😔Why School Counselors Feel Lonely And Unappreciated

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  • 🎥In this video I’m going to share 4 reasons why being a Counselor is lonely… School Counseling could be the loneliest job in education!
    😔Of course, not all school counselors feel lonely. Many counselors have strong relationships with their colleagues, their students, and their families.
    😭However, the factors mentioned in this video can make it difficult for some counselors to feel connected and supported.
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ความคิดเห็น • 29

  • @sharonkaysnowton
    @sharonkaysnowton ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I agree with you. I think the problem is people do not understand WHAT a school counselor actually does. In today's time they usually stay in their office doing paperwork and have very little interaction with the kiddoes. So, you must make sure you have a balanced daily plan which allows you to actually work with the kiddoes. This is very important.

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree that most don’t know our roles. It’s very complicated but I have hope things can improve

  • @pampowell2847
    @pampowell2847 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amen John! Especially about compassion fatigue. We carry so much due to confidentiality. As a solo K-8 school counselor, I think you hit the nail on the head with this video. Thank you!❤️

  • @FRANKYGURL
    @FRANKYGURL ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes! Thanks for highlighting this! We got a 2nd school counselor at my school this year and I am soooo grateful! It makes such a difference to work with someone who truly understands what your job is a game changer! I hope I never need to be a solo counselor again

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrats 🎉 when I was an elementary counselor, thankfully I had a co-counselor 😊

  • @jaclynlankford3272
    @jaclynlankford3272 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes, I always feel lonely 😢

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Do you work as a lone counselor? Elementary school?

  • @calebbaytop9096
    @calebbaytop9096 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow this is my first year so Im listening to

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What are your thoughts? I share realistic views of education and counseling. I never mean to discourage…my goal is for new counselors to know how to navigate this profession.💪🏽

  • @latashascranton5849
    @latashascranton5849 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes yes! I know the difference because I came from teaching to counseling and I have felt this waaaayyyy too much the past 2 years as an Elem counselor

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! I’ve been a teacher, counselor, and AP. Every role is different 😂
      It helps to have a support system. How is your current school?

    • @latashascranton5849
      @latashascranton5849 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s not bad but still lonely at times. My admin has been supportive although my principal won’t be there next year 😔 I was hoping for a new position in secondary but it’s been a little hard with few openings. So we’ll see I only have a week left to figure it out before my school year starts.

  • @82primula
    @82primula ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, I want to ask you who is normally the line manager of the Primary Counsellor or who is he/she reporting to??

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  ปีที่แล้ว

      It depends on the district. Some have counseling coordinators or directors 😊

    • @JerileaJDuman
      @JerileaJDuman 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've only been "supervised" by admin on site. They typically have no idea what our job is lol

  • @latashascranton5849
    @latashascranton5849 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh BTW, great video!

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 😊I’m trying to get better with every upload 🙏🏽

  • @dianebusch7405
    @dianebusch7405 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes and I'm only been at it for 1 year.

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  ปีที่แล้ว

      One of the most important years! It gets a little easier with time 👍🏾😊

  • @nehajussal9363
    @nehajussal9363 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Mr. B. Is there a way that I could email you?

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  ปีที่แล้ว

      You can message me on instagram. I respond 😊

  • @clenoh1
    @clenoh1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello John, I really enjoy your videos, they helped me multiple times. I will definitely be checking out more of your videos now that I'm back in Middle School, but back to your question, I've never felt lonely but when I was the only counselor at an Early College years ago I did sometimes feel it a little bit but I'm glad I was able to have input from counselors at other schools. I'm just glad I do have another counselor working with me so we can bounce ideas off of each other. Keep up the good work with the videos!

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! If you have any questions or suggestions for video topics, please let me know.
      Have a great school year 😊

  • @glendaotero3612
    @glendaotero3612 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel the same way in my current school. I feel I am not appreciate it. As a first year counselor with no support system, especially since I am the only school counselor in the building. Not easy at all. I will pray that my second year will go well.

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s the hardest part of your job? The first year is a learning experience. Hold tight! 😊

    • @glendaotero3612
      @glendaotero3612 ปีที่แล้ว

      @counselingwithmrb the hardest part is completing the administrative paperwork in a timely manner. I have 25 students, plus this year, I will incorporate SEL lessons in the classroom. I never taught, but i will try my best and grow as a professional.

  • @NeNeRich06
    @NeNeRich06 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video!! This is so real! You have a wonderful way of encouraging us new counselors! Thank you for all your help!

    • @counselingwithmrb
      @counselingwithmrb  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Hope you have a great school year friend 😊