Both of them are lying. They were not completely honest. Emeka made up some lies and the wife also made up some lies. I don’t believe none of them. In the society we live today even if the man is right; people will always take the woman’s word over the man. So people are going to be bias towards the man; so Emeka isn’t going to be favored. He should have just let it go and move on. That woman turned her children against their father and she made up some lies. Emeka wasn’t completely honest too. They are both lying
My dear, the way I saw this woman's reaction and explanation, I believe her. 😮 she did not need to say much. She does not give narcissistic vibes unlike the man. Unless I am mistaken ,but the man lied like a narcissist.😮
The woman is glowing. She seems to be aging backwards. All the old pictures I've seen of her during her marriage does not compare to how beautiful she looked during this interview. May God continue to protect her and keep her shining.
Emeka purposely came to social media because the woman is doing well with her kids and he want to bring the woman down. Emeka really abused the ex-wife. Looking at the old pictures, the woman is looking better than when he was with Emeka.
Emma was my secondary school classmate....trust me, you'll hardly meet a kinder, rational, calm individual...a very lovely lady with the most beautiful aura........whats most noteworthy is that she has remained so over the years......im so happy she chose LIFE!!!!!!
Thank you for standing up for Emma I felt in my heart when she talked she was telling the truth I knew this woman wasn't confrontational nor was she a liar thank you for shining light on her behavior people don't change the character overnight if a person is kind and gentle and loving and that's their nature they never grow away from that that's part of the makeup so to speak and this lady has a good character❤❤❤
Emeka Ike is clearly a narcissist. The manner he speaks about the mother of his children is so demeaning. Ten years after a divorce and he has not moved on and now their children are in the boxing ring. Emeka needs to stop the vicious circle of madness, he is not the first man to be divorced. He should apologise to Emma and his children and try to heal his family. Really heartwrenching but there are many Emekas in our society ruining their families and blaming the wives they abused for their failures.
As someone who was raised in an abusive home, I can say the way she gives her story is exactly how things progress in an abusive home. She is telling the truth, and he is the one telling a lie on this beautiful woman. What a monster who is looking for sympathy after he committed all his atrocities against his wife. Even body should treat him like the shameless dog that he is. If someone was not raised in an abusive home they will never understand what it is like.
Being soft spoken doesn't mean the person is saying the truth.....Both are not telling the absolute truth. I feel Emeka has anger issues but how do you slap your husband and expect him not to beat you up?
@@queenrose6603like he said. If someone was not raised in an abusive home, they'll never understand. The patterns are too similar to be fabricated. The details are textbook. You really have to see it yourself to believe.
The newest story/accusation Emeka can come up with is that Emma was seeing another man (we sabi the format). Emeka has remarried another woman after the divorce and yet he has refused to let Emma his Ex wife breath. It's obvious he thought Emma wouldn't have a life outside of him. Her silence and being out of his control stirred his Rage. I don't blame her silence over the years, because she has alot of psychological /emotional torture to unpack and heal gradually. Well, Emma is thriving as we can see. All the best to both!
This reminds me a lot about Purple Hibiscus by Chimamanda Adichie. The way Papa used to abuse and mentally and physically torture his wife and Children. The irony of it was that Papa was a well known man in the Catholic Church loved and cherished by the whole world for his philanthropic nature. The moment he came home, he turned into a monster. Unlike Mama in the book, this woman left when she couldn't take it anymore but Mama stayed on and endured until she started to poison her husband little by little and watched him die slowly. Emeka needs help, serious behavioral therapy. I keep saying it marriage is not a do or die affair, if it gets to physical abuse, just leave so you can live period.
Mama knew when she leaves she would be a nobody and no one would believe her if she told them what happens in their house. So her only way out was to poison him and that was even because of her kids. She couldn’t stand him abusing her children as well. All in all, both women found different ways to free themselves. Just imagine what some people are saying about the woman coming out to speak after all these years, calling her a liar! Someone who never for once spoke a word, when this man was granting interviews upon interviews to tarnish this woman’s image. Someone who became your wife at such an early age. My question is, if she truly is what they think she is, would she have been this quiet? Society is messed up! You wanted to hear her side of the story, now she is out and see what they’re saying again. She doesn’t owe any one any evidence. When the man was out there talking, how many bothered to ask for evidence of things he accused this woman of? It’s sad that because it’s mostly women we’re fighting for their rights, some men turn to use it against us that we’re neglecting and not listening to the men. But in this type of situation, who has really been abused? A man who tells a presenter to keep quiet while’s interviewing him, jumps from a simple question, in fact any chance he gets to talk about how this woman has destroyed him after claiming he is happily married again? Bragging about building a house for your mother in law? People do more than that but they don’t cough sef, with his full chest on National tv you say, you made your wife who she is? Then what would Regina Daniels husband say?😅 Eei! What other prove do I need to know he is full of pride and may be abusive and a narcissist? @Nezeville I was patiently waiting for this video 😊
Once again, thank you Neze for a well explained story. I knew Emeka then, he is a beast just as the ex wife described him. Not only that, he is good at manipulating people and also a pathological liar. Everything the woman said is true. She was even lucky that she came out alive. Unfortunately, mobile phones were not in huge circulation as at that time as they are today. Otherwise, she would have had a lorry load of evidence against him. Some people support Emeka because the Nigerian society favours men more while underrating women as second class citizens or their only place is in the kitchen. Emeka is not as good as people are made to believe.
I can relate; went through hell for nine years. It always starts with small things, eroding your self-esteem gradually and by the time you realize it, you are just a shell of your original self. People ask why she didn’t or couldn’t leave; the entrapment happens so gradually it’s like you are in a dream watching your life pass you by. Narcissists target young, naive, vulnerable women, and they avoid strong, independent women because they know they cannot control them. I’m glad she has lived to tell the story. 💕
When he came back after so many years and instead of talking about other things he has been doing with his life he went back to talking about his ex wife told me all I need to know about him. 🤦🏽♀️ I don’t really care who is right or wrong at this point. He should just take some chill pill, spend time with his new family and allow his old family rest. 🤷🏽♀️
God bless that woman for saving her life so that her children will not be motherless❤. Women think of yourselves and children not about what people will say. A lot of women did not come out alive including a great Nigerian gospel singer Osinachi. Be strong! Come out and live for yourself, God, your children and the people God Almighty send your way for help.
I believed her even before she opened her mouth! One reason was based on the bazaar allegations that Emeka keeps making! He’s a “story book” narcissist and a sociopath . I know the signs. As an abuse survivor, I’ve been where she is. It’s only under these extreme circumstances does a woman choose to leave her matrimonial home. I pray she finds peace in her life in Jesus Name. 🙏🏾
Same here. He's lying. For the fact that he first denied that there was a problem in their marriage, says alot. He's only concerned about his image. This interview he granted is part of his manipulation to bring her out. But he will not see that this will also bring to light all that he has done wrong. She even left 2 of her kids. That must have been hard for her. No Nigerian woman marries to divorce, not to talk of one that have been enduring marriage for 17years with 4kids and no financial support. She stayed too long. I didn't stay that long mehn!
Emeka Ike remarried a long time ago, I was shocked that he could drag his former wife in an interview with so much venom. He could have returned to the acting scene without drama.
That man is a liar. Too many inconsistencies in his version of the "story" and his demeanor is quite off. He ran to the media and smeared her name for 10 years thinking he had beaten her down to silence but here is with gathered strength sharing what she went through. I believe her 100%. Thank you for the coverage Neze, you look lovelyyyyyy ❤
I believe her….You can tell she’s been through a lot. And she didn’t even want to talk, the crazy man kept pushing her to the wall. May God grant her happiness and peace.
One word for Emeka Ike…. Drug induced psychosis and paranoia. Remember that marijuana causes these things. Any man or woman that says we were fine, but the other person left is usually the abusive partner, they don’t realize the extent of their actions on the other person. I read on Google about the school, he did not pay the property owners, neither did he pay the staff for six months
Take this from a man, any intelligent person will know Emeka is so intoxicated with narcissism. Just analyze the way he speaks, his mannerisms, and the way he carries himself in public. I believe his ex-wife 💯. He's disgraced the woman for far too long and he needs to put a stop to this.
This seems to be one of those divorce that the woman goes for thanks giving at the church and celebrate her God's given freedom and getting out of it alive
Who can't see the narcissistic traits in that man...them artists think they are gifts to the world, some people are googoo gaga over them, not me! When they are no longer in the public eye, life will proceed without them, won't even notice their absence 😮
OPEN LETTER TO SUZANNE EMMA From one survivor to another in this our lonely land of survival, my sister, you are a VERY GOOD MOTHER ❤️❤️🙏🏾. You faced domestic violence, and you left to save your life and to preserve your motherhood for your kids. You compromised with your abuser and left him his kids in recognition of his fatherly role. You even kept quiet as he slandered you for 10 years. You had no time to influence this boy because he was in his father's custody .Yet at that time, we did not see anyone put out ring light to speak for your matter. But the moment you saw that the violence moved from you to the kids ( typical of abusers to continue the abuse psychologically by hurting those you love most) ,you rightly activated mother hen protection. Now we see ring light and motivational speaker everywhere, people here calling you a bad mother. These were the same people who asked the late Osinachi why didn't she didn't speak out or leave, but what society is not ready to hear is that with domestic violence, there comes a time when all conventional family standards and titles such a father, husband and even human being, need to be put on hold . You are dealing with a PERPETRATOR.!!JUST AS YOU ARE DEALING WITH AN ARMED ROBBER !PERIOD!! If a cooking fire begins to burn the home , it no longer has a relationship with food and nourishment. It is just DANGEROUS FIRE THAT CAN KILL ,SIMPLE!! Did Emeka himself not say in 2016 that if a woman is being abused, ask the children? And the children are now old enough to speak out and she is a bad mother !!!🤔When a man begins to talk about human life as if it were Christmas chickens, that is a call to outsiders to forget who he is meant to be, accept what he really is and MOVE IN to preserve life ,not family titles. Remember that it is not marked on anyone's forehead, the one who will wipe their family , or when and how they will do it. We all know in survivor land that the worst sociopathic/narcissistic rage you can ever trigger in your perpetrator is LEAVING. You have challenged your abuser's sense of power . If he can't get you, he will traumatise whoever you love to destroy your soul even by proxy. You would be a bad mother if you had brought all your kids to the interview. You brought a son who has come of age, who has his own victimhood story. You didn't bring your son because of one incident , or one over a day , weeks, or months, but years in your absence. Clearly, we see that he is old enough and has taken it upon himself to assume the fatherly role to protect himself, yourself and the family. You should be most proud that as a man, he is questioning his own path . Your lived experience and that of your son are REAL. You deserve to preserve your life as you see fit . DON'T ever let anyone make you doubt yourself and your survival kit . In survivor land, we already know that the only respected voice of domestic violence is that which speaks from beyond the grave. Don't mind all these people calling you a bad mother. They are waiting to write R.I.P and shoot videos as one-off motivational speakers, when he finally ends your life.Look at them coming for you now, but we're quiet as he slandered you for 10 years. From all of us at our lonely but authentic, thick skinned survival land , we understand you , we love you, and we are proud of you and your son 👏🏾❤️🫂🙏🏾
Thats how a Narc behaves... why he kept on insulting this woman for 10 whole years. As he himself kept saying "she doesnt talk.."... so he kept dragging her all this while. Now she talked and most victims can relate. Especially when they finally decides to leave and live. You can even see Sussan Emma just scratch the surface of the hell she has gone through. Thank God she has left that hell. We are waiting for that sorry piece of manhood's response. So so lies. Instead of promoting a film; andnopportunity that have been given to him for the second time... out of no where he rather chose to denigrate Susan ... Well his cup is full. .. Susam Emma ... we support you. We beleive you and God got you. At least you have your children to count.
The thing I’ve learned from this case is no matter how many proves you have, and anything you say, as a woman society would always look for something to invalidate in you, this lady stayed quiet for a very long time, she disappeared from the media and from anyone sights, and now that she decided to speak up people are still calling her names, saying that she should have let it go, saying she is a bad woman and mother for leaving her marriage, but they would still have been the same people to blame her if she stayed back and probably lose her life just like the way they did to Austa, saying she stayed for the money until she was killed, but most of them were clapping hands for the man when he was going up and down every market day to slander his ex and kids. It’s very sad that our Africa cultures (most of them) doesn’t protect women and kids. I wish her well with her kids, and let her continue being out of the media for her sanity.
Yeah. this story and that of May Edochie has really exposed how the Nigerian society is. It’s not what the persons involved said.. it’s how bad actions were supported by your society. I ‘m African by birth but Nigeria has really surprised me.
@@felly6555 me too, Nigeria cases has surprised me a lot, my country law isn’t perfect but it’s still better in this type of cases than Nigeria, may God protect us, that’s the only thing left for Africa.
Emeka is the guilty party. As a victim of domestic abuse myself, there is no doubt in my mind about the ex-wife’s narrative. I have been divorced for over 15 years and my ex continues to make up similar lies, whilst still trying to get back with me. My ex-husband had also Re-married, but that relationship also ended in divorce due to his domestic violence again.
After seeing what men go through from the hands of women all on the name of protecting their marriage and name, I feel so sorry for them. Women always act as the victim
But Emeka Ike is not your ex, so why do you want us to believe he is lying. Cases like these should be based on facts not emotions. Women always try to play on the emotions of listeners to gain the upper hand and this is what is playing out here.
@@johnpeters4100 the fact that you want us to leave emotions out of it shows it is true and you can do the same. Do you know emotional pain can kill, many people can get depressed and commit suicide when emotional pain is too much. You men talk as if you don't get hurt, yet you can't take half of what you do to women. Don't leave emotions out. Let's put the emotions, if it hurts then it is true. Let's all have empathy for one another that is how not to act heartless in marriage. If it will hurt you as man just know it hurts the woman more.
I am glad she survived him, and yes her story sounds more credible. Something is wrong with that man, always blaming everyone. Once you have dealt with someone like him, you can easily sift the truth from lies. You only need to deal with someone like him one time to understand how people with similar behaviour are. They act alike.
Just Google what happened to Emeka's Ike's school in 2014 and know the truth. The internet doesn't forget . I can't believe people still think Emeka is speaking the truth.. Even without hearing the woman. The man's demeanor while talking made the whole thing weird. Left alone the things he was saying
See, I believe that woman. My mom is an actress and she has worked with Emeka Ike in the past. I remember all the times when we would be watching Emeka on tv or some of her friend or sisters and she’ll tell the story of how Emeka Ike fought her. The way she always talked about how bad his behavior was, the things he said and did to her.. I used to look up to Emeka even after she said those things but seeing all that is happening now, I absolutely don’t admire him anymore. Man’s a lunatic 😂😂
Neze the truth is that I didn't even need to hear from Emma to know that Emeka Ike is a lying Drama Queen. Lies create desperation, and that is why Emeka has been running kitikiti running katakata all over the media to grant lame conspiracy theory Interviews. 😣 Neze I have heard people come up with pathetic lies, but Emeka Ike saying that Emma was blackmailed into divorcing him really takes the cake.
I was contracted to write for a US attorney who represented victims of abusive marriages. Everything Emma said were similar to the interviews of the abused clients. In fact, I still thank God that the contract was terminated because I couldn't think well anymore. To think that these things also happen in Nigeria is saddening 😢
He is obsessed with her... I have faced this before. Even when she leaves him.. no matter who she ends up with.. he will stalk and threaten her for life. Thats why years later he is still talking about it. I am glad she spoke up and i hope she is protected because he will never let her go.
Thanks for the analysis of the relationship. I can relate to the couples situation because I am going through a divorce process and I must confess its not been easy because I've experienced all the consequences you mentioned from my Nigerian brothers and sisters. My husband took advantage of me from the day i met him. He financially, physically, emotionally and mentally abused and damaged me to the extent that I lost myself. Yet, most of our friends sided my husband. But I took up the courage to end our marriage after my husband nearly sold our house on 3 occasions wanting to live 3 children to me to relocate to nigeria. Emeka displays the exact characteristics of my husband, a true narcissistic person he is. May God help women that are going through such traumas.
To those of your here who is saying she's lying is the son lying too?Have you guys forgotten how the Nigerian Artist Osinachi died in silence? Thank God Affliction did not arise the second time Let it happen in your neighborhood and you will know how it feels to be in an abusive relationship Thank God she came out alive and has her sanity restored 🙏🙏🙏
Bringing the Son to validate her on the interview is a red flag. As she is trained teacher. Emeka sets up the school, expecting her to run the school successfully. Did she?
Merry Christmas Barister Neze.. I believe Emeka' s Wife 100% ,cos once you started fighting back from an emotional abuser husband. He sees it as disrespectful. Telling you from my experience
He groomed her at her very young age and couldn't take it when the lady started to question some of his character. Emeka is an angry sociopath who is utterly damaged. Thank God for saving that lady from that fury force
This is exactly what I said in the other video, no Nigerian woman just leaves her marriage for no good reason, it's a taboo, especially in a society where a woman's worth is based on her martial status.
I think I believe the woman. I feel so sad that she had to go through such ordeal and still could not speak up. I pray for emotional and psychological healing.
I believe Emma 's account of events and I pray she continues to heal and have peace 🙏🏾 I admire her decision and courage to speak out on this occasion that a sociopathic ex-husband has been doing media rounds smearing her reputation further! I will only advise that since she has said her truth and I believe her 💯, she should keep all her evidences! Those evidences will be for legal purposes when it will be required! I would have said she should sue the m*f* out for all that he's worth, but looking at him, he is not worth the weight in Gold! Emma's experience is similar to mine...over 21 years, but I'm in a much better place now! I can see she's glowing and it's just from a place of living stress-free live. I pray for abundance of peace for herself and the children!🙏🏾
One thing I have learnt about relationships is … Emeka may actually believe what he is saying as true … men and women view things differently and when a man is messing up he will see reality from a tainted lens
The wife look's very calm and I believed her. I think he get's easily provoked and need's to work on his Anger. Hope both parties find a way of settling their differences for the sake of their Children. Thanks Neze for the Update
Emeka should have never brought this topic up in the first place. I believe he pushed the lady to feel the need to say her part. He should have redirected the question that was asked. This is a private matter that involves his children as well. Handle it indoors! I hate to see this. Now that his wife and son have said their part to the media, there is no going back. It’s all downhill from there.. all their dirty laundry out in the open.
The gutter is the narcissist's playground. They cannot love and don't care dragging everyone down with them. The best advice is not to engage in any argument with them.
This woman is the one telling the truth... You see the details, you see the names, you see the dates, she kept them all... Nothing beats that! She can't call out the names of all those people if they weren't true... Did you guys even listen to Chude's interview with her and her kid??? Omo, make una go losten raw facts. Then compare with the demeanor of Emeka in his interviews to say the least... 🤣🤣🤣🤣 That man na clown!!
First heard the wife's side of the story before I listened to the famous actor's side. It's the first time coming across this story. Such evil, After hearing about the Dr_g use allegedly, it's like he was out of it and out of touch of reality thinking all the Ab_se never happened, he is in so much denial and does not want to take accountability. It was heartbreaking hearing what was happening with the wife and the children.
As a woman going through a tormenting in marriage, I can say some men can be evil making you feel less of a human in marriage . If you are reading this please make me feel loved and saying a prayer. Not only beating is abusive, verbal abuse is there
This woman was quiet and it's only now that she has decided to speak after being bashed every time the husband gets the chance.Its very sad that some women decides to say she is lying and chose to believe the man,very very sad.
You will never know what this woman is saying until you marry a narcissist. I can relate to her story. Woman, you shouldn't have granted this interview. Silence is the only weapon against such narcissists.
No ..the guy kept abusing her within and now out of marriage,physically emotionally,socially psychologically..nn not just her, three children witnessed much despite his manipulation as his first child said...its healing for her...her 10yr silence did not silence the dude..instead..her cooked more lies coz he was convinced that the wife wld never indulge any for an interview
My dear. I got one snoring beside me now. Planning my escape out of Australia with my two year old to another country cos I can’t even leave my two year old with him as you know they are very destructive. I am leaving to Australia to somewhere else where he cannot smell me or the child again for a long time if not forever.
It was a good thing to hear her side of the story. Her silence would have done more havoc. Emeka ike shouldn't have brought it to social media in the first place. She only responded to the accusations. She did the right thing.
You are a truly remarkable woman. I admire your level of intelligence and analytical prowess. You simplify very complex matters and make it easy for even the dimwitted to understand. Surely, the spirit of God is in you. More grace to you!
For me, the woman's side of the story seem believable and was delivered effortlessly unlike Emeka were he seem to be overboard. However, were I find it hard to accept was were she categorically said that Emeka's kinsmen came to perform a traditional marriage rites and came empty handed. One thing I Know about ndi Igbo is that, instead of going empty handed to such event, they will rather sit back to avoid shame, no matter your status. Traditional igbo men detest such and they do everything possible to avoid being traditionally embarrassed so to speak. Secondly, what led to Emekas mother accusing her in-law of stealing was not stated. What actually led to it? She never point out the reason for such demeaning accusation. I strongly believe that both parties aren't entirely honest if you ask me. However, I pray that all goes well for the sake of the children. It is well 🙏
He groomed her,like she said she wanted to be an actress and that definitely made her look up to him.He is very charming but a narcissist. People will ask why she went back,sometimes you feel your voice is insignificat to the abuser.He has been smear campaigning for sympathy but glad she spoke up.May she heal
You're right about the stigma of women leaving and getting out. I saw it in the comments yesterday after her interview. I myself am very happy for her that she survived and got out. It's God's grace on her 🙏 that she survived and I hope she's happy and has peace now.
You arr soooooooo beautiful our Neze. I believe every word Emma is saying, I am sure she even had more. These narc will come to your life, destroy everything and more, and will go to these interviews to even add insult to the injury. As I always say, there is no way you can win with some on these males. No way. I pray for her healing, peace.
When a older man marry a very young woman (groom her )and a very vulnerable one,her mom was a single mother (Africans don’t respect women born and raised of single mothers)when they marry you they think they did you the biggest favour.He mistreated her because she had no man no father to run to.if Emma had one strong father he would dare not mistreat this beautiful woman.
Just check the way Emeka is talking.....you will know that he is just trying so hard to trigger the woman to come out, which he has finally gotten but Emeka is bitter so bitter towards the woman n am guessing maybe because he felt he invested alot like her education n helping the family n all that blablabla. This i saw with my ex husband n my silence was killing him till he succumb to the truth. I pray that guy Emeka moves on because he is not the only man that sent his wife to school and support her family. There are many men that buy tesla n houses for just their girlfriends not to talk of wife.
Truth is that…the woman we re here praying to GOD to give to us,so we can treat her as a queen she deserves,nah e another celebrity turn into punching bag…GOD abeg ooo!!…dear future wife,wherever you re abeg hold on,i dey come!!!
In my opinion, Emeka started this fire by speaking about his marriage again. He would have let the sleeping dog be. 10years is a long time to get help and be at peace. Marriage problems will support different parties differently whether you are right or wrong. But for him to keep talking about it, it means he is still in love with her and most men instead of seeking for a peaceful dialogue, they would rather torment themselves by speaking ill about another. It can happen for any gender, humble yourself no be the begger that is wrong but for your inner peace, if begging for peaceful dialogue would help, go for peace. Emeka needs healing, so that he could be whole again whether he is right or wrong; unforgiveness, pride and bitterness are terrible fuels to depression.
It has nothing to do with love. A narcissist will hate to lose their victim. They need that victim on their knees before them begging, crying and groveling. That’s what makes them feel big, strong and powerful. And once that victim escapes, they’ll seek ALL sorts of ways to get them back or to destroy them. It’s not love that motivates him, it’s control and hate.
I believe the wife, Emma went through a lot, emeka is a narcissist. And he is bitter, now that his ex wife has left him. Imagine the abuse to the children and torment just because he is no longer with the ex wife. At least the world can see that he is a Monster and needs help. Emeka show no regards for the mother of his children. He just wanted to destroyed her at all cost. Well done Emma for sharing your experience this will help other women to get out of an abuse relationship. Emeka you are an intelligent man but at the same you are toxic very dangerous man. Your body language and dominion say it all.
Thank you Nezeville . This woman went through DV from her early age she was with her ex husband. I believe her story 💯. That man almost 2 decade older that her
I believe the ex-wife is saying the truth, I don’t have to wait for Emeka to have kpai her first, No, not even after the lies he told about how his schools closed down, Thank God she’s alive to tell her story.
From day one I never believed Emeka. I saw arrogance in Emeka. I couldn't believe a father could use the words coming out of his mouth for his son.That woman passed through a lot in her marriage.
I believe the woman. I share almost all her experiences in the marriage. And it's always difficult for people to believe me because I keep quiet. People tend to believe every lie told by the man. 😢
I believe you madam, it’s always like that , ones you start demanding for respect then they see it as disrespectful. This woman has been through a lot .
When couples encounter conflicts in marriage, they might not always express the truth. Rather than taking sides, like being on "Team Emeka" or "Team Emma," it's more constructive to pray/hope for peace and harmony within the family. Emeka and Emma get therapy and look for a way to resolve issues off social media, you all need each other no matter how terrible things are now. "Family remains family, regardless of circumstances."
Both of them are lying. They were not completely honest.
Emeka made up some lies and the wife also made up some lies.
I don’t believe none of them.
In the society we live today even if the man is right; people will always take the woman’s word over the man.
So people are going to be bias towards the man; so Emeka isn’t going to be favored. He should have just let it go and move on.
That woman turned her children against their father and she made up some lies.
Emeka wasn’t completely honest too. They are both lying
Ok, Could you pls tell us the truth?
@@Nezeville😂
My dear, the way I saw this woman's reaction and explanation, I believe her. 😮 she did not need to say much. She does not give narcissistic vibes unlike the man. Unless I am mistaken ,but the man lied like a narcissist.😮
@@Nezeville😂😂😂
If nobody loves you for your reply, they are a suspect 😊 It's a pity
The woman is glowing. She seems to be aging backwards. All the old pictures I've seen of her during her marriage does not compare to how beautiful she looked during this interview. May God continue to protect her and keep her shining.
Exactly what I was thinking 😅
That's d evidence that she was stressed out in d marriage and being abused truly. She's been out n She's now glowing
Emeka purposely came to social media because the woman is doing well with her kids and he want to bring the woman down. Emeka really abused the ex-wife. Looking at the old pictures, the woman is looking better than when he was with Emeka.
You can say that again! dear
Well said👏
There's nothing as sweet as peace of mind, it is another healthy living of its own, it nourishes one's health and prolongs life. Thank God for her,
Emma was my secondary school classmate....trust me, you'll hardly meet a kinder, rational, calm individual...a very lovely lady with the most beautiful aura........whats most noteworthy is that she has remained so over the years......im so happy she chose LIFE!!!!!!
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so humble as to bring her son to social media to insult his own father and receive everlasting cause?
@@dominicsamuel373 Father ?
Thank you for standing up for Emma I felt in my heart when she talked she was telling the truth I knew this woman wasn't confrontational nor was she a liar thank you for shining light on her behavior people don't change the character overnight if a person is kind and gentle and loving and that's their nature they never grow away from that that's part of the makeup so to speak and this lady has a good character❤❤❤
Emeka Ike is clearly a narcissist. The manner he speaks about the mother of his children is so demeaning. Ten years after a divorce and he has not moved on and now their children are in the boxing ring. Emeka needs to stop the vicious circle of madness, he is not the first man to be divorced. He should apologise to Emma and his children and try to heal his family. Really heartwrenching but there are many Emekas in our society ruining their families and blaming the wives they abused for their failures.
For a woman to leave her marriage of 17years and 4 children, simply means that she saw and went through hell in that marriage
Exactly.i left 18yrs
@@priscachika6797you really tried 😢
Absolutely.
Exactly…..I left after 26 years. Hell on earth with an insidious, evil, criminally insane narcopath (narcissistic Sociopath/ Psychopath).
I ran after 24 years of marital hell fire. Freedom sweet
As someone who was raised in an abusive home, I can say the way she gives her story is exactly how things progress in an abusive home. She is telling the truth, and he is the one telling a lie on this beautiful woman. What a monster who is looking for sympathy after he committed all his atrocities against his wife. Even body should treat him like the shameless dog that he is. If someone was not raised in an abusive home they will never understand what it is like.
Being soft spoken doesn't mean the person is saying the truth.....Both are not telling the absolute truth. I feel Emeka has anger issues but how do you slap your husband and expect him not to beat you up?
Is it enough reason to sell your husband property?
@@queenrose6603like he said. If someone was not raised in an abusive home, they'll never understand. The patterns are too similar to be fabricated. The details are textbook. You really have to see it yourself to believe.
@@AnnieMira-wl5ej Yes it is,it's her property also
Exactly the sequence I passed through in the hands of my ex husband
To talk about ur wife 10 years after split, show that this man has alot of problems .
The newest story/accusation Emeka can come up with is that Emma was seeing another man (we sabi the format). Emeka has remarried another woman after the divorce and yet he has refused to let Emma his Ex wife breath. It's obvious he thought Emma wouldn't have a life outside of him. Her silence and being out of his control stirred his Rage.
I don't blame her silence over the years, because she has alot of psychological /emotional torture to unpack and heal gradually. Well, Emma is thriving as we can see. All the best to both!
This reminds me a lot about Purple Hibiscus by Chimamanda Adichie. The way Papa used to abuse and mentally and physically torture his wife and Children. The irony of it was that Papa was a well known man in the Catholic Church loved and cherished by the whole world for his philanthropic nature. The moment he came home, he turned into a monster. Unlike Mama in the book, this woman left when she couldn't take it anymore but Mama stayed on and endured until she started to poison her husband little by little and watched him die slowly. Emeka needs help, serious behavioral therapy. I keep saying it marriage is not a do or die affair, if it gets to physical abuse, just leave so you can live period.
Mama knew when she leaves she would be a nobody and no one would believe her if she told them what happens in their house. So her only way out was to poison him and that was even because of her kids. She couldn’t stand him abusing her children as well. All in all, both women found different ways to free themselves. Just imagine what some people are saying about the woman coming out to speak after all these years, calling her a liar! Someone who never for once spoke a word, when this man was granting interviews upon interviews to tarnish this woman’s image. Someone who became your wife at such an early age. My question is, if she truly is what they think she is, would she have been this quiet? Society is messed up! You wanted to hear her side of the story, now she is out and see what they’re saying again. She doesn’t owe any one any evidence. When the man was out there talking, how many bothered to ask for evidence of things he accused this woman of? It’s sad that because it’s mostly women we’re fighting for their rights, some men turn to use it against us that we’re neglecting and not listening to the men. But in this type of situation, who has really been abused? A man who tells a presenter to keep quiet while’s interviewing him, jumps from a simple question, in fact any chance he gets to talk about how this woman has destroyed him after claiming he is happily married again? Bragging about building a house for your mother in law? People do more than that but they don’t cough sef, with his full chest on National tv you say, you made your wife who she is? Then what would Regina Daniels husband say?😅 Eei! What other prove do I need to know he is full of pride and may be abusive and a narcissist?
@Nezeville I was patiently waiting for this video 😊
I have read that book while I was living in England years ago. You are so right in comparing him to Papa.
Once again, thank you Neze for a well explained story. I knew Emeka then, he is a beast just as the ex wife described him. Not only that, he is good at manipulating people and also a pathological liar. Everything the woman said is true. She was even lucky that she came out alive. Unfortunately, mobile phones were not in huge circulation as at that time as they are today. Otherwise, she would have had a lorry load of evidence against him. Some people support Emeka because the Nigerian society favours men more while underrating women as second class citizens or their only place is in the kitchen. Emeka is not as good as people are made to believe.
I can see it through him easily
I can relate; went through hell for nine years. It always starts with small things, eroding your self-esteem gradually and by the time you realize it, you are just a shell of your original self. People ask why she didn’t or couldn’t leave; the entrapment happens so gradually it’s like you are in a dream watching your life pass you by.
Narcissists target young, naive, vulnerable women, and they avoid strong, independent women because they know they cannot control them. I’m glad she has lived to tell the story. 💕
Gbam!
People asking are not smart they just talk without thinking .
It's well
When he came back after so many years and instead of talking about other things he has been doing with his life he went back to talking about his ex wife told me all I need to know about him. 🤦🏽♀️
I don’t really care who is right or wrong at this point. He should just take some chill pill, spend time with his new family and allow his old family rest. 🤷🏽♀️
Thank you sir/ ma.we are tied of stories.
Exactly…..Rather than launch a comeback and focus on building his career again he is busy dragging his ex wife. Nonsense
He has lost focus... he is a very bitter man
Bitterness will do that to you
He has clearly not moved on.
God bless that woman for saving her life so that her children will not be motherless❤. Women think of yourselves and children not about what people will say. A lot of women did not come out alive including a great Nigerian gospel singer Osinachi. Be strong! Come out and live for yourself, God, your children and the people God Almighty send your way for help.
I believed her even before she opened her mouth! One reason was based on the bazaar allegations that Emeka keeps making! He’s a “story book” narcissist and a sociopath . I know the signs. As an abuse survivor, I’ve been where she is. It’s only under these extreme circumstances does a woman choose to leave her matrimonial home. I pray she finds peace in her life in Jesus Name. 🙏🏾
Same here. He's lying. For the fact that he first denied that there was a problem in their marriage, says alot. He's only concerned about his image. This interview he granted is part of his manipulation to bring her out. But he will not see that this will also bring to light all that he has done wrong. She even left 2 of her kids. That must have been hard for her. No Nigerian woman marries to divorce, not to talk of one that have been enduring marriage for 17years with 4kids and no financial support. She stayed too long. I didn't stay that long mehn!
Emeka Ike remarried a long time ago, I was shocked that he could drag his former wife in an interview with so much venom. He could have returned to the acting scene without drama.
That man is a liar. Too many inconsistencies in his version of the "story" and his demeanor is quite off. He ran to the media and smeared her name for 10 years thinking he had beaten her down to silence but here is with gathered strength sharing what she went through. I believe her 100%. Thank you for the coverage Neze, you look lovelyyyyyy ❤
I believe her….You can tell she’s been through a lot.
And she didn’t even want to talk, the crazy man kept pushing her to the wall. May God grant her happiness and peace.
One word for Emeka Ike…. Drug induced psychosis and paranoia. Remember that marijuana causes these things. Any man or woman that says we were fine, but the other person left is usually the abusive partner, they don’t realize the extent of their actions on the other person. I read on Google about the school, he did not pay the property owners, neither did he pay the staff for six months
Take this from a man, any intelligent person will know Emeka is so intoxicated with narcissism. Just analyze the way he speaks, his mannerisms, and the way he carries himself in public. I believe his ex-wife 💯. He's disgraced the woman for far too long and he needs to put a stop to this.
Na Better man you be
Were you living there with them?
Don't just talk like a man... please speak with wisdom
Good to see there are still men who can callnout this kind of behavior in their fellow men when they see it
@@RealityofcreationPele o advocate 🤣
@wilfredukemenam6565 Judges in your courts don't have to live with you to preside over your cases to even decide who's guilty or not.
This seems to be one of those divorce that the woman goes for thanks giving at the church and celebrate her God's given freedom and getting out of it alive
Like my own,I didn't divorce but I ran away.freedom sweet oooo.
Exactly
@priscachika6797 WAOOOO URE VERY CORRECT 👌💯 AM A SINGLE MOTHER TOO WHO WALKED FROM A WOMAN BEATER
FREEDOM SWEET MY SISTER ❤
Who can't see the narcissistic traits in that man...them artists think they are gifts to the world, some people are googoo gaga over them, not me! When they are no longer in the public eye, life will proceed without them, won't even notice their absence 😮
She should move on with her life and get married 🎉🎉😅
OPEN LETTER TO SUZANNE EMMA
From one survivor to another in this our lonely land of survival, my sister, you are a VERY GOOD MOTHER ❤️❤️🙏🏾. You faced domestic violence, and you left to save your life and to preserve your motherhood for your kids. You compromised with your abuser and left him his kids in recognition of his fatherly role. You even kept quiet as he slandered you for 10 years.
You had no time to influence this boy because he was in his father's custody .Yet at that time, we did not see anyone put out ring light to speak for your matter. But the moment you saw that the violence moved from you to the kids ( typical of abusers to continue the abuse psychologically by hurting those you love most) ,you rightly activated mother hen protection. Now we see ring light and motivational speaker everywhere, people here calling you a bad mother. These were the same people who asked the late Osinachi why didn't she didn't speak out or leave, but what society is not ready to hear is that with domestic violence, there comes a time when all conventional family standards and titles such a father, husband and even human being, need to be put on hold . You are dealing with a PERPETRATOR.!!JUST AS YOU ARE DEALING WITH AN ARMED ROBBER !PERIOD!! If a cooking fire begins to burn the home , it no longer has a relationship with food and nourishment. It is just DANGEROUS FIRE THAT CAN KILL ,SIMPLE!! Did Emeka himself not say in 2016 that if a woman is being abused, ask the children? And the children are now old enough to speak out and she is a bad mother !!!🤔When a man begins to talk about human life as if it were Christmas chickens, that is a call to outsiders to forget who he is meant to be, accept what he really is and MOVE IN to preserve life ,not family titles. Remember that it is not marked on anyone's forehead, the one who will wipe their family , or when and how they will do it. We all know in survivor land that the worst sociopathic/narcissistic rage you can ever trigger in your perpetrator is LEAVING. You have challenged your abuser's sense of power . If he can't get you, he will traumatise whoever you love to destroy your soul even by proxy. You would be a bad mother if you had brought all your kids to the interview. You brought a son who has come of age, who has his own victimhood story. You didn't bring your son because of one incident , or one over a day , weeks, or months, but years in your absence. Clearly, we see that he is old enough and has taken it upon himself to assume the fatherly role to protect himself, yourself and the family. You should be most proud that as a man, he is questioning his own path . Your lived experience and that of your son are REAL. You deserve to preserve your life as you see fit . DON'T ever let anyone make you doubt yourself and your survival kit . In survivor land, we already know that the only respected voice of domestic violence is that which speaks from beyond the grave. Don't mind all these people calling you a bad mother. They are waiting to write R.I.P and shoot videos as one-off motivational speakers, when he finally ends your life.Look at them coming for you now, but we're quiet as he slandered you for 10 years. From all of us at our lonely but authentic, thick skinned survival land , we understand you , we love you, and we are proud of you and your son 👏🏾❤️🫂🙏🏾
👍👍👍
Thats how a Narc behaves... why he kept on insulting this woman for 10 whole years.
As he himself kept saying "she doesnt talk.."... so he kept dragging her all this while.
Now she talked and most victims can relate. Especially when they finally decides to leave and live.
You can even see Sussan Emma just scratch the surface of the hell she has gone through.
Thank God she has left that hell.
We are waiting for that sorry piece of manhood's response. So so lies.
Instead of promoting a film; andnopportunity that have been given to him for the second time... out of no where he rather chose to denigrate Susan ...
Well his cup is full. ..
Susam Emma ... we support you. We beleive you and God got you.
At least you have your children to count.
The thing I’ve learned from this case is no matter how many proves you have, and anything you say, as a woman society would always look for something to invalidate in you, this lady stayed quiet for a very long time, she disappeared from the media and from anyone sights, and now that she decided to speak up people are still calling her names, saying that she should have let it go, saying she is a bad woman and mother for leaving her marriage, but they would still have been the same people to blame her if she stayed back and probably lose her life just like the way they did to Austa, saying she stayed for the money until she was killed, but most of them were clapping hands for the man when he was going up and down every market day to slander his ex and kids. It’s very sad that our Africa cultures (most of them) doesn’t protect women and kids. I wish her well with her kids, and let her continue being out of the media for her sanity.
Yeah. this story and that of May Edochie has really exposed how the Nigerian society is. It’s not what the persons involved said.. it’s how bad actions were supported by your society. I ‘m African by birth but Nigeria has really surprised me.
Their fans are pathetic!
@@felly6555 me too, Nigeria cases has surprised me a lot, my country law isn’t perfect but it’s still better in this type of cases than Nigeria, may God protect us, that’s the only thing left for Africa.
Africans are good in putting blame on women. It is not just Nigeria. All over , soft targets always women. 😭😭😭😭😭
Hmmm
Emeka is the guilty party. As a victim of domestic abuse myself, there is no doubt in my mind about the ex-wife’s narrative. I have been divorced for over 15 years and my ex continues to make up similar lies, whilst still trying to get back with me. My ex-husband had also Re-married, but that relationship also ended in divorce due to his domestic violence again.
I’m so sorry about that
It is well
After seeing what men go through from the hands of women all on the name of protecting their marriage and name, I feel so sorry for them.
Women always act as the victim
But Emeka Ike is not your ex, so why do you want us to believe he is lying. Cases like these should be based on facts not emotions. Women always try to play on the emotions of listeners to gain the upper hand and this is what is playing out here.
@@johnpeters4100 the fact that you want us to leave emotions out of it shows it is true and you can do the same. Do you know emotional pain can kill, many people can get depressed and commit suicide when emotional pain is too much. You men talk as if you don't get hurt, yet you can't take half of what you do to women. Don't leave emotions out. Let's put the emotions, if it hurts then it is true. Let's all have empathy for one another that is how not to act heartless in marriage. If it will hurt you as man just know it hurts the woman more.
You are looking classier by the day. Love it
I am glad she survived him, and yes her story sounds more credible. Something is wrong with that man, always blaming everyone. Once you have dealt with someone like him, you can easily sift the truth from lies. You only need to deal with someone like him one time to understand how people with similar behaviour are. They act alike.
Just Google what happened to Emeka's Ike's school in 2014 and know the truth. The internet doesn't forget . I can't believe people still think Emeka is speaking the truth.. Even without hearing the woman. The man's demeanor while talking made the whole thing weird. Left alone the things he was saying
Exactly!!!
If he is on drugs, he can't be normal.
He said 450 million school 😂😂 secondary school o no be uni, who get 450 million school that time
Controlling husbands are enraged when you gain freedom. They just can't stand it
Neze is the best Narrator hands down 🎤
she is good but in this case, she is bias
@@achuomaxwelraving madness.. because she narrated exactly the woman’s side of the story and asked the audience to state their opinion?
Absolutely!!
See, I believe that woman. My mom is an actress and she has worked with Emeka Ike in the past. I remember all the times when we would be watching Emeka on tv or some of her friend or sisters and she’ll tell the story of how Emeka Ike fought her. The way she always talked about how bad his behavior was, the things he said and did to her.. I used to look up to Emeka even after she said those things but seeing all that is happening now, I absolutely don’t admire him anymore. Man’s a lunatic 😂😂
One thing I respect my Nigerian people for is: Nigerian women are STRONG!!!❤❤❤.
For enduring abuse?
@@ToniaAlex13I think to walk away
Neze the truth is that I didn't even need to hear from Emma to know that Emeka Ike is a lying Drama Queen. Lies create desperation, and that is why Emeka has been running kitikiti running katakata all over the media to grant lame conspiracy theory Interviews.
😣 Neze I have heard people come up with pathetic lies, but Emeka Ike saying that Emma was blackmailed into divorcing him really takes the cake.
You are funny biko which one be kitikiti and katakana? 😂😂😂😂.
I was contracted to write for a US attorney who represented victims of abusive marriages. Everything Emma said were similar to the interviews of the abused clients. In fact, I still thank God that the contract was terminated because I couldn't think well anymore.
To think that these things also happen in Nigeria is saddening 😢
He is obsessed with her... I have faced this before. Even when she leaves him.. no matter who she ends up with.. he will stalk and threaten her for life. Thats why years later he is still talking about it. I am glad she spoke up and i hope she is protected because he will never let her go.
BIG SHAME ON HIM.USELESS MAN😮😮😮😮
Thanks for the analysis of the relationship. I can relate to the couples situation because I am going through a divorce process and I must confess its not been easy because I've experienced all the consequences you mentioned from my Nigerian brothers and sisters. My husband took advantage of me from the day i met him. He financially, physically, emotionally and mentally abused and damaged me to the extent that I lost myself. Yet, most of our friends sided my husband. But I took up the courage to end our marriage after my husband nearly sold our house on 3 occasions wanting to live 3 children to me to relocate to nigeria. Emeka displays the exact characteristics of my husband, a true narcissistic person he is. May God help women that are going through such traumas.
To those of your here who is saying she's lying is the son lying too?Have you guys forgotten how the Nigerian Artist Osinachi died in silence?
Thank God Affliction did not arise the second time
Let it happen in your neighborhood and you will know how it feels to be in an abusive relationship
Thank God she came out alive and has her sanity restored 🙏🙏🙏
Bringing the Son to validate her on the interview is a red flag. As she is trained teacher. Emeka sets up the school, expecting her to run the school successfully. Did she?
I knew Emeka couldn’t be as innocent as he claimed.
My own is Oga rushed to the media for years playing “The Good Husband” and all these years the woman kept quiet.
Speaks very loud volumes!
Merry Christmas Barister Neze..
I believe Emeka' s Wife 100% ,cos once you started fighting back from an emotional abuser husband. He sees it as disrespectful. Telling you from my experience
My typical experience with my abuser. Why I gained my voice and confidence he said I was arrogant.
Am happy for this woman regaing her sanity.infact, freedom sweet. She can now pray without pains. 😊😊😊🎉. congratulations emma
He groomed her at her very young age and couldn't take it when the lady started to question some of his character. Emeka is an angry sociopath who is utterly damaged. Thank God for saving that lady from that fury force
When I watched the interview yesterday, I knew that my girl Neze would come any time with her wonderful narrative.
When I watched her interview. I knew you will come through for us. I love your narration. I love you peperempe!
I believe her every word. She left him and was quiet until now. Why is he still talking about a woman that left him 10yrs ao.
This is exactly what I said in the other video, no Nigerian woman just leaves her marriage for no good reason, it's a taboo, especially in a society where a woman's worth is based on her martial status.
I was waiting for this one. Finally it’s here. 🍿🍿
Mood 😂
@@senaopoku6153 lol
I think I believe the woman.
I feel so sad that she had to go through such ordeal and still could not speak up.
I pray for emotional and psychological healing.
I believe Emma 's account of events and I pray she continues to heal and have peace 🙏🏾
I admire her decision and courage to speak out on this occasion that a sociopathic ex-husband has been doing media rounds smearing her reputation further!
I will only advise that since she has said her truth and I believe her 💯, she should keep all her evidences!
Those evidences will be for legal purposes when it will be required!
I would have said she should sue the m*f* out for all that he's worth, but looking at him, he is not worth the weight in Gold!
Emma's experience is similar to mine...over 21 years, but I'm in a much better place now!
I can see she's glowing and it's just from a place of living stress-free live. I pray for abundance of peace for herself and the children!🙏🏾
One thing I have learnt about relationships is … Emeka may actually believe what he is saying as true … men and women view things differently and when a man is messing up he will see reality from a tainted lens
The wife look's very calm and I believed her. I think he get's easily provoked and need's to work on his Anger. Hope both parties find a way of settling their differences for the sake of their Children. Thanks Neze for the Update
Emeka should have never brought this topic up in the first place. I believe he pushed the lady to feel the need to say her part. He should have redirected the question that was asked. This is a private matter that involves his children as well. Handle it indoors! I hate to see this. Now that his wife and son have said their part to the media, there is no going back. It’s all downhill from there.. all their dirty laundry out in the open.
The gutter is the narcissist's playground. They cannot love and don't care dragging everyone down with them. The best advice is not to engage in any argument with them.
I have been waiting for your wisdom and insight on this matter since her interview dropped!
This woman is the one telling the truth... You see the details, you see the names, you see the dates, she kept them all... Nothing beats that! She can't call out the names of all those people if they weren't true... Did you guys even listen to Chude's interview with her and her kid??? Omo, make una go losten raw facts. Then compare with the demeanor of Emeka in his interviews to say the least... 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That man na clown!!
First heard the wife's side of the story before I listened to the famous actor's side. It's the first time coming across this story. Such evil, After hearing about the Dr_g use allegedly, it's like he was out of it and out of touch of reality thinking all the Ab_se never happened, he is in so much denial and does not want to take accountability. It was heartbreaking hearing what was happening with the wife and the children.
I think Emeka was raised in an abusive home as well. He's a real nassicist. His drug use is just to cover his behaviour.
I don't think he has drug problem, I think he has anger issues.
Awwn, the lady looks so soft, i may not be right, but i think Emeka is the problem, the ex wife calmness says it all.
You are soooo naive with your judgement
😂😂...if you have the time, watch "Gone Girl" . Then come back to your comment again
@@pipsmakethprofit I don't need to watch it to comment. You are still naive and unintelligent and cannot read between lines.
As a woman going through a tormenting in marriage, I can say some men can be evil making you feel less of a human in marriage .
If you are reading this please make me feel loved and saying a prayer. Not only beating is abusive, verbal abuse is there
❤❤❤❤❤
You're loved, sis ❤❤❤
You are loved❤❤..
But,pls leave to live🙏
Its abt time we Africans change the way we treat and see divorced women..#Osinachi 😢
In Some parts they do like in Mauritania they celebrate divorce more than marriage
This woman was quiet and it's only now that she has decided to speak after being bashed every time the husband gets the chance.Its very sad that some women decides to say she is lying and chose to believe the man,very very sad.
You will never know what this woman is saying until you marry a narcissist. I can relate to her story. Woman, you shouldn't have granted this interview. Silence is the only weapon against such narcissists.
No ..the guy kept abusing her within and now out of marriage,physically emotionally,socially psychologically..nn not just her, three children witnessed much despite his manipulation as his first child said...its healing for her...her 10yr silence did not silence the dude..instead..her cooked more lies coz he was convinced that the wife wld never indulge any for an interview
She would have kept quiet, until he kept bringing their business to the media.
My dear. I got one snoring beside me now. Planning my escape out of Australia with my two year old to another country cos I can’t even leave my two year old with him as you know they are very destructive. I am leaving to Australia to somewhere else where he cannot smell me or the child again for a long time if not forever.
It was a good thing to hear her side of the story. Her silence would have done more havoc. Emeka ike shouldn't have brought it to social media in the first place. She only responded to the accusations. She did the right thing.
@@ModestaUwandusending you love and strength. God give you the grace to leave. It is well 🙏
Never underestimate the red flags from the start she stayed regardless Amnot judging her but she got her lesson
I knew this video would come up any moment. Thank God it's finally here
You are a truly remarkable woman. I admire your level of intelligence and analytical prowess. You simplify very complex matters and make it easy for even the dimwitted to understand. Surely, the spirit of God is in you. More grace to you!
Anyone who have experienced such abuse, once u hear someone speaking the truth u just know it.
Finally Neze uploaded.... I've been waiting since yesterday. Even the day before
Anyone who fumbles you, was a lesson learned. She deserves better ❤
For me, the woman's side of the story seem believable and was delivered effortlessly unlike Emeka were he seem to be overboard. However, were I find it hard to accept was were she categorically said that Emeka's kinsmen came to perform a traditional marriage rites and came empty handed. One thing I Know about ndi Igbo is that, instead of going empty handed to such event, they will rather sit back to avoid shame, no matter your status. Traditional igbo men detest such and they do everything possible to avoid being traditionally embarrassed so to speak.
Secondly, what led to Emekas mother accusing her in-law of stealing was not stated. What actually led to it? She never point out the reason for such demeaning accusation.
I strongly believe that both parties aren't entirely honest if you ask me. However, I pray that all goes well for the sake of the children. It is well 🙏
Nna, whether tru or not,the woman has gotten her freedom and she's getting her mental and emotional healing gradually.
For him to even say that the hospital staff are beneath his wife is just flabbergasting 😮. The nerve....
He groomed her,like she said she wanted to be an actress and that definitely made her look up to him.He is very charming but a narcissist. People will ask why she went back,sometimes you feel your voice is insignificat to the abuser.He has been smear campaigning for sympathy but glad she spoke up.May she heal
I'm never tired of watching your vlogs it's always entertaining & educating,More wisdom Bar.Neze
Stumbled on this channel today, narrator is extremely talented,she samarises things so well,well done sis,love from Malawi
Emeka Ike is a narcissist
You're right about the stigma of women leaving and getting out. I saw it in the comments yesterday after her interview. I myself am very happy for her that she survived and got out. It's God's grace on her 🙏 that she survived and I hope she's happy and has peace now.
Truly said my dear. Thank God she didn't end up like Osinachi
You arr soooooooo beautiful our Neze. I believe every word Emma is saying, I am sure she even had more. These narc will come to your life, destroy everything and more, and will go to these interviews to even add insult to the injury. As I always say, there is no way you can win with some on these males. No way. I pray for her healing, peace.
What I believe is you're a great narrator @Nezeville 🙌🏾😊
I don't know the whole story , but I believe her
This story reminds me about what i experienced with my late husband .....i can totally relate
When a older man marry a very young woman (groom her )and a very vulnerable one,her mom was a single mother (Africans don’t respect women born and raised of single mothers)when they marry you they think they did you the biggest favour.He mistreated her because she had no man no father to run to.if Emma had one strong father he would dare not mistreat this beautiful woman.
Just check the way Emeka is talking.....you will know that he is just trying so hard to trigger the woman to come out, which he has finally gotten but Emeka is bitter so bitter towards the woman n am guessing maybe because he felt he invested alot like her education n helping the family n all that blablabla. This i saw with my ex husband n my silence was killing him till he succumb to the truth. I pray that guy Emeka moves on because he is not the only man that sent his wife to school and support her family. There are many men that buy tesla n houses for just their girlfriends not to talk of wife.
You are so right. Just because you supported her doesn't mean she should swallow every bitter pill you serve her.
Nez😮. This was me! Powerful.
God Bless u😊
You look lovely today sis!
Shame him and share everything. Tell the truth and shame the devil!
Truth is that…the woman we re here praying to GOD to give to us,so we can treat her as a queen she deserves,nah e another celebrity turn into punching bag…GOD abeg ooo!!…dear future wife,wherever you re abeg hold on,i dey come!!!
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In my opinion, Emeka started this fire by speaking about his marriage again. He would have let the sleeping dog be. 10years is a long time to get help and be at peace. Marriage problems will support different parties differently whether you are right or wrong. But for him to keep talking about it, it means he is still in love with her and most men instead of seeking for a peaceful dialogue, they would rather torment themselves by speaking ill about another. It can happen for any gender, humble yourself no be the begger that is wrong but for your inner peace, if begging for peaceful dialogue would help, go for peace. Emeka needs healing, so that he could be whole again whether he is right or wrong; unforgiveness, pride and bitterness are terrible fuels to depression.
It has nothing to do with love.
A narcissist will hate to lose their victim. They need that victim on their knees before them begging, crying and groveling. That’s what makes them feel big, strong and powerful. And once that victim escapes, they’ll seek ALL sorts of ways to get them back or to destroy them. It’s not love that motivates him, it’s control and hate.
Exactly! That's the Psychology of A Narcistic!
@@YoureverBeloved Really, I was thinking it was love
That arresting her after she lost her mother broke me😭😭
I believe her totally cause dis man Emeka Nummmm may God help him
Bar Neze, my eyes were on u the whole time. U look beautifullllll. Thanks for all your great analysis
I believe the wife💯
Has been anticipating oooo this part 😂
I believe the wife, Emma went through a lot, emeka is a narcissist. And he is bitter, now that his ex wife has left him. Imagine the abuse to the children and torment just because he is no longer with the ex wife. At least the world can see that he is a Monster and needs help. Emeka show no regards for the mother of his children. He just wanted to destroyed her at all cost. Well done Emma for sharing your experience this will help other women to get out of an abuse relationship. Emeka you are an intelligent man but at the same you are toxic very dangerous man. Your body language and dominion say it all.
I'm glad he mentioned he has been begging her to come back and she said NO.
This is the reason why.
Hmmmmmmm
Thank you Nezeville . This woman went through DV from her early age she was with her ex husband. I believe her story 💯. That man almost 2 decade older that her
I believe the ex-wife is saying the truth, I don’t have to wait for Emeka to have kpai her first, No, not even after the lies he told about how his schools closed down, Thank God she’s alive to tell her story.
I watched it yesterday on Chude but I still want to hear your stand on it
I believe her 100%. Emeka seems unstable and like to make stories.
From day one I never believed Emeka. I saw arrogance in Emeka. I couldn't believe a father could use the words coming out of his mouth for his son.That woman passed through a lot in her marriage.
I believe her. 😢. Devil in disguise. She should sue him for abuse.
I believe the woman. I share almost all her experiences in the marriage. And it's always difficult for people to believe me because I keep quiet. People tend to believe every lie told by the man. 😢
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I believe you madam, it’s always like that , ones you start demanding for respect then they see it as disrespectful. This woman has been through a lot .
When couples encounter conflicts in marriage, they might not always express the truth. Rather than taking sides, like being on "Team Emeka" or "Team Emma," it's more constructive to pray/hope for peace and harmony within the family. Emeka and Emma get therapy and look for a way to resolve issues off social media, you all need each other no matter how terrible things are now. "Family remains family, regardless of circumstances."
I feel so sorry for the woman. Sorry you went through all these. God will fight for you