This was a difficult video to make. It's hard to admit that I was such a miserable and horrible man in my younger years. I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to learn more about me. Thank you.
Uber Man Thank u Randy for being so honest and open. I appreciate it u. I don't judge u on ur past. We're all imperfect ppl. We learn and we grow. Just continue to b a better u. Thank u for all u do. God bless u!
Wow, I was born in 1968, My father in 1950, and Your life was just about the life I have had as well. My childhood was a nightmare as well, especially while my father was around, but my Mom tried to make it palatable while he was working, but he had a problem with authority, so he lost many jobs because of his attitude. I was extremely abused emotionally, verbally, psychologically, physically, and sexually every day by him. He also knew how to give a beating so the bruises wouldn't show. I was only allowed to speak when spoken to, sit perfectly still with my hands on my thighs, and anything I said had better be minimal, and a generic polite response. I lived in fear of him killing me every day if I was not perfect, and did everything I was told to, and expected to do. I had to cook, clean, do laundry, take care of the house, and my two younger brothers all at 9 years old. In addition to that I was bullied and picked on in school every day, So I couldn't even find refuge in going to school. When I reached out to people I thought I could trust, they either didn't understand, couldn't believe it was true due to shock or didn't want to get involved. Once (DSS), as they call it in my area, came to the house. I thought I was saved, I thought this was it, my big chance to tell someone who would understand and save me. The (DSS) worker looked in the cabinets, the fridge, the bedrooms, and gave my father a business card. Then in front of my father, and everyone sitting in the living room, the social worker nonchalantly asked, "How are you", as if passing us on the street. My automatic response, which I was programmed to say, was "fine". I was never taken aside in private, nor asked any specific questions, which I was just bursting to tell them. So 'YES F-U (DSS)...Well at least I have had the same end result of strength, wisdom, overcoming, and character, thankfully by the grace of God!!!
Uber Man Titles, Insurance, Registration, leases, everything out of your name like yesterday. Go back and delete all the videos you made about your income and things you bought.
Sometimes ya just gotta talk to sort things all the shit in our heads in order find clarity. I got my ass whooped as a child. My Uncle James was no one to fuck with. However, we all have gifts and challenges in life from the moment we are born. We learn to overcome our challenges and our gifts become more prominent. Emotions are just energy; Its normal. Anyway, I'm super proud of you brother. Look at all of the success you've had thus far. Some people overcome and some are stuck. You should take a moment to actualize how great you are Randy. With age, comes experience in life and you wouldn't know everything you know today, if it weren't for everything you've been through.
It took a lot of guts to make this video, to talk about your past and yourself personally. My heart goes out to you and my hat comes off to you for what you have accomplished and who you have become. Don't give up Randy, don't ever let your present values leave you . I am listening to you while typing this, it is so hard to imagine a person having a horrible life like this, you my friend are a walking miracle. I wish the best for you, God knows you deserve it. B.G.
UBER MAN! We all have issues. It takes BALLS to fight through them. You had my RESPECT before this video. And now you have even MORE of my RESPECT after this video! I wonder if moving across the country to a different place with your lady, and her kids could be a healthy thing for yall to do? I wish you the BEST! STAY SAFE, and UBER ON!
Randy I hope you see this I've been watching your videos for about a year and they are very inspirational and always help me out.I never knew any of this except for the part with your son and im so sorry I never knew any of that I always imagined you had a decent childhood and always thought you were a very nice friendly person kind of like a teddy bear.Thank you for this video I don't want to know how tuff it was to make this. I hope in the last 3 years you've been able to get back into touch with your son and hopefully he overcame his mental Illness. Never change randy you don't know how greatly you affect people I've been up for 3 hours watching your older videos to learn more about you I learned so much I wish the best for you 🙏🙏🏻
That took a frack ton of guts to do. Ignore the haters. This puts you in a new light. A great light. Keep up the good fight and remember karma will get the haters.
I've been watching your videos for awhile now. This was by far the deepest and most thoughtful and sincere video you have made. It took a lot of courage and guts for you to make this video. I wish you the best my friend and keep your head up. You deserve the best that life has to offer.
I appreciate you Randy. I appreciate the fact that you took time to tell us things that you had no reason to share.Thank you for reaching out to so many people that have endured some of the same things that you have. All of us definitely have a story we could share but the best part is we have a God That Forgives us all and heals. us
Thank you for watching and commenting. I hoped me sharing my story could help others know there is someone that can relate. It helps to know we are not along in what we went through. It helps to talk and get it out in the open. I truly feel much better today.
Randy "Freaking" Shear. I couldn't stop watching. Much respect on even having the courage to make this video. You are a survivor, a fighter, an inspiration to never quit. Stay strong my friend.
I just want to say that your video touched my heart. I have nothing but respect for you after watching it. You are a strong person and I pray things work out. I've been following your videos since I started driving for Uber two months ago and they have helped and guided me so very much. Thank you for sharing your life story with us and I have no doubt that it will help someone see that life can never be so bad that you can't turn it around with determination and hard work. Sending prayers for you, your fiance', and her child. Take care.
Very proud that you posted this! I am sure it is very therapeutic for you. However I bet you have helped a ton of people and not even knowing it! People that can relate to what you have gone through will be able to use your experience to begin to perhaps start their own healing and changing process. Kudos to you for sharing!
I'm so sorry for everything you have been through and are going through. I have had similar childhood experiences, as has my husband. Though not quite the same level as what you went through. I really give you credit for turning out as well as you did, and putting forth the effort to change your life and be a good dad. I'm sorry you have so many problems with your ex and the kids. I truly hope everything works out in your favor and that your son gets the help he needs to live a normal life. I'm glad you have Jessica to be there for you. I know it's not easy to go through these things.
This happened multiple times where I expect things to turn around for the better and then you say "this is where it gets bad". I'm sorry for all that you had to go through. Stay strong.
Just watched this in 2021.you came a long way and have earned everything you have. Enjoy your hard work.Your story being told is a testament to the person you have become.This made me realize that I can/should be a better father myself.So thank you!!
Brave video. I apprecaite this channel and its valuable information. 2017 has been the year of truth, exposing, healing and moving forward. Just look at everything going on in America. But this channel has been helping tons of people daily Thanks dude
Your childhood practically mimics my deceased wife's. She also grew up in Mustang, OK. Crazy. And I'm so sorry you had a horrific childhood. The fact you have broken that cycle of abuse is a testament to the man you've become! My wife's ex got custody of their daughter AND he went behind everyone's back and gained child support from my wife's disability pay. You're having a very hard go at life since childhood. All you can really do at this point is turn to your Higher Power. I wish I could be of more help to you, but I support you and hope better things are in store for you.
Keep going man! From someone who had it really easy growing up (minus a messy divorce between my parents). Nothing even remotely close to what you went through. Keep trying to better yourself, and be proud as hell of what you accomplished!
Randy the man you are today is remarkable man considering what you've been through. I wish you strength and peace may your current relationship flourish and be ever lasting as you certainly deserve it. I for one are proud to be part of your TH-cam family. We respect every thing you do for us. I know at times it can't be easy with what you are going through. From the absolute bottom of my heart Thank you Randy. We Care about you. Thanks for the the insight in to your life. Little Aussie Follower
I was abused growing up as well, and so I do understand that side of growing up. When the people that are supposed to protect and nurture you are the ones responsible for the pain you experience, like you said so eloquently, it changes you...does things to you. You are very brave to tell your story and to lay bare your past and life here and to be the change you sought. Because of that, I find it hard to look at you and see the man you describe as being in the past, so that means you've done a wonderful job in changing, and you have become pretty awesome today. Big hugs, Randy!
You deserve happiness family and comfort these videos were recently recommended to me, so I never knew your personal life was like this. I love that you seem to stay motivated and happy. If I ever had the great opportunity to meet you I would love to give you a hug and chat up with you. Videos like these give me mad respect and something I would show as how to overcome adversity.
Thank you for sharing this story. You are blessed and fortunate to be here and giving us such good content despite the grim past. Hats off to you glad that is in the past bro, you are an awesome guy and I regularly watch your videos. Keep up the great work! Thank you.
I think just saying your story helps so many people in the same situation. Some people don't understand how this makes someone feel but with all of us watching this video it might want end up telling a story to someone else. You are one of my favorite You Tuber and give you a lot of respect. Thank you for your story.
Randy, your honesty and vulnerability and humilty in the face of all that you have gone through in your life is truly remarkable and admirable. I can relate to much of what you talked about. Thank you for sharing so much about yourself in spite of how much pain there has been in your life. Wishing you peace and light.
Hey Bro. I'm sorry you had to go through what you did growing up. It took a lot of courage to share your past like you did. Thank you for that. You're a good man Randy. Make sure your kids have a great life and learn from your past.
I think making this video must have been very cathartic and it took courage to go into all that. You're to be commended. You and I have something in common. My parents physically and emotionally abused me but my father was much worse than my mother. He would even draw blood on occasion but there was never an ounce of justification for any of it. I was the best child my parents ever hoped to have and if it hadn't been for all the teachers who loved me and made my life a joy during school hours I don't know where I would have been today. I grew up to finish college and I'm someone people come to for counseling and advice. I love who I am and I think all I went through helped make me who I am today. Even though I don't have one family member at all...everyone has passed over already...I know that I went through everything that happened for a reason. I admire you for getting all this out and I like you more than I did. Good going Randy!
It truly was. I am feeling much better and more motivated today. The positive comments are really lifting my spirits. My father always claimed my success as his own. He claimed if he hadn't been so hard on me I would have never made it in life. What a POS... Congratulations of making something of yourself. It's a hell of an accomplishment. It's so much easier to turn to drugs / alcohol.
I only ever drove for Uber 1 month but I'm still a subscriber. Great video man, I watched half of it last night and the rest tonight. Really trying times but you'll come out stronger. Sorry you're going through this man, keep sharing your story. Us dudes have a hard time sharing our trials and tribulations.
Randy I watched every second of this. I myself have had a rough year. But my story pales in comparison to yours. God bless and you helped me as a driver with all your videos. Hold onto what you have and hold them tight. Despite all this your still trying to help people. I can say that your one stand up guy. Dont forget that you did have some victories this year as well. Peter Hopkins AKA Uber Big Guy from the Boston area
Randy, you are an incredible person. You have more strength than any normal person would be expected to have in the face of the incredible amount of personal adversity you have overcome and continue to do so. Hearing your story makes me think of Joseph and what he endured due to the jealousy of his brothers. Stay strong brother. God obviously has a plan for you and for you to have made it this far He must be helping give you that inner strength to carry on. Also you have more than made up for any misdeeds committed in the past by enduring all of this yet continuimg on for a positive outcome. I pray that it is His will that things eventually end in your favor. Until then peace brother and know that you have a lot of respect and support from those who follow you here for what it's worth.
Hey brother, happy to do so. I've had my share of life hardships myself; most of my adult life just trying to stand up again after life knocked me down only to get knocked back on my ass over and over so I can relate a little bit. I wont go into the details since it's irrelevant as well as not nearly as extreme as what you have endured. I will say that it says a lot about your strength and moral character that you keep on going and look for new ways to improve your life rather than give up. It took a lot of sack to put this video out for everyone to see and hopefully it will serve as inspiration to others who have been kicked in the teeth by life. To anyone who criticized this video or you for making it they need to learn a bit about respect as well as how someone can overcome extreme adversity and hardships if they are willing to work for it. Thanks for sharing Randy. I am a Christian and I believe that you will be rewarded for fighting off your demons and not letting others drag you down and away from your path to personal success. God Bless and thank you again for making all these videos to help inform us less seasoned drivers. Best wishes for the upcoming holidays.
Nothing but love! A lot of us have troubled pasts, most of us aren't willing to repeat them like that! You're a strong man, you've fought hard to get to where you're at. Chin up, don't let anyone bring you down now! Everything will work out in time, and karma will take its course on those who have wronged you. ☮️
Thanx for sharing your life story Randy, you are a good guy. Hope everything gets better for you. Remember we are your TH-cam family you have gained us😊💟
Holy cow Randy....what a horrific story. What happened to you is truly awful and I commend you for being so open and allowing yourself to be emotional. I love your channel and so much enjoy watching your videos. Keep up the amazing work!
Wow going through your old videos and I am just amazed at what you went through, I had a very good childhood but I to was molested by a teenager, but other than that my childhood was a dream come true compared to yours, a good mom and dad and the molestation was completely unknown to my parents to this day. But that never really goes away does it(my mom's friends son and they didn't come over often), but it was a very rare thing to happen and I was well cared for, I feel for what you want through, prayers for you! As for my kids no one loves their kids more, but my son has severe autism and I know well that feeling of helplessness, as he is (mostly in the past) a runner and it makes life tough sometimes. Anyway mad respect to you friend!
Thank you for sharing your life with us youtubers. I've been through it with my daughter getting in trouble with the law and having mental problems so I wanna send hugs your way and don't be afraid to talk it out with your love ones. It helps to have that person there to lean on.
Randy, much respect for making this video. You got some big balls to put yourself out like this. I love your videos and I love cars. I have cerebral palsy and I am a wheelchair bound and I don't get out much because I am in hospice care at the moment I can't imagine what you have gone through in your life my heart breaks for you I hope and pray that you and your son, daughter get the help you need to be a loving family unit again I wish you and your new wife to be all the best for the future. God bless you and your family
Thank you for the kind words Joshua. One thing I have learned in life is it's hard. We all have to go through some horrible things in this life. I'm very sorry about your cerebral palsy, you are struggling on a level I can't even pretend to understand. Makes my struggles seem pretty petty, and perhaps in the pig scheme of things they are... Thank you for she comment sir.
It is always nice to hear someone with a story like mine. I was sent to school once with welts on my back from being whipped with a wire cloths hanger and the teacher pulled me out of class into the principals office to question why I couldn't sit in my desk. I was scared of getting beat for saying anything to I just stood in the corner crying telling them not to touch me because they called in the social worker and she was trying to pull my shirt up. The worst. Bless you.
Hey Randy, i follow you since three years but never watched this video. It got recommended to me just today and it made me cry. I really must say, i feel so sorry for you, for all that shit that has happened to you in your whole life. You had such a horrible childhood and what happened to you with your kids is on the same bullshit. I am so glad that you are doing better, i really enjoy the 2020 randy. Jessica is a real blessing for you, hold on to her and keep on doing your amazing videos!
Redemption...a powerful story. I’m so sorry for what you have been through and are still going through. I pray for you and your family. Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. It’s not easy. Thank you for giving hope to those in similar situations. Holidays can be rough on families and also on those without family. You broke a cycle in your family by getting on the right path and getting help. I believe your strength is also in your son and because of the cycle you broke, he will come out on the other side like you did. I really believe that ❤️
It's been awhile since i commented last on your videos. the last was about how as a man it's ok to cry. (great vid btw) I am sorry you had to go through that. That sounds absolutely horrible. As someone who has studied psychology for awhile now I'd say it's not good to laugh at these truly evil acts that were done to you. That's what your abuser wants. (to make light of the situation.) I almost gave you a standing ovation for seeing that your mom is complicit in what happened to you. Bravo my friend. Most people never realize females have responsibility too. Have you been to therapy? I think the right therapist would help you out a lot my friend. It certainly has for me and I lived a similar childhood as you but with less violence. Your going to need someone in your corner to help you. Stay away from psychiatric pills though. That stuff only puts a band aid on a deep wound. I hope it helps.
Randy, as hard as it may be may be, looking at this as being at Ground Zero may help. Don't look at what you've lost, but would you do have. You're young man, and it appears, through hard work you've done well for yourself to this point. It sounds as though do you have a fiancé who cares, certainly since she's standing by you with all you've been through. Try to look up and build on from what you do have and build a stronger life from there. Try to deal with the negatives one step at a time. All the best to you and yours...
Uberman you're the best thank you so much for sharing your life story. Thank you for been so honest. I definitely understand you in many ways. Your a great parent. Keep up the good work. I'm a single mom also and I know what your going through I totally understand you. Keep it up
I've been subscribed to you for quite a while and spend days watching your videos. I know this story was difficult to share, but thanks for taking the time to share this with all of us.
Your a true soldier it takes a strong man to speak out and come forward about the abuse you received both as a child and adult you are an inspiration to others fella ‼️🇬🇧
That was the most depressing video I've ever seen and heard. I will pray for you and your family. You seem like a very good guy now and I'm feel so bad for all your troubles. Hopefully things will go well with your girlfriend and son.
Hey Randy, I am just going to do a "short" comment because I was not expecting to hear your details of your painful up bringing and I watch all your video , so I feel your pain!... I will not compared your life to mine but I felt and feel the same gutting pain from time to time although it comes from different circumstances but the pain is there from our child memories till today , pain that makes us what we are from life lessons learned and try not to repeat again as adults , trying to do the right things for the ones we care, my pain started me at 15 and got deep into drugs for over 30 years and finally had to make sane choices for myself by myself, no one knows really how much I got into it, let`1s put it this way, that`s why I am doing uber today , I been blowing money for years , but I can now only blame myself and help myself ,so been self sober for the last 15 years all on my own and the details will die with me someday! ... all I can say is if you understand and have change for the good and others still treat you like shit trying to bring you to their level, I really believe is time to move on and let them sink on their own ... I am not a father but I moved away from mine a long time ago and at a distance I feel we get along better, I don`t owe him shit ,he does not owe me nothing either and as far of your son I have always said , as long as you had taught them right from wrong ,then is up to them to make the right decisions on what path they choose to get to a good life or a painful one once they decided they no longer want your advice, care or love.... I would concentrate on the love ones you have now and shield them from the ones trying to destroy you, I would even move away to loose them if not for a while for things to cool down or forever, that`s just me , lawyer up and let them get their custody as they wish but somehow just leave a phone# or email to your son if one days he needs to reach out and talk , he is getting to that age that only when he is ready he might want to start over a honest relationship ,when he starts thinking on his own , not manipulated by others.... anyways we all have our closets full of demons but we can all hope the best happy future and try to seek peaceful life ,do the best we can and die like decent human beings, help the ones you can and let go the ones they make your life worse... you are happy with your girl and son , then protect them from harm , this is your time to be happy , you can`t fix the unhappiness of others , maybe just a hope for your son if he is willing to listen in the future... anyways , feel for you , hope things work for you better and find the happiness you seek ,I know looking at the past is ok to understand what you don`t want to be, but it is also depressing and does not help you heal those wounds...you got a new life going forward , move on and the good ones will follow , the assholes don`t need to catch up!... Good Luck and Hugs Bud!...I took the time to write because you took the time to share for free videos that helped me confront my fear of starting uber when I had no one to help and felt alone , so I am always thankful to you weather you knew it or not! Thanks!
Thank you for the advice and the history of where you came from. I agree it's about time to just move forward. Let the past stay in the past. Congratulations for kicking drugs. That had to be tough. I've known a lot of people that never beat it.
Man,I had a pretty shitty childhood much like your own,but your story takes the cake for worst. I get you on feeling your mother's love slowly vanish. It's one of those things that gave us strength,unbeknownst to us,and it leaves us feeling cold and abandoned. My mother cares about me,but it's been a long time ago since she showed me affection. God bless you,man,and may your future years be filled with joy and comfort.
Randy, this is the most horrific stories of anyone that I've heard. Obviously there are many like yours, and many much worse. However I can't imagine that. You Randy are a hero in my eyes because you are telling a horrible story of how you were brought up, and how you overcame all your abuse to become a hell of a guy! Please find a resource and tour this country telling your story. Too many children are living what you lived and they need to hear your life story. They need your help. Be the one person that you needed to hear in your childhood. Praying for you.
i watched all your vids that you had made exactly one year ago . since then i had a rough year being homeless etc now back on my feet this is honestly the first video ive watched of yours in a year. ive always glanced at your video titles. i decided to watch this one. it touched me tbh and just made me think way back to my own childhood. thank you for sharing uber man i hope vast wealth is in your future.
Randy, We have never met in person but there are many experiences that connect us. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am here in OKC. If you ever want to grab a cup and BS, about life, Uber, business, family I am never too far away in the city. It much easier to be "alone in crowd" than many people realize, and sometimes any one with a kind ear to listen is the difference between desperation and hope. I am a bit older and less tech savvy than most folks on here so I am not sure how to give you my contact information without giving to everyone of your 41,000 subscribers. If there is a way, let me know.
I can relate to you on so many levels randy. I appreciate this video because it opens my eyes on who you are and where you came from. Continue to be a good man
uber man .. i. watched the entire video, man this was touching. you are a great man , keep fighting for whats your uber man. never lose hope. your great.
It's sad to hear your difficult past bro however what's incredible is how you overcome all that and steer your present to be such a great person today - my heart and prayers are with you
I have been watching your videos for little over a year now.This one popped up for me to watch yesterday and I was like when I get time I will watch it,so today after your copart walk around I did.It took a real man to put all of that out there man.It's just so good seeing what you have accomplished.We all hurt for sure,I had gotten things back in line for myself and was doing great last year,then on my birthday I got a phone call that changed my life,it was my aunt telling me my little brother had committed suicide.I really took a few steps backwards after that for sure.But today I did get a job offer from O'reilys autoparts which is something I know and love and I hope to keep myself so busy with this that I dont have time to sit around and drink and try to make it all go away.Sorry for the long ass comment but I just wanted that it makes me feel good to see what you have came from and where you are at now.God bless and keep up the great work.
Very sorry everything everything you’re having to go through Randy you’re a really good person for being able to speak out like that think so hopefully get better
Hey Randy. It must have taken a lot of courage for you to make this video. I really appreciate all your honesty. Everyone in this world has issues. And the fact that you have the balls to express it to your viewers and subscribers shows that you are a great human being. Thank you for this video!
Randy... I have watched your videos since the beginning, and I don't think I have ever actually commented. I admit when I saw this one posted a couple years ago, I said "ehh.. later. I don't have time for an hour-long video." Well, I decided today that I would play this while working on my own car. I never made it to the car. Instead, I sat here riveted to the spot. Now, I have always enjoyed your videos, I have learned a lot from you, and laughed along at various moments... I'm not laughing now. I had no idea about your past... but now that I am filled in, I must say.. WOW what an inspiration you are. I was contemplating emailing you in the past regarding things similar to what you do, but always got distracted. Dude... I am absolutely serious when I say that you have been through so much, yet succeeded... You overcame your past and, while you still have issues, you are strong. I have to say, you're no longer a content creator that entertains me... you're now a person who inspires me. Thank you for posting this.
I am so sorry you got treated like that and what you had to go through. Your story really got to me i was in tears hearing this. I didn't have a good childhood either and my father was similar to yours. My father was always hard on me and if i made one mistake my father would get in my face and yell at me. And hes still like that nowadays.I never got abused but i definitely got treated like crap. And my mother was similar to your mother and she never done anything about it. And i have been going to a therapist cause of my anger and how my father was treating me. And i feel the same way to sometimes i feel like i dont have nobody to talk to. It is a miracle how you came out to be an honest person after the situation.
My father told me I was a accident followed later by my mother saying I was a failed abortion. My father was a IV coke user. I was homeschooled the first 10 years of my life because if DSS found out how bad the family situation was they would take me and my siblings. My father was very abusive physically and verbally. I've battled having self confidence he was so mean. The list goes on but your video really has inspired me to pick up the pieces and move forward. Knowing someone else had it rough makes life more understandable and easier to digest. Thanks Randy!
Randy i have recently gotten quite attached to your auto auction rebuild channel in the last few months I know this video was taken much before this but I am very glad to have stumbled across it! For the amount of shit you have gone through your an amazing person and I love what your doing with cars! I had a tough life too not as harsh as yours but I feel your pain to some extent. I'd love to learn more about you! Thanks for sharing this for all of us
All of the people talking crap have probably never had it as rough as you have. I hope some of your fans are into legal stuff and can help you with this drama that's being put onto you. As Joe dirt would say, keep on keep'n on.
Randy, you're an example for everyone. I can not remember (I am 63 years old) ever having met someone so sincere and honest. I myself would have gotten totally derailed and possibly even killed my father because of the humiliations and the heavy childhood. I follow you for a few months via TH-cam and as you repair cars and with satisfaction and a small profit sell perfectly and reliably cars you show that you are an honest and decent guy out of one piece of solid gold. I respect you and hope you never lose your good character. CHEERS, John from the Netherlands
I disagree with how we are from our parents choices on how they raise us..I don't blame them but they are a big part of who I was. It was so bad that I cut ties with my Toxic Parents. I hre up in a party house..lots of durgs and liquor. Abandonedment and Trust issues. I am you mom..Left a 17 yr abusive relationship. .i was stay at home mom...i never worked during those years. .I never drove..I was in shock. I went to therapy right away and got therapy for all my kids! Its been a year. Its getting better. Thanks for sharing. .
Randy, don't know if you are a Christian. If you are, I ask you to give it all to God. I believe in the Biblical story of the Prodigal son. Your children will come back into your life. This is all temporary. In the interim, you take GREAT care of the family that is nourishing who you are. Your fiancee and her son love you for YOU. Hang onto that, manage the rest...and KEEP PUSHING THRU. #PrayersGoingUp
Btube 83 Their is good and bad with every situation, just like a negative and positive. We see every day, from the beginning of time. Negative things can happen to one person or group of people, and I believe it called sin. Dosnt matter what color or creed u are . I believe in instructional book called the bible that tells all, I also believe that Jesus died for every sin that I have and will commit. I have seen miracles happen, because I have let the positive in my life.
Stop with the christian god silliness already. If you want to be helpful then offer support or say something useful because this "..give it all to God." bullshit is getting rather old already. #PrayersDoFuckAll
Stay single and do not have anymore children heal your own pain before trying to take care of others. Your a good dude but I suggest staying away from relationships at least through the Holidays which make these matters worse. Its a depressing time of the year concentrate on you right now. I'm pulling for you...
Wow, what a story Randy...I know this was not easy to share, but I must commend you for pulling through. I thought I had a tough childhood too until I heard your story. I hope that anyone that can relate to your story can have a better adulthood, and happier life. I also really appreciate your uber driving experience videos, as it helps a lot of people like myself! God bless you, and looking forward to reading your book about your life/uber experiences one day soon?
Hey Uberman I have followed you for 2 years. I just now watched this video. I so much Respect, and Admire You. this explains to me your kind and gentle behavior. This took major balls to do. no wonder I like you. Keep on rockin. Get more Mercedes please.
Hey Randy I have been following you for over 3 years and I appreciate your transparency and courage to talk about something so painful. Sorry to hear that you were raised by selfish & abusive people. I would encourage you to connect with a local bible based Christian church. You can get a wealth of support from a good local church and an awesome outlet for you to talk to people who really do care. Unfortunately this world we live in is not fair and unfortunately bad things happen to good people. God gave Man free will and unfortunately man allowed sin to come into this world and sin will not be fully stomped out until Jesus Christ returns. I agree with Edward Napier give it all to God and pray for God's guidance. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Have a good night Brother. In Jesus's Christ name I pray for healing over your situation.
I watched the whole video. Stuff like this makes me wonder if God and angels are real, or maybe we are not connected. I hope you are doing okay and pulling through this well. I know the holidays can be especially hard on single fathers with the odds against you, but you are strong. STAY STRONG, and UBER ON!
Randy, So sorry to hear about what is going on with your son! Hopefully you can find a good and caring counselor that can help you through this problem. Along with a lawyer to protect your interest. Thanks for sharing and take care.
As the famous woody from toy story says..........you’ve got a friend in me! That took a lot to talk about. Kudos brother! Hang in there brother, it will get better.
My father was a good man, I think. He did use the belt, but properly. He never beat me, he also was a military veteran and veteran police officer (retired, both). The problem wasn't him, it was me, I was unruly in the beginning and he helped me shape myself into a proper man to commit myself to work. To be productive and not spoiled. Regardless, I agree with you on a lot of you've shared. Thanks for the video.
Well Randy, what I have seen unfold in this life journey as I am pushing closer to 70....is that some of those who we were taught to stay with no matter what....can be replaced with a “new family”. The internet has connected us with people who share and live by many of the values we honor. So, those family members who haven’t or chose to not change by life lessons....we must keep them away from our space....to make way for our new “internet family”. We are either living together or dying together. You and I are powerless over these biological family members and their actions. All we can do is...the next right thing. If they want the children, then you get a lawyer and set the payments and visitation. If they won’t let you see the children...the children will adults soon...then maybe, just maybe, you can reconnect with them. Just don’t let anyone hold you hostage to pass bad behaviors that you have changed to make your life and those around you better. Nevertheless, your immediate focus is being a better dad, a better husband, and a friend to the “son” and “wife” , and the “internet brothers and sisters” you have now. This conflict only shows that this is an emotional moment to learn from. Find out how other people are successful in this type of conflict...and apply the same strategy...and you will grow thru this conflict. Yes it hurts. Yes you will cry. However, once conquered, it will never appear in your life again. I have found that when I get on my knees and hold hands with my family....and pray...miracles happen! A Man’s prayer is extremely powerful because you turn over powerlessness to a God of your understanding...not a church...not another human...just to the energy that holds up the Sun! We send you Peace, Prosperity, Great Health, and Blessings!
Oh Randy mate, dam! Really was feeling your story. You been through alot and to be where you at and still be stable, hats off to you man. Keep going, don't give up and stay strong always. Prayers goes out to you.
Fairly new subscriber, and taking time to go through all your channel. I take my hat off to for making this video Randy. Been through a shitty life myself that I wont get into, but I totally agree with you on the release of emotion, woman or man. Stay strong brother, much love from the UK. Wayne.
You are the most amazing TH-camr I have ever come across. I love each and every one of your videos. You are an incredibly amazing strong young man. I will always, always have respect for you. I have subscribed and always will be a subscriber. Uber on my good man, UBER ON
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This was a difficult video to make. It's hard to admit that I was such a miserable and horrible man in my younger years. I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to learn more about me. Thank you.
Uber Man Thank u Randy for being so honest and open. I appreciate it u. I don't judge u on ur past. We're all imperfect ppl. We learn and we grow. Just continue to b a better u. Thank u for all u do. God bless u!
Wow, I was born in 1968, My father in 1950, and Your life was just about the life I have had as well. My childhood was a nightmare as well, especially while my father was around, but my Mom tried to make it palatable while he was working, but he had a problem with authority, so he lost many jobs because of his attitude.
I was extremely abused emotionally, verbally, psychologically, physically, and sexually every day by him. He also knew how to give a beating so the bruises wouldn't show. I was only allowed to speak when spoken to, sit perfectly still with my hands on my thighs, and anything I said had better be minimal, and a generic polite response. I lived in fear of him killing me every day if I was not perfect, and did everything I was told to, and expected to do. I had to cook, clean, do laundry, take care of the house, and my two younger brothers all at 9 years old. In addition to that I was bullied and picked on in school every day, So I couldn't even find refuge in going to school. When I reached out to people I thought I could trust, they either didn't understand, couldn't believe it was true due to shock or didn't want to get involved.
Once (DSS), as they call it in my area, came to the house. I thought I was saved, I thought this was it, my big chance to tell someone who would understand and save me. The (DSS) worker looked in the cabinets, the fridge, the bedrooms, and gave my father a business card. Then in front of my father, and everyone sitting in the living room, the social worker nonchalantly asked, "How are you", as if passing us on the street. My automatic response, which I was programmed to say, was "fine". I was never taken aside in private, nor asked any specific questions, which I was just bursting to tell them. So 'YES F-U (DSS)...Well at least I have had the same end result of strength, wisdom, overcoming, and character, thankfully by the grace of God!!!
Uber Man Put everything in a Family Trust and a business trust, don't leave anything in your name. Pay yourself minimum wage.
Uber Man Titles, Insurance, Registration, leases, everything out of your name like yesterday. Go back and delete all the videos you made about your income and things you bought.
Sometimes ya just gotta talk to sort things all the shit in our heads in order find clarity. I got my ass whooped as a child. My Uncle James was no one to fuck with. However, we all have gifts and challenges in life from the moment we are born. We learn to overcome our challenges and our gifts become more prominent. Emotions are just energy; Its normal.
Anyway, I'm super proud of you brother. Look at all of the success you've had thus far. Some people overcome and some are stuck. You should take a moment to actualize how great you are Randy. With age, comes experience in life and you wouldn't know everything you know today, if it weren't for everything you've been through.
It took a lot of guts to make this video, to talk about your past and yourself personally. My heart goes out to you and my hat comes off to you for what you have accomplished and who you have become.
Don't give up Randy, don't ever let your present values leave you . I am listening to you while typing this, it is so hard to imagine a person having a horrible life like this, you my friend are a walking miracle. I wish the best for you, God knows you deserve it. B.G.
UBER MAN!
We all have issues.
It takes BALLS to fight through them.
You had my RESPECT before this video.
And now you have even MORE of my RESPECT after this video!
I wonder if moving across the country to a different place with your lady, and her kids could be a healthy thing for yall to do?
I wish you the BEST!
STAY SAFE, and UBER ON!
Uber 757 Thank you. We thought about moving but decided to stay put. I can't let them run me away from my home.
Randy I hope you see this I've been watching your videos for about a year and they are very inspirational and always help me out.I never knew any of this except for the part with your son and im so sorry I never knew any of that I always imagined you had a decent childhood and always thought you were a very nice friendly person kind of like a teddy bear.Thank you for this video I don't want to know how tuff it was to make this. I hope in the last 3 years you've been able to get back into touch with your son and hopefully he overcame his mental Illness. Never change randy you don't know how greatly you affect people I've been up for 3 hours watching your older videos to learn more about you I learned so much I wish the best for you 🙏🙏🏻
That took a frack ton of guts to do. Ignore the haters. This puts you in a new light. A great light. Keep up the good fight and remember karma will get the haters.
I'm not even paying them any mind lol. Thank you so much.
I've been watching your videos for awhile now. This was by far the deepest and most thoughtful and sincere video you have made. It took a lot of courage and guts for you to make this video. I wish you the best my friend and keep your head up. You deserve the best that life has to offer.
Thank you Christopher. Your comment and the others are really helping lift my spirits. Thank you.
I appreciate you Randy. I appreciate the fact that you took time to tell us things that you had no reason to share.Thank you for reaching out to so many people that have endured some of the same things that you have. All of us definitely have a story we could share but the best part is we have a God That Forgives us all and heals. us
Thank you for watching and commenting. I hoped me sharing my story could help others know there is someone that can relate. It helps to know we are not along in what we went through. It helps to talk and get it out in the open. I truly feel much better today.
Randy "Freaking" Shear. I couldn't stop watching. Much respect on even having the courage to make this video. You are a survivor, a fighter, an inspiration to never quit. Stay strong my friend.
Thanks so much. I will push forward!
I just want to say that your video touched my heart. I have nothing but respect for you after watching it. You are a strong person and I pray things work out. I've been following your videos since I started driving for Uber two months ago and they have helped and guided me so very much. Thank you for sharing your life story with us and I have no doubt that it will help someone see that life can never be so bad that you can't turn it around with determination and hard work. Sending prayers for you, your fiance', and her child. Take care.
I really do appreciate that Cynthia. Thank you.
Very proud that you posted this! I am sure it is very therapeutic for you. However I bet you have helped a ton of people and not even knowing it! People that can relate to what you have gone through will be able to use your experience to begin to perhaps start their own healing and changing process. Kudos to you for sharing!
I'm so sorry for everything you have been through and are going through. I have had similar childhood experiences, as has my husband. Though not quite the same level as what you went through. I really give you credit for turning out as well as you did, and putting forth the effort to change your life and be a good dad. I'm sorry you have so many problems with your ex and the kids. I truly hope everything works out in your favor and that your son gets the help he needs to live a normal life. I'm glad you have Jessica to be there for you. I know it's not easy to go through these things.
Thank you Theresa. She has been a huge help to me. She is such a great woman.
This happened multiple times where I expect things to turn around for the better and then you say "this is where it gets bad". I'm sorry for all that you had to go through. Stay strong.
Thank you. I'm trying for sure.
Just watched this in 2021.you came a long way and have earned everything you have. Enjoy your hard work.Your story being told is a testament to the person you have become.This made me realize that I can/should be a better father myself.So thank you!!
Brave video.
I apprecaite this channel and its valuable information. 2017 has been the year of truth, exposing, healing and moving forward. Just look at everything going on in America. But this channel has been helping tons
of people daily
Thanks dude
Thank you sir. I truly appreciate the comment. I hope 2018 will be a better year.
My heart and prayers go out to you man.
Thank you Sir.
Your childhood practically mimics my deceased wife's. She also grew up in Mustang, OK. Crazy. And I'm so sorry you had a horrific childhood. The fact you have broken that cycle of abuse is a testament to the man you've become! My wife's ex got custody of their daughter AND he went behind everyone's back and gained child support from my wife's disability pay. You're having a very hard go at life since childhood. All you can really do at this point is turn to your Higher Power. I wish I could be of more help to you, but I support you and hope better things are in store for you.
Keep going man! From someone who had it really easy growing up (minus a messy divorce between my parents). Nothing even remotely close to what you went through. Keep trying to better yourself, and be proud as hell of what you accomplished!
I hope you can remain strong and eventually get past all this. I wish you much happiness in your new family. Much love and respect to you.
Thank you again Shea. Much love and respect right back to you.
Randy the man you are today is remarkable man considering what you've been through. I wish you strength and peace may your current relationship flourish and be ever lasting as you certainly deserve it. I for one are proud to be part of your TH-cam family. We respect every thing you do for us. I know at times it can't be easy with what you are going through. From the absolute bottom of my heart Thank you Randy. We Care about you. Thanks for the the insight in to your life. Little Aussie Follower
Randy, thank you for sharing this. Out of the 100+ Uberman videos I’ve watched, this has been the most helpful.
Thank you Sam. I appreciate the positive comment!
So much respect for you being treated how you were and still able to grow into such a great person.
Thank you Jeremy.
I was abused growing up as well, and so I do understand that side of growing up. When the people that are supposed to protect and nurture you are the ones responsible for the pain you experience, like you said so eloquently, it changes you...does things to you.
You are very brave to tell your story and to lay bare your past and life here and to be the change you sought. Because of that, I find it hard to look at you and see the man you describe as being in the past, so that means you've done a wonderful job in changing, and you have become pretty awesome today.
Big hugs, Randy!
You deserve happiness family and comfort these videos were recently recommended to me, so I never knew your personal life was like this. I love that you seem to stay motivated and happy. If I ever had the great opportunity to meet you I would love to give you a hug and chat up with you. Videos like these give me mad respect and something I would show as how to overcome adversity.
You are a strong and amazing person. Thanks for being so open and honest. You are many fans and people who care about you.
Thank you Gil. I sure appreciate that.
Thank you for sharing this story. You are blessed and fortunate to be here and giving us such good content despite the grim past. Hats off to you glad that is in the past bro, you are an awesome guy and I regularly watch your videos. Keep up the great work! Thank you.
I think just saying your story helps so many people in the same situation. Some people don't understand how this makes someone feel but with all of us watching this video it might want end up telling a story to someone else. You are one of my favorite You Tuber and give you a lot of respect. Thank you for your story.
Made me cry. So sorry that happened to you. 😢
I suppose it's life. I'm still here so I can't complain too much. Thank you for watching. Sorry it made you cry though.
Randy, your honesty and vulnerability and humilty in the face of all that you have gone through in your life is truly remarkable and admirable. I can relate to much of what you talked about. Thank you for sharing so much about yourself in spite of how much pain there has been in your life. Wishing you peace and light.
Takes a lot to tell your story. Much respect
Thank you TK
Hey Bro. I'm sorry you had to go through what you did growing up. It took a lot of courage to share your past like you did. Thank you for that. You're a good man Randy. Make sure your kids have a great life and learn from your past.
Thanks man! I appreciate that.
I think making this video must have been very cathartic and it took courage to go into all that. You're to be commended.
You and I have something in common. My parents physically and emotionally abused me but my father was much worse than my mother. He would even draw blood on occasion but there was never an ounce of justification for any of it. I was the best child my parents ever hoped to have and if it hadn't been for all the teachers who loved me and made my life a joy during school hours I don't know where I would have been today.
I grew up to finish college and I'm someone people come to for counseling and advice. I love who I am and I think all I went through helped make me who I am today. Even though I don't have one family member at all...everyone has passed over already...I know that I went through everything that happened for a reason.
I admire you for getting all this out and I like you more than I did. Good going Randy!
I really do wish there was something I could do to help. You deserve some true happiness and I'm hoping you and Jessica can stay together and be happy
It truly was. I am feeling much better and more motivated today. The positive comments are really lifting my spirits. My father always claimed my success as his own. He claimed if he hadn't been so hard on me I would have never made it in life. What a POS... Congratulations of making something of yourself. It's a hell of an accomplishment. It's so much easier to turn to drugs / alcohol.
I only ever drove for Uber 1 month but I'm still a subscriber. Great video man, I watched half of it last night and the rest tonight. Really trying times but you'll come out stronger. Sorry you're going through this man, keep sharing your story. Us dudes have a hard time sharing our trials and tribulations.
That we do. I just decided to let everyone know the real me and what I'm going through. Thank you for the comment.
Randy I watched every second of this. I myself have had a rough year. But my story pales in comparison to yours. God bless and you helped me as a driver with all your videos. Hold onto what you have and hold them tight. Despite all this your still trying to help people. I can say that your one stand up guy. Dont forget that you did have some victories this year as well.
Peter Hopkins AKA Uber Big Guy from the Boston area
Amen to that Peter! It's been tough but it has also been a good year. I plan to pick myself up and move forward with life. Thank you for the comment.
Randy, you are an incredible person. You have more strength than any normal person would be expected to have in the face of the incredible amount of personal adversity you have overcome and continue to do so. Hearing your story makes me think of Joseph and what he endured due to the jealousy of his brothers. Stay strong brother. God obviously has a plan for you and for you to have made it this far He must be helping give you that inner strength to carry on. Also you have more than made up for any misdeeds committed in the past by enduring all of this yet continuimg on for a positive outcome. I pray that it is His will that things eventually end in your favor. Until then peace brother and know that you have a lot of respect and support from those who follow you here for what it's worth.
Thank you so much Rick. I truly appreciate the uplifting comment.
Hey brother, happy to do so. I've had my share of life hardships myself; most of my adult life just trying to stand up again after life knocked me down only to get knocked back on my ass over and over so I can relate a little bit. I wont go into the details since it's irrelevant as well as not nearly as extreme as what you have endured. I will say that it says a lot about your strength and moral character that you keep on going and look for new ways to improve your life rather than give up. It took a lot of sack to put this video out for everyone to see and hopefully it will serve as inspiration to others who have been kicked in the teeth by life. To anyone who criticized this video or you for making it they need to learn a bit about respect as well as how someone can overcome extreme adversity and hardships if they are willing to work for it. Thanks for sharing Randy. I am a Christian and I believe that you will be rewarded for fighting off your demons and not letting others drag you down and away from your path to personal success. God Bless and thank you again for making all these videos to help inform us less seasoned drivers. Best wishes for the upcoming holidays.
Nothing but love! A lot of us have troubled pasts, most of us aren't willing to repeat them like that! You're a strong man, you've fought hard to get to where you're at. Chin up, don't let anyone bring you down now! Everything will work out in time, and karma will take its course on those who have wronged you. ☮️
I sure hope you're right Jenna. Thank you.
Thanx for sharing your life story Randy, you are a good guy. Hope everything gets better for you. Remember we are your TH-cam family you have gained us😊💟
Holy cow Randy....what a horrific story.
What happened to you is truly awful and I commend you for being so open and allowing yourself to be emotional.
I love your channel and so much enjoy watching your videos. Keep up the amazing work!
Randy, I will be praying for your situation. Thanks for being completely candid.
Thank you Frank. I could use it!
Wow going through your old videos and I am just amazed at what you went through, I had a very good childhood but I to was molested by a teenager, but other than that my childhood was a dream come true compared to yours, a good mom and dad and the molestation was completely unknown to my parents to this day. But that never really goes away does it(my mom's friends son and they didn't come over often), but it was a very rare thing to happen and I was well cared for, I feel for what you want through, prayers for you! As for my kids no one loves their kids more, but my son has severe autism and I know well that feeling of helplessness, as he is (mostly in the past) a runner and it makes life tough sometimes. Anyway mad respect to you friend!
Thank you for sharing your life with us youtubers. I've been through it with my daughter getting in trouble with the law and having mental problems so I wanna send hugs your way and don't be afraid to talk it out with your love ones. It helps to have that person there to lean on.
Randy, much respect for making this video. You got some big balls to put yourself out like this. I love your videos and I love cars. I have cerebral palsy and I am a wheelchair bound and I don't get out much because I am in hospice care at the moment I can't imagine what you have gone through in your life my heart breaks for you I hope and pray that you and your son, daughter get the help you need to be a loving family unit again I wish you and your new wife to be all the best for the future. God bless you and your family
Thank you for the kind words Joshua. One thing I have learned in life is it's hard. We all have to go through some horrible things in this life. I'm very sorry about your cerebral palsy, you are struggling on a level I can't even pretend to understand. Makes my struggles seem pretty petty, and perhaps in the pig scheme of things they are... Thank you for she comment sir.
It is always nice to hear someone with a story like mine. I was sent to school once with welts on my back from being whipped with a wire cloths hanger and the teacher pulled me out of class into the principals office to question why I couldn't sit in my desk. I was scared of getting beat for saying anything to I just stood in the corner crying telling them not to touch me because they called in the social worker and she was trying to pull my shirt up. The worst. Bless you.
Hey Randy, i follow you since three years but never watched this video. It got recommended to me just today and it made me cry. I really must say, i feel so sorry for you, for all that shit that has happened to you in your whole life. You had such a horrible childhood and what happened to you with your kids is on the same bullshit. I am so glad that you are doing better, i really enjoy the 2020 randy. Jessica is a real blessing for you, hold on to her and keep on doing your amazing videos!
Redemption...a powerful story. I’m so sorry for what you have been through and are still going through. I pray for you and your family. Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. It’s not easy. Thank you for giving hope to those in similar situations. Holidays can be rough on families and also on those without family. You broke a cycle in your family by getting on the right path and getting help. I believe your strength is also in your son and because of the cycle you broke, he will come out on the other side like you did. I really believe that ❤️
It's been awhile since i commented last on your videos. the last was about how as a man it's ok to cry. (great vid btw) I am sorry you had to go through that. That sounds absolutely horrible. As someone who has studied psychology for awhile now I'd say it's not good to laugh at these truly evil acts that were done to you. That's what your abuser wants. (to make light of the situation.) I almost gave you a standing ovation for seeing that your mom is complicit in what happened to you. Bravo my friend. Most people never realize females have responsibility too. Have you been to therapy? I think the right therapist would help you out a lot my friend. It certainly has for me and I lived a similar childhood as you but with less violence. Your going to need someone in your corner to help you. Stay away from psychiatric pills though. That stuff only puts a band aid on a deep wound. I hope it helps.
Randy, as hard as it may be may be, looking at this as being at Ground Zero may help. Don't look at what you've lost, but would you do have. You're young man, and it appears, through hard work you've done well for yourself to this point. It sounds as though do you have a fiancé who cares, certainly since she's standing by you with all you've been through. Try to look up and build on from what you do have and build a stronger life from there. Try to deal with the negatives one step at a time. All the best to you and yours...
Uberman you're the best thank you so much for sharing your life story. Thank you for been so honest. I definitely understand you in many ways. Your a great parent. Keep up the good work. I'm a single mom also and I know what your going through I totally understand you. Keep it up
I've been subscribed to you for quite a while and spend days watching your videos. I know this story was difficult to share, but thanks for taking the time to share this with all of us.
Your a true soldier it takes a strong man to speak out and come forward about the abuse you received both as a child and adult you are an inspiration to others fella ‼️🇬🇧
That was the most depressing video I've ever seen and heard. I will pray for you and your family. You seem like a very good guy now and I'm feel so bad for all your troubles. Hopefully things will go well with your girlfriend and son.
Thank you Boni. I've worked very hard to become a good person. It's sad that people have to keep pushing me.
Hey Randy, I am just going to do a "short" comment because I was not expecting to hear your details of your painful up bringing and I watch all your video , so I feel your pain!... I will not compared your life to mine but I felt and feel the same gutting pain from time to time although it comes from different circumstances but the pain is there from our child memories till today , pain that makes us what we are from life lessons learned and try not to repeat again as adults , trying to do the right things for the ones we care, my pain started me at 15 and got deep into drugs for over 30 years and finally had to make sane choices for myself by myself, no one knows really how much I got into it, let`1s put it this way, that`s why I am doing uber today , I been blowing money for years , but I can now only blame myself and help myself ,so been self sober for the last 15 years all on my own and the details will die with me someday! ... all I can say is if you understand and have change for the good and others still treat you like shit trying to bring you to their level, I really believe is time to move on and let them sink on their own ... I am not a father but I moved away from mine a long time ago and at a distance I feel we get along better, I don`t owe him shit ,he does not owe me nothing either and as far of your son I have always said , as long as you had taught them right from wrong ,then is up to them to make the right decisions on what path they choose to get to a good life or a painful one once they decided they no longer want your advice, care or love.... I would concentrate on the love ones you have now and shield them from the ones trying to destroy you, I would even move away to loose them if not for a while for things to cool down or forever, that`s just me , lawyer up and let them get their custody as they wish but somehow just leave a phone# or email to your son if one days he needs to reach out and talk , he is getting to that age that only when he is ready he might want to start over a honest relationship ,when he starts thinking on his own , not manipulated by others.... anyways we all have our closets full of demons but we can all hope the best happy future and try to seek peaceful life ,do the best we can and die like decent human beings, help the ones you can and let go the ones they make your life worse... you are happy with your girl and son , then protect them from harm , this is your time to be happy , you can`t fix the unhappiness of others , maybe just a hope for your son if he is willing to listen in the future... anyways , feel for you , hope things work for you better and find the happiness you seek ,I know looking at the past is ok to understand what you don`t want to be, but it is also depressing and does not help you heal those wounds...you got a new life going forward , move on and the good ones will follow , the assholes don`t need to catch up!... Good Luck and Hugs Bud!...I took the time to write because you took the time to share for free videos that helped me confront my fear of starting uber when I had no one to help and felt alone , so I am always thankful to you weather you knew it or not! Thanks!
Thank you for the advice and the history of where you came from. I agree it's about time to just move forward. Let the past stay in the past. Congratulations for kicking drugs. That had to be tough. I've known a lot of people that never beat it.
Man,I had a pretty shitty childhood much like your own,but your story takes the cake for worst. I get you on feeling your mother's love slowly vanish. It's one of those things that gave us strength,unbeknownst to us,and it leaves us feeling cold and abandoned. My mother cares about me,but it's been a long time ago since she showed me affection. God bless you,man,and may your future years be filled with joy and comfort.
Randy, this is the most horrific stories of anyone that I've heard. Obviously there are many like yours, and many much worse. However I can't imagine that. You Randy are a hero in my eyes because you are telling a horrible story of how you were brought up, and how you overcame all your abuse to become a hell of a guy! Please find a resource and tour this country telling your story. Too many children are living what you lived and they need to hear your life story. They need your help. Be the one person that you needed to hear in your childhood. Praying for you.
i watched all your vids that you had made exactly one year ago . since then i had a rough year being homeless etc now back on my feet this is honestly the first video ive watched of yours in a year. ive always glanced at your video titles. i decided to watch this one. it touched me tbh and just made me think way back to my own childhood. thank you for sharing uber man i hope vast wealth is in your future.
Thank you so much. I've been homeless as well. I remember those days and I'm thankful to have a lawn to mow to this day!
Randy, We have never met in person but there are many experiences that connect us. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am here in OKC. If you ever want to grab a cup and BS, about life, Uber, business, family I am never too far away in the city. It much easier to be "alone in crowd" than many people realize, and sometimes any one with a kind ear to listen is the difference between desperation and hope. I am a bit older and less tech savvy than most folks on here so I am not sure how to give you my contact information without giving to everyone of your 41,000 subscribers. If there is a way, let me know.
I can relate to you on so many levels randy. I appreciate this video because it opens my eyes on who you are and where you came from. Continue to be a good man
Im really impressed how far you come dude. Cangrats on 1/2 a Million.
uber man .. i. watched the entire video, man this was touching. you are a great man , keep fighting for whats your uber man. never lose hope. your great.
I really appreciate the uplifting comment Shezan. Thank you.
Respect brother. Your videos helped me out in the uber business. I’m five months in to this game.
Thanks a ton!! I appreciate the support.
It's sad to hear your difficult past bro however what's incredible is how you overcome all that and steer your present to be such a great person today - my heart and prayers are with you
You’re seriously an awesome man Randy. I have crazy respect for you 😊 thank you for everything and being a awesome influence here on TH-cam.
I have been watching your videos for little over a year now.This one popped up for me to watch yesterday and I was like when I get time I will watch it,so today after your copart walk around I did.It took a real man to put all of that out there man.It's just so good seeing what you have accomplished.We all hurt for sure,I had gotten things back in line for myself and was doing great last year,then on my birthday I got a phone call that changed my life,it was my aunt telling me my little brother had committed suicide.I really took a few steps backwards after that for sure.But today I did get a job offer from O'reilys autoparts which is something I know and love and I hope to keep myself so busy with this that I dont have time to sit around and drink and try to make it all go away.Sorry for the long ass comment but I just wanted that it makes me feel good to see what you have came from and where you are at now.God bless and keep up the great work.
I can relate to your story. I have PTSD as a result of the abuse I endured as a child. Respect
I'm sorry to hear that Shea. :( Mutual respect back at you! Stay strong.
very hard to watch but happens to so many go through it and can't get over it You are a inspiration to so many
Very sorry everything everything you’re having to go through Randy you’re a really good person for being able to speak out like that think so hopefully get better
Hang in there Randy. You know it always works out sooner or later. Safe journeys!
That it does. Thanks!
This is a very sad story and I can tell that you have come to terms with what life has been. God bless you and hope for the best for you.
Hey Randy. It must have taken a lot of courage for you to make this video. I really appreciate all your honesty. Everyone in this world has issues. And the fact that you have the balls to express it to your viewers and subscribers shows that you are a great human being. Thank you for this video!
Randy... I have watched your videos since the beginning, and I don't think I have ever actually commented. I admit when I saw this one posted a couple years ago, I said "ehh.. later. I don't have time for an hour-long video." Well, I decided today that I would play this while working on my own car. I never made it to the car. Instead, I sat here riveted to the spot. Now, I have always enjoyed your videos, I have learned a lot from you, and laughed along at various moments... I'm not laughing now. I had no idea about your past... but now that I am filled in, I must say.. WOW what an inspiration you are. I was contemplating emailing you in the past regarding things similar to what you do, but always got distracted. Dude... I am absolutely serious when I say that you have been through so much, yet succeeded... You overcame your past and, while you still have issues, you are strong. I have to say, you're no longer a content creator that entertains me... you're now a person who inspires me. Thank you for posting this.
I am so sorry you got treated like that and what you had to go through. Your story really got to me i was in tears hearing this. I didn't have a good childhood either and my father was similar to yours. My father was always hard on me and if i made one mistake my father would get in my face and yell at me. And hes still like that nowadays.I never got abused but i definitely got treated like crap. And my mother was similar to your mother and she never done anything about it. And i have been going to a therapist cause of my anger and how my father was treating me. And i feel the same way to sometimes i feel like i dont have nobody to talk to. It is a miracle how you came out to be an honest person after the situation.
My father told me I was a accident followed later by my mother saying I was a failed abortion. My father was a IV coke user. I was homeschooled the first 10 years of my life because if DSS found out how bad the family situation was they would take me and my siblings. My father was very abusive physically and verbally. I've battled having self confidence he was so mean. The list goes on but your video really has inspired me to pick up the pieces and move forward. Knowing someone else had it rough makes life more understandable and easier to digest. Thanks Randy!
Randy i have recently gotten quite attached to your auto auction rebuild channel in the last few months I know this video was taken much before this but I am very glad to have stumbled across it! For the amount of shit you have gone through your an amazing person and I love what your doing with cars! I had a tough life too not as harsh as yours but I feel your pain to some extent. I'd love to learn more about you! Thanks for sharing this for all of us
All of the people talking crap have probably never had it as rough as you have. I hope some of your fans are into legal stuff and can help you with this drama that's being put onto you. As Joe dirt would say, keep on keep'n on.
Randy, you're an example for everyone. I can not remember (I am 63 years old) ever having met someone so sincere and honest. I myself would have gotten totally derailed and possibly even killed my father because of the humiliations and the heavy childhood. I follow you for a few months via TH-cam and as you repair cars and with satisfaction and a small profit sell perfectly and reliably cars you show that you are an honest and decent guy out of one piece of solid gold. I respect you and hope you never lose your good character. CHEERS, John from the Netherlands
Stay strong Uberman. Thank you for sharing. I nearly cried when I heard you story.
Thank you Nam Le!
I disagree with how we are from our parents choices on how they raise us..I don't blame them but they are a big part of who I was. It was so bad that I cut ties with my Toxic Parents. I hre up in a party house..lots of durgs and liquor. Abandonedment and Trust issues. I am you mom..Left a 17 yr abusive relationship. .i was stay at home mom...i never worked during those years. .I never drove..I was in shock. I went to therapy right away and got therapy for all my kids! Its been a year. Its getting better.
Thanks for sharing. .
You need to have some big balls in order to make this video. I do really respect you Randy !
Thank you Yaf Y. I wanted to let people know who I am. And I hope my story can help others to know they are not alone.
Randy, don't know if you are a Christian. If you are, I ask you to give it all to God. I believe in the Biblical story of the Prodigal son. Your children will come back into your life. This is all temporary. In the interim, you take GREAT care of the family that is nourishing who you are. Your fiancee and her son love you for YOU. Hang onto that, manage the rest...and KEEP PUSHING THRU.
#PrayersGoingUp
Edward Napier what type of messed up god would let a child go through that?
I've come to figure out that a father that doesn't allow their child to learn is a father who never learned himself.
Btube 83 Their is good and bad with every situation, just like a negative and positive. We see every day, from the beginning of time. Negative things can happen to one person or group of people, and I believe it called sin. Dosnt matter what color or creed u are . I believe in instructional book called the bible that tells all, I also believe that Jesus died for every sin that I have and will commit. I have seen miracles happen, because I have let the positive in my life.
Stop with the christian god silliness already. If you want to be helpful then offer support or say something useful because this "..give it all to God." bullshit is getting rather old already. #PrayersDoFuckAll
Edward Napier. Super Holy Super Righteous
Stay single and do not have anymore children heal your own pain before trying to take care of others. Your a good dude but I suggest staying away from relationships at least through the Holidays which make these matters worse. Its a depressing time of the year concentrate on you right now. I'm pulling for you...
Thanks man. I'm engaged though.
Uber Man exactly what I was thinking. You can't break up with your fiance.
just report her...
Congratulations on building a great, successful TH-cam channel with 400k subs! I'm happy for you.
Prayers for you, my friend...for strength and healing! Always have a friend if you need one!🙏🏾👍🏾✊🏾💯
Wow, what a story Randy...I know this was not easy to share, but I must commend you for pulling through. I thought I had a tough childhood too until I heard your story. I hope that anyone that can relate to your story can have a better adulthood, and happier life. I also really appreciate your uber driving experience videos, as it helps a lot of people like myself! God bless you, and looking forward to reading your book about your life/uber experiences one day soon?
Hey Uberman I have followed you for 2 years. I just now watched this video. I so much Respect, and Admire You. this explains to me your kind and gentle behavior. This took major balls to do. no wonder I like you. Keep on rockin. Get more Mercedes please.
Hey Randy I have been following you for over 3 years and I appreciate your transparency and courage to talk about something so painful. Sorry to hear that you were raised by selfish & abusive people. I would encourage you to connect with a local bible based Christian church. You can get a wealth of support from a good local church and an awesome outlet for you to talk to people who really do care. Unfortunately this world we live in is not fair and unfortunately bad things happen to good people. God gave Man free will and unfortunately man allowed sin to come into this world and sin will not be fully stomped out until Jesus Christ returns. I agree with Edward Napier give it all to God and pray for God's guidance. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Have a good night Brother. In Jesus's Christ name I pray for healing over your situation.
I sure do appreciate that Rich. It's been a long time since I went to a church.
Your a good man. Thank you for sharing. A man moves on, a boy lives in his misery
Much respect for you and your journey.
Thanks Sandra.
I watched the whole video. Stuff like this makes me wonder if God and angels are real, or maybe we are not connected. I hope you are doing okay and pulling through this well. I know the holidays can be especially hard on single fathers with the odds against you, but you are strong. STAY STRONG, and UBER ON!
Randy, So sorry to hear about what is going on with your son! Hopefully you can find a good and caring counselor that can help you through this problem. Along with a lawyer to protect your interest. Thanks for sharing and take care.
Thank you so much. I'll be calling my family lawyer tomorrow I suppose. Time to prepare for a fight.
As the famous woody from toy story says..........you’ve got a friend in me! That took a lot to talk about. Kudos brother! Hang in there brother, it will get better.
My father was a good man, I think. He did use the belt, but properly. He never beat me, he also was a military veteran and veteran police officer (retired, both). The problem wasn't him, it was me, I was unruly in the beginning and he helped me shape myself into a proper man to commit myself to work. To be productive and not spoiled. Regardless, I agree with you on a lot of you've shared.
Thanks for the video.
Wow so many stories. Takes courage to share the stories.
Thank you.
Well Randy, what I have seen unfold in this life journey as I am pushing closer to 70....is that some of those who we were taught to stay with no matter what....can be replaced with a “new family”. The internet has connected us with people who share and live by many of the values we honor. So, those family members who haven’t or chose to not change by life lessons....we must keep them away from our space....to make way for our new “internet family”. We are either living together or dying together.
You and I are powerless over these biological family members and their actions. All we can do is...the next right thing. If they want the children, then you get a lawyer and set the payments and visitation. If they won’t let you see the children...the children will adults soon...then maybe, just maybe, you can reconnect with them. Just don’t let anyone hold you hostage to pass bad behaviors that you have changed to make your life and those around you better.
Nevertheless, your immediate focus is being a better dad, a better husband, and a friend to the “son” and “wife” , and the “internet brothers and sisters” you have now.
This conflict only shows that this is an emotional moment to learn from. Find out how other people are successful in this type of conflict...and apply the same strategy...and you will grow thru this conflict. Yes it hurts. Yes you will cry. However, once conquered, it will never appear in your life again.
I have found that when I get on my knees and hold hands with my family....and pray...miracles happen! A Man’s prayer is extremely powerful because you turn over powerlessness to a God of your understanding...not a church...not another human...just to the energy that holds up the Sun! We send you Peace, Prosperity, Great Health, and Blessings!
Oh Randy mate, dam! Really was feeling your story. You been through alot and to be where you at and still be stable, hats off to you man. Keep going, don't give up and stay strong always. Prayers goes out to you.
Thank you for sharing my friend your family is in my prayers.
Thank you so much.
Fairly new subscriber, and taking time to go through all your channel.
I take my hat off to for making this video Randy.
Been through a shitty life myself that I wont get into, but I totally agree with you on the release of emotion, woman or man.
Stay strong brother, much love from the UK.
Wayne.
You are the most amazing TH-camr I have ever come across. I love each and every one of your videos. You are an incredibly amazing strong young man. I will always, always have respect for you. I have subscribed and always will be a subscriber. Uber on my good man, UBER ON
Randy, God is always with you! Brother I stand with you.
That which does not kill us, makes us stronger..keep staying strong Randy.
I like to watch peoples personal interesting stories not just content- flaws are interesting and perfect people are boring!
That they are LOL
Uber Man Your seriously the best!!!!
Wow Randy I am so sorry for you,nice to see how you stand up. My prayers are with you.God bless.