"Closure" is an excuse for a person to worm their way back into the ex's life in an attempt to get back with them. "I just need closure, you know? Like, why didn't our relationship work?" Simple: they didn't want to be with you anymore. Take the L and move on with your life, they did.
I disagree. Sometimes there are things left unsaid and there's nothing wrong with having the conversation as long as each person is aware that it's not going to bring them back together. But not everyone needs closure.
Yeah, people are weird. Some people think that there is something wrong with you if you aren't FRIENDS with any exes. People talk about still being hurt, or thinking about them even a year after a break up with no contact. People are very odd, and don't realize that they have attachment issues actually
I havent been taken, so im glad im giving myself some time before I can start going on a relationship. SOunds confusing, but being in a relationship is a big step to me.
Getting over people fast probably has a lot of to do with feeling good about yourself. You think you're hot, smart etc - you probably get over them faster as you feel enough. And some people look at their partners as something that makes them full and when they break up they feel like they are missing something and it takes long time to recover. I might be wrong tho lol
Sometimes people break up not because of the other person but because of external factors that stressed the relationship, so if the other person genuinely didnt do anything wrong, and there still is potential for a happy life with that person, alot of people dont wanna just move on and go and date or fk other random people after they’ve strongly bonded with that one person, it happens quite often, you’d be surprised how much that happens tbh
Now the girl saying she's been in another relationship for 4-5 months now after him why did she even come on here to talk with her ex 🤦🏾♀️ She might come back home single then back on this show with the other guy 😭😭😭
Ok idk if I'm the only one thinking this but if I were the ex getting called to come on this show why would I even come??? Like bruh leave me alone 🤦🏾♀️😭
I'd say that if you're one of those people who are able to move on after a break up consider yourself lucky. Some of us struggle with living in the past or needing closure. You can't always get that.
Basically we wouldn’t get this far , as soon as I knew it was my ex , I’m taking him out . Too much abuse etc I endured . I promise it would be for the greater good . I still look at scars I’ll never get rid of . My closure is seeing his casket close.
Dee, I am the same way. After we break up, it's nothing really left for us to talk about. My ex's try to say that me moving on quick is because I didn't really care about them, and I thought about it at first, then I'm like fuck outta here with the reverse psychology lol.
I felt so bad for that Black dude. He heard what she said and yet he decided to tell her he's still in love with her as if that was going to change her mind. That was a completely selfish move and he made himself look stupid and made her uncomfortable.
Because most people are still in love with there ex’s and they probably had so many good memories sometimes it’s hard to let go of someone you love but the reality of it you have but I wouldn’t shame them for still having that feeling because they would’ve never gotten together if the love wasn’t there unless y’all out here just entering pointless relationships
“Closure” is literally an excuse to talk to the person that did you wrong in hopes they give you an answer “okay” enough for you to go back to them. As an Aquarius, I don’t feel this emotion 😂 y’all be safe though 🥴 ask yourself whether if you did what they did to you, would they welcome you with open arms and legs? I think not. Buenos noches
“They look better with the lights off” lol
I died at that part 🤣🤣
When she said that it took me OUT
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"Closure" is an excuse for a person to worm their way back into the ex's life in an attempt to get back with them. "I just need closure, you know? Like, why didn't our relationship work?" Simple: they didn't want to be with you anymore. Take the L and move on with your life, they did.
No one can give you closure, you give closure to yourself
I disagree. Sometimes there are things left unsaid and there's nothing wrong with having the conversation as long as each person is aware that it's not going to bring them back together.
But not everyone needs closure.
Yeah, people are weird. Some people think that there is something wrong with you if you aren't FRIENDS with any exes. People talk about still being hurt, or thinking about them even a year after a break up with no contact. People are very odd, and don't realize that they have attachment issues actually
Bruh the guy with the dreads, I’m a pray for him, reminded me of my social awkwardness in my early teenage years.
Dee paused the video 3 seconds in on the first question 🤣 I'M DEAD YO😂😂
I havent been taken, so im glad im giving myself some time before I can start going on a relationship. SOunds confusing, but being in a relationship is a big step to me.
Delete that history and clear them cookies😂
Her high-school boyfriend left her DEVASTATED 😱🤣
Getting over people fast probably has a lot of to do with feeling good about yourself. You think you're hot, smart etc - you probably get over them faster as you feel enough. And some people look at their partners as something that makes them full and when they break up they feel like they are missing something and it takes long time to recover. I might be wrong tho lol
Nah you speaking fax
Damn fam they ain’t ready for this convo…
Dee: Good, move on *looks at the camera* BROTHA
LMAOOO man
When Dee said purr , it gave me serotonin
Same 💀
Sometimes people break up not because of the other person but because of external factors that stressed the relationship, so if the other person genuinely didnt do anything wrong, and there still is potential for a happy life with that person, alot of people dont wanna just move on and go and date or fk other random people after they’ve strongly bonded with that one person, it happens quite often, you’d be surprised how much that happens tbh
Black guy with the dreadlocks shouldve left when she said "uhhhh I can feel you" 💀💀💀embarrasimo
The fact that she said that tells me she's really not fucking with him HOWEVER their still attached energetically.
Now the girl saying she's been in another relationship for 4-5 months now after him why did she even come on here to talk with her ex 🤦🏾♀️
She might come back home single then back on this show with the other guy 😭😭😭
This is whole ex video is just sad 💀😭
Dee has that Leo switch. Leos love hard but like once we’re done, we’re done. We lick our wounds and move on 💪🏾
Leo is my sun sign , but my moon sign is cancer . It be a struggle cause I be wanting to move on but my cancer moon be naw linger with it lol 😂.
Video Title: Trapped in the dark with my ex
Me: Can't relate 😂😂
Ok idk if I'm the only one thinking this but if I were the ex getting called to come on this show why would I even come??? Like bruh leave me alone 🤦🏾♀️😭
6:19 😭😭😭😭😭facts tho I feel like these ads be reading our brains
I'd say that if you're one of those people who are able to move on after a break up consider yourself lucky.
Some of us struggle with living in the past or needing closure. You can't always get that.
Basically we wouldn’t get this far , as soon as I knew it was my ex , I’m taking him out . Too much abuse etc I endured . I promise it would be for the greater good . I still look at scars I’ll never get rid of . My closure is seeing his casket close.
They had to agree to this. They can't just spring an ex on you.
Woooooooow Dee “looks better with the lights out”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dee - I don't wanna be with you in the light or the dark.... fuck outta here lol haha 🤣 😂
I wish I was you Dee omgggg I needa have that ability to be over people like that damn lmaooo
You should react to the crush version of this!
She says any word that starts with a D super aggressive
Dee got no heart💔🧊😂😂I respect it
6:37 she lying ain’t no fucking way she would be up here and she started off with the questions
No one:
Dee: move on BROTHA ✊🏽😌
I would do this with one of my exes but that’s Bcuz me and her still close friends
Dee, I am the same way. After we break up, it's nothing really left for us to talk about. My ex's try to say that me moving on quick is because I didn't really care about them, and I thought about it at first, then I'm like fuck outta here with the reverse psychology lol.
Sometimes people just feel that way. They're not trying to manipulate you.
@@imaniluvsu1 I wasn't being serious. But that situation can sway someone out of guilt.
Just like Jojo song 'Its just a little too late'
Dee shadyyyy 😂😂😂😂
I saw this cut vid in my recommendation and was gonna watch it
I felt so bad for that Black dude. He heard what she said and yet he decided to tell her he's still in love with her as if that was going to change her mind. That was a completely selfish move and he made himself look stupid and made her uncomfortable.
Because most people are still in love with there ex’s and they probably had so many good memories sometimes it’s hard to let go of someone you love but the reality of it you have but I wouldn’t shame them for still having that feeling because they would’ve never gotten together if the love wasn’t there unless y’all out here just entering pointless relationships
And to that couple that's still having sex?
Ugh. Girl hes using you and you're letting him. Move ON.
Move on BROTHA *judging eye* lol DEE
Cut shady
Tbh me and my ex would need a hour before going on camera 😂😂😂🤣
Damn
Sis I wanna know tho. Would u do it for a fat bag because shiiii I would
“Closure” is literally an excuse to talk to the person that did you wrong in hopes they give you an answer “okay” enough for you to go back to them. As an Aquarius, I don’t feel this emotion 😂 y’all be safe though 🥴 ask yourself whether if you did what they did to you, would they welcome you with open arms and legs? I think not. Buenos noches
I don't want to be trapping Nowhere with my ex
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