Being a Preachers Kid, I was 4 years old when I first sang in church standing on a folding chair...Fast forward to High School, in chorus one day a senior female turned around after a reheasal and told me that I sucked and "Stop singing thru your nose" ....at nearly 65 years old, I still sing in church when asked and I have sung on several recording sessions. Take the punch and keep fighting.
When I was about 6 years old my dad was changing a wheel on his car and told me to hold the spare upright. It promptly fell over and he called me a "dope". I don't think I'd ever heard the word before but it cut me so deep that it definitely affected my self confidence for years and I've never forgotten it. I'm now 71! Keep up the good work.
Man, Jeremy, thank you so much for having the stones to make this video. This was definitely a God send. There is another power at work other than our Father and we call him double O nothin. You’re a great singer and I hope that I will be able to play the guitar like you before I die. Keep up the good work doing what is right is not always easy. You are in my prayers and remember… Greater is HE that lives in us than him that lives in the world! Love you man.
Brother I applaud you for your courage to make a video like this and to be you. My favorite thing about your channel is that you’re a normal guy who loves music and the relationships built around it and that your unashamedly a follower of Christ. Your videos are an inspiration to me and so many Jeremy. From me and I’m sure countless other brothers in Christ, we love you and we’re so grateful to follow your journeys through music and life. It brings me great joy to know despite those thoughts and hard times you find hope in Christ. Keep doing you brother!
"There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing." Thank you for your transparency and wise words of healing, Jeremy.
I can relate . But someone told me that not everyone is gonna be a fan of a great singer . He or she will be criticized. So this person , who happens to be a professional singer, told me , you have your unique style which I like and I’m sure more people are gonna like . So , that day I stoped worrying about my voice and kept playing guitar and singing for those who like it .
Hey’ your vulnerability is one of your qualities that brings out the best in you . . . I sit and binge watch your pod casts for hours. Your clean articulation and honesty are your strengths. 🙏🏻 Jim from Australia
Profound words! Jeremy you're a legend you've achieved a level of success many could only dream of as you are taking your dream and making it your reality.
Dude you nailed it. People are rude and what I have learned is when people run their mouth tearing others down, they are just screaming at their own insecurities! You have helped me and countless others believe in ourselves as we pursue this guitar journey. And quite honestly, I am at the 6 month mark of learning and it’s difficult to not compare my 43 year old self to what others, like you, have worked so hard to obtain. So keep up the good work and forget that Nathan dudes name! Keep up the great work. If you are ever coming through Alabama, hit me up, I would love to take you to lunch. So there you go! Keep up the good work bro!
This is a wonderful video and really shows the depth of your character Jeremy! I think anyone who has watched you for any length of time can tell that you come across as a very sincere and kind human being who happens to also be extremely passionate about guitars. Keep up the great work!!
I have enjoyed your channel for over 6 months. I have played off and on for over 50 years. I’m not good, but have played in church for years. I am retired now, and enjoying learning about guitars. I never had the time before. I have a Guild from 1979 and enjoy learning about Guild. I don’t watch to see fantastic playing, I enjoy your programming and attitude about guitars. Very refreshing. Keep it up!
You are a great human being, truthful, faithful and ever changing as you move forward. By the way, sing til the cows come home, let the rest just hum in the background!
Jeremy, this is powerful. Comment after comment all I see is a deluge of support for you. Why is this? It’s because you matter to a lot of people. You are so genuine and the embodiment of what a good human is. You are a breath of fresh air in the ever increasing toxicity of our culture. I can only imagine the kind of guts it takes to make a video with such personal emotion tied up in it, and to expose the nerve endings which have lingered with you for years. You did it masterfully, sir. Such a talented guy you are, sincerely. I bet a lot of people look up to you and I, for one, am one of them. You are a North Star, Jeremy. Never stop shining!
Jeremy, thank you for being so open about this… it is one of the bravest things you can do on a forum like this and I applaud you for it! You have one of the most genuine channels here and please remember the vast majority that agrees with that fact. Cheers!
I love love LOVE your edit on this video. The cuts, the composition, leaving certain pauses in there. But my absolute favorite thing is what you did with the camera going out of focus to add emphasis, or if that was your autofocus glitching, the decision to leave it in there... And the cherry on top of the whole thing was going out of focus for that big title (chef's kiss). Sometimes I see videos in our niche that are so good that it makes me feel like I should just give up. But your edit on this video does the opposite somehow. I'm really inspired.
43,000 subscribers. 9,000,000 views. Pretty effing good by anyone’s measure. The only thing missing from this video is you closing it out with a song. Here’s a data point from one single person- me. When you sing on one of your videos it makes my day. It makes my day for two reasons. 1. I know it fills your heart with joy, and 2. It fills my heart with joy. Thank you for that. It’s strange how those of us, all of us actually, who have our unique insecurities, can pull-off what might be one of the toughest things to do- talk to a camera and put yourself out in front of everyone. I admire you for being able to do that and I commend you for being able to do it very well. As someone who is old enough to be your father, maybe too old- lol, I find you to be an inspiration to me. You have continuously showed me how to follow your heart and do something you love despite knowing their will be those who will try and drag you down to their level. You are brave to do this and strong to resist letting them win. I began this note announcing some facts that is a clear indication there are many more than me who love you, respect you, admire you, and who need and look forward to the next video. Insecurities? I’m struggling with that label for you. I don’t know if anyone can have more confidence than I do BUT I wouldn’t be comfortable doing what you have been doing at a high level for a long time now. Does that make me insecure? I don’t know. Sending the BIGGEST virtual hug to my friend Jeremy.
My man - I appreciate this video so much. The struggle is REAL. Neurolinguistic programming is with us like the air we breathe. But beyond that - you touch on the importance of the people (and more importantly, the words) we keep around us and give power to in our lives - Many of us, particularly as men but this is true for women also, are raised on a culture of shaming that is baked into the dough of our interactions - some fundamental competitiveness that keeps us separate from each other rather than aligned. But you tackle this subject with such directness, such vulnerability and power. Kudos to you and blessings to all of us in our collective healing journey.
Jeremy you are so much braver than me for real. I’ve been wanting to start a TH-cam channel based on guitar and music for years but I’ve similarly felt insecurities that have ultimately kept me from doing it. I’ve only been associated with your channel for a couple months now but you’ve helped reshape my love for guitar and music again. I think we are all ultimately harder on ourselves than anyone else can be. But as I’ve gotten older I’ve tried keeping myself in check so that I at least don’t make other people feel worse from my comments. I never leave negative comments on TH-cam channels and won’t start any time soon. I appreciate your passion and it’s rubbed off on me my friend. Thank you for that. By the way, I recently made a purchase on a 7 string Schecter left handed guitar and I’m through the roof how excited I am everyday about this instrument lol. I have a lefty PRS custom 24 coming in September and need to find a great mid range lefty acoustic to fall in love with. I’ll report on how it’s going as I get closer to finding one I like!
Don’t ever quit, never yield. Some people are are filled with anger and jealousy and will constantly try to make themselves feel better by knocking you down. Keep on keeping on. You provide great content, your passion is infectious and you are simply one of the best channels on TH-cam. I just found you, and I watch past videos every night. You’re a kind man and have inspired me to get back playing acoustic guitar. You have a lot to offer guitar players in general and you make the world a better place. I said previously you’re a good man… and I’ll add with a BIG HEART. Your sincerity is obvious and refreshing. I’m hooked… all the best to you and your family. JD
Dude- you are awesome. The kind of courage and transparency it takes to share your "words" is inspiring. I have those too, and the worst thing is that I may have spoken words like that to others at some point. Forgiveness is a on-going thing.
People are just jealous and insecure themselves and hide behind their screen to make themselves feel better. I really appreciate and respect what you do. Thank you!
Man let me tell you something. I love singing and playing guitar. It seems unfair at how much I love it and how bad I am at singing. You may not be the greatest singer ever, but your willingness in a few of your videos to sing in front of thousands of people as given me the courage to even just sing in front of my wife. I think man if Jeremy can do that I can surely sing in front of my wife and my closest friends. Thank you.
Loved this video so much. You are so genuine and honest. Thank you for sharing. While our family and friends are important, our faith can keep us anchored too. Jeremy thank you so much for these words of encouragement 👍
It cuts different when they go for the things you think you are doing well. I had a boss once tell me "There are other professions than this." I'm in the same profession still, more than a decade later, and his voice still pops up. It's amazing that the negativity can overshadow all of the positives. You're doing some cool things with your channel, and most importantly, you are doing it.
Thank you, Jeremy, for this raw honesty. It's taken me a lifetime to literally stop cringing in shame and embarrassment every time I have a flashback of when I felt unworthy or less than. It's a process of rewiring your brain to start realizing that other people's opinions about you belong to them - their energy and their projection. I play guitar and I sing because my very being demands it. Even if my music will never be appreciated outside of myself, as long as I like it, that's really all that matters. 🙏
Never ever , give in to negative words about yourself or others . It says more about them than you . Ive learned that sometimes people that you thought are your best friends, say things behind your back . Which are really hurt full . True friends will always have your back no matter what . Praying for a better world that everyone has more kindness that exists now . I love your channel and what it is . The love of music and guitars .Bless you and your family . Keep on singing and playing .🙏🙋✌👍
Man, just saw this video. Happens to us too (especially on FB), It weighs on me all the time. It's so easy to focus on the negativity and lose sight of all the good you have done and it constantly amazes me how many people are willing to take time out of their day to take a swipe at a total stranger whom they don't know from Adam. Good for you for not letting the bastards get you down -Isaac from DHB
You can tell you're a gentle soul and aren't wired by-default for the sometimes nasty folks out there. That's one of the things that drew me to you and your videos and I'm sure others as well. Keep being you! There's only one of you!
Totally honest and something so many of us can relate with. Please know that most of us here adore everything about you or else we wouldn’t be subscribing and keep watching. You are an incredible human being. You have amazing advise to offer and talents to share. Perspective time: People who say shit like that have low self esteem. They are usually envious of others. Nathan probably saw something about you that he wished he had, and tried to shoot you down to bring you down. Same goes for TH-cam trolls. Please try to rise above those words and understand that these people likely aren’t happy and whole - whereas you have a beautiful life and wonderful things to share. I enjoy your voice and guitar playing. I find your advise valuable. And as one of the few females in the guitar community, I can assure you that you are a very handsome guy and that your wife is a lucky woman to have a husband like you - genuine guys like you are tough to find. It’s easy for me to say not to let harmful words bother you, but it becomes easier to let go when you consider WHY people say crap like that. Please sing more, remember we all age, and keep sticking with those who aim to love you for who you are. Don’t ever change. You’re awesome the way you are. Whoever disagrees is missing out! 😊
Jeremy, I enjoy your channel because you are straightforward and you seem very confident! We all struggle with insecurities. Thank you for your videos.
Understand it completely mate, and well done for continuing to push on and keep doing what you love. MANY people would just give up for the sake of self preservation and taking the easy way out. I do regular gigs now (well as regular as I can in between a full time job and being a dad and husband) and even though I’m out there quite a bit, EVERY TIME I get behind the mic I get insecure and need to fight through it. Takes 2 or 3 songs, and it all stems from a shitty experience in my youth. Like you said, words effect a person and it sucks. We just gotta keep going because it’s not just for our sake, we need to show our kids that you can’t give up, show the next generation that you’re gonna get knocks along the way but you need to pursue what brings you joy and fulfillment because that is ultimately the path to finding happiness. We’re here for a good time, not a long time, and we can’t waste it being subdued by the negativity that we have the power to banish from our lives. You wanna sing? Then sing! You don’t have to be pitch perfect, look at all the famous singers that couldn’t hit the right note if they tried, it doesn’t matter! If it brings you happiness, get after it and inspire others to do the same. The world will be much brighter 😊
People that say things like that are just trying to have power over you and make themselves feel better. Don't give another person control over you or how you feel. You are doing a great job Brother and there are a lot of people out there that love you!
mate,i'm 62 now,i used to have panic attacks up to i think my early 20's. i took life by the scruff of it's neck and came through it.i'm now at the stage in life when i'm always looking around the corner for ill health.ain't happened yet,still fit and healthy,bit too brash for my own good but who cares!! i've followed you since the start bud,keep doing what you are doing and damn the ones who take the piss!!....it gets better when you get older bud! i'm still insecure at times but this guitar thing brings me through it all!! as you say shep..music and friendship!!❤❤
That's a very good point: that good friends help you to see yourself at your best. This is thoughtful and in a way brave video - thanks. For what it's worth I think your voice is kind of charming.
Jeremy, you are a light in the dark world that is the internet. You’re an awesome dude and I’ve always appreciated you taking the time to talk with me, as you have several times. You’re an awesome dude, keep it up. YOU ARE MAKING A DIFFERENCE
Dear Jeremy, thank you for this honest testimony. When I look in the past this kind of stories are popping up in my memories. I´m also very grateful for having my lovely wife for almost 49 years and a couple of close friends. I know they love me and are honest with me. Whenever I´m struggling with things they listen to me and try to help me. And besides these loving and understanding relations there is my Saviour Who nevere rests and never sleeps. Whenever I fall or feel abandoned He is there. In Corona time one of my best friends gave me a book of Edith Eva Eger, "the Choise". After the Bible this book has become my second important book of all the books I read in my life. Her second book, "The gift" has also helped me a lot to deal with my feelings of insecurity. Both books are therapy to me. So keep on doing the good things you are doing. It means a lot to me and many others. Very appreciated!
You are doing good work bro. Good on you for this video, and for the others. Your message resonates with me, and I am glad you put it out. Keep on keeping on, you've got this one. Godspeed
I feel your pain Jeremy. Back when I was a teenager, I had auditioned for a band when I was 17. Passed the audition, rehearsed for months and right before the first gig, got fired. The words spoken to me were, "you can't play guitar." I was devastated. If I couldn't play, how did I get into the band in the first place? I slowly began to cut back on playing guitar, especially in front of other people, until about the age of 27 or 28. Then put the guitar down for good. It wasn't until I turned 41 that I picked up a guitar and started playing again. Instead of playing the music I originally played, I took Classical lessons for 2 years, followed by Jazz lessons for 3 years. But, unfortunately, I still won't play in front of other people. Because in the back of my mind, those words still haunt me after all these years. And I'm turning 65 this summer.
Wow! It’s just a reminder that we never know what people are really carrying sometimes. And a reminder to be careful with what we say. And I think your wisest words what is that little phrase that I say often, let it go. Extremely well said.
you're stronger than most putting yourself out here, damn the haters, there's ALWAYS folks who take shots at others doing what they love, hurt people hurt people. you're on the good foot, J, keep keeping on. peace unto you- Will
Thank you Jeremy! I think this was a very powerful and appropriate video for the times we’re in and the impact social media makes on us all. It takes a lot of personal inflection and “guts” I guess you could say to put yourself out there like you did. I guess I’d just like to say thank you for taking that stand.
Idk if you'll see this....but I appreciate you. I left my foundry job this year in a step of faith. Released my debut EP "Wherever I Go". I needed to hear this....I didn't put out music for a decade until my friends at church put up money for studio time. I don't ever think I'm good enough when singing. I'm just a guy. I find peace in knowing God receives my worship and enjoys it. I still need to heal....I don't like hearing myself sing. I haven't had bad words towards my singing. I just have a bad thoughts of myself I guess....but thank you for sharing this bro.
I enjoy every video you’ve posted. Now I may criticize a guitar every now and then, but I’d never dream of saying anything negative about you or your work. Keep your chin up. You’re doing a great job my friend!
In first grade I wanted to sing in the chorus. The music teacher called me in to audition and shut me down after a handful of words. Later when I started playing in bands anytime I would try to add some backing vocals I’d get shut down in a second. I don’t know if I would have been able to sing if I had been taught instead of being shut down in first grade but it made me never want to try. And when I got shut down later I pretty much wanted to give up for life. Now I just sign for myself when I play. I know I suck but I enjoy it. Screw what other people think. Do what makes you feel good!😊
You are amazing man stay on your vibration and dont let someone on a lower frequency bring you down. Keep loving guitars and people and being who you are even when others try to use it as weakness or an advantage. We all just need to be the best person we can be to everyone and forgive our transgressors and wish them well.
Jeremy; I've been watching and listening to you for many years and I enjoy your content... as do many, many others. If not, you wouldn't have 42K+ subscribers. Keep smiling! and Keep Singing !!!
You make the world a better place brother, love your honesty and even through some of the short conversations we've had I could tell right away you are a selfless person with a good heart and great view on life. Some have said it, you do you, I very much enjoy your channel and what you do in the guitar community! 💪
Hey Jeremy, thanks for making content. I always try to analyze the motivations of those who inflict their spite without provocation. Out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks. Unkind people are just that, unkind. I like your analogy about the distorted representation that is reflected back at us by faulty mirrors/unkind people. Please keep going. You are appreciated. People that take the time to tear down others on the internet are something of a mystery to me. If people can't think of anything nice to say, they shouldn't say anything at all. At least, that's how I was raised. Thanks for the time you put into sharing your knowledge of guitars and just being a cool guy!
Love what you do and thank you for being transparent. Let the narcissists go. Be true to who you are, and work with the gifts you have been given by your creator.
Never heard you sing but I know it would be great. I’ve have wore those boots myself. Enjoy all your videos and I do pop off sometimes. About very things you have done . But that’s why I like your videos because you do it your way with honesty and love for music and mankind
Thanks Jeremy for being so open and vunerable and helping us all. Here is my limited view on these things. Often when people give nasty comments or advice for that matter, its a reflection of their own experience. Like they are talking to themselves based on something someone else triggers. So it has not much to do with you. But words can hit hard nonetheless. What has helped me is writing down bad experiences and talking about them with a coach/ therapist. It has stopped me replaying the same video in my mind over and over, and feeling them over and over again. Also Ive gained some insight on my own insecurities and how to deal with them. Peace and love.
Mate, F--k 'em all, everybody has their insecurities and usually the people that make hurtful comments are the people that have deeper problems. You're one of the reasons I watch TH-cam, wonderful job!
jeremy I have been a singer all my lifeSchool choir in every grade, sang in barbershop quartet and mens barbershop chorus Sang and played guitar at open mike nights and I am a Catastropher always think the worst. I also try to impress but that never works out but I never give up and keep doing what I Love.
I live by the words of Tecumseh...Abuse no one or nothing...Abuse turns the wise ones to fools and robs the spirit of its vision..your a good man and a good human Jeremy
Brother, someone else here said thanks for the stones for doing this vid!! And they were right!! You're talking about real good true friends!! Your identity is not some hurtful words someone spouted out to you in passing or in a comment on your U Tube!!!! Your identity is you being you!! Your friends tell you that you are a good person and you know your a good person!! You said it on this vid! Your friends are telling you you are Brother!!!! You're talking yourself into being insecure and you shouldn't be!! You have people on here subscribed to your channel including me who enjoy you and watch what you're doing and learning from you!! I myself wish I was doing what your doing and making a positive impact!! You can't please everyone!! Those people giving you grief are jealous of what you're doing and don't matter!! You have to make yourself happy to be able to pass it on to others!! Stop beating yourself up Brother!! Your rockin it!!
Thank you for your words. I really needed this today. I am a sound designer for the theatre and I have been just feeling the imposter syndrome hard in the last 2 weeks. I have one show just open and another that is about to open. I am feeling a little creatively tapped. Also, I feel like I'm bracing for some reviewer to rip me apart while I'm feeling so vulnerable. It is part of the job and theaters invite the criticism to build hype and sell tickets....but the risk is there. I have my guitars and I haven't been playing very long but they have been a refuge as has your channel. I'm still very much trying to develop my taste in guitars and have been binge watching your channel whenever I feel overstressed. I find your content really helpful. You are so dang relatable as a person. You are funny and kind. I also adore when you do outtake reels.
Thank you, Jeremy! Your honesty is refreshing! And your courage gives courage to all of us. Keep bringing that demon into the light, and it will lose its power. God bless you, my friend!
Mean, critical people are very sorry people. They are usually the most insecure, envious, covetous, jealous people around, and enjoy tearing others down. Sometimes they are verbally abusive because they were verbally abused, and somehow the cycle of abuse continues. I grew up with people like that in my immediate family. I've learned to pity them and do the best to avoid and ignore them. My goal is to live in a world of light, and be the best possible me I can be. Thanks, Jeremy, for being part of the light that surrounds me.
Jeremy … thanks for your vulnerability and honesty. Great video, you left me with a lot of important things to think about. My wallet is full. Maybe I can empty some of those words today. Thank you.
Great video man. It certainly resonates with me in more ways than one. There’s a lot of insecurity in this business, and opinion everywhere you look. It certainly makes for some difficult times. The beautiful thing is that it can push us to do greater than we ever thought we could. It’s not always easy, but at the end of the day I feel very lucky to be making my living doing something I love,. I admire your courage in putting all of this on the table.
Great video Jeremy! I enjoy watching your videos because you are modest and down to earth! You are going to experience cruel comments because there are negative people out there hating everything! Hang in there and enjoy the good people.....there are a lot of them out there. Look at all of your subscribers!
From one ordinary gutar fanatic to another. We're not the best players, surely, but were GOOD! Remember 90% of people can only wonder what it would be like to be able to play any instrument at all. Only another small percentage of those musicians play the guitar. That means that you and I are GOOD at something that almost no one else can do! This is what ive always told my daughters when they were learning music. YOU'RE GOOD, AND GETTING BETTER EVERY DAY, AT SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE IN THE WORLD CAN ONLY WONDER ABOUT!
As a 45 yr performing musician I can say without delay that the criticism we believe about ourselves deep down hurts the most. Keep on rockin and doing your thing. FTW and make the music. Thanks for all the fun content.
Another beautiful reflection, Jeremy. The "everyday people" we are is the valuable thing - and we're all everyday people, who sometimes get to do exceptionally beautiful things - or make beautiful sounds! Thank you! As Joni said in a song, "When you dig down deep you lose good sleep, and it makes you heavy company..." That's not a bad thing.
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I haven't made it through the whole vid yet but don't let anyone stop you from doing what you love.
"I want the world to be a better place through music and through friendship" a great quote worth stuffing in my wallet, thanks!
Being a Preachers Kid, I was 4 years old when I first sang in church standing on a folding chair...Fast forward to High School, in chorus one day a senior female turned around after a reheasal and told me that I sucked and "Stop singing thru your nose" ....at nearly 65 years old, I still sing in church when asked and I have sung on several recording sessions. Take the punch and keep fighting.
When I was about 6 years old my dad was changing a wheel on his car and told me to hold the spare upright. It promptly fell over and he called me a "dope". I don't think I'd ever heard the word before but it cut me so deep that it definitely affected my self confidence for years and I've never forgotten it. I'm now 71! Keep up the good work.
Man, Jeremy, thank you so much for having the stones to make this video. This was definitely a God send. There is another power at work other than our Father and we call him double O nothin.
You’re a great singer and I hope that I will be able to play the guitar like you before I die. Keep up the good work doing what is right is not always easy. You are in my prayers and remember… Greater is HE that lives in us than him that lives in the world! Love you man.
Brother I applaud you for your courage to make a video like this and to be you. My favorite thing about your channel is that you’re a normal guy who loves music and the relationships built around it and that your unashamedly a follower of Christ. Your videos are an inspiration to me and so many Jeremy. From me and I’m sure countless other brothers in Christ, we love you and we’re so grateful to follow your journeys through music and life. It brings me great joy to know despite those thoughts and hard times you find hope in Christ. Keep doing you brother!
Thanks for sharing Jeremy. I too struggle with insecurity amongst other things.
"There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing." Thank you for your transparency and wise words of healing, Jeremy.
Great video Jeremy! Keep positive and stay positive! Your channel has helped me and many others. Peace.
Let your light shine bright because that's why your here, I love what you do!
I can relate . But someone told me that not everyone is gonna be a fan of a great singer . He or she will be criticized. So this person , who happens to be a professional singer, told me , you have your unique style which I like and I’m sure more people are gonna like . So , that day I stoped worrying about my voice and kept playing guitar and singing for those who like it .
Hey’ your vulnerability is one of your qualities that brings out the best in you . . . I sit and binge watch your pod casts for hours. Your clean articulation and honesty are your strengths. 🙏🏻 Jim from Australia
Jeremy, you sir, are a beautiful soul. You are enough. Thanks for being transparent! Keep on keepin' on, brother!
Profound words! Jeremy you're a legend you've achieved a level of success many could only dream of as you are taking your dream and making it your reality.
Dude you nailed it. People are rude and what I have learned is when people run their mouth tearing others down, they are just screaming at their own insecurities! You have helped me and countless others believe in ourselves as we pursue this guitar journey. And quite honestly, I am at the 6 month mark of learning and it’s difficult to not compare my 43 year old self to what others, like you, have worked so hard to obtain. So keep up the good work and forget that Nathan dudes name! Keep up the great work. If you are ever coming through Alabama, hit me up, I would love to take you to lunch. So there you go! Keep up the good work bro!
Appreciate your vulnerability in this, bro! It's a problem I face as well, and they're especially difficult when we don't talk about them.
Keep doing what you do be praying for you , your breakthrough is just around the corner
This is a wonderful video and really shows the depth of your character Jeremy! I think anyone who has watched you for any length of time can tell that you come across as a very sincere and kind human being who happens to also be extremely passionate about guitars. Keep up the great work!!
Jeremy, Opening your heart helped me to examine mine, including those negative comments I’ve put in my own wallet. You are terrific and brave!
I have enjoyed your channel for over 6 months. I have played off and on for over 50 years. I’m not good, but have played in church for years. I am retired now, and enjoying learning about guitars. I never had the time before. I have a Guild from 1979 and enjoy learning about Guild. I don’t watch to see fantastic playing, I enjoy your programming and attitude about guitars. Very refreshing. Keep it up!
You are a great human being, truthful, faithful and ever changing as you move forward. By the way, sing til the cows come home, let the rest just hum in the background!
Jeremy, this is powerful. Comment after comment all I see is a deluge of support for you. Why is this? It’s because you matter to a lot of people. You are so genuine and the embodiment of what a good human is. You are a breath of fresh air in the ever increasing toxicity of our culture. I can only imagine the kind of guts it takes to make a video with such personal emotion tied up in it, and to expose the nerve endings which have lingered with you for years. You did it masterfully, sir. Such a talented guy you are, sincerely. I bet a lot of people look up to you and I, for one, am one of them. You are a North Star, Jeremy. Never stop shining!
Jeremy, thank you for being so open about this… it is one of the bravest things you can do on a forum like this and I applaud you for it! You have one of the most genuine channels here and please remember the vast majority that agrees with that fact. Cheers!
Jeremy, have made a comment only one time and your response was kind, encouraging and made me feel good. Thanks!
Beautiful message Jeremy, Your words are spot on, thank you.😊
@John Brogan right on
👍🙏✌️
they bought a 😢 or two to my eyes
bought 'n' brought
- Miss R. Spellinbee
I love love LOVE your edit on this video. The cuts, the composition, leaving certain pauses in there. But my absolute favorite thing is what you did with the camera going out of focus to add emphasis, or if that was your autofocus glitching, the decision to leave it in there... And the cherry on top of the whole thing was going out of focus for that big title (chef's kiss). Sometimes I see videos in our niche that are so good that it makes me feel like I should just give up. But your edit on this video does the opposite somehow. I'm really inspired.
Dude! I like your singing! Don’t stop!…..🎉
43,000 subscribers.
9,000,000 views.
Pretty effing good by anyone’s measure. The only thing missing from this video is you closing it out with a song.
Here’s a data point from one single person- me. When you sing on one of your videos it makes my day. It makes my day for two reasons. 1. I know it fills your heart with joy, and 2. It fills my heart with joy. Thank you for that.
It’s strange how those of us, all of us actually, who have our unique insecurities, can pull-off what might be one of the toughest things to do- talk to a camera and put yourself out in front of everyone. I admire you for being able to do that and I commend you for being able to do it very well.
As someone who is old enough to be your father, maybe too old- lol, I find you to be an inspiration to me. You have continuously showed me how to follow your heart and do something you love despite knowing their will be those who will try and drag you down to their level. You are brave to do this and strong to resist letting them win. I began this note announcing some facts that is a clear indication there are many more than me who love you, respect you, admire you, and who need and look forward to the next video.
Insecurities? I’m struggling with that label for you. I don’t know if anyone can have more confidence than I do BUT I wouldn’t be comfortable doing what you have been doing at a high level for a long time now. Does that make me insecure? I don’t know.
Sending the BIGGEST virtual hug to my friend Jeremy.
What a missed opportunity! I should've played a song.
You bring a lot of positive videos! Don’t let anyone take what you love to do away from you with there negative words!
My man - I appreciate this video so much. The struggle is REAL. Neurolinguistic programming is with us like the air we breathe. But beyond that - you touch on the importance of the people (and more importantly, the words) we keep around us and give power to in our lives - Many of us, particularly as men but this is true for women also, are raised on a culture of shaming that is baked into the dough of our interactions - some fundamental competitiveness that keeps us separate from each other rather than aligned. But you tackle this subject with such directness, such vulnerability and power. Kudos to you and blessings to all of us in our collective healing journey.
Jeremy you are so much braver than me for real. I’ve been wanting to start a TH-cam channel based on guitar and music for years but I’ve similarly felt insecurities that have ultimately kept me from doing it. I’ve only been associated with your channel for a couple months now but you’ve helped reshape my love for guitar and music again. I think we are all ultimately harder on ourselves than anyone else can be. But as I’ve gotten older I’ve tried keeping myself in check so that I at least don’t make other people feel worse from my comments. I never leave negative comments on TH-cam channels and won’t start any time soon. I appreciate your passion and it’s rubbed off on me my friend. Thank you for that. By the way, I recently made a purchase on a 7 string Schecter left handed guitar and I’m through the roof how excited I am everyday about this instrument lol. I have a lefty PRS custom 24 coming in September and need to find a great mid range lefty acoustic to fall in love with. I’ll report on how it’s going as I get closer to finding one I like!
Jeremy, you are a beautiful human. Thanks for your insights and honest observations and well earned wisdom. I appreciate you.
Don’t ever quit, never yield. Some people are are filled with anger and jealousy and will constantly try to make themselves feel better by knocking you down. Keep on keeping on. You provide great content, your passion is infectious and you are simply one of the best channels on TH-cam. I just found you, and I watch past videos every night. You’re a kind man and have inspired me to get back playing acoustic guitar. You have a lot to offer guitar players in general and you make the world a better place. I said previously you’re a good man… and I’ll add with a BIG HEART. Your sincerity is obvious and refreshing. I’m hooked… all the best to you and your family. JD
Dude- you are awesome. The kind of courage and transparency it takes to share your "words" is inspiring.
I have those too, and the worst thing is that I may have spoken words like that to others at some point.
Forgiveness is a on-going thing.
People are just jealous and insecure themselves and hide behind their screen to make themselves feel better. I really appreciate and respect what you do. Thank you!
Man let me tell you something. I love singing and playing guitar. It seems unfair at how much I love it and how bad I am at singing. You may not be the greatest singer ever, but your willingness in a few of your videos to sing in front of thousands of people as given me the courage to even just sing in front of my wife. I think man if Jeremy can do that I can surely sing in front of my wife and my closest friends. Thank you.
Loved this video so much. You are so genuine and honest. Thank you for sharing. While our family and friends are important, our faith can keep us anchored too. Jeremy thank you so much for these words of encouragement 👍
It cuts different when they go for the things you think you are doing well. I had a boss once tell me "There are other professions than this." I'm in the same profession still, more than a decade later, and his voice still pops up. It's amazing that the negativity can overshadow all of the positives. You're doing some cool things with your channel, and most importantly, you are doing it.
Be well. Guard your heart. Keep going. Don't stop.
Thank you, Jeremy, for this raw honesty. It's taken me a lifetime to literally stop cringing in shame and embarrassment every time I have a flashback of when I felt unworthy or less than. It's a process of rewiring your brain to start realizing that other people's opinions about you belong to them - their energy and their projection. I play guitar and I sing because my very being demands it. Even if my music will never be appreciated outside of myself, as long as I like it, that's really all that matters. 🙏
Never ever , give in to negative words about yourself or others . It says more about them than you . Ive learned that sometimes people that you thought are your best friends, say things behind your back . Which are really hurt full . True friends will always have your back no matter what . Praying for a better world that everyone has more kindness that exists now . I love your channel and what it is . The love of music and guitars .Bless you and your family . Keep on singing and playing .🙏🙋✌👍
Hey. Just wanna say, i've been watching your videos so much.. i love your acoustic videos and love watching your guitar playing. Keep going man!
Man, just saw this video. Happens to us too (especially on FB), It weighs on me all the time. It's so easy to focus on the negativity and lose sight of all the good you have done and it constantly amazes me how many people are willing to take time out of their day to take a swipe at a total stranger whom they don't know from Adam. Good for you for not letting the bastards get you down
-Isaac from DHB
I have to thank you for giving me permission to sing. Thank you very much. .and yes, I am making a joyful noise!
You are one of my favorite acoustic guitar players ❤....thanks for all your inspiration. Your enthusiasm speaks volumes.
Ted Lasso is the Best Show... Ever! Next tattoo is gonna be a TL quote. Love ya buddy!
You can tell you're a gentle soul and aren't wired by-default for the sometimes nasty folks out there. That's one of the things that drew me to you and your videos and I'm sure others as well. Keep being you! There's only one of you!
Thank you Jeremy, I will continue to watch and subscribe. Inner Critic is loud when we don't know our selves.
Totally honest and something so many of us can relate with. Please know that most of us here adore everything about you or else we wouldn’t be subscribing and keep watching. You are an incredible human being. You have amazing advise to offer and talents to share.
Perspective time: People who say shit like that have low self esteem. They are usually envious of others. Nathan probably saw something about you that he wished he had, and tried to shoot you down to bring you down. Same goes for TH-cam trolls. Please try to rise above those words and understand that these people likely aren’t happy and whole - whereas you have a beautiful life and wonderful things to share. I enjoy your voice and guitar playing. I find your advise valuable. And as one of the few females in the guitar community, I can assure you that you are a very handsome guy and that your wife is a lucky woman to have a husband like you - genuine guys like you are tough to find.
It’s easy for me to say not to let harmful words bother you, but it becomes easier to let go when you consider WHY people say crap like that. Please sing more, remember we all age, and keep sticking with those who aim to love you for who you are.
Don’t ever change. You’re awesome the way you are. Whoever disagrees is missing out! 😊
Well, said Marsha
Jeremy, I enjoy your channel because you are straightforward and you seem very confident! We all struggle with insecurities. Thank you for your videos.
Understand it completely mate, and well done for continuing to push on and keep doing what you love. MANY people would just give up for the sake of self preservation and taking the easy way out. I do regular gigs now (well as regular as I can in between a full time job and being a dad and husband) and even though I’m out there quite a bit, EVERY TIME I get behind the mic I get insecure and need to fight through it. Takes 2 or 3 songs, and it all stems from a shitty experience in my youth. Like you said, words effect a person and it sucks. We just gotta keep going because it’s not just for our sake, we need to show our kids that you can’t give up, show the next generation that you’re gonna get knocks along the way but you need to pursue what brings you joy and fulfillment because that is ultimately the path to finding happiness. We’re here for a good time, not a long time, and we can’t waste it being subdued by the negativity that we have the power to banish from our lives. You wanna sing? Then sing! You don’t have to be pitch perfect, look at all the famous singers that couldn’t hit the right note if they tried, it doesn’t matter! If it brings you happiness, get after it and inspire others to do the same. The world will be much brighter 😊
People that say things like that are just trying to have power over you and make themselves feel better. Don't give another person control over you or how you feel. You are doing a great job Brother and there are a lot of people out there that love you!
mate,i'm 62 now,i used to have panic attacks up to i think my early 20's. i took life by the scruff of it's neck and came through it.i'm now at the stage in life when i'm always looking around the corner for ill health.ain't happened yet,still fit and healthy,bit too brash for my own good but who cares!! i've followed you since the start bud,keep doing what you are doing and damn the ones who take the piss!!....it gets better when you get older bud! i'm still insecure at times but this guitar thing brings me through it all!! as you say shep..music and friendship!!❤❤
That's a very good point: that good friends help you to see yourself at your best. This is thoughtful and in a way brave video - thanks. For what it's worth I think your voice is kind of charming.
Jeremy, you are a light in the dark world that is the internet. You’re an awesome dude and I’ve always appreciated you taking the time to talk with me, as you have several times. You’re an awesome dude, keep it up.
YOU ARE MAKING A DIFFERENCE
Dear Jeremy, thank you for this honest testimony. When I look in the past this kind of stories are popping up in my memories. I´m also very grateful for having my lovely wife for almost 49 years and a couple of close friends. I know they love me and are honest with me. Whenever I´m struggling with things they listen to me and try to help me. And besides these loving and understanding relations there is my Saviour Who nevere rests and never sleeps. Whenever I fall or feel abandoned He is there. In Corona time one of my best friends gave me a book of Edith Eva Eger, "the Choise". After the Bible this book has become my second important book of all the books I read in my life. Her second book, "The gift" has also helped me a lot to deal with my feelings of insecurity. Both books are therapy to me. So keep on doing the good things you are doing. It means a lot to me and many others. Very appreciated!
You are doing good work bro. Good on you for this video, and for the others. Your message resonates with me, and I am glad you put it out. Keep on keeping on, you've got this one.
Godspeed
I feel your pain Jeremy. Back when I was a teenager, I had auditioned for a band when I was 17. Passed the audition, rehearsed for months and right before the first gig, got fired. The words spoken to me were, "you can't play guitar." I was devastated. If I couldn't play, how did I get into the band in the first place? I slowly began to cut back on playing guitar, especially in front of other people, until about the age of 27 or 28. Then put the guitar down for good. It wasn't until I turned 41 that I picked up a guitar and started playing again. Instead of playing the music I originally played, I took Classical lessons for 2 years, followed by Jazz lessons for 3 years. But, unfortunately, I still won't play in front of other people. Because in the back of my mind, those words still haunt me after all these years. And I'm turning 65 this summer.
Really like your videos! Do NOT stop!
Wow! It’s just a reminder that we never know what people are really carrying sometimes. And a reminder to be careful with what we say. And I think your wisest words what is that little phrase that I say often, let it go. Extremely well said.
Great video!maybe your best and most important,I love you and your work,don’t stop! Thanks
you're stronger than most putting yourself out here, damn the haters, there's ALWAYS folks who take shots at others doing what they love, hurt people hurt people. you're on the good foot, J, keep keeping on. peace unto you- Will
Thank you Jeremy! I think this was a very powerful and appropriate video for the times we’re in and the impact social media makes on us all. It takes a lot of personal inflection and “guts” I guess you could say to put yourself out there like you did. I guess I’d just like to say thank you for taking that stand.
Idk if you'll see this....but I appreciate you. I left my foundry job this year in a step of faith. Released my debut EP "Wherever I Go".
I needed to hear this....I didn't put out music for a decade until my friends at church put up money for studio time. I don't ever think I'm good enough when singing. I'm just a guy. I find peace in knowing God receives my worship and enjoys it.
I still need to heal....I don't like hearing myself sing. I haven't had bad words towards my singing. I just have a bad thoughts of myself I guess....but thank you for sharing this bro.
This is powerful brother! Kudos to you. Kudos to you for being real. Love your content and love this.
New to your channel but love it; keep doing what you’re doing!!
I enjoy every video you’ve posted. Now I may criticize a guitar every now and then, but I’d never dream of saying anything negative about you or your work. Keep your chin up. You’re doing a great job my friend!
Jeremy - fantastic vid articulating what many feel whether anybody is aware of it at all. Love your channel - keep up the fantastic info !
In first grade I wanted to sing in the chorus. The music teacher called me in to audition and shut me down after a handful of words. Later when I started playing in bands anytime I would try to add some backing vocals I’d get shut down in a second. I don’t know if I would have been able to sing if I had been taught instead of being shut down in first grade but it made me never want to try. And when I got shut down later I pretty much wanted to give up for life. Now I just sign for myself when I play. I know I suck but I enjoy it. Screw what other people think. Do what makes you feel good!😊
Brave, bold, and incredibly vulnerable video to make, Jeremy! I, like many, can relate and am grateful to you for sharing your experience & heart.
You are amazing man stay on your vibration and dont let someone on a lower frequency bring you down. Keep loving guitars and people and being who you are even when others try to use it as weakness or an advantage. We all just need to be the best person we can be to everyone and forgive our transgressors and wish them well.
Jeremy; I've been watching and listening to you for many years and I enjoy your content... as do many, many others. If not, you wouldn't have 42K+ subscribers. Keep smiling! and Keep Singing !!!
You make the world a better place brother, love your honesty and even through some of the short conversations we've had I could tell right away you are a selfless person with a good heart and great view on life. Some have said it, you do you, I very much enjoy your channel and what you do in the guitar community! 💪
Thierry! You're amazing man. Thanks for the kind words. I'm so thankful for you.
Good word. Stay encouraged!
Hey Jeremy, thanks for making content. I always try to analyze the motivations of those who inflict their spite without provocation. Out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks. Unkind people are just that, unkind. I like your analogy about the distorted representation that is reflected back at us by faulty mirrors/unkind people. Please keep going. You are appreciated. People that take the time to tear down others on the internet are something of a mystery to me. If people can't think of anything nice to say, they shouldn't say anything at all. At least, that's how I was raised. Thanks for the time you put into sharing your knowledge of guitars and just being a cool guy!
Love what you do and thank you for being transparent. Let the narcissists go. Be true to who you are, and work with the gifts you have been given by your creator.
Never heard you sing but I know it would be great. I’ve have wore those boots myself. Enjoy all your videos and I do pop off sometimes. About very things you have done . But that’s why I like your videos because you do it your way with honesty and love for music and mankind
Thanks Jeremy for being so open and vunerable and helping us all. Here is my limited view on these things. Often when people give nasty comments or advice for that matter, its a reflection of their own experience. Like they are talking to themselves based on something someone else triggers. So it has not much to do with you. But words can hit hard nonetheless. What has helped me is writing down bad experiences and talking about them with a coach/ therapist. It has stopped me replaying the same video in my mind over and over, and feeling them over and over again. Also Ive gained some insight on my own insecurities and how to deal with them. Peace and love.
You’re a beautiful person mate. Thanks for sharing. Peace from a brother in Christ from down under
Mate, F--k 'em all, everybody has their insecurities and usually the people that make hurtful comments are the people that have deeper problems. You're one of the reasons I watch TH-cam, wonderful job!
you are a cool, honest man, that´s more than enough for me... keep going!!
jeremy I have been a singer all my lifeSchool choir in every grade, sang in barbershop quartet and mens barbershop chorus Sang and played guitar at open mike nights and I am a Catastropher always think the worst. I also try to impress but that never works out but I never give up and keep doing what I Love.
Thanks for putting this out there, Jeremy. You set a powerful examples in so many ways for so many people. Keep at it, friend.
I live by the words of Tecumseh...Abuse no one or nothing...Abuse turns the wise ones to fools and robs the spirit of its vision..your a good man and a good human Jeremy
Don't you worry about that jerk's words. His mom didn't hug him enough. You are very likable.
Wow... powerful.. Thank you! 🎸🎵❤️
I have been greatly blessed by what you do!
Brother, someone else here said thanks for the stones for doing this vid!! And they were right!! You're talking about real good true friends!! Your identity is not some hurtful words someone spouted out to you in passing or in a comment on your U Tube!!!! Your identity is you being you!! Your friends tell you that you are a good person and you know your a good person!! You said it on this vid! Your friends are telling you you are Brother!!!! You're talking yourself into being insecure and you shouldn't be!! You have people on here subscribed to your channel including me who enjoy you and watch what you're doing and learning from you!! I myself wish I was doing what your doing and making a positive impact!! You can't please everyone!! Those people giving you grief are jealous of what you're doing and don't matter!! You have to make yourself happy to be able to pass it on to others!! Stop beating yourself up Brother!! Your rockin it!!
Thank you for your words. I really needed this today. I am a sound designer for the theatre and I have been just feeling the imposter syndrome hard in the last 2 weeks. I have one show just open and another that is about to open. I am feeling a little creatively tapped. Also, I feel like I'm bracing for some reviewer to rip me apart while I'm feeling so vulnerable. It is part of the job and theaters invite the criticism to build hype and sell tickets....but the risk is there.
I have my guitars and I haven't been playing very long but they have been a refuge as has your channel. I'm still very much trying to develop my taste in guitars and have been binge watching your channel whenever I feel overstressed. I find your content really helpful. You are so dang relatable as a person. You are funny and kind. I also adore when you do outtake reels.
Thank you, Jeremy! Your honesty is refreshing! And your courage gives courage to all of us. Keep bringing that demon into the light, and it will lose its power. God bless you, my friend!
Thanks, Tom! I'm glad we're friends. You're a good mirror.
Mean, critical people are very sorry people. They are usually the most insecure, envious, covetous, jealous people around, and enjoy tearing others down. Sometimes they are verbally abusive because they were verbally abused, and somehow the cycle of abuse continues. I grew up with people like that in my immediate family. I've learned to pity them and do the best to avoid and ignore them. My goal is to live in a world of light, and be the best possible me I can be. Thanks, Jeremy, for being part of the light that surrounds me.
Jeremy … thanks for your vulnerability and honesty. Great video, you left me with a lot of important things to think about. My wallet is full. Maybe I can empty some of those words today. Thank you.
Great video man. It certainly resonates with me in more ways than one. There’s a lot of insecurity in this business, and opinion everywhere you look. It certainly makes for some difficult times. The beautiful thing is that it can push us to do greater than we ever thought we could. It’s not always easy, but at the end of the day I feel very lucky to be making my living doing something I love,. I admire your courage in putting all of this on the table.
Great video Jeremy! I enjoy watching your videos because you are modest and down to earth! You are going to experience cruel comments because there are negative people out there hating everything! Hang in there and enjoy the good people.....there are a lot of them out there. Look at all of your subscribers!
From one ordinary gutar fanatic to another. We're not the best players, surely, but were GOOD! Remember 90% of people can only wonder what it would be like to be able to play any instrument at all. Only another small percentage of those musicians play the guitar. That means that you and I are GOOD at something that almost no one else can do! This is what ive always told my daughters when they were learning music. YOU'RE GOOD, AND GETTING BETTER EVERY DAY, AT SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE IN THE WORLD CAN ONLY WONDER ABOUT!
No way only 10% are instrumental musicians in 1-2nd world countries. More like 30-40.
@@LegsON Even fewer people ever learn how to write a proper sentence apparently.
@@stevenpipes1555 I wonder if you know at least 1 language other than English. At least decently.
Definitely don't know 2. :)
As a 45 yr performing musician I can say without delay that the criticism we believe about ourselves deep down hurts the most. Keep on rockin and doing your thing. FTW and make the music. Thanks for all the fun content.
I love everything about you and your channel. 👍
Right on brother. Thank you for this video.
Another beautiful reflection, Jeremy. The "everyday people" we are is the valuable thing - and we're all everyday people, who sometimes get to do exceptionally beautiful things - or make beautiful sounds! Thank you! As Joni said in a song, "When you dig down deep you lose good sleep, and it makes you heavy company..." That's not a bad thing.
Not sure I've ever heard you sing , but you're one hell of a good guitar player.