COMING OUT (ELLE MILLS STYLE)

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  • UPDATE AS OF 2021: I'm a lesbian! :D
    My Instagram: / elle.mills
    My TikTok: / directedbyellemills
    My Letterboxd: letterboxd.com/ellemills
    My Twitter: / millselle
    My Second Channel: / lifeofthemills
    My Facebook: / elleofthemills
    For business inquiries: abrown@avalon-usa.com
    Graphic Designer: / sjprejola
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  • @xenyli5163
    @xenyli5163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8536

    "You cant be gay. I'm gay"
    Literary can't stop replaying that part. I'm wheezing

    • @damnright181
      @damnright181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Me @ my boyfriend

    • @pamspeaking5645
      @pamspeaking5645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I literally read this comment while watching that part

    • @fatamy7828
      @fatamy7828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      damn right I’m confused

    • @wrbgcreased8483
      @wrbgcreased8483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Think u spelt literally wrong

    • @hailey1611
      @hailey1611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i laughed out loud in french class

  • @manuosorno2638
    @manuosorno2638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6146

    "You cant be gay! Im gay" most ICONIC sentence of 2017.

    • @GuacBloc
      @GuacBloc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      UrDailyRamenNoodles chan this was made in 2017

    • @harpa9735
      @harpa9735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      What year are you in bruh

    • @lsjaowhwbkwhwksha5926
      @lsjaowhwbkwhwksha5926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMFAOOO YES

    • @stipser1
      @stipser1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He be like "bitch, thats my job"

    • @min.yoonmix
      @min.yoonmix 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol yes

  • @nugget2113
    @nugget2113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2151

    I love how every video of hers is like a movie.

  • @iovekylie
    @iovekylie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2042

    “You can’t be gay, I’m gay!”
    Y E S

    • @annabeld7758
      @annabeld7758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how come this has so many likes but no replies??

    • @iovekylie
      @iovekylie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmfao, im just coming back to this and asking myself the same thing

    • @annabeld7758
      @annabeld7758 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iovekylie lmao

    • @toedoctor8803
      @toedoctor8803 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bark

    • @min.yoonmix
      @min.yoonmix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

  • @oliviaflickinger9642
    @oliviaflickinger9642 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3603

    "You can't be gay. I'm gay." iconic

    • @anxiety...328
      @anxiety...328 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Fabulous Flickinger 😂

    • @ellarichards9919
      @ellarichards9919 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Fabulous Flickinger that was so funny lmao

    • @davinci3687
      @davinci3687 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Fabulous Flickinger she's taking his spotlight xD

    • @hhdhjjsjjs4938
      @hhdhjjsjjs4938 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fabulous Flickinger I'm gay as well *I'm a girl*

  • @char9265
    @char9265 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11741

    "U can't be gay I'm gay"
    That's my favorite thing in the world

  • @zoebean3602
    @zoebean3602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1564

    elle: "hi, i'm elle mills and i'm bisexual"
    immediately in my head: hi. im ryan. and my life? iS kInDa CrAzY

  • @samscenefordummies8706
    @samscenefordummies8706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3666

    You know there's an issue in the world when someone is literally breaking down crying, worrying about the relationship they have with their family just because of their sexual and romantic orientation.

    • @queensaharaice7376
      @queensaharaice7376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yep

    • @ace_jm7212
      @ace_jm7212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me !!!

    • @nicebot337
      @nicebot337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @Ciyilynn Warnock Then you're very lucky, my life has been hell ever since I realized I was bi and I'm not even out yet because of how homophobic my whole family is I'm not ready for any of it lmao

    • @andrewabril4481
      @andrewabril4481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nicebot337 My family was too, then a week ago I told them I was bi and they were like: "you know what that's okay, we love u"
      So be positive!

    • @nicebot337
      @nicebot337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@andrewabril4481 That's awesome, congrats for coming out and being so brave ❤❤
      I'll try to stay positive even tho I barely have any hope about it, my dad stopped talking to his own brother after he came out as gay, and my mom is no better..

  • @1ily1ily
    @1ily1ily 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3031

    "you can't be gay, I'm gay."
    same tho

    • @ayannasaini2318
      @ayannasaini2318 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      can i have a cookie?

    • @CHENDAMusic
      @CHENDAMusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What are you trying ta say there, boo? 😏

  • @erinh2835
    @erinh2835 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2653

    “Hi I’m Elle Mills and I’m Bisexual.”
    AND IM CRYING
    4:32

    • @maryfreegirl2029
      @maryfreegirl2029 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      and i'm dad

    • @mazzytaylor
      @mazzytaylor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      hi crying i'm dying nice to meet you

    • @justyce6035
      @justyce6035 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i got chills

    • @rahay1611
      @rahay1611 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When she said that I screamed “OMFG ME TOO” and that’s how my 9 year old brother and neighbors now know 🙃😂😂

    • @siennasummer
      @siennasummer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m hungry

  • @taylorkiely6675
    @taylorkiely6675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5140

    "Hi im elle mills and im bisexual"
    My brain: dont say it
    Me:
    Me:
    Me:
    Me:
    Me:
    Me:
    Me: Hi bisexual im dad

    • @scarytaco1915
      @scarytaco1915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      I’m weak

    • @jhoonggi1252
      @jhoonggi1252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      im DECEASED

    • @jugbejuuxnwkd2032
      @jugbejuuxnwkd2032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      IM AVOCADO WHEN ITS LEFT OUT FOR TOO LONG

    • @hpeyboy
      @hpeyboy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      LMAO

    • @pianorelaxing8330
      @pianorelaxing8330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Game Playz I’m assuming you’re bi too. Only bi people and dads share that humor lmao😂

  • @samkinz2048
    @samkinz2048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    The crush she was talking about was Dodie 😂 Soooo cute!!

    • @jamien.5528
      @jamien.5528 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really??

    • @samkinz2048
      @samkinz2048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jamie N. Yea!! I found out in Vidon! Search Dodie and Elle Mills Vidons confessing their Crush.

  • @Mexicanon
    @Mexicanon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2875

    when I told my mom I was bi she said okay, walked out of my room, then came back in a minute later and said "sofia...i have something to tell you...you're bi" and then we just laughed. she's my favorite person in the world

    • @121265841
      @121265841 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      I love your mom lmao

    • @sofia-xg7ml
      @sofia-xg7ml 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      i love you right now, my name’s Sofia and i’m bi too

    • @sunnybae
      @sunnybae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      oh gosh i'm a biromantic sofia too

    • @skinnyfrog1399
      @skinnyfrog1399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My mom told me I was going through a phase when I told her so I lied a few months later saying I’m straight

    • @moe3528
      @moe3528 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@skinnyfrog1399 my mom said the same thing to my sister after she came out then married her wife. My sister asked me the same thing when I came out as bi because this question was drilled into her for a long time. We still have a long way to go

  • @trash912
    @trash912 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13193

    "you can't be gay, im gay"
    MERCH 👏 MATERIAL 👏

    • @fatigued4646
      @fatigued4646 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Rover :P copied 👏 comment

    • @bunny2319
      @bunny2319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Rover :P thats a mf quote.

    • @officialsailorblue625
      @officialsailorblue625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m stealing it

    • @mlmazur2007
      @mlmazur2007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That would make a great shirt!

    • @null9196
      @null9196 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rover :P ITS THE BIGGEST MOOD

  • @benjaminward774
    @benjaminward774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    “You can’t be gay, I’m gay” I love that you made this

  • @sharnaaspinall4502
    @sharnaaspinall4502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    WHEN I TELL YOU I DIED
    I F**KING DIED
    “You can’t be gay, I’m gay!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @homestucker7760
    @homestucker7760 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1616

    "You can't be gay, IM gay" 😂😂

  • @izzyy87
    @izzyy87 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10893

    “hi I’m Elle Mills, and I’m bisexual.”
    me: *hi, I’m a human, and I’m EMOTIONAL.*

    • @haydenam
      @haydenam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      hi i’m donald mouse and you’re not watch chisney dannel.

    • @mechanicmain5471
      @mechanicmain5471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Hi I'm every friends therapist and I have problems too

    • @gigiphobic
      @gigiphobic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hi, im an attack helicopter and i fly around

    • @connorphilipp
      @connorphilipp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hi I'm not a ginger so yes I have a soul

    • @nevaehmelendez3891
      @nevaehmelendez3891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      OMG I AM BISEXUAL TO BUT IM 10 YEARS OLD SO IM WAITING TO TELL MY FAM

  • @maddisyn.smallwood
    @maddisyn.smallwood 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    “You can’t be gay, I’m gay”
    😂when I say I wheezed I WHEEZED

  • @jjthepikazard212
    @jjthepikazard212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    it's been almost four years & this is still the best coming out video i've ever seen

  • @OXCookieCatXO
    @OXCookieCatXO 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3060

    "Hi, I'm Elle Mills and I'm Bisexual"
    **VIOLENT SOBBING**

    • @allyg8254
      @allyg8254 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isabella C. why do I picture violent sobbing like this:
      😭😤 but like in one emoji- ok I will go home😂

    • @lilia_._galaxy
      @lilia_._galaxy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SAME

    • @abbiesapp2922
      @abbiesapp2922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love your profile pic!

    • @Abi-pr5ze
      @Abi-pr5ze 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I WOKE MY DOG UP AND THIS ISNT EVEN MY FORDT TIME WATCHING IT OMG

    • @eunheeoh3265
      @eunheeoh3265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aCTUAL REPRESENTATION OF ME CRYING OUT LOUD

  • @camdotcoms
    @camdotcoms 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9226

    “I’m not gonna lie. I’m a little scared.”
    *is literally crying*

  • @quiereme7285
    @quiereme7285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    “Hi, I’m Elle Mills and I’m bisexual”
    Me: *inhales with a deep sobbing sound inside my chest as background* I wish I had the courage to come out as well-

    • @betsuamunoz7604
      @betsuamunoz7604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It be like thattttt

    • @quiereme7285
      @quiereme7285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank you :) I appreciate it really. Happy Pride Month! 🌈 and I-- I've been trying my best to come out, hinting many times but in these past few months in the process, it seems like my family is more... Traditional so that'll take more than a while. Nonetheless, that didn't stop me from coming out to other people!

    • @quiereme7285
      @quiereme7285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this made my day, thank you 💕 I'm happy that someone is rooting for me to come out. It's a scary process since where I live is more traditional than not. Hopefully, my family would catch on and accept me than the latter when we talked about it once.

  • @vviviliny
    @vviviliny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    4:22 when jay gave her a fist bump it made me so happy cuz usually he’d push her away and stuff😭💛

  • @nhuluu5803
    @nhuluu5803 6 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    "you can't be gay I'm gay" 😂 I swear elle u made me cry I'm so proud of you this is now my favourite vid 💕 I love the reactions!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @niachosemal1436
    @niachosemal1436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1762

    "you can't be gay I'm gay"
    I'm laughing so hard

  • @filo4854
    @filo4854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Her: breaking down crying
    Tv behind her: playing som poorly animated kids show

  • @mary-gx5cl
    @mary-gx5cl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    *elle:* “...until i met her”
    *me, rewatching this video for the 7392nd time at 3am:* “DODIE”

  • @hopeelizabeth6916
    @hopeelizabeth6916 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3045

    "You can't be gay I'm gay" 😂

  • @aarieyonce9686
    @aarieyonce9686 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1966

    *You can't be gay, I'm gay.* 😂😂😂

    • @allyy4681
      @allyy4681 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dude that guy is my cousin lol I’m like wtffff 😂😂 like I’m dead serious rn

    • @damien1682
      @damien1682 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why is he me tho😂

    • @ilikefrogs9782
      @ilikefrogs9782 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      forrestgump._ like same?

    • @jengum2803
      @jengum2803 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I laughed at that 😂

    • @personpeople6297
      @personpeople6297 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      forrestgump._ lol

  • @thatonewithoutaprofile9722
    @thatonewithoutaprofile9722 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    "You cant be gay I'm gay"
    Me: god dangit -uncuffs jeans-

  • @paris-zq3tk
    @paris-zq3tk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    When I came out to my best friend she came up to me looked my dead in the eye and licked the side of my face and said I can taste the rainbow 🌈.

    • @alyssalelis1084
      @alyssalelis1084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      That's pretty gay-

    • @muneerah6955
      @muneerah6955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Awww hahahahahha

    • @someonetoignore3300
      @someonetoignore3300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      What the fuck, i mean i get it but, thats a little weird, i dont think i wanted to know that

    • @viziree4965
      @viziree4965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      BAHAHAHA

    • @michelle6700
      @michelle6700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      and everybody clapped lmaoaoajdisjdjd

  • @GarrettWatts
    @GarrettWatts 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30026

    Incredible. This is incredible. Thank you for making this.

    • @rodrigoogirdor774
      @rodrigoogirdor774 6 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      Garrett Watts omg Garreeettt i love you ❤❤❤

    • @greenmachine8100
      @greenmachine8100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +238

      HOLY SHIT ITS GARRETT🙌🙌🙌

    • @moonbelle
      @moonbelle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Garrett Watts garrett!!

    • @ozlemdelal9957
      @ozlemdelal9957 6 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      awww my fave supporting my other fave heck yes

    • @kristinajaramillo
      @kristinajaramillo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Garret I loveeee youuuu

  • @katie-gk8yn
    @katie-gk8yn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5825

    My coming out story:
    Me: mom I'm bi
    Mom: cool
    Me:...
    Mom: come help me wash dishes

    • @rhonanscowcroft3118
      @rhonanscowcroft3118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      😂😂

    • @joveee3718
      @joveee3718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +329

      i came out to my mom as bi and my mom came out as bi to me soo

    • @ok-ex2sm
      @ok-ex2sm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      😂

    • @joveee3718
      @joveee3718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@annan1690 not really, after i came out to her she kept telling me stories on how she had a girlfriend and she loved (insert v bad inappropriate thing here). And she just keeps on telling me the stories OVER AND OVER.

    • @kayleemars437
      @kayleemars437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      aWildKateEloise i told my mom i was lesbo on the way to my first date with a girl 😂 she’s my gf now we chillin

  • @avakhanthavong4033
    @avakhanthavong4033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    My brother: “I need to get a sugar daddy”
    My mom: 😂
    My sister: “why can’t boys just like boys and girls like girls”
    My mom: 🤷‍♀️
    *both straight*
    Me: I’ll go to a lgbtq festival
    My mom: NO YOU AINT

    • @homitb
      @homitb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ava Khanthavong 😂😂😂

    • @yes391
      @yes391 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haven and Nomi 😤 why didn't she let you 😤

    • @lundy169
      @lundy169 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yes391 it's called christianity

  • @rachelc4179
    @rachelc4179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    i hope this isn’t to weird- but like while i was in the closet i watched this so many times i maybe around 6ish months after coming out i rewatches this AHHH THIS IS SUCH A GREAT VIDEO

  • @francescaalvaro9983
    @francescaalvaro9983 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2077

    All the girls: awwww give me a hug
    Boy: u can't be gay, IM gay
    😂😂😂😂

    • @Chris-wz9js
      @Chris-wz9js 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Francesca Alvaro Wie wär es mal mit Englisch?

    • @bethanyrreid
      @bethanyrreid 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      he said you can be gay, i’m gay

  • @litrallynotmebruh9531
    @litrallynotmebruh9531 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1896

    "you can't be gay im gay" omg lol

    • @hirasyed9185
      @hirasyed9185 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fearless Dreamer 😂ikr made me. Crack uo

    • @emilydominguez4605
      @emilydominguez4605 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      First his reaction, his face was like shook and then that line just killed me. It was hilarious

    • @HuntressWizard
      @HuntressWizard 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me tho

    • @gabrielleappelman7477
      @gabrielleappelman7477 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love that line

  • @miodx8947
    @miodx8947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    “Hi, I'm Elle Mills, and I'm bisexual.”
    “Hi, I'm Katherine, and I'm bisexual.”
    Same, dude. Bv

  • @Ghostiers
    @Ghostiers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    I would love to like come out to my family but I know that they’re gonna be disappointed at me because once when I asked my family what they think about the LGBTQ community they just looked confused and unhappy and when I asked my sister about what she thinks she literally said “I “support” them but if I find out that you’re gay/bisexual/etc. you’re not my sister anymore” and the reason why I put quotations marks on support is that she acts like she supports them but then she actually does not and now I’m just so so scared to come out like I never knew that they were that homophobic and what’s more depressing about my situation is that I’m gonna be that one black sheep in the family

    • @DraconianNyx
      @DraconianNyx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same sis same

    • @felixarchives8424
      @felixarchives8424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Aww that’s rough I’m sorry x

    • @crazycookie294
      @crazycookie294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Its gonna be okay in the end. If they cant love you and see how amazing you are bc of your sexuality well then THATS ON THEM AND THEY DONT DESERVE YOU!! Only come out when you are ready and safe

    • @katylepetsos7512
      @katylepetsos7512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      If they can’t accept you then it’s their loss.

    • @zero893
      @zero893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww i have came out to my sister and brother they really supported me so if u need to talk to anyone im here for u !! If u all need someone to talk to im here for u 😌😌😌💕

  • @emslife6002
    @emslife6002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1753

    “I asked you so many times” “I know”
    God that hit hard.

  • @marcelavallejo1559
    @marcelavallejo1559 6 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    “ hi I’m elleofthemills and I’m bisexual” AHHHH THE ENDING HAD ME IN TEARS 😭

  • @raulgolfs
    @raulgolfs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Coming over from The Colin & Samir Podcast. WOW. Beautiful video Elle! Congratulations on having the strength to make this! This is my first time seeing a video of yours, you are an incredible talent. Keep crushing it and being you!

  • @daisy-td9qs
    @daisy-td9qs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bro this was beautiful wtf, and the amazing editing made it so much more impactful - can't believe I saw this for the first time today

  • @ScarfeeEdits
    @ScarfeeEdits 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7237

    "YOU CANNOT BE GAY, I'M GAY"
    THE BEST RESPONSE

    • @Adderallie
      @Adderallie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Petr Lizunov yep

    • @programmm
      @programmm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Is she trying to say coke is gay....

    • @braideno6247
      @braideno6247 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Truth Lives This is what happens when you do meth, kids.

    • @alex-hn2vs
      @alex-hn2vs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i think we need a new episode of your grammar sucks, starring this comment.

    • @emmcey
      @emmcey 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      you do look pretty gay with that haircut Petr

  • @hasberry2.059
    @hasberry2.059 6 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    this is the most EXTRA COMING OUT STORY EVER AND I LOVE IT😭💗, but honestly I stared crying when Elle started crying because we usually never see her sad and I knew exactly what you meant. Holding in your identity for so long really does mess with your head and make you depressed:( but you know we are all here for you and we will forever be💗

    • @brilife8797
      @brilife8797 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thatssojay OMG SAME

    • @brilife8797
      @brilife8797 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I started crying

  • @rosemarie8821
    @rosemarie8821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The thing I love about this is that even after a year of being it being posted I come back and watch it, bc it’s so accurate in my life rn that it’s funny to see where I was when I first watched this video and where I am now. a year ago, I couldn’t even think about liking a girl, but luckily im now in the process of telling all of my friends and family and I’m so happy that I had u to help me through this and to let me know that I’m not alone

  • @kerrid5717
    @kerrid5717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The sheer amounts of positivity and acceptance in this video makes my heart GLOWWW

  • @doddleoddle
    @doddleoddle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6692

    UM FUCK

  • @gain1576
    @gain1576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1430

    ‘YOU CANT BE GAY. IM GAY.’ Had me dead 😂

    • @Freddy-uq3oj
      @Freddy-uq3oj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gain I was looking for this comment 😂😂😂

    • @d3m0nsh1n3
      @d3m0nsh1n3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my friends

    • @riverpittman1795
      @riverpittman1795 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      literally me and my friends

  • @dannysantos1266
    @dannysantos1266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ♥️ Thrilled that THIS was the first video of yours that I’ve ever seen.

  • @eliyia7697
    @eliyia7697 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I barely started watching Elle, and this is the first vid I stumble upon. So glad I did 😩

  • @elizabethnygard4644
    @elizabethnygard4644 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1012

    "You cant be gay, im gay." XD

    • @sophiaingram9498
      @sophiaingram9498 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hime JIX that's literally me and my friends

  • @11jokerchen11
    @11jokerchen11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1183

    In my eyes this honestly deserves some sort of short film award. I've never seen something largely unscripted with so much clarity, perfect editing and cinematography before. Aside from the fact that wrapping your own house in rainbow gift wrap is the kind of thing only you would do that's already straight out of a coming-of-age movie script, the way the video turned out is just like a movie too.
    This was the first video I saw from you and I wasn't expecting something of such high quality, with so much heart and artistry. You changed my standards for TH-cam videos, honestly.

    • @KaWiReloaded
      @KaWiReloaded 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 👏👏👏

    • @jamesrodriguez5696
      @jamesrodriguez5696 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      But it is scripted.

    • @KaWiReloaded
      @KaWiReloaded 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      James Neil Rodriguez yes that’s why he called it
      A short film

  • @professorhistoire5349
    @professorhistoire5349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Best coming out video PERIODT. Done masterfully, with both humour and seriousness, and such a creative way too. Well done Elle. I know I'm late, but like, still.

  • @anjavanbeynen716
    @anjavanbeynen716 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1042

    “You can’t be gay im gay” 😂😂😂😂

  • @quanxisgf
    @quanxisgf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    YOU CANT BE GAY, IM GAY. That is the funniest thing I’ve ever heard

    • @haley5788
      @haley5788 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mika Marie she isn’t gay she is bisexual and I’m not being rude sorrry for corrrecting uuuu!!

    • @fatherquelss1100
      @fatherquelss1100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haley V it's in the video

    • @tay2289
      @tay2289 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I laughed so hard at that. 😂😂

    • @quanxisgf
      @quanxisgf 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haley V Oh yeah, I know! It’s just a context from the video that I laughed at

  • @lsjaowhwbkwhwksha5926
    @lsjaowhwbkwhwksha5926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "i'm nervous"
    "*gasp* is it me?"
    MY TYPE OF HUMOR

  • @sarahdiaz5383
    @sarahdiaz5383 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i watched this video when it first came out and i still watch it to this day.Its one of those videos you dont get tired watching because you feel so happy.so proud of her

  • @jasmineh1701
    @jasmineh1701 6 ปีที่แล้ว +900

    “You can’t be gay, I’m gay.”
    That’s Merch.
    Lmao😂😂

    • @jasmineh1701
      @jasmineh1701 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      R3 // WhiteRoseWarrior Same I would buy anything that she makes TBH

    • @steph1324
      @steph1324 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fr💀

    • @kai5451
      @kai5451 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I needa buy it omg

    • @ameliashives8493
      @ameliashives8493 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      It should be!!!

    • @sarynaj.1793
      @sarynaj.1793 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jasmine Hernandez, we all need a gay friend

  • @ryleeaird9105
    @ryleeaird9105 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1156

    All the girls: aww give me a hug!!
    The guy: you cant be gay IM gay
    Me:😂😂😂😂

  • @almostinnocent
    @almostinnocent 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    your style of filming is just purely cinematic. It reminded me of some of the greatest movies of the 80's. so heartfelt, touching, evoking. beautifully done.

  • @vivianhidalgo6763
    @vivianhidalgo6763 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The first time I watched this I BAWLED my eyes out but now it feels comforting knowing there will always be those who support you no matter what. IM EMOTIONAL RN-

  • @eliza6621
    @eliza6621 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2167

    "you can't be gay, im gay" hahahahahahahahaha

    • @SuicideJade
      @SuicideJade 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eliza Lauren best part

    • @MariaGarcia-gd2lm
      @MariaGarcia-gd2lm 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eliza Lauren at what time in the video did she say it

    • @lolno3025
      @lolno3025 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maria Garcia 2:09

    • @v4mp_2000
      @v4mp_2000 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eliza Lauren thats fun.I was forced to,but my parents still accepted me

  • @melxpisode9259
    @melxpisode9259 6 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    "You can't be gay, I'm gay"
    I died at that part

    • @rome2294
      @rome2294 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SAME

  • @graceclinton9087
    @graceclinton9087 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    its 2020 and I'm still crying!
    This is so beautiful oml!

  • @808ainosked
    @808ainosked 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Still one of my favorite Elle Mills video to date. So genuine and real!!

  • @nacitatrevino
    @nacitatrevino 6 ปีที่แล้ว +601

    “You can’t be gay I’m gay.” 😂😂 and omg I cried like twice 😭😭 I’m so happy this turned out great and you got everything off your chest 💕

    • @Jasmine-bs6gd
      @Jasmine-bs6gd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sabrina Trevino just came out to my guy Bestfriend the other day, and he turned around and told me the same. “Omgggg stfuuu you cant be gay I’m gay, wtf Hahahah”

    • @nacitatrevino
      @nacitatrevino 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jasmine 😂😂that is sooo cute because i feel as the bond will be even better and congratulations on your coming out 😭🙌🏼

  • @Lou-xp7pb
    @Lou-xp7pb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9469

    When i told my mom i was bisexual she was like: oh, have i ever told u i had a girlfriend before
    Me: 🗿

    • @weaouw
      @weaouw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +273

      holy..
      that's so cool! not only is your mom accepting but she also actually understands...
      if i one day come out to my mom, that would be one of the best responses she could have hahah

    • @Lou-xp7pb
      @Lou-xp7pb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      someone , goodluck with coming out to ur parents tho! xD it was a hard thing to do

    • @nymmkins179
      @nymmkins179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      OMFG I CAME OUT TO MY MOM AS HOMOSEXUAL AND SHE WAS LIKE "Whelp teen pregnancies are out of the way now, did you know I dated [insert female name] once?"

    • @weaouw
      @weaouw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Lou-xp7pb yeah hahah, thanks. I'm not planning to do that any time soon, but probably some day.

    • @1zzy67
      @1zzy67 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yea! My mom in bi too and she said that

  • @brandileo9677
    @brandileo9677 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how u tell ur story's and ur vids u could have ur own show I would watch :)

  • @CherylCalitis
    @CherylCalitis ปีที่แล้ว

    still one of my fave videos and 5 years later it still makes me cry

  • @brick267
    @brick267 6 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Your mom’s reaction made me so happy. This is my second time watching this already. I keep ugly crying.

  • @DionYorkie
    @DionYorkie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +452

    tbh the fact I was the first person you came out to is my biggest life accomplishment .. JK🤣🤣 LOL so happy you're happy 😊

    • @filipaxsofia
      @filipaxsofia 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      DionYorkie HAHAHA

    • @Suchagoonie
      @Suchagoonie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      DionYorkie you’re a great friend! I wish I had friends when I was 18 coming out, I was filled with so much anger and sad. I only had a few people really understand that I was gay. 21 now and so far out of the closet I hope I’m as positive and encouraging as you are when people come out to me. So proud of you Elle and everyone in your life is amazing 🌈❤️

  • @Ccssidyy
    @Ccssidyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Whenever people that I love do this, I love them even more.

  • @regansimmins
    @regansimmins 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I come back to this video so often bc I love it

  • @Evie-hr8jt
    @Evie-hr8jt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1843

    had to rewatch after her 1 year 2 days anniversary ♥️

  • @wheezing_penguin_8470
    @wheezing_penguin_8470 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4903

    My coming out story:
    Me:mom I’m bi
    Mom: me too
    Me:seriously
    Mom:yeah
    Me: Wtf i spend two years in the closet terrified,why didn’t you tell me
    Mom:I didn’t think u knew what it was so I didn’t tell u
    Me: wtf mom
    Mom:ooh I like this song

    • @valentinamartinez4697
      @valentinamartinez4697 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      The same happened to me

    • @Luna-zc6gx
      @Luna-zc6gx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Is this real? Omg mother daughter goals

    • @catalinajvz
      @catalinajvz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      The same shit happened to me wtf

    • @aliysonh.1367
      @aliysonh.1367 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SAME

    • @KaytyLynch
      @KaytyLynch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Forreal same happened to me! 😂

  • @faithhernadez8714
    @faithhernadez8714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just incredible content and editing. Everything a creator hopes to emulate. Immaculate.

  • @amberc.1329
    @amberc.1329 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Elle, I know it's been two years since this video came out, but I wanna say thank you. When I first started questioning my sexuality, I didn't know what to do. I was terrified, because I was starting to have these feelings towards girls while still being attracted to guys, and I had no idea what to do. When I first saw your video on Facebook, and at the end you said you were bisexual, it was like something clicked in my brain, and I wasn't so scared anymore. This video honestly helped me put a word to my thoughts and feelings, and if it wasn't for this video, I would probably still be having issues with myself today. Thanks again! I love you!

  • @reneenicole5513
    @reneenicole5513 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1659

    Omg this was so emotional. I'm not LGBT+ but I wanna support everybody no matter their sexuality. My gosh you are do creative with how you told everybody. I wish the best for you

    • @kattkaufman6132
      @kattkaufman6132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Renee The Ginger thanks

    • @dasleo228
      @dasleo228 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We really need more people like you in this world!!!

    • @reneenicole5513
      @reneenicole5513 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dasleo228 ohhh thanks

    • @chloe_yates07
      @chloe_yates07 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Renee The Ginger LGBTQ+* (correction)

    • @reneenicole5513
      @reneenicole5513 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chloe_yates07 omg sorry! Thanks!!

  • @rayanetc
    @rayanetc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    *"You can't be gay, I'm gay"* TRUE FRIENDS ❤️💛💚💙💜

  • @bellarobles7920
    @bellarobles7920 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everytime i watch this video i cry because every one knows how elle has amazing funny happy videos and when she crys it really shakes me and makea me realize what even the happiest people on social media can go through, now i know this comment is very late but still im proud or her and people in our community who is strong enough to become who they are and still put it out there in this form of way

  • @CodeyBearden
    @CodeyBearden 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was amazing!! Happy Pride Elle!

  • @TeanaFaye
    @TeanaFaye 5 ปีที่แล้ว +799

    Me: mom, i think i’m bisexual
    my mom: You just found out? damn, took you long enough

  • @Puddycat431
    @Puddycat431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +819

    "you can't be gay i'm gay" that is the BEST sentences i have ever heard XDD
    also coming out as bi (or any other sexuality in the lgbt spectrum) = hugs????

    • @n0sh7n
      @n0sh7n 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What does the q stands for?

    • @Puddycat431
      @Puddycat431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      oh in lgbtq? i'm pretty sure it stands for Queer

    • @n0sh7n
      @n0sh7n 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Puddycat431 What does that mean? Transgender liking their own gender?

    • @Puddycat431
      @Puddycat431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      queer is a term used for sexualities or genders that are not common i.e Demisexual (you need to be friends with someone before you gain attraction) or Non-Binary (Someone who does not consider themselves male or female)

    • @leslieking9657
      @leslieking9657 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      puddy cat how is Demisexul like that? I was friends with my boyfriend before we became boyfriend and girlfriend. How is that Demisexul.

  • @vgamejosh8
    @vgamejosh8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Watching this 3 years later and it still makes me brings tears to my eyes that she was strong enough to come out to the world. All of her videos make me laugh hard no matter how many times I've watched them.

  • @valeriefox3505
    @valeriefox3505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    “You can’t be gay, I’m gay”

  • @andreasolis8560
    @andreasolis8560 6 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    "You can't be gay, I'M GAY" 😂😂😂

  • @ludo898
    @ludo898 6 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    "You can't be gay, I'm gay" lol

  • @leidybuggy
    @leidybuggy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is one of the best videos i’ve ever seen

  • @clarabermingham4786
    @clarabermingham4786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "YoU cAn'T bE gAy I'm GaY"
    😂

  • @angelamarquez4620
    @angelamarquez4620 6 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    I literally cried because the love and support for this one person is so beautiful and real, if only it was like this for everyone. What a great start to a new beginning ❤💙💚💛💜💗

    • @aymeeteee
      @aymeeteee 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Angela Marquez I agree, I’m so touched 😭❤️

  • @that_one_chick_7901
    @that_one_chick_7901 6 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    i'm not bi or gay but im 100% supportive for the LGBTQ+ community, this video was amazing.

    • @erikaashby5093
      @erikaashby5093 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      reniah jayd same congrats elle

  • @alyssamurphy7792
    @alyssamurphy7792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anytime I watch a "Coming Out" video, I literally always freaking cry my eyes out while watching the video.... Like, idk exactly what it is that gets to me & pulls on my heart strings so hard and just really gets to me & makes me so damn emotional thru the whole freaking video...., but I will literally cry every single time. Lmao
    I dont know what it is about watching somebody come out to their friends and family member, but every time I see that person start crying while telling everybody that they're gay, makes me sob like a freaking baby! Its just so amazing and brave to see someone come out to people this way, by making and uploading a TH-cam video about it and allowing the whole entire world to see it just as well, now THAT is brave! Absolutely fucking amazing that just so many more and more people are starting to come out to their family & so many people are starting to finally discover who they truly are inside, and anybody's sexuality is something that helps make a person. Growing up in a very Catholic family household my entire life, I was told that a man should be with a woman, & that a woman should be with a man, and that is it and anything other than that is WRONG and AGAINST God & it goes AGAINST the bible and it's a very serious freaking SIN, AND BLAH BLAHH FUCKING BLAHHHGGGGHHH! You love who you love & you cannot help that.

  • @JustCharlie
    @JustCharlie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMGGGG this is honestly the cutest thing ever! I could only imagine how hard it must be to come out to the people you love with the horrible feeling that your relationships could change just because of who you are! So proud of you girl! You are amazing!

  • @fatigued4646
    @fatigued4646 6 ปีที่แล้ว +684

    *You can't be gay I'm gay!*
    Omg dying that's so funny 😂😂😂

    • @urmom-zf8ez
      @urmom-zf8ez 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      cute lil doggo Yass same, I like screamed from laughing at like 2am 💀

    • @brookeand4082
      @brookeand4082 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      THATS A MOOD

  • @katier7409
    @katier7409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so freaking inspirational. I was crying. It makes me feel like maybe I can have enough courage to be like you one day

  • @saatchirykac.2617
    @saatchirykac.2617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i just came out last night, and this video helped me feel better and reminded me of why i did. thank you, Elle.

  • @noche1140
    @noche1140 6 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    The way her mom reacted made me cry

  • @gguy6593
    @gguy6593 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2659

    I thought you were American

    • @lizzyjihndon5545
      @lizzyjihndon5545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Super Gavin OMG I lOvE u hahahah

    • @angie2715
      @angie2715 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      LMFAOIOOO I LOVE YOU YOURE MY FAVOURITE PERSON NOW 💀😂

    • @chrischanflushed2467
      @chrischanflushed2467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      LMAOOO MARRY ME

    • @katherinegonzalez3671
      @katherinegonzalez3671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Super Gavin omg🤣☠

    • @aryana1290
      @aryana1290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i thought you were candian