*NEW* DECLUTTER WITH ME! HOW TO DECLUTTER & WHY IT FEELS SO HARD? What is the Best Method?
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- NEW DECLUTTER WITH ME! HOW TO DECLUTTER & WHY IT FEELS SO HARD? What is the Best Method?
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Hello everyone & welcome to today's video! We are back over at my parents' house where we will continue to help momma Robyn meet her decluttering goals. My parents have also been on a decluttering journey for quite some time now, there goal is to simply minimize/downsize! They have done an amazing job, but there's one problem, I'm doing to them what I did to myself, which is, I started too big! I started with too large of an area and too many items at one time. Now that im over 2 years into the decluttering process and I'm at a point where im now just doing decluttering Maintenance I'm comfortable with taking on large areas but my parents need a slower process, decluttering is much harder for them and that may be because they have kept 30+ years of stuff... a lot of stuff. So, in today's video we're starting small, we're working on the most chaotic drawer in the kitchen, where I'll be going step by step on how and where to start decluttering. But im doing things a little differently, we're going to bounce back and forth from momma Robyn and I decluttering, to me discussing "why decluttering feels so hard" & some of the struggles I have and still face when it comes to decluttering, as well as "what's the best decluttering method out there" my answer may surprise you! I hope you enjoy today's video, thank you so much for being here with me! xoxox
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Not a filler mama Robin. You are what the people want!!! 😊❤
We Luv & Appreciate ya so much friend! Whenever I do a video with my mom we go through the comments together and this made her week! Hugs from Me & Momma Robyn 🥰🥰🥰
@@danniraearranged yay! And totally true!!!! 😀😀😀
I love seeing you two work together. You two remind me a lot of me and my mom. She is very generous like mama Robyn always trying to bless others and always takes care of everyone's needs anyway she can and we laugh and have fun together. Great to have a mom/ daughter friendship. Hugs back at you two. Keep up the incredible work inspiring the world! 💪🌎
"You know what? Ryan got me that." 😂😂😂 You guys always make me laugh. I love it!
LMBO...that cracked me up too. The men in my moms life sure do love to buy her stuff ha! 😂🤣 Thanks for watching & being here with us friend! Hugs 🥰🥰
Momma Robyn, you're AMAZING! 🥰❤️
Look at your pretty mama!! She's getting better about being on camera!!! ❤️
Hilarious!!! Your mom is such a good sport for allowing you to film this. I love the interaction between the two of you. 😀 The house is looking great she is doing amazing ❤
Your mom cracks me up. One time you were sharing your wisdom on decluttering and she was yawning. And the look on her face during one of your talks. She is not a convert yet 🤣😆😝🥰
I love the days with Robyn and Danni 🥰
Great motivation and good insight.
I love the Ryan gifting comments. Always so much fun to hear you both giggle. It's a great catch phrase 😊
Love all your videos 😊 but especially the ones with your mom 🎉
Yes! I agree. Take what works and leave what doesn’t for your decluttering journey. I will say, though, that overtime some of the methods that didn’t work with me back then, now do. 🤷🏻♀️
Great to see Momma Robin! Looking forward to the bathroom remodel/refresh/update :)
Yay! My favourite TH-camr and her hilarious mom! Love all of your videos! 💖🇨🇦
Nancy you are the absolute BEST! We luv & appreciate ya so much friend! Thank you! Lots of luv 🥰🥰
I have bins and bins of my fathers that I haven’t even begun to go through. He has been gone for 7 years now. I feel ya girl
I'm so sorry friend! I'm sending you lots of love thoughts and prayers 🙏 going through stuff from the people we have loved and lost is by far the hardest stuff to go through. I have the hardest time going through my grandmothers, MIL and uncles stuff. My dad hasnt gone through his mom or brothers stuff, its so dang hard. ❤️❤️❤️
Hi, Danni and Mom! I think Chad is part of the clutter problem! He needs to stop! I love when you two get together. Well, in my home I have finally reached my goal upstairs. Now it’s time to finish the basement. Since I started it I take my time at it. One hour at a time if I feel up to it. Once I get started sometimes I will go longer. Hope to finish before summer, then on to the garage. Then I will be done!✅ Love you Danni and your Mom! Hugs!🥰👍💜
Oh ya LMBO 1000% agree! I think its time to have a sit down conversation with Ryan, Chad & my mom LOL I wish Chad lived closer, my moms side of the family lives in WI, but they live like 5-6 hours out from us. But one of these days I'm gonna get everyone to together HA! And YAY! You're doing an amazing job! That is fantastic! Little by little we get there! And you reminded me, I have to work on the garage too. ugh! I hate working in the garage. LOL WE LOVE YOU friend! Thanks for always being here with us! hugs back from me and momma Robyn 🥰🥰
I love all of your videos and am always inspired without feeling preached to. Your mom’s facial expressions are priceless when you ask her to make a decision. The two of you remind me so much of me and my late mom. ❤️❤️❤️
❤❤❤ hugs for mum Robyn
Momma Robyn says "hey friend & lots of luv & hugs back to you" Always so happy to see you here with me Renata! 🥰❤️❤️❤️
The best decluttering method is whatever works best for you personally! I couldn't agree more. Take what resonates and leave what doesn't. And mix things up. Sometimes different thing work in different areas or seasons of life. Sometimes we get bored and need a fresh approach or to return to what worked well in the past. ❤ Give your self grace and don't be afraid to tweek something to make it fit with what works for you and your unique selves. 😊
Always a joy watching your mama and you interact over decluttering.
Mama Robin ain’t no filler! She’s the bomb!!! Even though her kitchen is traumatizing to Danni!
I just like your mom 😂I need you to help me like you help her love yall ❤
Always great to visit and declutter with Mama Robin - she keeps it real
Your videos always have such a wonderful mix of humour and hard facts! Always a joy to watch your videos and to watch your progression on the subject, which I'm going along with you, so thank you!❤️
You and your Mom have made my day. 😂
I agree on all ypur comments! Like I knew areas needed decluttered but no one coukd see them but I knew they were there! I gave done some small areas and some larger areas. I am happy. It is also hard for me not to shop . I am a person who also likes to always be prepared! Like tooth brushes, t paper, tissues and all that stuff! Wish I had my sweet Mama to be here with me and just love me. Enjoy the Journey! Enjoy your videos so much! Thank you!
Your mom cracks me uppp! My comfort show when I go to sleep is “everybody loves Raymond” and my jar hit the floor when she mentioned the fruit of the month club 😂
Your mom isn’t filler, she’s a higher priority. 😉 Love when she’s in your videos!
The essential items is a subject I’ve been talking with family about. I think after the pandemic we are all seeking security in our lives. I almost bought two huge hand soaps. But I recently organized my soaps and i had so many I have no room. That’s when I was saying what are you doing. You have a year’s worth of soap. Stop it. Same with candles. I have candles for years. Now I started wax melts. That’s another story. As always. Love watching you and your mom together. These memories are priceless. Keeping you and your hubby and family in my prayers. Enjoy the day. 😊
Yes I came to the realization in my own decluttering that I am a soap and candle hoarder
Same LOL my mom is too! Candles and soaps are so hard! I hoard candles & wax melts, I LOVE them so much 🤣
I couldnt agree more! 100% I think you are spot on! Essential items have always been an issue for me, I try to be careful about how much I get and I try to set boundaries but its hard. My mom esp. after the pandemic started to obtain a lot of essential items. I feel like once you start doing that for so long it becomes habit, its hard to break that habit. Oh goodness, I am the same way I have sooooo many candles and wax melts. I try to use and buy wax melts more then candles because there cheaper, but I have a serious problem with candles & wax melts. They bring me so much joy 🤣We love ya so much Rae, thanks for watching and always being here with us friend! ❤️❤️❤️
Great job Mama R!
A Hoarders Heart is very good at recognising the emotions behind the items and how to feel the emotions behind the items. Peter Walsh also has great advice re dealing with sentimental items.
HI Danni and Robin! :) There are so many decluttering methods. But the one that works best is the one, that works for you at that moment.
The number #1 thing to me is quit buying stuff you do NOT need!!!! That's why so many people need to declutter so much. It's a fact that we all need to declutter stuff. However, if you don't stop the habit of buy buy buy, then decluttering will be a constant battle. I agree about the different ways to declutter. What works for one may not work for another. And, you may find one way didn't work before, but now it does. Too many people make shopping a habit....it's time to declutter the habit and find something different to do. 😊🎉❤
I’m glad you are able to work with your mom and you both laugh. My mom and I would both be crying!
Danni, this was excellent. Your mother is truly hilarious
I loved how you broke away and discussed insights you've had. Very helpful. 😍
Cheers
I love your Mom; she is so fun and she sounds like a great cook! Great video
I love the video’s with you and Mama Robyn, she’s such fun. I love how she has such wonderful justifications for the stuff she has accumulated. Also, Danni you shared some great insights and advice in this video. I love how you use your experience and the expertise you have gained over the last few years to help give newbies to decluttering an idea of how to go about starting to clear out their houses. I totally agree with you when you said about not just pushing through with decluttering when you feel fatigue, frustration or indecision. It is better to take time to evaluate why those things occur and what triggers emotions that are blocking the process. People are far more likely to create an excessive number of ‘Maybe Bins’ when the decluttering process has become too overwhelming and the over sentimentality or fatigue catches up with them.
Btw you need to add two other slogans to go along with “Better Ask Ryan”; ones which goes “Ryan Got Me That” and “Chad We Need To Have A Conversation..” 😂
Now I see you get your beauty from mom 😉 She is doing so much better! Keep flexing those declutter muscles 💪🏼 TFS!!
You are so dang SWEET!!! We're blushing 🤭🥰😘 Shes slowly but surely building those decluttering muscles, it took me a hot minute to build my decluttering muscles! So grateful you're here with us friend! Lots of love 🥰🥰
Momma Robyn, you're not filler, you are our Very Special Guest Star! Any home changes take longer than expected, so it's perfectly understandable for the bathroom video to have a change of airing time. Q&A time - How do you eat your corn on the cob if you threw away the corn holders? What has Ryan's response been to "Better ask Ryan!"? Just curious.
I really didn’t want this video to end! Great cutaways to explain the process and your experience. I also loved the one drawer concept. I think it really takes away the overwhelm. ❤️❤️❤️
Hey girl, I'm just now able to comment, been very busy filming my spring cleaning series. This video was much different than what you have done before. I like that you went back and forth between your home to momma Robyn. Yes decluttering can be hard at times. But I see those muscles building with you. Loved seeing you both today. Great video sweetie!!
Hi Danni and mum Robyn, I always look forward to your videos. Take care, love to you and your family. ❤❤
We luv & appreciate ya so much friend! I cant tell you enough how much that means to us. Thanks for watching & always being here with me! Hugs 🥰
Love when you and your Mom get together!🤣🤣 tell her she's not a filler, so happy to see her! I remember that prank 🤣🤣 Its been cool in Florida where I live are you guys still having cold weather? I now if I want something really bad I look at it and leave it then think later do I really need it, and if it's a necessity then I'll go back another time I find when I think about it I've gotten over the really wanting the item.
I love the comment " Ryan got it for me!"
Hi there, Danni and Robyn! 😃 Warm and sunny greetings from Florida! 🏖️ Danni, I just wanted to say how wonderful it is that you give of your time and energy to help your parents declutter! ❤ You are a gem! I know your mom appreciates you! Robyn, you’ve come so far! 🎉 It’s always wonderful to visit with you both and see your progress! Have a blessed week! Love you both! 💕🌸
Owning a home..there is always a million projects..I have decided to do one procrastination project daily..even if it is just organizing phone photos.. 1 thing minimum a day.. this is separate from daily house chores...it has been so good for me..
Oh I was waiting for „better ask Ryan“ 😄😉💕 greetings to your mom 😊
Hello Mama Robin! Lovely to see you and your mom working together. I miss my mom. Give yours a hug for me! BTW I bounce around with decluttering also. Room to room, bit by bit. Love your channel!❤🐦
I can't wait to see the bathroom and the basement!!!
I LOVE these videos with your mom!
I used to be the same way with 'consumables' like laundry detergent, cleaners, hand soap, and body wash because I typically don't allow myself to buy non essential items and that was what I would buy when I needed some retail therapy. Now that I've learned that the preservatives can break down over time, I limit myself to how many extras I have on hand, which is usually just 1 or 2 if there's a sale. There's really no need for me to have more than 1 waiting in the wings... I grocery shop every week so I really don't need to have the store's collection sitting in my cabinets!
I think the most important thing is to clean up your time first. Declutter your time wasters. Then get rid of the easy junk, that you have no issue Then use what you keep. We buy “stuff” but never make time to enjoy it. If we are doing something we enjoy - we won’t be buying more stuff. ❤
I love yall, your banter is amazing 🤣
Great tips n motivation. Loved it. Have a great day. Just love you n your content.
Nr 1 best decluttering method, is the one you do 🤪
(I've been looking for such a cheese shredder. One person's junk is another person's treasure 🙃)
The best decluttering method is the one that works for you!
1000% agree!!! There are so many methods out there and I think all of them are unique and helpful in there own way, its whatever works best for you! Thanks for watching and always being here with me friend! Hugs 🥰
Great job ladies :)
I think you and your mom would really benefit from the no mess method of decluttering.
You talk about your bedroom sometimes. I don't know if you watch Natalie Bennett. But, she just redid her bedroom and she put these wood rectangles (for lack of better description) on her walls and I loved them. Just an idea.
Hey Danni, another great vid! Many more giggles 😃
How I wished I lived in US (for a quick minute) when you were asking your mum about the baking cutter/ scraper - I've been looking for one just like it, bc I've recently started making Sourdough bread to help with my allergies... but it's a long way from England lol 😆 Every blessing 🙌 mxxx❤
Yay! Another video!
Did you take the unopened meat thermometer Danielle? Luv and appreciate you so much too!!!💞
Girl!!! that can of fake pringles made me JUMP. lol.
Swedish Death Cleaning is amazing!!!
You 2 are so cute 😊❤️
Danni, why would you talk her into keeping the decorating stuff when she never used them? She was ready to let go of them!
I thought about that when I was editing that part, I thought maybe if I had not said "I know you're not going to let go of it" that she may have changed her mind?...LOL I know my mom so well, that I knew she wasn't going to let that go, especially because it was a gift & she did confirm with me that she wasn't going to let it go, cooking & baking stuff is really hard for her to let go of. But I shouldn't have said that, I should have went in the direction of encouraging her to maybe rethink that particular item. What might be a good idea, is to revisit that item and see if she's actually picked up cake decorating? Thanks for watching & being here with us Shirley! 🥰🥰
@@danniraearrangedI felt like she was going to dig in her heels about that one. You let her have that win and then after that she did pretty well I thought.
Hi Danni!
I think you and your Mom neeeeed to get your uncle and brother to understand that they should STOP buying stuff for your mother. Your mother needs to start saying no thanks to the items to. It´s not generous or nice of them to give her all that stuff, it is disturburbing her peace of mind and clutter up her home.
They just flood the houes with unneccesary junk and even if you declutter as fast as you can it just keeps getting full of what your uncle and brother brings there. Sure, your mom buys things to but it´s not fair that someone else distroyes her chance of getting a decluttered home.
I believe her uncle passed so her mom has some of his things...For her brother those are his childhood items that he left behind he said he didn't want.
A lot of our clutter comes from shopping on line. Recently I needed tread. I could buy one spool on Amazon for $15.00 or three spools for $33.00. Do this a few thousand times and you will find you are living in your own warehouse. We are enticed to buy more than we need, when we are giving a better price for purchasing multiples. As time goes on we forget where we put the extras or that we even have them, so we buy again, and once again the better price is for buying bulk. IT'S NOT OUR FAULT !!! AMAZON MAKES US DO IT!!! 🤪
Mama Robin!! Hello ❤️ 👋 gtsy, please keep Danni straight! 😂
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I'm so sad. Do you know why? Because I MISS you!!! Its been TOO LONG!!!! ❤️
For me I will go through things and tell myself if I have not used it in a year I get rid of it
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That chip prank made me jump. 🙄
The secret. Make decisions faster. Your mother keeps shopping and wasting money buying more.
I think the decluttering process & decision making process differs for everyone. For her some items are easier to declutter and the decision making is quicker but for other items its very difficult for her and the decision making is slower. That goes for me too. Its definitely a process, sometimes a really long process LOL And shopping is very hard for both of us, its something I think we'll always continue to work on. The main goal is to be intentional. But my mom & I, our goals are different 🥰
❤U Danni
Hello, any news on requests or anyway to contact you? Thanks
Yes, I will be posting some cleaning shorts very soon, I apologize for the delay, this bathroom is taking up all of my time LOL Im excited for when its completed ha! But im hoping to get some shorts out soon. Thanks for watching & being here with us! 🥰
@@danniraearranged it’s okay! I will happily donate
Number one method...open the door and throw it! At one time I was at that place. But really I read Dana K. White, Minimal Mom, Joshua Becker as well as Swedish Death Cleaning method I just took away from all this content and went to work. Started four years ago now my home is right where I want it. No totes whatsoever!. You do need to follow your intuition and of course you have to learn your own clutter threshold.
Can you please just do the video with your mom
Old bay spice rub is deliciousssssss