This makes you so attractive to women
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2024
- #dating #integrity #whatwomenwant
In this video I talk to you about one of the most attractive things for women
The good news is it's healthy and strong for you as man too, win win.
What makes you unique, shows your strong character is you not indulging in short term pleasures such as gambling, taking drugs, drinking excessively, consuming p*rn.
It shows her you are a man that's strong minded and doesn't do something just because it will make him feel good in the moment
The key is you developing awareness of your emotions, becoming aware of when you may be consuming these things outside of you for short term gratification and reward when it's not reward, you're doing those things to only experience a more pleasant feeling, which never lasts.
I hope this has been helpful for you.
With Love,
Jess
What if you have a high sex drive and you're currently single? Are you to avoid masturbation altogether?!
I don't drink, I don't gamble, I don't do drugs, I don't shop excessively, I don't sleep around. I do agree that control is important, but the issue with male masturbation though is something that is inherent, it is not something that is created externally by adult material. I'm older now, but I remember the days when I was 15, the urge was almost painful. If a man told me that he didn't relieve himself at that age, I would probably think that something was wrong with him. Now, it matters what adult material you consume, or whether the release turns into something more sinister, such as a substitute for intimacy. But that is a separate question from my perspective. Second point: I do believe that some inner work can help, but it is something that will help you primarily. It doesn't automatically translate into attractiveness, meaning that there may be other obstacles that are still to be addressed.
I appreciate your point of view and you are a women so you'd know better than me obviously but from a man's point of view I'd have to say, nah. Inner work, what does that even mean? As a dude I'd say just be you and don't make finding a women the center of your world. Lot's of things to enjoy in life, be friends with people, men and women, and always be willing to walk away from something that destroys your peace. Nothing wrong with wanting to be involved with a women, just don't make it your entire life. Don't make anything your entire life. Balance.
@@justenjoy-rr7ho Thanks for sharing. Inner work, in my own language is the thinking and beliefs we have about ourselves. I’ve seen in both women and men that where the thinking and beliefs are in harmony we create lots of joyful, peaceful and meaningful experiences for ourselves. I agree, balance absolutely and yes making a woman your entire world is not going to be helpful because you exist too. It’s the same for women.
Hi Jess, having seen all these heavily drunk guys behaving in an annoying and repulsive way being surrounded by girls all the time at parties, streets, university,… is quite a contradiction to what you are saying. Sure, it’s temporary, but most girls are heavily into that anyway. Same with smoking, eating fast food,…
Hi there, cannot confirm… at all. Have been doing inner work for over a year and I can honestly say that the positive changes do NOT translate to any increase in dating opportunities at all. I do better personally, friendships are better, but women in my country are just as avoidant / self-centered / self-conscious / closed-minded as always. What am I supposed to do if open-minded attractive women are scarce as a unicorn around here?
@@isoigushbnfgioushg-ip5st is there any chance believing women are avoidant, self centred, self conscious and closed minded is attracting more of these women to you?
Hi, thanks for the reply. I don’t think so, such is the pool of women here in southern Germany. Of course, I don’t meet them on purpose, I am just wondering how to meet suitable women if daily life, including trying out different activities, doesn’t connect you with the right people. Having lived in multiple countries and having met foreigners of various backgrounds, I can definitely say that experience with women (or its lack of) heavily depends on culture and upbringing. For example, it’s easy to at least have a random chat with a Latina or Asian woman as these cultures tend to have much higher openness towards strangers. In contrast, women in southern Germany are raised avoidant to strangers, so it is very rare to even have a chat, let alone to connect if you happen to be more on the self-made side of personality. And even if you do, the very few quality women are almost always taken. The numbers are just not out there. On top of that, many men that I talked to prefer foreign women as well, it sometimes feels like there is 100 men per available woman, assuming acceptable attractiveness. The situation is so ridiculous.
With the porn its loneliness also.
The only men that are having a hard time with women are introverts. I agree to some extent about looks, I know a good looking lad and his success in not as good as average lads. The big reason for this is introversion in western culture and the stigma it holds. This doesnt happen in eastern european countries, asian countries, germanic countries. Its happening in western/southern europe, the US and South America. These regions value extroversion - talkative, chit-chat, small talk, positive affect as a baseline (not just a normal, even-keeled disposition). Women in these countries wont look at a guy whose a little more complex, a little more serious, introspective, more of a thinker etc. They just dont and you cant ask these men to just be something they're not. Women in extroverted countries find these mens aura a bit off, strange, intangible, hard to read. Its not like that in other countries where intellectualism is appreciated and not deemed an ick.
This is why you have passport bros going to asia, even good looking ones - being a bit more reserved and less animated is considered a big ick. Its a sign of where culture is going if women are selecting simple, cheerful guys Mr EveryDay Man a la Manchester Lad culture over men who are more complex, deep and thoughtful.
As an introverted, introspective, very deep thinking man. I agree. Its tough and lonely out there, even if you are good looking.
@@Hero_Of_Old amen. It's one of the elephants in the room that is not being acknowledged. This is why PUA is still big, they capitalize on quiet, more reserved guys insecurities, try make them your typical extroverted laddie, make him sauve or a bit of a geezer, and it goes nowhere. What starts to happen is these types of men just withdraw and do the least possible as the rewards aren't there. Now you gotta be a cheerful chappy, a joe normie or off to Eastern Europe or Asia with you
Finally a women’s perspective. Good on ya. 👍
@@markmasson5746 thank you Mark I appreciate your kindness. I’m glad the video was helpful for you ❤️🙏
So True...
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