Mate, since my divorce.... I was cleared out...homeless.. Reputation of an abuser... Since 2012 I've just bought my 4th property... I even wake up in my sleep smiling. That's the honest truth.
I bet at the beginning when she divorced you, you thought the world came to an end? I love success stories like this dont fall for it again.....Cheers!
I was engaged back when I was 28. Broke it off when I found out she had an 80k student loan debt (from feminism art classes and women's studies) and only wanted to get married so her debt would be partially my debt as well. Days after I broke it off, she had a new BF. 20 years later, she's still paying off the interest from that debt working at a dead end job & still hasn't found a guy to marry her while I've built my own business and just got my first condo (paid off) and still have 6 figures in the bank account. Had I gotten married, it would have been a financial (and mental health) disaster. Life is great being single.
32 no kids.. new gym membership, own space, a business in progress, And the Love for JESUS CHRIST in my heart. All you brothers be blessed and encouraged in the LORD. Spoken in humility and greatfulness.
everything sounds legit except that jesus shit. if you worship the same god as your enemy you should know that only one of your prayers is getting answered bruh lol
47 no kids and no marriage .. sold my 3 homes downsized to a duplex and became a minimalist on a mountainbike.. work is 2 days on 2 days off.. life is abundantly good.. 😎😂
Yo I’m 38, no wife, no kids. I make six figures a yr, no debt with a 807 credit score and assets. I live alone, I cook and clean for myself. With that being said, there’s no real benefit for me to get married at all and run the risk of losing EVERYTHING I have worked hard for. Ain’t no vagina worth that grief ...
I know a nfl player.....and he told me he will never marry his kids mother......so she can take the kids and his hard earned money etc....#fukk a marriage.....
Women usually bring out the worse in dudes from almost every situation I ever witnessed. I seen close homies throw away dreams because they were with superficial women who only believe in what they can see and selfish as hell at the same time. There's a helluva price to pay to be with a fine ass woman, which is why you should never be jealous of a dude you see with a fine woman. You better believe he's paying the price to be with her. I once had a roommate who pulled a lot of chics, there was always some kind of drama going on and he had to invest most of his energies into acting, dressing, and having the mind state you gotta always be in to be attractive to women. See, one of the secrets to even being attractive to women is to see everything from the perspective of how women think, meaning, you can't be unique far as your perspectives. You gotta base the way you think, dress and talk around what it take to please women. That's why unique dudes don't really do well with women. So being alone vs being with a woman both balances itself out. If you're with a woman there's a great deal of misery in most cases and if you're alone it will bother you from time to time, but you're truly free.
I'll be 60 yrs old in six months a former MARINE now I have a career in the security feild I was married till I found out that my DAUGHTER wasn't MINE! All my friends and family said I dodged a bullet and right now I'm enjoying my new Life! No WIFE no KIDS! GOD is GOOD!
Even worst if she has excruciating pain it then becomes your pain too. Its so crazy that after awhile you become NUMB to all feelings. Its to a point now my LOVE for her is always questioned because I forgot to tell her I put my heart in the freezer years ago. Good luck to all married men cause Im getting out the marriage game soon. Its not made for real Men.
27 and planning to invest only in myself. I'm planning to travel the world solo or maybe with my bro or a friend(s) to maybe share the moment. Being married with kids would make these dreams of mine financially impossible. Marriage and children should never be a priority for anyone in this day and age. I cherish my freedom selfishly
I've never married and I'm 58. I have no children. Not one. I used to marvel when guys who were married told me that they envy me. Others said I was smarter than them. You just made me totally understand why these guys envied me and why others said I was smarter than them.
The secret of all this is that: it all boils down to being a long term thinker rather than a quick fix seeker. What does winning in Chess consist of? Answer: being able to foresee the sequence of a strategy about eight to twelve moves ahead. That's why the Russians are such great chess players. They look ahead and bide their time. When you're making plans that will affect your future in the long term, not for tomorrow or next month, nor even next year - but five to twenty years from now. Those who say we have only right now to deal with - forget that right now becomes yesterday at the blink of an eye. And Five years from now, that becomes right now, also at the blink of an eye. I've been a long-term thinker for a very long time. And it helps to be detail-oriented too.
This video should be mandatory for EVERY man to hear!! Especially young men, BlackRam did a masterful job in this lecture!! Lets support this brother!! His voice has to be heard!!! Thank you BlackRam!!!
Is all part of the plan..to destroy the family structure....how we gonna have a continuity on society?? Without procreation of children and family values taught to our kids?
Women - "There aren't enough Economically Attractive Men" (Also) women - "There's a Gender Pay Gap, Men make more than Women..." ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Women: Rejects 90% of men (Also) Women: "It's men's fault why nobody is marrying anymore" ^^^ Women get everything they demand - women most affected
I asked my uncle who was the king of game in my family. what do men get out of marriage? He said the only thing a man get out of marriage is the respect of being married that's it.
Man, I dodged a bullet! I got married, wonderfully divorced, no kids, no alimony! I am so thankful that I got out with the most minimal damage possible. I will NEVER put that noose around my neck again! I have seen pure evil and it involves a contract....stay single brothas!
Bruh I fucked around and put that noose around my neck twice like a dummy, but luckily just like you I was able to slip out without a scratch. The only thing that happened was that they both walked away with pieces of furniture and household goods and one walked away with a old car I had, but I didn't give a damn about that. Just like you I'm single with no kids and didn't have to pay them shit!!! Never again!!!
@@BlackRam313 i was inches away from marrying a girl with BPD, what stopped me was i didn't want to sign a marriage license and give away my dog. I didnt want to be a slave. I dodged a bullet also
The powers that be rely heavily on the "ignorance is bliss" adage to keep this world spinning the way they want it to. Look out your window from time to time it might be some black SUV'S out there. 😂
Just got out of a relationship being with a single mother for a year and this is therapy for myself. Never again will I fall for a situation like that, it was hell !!!!!!
I've met lots of married men who happens to be friends, associates and relatives! and what I noticed was that they look alot older after they got married! always eating Chinese takeaways, wife can't be bothered to cook! the husband looks fat and bloated and unhealthy from chinese and Indian takeaway! the wives only care about themselves and the financial security the husband gives them!
That's because those men are married to narcissistic sociopathic women who are miserably empty and have nothing to offer that male partner. I truly believe that the divorce rate in America is high because of this type of mental condition. And those women hate accountability just like they hate men, which comes down to learned behavior.
Great content. Couldn't agree more. 42 years old, single, childless and truly livin' the dream.. Always saw through females and feared the loss of my freedom and dignity. They didn't get me. I won.
After listening to this video (just now), I literally gave it a SLOW CLAP STANDING OVATION (Im not joking). One of my uncles and I had this conversation yesterday. Everything you've said is true and I agree. Im married (but currently seperated) with no kids. I enjoy living by myself (its been a while). I live a quiet (yet simple) lifestyle. I go to work, exercise, read my books & listen/watch youtube podcasts. It is truely freedom! Knowing what I know now 8 years ago I would not have gotten married, I would have stuck with casual dating. I feel that marriage is extremely OVERRATED and I don't see how it benefits the man especially hearing the horror stories (divorce, alimony, child suppprt, ect.). Its not what its cracked up to be. I try to encourage some of the younger guys to think twice before marrying a chick, but it appears that it goes through one ear and out the other (they're gonna learn though). Thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom with us.
I've just turned 35 today, never married, no wife, no kids, no worries, and I intend to remain so. I'll be debt-free within 6 months and start to travel the world as I want. I'll come back to your videos once in a while to listen to your sermon.
I'm that red pill guy who was always subconsciously woke since middle school, but tragically surcomed to family societal pressure. I love my son, but it'll never happen again. It stings worst when you are a red pill surrounded by the agents and blue pillers forever trying to absorb you in.
I'm a recovering simp I was married 3 years but it was 13 yr relationship she had two sons I had two jobs cars put her in a house after the split credit on house assests lost layoff came then she decided to move on with a lame sorry dude I'm rebuild mode now but it's getting better brothers get out the matrix free your mind follow the most high shalom pump and dump keep it pushing or stay away
@Judah, be careful with the pump and dump part when it come to black women. Condoms can break and then you have an unintended pregnancy. A man will easily end right back in child support hell when all he wanted for a safe nutt!!!
I'm always glad I followed my instincts I could of been married with kids long time ago but I always enjoyed the freedom that being "single" brings..all my coworkers that's married with kids always ask me when imma settle down but I kno they just want me to be miserable like they are..keep dropping the heat Ram❗️🤘🏾
ThaSavior Wilson hahaha similar too me but i got fired one time from a job because the coworkers found out i was single with no kids that pissed they sorry asses off.
Im a living witness to struggles of this man/ woman game. Coworkers with 30+ years on the job cant retire bc they taking care of ex-wives who automatically gets a cut of their pension due to union rules. U think i aint soak up this game 8 yrs ago when i 1st got hired. In the words of Blackram 'I aints no Goofyyy!'
40 years old !!! Single , no kids , never been married, traveling all over the world , 2019 X5 BMW, 2005 Z hooked up, 2 well paying jobs ( because I feel like having 2 jobs) , live in an affluent community. I buy what I want !! Go where I want , fuck who I want , the crib is hooked up 85 inch tv , in amazing shape !!! Have a rotation of about 9 women !!! Life is amazing and great !!! BTW I still look like like I’m in my early 30s , late 20s even!!! ITS AMAZING TO BE FREE ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽!! Brothers live for yourself !!!
bro, im trying to get over this simp ass mode im in. just lost my woman an i know she was the epitome of what you talk about, but i cant even front im hurt she can be fine without me but im stuck with the hurt. hoping one day your lessons take root bro.
MR M brother, go cold turkey no contact. don't be her friend. it will only disappoint you. stay away and move on. it'll be tough to do, but, be strong and move on. I am speaking from personal experience.
38 years old. No wife, no kids and no problems. Mental and physical health, check. Freedom to pursue my interests, check. Ability to grow my savings and invest, check. Ability to meditate and focus on spiritual aspects of life, check. A man only has one life to live. Most men crumble under the pressure of societal expectations and norms, succumbing to the fear of being ostracized and therefore accepting a forced way of life, slaves to the validation of others, mentally colonized drones and zombies without no chance to express the uniqueness of their individual characters. I refuse to succumb to the expectations of those who had no power to bring about my existence in this sphere. So I scoff at peer pressure and societal rebuttals of the way I live my life. I am amongst the chosen few who posses the mental fortitude and emotional maturity to reject the flawed and mundane traditions of the masses, in order to pursue true freedom, self discovery and ultimate destiny.
BlackRam313 Thanks bro. The whole notion that once a man reaches a certain age, he must pursue a woman and woo her into marriage is a construct of the capitalist industrial complex. Elitists use it to consolidate wealth and for the rest of us, it is a trap. I have realized that the reason single, childless men are feared and why people try to pressure and shame you into marriage is that the system wants men to be utilities, batteries that power the economy, enslaved by consumerism. The system knows that women and children are consumeristic in nature and therefore a man will need to slave away for life in order to satisfy their constant, irrational, selfish and emotional whims. The image of the wife, kids, house with picket white fence and the dog, is nothing but a mirage in a desert of the dry bones of men who have been lured by this lie.
BlackRam313 ??BROTHER WHEN YOU MEAN GETTING MARRIED YOU MEAN IN THE WESTERN WORLD WERE THE LAWS FAVOR WOMEN , BUT NOT THE PLACES WERE THE MEN GET MARRIED AND IS COMPLETE CONTROL AND DO WHAT THEY PLEASE CORRECT ? BECAUSE I DO WANT KIDS BUT NOT IN AMERICA, I DON'T MIND HAVING MY WIFE WALK BEHIND ME AND TAKING CARE OF MY KIDS AND DOING WHAT I SAY ,AND HAVING 4 WIFE'S 🤣😂 JUST AS LONG THE LAWS BENIFIT ME AND SHE CAN'T CALL COPS ON ME. WOULD YOU DO A VIDEO ON PLACES WERE IT BENIFIT TO GET MARRIED . BECAUSE I'M STARTING TO UNDERSTAND WHY DIFFER CULTURE LIKE ARABS COVER THIER WOMEN AND LET THEM WALK BEHIND THEM AND HAVE NO SAY. SEEING THE AMERICA WAYS AND LAWS WERE THE WIFE GETS ALL BENIFITS SUCK . IM NEW TO YOUR CHANNEL AND STAND BY YOU 100% IN WHAT YOU SAY . MAYBE YOU DID ALREADY BUT I HAVE TO LOOK AT ALL YOUR VIDEOS TO SEE, THIS IS MY 4TH VIDEO , SO CAN YOU SHOW THE DIFFERENCE IN WESTERN MARRIAGE AND THE BENIFTS OF MARRIAGE IN OTHER CULTERS WERE IT MIGHT BENIFIT A MAN WHEN LAWS DONT BENIFIT WOMEN AND NOT ALLOW TO HAVE SAY ABOUT A MAN DOINGS. THANKS
I remember when Prince William of Great Britain got married. He was an afterthought in the entire affair. Kate Middleton was focused upon the entire time even though she was a "commoner" who was marrying into royalty. Not that I did not already know about the fraud that is marriage, but that event just underscored just how much marriage is for the woman, royalty or not!
Officially became a MGTOW...i was always at heart. Ended a 5 year relationship 3 weeks ago. Basically was in the road that would lead to having kids and then cs to an ex carousel rider which drove me insane with anxiety and lack of connection! No more relationships for this 42 yo. no kids. thanks for your videos!!!
The thing is though when you DON'T have No WIFE, No KIDS, and No Problems is not only are you totally FREE but also you have total control in fufiling your destiny with tranquility.
39 year old black man no kids never been married and im in a peace and relaxed state cant complain bout to go to the Philippines later this month and be treated like a king appreciate the content big bro the therapy in 2017 has helped me thru it. Peace.
I agree a woman is still a woman fam no matter where you go but this will be my second visit and like you said the women are genuinely feminine. Peace.
One of the best videos Fam In My Divorce I Was Left With Nothing, But My Uniforms It Took Almost 6 Months Just Get Back On My Feet & 1 1/2Year To Get My Credit Together SMH In This Country Everything is Against Masculinity
Henry Brown You can't put a price on 'Piece of Mind'. You can rebuild your resources (money & material possessions) but you cannot turn back the clock to get back YOUR TIME. I wish you an enjoyable life!
I feel exactly where you are coming from BlackRam313, it's so ass backwards dealing with the lames that a "Real Man" only has 1 option. I embraced who i am and walked away from the bullshit & my quality of life thanks me for it. Keep up the good work brother, your service is not going unnoticed..
I don't usually comment on these channels because of the gynocentric backlash so many of face but I had to say something on this video Blackram. This video touched me in a most powerful way brother. I wanted to cry because of the truth of what your saying. You spoke to my condition and situation with my own children and x wife. Many of us are suffering at the hands of this demonic system that wars against men. Please keep making this life changing content. When I am able I will send a donation to support brothers like you speaking out the truth of our current conditions. God bless IBMOR and God bless the redpill mansophere!!!
Here is one benefit. A man who gets married can be observed by (us men) as a lab rat..and see what happens as she distroyes his life...The best TV is marriage
I've been divorced 10 years with children i see once a week after a court case. I LOVE living alone, it's perfect and I've been alone 10 years and plan to continue this for the rest of my life! I have found hobbies and i never feel alone. I love being in solitude. Spot on mate 👌
My Son will inherit my assets and legacy. However, a man can mentor a young male relative or mentor a group of young men. His name can live on through others and the great things he accomplished.
Don't fuck with a single mom...those kids will play psychological games with you too. You're being used for your financial support. after a year or 2 trust and believe somebody else got her legs up in the air. #GentlemanOfLeisure Blackram313. I'm back and tuned in bro!
I'm 27 no wife, no kids and I can honestly say I'm more happier in my life than the majority of the ppl that are either married or in a relationship who are miserable and even females was trying to set me up with a chick who's way out of my league which is pathetic and deserve better scoring wise
@16:30 when you said a person doesn’t worship his own god as much as he worships his woman, read 1 Corinthians 7 chapter 32 a single man cares about things of the lord, a married man must please his wife.” Either you’re serving god(yourself, purpose) or serving god thru your wife (her and Uncle Sam)
Hello sir! I just came across your video. I listened to everything you said. You are so right! I am 26 year old virgin. I only had one girlfriend but we broke up because she wanted me to give her attention so she cheated. I could've had sex with her but I didn't. She was my high school girlfriend. She currently has two kids by two different men! I'm so glad I dodge a bullet there! I am not embarrassed about being a virgin at 26. At least I don't have kids by a money hungry woman or have diseases. I am a lone wolf! Im at peace when I'm alone. Thank you for this insightful video.
Peace and serenity are priceless... I never get tired of doing anything I want for as long as I want to do it.... without someone else planning my life..... I could never imagine going back.....
I’m 24 years old, I was that simp that got married when I was 20 only to provide a better life for this woman. Divorced at 23, since then I have been improving myself everyday with a smile on my face. Marriage is a game for the government to tax you on.
I dodged a large bullet. This is what I have done with my life since my gf dumped by two years ago: I joined the army I was accepted into the MBA program at Syracuse Plan on working for the State Department or CIA after the army. The first two events above were both discouraged by my ex. She said I didnt need a MBA and was too old to join the military. I've done both with her out of my life. Men, women are nothing but an anchor and nothing more. Tom Leykis called them what they exactly are, "DREAM KILLERS".
King Drudge my best to YOU! My "trophy wife" killed my dream of a million dollar career, by "convincing me" to refuse the job, AFTER I had it! Jesus! What a financial, spiritual, and emotional disaster my marriage was. She "traded me in for a new model" - then divorced him with 18 yrs support.
@@coiledsteel8344 Women - "There aren't enough Economically Attractive Men" (Also) women - "There's a Gender Pay Gap, Men make more than Women..." ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Women: Rejects 90% of men (Also) Women: "It's men's fault why nobody is marrying anymore" ^^^ Women get everything they demand - women most affected
For those of you who start to feel lonely and thinking marriage and kids will fix that: Have gratitude that you are single and free. Count your blessings, and learn how to pump and dump.
I'll never complain about my child as long as I can maintain my wife away from me like I've been doing then I'm good, wouldn't change my Daughter for anything this world it's easy for y'all single men to say that. Now the wife aspect I get it but if there's any married men on here then maybe not all but I guarantee you a lot will tell you that a child is a different story compared to a wife/woman.
If the morjority of WOMEN did make wise Choices in life well then there would be NO kids out of wedlock and there would be NO NEED for a mentor to take over the real father's role.
Mate, since my divorce.... I was cleared out...homeless.. Reputation of an abuser... Since 2012 I've just bought my 4th property... I even wake up in my sleep smiling. That's the honest truth.
that is winning bro
I bet at the beginning when she divorced you, you thought the world came to an end? I love success stories like this dont fall for it again.....Cheers!
Rich Stubbings Your story is inspiring
Rich Stubbings, success is your best REVENGE!
Rich Stubbings my brother. Keep it going.
I was engaged back when I was 28. Broke it off when I found out she had an 80k student loan debt (from feminism art classes and women's studies) and only wanted to get married so her debt would be partially my debt as well. Days after I broke it off, she had a new BF.
20 years later, she's still paying off the interest from that debt working at a dead end job & still hasn't found a guy to marry her while I've built my own business and just got my first condo (paid off) and still have 6 figures in the bank account. Had I gotten married, it would have been a financial (and mental health) disaster. Life is great being single.
32 no kids.. new gym membership, own space, a business in progress, And the Love for JESUS CHRIST in my heart. All you brothers be blessed and encouraged in the LORD. Spoken in humility and greatfulness.
PlayerMaDe patna thats beautiful bro.
Michael Elam that's fine, just no so called legal marriage... check out my video "the philosophy of non exclusivity "
everything sounds legit except that jesus shit. if you worship the same god as your enemy you should know that only one of your prayers is getting answered bruh lol
Same here bro....im 40 and free....keep climbing to the Top bro....peace.
Amen Bro i been getting wisdom alday from my pastor and Dr Ram
47 no kids and no marriage .. sold my 3 homes downsized to a duplex and became a minimalist on a mountainbike.. work is 2 days on 2 days off.. life is abundantly good.. 😎😂
Yo I’m 38, no wife, no kids. I make six figures a yr, no debt with a 807 credit score and assets. I live alone, I cook and clean for myself. With that being said, there’s no real benefit for me to get married at all and run the risk of losing EVERYTHING I have worked hard for. Ain’t no vagina worth that grief ...
I know a nfl player.....and he told me he will never marry his kids mother......so she can take the kids and his hard earned money etc....#fukk a marriage.....
Bless you!
You are the man! 👊🏿
That's awesome man... I wish you nothing but the best. Hopefully, i can be successful like you
Congratulations on your hard earned success. Never get married brother it's a trap. NEVER NEVER NEVER!!! I can never stress that enough!!!
Women usually bring out the worse in dudes from almost every situation I ever witnessed. I seen close homies throw away dreams because they were with superficial women who only believe in what they can see and selfish as hell at the same time. There's a helluva price to pay to be with a fine ass woman, which is why you should never be jealous of a dude you see with a fine woman. You better believe he's paying the price to be with her. I once had a roommate who pulled a lot of chics, there was always some kind of drama going on and he had to invest most of his energies into acting, dressing, and having the mind state you gotta always be in to be attractive to women. See, one of the secrets to even being attractive to women is to see everything from the perspective of how women think, meaning, you can't be unique far as your perspectives. You gotta base the way you think, dress and talk around what it take to please women. That's why unique dudes don't really do well with women. So being alone vs being with a woman both balances itself out. If you're with a woman there's a great deal of misery in most cases and if you're alone it will bother you from time to time, but you're truly free.
thanks for this message man. i needed it
Wow!
Real deep stuff
All of that excess to just bust a NUT....
I rather provide for myself
than being with a woman. 💲💰💸💵
The Blind Assassin indeed
Facts!!!
Providing for yourself is so much simpler.
I'll be 60 yrs old in six months a former MARINE now I have a career in the security feild I was married till I found out that my DAUGHTER wasn't MINE! All my friends and family said I dodged a bullet and right now I'm enjoying my new Life! No WIFE no KIDS! GOD is GOOD!
Don't forget to get those disability benefits! You earned it!
Everything is your fault even when it's her fault because you allowed her to do it. Utter and complete foolishness
so true bro
Even worst if she has excruciating pain it then becomes your pain too. Its so crazy that after awhile you become NUMB to all feelings. Its to a point now my LOVE for her is always questioned because I forgot to tell her I put my heart in the freezer years ago. Good luck to all married men cause Im getting out the marriage game soon. Its not made for real Men.
Her Bs"
Facts bros!!! Y'all still spitting truth even now
27 and planning to invest only in myself. I'm planning to travel the world solo or maybe with my bro or a friend(s) to maybe share the moment. Being married with kids would make these dreams of mine financially impossible. Marriage and children should never be a priority for anyone in this day and age. I cherish my freedom selfishly
I've never married and I'm 58. I have no children. Not one. I used to marvel when guys who were married told me that they envy me. Others said I was smarter than them. You just made me totally understand why these guys envied me and why others said I was smarter than them.
Roberto Fiad much smarter than them
Thank you, Mr. BlackRam
The secret of all this is that: it all boils down to being a long term thinker rather than a quick fix seeker. What does winning in Chess consist of? Answer: being able to foresee the sequence of a strategy about eight to twelve moves ahead. That's why the Russians are such great chess players. They look ahead and bide their time. When you're making plans that will affect your future in the long term, not for tomorrow or next month, nor even next year - but five to twenty years from now. Those who say we have only right now to deal with - forget that right now becomes yesterday at the blink of an eye. And Five years from now, that becomes right now, also at the blink of an eye. I've been a long-term thinker for a very long time. And it helps to be detail-oriented too.
Thanks.
Roberto Fiad great advice. Im 32 years old and needed to hear that
39 yrs old no wife, no girlfriend, no kids thats me & life is wonderful
popcorn chicken Excellent
This video should be mandatory for EVERY man to hear!! Especially young men, BlackRam did a masterful job in this lecture!! Lets support this brother!! His voice has to be heard!!! Thank you BlackRam!!!
SEATTLE BOYZ thank you for your support bro, its much appreciated and much gratitude
All contracts are a debt to be paid. Which means, servitude..
Ello 82 true indeed
Do you have an email my brother?
@ Ello 82 thanks for the words of wisdom, this is yes indeed true.
Is all part of the plan..to destroy the family structure....how we gonna have a continuity on society?? Without procreation of children and family values taught to our kids?
Women - "There aren't enough Economically Attractive Men"
(Also) women - "There's a Gender Pay Gap, Men make more than Women..."
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Women: Rejects 90% of men
(Also) Women: "It's men's fault why nobody is marrying anymore"
^^^
Women get everything they demand - women most affected
I asked my uncle who was the king of game in my family. what do men get out of marriage? He said the only thing a man get out of marriage is the respect of being married that's it.
worthless
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Hedonist Heathen REAL TALK.
Respect?😂😂😂😂😂
"Respect" 😂😂😂😂🤦🏾♂️
Im a woman 37, no children, not married. I really feel you. I don't like giving my power away. ❤❤❤
This IS therapeutic, maaaaaan.
Jerry Robinson yes sir!
Facts
I'm a proud single child free man.I'm never gonna get married and I'm never gonna have kids.I love myself too much to give up my freedom.
Man, I dodged a bullet! I got married, wonderfully divorced, no kids, no alimony! I am so thankful that I got out with the most minimal damage possible. I will NEVER put that noose around my neck again! I have seen pure evil and it involves a contract....stay single brothas!
excellent
Bruh I fucked around and put that noose around my neck twice like a dummy, but luckily just like you I was able to slip out without a scratch. The only thing that happened was that they both walked away with pieces of furniture and household goods and one walked away with a old car I had, but I didn't give a damn about that. Just like you I'm single with no kids and didn't have to pay them shit!!! Never again!!!
@@BlackRam313 i was inches away from marrying a girl with BPD, what stopped me was i didn't want to sign a marriage license and give away my dog. I didnt want to be a slave. I dodged a bullet also
Congrats. I learned my a lesson after one bad relationship. Left with no kids and all of my freedom.
I BELIEVE you. Every man CANNOT be telling a lie about marriage. Is it really that horrible?
Marriage is the only license you DON'T have to study for. I wonder why lol
No human Thought To hide the fact that it is nothing more than a contract.
No human Thought lol
No human Thought that's deep
The powers that be rely heavily on the "ignorance is bliss" adage to keep this world spinning the way they want it to. Look out your window from time to time it might be some black SUV'S out there. 😂
Ain't that the fucken truth!!!! Amen brotha....
I'm 46 years old, no kids, single and I love it! I work my ass off to build for myself these chicks are a trip!! I don't need the headache.
that's winning bro
Just got out of a relationship being with a single mother for a year and this is therapy for myself. Never again will I fall for a situation like that, it was hell !!!!!!
Im 37 in September with no kids/marriage and women hate the options i have, their tactis are weak and absolutely powerless !
jeff jackson you are doing well bro
Women hate men doing better for themselves
I've met lots of married men who happens to be friends, associates and relatives! and what I noticed was that they look alot older after they got married! always eating Chinese takeaways, wife can't be bothered to cook! the husband looks fat and bloated and unhealthy from chinese and Indian takeaway! the wives only care about themselves and the financial security the husband gives them!
Jamil London ive seen this too
You can feel live being sucked out of you for every year you are married until no joy is left.
That's because those men are married to narcissistic sociopathic women who are miserably empty and have nothing to offer that male partner.
I truly believe that the divorce rate in America is high because of this type of mental condition.
And those women hate accountability just like they hate men, which comes down to learned behavior.
Jamil London, you are correct in your assessment. I'm so happy that I'm no longer married.
Single Life for me.
No more syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia, super Gonorrhoea etc etc
I always tell myself it's better to be alone than to end up a statistic in this establishment.
Stephen Rogers truly
Great content. Couldn't agree more. 42 years old, single, childless and truly livin' the dream.. Always saw through females and feared the loss of my freedom and dignity. They didn't get me. I won.
After listening to this video (just now), I literally gave it a SLOW CLAP STANDING OVATION (Im not joking). One of my uncles and I had this conversation yesterday. Everything you've said is true and I agree. Im married (but currently seperated) with no kids. I enjoy living by myself (its been a while). I live a quiet (yet simple) lifestyle. I go to work, exercise, read my books & listen/watch youtube podcasts. It is truely freedom! Knowing what I know now 8 years ago I would not have gotten married, I would have stuck with casual dating. I feel that marriage is extremely OVERRATED and I don't see how it benefits the man especially hearing the horror stories (divorce, alimony, child suppprt, ect.). Its not what its cracked up to be. I try to encourage some of the younger guys to think twice before marrying a chick, but it appears that it goes through one ear and out the other (they're gonna learn though). Thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom with us.
brothacoffee Glad you are enjoying your freedom bro, thats real living
Been there, done that. NEVER again!
I am in the same position as you.
Freedom = great
I'm 26 I learned at a young age
I've just turned 35 today, never married, no wife, no kids, no worries, and I intend to remain so. I'll be debt-free within 6 months and start to travel the world as I want. I'll come back to your videos once in a while to listen to your sermon.
I'm that red pill guy who was always subconsciously woke since middle school, but tragically surcomed to family societal pressure. I love my son, but it'll never happen again. It stings worst when you are a red pill surrounded by the agents and blue pillers forever trying to absorb you in.
Neo X i understand completely bro
That is so true brother!!!!!
Having never been married, no kids, getting a vasectomy many years ago, has served me well. I have great credit and I'm never looking back.
MGTOW SWORD that's right bro
Well done!
I'm a recovering simp I was married 3 years but it was 13 yr relationship she had two sons I had two jobs cars put her in a house after the split credit on house assests lost layoff came then she decided to move on with a lame sorry dude I'm rebuild mode now but it's getting better brothers get out the matrix free your mind follow the most high shalom pump and dump keep it pushing or stay away
Judah thats right bro, stay strong stay pushing
BlackRam313 had to listen to it twice. Bottom line. Institutional marriage is slavery. I can't see it any other way.
@Judah, be careful with the pump and dump part when it come to black women. Condoms can break and then you have an unintended pregnancy. A man will easily end right back in child support hell when all he wanted for a safe nutt!!!
you are right brother I was just making a point but always avoid those situations
The Most High says "no adultery, no fornication". This means no "pump and dump" ever.
I'm proud to have no kids nor wife that take me to the cleaners via divorce settlement
Single Life for me.
No more syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia, super Gonorrhoea etc etc
I'm always glad I followed my instincts I could of been married with kids long time ago but I always enjoyed the freedom that being "single" brings..all my coworkers that's married with kids always ask me when imma settle down but I kno they just want me to be miserable like they are..keep dropping the heat Ram❗️🤘🏾
ThaSavior Wilson indeed bro, a beautiful thing
ThaSavior Wilson hahaha similar too me but i got fired one time from a job because the coworkers found out i was single with no kids that pissed they sorry asses off.
Im a living witness to struggles of this man/ woman game. Coworkers with 30+ years on the job cant retire bc they taking care of ex-wives who automatically gets a cut of their pension due to union rules. U think i aint soak up this game 8 yrs ago when i 1st got hired. In the words of Blackram 'I aints no Goofyyy!'
Mel Makathi yep, i have co workers in the same positions bro. Thank for commenting
I soaked up 5 years of game while in the army, but I learned my lesson one year prior to going to basic training.
"No wife, happy life!" I am 59 and every day I am happy and no children as well. Women dislike a man who they can not control.
40 years old !!! Single , no kids , never been married, traveling all over the world , 2019 X5 BMW, 2005 Z hooked up, 2 well paying jobs ( because I feel like having 2 jobs) , live in an affluent community. I buy what I want !! Go where I want , fuck who I want , the crib is hooked up 85 inch tv , in amazing shape !!! Have a rotation of about 9 women !!! Life is amazing and great !!! BTW I still look like like I’m in my early 30s , late 20s even!!! ITS AMAZING TO BE FREE ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽!! Brothers live for yourself !!!
Yes sir 😂
bro, im trying to get over this simp ass mode im in. just lost my woman an i know she was the epitome of what you talk about, but i cant even front im hurt she can be fine without me but im stuck with the hurt. hoping one day your lessons take root bro.
MR M take the red pill & go down the rabbit hole.
Wilsonian Garveyite im trying, i just need to master my emotions an learn how to let go of this woman.
MR M brother, go cold turkey no contact. don't be her friend. it will only disappoint you. stay away and move on. it'll be tough to do, but, be strong and move on. I am speaking from personal experience.
I know it's hard, bro. Hang in there! I've been there.
bigQ thanks, just out of curiosity how long did it take you to get over it?
38 years old. No wife, no kids and no problems. Mental and physical health, check. Freedom to pursue my interests, check. Ability to grow my savings and invest, check. Ability to meditate and focus on spiritual aspects of life, check.
A man only has one life to live. Most men crumble under the pressure of societal expectations and norms, succumbing to the fear of being ostracized and therefore accepting a forced way of life, slaves to the validation of others, mentally colonized drones and zombies without no chance to express the uniqueness of their individual characters.
I refuse to succumb to the expectations of those who had no power to bring about my existence in this sphere. So I scoff at peer pressure and societal rebuttals of the way I live my life. I am amongst the chosen few who posses the mental fortitude and emotional maturity to reject the flawed and mundane traditions of the masses, in order to pursue true freedom, self discovery and ultimate destiny.
nemiaidid well and beautifully stated bro
BlackRam313 Thanks bro. The whole notion that once a man reaches a certain age, he must pursue a woman and woo her into marriage is a construct of the capitalist industrial complex. Elitists use it to consolidate wealth and for the rest of us, it is a trap.
I have realized that the reason single, childless men are feared and why people try to pressure and shame you into marriage is that the system wants men to be utilities, batteries that power the economy, enslaved by consumerism. The system knows that women and children are consumeristic in nature and therefore a man will need to slave away for life in order to satisfy their constant, irrational, selfish and emotional whims.
The image of the wife, kids, house with picket white fence and the dog, is nothing but a mirage in a desert of the dry bones of men who have been lured by this lie.
I'm 30 plus, successful, childless, and never married.. And In Atlanta... Brothas.. I'm truly free!
Suave Marco salute
That’s where I’m trying to be
I’m 26 years old, no kids nor do I want any and I’m in the process of getting my first house!
Excellent.. Keep up thr good work bro
no child support,no nightmare, hallelujah
This video will never get the respect or recognition it deserves.
My computer is my wife
Harrison Jones lol
PornHub
That's Mrs Porn Hub Jones to you mister 😂
Listening to this at my desk this morning, what a great way to start the day. Inspirational. Thank you sir.
R.P. McMurphy my pleasure bro. Thx for watching
BlackRam313 ??BROTHER WHEN YOU MEAN GETTING MARRIED YOU MEAN IN THE WESTERN WORLD WERE THE LAWS FAVOR WOMEN , BUT NOT THE PLACES WERE THE MEN GET MARRIED AND IS COMPLETE CONTROL AND DO WHAT THEY PLEASE CORRECT ? BECAUSE I DO WANT KIDS BUT NOT IN AMERICA, I DON'T MIND HAVING MY WIFE WALK BEHIND ME AND TAKING CARE OF MY KIDS AND DOING WHAT I SAY ,AND HAVING 4 WIFE'S 🤣😂 JUST AS LONG THE LAWS BENIFIT ME AND SHE CAN'T CALL COPS ON ME. WOULD YOU DO A VIDEO ON PLACES WERE IT BENIFIT TO GET MARRIED . BECAUSE I'M STARTING TO UNDERSTAND WHY DIFFER CULTURE LIKE ARABS COVER THIER WOMEN AND LET THEM WALK BEHIND THEM AND HAVE NO SAY. SEEING THE AMERICA WAYS AND LAWS WERE THE WIFE GETS ALL BENIFITS SUCK . IM NEW TO YOUR CHANNEL AND STAND BY YOU 100% IN WHAT YOU SAY . MAYBE YOU DID ALREADY BUT I HAVE TO LOOK AT ALL YOUR VIDEOS TO SEE, THIS IS MY 4TH VIDEO , SO CAN YOU SHOW THE DIFFERENCE IN WESTERN MARRIAGE AND THE BENIFTS OF MARRIAGE IN OTHER CULTERS WERE IT MIGHT BENIFIT A MAN WHEN LAWS DONT BENIFIT WOMEN AND NOT ALLOW TO HAVE SAY ABOUT A MAN DOINGS. THANKS
I remember when Prince William of Great Britain got married. He was an afterthought in the entire affair. Kate Middleton was focused upon the entire time even though she was a "commoner" who was marrying into royalty.
Not that I did not already know about the fraud that is marriage, but that event just underscored just how much marriage is for the woman, royalty or not!
ContrarianExpatriate yep, i remember that
Contrarian how about the latest Royal Marriage?
Even worse for his brother.
Officially became a MGTOW...i was always at heart. Ended a 5 year relationship 3 weeks ago. Basically was in the road that would lead to having kids and then cs to an ex carousel rider which drove me insane with anxiety and lack of connection! No more relationships for this 42 yo. no kids. thanks for your videos!!!
Army Parrot thank you for watching, glad you avoided the trap
Greetings mgtow brother
Excellent discussion. I just sent this to my son in college and my nephews. This is the kind of talk that young men need to hear.
DeaconSlade yes, more men need to decide against marriage
A wise man once said that marriage is legalize prostitution !
i will watch this message over and over again to really stick It in myself. i will internalize freedom in myself once and for all!
Lucas Marques thats right bro
The thing is though when you DON'T have No WIFE, No KIDS, and No Problems is not only are you totally FREE but also you have total control in fufiling your destiny with tranquility.
No Wife, No KIDS, and No Problems is the all new ART OF FIGHTING WITHOUT FIGHTING in living the single life.
Very well said in my bruce lee voice 😂😂😂
Dang, haven't see this one in a long time, it is just too good.
39 year old black man no kids never been married and im in a peace and relaxed state cant complain bout to go to the Philippines later this month and be treated like a king appreciate the content big bro the therapy in 2017 has helped me thru it. Peace.
EXCELLENCE!!!!!
I agree a woman is still a woman fam no matter where you go but this will be my second visit and like you said the women are genuinely feminine. Peace.
Update!!!
this my daily reminder 😂
One of the best videos Fam In My Divorce I Was Left With Nothing, But My Uniforms It Took Almost 6 Months Just Get Back On My Feet & 1 1/2Year To Get My Credit Together SMH In This Country Everything is Against Masculinity
Henry Brown indeed bro, being single is freedom
Henry Brown
You can't put a price on 'Piece of Mind'. You can rebuild your resources (money & material possessions) but you cannot turn back the clock to get back YOUR TIME. I wish you an enjoyable life!
Ritch Goodson thank you much respect same for you family enjoyable life
I'm 43 years old. No kids and EX WIFE...THANK GOD !!
good living bro
Everyone man and male, young and old in this Western society should hear this message and apply. Outstanding Ram!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
d Rock den thank you
your videos really help out in seeing the truly evil manipulative games women play keep the info coming
Judah Glory to Yah
Im working on becoming that "CHAMPION"you spoke of! Salute to you Blackram
Tim C my pleasure bro... stay strong
Tim C I'm already a👑 CHAMPION simply by being the real me and living by my OWN TRUTH as a real MGTOW😎👌.
Still coming back to this gem after like 6 years brother
It's the equivalent of being enslaved by a broad
Book of Alpha-Ronomy yep, no real man would submit himself to that... marriage is beta behavior
BlackRam313
No truer words have ever been spoken
Talk that talk brother! Most of my married guy friends tell me “ never get married it sucks” ! I saw the writing on the wall many moons ago
Today 4of July, is my B Day... 41. no wife, no kids... Very Beautiful Peace of Mind... And I wouldn't give it up for something less...
C.WrightMatrix 7.22 a beautiful life bro
C.WrightMatrix 7.22 same bday bro
You have never lied! I don't need a crazy bipolar moody creature living with me. I'm good
Black Sniper! Indeed bro
Wow... I almost cried listening to this.
Amazing work brother.
Your Video is saving the lives of Many Men.
Neck of the Woods Updated yes sir!
52 minutes of truth.
david grier thx bro
When a co worker ..family member or friend is getting married I usually sarcastically say" my condolences " and smile
I feel exactly where you are coming from BlackRam313, it's so ass backwards dealing with the lames that a "Real Man" only has 1 option. I embraced who i am and walked away from the bullshit & my quality of life thanks me for it. Keep up the good work brother, your service is not going unnoticed..
thx bro
Mike so true. You can also say it as - BACK ASS WARDS!
I don't usually comment on these channels because of the gynocentric backlash so many of face but I had to say something on this video Blackram. This video touched me in a most powerful way brother. I wanted to cry because of the truth of what your saying. You spoke to my condition and situation with my own children and x wife. Many of us are suffering at the hands of this demonic system that wars against men. Please keep making this life changing content. When I am able I will send a donation to support brothers like you speaking out the truth of our current conditions. God bless IBMOR and God bless the redpill mansophere!!!
Sam Rooks thank you very much for commenting... we are all in a struggle against this system.. stay strong and stay well bro. thanks again
Soliders on the front line. Black Ram keep doing ur thing.
Trent No Spoons Colt thx bro
Dead on.....I did NOT bow to my wife......and I never will.
Charles Merchant thats right bro
Congratulations Ram on reaching 10K subs sir!
thanks Solo
No Wife, Happy Life.
Happy Wife, Unhappy Husband.
Here is one benefit. A man who gets married can be observed by (us men) as a lab rat..and see what happens as she distroyes his life...The best TV is marriage
Tony Broom lol.... so true bro
I've been divorced 10 years with children i see once a week after a court case. I LOVE living alone, it's perfect and I've been alone 10 years and plan to continue this for the rest of my life! I have found hobbies and i never feel alone. I love being in solitude. Spot on mate 👌
My Son will inherit my assets and legacy. However, a man can mentor a young male relative or mentor a group of young men. His name can live on through others and the great things he accomplished.
bigQ Facts
bigQ true
bigQ Great Idea I will try this
Specially in the Information Era, it's easier than ever to mentor men.
Married once. Divorced that toxic beast. No kids. Love being unattached and no obligations to anyone. Positivity and peace of mind is priceless
Don't fuck with a single mom...those kids will play psychological games with you too. You're being used for your financial support. after a year or 2 trust and believe somebody else got her legs up in the air. #GentlemanOfLeisure
Blackram313. I'm back and tuned in bro!
Pisces Moon true words bro
Powerful shit bro!!!!!
oliver lewis thx bro
Crazy thing I just recorded on a similar topic this A.M.... You touched all bases so no need for me to reiterate. Damn good content IBMOR
Book of Alpha-Ronomy you should put it out anyway bro
This Was Very Powerful.
I'm 27 no wife, no kids and I can honestly say I'm more happier in my life than the majority of the ppl that are either married or in a relationship who are miserable and even females was trying to set me up with a chick who's way out of my league which is pathetic and deserve better scoring wise
Adad Joseph lol... you are winning bro
Adad Joseph hmmmm....27. thats how old i was when i quit trussting women and took the red pill
Never trusted women and staying single is the best decision you can make because being with a women is energy and time consuming.
You clarified this perfectly if this did not sink in heads it won't
jimmy2642 thx bro
Ain't nothin' new: the devil has been using women to destroy men since the Garden of Eden...
@16:30 when you said a person doesn’t worship his own god as much as he worships his woman, read 1 Corinthians 7 chapter 32 a single man cares about things of the lord, a married man must please his wife.” Either you’re serving god(yourself, purpose) or serving god thru your wife (her and Uncle Sam)
This was posted 30 min ago and already 69 ppl including me liked it. He didn't even finish
Triple Siblings lol
Triple Siblings they liked it off the title alone!
I have always wondered why people still marry now a days. Have they not heared the divorce horror stories lately ?
Rodel Men never learn
Hello sir! I just came across your video. I listened to everything you said. You are so right! I am 26 year old virgin. I only had one girlfriend but we broke up because she wanted me to give her attention so she cheated. I could've had sex with her but I didn't. She was my high school girlfriend. She currently has two kids by two different men! I'm so glad I dodge a bullet there! I am not embarrassed about being a virgin at 26. At least I don't have kids by a money hungry woman or have diseases. I am a lone wolf! Im at peace when I'm alone. Thank you for this insightful video.
Yo are the true winner bro!
Also 26 and a virgin, man. :D It's tempting, i know but its not worth it in the end and you're losing more than you're gaining.
SuperNinjaKenny3 keep ur head up .... those who walk alone have the strongest direction in life “ ... it’s ok to be alone Wolf ..
There is NO reason to be embarrassed! Enjoy your life the way you want, don't care about outsider's opinions.
@@555Dragoon It might not even be worth it in the beginning...
Peace and serenity are priceless... I never get tired of doing anything I want for as long as I want to do it.... without someone else planning my life..... I could never imagine going back.....
Back to the basics 💯
Marriage leads to slavery. You are trading the shackles for a ring on your finger. Be free, #IBMOR
Lord Banzai thats right bro
I’m 24 years old, I was that simp that got married when I was 20 only to provide a better life for this woman.
Divorced at 23, since then I have been improving myself everyday with a smile on my face. Marriage is a game for the government to tax you on.
I dodged a large bullet. This is what I have done with my life since my gf dumped by two years ago:
I joined the army
I was accepted into the MBA program at Syracuse
Plan on working for the State Department or CIA after the army.
The first two events above were both discouraged by my ex. She said I didnt need a MBA and was too old to join the military. I've done both with her out of my life. Men, women are nothing but an anchor and nothing more. Tom Leykis called them what they exactly are, "DREAM KILLERS".
King Drudge my best to YOU! My "trophy wife" killed my dream of a million dollar career, by "convincing me" to refuse the job, AFTER I had it! Jesus! What a financial, spiritual, and emotional disaster my marriage was. She "traded me in for a new model" - then divorced him with 18 yrs support.
Tom Leykis is the man!
Tom Leykis married 4 times.
Divorced 4 times.
Ouch
@@benlotus2703 Some men need to suffer hard to learn, I rather observe others.
@@coiledsteel8344 Women - "There aren't enough Economically Attractive Men"
(Also) women - "There's a Gender Pay Gap, Men make more than Women..."
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Women: Rejects 90% of men
(Also) Women: "It's men's fault why nobody is marrying anymore"
^^^
Women get everything they demand - women most affected
Had to revisit the classic again
For those of you who start to feel lonely and thinking marriage and kids will fix that:
Have gratitude that you are single and free. Count your blessings, and learn how to pump and dump.
I'll never complain about my child as long as I can maintain my wife away from me like I've been doing then I'm good, wouldn't change my Daughter for anything this world it's easy for y'all single men to say that. Now the wife aspect I get it but if there's any married men on here then maybe not all but I guarantee you a lot will tell you that a child is a different story compared to a wife/woman.
If the morjority of WOMEN did make wise Choices in life well then there would be NO kids out of wedlock and there would be NO NEED for a mentor to take over the real father's role.
truly
White mgtow here. Thank you for the wisdom shared. My sentiments exactly.
Magnus H indeed, thanks for watching
I was hooked as soon as I pushed play. Subscribed!
wow speaking the truth.