These were practically non issues in our times when both the husband and wife worked in the interest of the family and specially when divorce was not common. In the present times when sustaining the relationship has become so tough, the trust element is very weak and fragile and divorce rate is so high, sadly i must agree that it's probably better to keep the finances separate... Fragile relationships leave most people depressed and insecure and mentally ill thes days. Earlier in our grand parents days sure they must have had financial issues but mental illnesses were rarest. At the end i would say work on building trust rather than finances
I feel both are right in their own views. That's why many working couples have 3 accounts - their separate individual accounts and one joint account in which portion of both of their incomes is deposited. Thus, they can enjoy the benefits of a joint account and also maintain the independence of their individual finances. This implies working together as a team with common goals, while also valuing each other's independence and financial stability.
Finances should be kept separately. I strongly believe so, because although it is family’s money, each one of them needs to know how to manage their finances better.
I had a joint account with my ex n now it created a headache but trust can't be defined on the basis of accounts hence priya is more accurate as there is no right or wrong in a relationship
I think some portion of boths income should in joint account and some of it should be in their individual accounts. This can help to sort all problems.
Incase of Joint account it becomes hard to keep track of each others and even on own’s expenses, there is a tendency to make it up in future. But we tend to keep strict check on own’s balances, cause we always feel it’s limited and making it up becomes tough if spent extravagantly. So just keep it separate and help each other during each others need. Time pe madad karna hi toh zaruri hai na, chahe woh jaise bhi karo. And plus in this case koi kisi ko blame bhi nei kar payega ki about kisne zyada spend kiya. A very sensitive topic put forward very sensibly. Thanks Life Tak! Much Appreciated. 👍🏻
At times, taking side gets a little difficult as in this case there are certain things, I feel, are coming in involuntarily. 1. What struck Anant more was not merely maintaining a joint account but Priya's trust considering the fact the finance is one of the pillars on which relationships thrive. And may be, to Priya, trust and finance appeared two different segments. 2. Considering, what Priya had been through, it becomes more of a habit out of the fear of facing grave financial consequences that she felt comfortable dealing her finances separately. 3. On the other hand, Anant is also correct in saying that there are certain expenses which cannot be borne individually. All I feel is that, if somebody is comfortable in a certain financial set-up, we should at times let them be because they had reasons to do so. With time, a lot of things heal and with consistent support and understanding, a person might come out of the mental barrier to make life easy for both.
There is nothing like right or wrong Every person have a different perspective towards things Which forms, from his/her experiences. It does not mean the girl will never support him if finances needed for their future planning. And please dont relate it to trust.
The bank accounts of both boy and girl should be separate and one joint account should be there where both should contribute some money every month so that in emergency situation both have access. Similarly in property also.
Priya is right... its not about the trust on a man but it is equally important to keep finance separate... i do it too and help my husband when he needs it aswell and i also feel that saving money is done better by a lady than a man. A man always spends it on his family unconditionally so den in hard times our savings come in use. its not at all about d separation later. I feel it’s a safe move for better future.
Priya is right. I had the same argument with my husband. He didn't like my decision till date. I am so impressed how you guys are coming up with such relevant topics ! Kudos !
I feel Priya is right, they can plan things together and have accounts separate. Bank account and trust is separate don't compare it. Trust is they discuss plan, discuss and then they spend every money r whatever. Single joint account never define trust your partner
Pirya is right. She needs more financial security than her husband.moreover she is a working lady.she is doing efforts.she should share expenditures but she should have an individual bank account. Both of them should purchase a house.joint house.both or survivour.all things should be clear and soothing to each other.
I have one joint account to pay bills and everyday expenses. Then I have 2 separate savings accounts where I equally distribute our savings monthly. I have always managed our finances solely and things have been great so far.
Priya is right because she is needing privacy and imaging her mother place at her. Anant is right as couples should have to share their financial issue as these may increase their bond and will make easy to understand. Result I would say make joint account but of your saving not of salary make separate account and keep trust on each other .
I agree to share part of income in joint account.....I think we share everything then why not money..... It will build more trust & closeness in relation.....we can use this money to buy things we use/need equally.... So it's good to hv joint a/c in couple... Well phir bhi Anant & Priya both r right from their point of view.... Nice Video.. :-)
Exactly. Keep your individual accounts separate and make a joint account with the savings of both's salaries. This is the most preferred way to manage finances by couples nowadays and works best.
I think ANANT is right He is talking about the future Like BUYING A HOUSE , there will be having kids in the future and in METROPOLITAN CITIES raising a child is a big challenge . He is not only talking about JOINING THE ACCOUNTS but to do some tasks together. ANANT is thinking about PRIYA also while having this conversation with her as he knows at one point life will become full of challenges at that time both have to work TOGETHER.
Priya !! Your financial security is primary ,any person can flip at any moment so there are certain things that should be kept private and if any man has problem with that then his intentions are not to be trusted!!
@@puneetkhanna3798 Tum to aise bolraheho Jaise girls apne marriage main apni salary kharch Nahi Karti.Aur waise vi shadimain dono taraf se paise kharch hotehein AUR Tumne Apne parents keliye kharch kite and that's not a big deal.Meri ak dost hein joki apni shadi Ka Pura kharch khud uthaithi.kyun ki unke parents ki all savings unke study main kharch hogaithi
My boyfriend got divorced few years back and his ex literally stole everything they had in the account...he was good enough to trust her but she stole everything meanwhile they were together. He still feels a joint account is better option no matter what.
Both are right Priya should step in Anant's shoes and try to understand his view point and SAME SHOULD BE DONE BY ANANT TOO. Also Anant should do something to gain her trust in this matter.
There is no right or wrong answer, whatever works for each couple is right for them. The way finances will be handled is something that should be discussed before marriage to identify if both are compatible.
I think joint account best for their savings for the betterment of their future and there should be separate account as well to be independent for their small small needs .😊
@@aakankshajain8755 Let's say something bad happens to you. If you have single account all your money will be in government's hands. Your family have to go to court just to get that money. So joint account is not at all bad. Or better you can keep someone nominee if you do not completely believe someone.
@@subhadeep_2001 nothing happened to me... actually I m a banker..so joint account is better but some case joint is not better And nominee always better but cross check with banker that nominee is done
If Anant was earning more than her, would he have had joint acc? I work in same business of my husband but I am a worker in there and earn a salary. The reason I started working was because I was working as a free housewife and had to beg for basic things for me. So now if I have money in my acc, I buy whatever I want and no hisaab to any husband.
@@garimagarg7001 in the same way like a lady in the name of women empowerment and related biased laws misuse them and torture threaten a guy and make joke of position of innocent guys in society by putting up false accusations on them to render their selfish agendas...
@@adisri9898 It is always tit for tat. What you have been doing for ages with women, is happing with you guys now. Bohot sare ladko me koi na koi aadat hoti h (like smoking or drinking) but batate he nahi h gharwale. Ladki ko shadi ke baad pata chalta hai (in case she is okay with these things) to kya karegi. Roegi, ladai karegi but ek baar ladki ki shadi ho gyi to hamare desh me to vo vapis nai ja sakti. Finally vo usko apni kismat samajh leti hai. This is just one example there are lots like these. Ab kabhi na kabhi to chize paltengi.
The bank accounts of both boy and girl should be separate and one joint account should be there where both should contribute some money every month so that in emergency situation both have access. Similarly in property also.
I think they both are right at there place.. Priya was gone through it but Anant love her and want start everything together so no one is right no one is wrong
I'm 100% with Priya becoz I'm also like that. When it comes to each and every major/ minor expenses, ofcourse we wives equally contribute. If one person is keep spending and other person saving then it creates a major rift, better to keep these accounts separate 😊
You are really clever. your husband is bearing expenses and you are saving. Marvelous...This is what girls do. why don't you both equally spend. what if you cheat him? Madam, marriage is the matter of trust not spending or saving independent finances. People have become so selfish now a days.
Looks like you missed what I mentioned clearly " I also contribute equally for all expenses" still Not sure what made you to say my husband bearing expenses,!! Please read properly before posting your comments
And what you people think about a housewife? She doesn’t have any salary, she is just working now and then for family members without any financial security.. after years of marriage, she doesn’t have a single account on her name and no Money with her..
Has everyone noticed that most of the girls agree with Priya n the men with husband......duz it ring a bell..... financial independence is a MUST..... Expenses can be jointly shared
Girls have become independent in today's scenerio. But somewhere boys are still not able to accept it that girls do share 50% of household expenditure. That's why he is insisting on opening joint account. I agree with priya no need to have joint account and if anytime boy is short of money or something like they have to purchase a house both can simply contry 50% each
I think they should have one joined account and one savings account personally each of them. All the investments should go from Joint and still have some personal money that they can spend or invest however they want. Above all transparency in all dimensions of a relationship makes things better.
Wife seems like childhood PTSD case. Lack of trust, Depressed attitude, Constant negative reminders are the good signs. They need a marriage counselor 😅 more then a joint account.
To trust for a girl is very difficult... because c left everything and adjust in every situation for a man.i am also working women..n I can say it's better to maintain your separate a/c .
A female should always be independent everyway that's the only way she can keep herself fit for the whole family. A woman is already given a secondary place in our society and especially in a male's eyes then what's the point in making her Earnings a matter of second person's decision. Please people think broadly for God's sake SHE IS THE NURTURER. SHE IS A GOOD MANAGER FOR A HAPPY FAMILY. So.. *Support every woman unconditionally and see the results. Guide her if needed and this way make your life blossom.*
Life tak is all about the life even little things which we ignore but u guys make us to think over it literally u all are good And the video is awesome and u both are right at own their place but I think we should have a separate account, its not a matter not trust or any thing 💛💛 u all are awesome and specially Priya dii luv u dii ❤❤
💯 Priya When I married 32 yrs ago it was my husband's idea not to have a joint account. YES we could use any account without the other asking about it.
I think the girl is right. Helping each other out is very important, and both of them should understand, but financial independence is very important for a woman always
Pehli baat, joint account has nothing to do with love and relationship... See, every individual is brought up in a different financials background and hence different situations lead them to different financial securities....Now in case u love someone....More than seeing ur personal desires of having joint accounts...It's better u respect each other's financial securities and decision... Because if love is true...Money sharing for whatever purpose will never be a problem..💚
It should be always separate.. bcoz no one knows what will happen in future..so after the huge emotional loss at least financial security is there for both .. marriage is not all about money.. its emotions n love
I too have my finances separate .I help my hubby when he needs it.As I am a person who loves to be independent and also I don't like to give so called "Hisaab" to anyone so I think it's good to have finances separate
The bank accounts of both boy and girl should be separate and one joint account should be there where both should contribute some money every month so that in emergency situation both have access. Similarly in property also.
@@ratnesh4727 ye kaha likha hai ki hisab dene k liye shadi Karte hai...what I do with my money is my look out.I work 12 hours in office for taking care of my family's need and taking care of my parents,and if my husband is ok with it I don't think anyone should have a problem with it...:)
It's been 4 years of my marriage and still we both have our separate account. The concept of joint A/c never came to our mind. But we both are equally responsible towards each other financially. It is sorted that I will pay the premium of his and mine policy, invest in shares and mutual funds and he will pay for the rents and other expenses to run our household and business. So, I don't feel there is a need of any joint account as long as you are sharing responsbilities.
Both of my parents are in govt. Job in same depertment in same office.. but in their 30 years of marraige, they always kept their financials seperate.. still now.. financial freedom is really important
They consider the Indian audience as a whole, not just the Hindi speaking people. There are people in the south, east and west of India who cannot understand Hindi.
@@amitkc75 sadi na krne ki to bat hi nhi ho rhi yha nd apko kisne bol diya ki do log her matter pe agree hote hai tbhi sadi hoti hai nd tbhi vo log sath me khus rhte hai ...ager vo log 4 saal se sath hai to kuch to similarties hongi na unme, aise ek matter pe sadi ko judge to ni kr skte,nd do log ek chij pe agree ho jruri to ni hai, dono ke apne point of views hai nd dono ko ek dusre ki views ko smjhna chahiy and dusra solution niklana chahiy....
@@amitkc75 its just a video nd real life me aisa kuch ni hota hai ki apni problems ka solution na kr pay.In real life aise chhoti chhoti prblms to roj hoti hai.And bat rhi puchhne ki to hmare views janne ke liy puchh rhe...
@@ratnesh4727 haan be, ladkiyan toh cosmetic ke liye hi paise udate, agar main kahun ladka daru cigarette pe paise udaata hai toh kaisa hai, bhai thoda dekh ke baat karo. Tameez toh hai nhi !!! Ghar mein apne maa behen se bhi aise hi baat krta hoga !!!
@@ratnesh4727 aur haan aapke bhaasha mein agar husband wife ka gulaam nhi hai, toh wife bhi husband ki gulaam nhi hai !!! Jo dusron ko bolta hai ki modern ladke wife ka kutta banta hai !!!
Now a days, many people have multiple accounts. Why can't you keep one joint account and one personal? I have my own account as well a joint account with husband. And I maintain both. What's the big deal? Joint account helps me to minimise many problem of joint expenses like house expenses, loans, car, club etc. While individual acct is good for savings and ofcourse some surprise gifts to my loved ones ...
I think she's right n it's absolutely ok to have different accounts..n be financially independent... The wife is right.. generally v have joint account with someone, when v r dependent on that person...not to share something more n b transparent to each other... I think money is something which can create problem among anyone... So better to keep these issues separately.. preferably
I think, they should have two financial accounts.. One is individual another is joint/mutual account.... common expenses like savings for house,cars,property,kids expenses from mutual accounts and they both should have separate accounts for their future...
Absolutely priya is correct............ Of course In every maritual relationship there should be trust in each other but not by the way of opening joints accounts . Trust love affection caring each other should devolop naturally over the period of time . Finally as per my opinion joint accounts or other simlar types of formalities are should be the options of husbend or wife . They should be given such freedom/options to to build the real TRUST love affection care .......... Thank you.........
I am with Priya..... she is right .....actually people like Anant wants to control finance in his hand .... they don't want to ask wife's willingness ..... just want to spend her income by his own way.......
Anant is right , marriage is about trust and doing things together. Priya is too scared and due to misfortune happened with her, she is now always sceptical, which is not right.I once met a girl like her in my life, I tried to change her perspective about life but I failed.
Relationship is not only about... Sharing the finical things... Priya is very right in her way.... Because u never know... U can't predict the future🔮. The opposite person may be good but still it's better to strict to our grounds.. So that in future... We never beg in front of the other person!
Priya is right. Finances should be separate for overall things to be better and more neatly sorted out. Afterall marriage is about respecting each other's space too - it's not about doing everything exactly same to same! Afterall each individual is unique, and it is this "Unity in Diversity" we must have in a meaningful marriage. In any case, 4 years is fairly a short term to integrate ALL finances. All-round-integration can be healthily thought about much later in married life, when the couple has gone through a fair share of ups and downs.
Who so ever is the script writer, has recently been nailing a very sensitive and subtle issues and it's commendable that in this era of vulgar and nonsensical journalism you have shown the guts to incite the conscience of young minds. Keep it up...and acting as usual is mesmerizing...
Both have there own freedom something that it not an issue to separate the finance but it is more important that to trust each other if they are really trusting each other then there is no problems to have joint finance or separate finance it doesn't matter now days and important is that they are happy in this relationship
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Priya is right
Keep somethings in our hand is ok for gud way n bieng couple both have to understand n give respect to each other thoughts n priority.
These were practically non issues in our times when both the husband and wife worked in the interest of the family and specially when divorce was not common.
In the present times when sustaining the relationship has become so tough, the trust element is very weak and fragile and divorce rate is so high, sadly i must agree that it's probably better to keep the finances separate...
Fragile relationships leave most people depressed and insecure and mentally ill thes days.
Earlier in our grand parents days sure they must have had financial issues but mental illnesses were rarest.
At the end i would say work on building trust rather than finances
I feel both are right in their own views. That's why many working couples have 3 accounts - their separate individual accounts and one joint account in which portion of both of their incomes is deposited. Thus, they can enjoy the benefits of a joint account and also maintain the independence of their individual finances. This implies working together as a team with common goals, while also valuing each other's independence and financial stability.
Finances should be kept separately.
I strongly believe so, because although it is family’s money, each one of them needs to know how to manage their finances better.
These two act better than any bollywood actor plus the scripts are so good!!
Exactly but I genuinely don't understand why they get so less likes. They deserves muchhh more. They create the best content
@@shitaldoifode8058 yes! They are constantly putting efforts on breaking the taboos of society. They need much more recognition
Agreed wholeheartedly 💯
Absolutely true
@@fourfire2814 yes
I had a joint account with my ex n now it created a headache but trust can't be defined on the basis of accounts hence priya is more accurate as there is no right or wrong in a relationship
I think some portion of boths income should in joint account and some of it should be in their individual accounts.
This can help to sort all problems.
Exactly
exactly
That is truly more than perfect 🙏
Perception - that's all.
Neither Priya nor Anant is wrong.
Right
Exactly!!
Ha na.
Incase of Joint account it becomes hard to keep track of each others and even on own’s expenses, there is a tendency to make it up in future. But we tend to keep strict check on own’s balances, cause we always feel it’s limited and making it up becomes tough if spent extravagantly.
So just keep it separate and help each other during each others need. Time pe madad karna hi toh zaruri hai na, chahe woh jaise bhi karo. And plus in this case koi kisi ko blame bhi nei kar payega ki about kisne zyada spend kiya.
A very sensitive topic put forward very sensibly. Thanks Life Tak! Much Appreciated. 👍🏻
At times, taking side gets a little difficult as in this case there are certain things, I feel, are coming in involuntarily.
1. What struck Anant more was not merely maintaining a joint account but Priya's trust considering the fact the finance is one of the pillars on which relationships thrive. And may be, to Priya, trust and finance appeared two different segments.
2. Considering, what Priya had been through, it becomes more of a habit out of the fear of facing grave financial consequences that she felt comfortable dealing her finances separately.
3. On the other hand, Anant is also correct in saying that there are certain expenses which cannot be borne individually.
All I feel is that, if somebody is comfortable in a certain financial set-up, we should at times let them be because they had reasons to do so. With time, a lot of things heal and with consistent support and understanding, a person might come out of the mental barrier to make life easy for both.
True!! I agree with this..
They can have both individual (independent expenditures or savings) and joint account (for their common needs)..
exactly
@@vijayaniraula2474
Why is she not ready to share her account
Koi chhakar to nhi hai
@@ratnesh4727 😂😂they are talking about bank account not fb or insta
Yeah I also felt the same
True.
It's not about the things right or wrong..It's all about the communication and sharing your own ideas that matters the most in a marriage..
Marriage is does'nt mean that couple should share each and everything...
They should maintain own individuality
My life my rules, my liberty, my space...this philosophy is ruining the families.
@@infinity_shows_149 yes bro..I think those people who have this philosophy shouldn't marry
@@infinity_shows_149 ye toh selfish logo ka philosophy hai waise 😁
There is nothing like right or wrong
Every person have a different perspective towards things
Which forms, from his/her experiences. It does not mean the girl will never support him if finances needed for their future planning. And please dont relate it to trust.
Well said...
The bank accounts of both boy and girl should be separate and one joint account should be there where both should contribute some money every month so that in emergency situation both have access. Similarly in property also.
Bang on !!! Absolutely right.
Keeping money from a relationship will make it more stronger ! So No Joint Account !
Ya Anand is right but priya is also right and priya have to keep their financial separates its helps in future without any hesitation and approvals
someone asked money what's ur task? it said making people fight
Priya is right... its not about the trust on a man but it is equally important to keep finance separate...
i do it too and help my husband when he needs it aswell and i also feel that saving money is done better by a lady than a man.
A man always spends it on his family unconditionally so den in hard times our savings come in use.
its not at all about d separation later. I feel it’s a safe move for better future.
Priya is right. I had the same argument with my husband. He didn't like my decision till date. I am so impressed how you guys are coming up with such relevant topics ! Kudos !
For betterment if husband is not capable enough in savings it's good choice to keep finances separate. It's not about only trust it's about security
Similarly , in my case ,i will explain my wife today that why i dint want to have a same account .she will be glad to hear this !
Ya u r right.
I feel Priya is right, they can plan things together and have accounts separate. Bank account and trust is separate don't compare it. Trust is they discuss plan, discuss and then they spend every money r whatever. Single joint account never define trust your partner
Yes
Pirya is right. She needs more financial security than her husband.moreover she is a working lady.she is doing efforts.she should share expenditures but she should have an individual bank account. Both of them should purchase a house.joint house.both or survivour.all things should be clear and soothing to each other.
I have one joint account to pay bills and everyday expenses. Then I have 2 separate savings accounts where I equally distribute our savings monthly. I have always managed our finances solely and things have been great so far.
Priya is right because she is needing privacy and imaging her mother place at her.
Anant is right as couples should have to share their financial issue as these may increase their bond and will make easy to understand.
Result I would say make joint account but of your saving not of salary make separate account and keep trust on each other .
Exactly
I agree to share part of income in joint account.....I think we share everything then why not money..... It will build more trust & closeness in relation.....we can use this money to buy things we use/need equally.... So it's good to hv joint a/c in couple... Well phir bhi Anant & Priya both r right from their point of view....
Nice Video.. :-)
Exactly. Keep your individual accounts separate and make a joint account with the savings of both's salaries. This is the most preferred way to manage finances by couples nowadays and works best.
Amazing solution👌
I think ANANT is right
He is talking about the future
Like BUYING A HOUSE ,
there will be having kids in the future and in METROPOLITAN CITIES raising a child is a big challenge .
He is not only talking about JOINING THE ACCOUNTS but to do some tasks together.
ANANT is thinking about PRIYA also while having this conversation with her as he knows at one point life will become full of challenges at that time both have to work TOGETHER.
In every relationship there should be breathing space to keep the relation healthy. There is no need to take it personally.
Priya !! Your financial security is primary ,any person can flip at any moment so there are certain things that should be kept private and if any man has problem with that then his intentions are not to be trusted!!
What a sick mentality#
Boys should stop sharing salary on shaadi.com too !
@@puneetkhanna3798 Tum to aise bolraheho Jaise girls apne marriage main apni salary kharch Nahi Karti.Aur waise vi shadimain dono taraf se paise kharch hotehein AUR Tumne Apne parents keliye kharch kite and that's not a big deal.Meri ak dost hein joki apni shadi Ka Pura kharch khud uthaithi.kyun ki unke parents ki all savings unke study main kharch hogaithi
@@nisargpatel653 There is nothing sick in her mentality.May be ur intention is not honest
True 💯
Priya is vocal appreciates her and support her too... bcoz it's much more above than a joint account
My boyfriend got divorced few years back and his ex literally stole everything they had in the account...he was good enough to trust her but she stole everything meanwhile they were together.
He still feels a joint account is better option no matter what.
Both are right
Priya should step in Anant's shoes and try to understand his view point and SAME SHOULD BE DONE BY ANANT TOO.
Also Anant should do something to gain her trust in this matter.
Yes, isliye, apni savings aur income ki kuch part mutual account pe daal de !!!
There is no right or wrong answer, whatever works for each couple is right for them. The way finances will be handled is something that should be discussed before marriage to identify if both are compatible.
I think joint account best for their savings for the betterment of their future and there should be separate account as well to be independent for their small small needs .😊
Joint account Sahi nhi... separate Hona chahiye...jab jarurat ho to ek dusre ki help kare
@@aakankshajain8755 Let's say something bad happens to you. If you have single account all your money will be in government's hands. Your family have to go to court just to get that money. So joint account is not at all bad. Or better you can keep someone nominee if you do not completely believe someone.
@@subhadeep_2001 nothing happened to me... actually I m a banker..so joint account is better but some case joint is not better
And nominee always better but cross check with banker that nominee is done
i have Joint account But i have no Money😂😂😂
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😜same here 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Separate finance is always gud .if hubby need she can transfer wht she feels in 1 min
If Anant was earning more than her, would he have had joint acc?
I work in same business of my husband but I am a worker in there and earn a salary.
The reason I started working was because I was working as a free housewife and had to beg for basic things for me. So now if I have money in my acc, I buy whatever I want and no hisaab to any husband.
Any husband?😂
How many otherwise?
@@adisri9898 This is irony how people can find humor in such serious issues kyunki vo unke sath nai ho rha
@@garimagarg7001 Respect Mam 🙏✌️
@@garimagarg7001 in the same way like a lady in the name of women empowerment and related biased laws misuse them and torture threaten a guy and make joke of position of innocent guys in society by putting up false accusations on them to render their selfish agendas...
@@adisri9898 It is always tit for tat. What you have been doing for ages with women, is happing with you guys now. Bohot sare ladko me koi na koi aadat hoti h (like smoking or drinking) but batate he nahi h gharwale. Ladki ko shadi ke baad pata chalta hai (in case she is okay with these things) to kya karegi. Roegi, ladai karegi but ek baar ladki ki shadi ho gyi to hamare desh me to vo vapis nai ja sakti. Finally vo usko apni kismat samajh leti hai. This is just one example there are lots like these. Ab kabhi na kabhi to chize paltengi.
Sharing financial information between life partners depends completely upon the attitude of partners
Both are right in their own way...depends on the individual. It should be discussed before marriage. Both should be on same page
The bank accounts of both boy and girl should be separate and one joint account should be there where both should contribute some money every month so that in emergency situation both have access. Similarly in property also.
@@gajai8132 yes, that's best !!!
Trust....when trust is there than everything is there....
I think they both are right at there place.. Priya was gone through it but Anant love her and want start everything together so no one is right no one is wrong
I'm 100% with Priya becoz I'm also like that. When it comes to each and every major/ minor expenses, ofcourse we wives equally contribute. If one person is keep spending and other person saving then it creates a major rift, better to keep these accounts separate 😊
You are really clever. your husband is bearing expenses and you are saving. Marvelous...This is what girls do. why don't you both equally spend. what if you cheat him? Madam, marriage is the matter of trust not spending or saving independent finances. People have become so selfish now a days.
Looks like you missed what I mentioned clearly " I also contribute equally for all expenses" still Not sure what made you to say my husband bearing expenses,!!
Please read properly before posting your comments
Priya is right ....a big thanks to lfe tak , thanks fr dis vdo for more clear vision, thanks life tak . Thanks !
And what you people think about a housewife? She doesn’t have any salary, she is just working now and then for family members without any financial security.. after years of marriage, she doesn’t have a single account on her name and no Money with her..
Has everyone noticed that most of the girls agree with Priya n the men with husband......duz it ring a bell..... financial independence is a MUST.....
Expenses can be jointly shared
Priya is right because keeping separate accounts prevents fights regarding money issues.
Yes I go with priya..... She can help as and when need arises but financial independence is priority.
Girls have become independent in today's scenerio. But somewhere boys are still not able to accept it that girls do share 50% of household expenditure.
That's why he is insisting on opening joint account.
I agree with priya no need to have joint account and if anytime boy is short of money or something like they have to purchase a house both can simply contry 50% each
I think they should have one joined account and one savings account personally each of them. All the investments should go from Joint and still have some personal money that they can spend or invest however they want. Above all transparency in all dimensions of a relationship makes things better.
Both are right on their way. But It depends how your relationship built so.....
I think , this is not a big issue !!
I think she is absolutely right
There is no guarantee to any relationship.....accounts should be separate....why increase complications in life unnecessarily
Why should get married?
No marriage
No complications
What you think??
Where trust don't exist..love is impossible
Wife seems like childhood PTSD case. Lack of trust, Depressed attitude, Constant negative reminders are the good signs.
They need a marriage counselor 😅 more then a joint account.
Exactly
To trust for a girl is very difficult... because c left everything and adjust in every situation for a man.i am also working women..n I can say it's better to maintain your separate a/c .
Priya is right everything share krne ka mtlb ye nhi financial bhi share kare
A female should always be independent everyway that's the only way she can keep herself fit for the whole family. A woman is already given a secondary place in our society and especially in a male's eyes then what's the point in making her Earnings a matter of second person's decision. Please people think broadly for God's sake SHE IS THE NURTURER. SHE IS A GOOD MANAGER FOR A HAPPY FAMILY.
So..
*Support every woman unconditionally and see the results. Guide her if needed and this way make your life blossom.*
Solution is to keep two accounts, one for personal finances and salary intakes and another with the partner for sharing the family costs. Simple!
Life tak is all about the life even little things which we ignore but u guys make us to think over it literally u all are good
And the video is awesome and u both are right at own their place but I think we should have a separate account, its not a matter not trust or any thing 💛💛 u all are awesome and specially Priya dii luv u dii ❤❤
💯 Priya
When I married 32 yrs ago it was my husband's idea not to have a joint account. YES we could use any account without the other
asking about it.
U two are my fav actors of 'Life tak' 👌👌
If you have trust and have a good understanding with your partner than anant is a absolutely right
Joint account is not a base for healthy relationships...I also kept my account personal but my husband knows everything about my accounts
I think the girl is right. Helping each other out is very important, and both of them should understand, but financial independence is very important for a woman always
Pehli baat, joint account has nothing to do with love and relationship...
See, every individual is brought up in a different financials background and hence different situations lead them to different financial securities....Now in case u love someone....More than seeing ur personal desires of having joint accounts...It's better u respect each other's financial securities and decision... Because if love is true...Money sharing for whatever purpose will never be a problem..💚
It should be always separate.. bcoz no one knows what will happen in future..so after the huge emotional loss at least financial security is there for both .. marriage is not all about money.. its emotions n love
I too have my finances separate .I help my hubby when he needs it.As I am a person who loves to be independent and also I don't like to give so called "Hisaab" to anyone so I think it's good to have finances separate
The bank accounts of both boy and girl should be separate and one joint account should be there where both should contribute some money every month so that in emergency situation both have access. Similarly in property also.
Why did you get married?
You should have been independent
Koi hisaab bhi nhi Dena padta
@@ratnesh4727 ye kaha likha hai ki hisab dene k liye shadi Karte hai...what I do with my money is my look out.I work 12 hours in office for taking care of my family's need and taking care of my parents,and if my husband is ok with it I don't think anyone should have a problem with it...:)
@@sonakshimalviya535 yes u r right
But everyman can't be
His wife's pet.
@@ratnesh4727 My husband is a very renowned business man and a motivational speaker.Today i am very proud of him he has a higher thinking :)
I agree with Priya. Everyone must have their own financial stability. Just opening a joint account does not prove a relationship to be more strong.
I agree
It's been 4 years of my marriage and still we both have our separate account. The concept of joint A/c never came to our mind. But we both are equally responsible towards each other financially.
It is sorted that I will pay the premium of his and mine policy, invest in shares and mutual funds and he will pay for the rents and other expenses to run our household and business.
So, I don't feel there is a need of any joint account as long as you are sharing responsbilities.
Finances should be separate. There was so many issues in my marriage due to money. Separate account would have saved me a little.
Both of my parents are in govt. Job in same depertment in same office.. but in their 30 years of marraige, they always kept their financials seperate.. still now.. financial freedom is really important
If the conversations are in Hindi, it is easy for everyone to understand.
Nop.Im from kerala
They consider the Indian audience as a whole, not just the Hindi speaking people. There are people in the south, east and west of India who cannot understand Hindi.
Account apni marji honi chahiye na ki pressure se joint account open kare
Priya is right. The working couples should be very independent in every sense and it begins with finances.
Both are right in their own place...
Shalu Paswan ,In that case, they should not get married....for their own mental peace😊
@@amitkc75 sadi na krne ki to bat hi nhi ho rhi yha nd apko kisne bol diya ki do log her matter pe agree hote hai tbhi sadi hoti hai nd tbhi vo log sath me khus rhte hai ...ager vo log 4 saal se sath hai to kuch to similarties hongi na unme, aise ek matter pe sadi ko judge to ni kr skte,nd do log ek chij pe agree ho jruri to ni hai, dono ke apne point of views hai nd dono ko ek dusre ki views ko smjhna chahiy and dusra solution niklana chahiy....
Shalu Paswan , that's exactly the point.....they could not decide in the end and so, they had to ask us 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@amitkc75 its just a video nd real life me aisa kuch ni hota hai ki apni problems ka solution na kr pay.In real life aise chhoti chhoti prblms to roj hoti hai.And bat rhi puchhne ki to hmare views janne ke liy puchh rhe...
Shalu Paswan , male perspective and female perspective always contrast and differ from each other. Woh aadmi phas gaya 😊
Very thought provocating.....great
Girl is thinking right.can't explain but it's gud for them every one needs their own decisions
Ha
Sahi hai
Kam se Kam cosmetic ka kharcha to nhi mangegi
@@ratnesh4727 😆😆
@@ratnesh4727 haan be, ladkiyan toh cosmetic ke liye hi paise udate, agar main kahun ladka daru cigarette pe paise udaata hai toh kaisa hai, bhai thoda dekh ke baat karo. Tameez toh hai nhi !!! Ghar mein apne maa behen se bhi aise hi baat krta hoga !!!
@@ratnesh4727 aur haan aapke bhaasha mein agar husband wife ka gulaam nhi hai, toh wife bhi husband ki gulaam nhi hai !!! Jo dusron ko bolta hai ki modern ladke wife ka kutta banta hai !!!
Himani best is, keep both separate and joint accounts, that's best. Even if we can trust our partner, we can't trust life !!!
Now a days, many people have multiple accounts. Why can't you keep one joint account and one personal? I have my own account as well a joint account with husband. And I maintain both. What's the big deal? Joint account helps me to minimise many problem of joint expenses like house expenses, loans, car, club etc. While individual acct is good for savings and ofcourse some surprise gifts to my loved ones ...
priya is correct because if they in future if anyone is in financial loss the other can support for that
Anant is right...Priya is right too
Bigger Plans should be made with joint funds where we should save some percentage of our income together.
I think she's right n it's absolutely ok to have different accounts..n be financially independent... The wife is right.. generally v have joint account with someone, when v r dependent on that person...not to share something more n b transparent to each other... I think money is something which can create problem among anyone... So better to keep these issues separately.. preferably
Both are right.. Because everyone has own point of view 👌👌
I support the girl, love n money shdnt b taken granted, u never know the worst time can happen anytime.
I think, they should have two financial accounts.. One is individual another is joint/mutual account.... common expenses like savings for house,cars,property,kids expenses from mutual accounts and they both should have separate accounts for their future...
Absolutely priya is correct............ Of course In every maritual relationship there should be trust in each other but not by the way of opening joints accounts . Trust love affection caring each other should devolop naturally over the period of time . Finally as per my opinion joint accounts or other simlar types of formalities are should be the options of husbend or wife . They should be given such freedom/options to to build the real TRUST love affection care .......... Thank you.........
I am with Priya..... she is right .....actually people like Anant wants to control finance in his hand .... they don't want to ask wife's willingness ..... just want to spend her income by his own way.......
Anant is right , marriage is about trust and doing things together. Priya is too scared and due to misfortune happened with her, she is now always sceptical, which is not right.I once met a girl like her in my life, I tried to change her perspective about life but I failed.
just love watching the man
She is Right ....I agree with her
To plan a future together you don't nee to have a joint account and it's not right to force your partner to have a joint account.
If you want to keep your finance confidential #why not
Untill you want to do something together like investments or house
Relationship is not only about... Sharing the finical things... Priya is very right in her way.... Because u never know... U can't predict the future🔮. The opposite person may be good but still it's better to strict to our grounds.. So that in future... We never beg in front of the other person!
There should be one joint account for day-to-day expenses and for leisure like travel, etc. Having a separate account makes it easier in the long run.
Pria is absolutely right !
I m with Priya
I think both types of Account Hve been created like personal & joint account also because in any situations not having much problem for financial
Matter portrayed just the way it should be... Kudos guys👍👍👍
Kaal kis ne dekha yaar. Priya is right. Log raang badalte rehted hai. Life has changed drastically. Its not the time of our parents or grandparents.
Best find who strength is what... Expense vs savings.. Based on that divide the activities.. Automatically finance are shared without actually sharing
Priya is right. Finances should be separate for overall things to be better and more neatly sorted out. Afterall marriage is about respecting each other's space too - it's not about doing everything exactly same to same! Afterall each individual is unique, and it is this "Unity in Diversity" we must have in a meaningful marriage. In any case, 4 years is fairly a short term to integrate ALL finances. All-round-integration can be healthily thought about much later in married life, when the couple has gone through a fair share of ups and downs.
Who so ever is the script writer, has recently been nailing a very sensitive and subtle issues and it's commendable that in this era of vulgar and nonsensical journalism you have shown the guts to incite the conscience of young minds. Keep it up...and acting as usual is mesmerizing...
Both r right in der own ways...can't compare
Priya of course
Both are right on their place
I would opt for having 1 join account to do things together and also seperate account for oneself.
Both have there own freedom something that it not an issue to separate the finance but it is more important that to trust each other if they are really trusting each other then there is no problems to have joint finance or separate finance it doesn't matter now days and important is that they are happy in this relationship