Hair Secrets Revealed| How I grew my hair to my mid- bottom| Natural Hair| No Gatekeeping|
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ย. 2024
- Sharing my tips, tricks and hair care on how I have grown my natural hair below the unmentionable area (bottom area). 🤭
No weaves, no wigs, no big chops
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Your hair is gorgeous and anyone accusing you of having fake hair is jealous and a hater.
I really appreciate that and you! 🥰 Thank you so very kindly for sharing. I feel your support! Thank you for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨💫 Have an amazing weekend!
YES THAT'S YOUR HAIR GIRL THERE ARE THOSE THAT ARE JEALOUS SO KEEP ON KEEPING ON
Thank you kindly, Sis! I really appreciate that and you for being “here”! ✨💫✨
clothes lol
Your trick is you do it yourself 😂 every time I do my own my hair and wear my own hair it flourishes. Most stylists just aren’t gentle and use way too much heat when heat styling. Your hair is gorgeous btw ❤
Sis, you’ve hit the nail on the head! I recall going with my mom years ago to her salon appointments… saying to her on the way home, “she fried your hair!” I know only one currently that’s very gentle - my daughter’s stylist while she’s away at college. ☺️
I am sure you have the “Midas touch” and your hair thanks you for it! ✨
I appreciate that and you, thank you for being “here”! 🥰🫶🏽✨
Too much heat and they are not gentle,they pull,tug and break your hair
@@staciep2638 Oh Sis, yes, certainly I’ve seen it and experienced it. It’s almost like some of them sabotage your hair so that you must return over and over. Sadly…
I was so happy when we found the amazing beautician that my daughter visits while she’s away at college. She’s a godsend. There are very few and far between who are like her stylist, with gentle hands and thoughtfulness (as it relates to taking care of hair versus “doing hair“.)
I've heard argon oil grows your it's a big helper with detangle on my hair it works wonders for my hair
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 ☺️🥰
Beautiful hair. Ladies we all have beautiful hair if we give it the tender love and care as this sister. Keep up the good work of self-care.
Thank you so very kindly Sis. I appreciate you for sharing these positive words, so true! Thank you for being “here”! ✨💫🫶🏽🥰
Sister I was so so happy that you finally did a hair video!!!!😀🙌🏾
Good morning Sister! Yes, and I hope you didn’t mind me mentioning you 🥰 Thank you so much. You know I truly appreciate you!
Love your natural hair!
Thank you kindly! I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨🫶🏽💫
gorgeous
Thank you kindly! I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨✨✨
Your hair is beautiful. I didn’t see what heat protectant you used. Did I miss it? 🤔
Thank you so very kindly! I don’t use a heat protectant… 🫣🙃 I know it’s unpopular… but they’ve made my hair feel like “hay” in times past. I am considering revisiting though. Might you have any faves that you use?
Beautiful Hair
Thank you kindly! I appreciate you for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨💫🥰
I am so eager to know the secret. thanks for spilling
Awww Sis, you’re the sweetest. Thank you for your support and encouragement. You ladies truly inspired me over the weekend. 🥰💕✨
Please 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 don't pay attention to the trolls 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽 you know what God gives you all the time 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️God bless ♥️💖♥️♥️ thank you for sharing
Sis, you have brought a smile to my heart. I really appreciate that and you! Yes, I truly know what God has given me, and I truly feel blessed! 🥰 ☝🏽 Thank you so very kindly for your encouragement, and I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨🫶🏽💫🥰💖
You are absolutely beautiful and ur hair is the most beautiful I've ever seen.Gid bless
I really appreciate that and you! Thank you kindly. I pray you’re having a blessed start to your week! 🌸✨💫🫶🏽
Hair Is Gorgeous. It Looks Soooooo Healthy. On Another Note, Immma Chance Asking, Where Did You Get Your Eye Glasses? I Really Like These Small Sized Simmmy Cats' Eye. Give Please. Thank You For Sharing. Much Respect From Carrollton Texas 💕
Hiii! Thank you so very kindly! First off the glasses are by 2seeLife, and guess what… you can purchase in @amazon ! Click here: a.co/d/0XU72n4
I really appreciate you for your sweet comment, and for being “here”! ✨💕💫Heeeyyy Carrollton, TX! 👋🏽… I was recently in Ft. Worth and Dallas visiting a fellow Influencer/ TH-camr. First time in TX and I loved it! 🥰
It's a shame if black women have really long hair, it's assumed by all races, it's a wig or extensions.
Sis, it is certainly a shame… and I hope that I can make a bit of a difference by sharing here and on all of my platforms. Thank you for sharing your comment. I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨
Your hair is beautiful
I really appreciate that and you, Kasandra! Thank you for being “here”! 🥰🫶🏽✨
I lost my hair from chemotherapy and radiation. What should I use
Sis, please refer to my response on your previous remark. I have heard that Mielle has a good scalp and hair oil for hair that has been through trauma. I can only speak to Shea Moisture Argan Oil, currently. 🙏🏽🫶🏽✨
Beautiful hair sis. I love tressemme brand.
Hiii 👋🏽! Thank you so very kindly! Yessss we love Tresemme!!! Do you use the combo I use? I appreciate you for being “here”! 💫🫶🏽✨
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 I usually do. Recently switched to the 24 hr volume collagen and peptide conditioner.
Nice! Which do you prefer?
I have also a big forehead
… and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that! ✨✨✨
Beautiful!!! Thank you God!! ❤❤☝🏾
Thank you! It’s all God! ☝🏽 🫶🏽❤️
I'm positive that DNA plays a significant part in hair growth.
Agreed! Thank you for being “here”!
It all it all it all 😘
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You have beautiful 😍❤️ natural hair, 🏵️😻 , so , don't worry about the trolls - some people who aren't happy with themselves will always find fault with someone who's trying to live a good , positive attitude and life , so , they try to put the "up people " down because they feel bad about themselves. And I love Sade , but , your hair is beautiful 😍❤️.
Hiii! 👋🏽 Aww, you are so kind! I truly appreciate that and you! I agree with you. I’m learning that people are wild and cruel for no good reason… but I know that I’m one of the “up people” (love that)… and your comment and positivity have made my heart smile! 😊 Yes to Sade !!! We love her!!! Thank you so very kindly for sharing and for being “here”! 🥰✨🫶🏽💫
Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤❤❤
It’s my sincerest pleasure! 🫶🏽✨💫
Beautiful hair! On what temperature do you flatiron your hair?
Thank you so very kindly! 🥰 I flat iron on 460, it’s the highest temp. However, I plan to experiment and take it down a bit. I hadn’t realized the setting was left from doing silk presses on my daughter’s thick hair. ☺️ I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨💫🫶🏽
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Thank you kindly!✨💕🫶🏽
How do you keep your hair every day.? Do you keep it blown out? (Me for instance keep it in a high puff. It's too much lol)
Hii 👋🏽! I will be sharing how I maintain overnight. I do keep it blown out. I usually wear in the claw clip from day to day ( the clips that I shared)… I also wear a low soft bun daily. It is definitely a lot… I’m sure you have beautiful hair Sis! Thank you for sharing, and for being “here”! ✨🫶🏽💫
Sis, I responded, but for some reason it’s not showing up. I do keep it blowout. I wear a claw clip updo daily, or a low soft bun. I used to do high buns also. Thank you for sharing and for being“here”!✨💫🫶🏽
Your hair is beautiful. You shared a picture addressing back in 2000 when you met your husband. Then you spoke about having it cut in a pixie cut”Halle”. But you didn’t share that photo. I’m sure that’s a lie. If it’s not share some pictures for us to see😳🥴
Ah! My hubby said the same! Thank you kindly. I’d never lie about that. I’ve shared on my Instagram account, but many have asked, so I’ll be sharing some of the lengths over the years. I appreciate you for being “here”… and shaking it up a little. That’s always fun for me!
What would she gain from lying her hair was cut pixie short? Of course healthy hair would grow back in 20 years. You're so RUDE to call her a liar then demand that she PROVE something to you🤥
Sis… feel my hugs! I really appreciate that and you. ☺️ I hope the folk who doubt, saw the pixie on my video I shared recently. I know I don’t have to prove anything. I’m just here to share, inspire and hopefully some of what I share sticks for those of you all watching ( and hopefully subscribing)! ☺️💖🫶🏽✨
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 sis, keep doing your thing. PS., you seem like a pleasant person, but you don't have to put up with nasty trolls on YOUR channel. The older I get, the faster I BLOCK negativity. Everyone should realize that life is short and it should be more fulfilling & rewarding than dealing with a strangers silly jealousy. Last, although haters got the Black Girl Follow Train broken up, I still subscribe to
support BWomen's (zTube & TToc) channels. New Subbie✨ Peace. May you finish the year successfully 👸🏾
Sweet sweet Sis! I missed this message from you! Thank you so very kindly for your support and your tenacity! You’re a jewel! 💎 I agree with you one hundred percent! I need to do better about not letting folk stay who really mean harm. You are right… pleasant to a fault sometimes. I’m getting better though. ☺️ I truly appreciate you for being here and joining me on this journey Sis! Let’s stay positive as we navigate these “online streets”! 🫶🏽😘💕✨ Peace and Blessings!
I use that shampoo and conditioner but have you noticed the shampoo leaving a coating? I did and i never used it again
Hi there, I did not experience this cast from the shampoo or conditioner. Now, when using the conditioner as a leave-in for a wash and go several years ago, I noticed a white cast or coating. But I assumed it was due to me using as a leave-in.
Yes I did
Interesting. I wonder if it’s the “batch”…
Unless the style is a very chich bob, I don't like blunt cut ends either. No!
Sis! Say it again!!!☺️ I appreciate you for watching, and for being “Here”! 🫶🏽✨💕
Oh my you look like you're in your 20's. Grey hair?
Oh my goodness, you’re super duper kind! ☺️ I really appreciate you! Yesss. My paternal grandmother left here this past September with a full head of glossy white hair🤍. I think I’ve embraced mine now more out of legacy. Thank you kindly for being “here”! ✨🥰💫
I can’t believe there are people in 2024 that still don’t believe natural hair can grow that long and longer. Have they not seen the GlamTwinz, Ebonys Curls, Natural Neicy, 21st Century Natural Woman, Jazmine Brown, etc, etc…??
I agree 💯! It baffles me! I loved watching and testing out the tips given by the Glam Twinz! Still watch Naturally Niecy to this day! She’s so much fun! Thank you for sharing and for being “here”! ✨
Right! And don't forget Naptural85 as well.
@whattowearhereandthere4700 Your hair is beautiful. My hair is to the middle of my back not even as long as yours and I get the same treatment. Sometimes, it is jealousy but other times it is just pure ignorance because they just refuse to believe that black women cannot grown long, healthy, beautiful hair unless it is genetics or mixed which is false. I know several black women with long hair.
Sis! I appreciate you! Thank you for sharing your experience, it’s so crazy and I feel like time and exposure can only make the difference! Thank you for being “here”! 🫶🏽💖✨
I can definitely tell that's your hair. Some people are just ridiculous and jealous
Thank you for sharing Sis! I like to think it’s easy to tell… but 🤷🏽♀️. Your point speaks volumes! I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨✨✨
Your hair is beautiful. People are bold on social media. They will say any anything and everything.
Thank you Sis! Honey, they sure are. I am learning to eat the meat and spit out the bones. 🙏🏽 I appreciate your comment, and thank you kindly for being “here”! ✨🫶🏽💫
GORGEOUS HAIR and lovely forehead. I have a "Sade" sized forehead too.😅 It's my family trait as well. And I embrace it too.
Awwww I absolutely love that for you!!! 🙌🏽 Yayy! Don’t we love it?! 🥰 Thank you for being “here” Sis! ✨💫🫶🏽
You know, it's really NOT unusual for black women to have long hair...plenty of black women have long hair but stay wearing wigs, braids n protective styling bc they choose too. I also have very long, thick permed hair, that is a fallacy that our hair does not grow. Harsh perms back in the day were not friendly to black hair causing a lot of damage but w the embracing of our hair n better quality products black women are doin the damn thang!!
We sure are Sis! Thank you for sharing! I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨💫✨
I’ll definitely say it again.. you have beautiful hair. I love Aussie products too but I really love the flashback photo of you when you were younger. I have so many with that reddish filter🙌🏽.
Thank you so very kindly, Keta. Aussie is so good, and I do like many of their other products too. Now Sis… I would be labeled either a super fan or a stalker… if I commented on how many things you say that resonate, tickle me or I totally identify with! 🤭 I’ve still gotta comment on that “12345, 6789 10 11 tweeeeeelve”! I still sing it to pass time when I’m doing mundane things 🤭. I’m a woman of a certain age… that black straight skirt and slit up the front. Yep… throwback that’s now so current. I could go on. But I just really appreciate you. I can’t wait, I know we will meet at an event one of these days! ✨🫶🏽🤍🌺💫✨💖 I certainly thank you for being “here”!
Girl I never realized you have all this hair. It’s gorgeous 😍😍😍
Sis! Yes ma’am. As I said, “It’s never done”! That’s probably why! 🤭 Thank you so very kindly! 🥰
Do your own hair, ladies. Apply alot of moisturizers real Aloe Vera plant in your hair as a routine. Less manipulation for natural hair it will grow. Especially if you have very dry natural brittle hair. Use every oil you can find and but it in a squeeze bottle for your scalp. Have a good hair routine and trim ends every six months.
Thank you for sharing! All great tips!✨💫✨
Because we black they think our hair don’t grow to butt
Sis! You can say that again and again! Thank you for sharing the comment that we all know to be true. I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨🫶🏽💫
I love to see girls with their natural hair. It’s beautiful
I agree, as do I! Thank you kindly! I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨💫🫶🏽
Beautiful!! It’s Yours!!! Eve!!! We are a thankful grateful family!! ☝🏾
I appreciate youuu ❤️ Indeed!
That’s not unusual a whole lot of black women have natural hair that’s past shoulder length
I love seeing it! ✨💫✨
So true!!! Carol's daughter made my hair mat up and brake! I used to use the products you use but I eventually got away from them, as well.🤦🏾 It's also relaxed.
Sis, it’s a shame that we went into it thinking “her products” should serve us better, yes?! I was completely devastated! I wanted to try and love, but my scalp tingled and the shedding started like a waterfall! 😩 It’s ok if you’re relaxed now… if you’re happy and healthy, you’re good! Thank you for sharing and thank you for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨💫🌸
The natural hair industrial complex is a scam. This TH-camr is a breath of fresh air because she’s not peddling 85 different products at a high price point that are “necessities” for a solid hair routine
Follow “Curly Chemistry”. She’s a black cosmetic chemist and she has even said herself that leave in conditioner, rinse out conditioner, and moisturizing low protein deep conditioners are essentially the same. The only difference is the amount of dilution
Oh wow, I appreciate that and you! I only use a handful of products… plus I’m very selective and picky… especially after the incident with CD. I’ll certainly check out the TH-camr you shared. Thank you for sharing… that’s very good information. I’m always willing to learn and share among others. I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨💫🫶🏽
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 girlllll that is so crazy. I used CD in 2018 and the same exact thing happened. Felt like something was crawling under my scalp for weeks. I have never ever experienced that with any product ever in my life. And have always had long hair. It was like I can't describe and so scary. My hair was almost to my tailbone and I took all of it off that year. 😂😮😤🪽. CD is dangerous 😂
Oh. My. Gosh!! 👀 SIS you’ve absolutely nailed it on the head. I feel like from that point on any shedding that I had (for up to a year afterward), was attributed to that one time exposure. There was something cooking in that bottle! You described my feelings to a “T.” Wowzers!!! I feel like we walked in the same shoes! Thank you for sharing! I am sure you have taken care to take care, and you have absolutely lovely tresses! Thank you for being “here” and sharing your experience!💫✨🫶🏽
My hair is so soft mans shiny everytime I use tresseme,I really really love it . ❤❤
Oh yes!!! 🙌🏽 That’s awesome! I love that for you. I definitely feel that my hair has a nice sheen to it after wash day. ☺️
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate you for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨💫
You have gorgeous hair! Makes me to actually want to start doing my hair again. I used to have hair down my back for years and now I usually do a protective style but I may just take the time and do my own hair again. Thank you for sharing this video, Sis. ❤
Sis! I’m so glad to have inspired you! That’s it, do it and feel great about it again! I’m so happy you’re “here”, and thank you kindly for sharing! ✨🫶🏽💖💫
Sad you has to prove to “people” that your natural hair is long 🙄 Anywho… your scalp exfoliation promotes hair growth. As well as your regular routine of washing conditioning and trimming your hair. I’m a straight natural and I feel like my hair is in better condition than when I avoided heat.
Sis, it is truly sad… I certainly agree with you… my regiment has worked for me all these years☺️. Sis, do you ever feel weird when folks say it’s healthier to be curly natural? My hair despises the curl… despite how much I’d love to be in the summertime. I appreciate your comment, and thank you kindly for being “here”! 🫶🏽💫✨
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 I think the term heat damage scared everybody from using heat. I like saying heat trained because my hair is not damaged. It’s thick from root to tip. Plus my curl pattern is so uninformed that it would take a lot of manipulation to make it look good.
@shantelleholden9182 Sis, this is a super valid point. I wince sometimes at the term/phrase… because I feel the same way that you feel. I have curls throughout and my hair still is very “obedient”. ☺️ Thank you for sharing! I appreciate you! ✨🫶🏽✨💕
You are beautiful. You look like a model, and I bet the same guys that made fun of you would kill to go out with you now as a woman with natural long hair I get hated on too don't let it beat you down I also was told my hair wasn't real I was shopping for groceries and I over heard a conversation amongst two women and I could hear one of them say her hair is thick and long and I could remember bluntly hearing the other woman say its probably not all her's.
I really appreciate that and you. You are absolutely right, some people say the worst things unknowingly, and just with a nasty heart. I was at a wedding a few years ago, and two women were standing just next to me and my husband saying how they wanted to “get a weave like mine, but mine wasn’t even done that well.” The gall! … and those guys… yup I laugh and show my hubby their DM’s. 🤭
Thank you kindly for sharing, your support, and for being “here”! ✨🫶🏽💕
You have beautiful hair, I have lots of grey hair, my hair is a decent length
I said I was gonna stop dying my hair
I trim my own hair too, I don’t care to go to salons, your hair is beautiful, be blessed, There is nothing wrong with your forehead❤️❤️
Sweet Sis, I appreciate that and you! You have made me smile. I love that for you! Thank you so very kindly… and I’m so happy you’re “here”! Your hair is surely thanking you!!! ✨🫶🏽💫
Your hair is beautiful. Keep doing what you do. 💯😊
Thank you so very kindly! I really appreciate that and you! Thank you for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨💫
Good morning I just looked at your video but I couldn’t see the oil you used please let me know because I’m experiencing hair loss so I’ll like to try it
Good morning Sis! Please see if you can pull up the oil here: liketk.it/4Ez5A?product=8dbf3b1f-0366-11ef-afad-0242ac110008
It’s excellent. I pray your shedding subsides. Also a good tip that I feel helped me while shedding was rinsing my hair with green tea after washing. Steep organic green tea bags (2), let them cool and I added the tea into a bottle with a squirt nozzle. Apply to scalp. Always remember to close up your follicles by rinsing with cold water. I pray this helps you. I feel that my hair shedded less by using these techniques. Let me know. 🙏🏽🫶🏽🙏🏽
I love your hair! It’s absolutely beautiful! My hair was touching my waist in 2020 then I cut it several times and then really chopped it off in Nov 2022. Trying to grow it long again by my 50th birthday coming up in November. Hopefully it will be bra strap length by end of year!
Oh Sis! It WILL BE! It sounds like you take care to take care of your beautiful tresses! I too cut mine in 2020… bored in the house! 😩 I’m right behind you 50) in just a few years. I pray that your “every day”leading up to your birthday is blessed! Thank you for sharing and I appreciate you for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨💫🥰
Great vid😊thank you for sharing, yes God is good he has blessed us with these earthly bodies and taking care of your body will benefit you as you get older😊❤
Hiii Rosa! 🙌🏽 Yes, my goodness! I am with you on that! I try my hardest to stay in his will and way… and that includes taking care of every aspect of my body to the best of my ability! Thank you so very kindly! I appreciate you for being here! ✨🫶🏽💫
Yes it will what you put in your hair is what comes of your hair good product works better than cheap products so yeah
Say it Sis!! 🙌🏽
As someone in her 50’s, whose been a runner for 30 years, amen.
🙌🏽… so inspiring! Thank you for sharing and for being “here”! ✨✨✨
First time here!! Glad I found another simple natural!! Beautiful hair!! ❤❤❤❤
Yaayyy! Hiii Stephanie 👋🏽! I am so glad that you are “here”! That’s me! ☺️ You have put a big smile on my heart! Stay tuned, I hope you’re inspired!💫🫶🏽✨💖
You’ve always had beautiful hair 🎉❤
Aww thank you, Nancy! I appreciate that and you! ✨🫶🏽💫🥰
Your too sweet with a beautiful personality. First time seeing you and your channel.
Hi Wanda! I truly appreciate you. You’re so sweet. 🌸Your kind words have made my day. Welcome, welcome, welcome! Thank you kindly for being “here”! Does that mean you’re a new subscriber? 🥰 🫶🏽💫✨
You have beautiful hair. Don’t worry about haters
Sis, I appreciate that so much! I am learning to navigate and keep it moving through the hate. I feel your support and thank you so very kindly. ✨🥰🫶🏽💖
Hello do you relax and if so which relaxer do you use?
Hii. No ma’am! All natural for just about two decades! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Beautiful hair, I would never think that was fake. My hair is mid back and a lady walked up to me and ask was it a strand by strand weave.crazy
Sis!!! I am gasping! You know, I have seen those videos (shared by my daughter)! The audacity of folk these days! New technologies and creativity are making us look like “unicorns” when the norm are these new hair “inventions”! Yikes! Thank you so very kindly! I appreciate you for sharing, I am sure your hair is gorgeous! Thank you for being “here”!✨🫶🏽💫
Your hair is Amazing ! You seem to have a beautiful spirit . Thank you for sharing
Hiiii 👋🏽 I appreciate you for stopping by. Your comment is so sweet. It’s my pleasure to share. I bless God for the spirit that he’s given me. Thank you kindly. I hope you stay along for the ride. Peace and blessings, and thank you for being “Here”! 🫶🏽✨💫🌺
Your hair is beautiful, and I knew that it was your hair from the texture at the roots. My aunts have long hair. They've cut it over the years as they have aged, but it's still long and thick. I began following you for the clothes and noticed your hair was SUPER LONG!!
Sis! Good morning, and all I can say is thank you for being “Here”! 🫶🏽 If no one knows what that means, you do! I have often wondered these past few weeks if my sweet style subscribers would also enjoy the hair videos! I appreciate you!
Thank you kindly! I am certain your aunts have gorgeous tresses! Sounds like you and your family know a little something something about taking care to take care of hair too! ☺️ Sweet Sis, have a wonderful Wednesday! I truly appreciate you for watching and sharing! Until the next time…. 😘💕✨🫶🏽
I used to have hair just like that. Cancer took my hair from me. What are you using
🙏🏽 Hi Sis. My heart goes out to you. I pray God restores your hair to a place where you will be able to enjoy as you once have. I have actually heard that Mielle carries a Rosemary Mint Scalp and Hair Strengthening Oil (light). I usually do not recommend things that I have not used personally, but I got that information from a trusted source.Maybe it’s worth giving it a try. Thank you for sharing Sis, and I pray that your best days are ahead of you. 🙏🏽🫶🏽✨🌸
I use Shea Moisture Argan oil as I shared in the video. You may have missed that portion? I love it. It’s lightweight but gives my hair and scalp the nurturing it needs, in my experience. Thank you for being “here” ✨✨✨
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 Good morning
Thank you so much. For the information
Good afternoon Sis, you’re most welcome. 🫶🏽🙏🏽✨
Just finished the rest. Beautiful pictures throughout the video. Thank you for sharing. ❤❤❤
Aww wow, you’re the sweetest. 🥰 Thank you so very kindly! Stay tuned, I’m working on something new to share! ✨💫🫶🏽
Your hair is absolutely gorgeous...wash and go's or straight!!! Love the sprinkles of gray! Do you use heat protectant? If so which one? Is the Argan oil used periodically between washes or after the wash before flat ironing? Do you use any moisturizers between washes? 2 of my sisters wear their hair straight primarily and their hair is long and beautiful like yours. Do you work out or have a specific regimen for the hot, humid seasons? Where did you purchase your hair clamps? They appear very sturdy and long lasting. I hope you consider doing a blow dry video. You did a beautiful job with the blow out and straightening process. Sorry for the questions. Thank you for sharing.
Hiiii! Thank you so much for the many questions, I do not mind at all! First off, I want to say thank you so very kindly. I really appreciate that and you. I typically do not use a heat protectant. I know that’s against popular opinion - I have tried some in the past, and I will dig them up, and maybe give them a try to let you know my thoughts and why I stopped. Off the top, I do recall that hair protectants make my hair feel brittle, and “unflowy”. However , it could be the brands that I have used. I will try to do some research, and test some out. Thank you for asking about that, it will give me something to share! I use the Argan oil every other day usually , it really depends on if I am going somewhere, or filming content.
I do not use anything but Argan oil, between washes. At times, I use certain products to sleek back my ponytail, which I will be sharing in an upcoming video. However, I do not use moisturizers typically between washes.
Well, it sounds like you must have beautiful hair as well … given that you say that your sisters do. ☺️ That’s awesome!
I do work out, and I will also be sharing what I do to keep my hair protected during my workouts. You will be surprised! I don’t do too much to keep it from sweating out. I am working on that!
I certainly am considering doing a blow dry video. A few people have asked me how I got it straight before flat ironing it. I sincerely appreciate you for being “here”and for posing these questions. You don’t know how much you have helped me consider what to do next! 🫶🏽✨💫💕
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 Thank you so much for answering my questions! I have subscribed. Love your style! You have beautiful taste in clothing. Look forward to more videos! ☺Blessings!!!
Peace and blessings sweet Sis! It is my sincerest pleasure! I appreciate you coming along for the ride! Yayy! 🥰
I appreciate that, I do hope to incorporate both style and hair!
Oh and the clamps are from Amazon. I love neutral colors… so I purchased these:
Beauty.H.C 4.3 Inch Hair Claw... www.amazon.com/dp/B09ZNVRZPW?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Thank you for responding. God bless you. And I actually would like to know where you got your parting comb from as well, the gold/brass looking comb? Peace!!
Peace and Blessings Sis! 🙏🏽 🥰🫶🏽 The parting comb was a gift and believe it or not, it came from @forever21 almost two years ago! Here’s a link to purchase: ltk.app.link/PbHeQPc3iJb
Let me know how you like! ✨✨✨ Have an amazing weekend “here and there”!
Beautiful HAIR ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😊
I absolutely feel the love and I appreciate youuuuu! 🥰🫶🏽💕😘 Thank you kindly!
I cover ALL my grays with henna & coffee. I'm 49 & that's how I embrace my grays. 💃🏿
Your hair is Gorgeous....
I love that Sis! Embrace Embrace your way! 🤩 Still all natural! Don’t get me wrong… I may need to tap into your color tricks… I’m one year behind you! ☺️ Do you ground up the coffee grounds and mix in with henna? I have used henna in the past. Thank you for sharing, and for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨🫶🏽💕
I used Carol’s Daughter co-wash for a while with no problems.
I’m so glad to hear that! Thank you for sharing and for being “here”. ✨💫✨
Your hair is beautiful, gorgeous girl. ❤ and I’m grey around my edges too 😮but I’m not ready to embrace it so I use henna lol. I use to scratch my scalp when I was younger maybe I need to restart that again. You funny 😄
Hiii Sis! Thank you so very kindly! 🥰❤️🥰
Oh my goodness, I imagine your hair is gorgeous…. Henna or no! 😍I have used henna in the past, and not against revisiting again, possibly. Trying to embrace, as I love the one space on the right part of my hairline, especially. ☺️
Scratch that scalp sweet Sis! 🙌🏽 I guarantee your scalp loved it before! Sometimes I get caught up way too long before bedtime! 😄 I know I’m silly…. 🤭 I am glad you enjoyed! Thank you for sharing and I really appreciate you being “here”! 🫶🏽💕✨Have a beautiful week ahead!
we see you hair thing gurl
I appreciate you for watching. ✨
Hello, your hair is beautiful. Where can I find a comb and edger similar or like yours; smooth, no nicks, or cuts, or plastic sticking out that breaks off hair?
Good morning Sis! I appreciate you so much. The comb is: www.walmart.com/ip/KISS-RED-LEOPARD-PATTERN-RAT-TAIL-COMB/5279020895
The edging brush I use is from my local beauty supply, I found online here: ivyusa.com/product/ombre-chrome-edge-brush/
Thank you for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨💖
Beautiful, your inspiring me to keep mine growing! Have been contemplating a cut lately
Thank you so much, Kim. I think you should let it grow! It’s so pretty either way though. Thank you for being “here”!🥰🫶🏽✨💕
I hope you don't cut your hair make it shine with minimal products we may keep our hair because we maintain it we be putting in effort Why do mam want to cut Mam's hair show the world 🌍🏋️🧗🦸💂
Chile, I get it. When my hair is straightened I get stares, dirty looks, and people following me on the low in the store. 😐 But my hair is almost always plaited and put up, almost never blown out or flat ironed.
Sis!!!! I feel you 100%! It’s crazy. I’m sure you have beautiful hair! Thank you for sharing… I appreciate you for being “here”! 💫🫶🏽✨
@@whattowearhereandthere4700: What’s crazy is the women of no color be hating the most. 😂
@@hereforit2347 Honeyyy… and remember back in the day when we thought their hair was real… they were getting celebrity extensions... It’s all good though. They look, but can’t touch. Trying to figure it out in their heads… I know exactly who and what you’re talking about Sis. 🤦🏽♀️
@@whattowearhereandthere4700: 😂
That's Interesting
I appreciate you for watching! 🫶🏽✨✨
Thanks for sharing. You have beautiful hair!
Thank you so very kindly! I really appreciate that and you! 💕🫶🏽🥰 It’s my pleasure to share. ✨
Anyone
Can tell this is real hair
I appreciate that! Thank you for being “here”! ✨💫✨
Yes I had a big fur head growing up and I looked up to Sade. Thanks Sade.
WE LOVE HER FOR GIVING US CONFIDENCE! ❤️Thank you for sharing, and for being “here”! ✨✨✨
Your hair is so beautiful and healthy looking. How often do you wash your hair and use a flat iron to straighten it?
Thank you sweet Sis. I appreciate you. Here’s what I shared with another subscriber with the same question:
The good old faithful flat iron that I use is by the brand, “nubi hair” model number: MZ1. Item name: “Pink Straight Up Ceramic”. Here’s their website. Mine is a few years old… so you may not be able to find on the site.
nubihair.com/product/soft-n-straight-1-25-ceramic-purple-styler/
I wash every two weeks. Sometimes I stretch to three. I flat iron once a month. I blow dry each time I wash though.
I hope that helps, and thank you for being “here”! ✨🥰🫶🏽💫
Your hair is so beautiful & no vitamins 👍🏾 I m hoping when I blow out after a year which is time that I see more length. Ty💜🙏
Hi there! Thank you kindly. No, I tried, as I said to take the “Hair, Skin, Nails” due to my skin changing a few years ago ( pesky break outs) … but they didn’t do anything for my hair, unfortunately.
I hope so too! Maybe you can tie in some of my tips along the way! I’m rooting for you to see more length! 🙏🏽
Thank you kindly for being “here”! ✨🫶🏽💫💖
What did you use before flat ironing your hair? For Protective style
Hey there Sis! Thank you for asking…. I do not use anything for heat protectant. In the hair world I know that’s controversial… 😅🫣… in the past, I have tried, and my hair has felt brittle or indifferent to heat protectant. I do plan to try again, for the sake of sharing with my subscribers and viewers. Do you use any in particular that you like? Thank you for watching and for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨💕
do your daughter have long hair like you
Hi Angela! Yes, my daughter (had) lower- back length, but she (being a teenager) experimented… cut it a few times. Now she has a lob (long bob). She’s on her journey to growing it back now. ☺️ I told her to leave it alone, but she wanted to do what other teens do between 16 and 18! 🤷🏽♀️ 😅 Thanks for asking!
@whattowearhereandthere4700 you have more than one child right
Just the one! ☝🏽 🥰
So many blk women have long hair, don’t know why it needs to be addressed 🤷🏽♀️
Yes! As I mentioned in the video, I certainly agree with you. It’s so sad, but personally, it started to creep into negative comments on my socials (as well as positive- folks asking and gasping at the fact) . I believe just as it’s normal for so many of us…. It’s also unfathomable to countless others. Folk don’t believe when you answer, saying, “yes it’s all mine”. They say, “yours by payment plan!?” So crazy! Black women can have long healthy hair! It’s becoming clear to me that it was the elephant in many rooms I’ve been in… unfortunately.
I appreciate your comment, and thank you kindly for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨💫
That little picture of you is so cute. Your hair and you are beautiful. Keep doing what you doing.
Oh my goodness! You have made my heart smile. 🥰 Thank you so very kindly! I appreciate that and you, Cynthia. I certainly will, and with you being “here”… I’ll try my best to keep you informed and inspired! ✨🫶🏽💫
You got teeth just like mine Big Dadda is the Gate Keeper Of Time love 💕 your hair mam yaeh i like to laugh too Similar
I appreciate you for being “here” and sharing your comment! Thank you kindly!✨✨✨
Growing up we called that scratching your scalp. Love love love it.
lol! Exactly! I was being a bit more politically correct- so “they” wouldn’t come for me! 😂 Thank you for sharing and for being “here”! ✨🫶🏽✨
Hey sis ❤ 😍 ! Saved this video to come back and take notes for baby girl !! She’s natural and has hair texture much like yours. Thanks for sharing. You shared great tips ! CONGRATULATIONS 🎉 on your video success! 🎉🎉🎉😍. This is what we need more of 👏🏾 ! Happy you set the record straight. People can be so cruel. ❤. Keep soaring sis. Love you & we are here 😘
Ohhh Sis!!!! I really really appreciate you and your amazing kindness and support! Sis, I remember you telling me that her hair was very similar to my texture last year, maybe… you must have the tips already down pat! I’m sure her hair is gorgeous! Honey, I’m learning that folks are something else! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I absolutely love you Sis, and I’m gonna try my hardest! 🥰😘❤️✨🫶🏽💫 Thank you for being “here” and coming back to watch.
Beautiful sis! Thanks for the silver hair 👩🏽🦳 shout out!😊
Of course! Loooooove your hair! You really inspire me! 🩶 🪩 🫶🏽 Thank you for being “here”!
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 feeling is mutual! I’ve got so much hair content stuck in my phone. You have inspired me to upload more to my TH-cam channel. Thank you 🙏🏽
Awww well, that’s what we’re “here” for! Iron sharpens iron. I’m excited to watch your new content! Bring it on Sis!! 😍😍😍
I see you use tresamme hair products along with argan oil. What do you use as a deep conditioner?
Good morning and thank you so much for your question. As a deep conditioner, I’ve used Aussie Miracle Moist 3 Minute Deep Conditioner for the past several years.
Unpopular, regarding silicon products and natural hair… but I have also used Silicon Mix Intensive Hydrating Treatment … especially during a good growth spurt back in early 2000’s. Let me know if you’ve used or heard of these products.
I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨💫🫶🏽✨
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 how did you get your hair so straight without flat ironing and what temperature do you press your hair?
Thank you for asking. I hear at the highest temperature… which is 460 degrees. I didn’t realize it, and am glad for the question, because I believe I may be able to take it down to at least 300. My daughter has very thick hair, and I am certain the temperature was at that setting to give her a silk press.
I blow dried my hair off camera first. I plan to share a blow dry video as well. The brand I use is “Infiniti Pro” by Conair.
Wow praying and working to get my natural hair this long within 3 years !!!
Sis! I’m rooting for you! Just take care to take care and I pray you see your desired results as well! Thank you for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨💫
That wash & go pic with white tee and cell phone is beautiful!
I appreciate that and you! I’m actually prepping to share a new wash & go soon! Stay tuned. ✨🫶🏽💕
Thanks for sharing your tips I appreciate it.
I really appreciate that and you! I’m so happy that you shared, and thank you for being “here”! ✨🫶🏽🥰💫
I am still on my hair journey… I did a mini chop back in 2015, I have been natural for 9 years… I have had some setbacks, and I have been stress lately and I am trying to get that under control… I stopped going to the hair salon 3-4 years ago cause I call myself going for the Cruella Deville look instead of her dying the front part of my all at once… She had me to come back the next following day to get it whiter, and when she did that the front part of my hair started breaking off real bad 😮… I was pissed 😤 but you would think for someone who went to school, and own their own shop will know that… But I should have known better so I stopped going to the hair salon, and started doing my own hair, I grew my own hair out including the front part of my hair that broken off… All I did was wash it, deep condition, braided it up in four plaques, and had my hair tucked away… I also starting to embrace my gray strands, I will normally pull them out I stopped doing it.
Sweet Sis, first… yes you must stop stressing. I pray you release whatever is stressing you because we know that serves as a factor in shedding. 🙏🏽
Next… congratulations on being natural for almost a decade! 🎉
I’m so sorry that the stylist put you and your hair through that. The good thing is that it’s hair… this connected to a life source… so as long as you’re living and showing love to your tresses…. It will love you back and begin/ continue to flourish! 🌸💫
Yes… sometimes we trust others more than ourselves. It’s lesson learned!
Yep… plaiting it does wonders, according to my mother - when my daughter was a baby, and her hair was slowly coming in, she looked like me, in that baby picture that I shared on my video… (bald) ☺️ My mother put little plaits all over her hair, and her hair sprouted out like crazy!
It’s time to embrace Sis! You’re like me… wanting them to go away… but they’re here… let’s show them love! 🤍🫶🏽✨
Thank you so much ☺️! Yes you are absolutely correct! I need to stop stressing 😩 and overcome this I will eventually thanks, sis. I thank you, I am trying to get tailbone or thigh length ☺️ I have to wait patiently and see.
Yes!!! Patience and taking care to take care…. That’s all! It’s my sincerest pleasure Sis. I am rooting for you! ✨🫶🏽💫
On@@whattowearhereandthere4700
Lovely hair! How often do you exfoliate your scalp and do you deep condition or just use a rinse out?
Thank you kindly! I exfoliate my scalp almost every night before bedtime. I “scratch my scalp” to release any dry scales and brush them out… then I give my scalp a massage. I don’t exfoliate the full head, but just areas where I may feel dryness or see potential pesky scales.
I deep condition every other wash.
I hope that helps! Thank you for watching, and for your questions! Stay tuned! Have a beautiful and safe weekend! 🙏🏽🫶🏽✨💕
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 Thank you for your response!
It’s my sincerest pleasure! Thank you for your question, and for being “here”! 🫶🏽✨💕
Listen I'm plucking my gray hair. It's not a lot but enough i can pluck lol
Oh boy! I always heard that plucking brings ‘em back even more wildly! 🤭 It must not be true, then! ? Thank you for sharing, that tickled me! I appreciate you for being “here”! ✨💫✨
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Thank you kindly! I appreciate you for being “here”!✨🫶🏽💕
I’m trying to embrace my gray hair
Sis, we have to. It’s wisdom. It’s strength. It’s a representation of where we came from and those before us. Lay it honey… it will be fabulous!💕🫶🏽✨
Same. I keep saying I’ll let it go at 60 but I’m getting tired now …
@@cb4664 Let it go Sis! Just try it. We are all in limbo at first! I’m rooting for you! 🤍🩶 I appreciate you for being “here” and sharing! ✨💫✨
Mine likes to "pray and stay" too! I could do wash and go's until it passed bra length. Now I blowdry and keep it in a bun. The Aussie doesn't make it revert?
Sis, what are we gonna do?! 😂 🙏🏽🫱🏾🫲🏽
I do the same unless I’m going outside of the house for my day in the office, or church or an influencer event. Those are truly the only times I straighten. The Aussie does not make mine revert. Is that your experience? Sis, thank you for being “here”, and sharing! ✨🫶🏽💫
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 I haven't tried the non aerosol because I thought it would. Now I know 🙂
Try it and let me know! 😊
Your hair is beautiful. You're lucky you don't have much gray. Wish i could say the same. Keep doing what your doing.
Thank you kindly Sis! I appreciate that and you! I most certainly will! Thank you for being “here”! 🥰✨🫶🏽
Thank you again, I ordered my gold comb, and can't wait to try them!! Peace and Blessings to you.
It’s my pleasure Sis! I’m here to help! I’m so glad you grabbed it! ✨✨✨✨ Peace and Blessings! 🫶🏽💕🙏🏽
Amazing sis and the video was awesome. You know I need to subscribe because I have so much in common with you, I used to feel bad about my Five head until I saw the five heads of the apostles in "Russian Icons" not to mention my hair is twins with yours and the Goofines omg I need to show your video to my son cause he would just be laughing so hard that there's someone out there like his mom. ❤❤❤😊
Ohhh awwww wowww! Yay, so I’m not the only “corn”, I like to call myself! 🤭 I’m glad my video and personality resonates with you, Sis! I’m so happy you subscribed! Thank you for being “here”! 🫶🏽💖🥰✨ Now, that’s very cool information, thank you for sharing. Honey this forehead is so deeply ingrained in my family! It’s my family calling card!🥰 Yes, share with your son so he can have a laugh! It’s the best medicine! I’m certain his mom is amazing and yes hair twin! Stay tuned- more is coming! Peace and blessings… another commonality… my middle name is Nicole!
Hi there thank you for this video. Your hair is amazing! I use the same exact products tresemme and Shea Moisture. I’m now natural and only wear afro styles. My only question is how often should I wash my hair? if i’m not mistaken, i believe you said every 2 weeks? I think i go too long before my next wash. Also can you please make a video just only giving tips on clipping the ends. i had never ever did that to my hair before and would love to do it on my own. My hair reaches my armpit.
Hiii! 👋🏽 I truly appreciate you taking time to watch and share! I’d say to wash every two weeks, if you stretch, I’d not go beyond three weeks- to combat residue build up.
I am certainly willing to do a “dusting” trim video. Thank you for inquiring. Stay tuned!
I am sure your hair is absolutely gorgeous… sounds like you’re doing all you can and willing to do all you can to “take care to take care”… and ensure healthy hair. 👏🏽
Thank you for being “here”! ✨💫🫶🏽🌸
@@whattowearhereandthere4700 thank you so much for a fast response ❤️ I will definitely take your advice on hair washing timing and look forward to your upcoming dust trim video!
It’s my sincerest pleasure , sweet Sis! 🫶🏽Have a beautiful Sunday! ✨💖💫
I am looking forward to have long hair just like yours, thank you for sharing ❤❤❤ new subscriber 👍
Awww so sweet of you, thank you kindly for being “here”! 💫✨🫶🏽 I appreciate you!
Wow I loved every bit of this video, you have such amazing hair. I wish I could grow my hair this way, I wouldn’t touch a wig in my life😂. Awesome video sis
Aww Sis, I appreciate that and you! My biggest tip is to “take care to take care” of it in the best ways possible… ☺️ I hear you Sis! Thank you for being “here”! 🫶🏽🥰✨💫