My favorite part was the connecting reactions to childhood experiences (trauma). My least favorite was the censor bleeps - they are very loud. Perhaps just mute the audio, not insert a disruptive sound.
That trauma establishes itself in your nervous system and is unconscious and it can be as simple as low level negative family patterns, like tension and fights at dinner time - my husband loses his mind when interrupted and feels like he is unheard, now I will pause a little and try to understand his reaction now, without logic but with more understanding. Also witnessing myself a lot at the moment and this has added another layer to watch myself through. Love both of you, so this was wonderful...x
5 second rule changed my life! I no longer procrastinate for days on end now its only minutes at a time. I still do it but just not as long. Mel has taught me that my anxiety is my superpower & I no longer let it ruin or run my life. This woman is a powerhouse & I'm so grateful to have her as a teacher 🙏🏻❤
Hey, Lewis. You're great and I love all your content. I just want to let you know that interrupting someone with ADHD (as Mel has said she has) is really frustrating for us because it takes us a while to access our thoughts amidst the chaos, and being interrupted puts us back to square one. What Mel said in the interview about exploding when interrupted is a very normal thing for us and it's something everyone I know with ADHD is constantly battling against (we don't mean to explode!). When asking someone with ADHD a question, give them a few minutes before interjecting again. It may seem that we haven't grasped the original question but we most likely have and are just trying to articulate all of the thoughts racing around our heads :)
Great to hear Mel Robbins talking about being a ‘bulldozer’, I have often struggled to hear her messages as her teaching style always made me feel bulldozed. To hear her talking in this way, sharing more of herself and being so open about how she is still in ‘lacking mentality’ as well as about her trauma has opened my heart to her. Thank you, Lewis, for having such a show and being open to share of yourself too. Love and Peace to you both 🌹
In this one interview Mel just made me realise that things I remember from my childhood can be called trauma and are significant to how I act and think about myself. I always thought that it was something wrong with me for feeling certain way and kept blaming myself but now I see there is a deeper reason. Thank you both for your conversation❤️
This is the most refreshing, honest conversation I have heard in such a long time. I love you two together. I resonated with Mel soooo much. I absolutely love her. I’ve been listening to her for years. As I grow up and I develop and as I become more of who I want to be. Her teaching no has hit better and better with time and with progression.
Thank you Lewis and Mel, this episode starts from 7:58 from the rock bottom hit you, it will bounce. When the whole will went upside down you always can make it right, when 1 chapter-end you always have the power to write a new one. When your friends leave you, you have yourself to love you and support yourself,. I been through this rock bottom and I realized the most powerful things is myself. and I am so grateful for my parents who gave me this powerful body and brain. i am thank you for what i have been through the last 2 years, and i so lucky that youtube brought me to Lewis channel. i love your show, i love the great people that you had interview. I felt i am not alone, so long i am not going to give up. My new chapter of my life will start. I never meet these great people and you (Lewis), however, Elivia would like to say THANK YOU THANK YOU much love to everyone. Muack i learn a lot from your yourtube.
I couldn't finish listening to this, to be honest. She definitely has that day time talk show energy in which there is a touch of narcissism under the guise of being helpful; privileged but with a side-elbow of "look, I'm still relatable". This is good material as a starter pack into self-development for people who have never delved into that before, but there is so much more. Like people who think they understand law of attraction after watching the secret.
Lewis I am your fan man, you have a great personality .…..but now you invited Mel Robbins my woman crush. She speak from the heart without emotions ……#great interview indeed
I've learned to love myself using EFT/tapping. I'm 41. It's changed everything. Had depression, anxiety, CFS, done hypnotherapy, meditating, had therapy... but until you love yourself, nothing will change.
@@NextLevelMeNow there are many videos /instructors on TH-cam but I find this channel has the clearest instructions. th-cam.com/video/pAclBdj20ZU/w-d-xo.html
Great Pause for yourself during this s* show pandemic! I loved - hit bottom and bounce ! Our life is so rushed... what is important taking care of yourself and loved ones ! It’s all inside of ourselves what we truly need it!
Much love and appreciation for this space you and Mel created, Lewis. Let’s continue to do the self work we need to in order to heal ourselves and our planet. 🙏🏾
Wow. Almost wasn't going to listen to this. But turned it on while traveling and so glad I did. Will comment more later when I have a few minutes to say what I found most useful. But man, I ALWAYS get something valuable from listening to Mel. She's incredibly grounding. Thanks so much Lewis. Was interesting to hear some of your story too in your talking with her.
What I just thought when I heard you talking about abuse and people-pleasing: experiences in life, especially heavy unexpected ones, often shape your perception of yourself, your perception of worth, etc. But I just feel that we have tremendous power to give the opinion that was thrust upon us back and choose another every day. Abusers e.g. only abuse out of some kind of negativity/inadequacy/self-hatred, whatever it is. It says all about them, nothing about their victims. It is their decision. So in the long run, despite the actual traceable trauma, we can choose whether we accept their self-perception as an opinion of ourselves. And thus whether we multiply negativity or don't.
Love Mel Robbins! She's so real and doesn't sugar coat the truth. I like her perspective regarding Courage/Fear and Confidence/Self Doubt. Lewis you're awesome too! Keep being you! I hope to meet you both one day!
so raw and authentic. This is the first time I really connected with Mel Robbins. Thank you for being real!! I believe we make our biggest impact when we show up as we ARE instead of how we want others to see us.
First of all, you both are amazing, real and appreciate you both and your channel, Lewis...I visit often! Learned tons from this talk and related to everything you discussed! You are both brilliant and the cohesion, ease and your understanding of one another made for great listening. I didn’t want the conversations or the subjects to end. Thanks for being you and being here for us all in “TH-cam” land especially during these times! Much peace and love to everyone! Keep growing, keep learning and make a difference whereever you can. Be safe❣️
*You know what! This was so refreshing to see I'm not alone in feeling this way! You make so many great things happen and people around you tell you how great you are, yet you feel like you havnt done sh*t and wish you can do more! Mel is so real, and Lewis is so genuine in his responses! Thanks guys, God bless!*
Such a powerful reminder that I’m not alone in my fear. So good to hear a successful entrepreneur talk about self-doubt, a scarcity mindset, fear and hardwired beliefs. Timely for my new niche business launched mid-pandemic... feel the fear & live your purpose! Thanks Lewis & Mel x
Forwarded this today to family members as well. Self-doubt holding me back as well as being “busy”. These months have slowed me down w work but I see my business picking back up and I’m losing the knowledge-self awareness I had gained/learned/saw during these months. This smacked me right in the face today. I need to take the next step.
I was a victim of identity theft (hubby and I both)...we lost everything. Now, here I am at 55, starting completely over. We both were devastated. It's been almost 5 years and we still haven't gotten on our feet. I want to know how to get out of this hole. How do I go about creating my whole world when all around is chaos? Oh, there are so many questions I have. She triggered me when she said she has ADD, and anxiety. I do too. It amazes me how together she is.
Excellent interview. Thanks Lewis and thanks Mel for being so transparent. I appreciate the conversation so much. By the way, I have Mel’s book in audio, kindle and hardcover. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Two of my most favorite guys. I have a dream of one day sharing a stage with Mel and being interviewed by Lewis. I relate a lot to your life story. After losing all my life savings and hitting rock bottom I had to learn what it really matters in life and how to reinvent myself. Keep inspiring people Lewis and Mel!!!!
Loved this & Mrs. Mel is so very real & puts a wonderful sense of humor into hard lessons. She lived it she learned & now shares, that’s a hero. Thank you both you guys rock!
Mel Robins is always so insightful! Heard a lot of great advice in this episode that I can apply in the current situation where I am constantly facing self-doubt and deep anxiety. Even though start practicing meditation it seems like it will never go away. I hope it would be as easy as it sounds.
Lewis Ma Man!! You bring such amazing people on your show, I am always looking forward to your podcast, I have learned so much, its unbelievable and your podcasts are super interesting, great work :) Thank you!! God Bless.
I am grateful for having given myself the time to listen to this today! Or should I say night cause I’m in Spain visiting my parents and grandma. Wow! It’s funny how the law of attraction works. As I was mixing some Bach flowers and getting a self reiki session to worki on some self doubts As I’m trying to believe in myself to finish flight school..... I saw a notification and I felt drawn to it! what I liked best of this interview? Let’s just say i noticed it was on repeat and I watched it all over again. 🤩so the whole interview was a gem to me. I read about 46 books a year on self help or power of the mind since 1998 because I’m a bookworm. I love acquiring skills to work on and grow and that’s what I share with the world and ofc Ii already read your book and Mel’s and yours, and loved them both, but I really found this video and realized I have been gifted with this treasure of self help knowledge! Thank you both for sharing this! Gracias! Gracias! Gracias!
love the name of the new podcast... What the mel?... Always love her wisdow, thanks lewis for this content... amazing your podcast always help me in some dark moments, I can not thank you enough.... God bless you and every person you interview.
Love you both! What a great episode. All so true. The realness and vulnerability ❤ And Mel's mum! It never even occurred to me that some people may not want to grow. This has opened my mind. Thanks guys!❤
This was really great! The parts I liked best were about overcoming self-doubt since I suffer from that. And that you have to love yourself because even if you achieve the celebrity status, it won't be enough if you don't love yourself. That was a good reminder of that. I listen to your Podcasts all the time.
When she mentioned that she gets angry when she gets interrupted , I imagined him thinking "let me make sure she's completely done talking before i respond " 😂😂😂
It's interesting how Mel talks about personal agency & self-created boundaries and undoing past stories, but spends the end of the interview talking about groups of people allowing others to dictate ones actions/thoughts, overall fear, and maybe worries of rejection. Also not sure what public policy allows murder and what can be done differently. #notwhitehere
At 64 years young African American, and still can’t seem to educate myself. To know that something in my past happen, being told Stupid, I never make since in what I’m trying to say, need to go back to school. These words were told to me, and I still can’t get it together. Fire from a job, lost my husband of 28 years, sitting at home drinking everyday, always finding things that pisses me off always yelling, always giving my opinionI, want to break these patterns. Love to hear from you🤷🏽♀️
Great interview! Love Mel! She always brings the fire! Quick question...In this day and age are there too many adult listeners offended with "passionate language"? Hearing the "bleeps" tells me the demographic needs to be coddled.
I, unfortunately, did review the whole video of George being tortured, now it is burned in my heart and hard to let the vision go. My statement on my facebook page basically states with the viewing of the whole video, the killing was intentional, not once did George try to struggle, it was without a doubt the police officers intention was to use George as an example of whose ego is larger than another, for those who did the video and onlookers. The other police officers chanted to George, "who is the big man now" not sure if that is exact words anymore, I do not want to ever view that video again but just trust me the whole incident, the officer who did the choking must be tried for murder and the other police officers chanting egging on the officer doing the choking must be tried for manslaughter at a minimal. We need to set an example to the system NO ONE WILL TOLERATE THE KILLINGS ANYMORE! The officers need to be tried as examples for all of the police systems they cannot kill anyone, especially intentionally as George was. What is even more God awful, the officers did not even try to resuscitate George, they dragged his limp body towards the gurney disrespectfully. I normally do not comment on these kinds of events, but omg enough is enough, the last choking it was said there will be a change in police policy, it was just words...no more words there must be action, period.
@Paul Newcomb Paul, I respect your comment, however before you make your assumption, view the video, George never made any struggle, none whatsoever from the beginning when the police first placed handcuffs on George and no struggle till his death. When you view the video the police officer doing the choking and the police officer's egging on the one doing the choking, the one doing the choking looked straight at the onlookers and the one taking the video with no concern over their cries to let George breath and George begging I can't breath. Now, when these police officers go to trial, they will need individuals such as yourself to provide any doubt on the jury. So you go ahead and keep your stand in your belief, without judgment. However, again, watch the video in its entirety. The only reason, only reason I even viewed the video was I wanted to see for myself if it was an accident. Without making an assumption towards your comment what is in your head or heart for the experience George endured, I did not want to believe anything lessor then it was an accident. It was not, how the officer looked at the onlookers.......it was my job as a mediator, I am trained (and it is my intuitive nature) I had to and still do read people for their truth what I say is how I believe it.
For others and their views comments towards me personally, this will be my last response I will provide, this is "my" stand and the officer is going to be very lucky I would not be chosen for the jury. I am George's voice, just like Beloved abused animals I am their voice and I stand by this!
I was called into a new boss’s office 1 day after 9 successful years & told I was being laid off due to “ financial reasons” He didn’t like me & I intensely didn’t like him. I believe to this day he was an anti semite because of many comments he had made to me before he knew I was Jewish but couldn’t prove it. Left me in a terrible financial situation & cannot get a reference from him for a new “job”. That was 2017. Am now 73.
Lewis, you have great guest, so, let me ask you a question. Why do they and you talk about the negatives of your past, is it to sell the positive? Have you ever had a guest who talked about the positive and never about the negative? Woulda book sell itself, if, there were only good positive words in it?
Mel, I want to start off by saying that I think you are an amazing woman. You are intelligent and kind hearted and determined. You have honestly helped me through many issues in my life. But I have to tell you that you need to stop talking about race. Black people are not the only people to grow up with trauma and bigotry. Black people are not the only people to grow up in extremely poor environments that caused trauma. I wish the world would stop talking about color. In my opinion, I feel that that is still creating racism in the world. We need to look at each other like humans and that is it. Color does not matter. All colors have had issues. I know several black families that have grown up better off and without trauma in comparison to several white families. Please keep doing what you’re doing but leave race/color out of it.
What was your favorite part of the interview?
My favorite part was the connecting reactions to childhood experiences (trauma).
My least favorite was the censor bleeps - they are very loud. Perhaps just mute the audio, not insert a disruptive sound.
Love Mel Robbin's raw honesty in this episode
Explaining how trauma is not just from conflicts of war. The way she explained That AA’s have live in unrealized trauma.
That trauma establishes itself in your nervous system and is unconscious and it can be as simple as low level negative family patterns, like tension and fights at dinner time - my husband loses his mind when interrupted and feels like he is unheard, now I will pause a little and try to understand his reaction now, without logic but with more understanding. Also witnessing myself a lot at the moment and this has added another layer to watch myself through. Love both of you, so this was wonderful...x
5 second rule changed my life! I no longer procrastinate for days on end now its only minutes at a time. I still do it but just not as long. Mel has taught me that my anxiety is my superpower & I no longer let it ruin or run my life. This woman is a powerhouse & I'm so grateful to have her as a teacher 🙏🏻❤
Mel Robbins always has so many insightful lessons to share. Great content, as usual!
Hey, Lewis. You're great and I love all your content. I just want to let you know that interrupting someone with ADHD (as Mel has said she has) is really frustrating for us because it takes us a while to access our thoughts amidst the chaos, and being interrupted puts us back to square one. What Mel said in the interview about exploding when interrupted is a very normal thing for us and it's something everyone I know with ADHD is constantly battling against (we don't mean to explode!). When asking someone with ADHD a question, give them a few minutes before interjecting again. It may seem that we haven't grasped the original question but we most likely have and are just trying to articulate all of the thoughts racing around our heads :)
Great to hear Mel Robbins talking about being a ‘bulldozer’, I have often struggled to hear her messages as her teaching style always made me feel bulldozed. To hear her talking in this way, sharing more of herself and being so open about how she is still in ‘lacking mentality’ as well as about her trauma has opened my heart to her. Thank you, Lewis, for having such a show and being open to share of yourself too. Love and Peace to you both 🌹
In this one interview Mel just made me realise that things I remember from my childhood can be called trauma and are significant to how I act and think about myself. I always thought that it was something wrong with me for feeling certain way and kept blaming myself but now I see there is a deeper reason. Thank you both for your conversation❤️
I'm so happy that I stopped what I was doing to be truly present for this conversation. Very beneficial, impactful and encouraging 👏👏👏
This is the most refreshing, honest conversation I have heard in such a long time. I love you two together. I resonated with Mel soooo much. I absolutely love her. I’ve been listening to her for years. As I grow up and I develop and as I become more of who I want to be. Her teaching no has hit better and better with time and with progression.
I am 51 and yes the journey to loving yourself seems to be the key to so many things. Seems so easy to do but of course it's not.
Thank you Lewis and Mel, this episode starts from 7:58 from the rock bottom hit you, it will bounce. When the whole will went upside down you always can make it right, when 1 chapter-end you always have the power to write a new one. When your friends leave you, you have yourself to love you and support yourself,. I been through this rock bottom and I realized the most powerful things is myself. and I am so grateful for my parents who gave me this powerful body and brain. i am thank you for what i have been through the last 2 years, and i so lucky that youtube brought me to Lewis channel. i love your show, i love the great people that you had interview. I felt i am not alone, so long i am not going to give up. My new chapter of my life will start. I never meet these great people and you (Lewis), however, Elivia would like to say THANK YOU THANK YOU much love to everyone. Muack i learn a lot from your yourtube.
I couldn't finish listening to this, to be honest. She definitely has that day time talk show energy in which there is a touch of narcissism under the guise of being helpful; privileged but with a side-elbow of "look, I'm still relatable". This is good material as a starter pack into self-development for people who have never delved into that before, but there is so much more. Like people who think they understand law of attraction after watching the secret.
Loved it all! Mel Robbins would make the perfect American President! xx
Lewis I am your fan man, you have a great personality .…..but now you invited Mel Robbins my woman crush. She speak from the heart without emotions ……#great interview indeed
So grateful I’ve found both of you ♥️.. had I had access earlier. Thank you TH-cam too!
I've learned to love myself using EFT/tapping. I'm 41. It's changed everything. Had depression, anxiety, CFS, done hypnotherapy, meditating, had therapy... but until you love yourself, nothing will change.
Are there videos you can recommend?
@@NextLevelMeNow there are many videos /instructors on TH-cam but I find this channel has the clearest instructions.
th-cam.com/video/pAclBdj20ZU/w-d-xo.html
So refreshing to hear you, Mel Robbins, feel the way you do...helps me understand myself ...feelings of feeling unworthy....powerful admissions
Great Pause for yourself during this s* show pandemic! I loved - hit bottom and bounce !
Our life is so rushed... what is important taking care of yourself and loved ones !
It’s all inside of ourselves what we truly need it!
Much love and appreciation for this space you and Mel created, Lewis. Let’s continue to do the self work we need to in order to heal ourselves and our planet. 🙏🏾
🙏 🙏 🙏
I swear this woman speaks to me everytime...always self evaluating
59:58
Love what she said here. Confidence isn’t something you feel, it’s something you do!
Wow. Almost wasn't going to listen to this. But turned it on while traveling and so glad I did. Will comment more later when I have a few minutes to say what I found most useful. But man, I ALWAYS get something valuable from listening to Mel. She's incredibly grounding. Thanks so much Lewis. Was interesting to hear some of your story too in your talking with her.
What I just thought when I heard you talking about abuse and people-pleasing: experiences in life, especially heavy unexpected ones, often shape your perception of yourself, your perception of worth, etc.
But I just feel that we have tremendous power to give the opinion that was thrust upon us back and choose another every day.
Abusers e.g. only abuse out of some kind of negativity/inadequacy/self-hatred, whatever it is. It says all about them, nothing about their victims. It is their decision.
So in the long run, despite the actual traceable trauma, we can choose whether we accept their self-perception as an opinion of ourselves. And thus whether we multiply negativity or don't.
Mel Robbins is sooo inspirational!
Thank you Lewis:-) you provide such a great service. You have one of the best channels on UTube.
Love Mel Robbins! She's so real and doesn't sugar coat the truth. I like her perspective regarding Courage/Fear and Confidence/Self Doubt. Lewis you're awesome too! Keep being you! I hope to meet you both one day!
Thank you so much, Danielle! Mel is the best!!
so raw and authentic. This is the first time I really connected with Mel Robbins. Thank you for being real!! I believe we make our biggest impact when we show up as we ARE instead of how we want others to see us.
Your interview with Mel literally changed my situation.... Thanks again for another one during this period...
Mel Robbins is great! I am SO in alignment with what she says!
I love the way this women speaks
Mel Robbins , speaking about addiction is speaking to my soul right now! This 'sista' nailed it 100%. Love her speech on it. Thank you.
First of all, you both are amazing, real and appreciate you both and your channel, Lewis...I visit often! Learned tons from this talk and related to everything you discussed! You are both brilliant and the cohesion, ease and your understanding of one another made for great listening. I didn’t want the conversations or the subjects to end. Thanks for being you and being here for us all in “TH-cam” land especially during these times! Much peace and love to everyone! Keep growing, keep learning and make a difference whereever you can. Be safe❣️
*You know what! This was so refreshing to see I'm not alone in feeling this way! You make so many great things happen and people around you tell you how great you are, yet you feel like you havnt done sh*t and wish you can do more! Mel is so real, and Lewis is so genuine in his responses! Thanks guys, God bless!*
Such a powerful reminder that I’m not alone in my fear. So good to hear a successful entrepreneur talk about self-doubt, a scarcity mindset, fear and hardwired beliefs. Timely for my new niche business launched mid-pandemic... feel the fear & live your purpose! Thanks Lewis & Mel x
You have the BEST interviews ever. I love your shows. It helps me in every aspect of my life. Thank you 🙏 😊 ♥️
AMAZING. I just downloaded The 5 Second Rule. Can't wait to listen! Both of you are changing so many lives. THANK YOU
It’s the best. Sounds sort of craxy but it sooo works
The book is very very good!
"I want to have more fun" - thanks for saying that.
Forwarded this today to family members as well. Self-doubt holding me back as well as being “busy”. These months have slowed me down w work but I see my business picking back up and I’m losing the knowledge-self awareness I had gained/learned/saw during these months. This smacked me right in the face today. I need to take the next step.
I have listened to both of you several times before. Mel, it takes courage to show off your insecurities. It was very touching experience!!
I was a victim of identity theft (hubby and I both)...we lost everything. Now, here I am at 55, starting completely over. We both were devastated. It's been almost 5 years and we still haven't gotten on our feet. I want to know how to get out of this hole.
How do I go about creating my whole world when all around is chaos? Oh, there are so many questions I have. She triggered me when she said she has ADD, and anxiety. I do too. It amazes me how together she is.
Excellent interview. Thanks Lewis and thanks Mel for being so transparent. I appreciate the conversation so much. By the way, I have Mel’s book in audio, kindle and hardcover. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Two of my absolutely favorite people together! This is so great!!! ❤
This was one of the best interviews I have listened to in a long time. Thank you so much.
You're welcome,thank you for being here 💜
Authentic with a big A ! Love it.
'What the Mel??!!!' LOVE IT and Love both of you!
Being willing to try despite self-doubt is not confidence, it's perseverance.
Two of my most favorite guys. I have a dream of one day sharing a stage with Mel and being interviewed by Lewis. I relate a lot to your life story. After losing all my life savings and hitting rock bottom I had to learn what it really matters in life and how to reinvent myself.
Keep inspiring people Lewis and Mel!!!!
Hi Lewis, thank you for your service! A conversation with Esther Hicks would be a conversation I’d deeply appreciate listening to, Kind regards☯️
Love Esther!!!!!
Love Esther as well, agreed!!!!🙏❤️
Loved this & Mrs. Mel is so very real & puts a wonderful sense of humor into hard lessons. She lived it she learned & now shares, that’s a hero. Thank you both you guys rock!
I really love Mel.
Oh wow. At first glance of your comment, it appeared to read, "I really love Me!" 😄
I love that Mel is so real ❤️
Lewis is a master of interviews. I'm loving this
Thank you so much, Shawn! Appreciate you.
FANTASTIC MEL AND AMAZING LEWIS AS USUAL...THANK YOU...RIGHT ON!!!!!!!!!!!!
Very useful info to me Mel Robins
I totally resonate with you
Thanku for being so honest with everything you do
From a Mel to another Mel.. I Love Her..
This was great and hilarious! I had never heard so many BLEEEPS on your show before! Love the authenticity!
Finally the one and only Mel Robbins 🤩 thank you for this! Lots of love from Prague Czech republic 💜🧚
Mel Robins is always so insightful! Heard a lot of great advice in this episode that I can apply in the current situation where I am constantly facing self-doubt and deep anxiety. Even though start practicing meditation it seems like it will never go away. I hope it would be as easy as it sounds.
Awesome content 👏 the best I have heard in a while. Thank you for sharing yourself and your teachings, it's truly a blessing 😍
This is probably my favorite mel.robbins interview ever.
Lewis Ma Man!!
You bring such amazing people on your show, I am always looking forward to your podcast, I have learned so much, its unbelievable and your podcasts are super interesting, great work :)
Thank you!!
God Bless.
Ouch beeps hit a nerve..would love to watch it all the way through. Is a great interview subject.
This woman is brilliant 😌👌💟
I am grateful for having given myself the time to listen to this today! Or should I say night cause I’m in Spain visiting my parents and grandma. Wow! It’s funny how the law of attraction works. As I was mixing some Bach flowers and getting a self reiki session to worki on some self doubts As I’m trying to believe in myself to finish flight school..... I saw a notification and I felt drawn to it!
what I liked best of this interview? Let’s just say i noticed it was on repeat and I watched it all over again. 🤩so the whole interview was a gem to me.
I read about 46 books a year on self help or power of the mind since 1998 because I’m a bookworm. I love acquiring skills to work on and grow and that’s what I share with the world and ofc Ii already read your book and Mel’s and yours, and loved them both, but I really found this video and realized I have been gifted with this treasure of self help knowledge! Thank you both for sharing this! Gracias! Gracias! Gracias!
*30 seconds in an the message is already slapping* I was just reverberating these thoughts during an interview earlier today! Wow 😅
I love Mel so very much always articulates and makes life situations crystal clear,what needs to be faced..Thank you Mel and Lewis💞
If I could like it a million times, I would!!!
love the name of the new podcast... What the mel?... Always love her wisdow, thanks lewis for this content... amazing your podcast always help me in some dark moments, I can not thank you enough.... God bless you and every person you interview.
Love you both! What a great episode. All so true. The realness and vulnerability ❤ And Mel's mum! It never even occurred to me that some people may not want to grow. This has opened my mind. Thanks guys!❤
Amazing!!! Thank you so much
So welcome! Thanks for watching!
Great content. Thank Lewis and Mel. Stay safe, mask up and stay safe👍❤😷🙏
This was really great! The parts I liked best were about overcoming self-doubt since I suffer from that. And that you have to love yourself because even if you achieve the celebrity status, it won't be enough if you don't love yourself. That was a good reminder of that. I listen to your Podcasts all the time.
I just love every time that Mel is talking! 😍
MEL FOR PRESIDENT PLEASE
She is amazing! 😍
Really wonderful discussions
Lewis is the SWEETEST guy. Love him
GREAT VIDEO LEWIS THANKS FOR SHARING I REALLY LIKE MEL!
Wow the interview I was waitin for🙌😍✨
That sounds like CBS. CBS seriously needs new management. Love you guys!
This was so Rich! Thank you! 👏 clap
When she mentioned that she gets angry when she gets interrupted , I imagined him thinking "let me make sure she's completely done talking before i respond " 😂😂😂
Lol yeah! 😂
It's interesting how Mel talks about personal agency & self-created boundaries and undoing past stories, but spends the end of the interview talking about groups of people allowing others to dictate ones actions/thoughts, overall fear, and maybe worries of rejection. Also not sure what public policy allows murder and what can be done differently. #notwhitehere
This was exceptional ✨
Love it, really resonated with me.
Love you both ❤️❤️
Oh my gosh. Yes!!! 🎤 Thank you for this!!
Mel I fucking love you, lewis you are an inspiration love your work love this channel.
At 64 years young African American, and still can’t seem to educate myself. To know that something in my past happen, being told Stupid, I never make since in what I’m trying to say, need to go back to school. These words were told to me, and I still can’t get it together. Fire from a job, lost my husband of 28 years, sitting at home drinking everyday, always finding things that pisses me off always yelling, always giving my opinionI, want to break these patterns. Love to hear from you🤷🏽♀️
The story of the flowers!!
Great interview! Love Mel! She always brings the fire! Quick question...In this day and age are there too many adult listeners offended with "passionate language"? Hearing the "bleeps" tells me the demographic needs to be coddled.
Great interview!
Great interview I really enjoyed it thank you so much for sharing beautiful 🌹♥️🌹
So welcome and thanks for tuning in, Shun!
WOW'🔮IT'S GREAT CONVERSATION LEWIS and MEL ROBBINS⭐#LOVE&SHINE ❤
Thank you so much for sharing this great interview Lewis❤
Both"Godbless❤
I, unfortunately, did review the whole video of George being tortured, now it is burned in my heart and hard to let the vision go. My statement on my facebook page basically states with the viewing of the whole video, the killing was intentional, not once did George try to struggle, it was without a doubt the police officers intention was to use George as an example of whose ego is larger than another, for those who did the video and onlookers. The other police officers chanted to George, "who is the big man now" not sure if that is exact words anymore, I do not want to ever view that video again but just trust me the whole incident, the officer who did the choking must be tried for murder and the other police officers chanting egging on the officer doing the choking must be tried for manslaughter at a minimal. We need to set an example to the system NO ONE WILL TOLERATE THE KILLINGS ANYMORE! The officers need to be tried as examples for all of the police systems they cannot kill anyone, especially intentionally as George was. What is even more God awful, the officers did not even try to resuscitate George, they dragged his limp body towards the gurney disrespectfully. I normally do not comment on these kinds of events, but omg enough is enough, the last choking it was said there will be a change in police policy, it was just words...no more words there must be action, period.
@Paul Newcomb Paul, I respect your comment, however before you make your assumption, view the video, George never made any struggle, none whatsoever from the beginning when the police first placed handcuffs on George and no struggle till his death. When you view the video the police officer doing the choking and the police officer's egging on the one doing the choking, the one doing the choking looked straight at the onlookers and the one taking the video with no concern over their cries to let George breath and George begging I can't breath. Now, when these police officers go to trial, they will need individuals such as yourself to provide any doubt on the jury. So you go ahead and keep your stand in your belief, without judgment. However, again, watch the video in its entirety. The only reason, only reason I even viewed the video was I wanted to see for myself if it was an accident. Without making an assumption towards your comment what is in your head or heart for the experience George endured, I did not want to believe anything lessor then it was an accident. It was not, how the officer looked at the onlookers.......it was my job as a mediator, I am trained (and it is my intuitive nature) I had to and still do read people for their truth what I say is how I believe it.
For others and their views comments towards me personally, this will be my last response I will provide, this is "my" stand and the officer is going to be very lucky I would not be chosen for the jury. I am George's voice, just like Beloved abused animals I am their voice and I stand by this!
I was called into a new boss’s office 1 day after 9 successful years & told
I was being laid off due to “ financial reasons” He didn’t like me & I intensely didn’t like him.
I believe to this day he was an anti semite because of many comments he had made to me
before he knew I was Jewish but couldn’t prove it. Left me in a terrible financial situation
& cannot get a reference from him for a new “job”. That was 2017. Am now 73.
Holy shit this is a beautiful Interview!
Lewis, you have great guest, so, let me ask you a question. Why do they and you talk about the negatives of your past, is it to sell the positive?
Have you ever had a guest who talked about the positive and never about the negative?
Woulda book sell itself, if, there were only good positive words in it?
Oh totally about absorbing that chaotic energy and then that gets recreated over and over again in your life
All of it❤️
Wonderful interview, Lewis! Is there a transcript available?
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Sooo true!
I like you both
Mel, I want to start off by saying that I think you are an amazing woman. You are intelligent and kind hearted and determined. You have honestly helped me through many issues in my life. But I have to tell you that you need to stop talking about race. Black people are not the only people to grow up with trauma and bigotry. Black people are not the only people to grow up in extremely poor environments that caused trauma. I wish the world would stop talking about color. In my opinion, I feel that that is still creating racism in the world. We need to look at each other like humans and that is it. Color does not matter. All colors have had issues. I know several black families that have grown up better off and without trauma in comparison to several white families. Please keep doing what you’re doing but leave race/color out of it.