but getting a lawyer was a good idea. Keep going ❤️💪
9:01 Oh no not your licence plate 😭 censor thattt
It’s so nice to see that you still have fun. I hope you can solve this asap, and keep having fun with your team
lol kevin trying to get candy
Its cute to see Kevin in the sketch kind of bit and the end there hehe loved it
How to trap a Kevin: Set out a trail of rhubarb, candy, and rhubarb candy.
im dead HAHAHHA
@@Doobydobap hahah don’t die [yet] before giving this a trial run! A test must be done because--you know, scientific entertainment purposes 🥸🔍
I love your bangs pushed aside like this and forming a middle part. It’s so cute!
You're videos bring me so much peace and joy. Keep going tina!!
eufy just had a controversy for their controversial practices with how unsafe user camera footage was, and it was quite available to access online, stay safe out there girlie!! also love your content
Yeah I was just about to say Eufy? More like Oofy your entire CCTV footage is available to everyone. It took Anker too long to admit their mistakes.
@@eyb0ss as a brand i love anker, i buy their soundcore headphones and their products are just top-tier for a chinese company on amazon, but this was actually massive bc eufy was a great competitor to Nest and Ring before this due to cross-platform compatibility. what a shame though
Saul always comes in clutch when it comes to legal advice
Each time I watch one of your vlogs Tina I feel like I'm watching an episode of my favorite series 👏❤️
“Don’t drink and drive, but if you do call me.”
Bless your soul for powering through... protect yourself energetically too, but the cameras are a boss move
Hi dooby! the license plate of the your car is visible (parking lot of Costco)... not sure how safe is that for you and possible crazy fans?
I hope everything goes well with the landlord and the place. Have a great day and week!
That Kevin outro was gold
That perfect way to put noodles in the pan, tina i m now a fannnn! 💜
Dooby you have to destroy the horcruxes in order to defeat he who must not be named.
top-notch advertising level 💯
Thanks for sharing your journey! Wishing you well and for somehow to have a peaceful resolution. The landlord should just admit he was making a mistake and open up opportunities for peaceful settlement. So that you can do what u do best. So difficult but at least ur staying true to your goals
i wish kevin would have his own channel with his bunch of silliness
I read the first text as "it's better to SELL than sorry"
I can't mention the way my heart skipped a loud beat, almost killing me💀
I’m a little concerned about your safety letting the public in on so much information. But you are incredibly smart and savvy so I will try not to worry. I can’t imagine being this brave and savvy at such a young age. You are a marvel, Tina. You deserve all the success you have and will achieve. Rooting for you.
You guys wearing all black and working makes it look like you are on a serious mission 😂...... Just like thriller mystery dramas
Me: "Oh a dooby vlog, that should be safe to watch at work."
Dooby: Starts twerking upside down and pushes her chest into the camera.
Seems like you're doing pretty great lately. We wish you all the best in life. Keep making great content.
Dooby’s videos feel more and more like a french docuseries with every episode hahahah
Saul Goodman , speedy justice for you.
This is off topic, but could you do a video that takes a look into hydroponic farming? I think it would be a great fit into Korean Society given how urban it is, it seems the idea hasn’t spread over there yet.
Best of luck with everything! I believe in yall.
Why don't you look for another place to start your restaurant? Just give up on earlier monetary losses that you have put in and leave the constant issues that your landlord keeps impinging on you...
Leave and leave that landlord's toxicity behind
I’m so happy that you didn’t lose your property ❤ so now I can see your success 🎉
I also think this person is giving you a hard time due to who you are. but nevertheless we persevere through adversity. rooting for you. I want to visit Korea because of you .
She’s no one tbh
oh you big mad no one knows you ?
@@adeezyy8 stay triggered hahahahaha 😂
Yes, to visit her restaurant
@@thunderlei1851 i don’t know you to be triggered 😊
finally you changed your hairstyle, I love this one
I laughed so hard with the camera intro hahahaha
I had a good job until my boss accused me of stealing! I better call saul!
I’m so proud of you I hope to see how the place ends up!!!
better call dooby
Love to see you stay positive girl 🍒❤️🔥
I love you Dooby! Keep on keeping on! You're doing amazing, as you always do. Keep your head up. Even if this place doesn't work, another will come around. Maybe even a better spot. Stay positive and good things will come.
Nice ending .
hopefully , down the road , if you think it will be beneficial , you'll be able to extend an olive branch to this person since he'll be your quasi-business partner and not let the cloud of animus cause continued skirmishes between you two on top of trying to get your business off the ground to running day-to-day operations.
Keep goin dooby!!! we’re rooting for u & Kevin🥰🥰
Place is starting to look good 😊 I would’ve did your plumbing for one of your sushi bowls 😋🙏
We're rooting for you and Kevin!! Keep it going and I wish you the best of luck ♡♡
Nice edit hahaha!
Things are coming up nicely with the store 😃
Kevin: I WANT TO EAT A FREAKING PIZZA FOR ONCE IM SO SICK OF NOODLES AND RICE
So good to see you becoming a sprout from a seedling . Keep going and growing
And I know that your restaurant is going to turn out ✨ AMAZING ✨
hello from singapore, i just went to korea for the first time and i loved it. i will pray for your shop to be open so that i can come and visit
This was so uplifting
She's so pretty and talented and fun to watch
the pink venom piano 😍😍😍
This channel always give me hope and satisfaction, keep going👍
all black outfits when having cold noodles was cool
the kitty shed a tear
Dunno why but the plants sound like chocolate cake to me😂
shame?, thats a normal costco cart hehehe
That place was so run down, I wouldn't bother leasing it on the first place. I would suggest you find funding to purchase it. This would removes so much negativity of the place due to the obnoxious landlord.
Lesgooooo doobie!!! Rooting for ya ♡
The title got me the title got me oh yeah it was a funny title it made me giggle and squiggle
The ending got me
조물주 아래 건물주 상대로 노력하는 모습보고 응원하고 있숩니다!! 빨리 레스토랑에 가고 싶어요 ㅎㅎㅎㅎㅎ
Sending positive energy your way 💟💟
Oh Kevin started to appear more and more every video, wish you both good luck from God and his blessing in your restaurant and that "the person" to get an electric shock 🙃 and that scene of the POV you are me CCTV I felt I know that scene because it just happened with me🤭🤣🤣
☠️☠️🤣🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 pov cctv man is my fav part
You can do it! Excited to see you get to the end :)
Should have gotten the eufycam s330 solar so you don't have to charge the camera.
your ending theme sounds like katamari damacy
LOL. If you have Eufy security cameras then the strangers are watching you, also.
The rock music in chapter 1 is lit! What soundtrack?
The end of the video 😅👌 perfeito. Honestly is the landlord trying to pull a card on you, in with he, will kick you out and get a new renovate home? That's what it sounds like
Nothing feels better than seeing a scumbag of human society gets taken down from top of the world to the bottom of the pit. Definitely get full compensation for both your time and money with this case, Dooby! That landlord should be revoked from his ownership and go to jail for trying to pull this sketchy crap on a tenant, especially after a full renovation of the place.
Imagine that this guy is the can in kick a can AND YOU KICK THAT CAN!!
the blackpink bg music in the beginning
when i come to korea ill be dining in your restaurant
How good are the Costco Rotisserie Chickens, a must on every visit, how do they make it sooooooooo good :)
better call Seul
tina, kepp going gorl
is no bangs tina finally back
IN THE END THERE IS KEVIN WEARING KYEDAE MERCH??????? HE PLAYS VAL?
The title got me 😁
your using eufy? Havent you heard of the lawsuit and stuff going on?
Amazing! I'm happy for You! You'll go far! Enjoy the 'journey'! 😊👏
Kevin saying eunseo plsss hahaha so excited to one day visit Seoul and see the final Product of you guys’ hard work🤍