My heart is involved as well. I never felt anyone professional or parental cared at all. And now he seems to come from a new place of responsibility as a professional caring for others in the exact way that they need without trying to take advantage.
Thank goodness we don't have to invent the part of "the wheel" that Gabor has done for us. It would take us a lot longer. We actually have some essential precepts to work with to reconstruct what happened to us before and is happening to us now.
The trauma is in the freezing of our response in the body. I did a major disconnect from myself and my sense of my identity in this freezing activity. Now I have so much to sort out just to know who I am! Thank you, Dr. Mate. I listened to this a year ago but did not pick this up the way I have listening to this today. I am realizing I have been waiting for this kind of guidance for a long time..
When we become preys to our nearest, everything outside of it becomes child's play... thank you . I picked up the core idea.Much appreciated💕💭with Love.
My mother was depressed, ten children. My father successful, alcoholic, coercive NPD. Parentified, emotionally incested...I helped raise my 5 younger siblings. I excelled in school, gifted, straight A's, writing/art awards, 4-H blue ribbons, president of 8th grade. Wrote the class prophecies. Read class prophecies- Awards in H.S speech, College Art awards. Simultaneously, battled eating disorders, plastic surgery and although resilience and able to rebound- things got tricky & i never could sit still long enough to fully enjoy what I've been capable of achieving. Stumbling on family criticism- never allowing myself room for normal mistakes and imperfections. The aftermath- putting together the story like a million piece puzzle.
Everyone needs to understand that after a number of years of therapy sessions , these states can heal! Staying stuck on these channels is only beneficial for financial exploitation n greed. Unless one lives with a psychopath f n sis . I do. Thx.
I am curious to know if the epigenetic evidence passes through 7 generations? That would be interesting to me from the spirit-science connection currently seemingly ignored by being sciences and religions (religious terminology: the sins of the father....seven generations...) Thanks for any input !
It's not a big leap to say that our social heirarchy actually depends on trauma, and various responses - hence the shaming of addictive behaviours. To have an inequitable social heirarchy you need to have a proportion of the population suffering from trauma.
It needs it dysfunctional from putting capitalism and money first, having no culture, no identity, no value, no communalisn, no we love only self love, which is an island that destroys.
Geeze, I just can’t listen to the loooong. Blah. Blah. Blah of talks like this. Get to the point me who is a survivor of so much coukd share what you try to to ppl who woukd b3 helped. Your clinical types of talkies. Help no one
After yrs of seeking help without any results, listening to Dr. Gabor gives me hope that I might heal one day.
Time will heal you.
Dr.Gabor Maté, Thank you! ❤
My heart is involved as well. I never felt anyone professional or parental cared at all. And now he seems to come from a new place of responsibility as a professional caring for others in the exact way that they need without trying to take advantage.
Hearing these discussions are where my journey brought me here to you.
Thank goodness we don't have to invent the part of "the wheel" that Gabor has done for us. It would take us a lot longer. We actually have some essential precepts to work with to reconstruct what happened to us before and is happening to us now.
The trauma is in the freezing of our response in the body. I did a major disconnect from myself and my sense of my identity in this freezing activity. Now I have so much to sort out just to know who I am! Thank you, Dr. Mate. I listened to this a year ago but did not pick this up the way I have listening to this today. I am realizing I have been waiting for this kind of guidance for a long time..
This is excellent! I am so glad you got him to interview. He is instrumental in my hope for change in my life. Thank you!
A trick: watch movies on instaflixxer. I've been using them for watching lots of of movies lately.
@Ezequiel Russell definitely, I have been watching on instaflixxer for since november myself :D
When we become preys to our nearest, everything outside of it becomes child's play... thank you . I picked up the core idea.Much appreciated💕💭with Love.
My mother was depressed, ten children. My father successful, alcoholic, coercive NPD. Parentified, emotionally incested...I helped raise my 5 younger siblings. I excelled in school, gifted, straight A's, writing/art awards, 4-H blue ribbons, president of 8th grade. Wrote the class prophecies. Read class prophecies- Awards in H.S speech, College Art awards. Simultaneously, battled eating disorders, plastic surgery and although resilience and able to rebound- things got tricky & i never could sit still long enough to fully enjoy what I've been capable of achieving. Stumbling on family criticism- never allowing myself room for normal mistakes and imperfections. The aftermath- putting together the story like a million piece puzzle.
Everyone needs to understand that after a number of years of therapy sessions , these states can heal! Staying stuck on these channels is only beneficial for financial exploitation n greed. Unless one lives with a psychopath f n sis . I do. Thx.
I am curious to know if the epigenetic evidence passes through 7 generations? That would be interesting to me from the spirit-science connection currently seemingly ignored by being sciences and religions (religious terminology: the sins of the father....seven generations...) Thanks for any input !
It's not a big leap to say that our social heirarchy actually depends on trauma, and various responses - hence the shaming of addictive behaviours. To have an inequitable social heirarchy you need to have a proportion of the population suffering from trauma.
It needs it dysfunctional from putting capitalism and money first, having no culture, no identity, no value, no communalisn, no we love only self love, which is an island that destroys.
Tryin to prove me wrong? Why?
Geeze, I just can’t listen to the loooong. Blah. Blah. Blah of talks like this. Get to the point me who is a survivor of so much coukd share what you try to to ppl who woukd b3 helped. Your clinical types of talkies. Help no one