Trying on my wedding dress after 268lb weight loss

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  • fatgirlfedup#tbt to trying my wedding dress on after losing 270lbs & happy endings! My name is Lexi & when I got married I wore a size 34 dress & weighed 485lbs. Dress shopping is supposed to be something every bride enjoys, and for me it was miserable. I couldnt find anything to fit me, people were mean, and I questioned just giving up & buying a online casual dress from Lane Bryant. I always dreamed of feeling like a princess on my wedding day. Thankfully after driving 4+ hours two different times I found my dress & bought it off the rack. My dress was tight, so the fact that i'm now swimmimg in it is still so crazy to me. I felt beautiful in my wedding dress, and it was the best day of my life -- no matter what size! Find my weight loss journey on FB/Instagram at Fatgirlfedup or follow my blog at www.fatgirlfedup.com

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  • @shrinkingsnakelady
    @shrinkingsnakelady 7 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Congrats on your weight loss. You've worked hard. And I love how you saw yourself as beautiful at your heaviest weight. I don't like when people say they're before pic is ugly. So thank you for sharing the positive outlook pretty lady.

    • @Fatgirlfedup
      @Fatgirlfedup  7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed. Thank you!

    • @suejones2438
      @suejones2438 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shrinking Snake Lady “

    • @suejones2438
      @suejones2438 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fatgirlfedup d

    • @joantucker4853
      @joantucker4853 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I went from obese to a healthy size 2.... and i've kept this weight for over a decade, even with so-called "fat genes" If I can do it, you can, too!
      Here’s how ==> ForWeightLossFast2.blogspot.com

    • @eloisedaybell4822
      @eloisedaybell4822 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joan Tucker n

  • @michelleredd4756
    @michelleredd4756 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I am so glad you were able to find a beautiful wedding dress. And for the A-holes that were mean to you. The hard part was becoming involved with a man that obviously saw more than your size, and that alone is worth CELEBRATION! I have always been a size 5/6 in high school thru my 20's, and after having babies I went up to a size 7/8 in my 30's. In my 40's I required a thyroidectomy which left me cancer free, but no thyroid, thus my weight spiraled out of control, and by my early 50's I was 100 pounds heavier. My husband and I split up - and the only men I would encounter where men that thought, since I am a fat girl/woman, I have low self esteem. They wanted to mistreat me, or take my kindness for weakness. Well, at 140 lbs I had a strong and solid sense of self and at 240 pounds, still a strong sense of self. Like me - like my fat ass - don't like me - kiss my fat ass.

  • @quarteracreadventures855
    @quarteracreadventures855 7 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    If money from bigger women isn't green enough for a judgmental bridal shop, I say bring your business to elsewhere.
    Its THEIR loss.
    You looked beautiful on your wedding day, and your beautiful now.

  • @heartmommylife1900
    @heartmommylife1900 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    congratulations. I can't wait to put my wedding dress back on after I lose my weight. I was married October 2013 and my daughter was born October 2014. 4 days before my 1 year anniversary. my daughter was born with heart problems and now that she is stable and doing well I am focusing on myself. Thank you for showing me that I can do this

  • @missdaisy8737
    @missdaisy8737 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I really admire you for not waiting to lose weight first before getting married! Good for you! Why wait to be with the love of your life to be a different size, right? It's wonderful that you saw beyond and have had this journey with a wonderful man as your husband! Your wonderful and beautiful, before and now.

  • @kellydatri2566
    @kellydatri2566 7 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    What a beautiful way to commemorate such an incredible journey!!! Amazing!

    • @Fatgirlfedup
      @Fatgirlfedup  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

    • @moeenuddeengoolamhossen2934
      @moeenuddeengoolamhossen2934 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fatgirlfedup !

    • @uhavemooface
      @uhavemooface 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      You should get married again and that way you can get another wedding dress to show what you have done for yourself. This is just awesome.

    • @kwanzialpha1350
      @kwanzialpha1350 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      💝💝💝💝you gorgeous

    • @kwanzialpha1350
      @kwanzialpha1350 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      did you became shorter

  • @Mrs.Suchnso
    @Mrs.Suchnso 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been checking your instagram everyday because your posts are so motivating and uplifting. You're an inspiration on so many levels. Your dedication to overcome an obstacle is not only motivating for weight loss but really any challenge a person could face. You've done a great job and I sincerely thank you for sharing your journey with us.

  • @texuztweety
    @texuztweety 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a really sweet lady and her husband is pure gold. God bless you both!

  • @aymaneczka
    @aymaneczka 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You know how I found you? One day I decided to create an extra instagram account to keep track of my weightless journey. I came up with a name, that was already taken - fat girl fed up. :-) I am following you on insta, you are my everyday motivation and I am very proud of you. ;-) This year I am getting married, and I will be wearing size 24-26. Hopefully in one year I will be able to make similar comparison - as size 14 ;-)

  • @nativegirl9104
    @nativegirl9104 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your inspirational and I just love your positive attitude. I'm almost 300lbs and I'm struggling on where to even begin on my weight loss journey , and just watching two of your videos makes me excited to start..so thank you

  • @theresa92841
    @theresa92841 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    You are a beautiful person. And that is a beautiful dress.

  • @sammi12856
    @sammi12856 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Congratulations i'm losing weight for my wedding next year.. I made my fiance promise he won't marry me until I lose the weight.. he always tells me I'm beautiful I am but I don't see myself like that.. but way to go you really do look amazing 😊

    • @ChatiseE
      @ChatiseE 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      have you lost weight?

  • @littlehomeinthevalley
    @littlehomeinthevalley 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    In 1974, my mother got a picture of herself with her three kids (I was 4) while wearing her wedding dress. She was happy to still fit into it. I love this opposite success of NOT fitting into your gown!!

  • @RosemaryWilliams49fruits
    @RosemaryWilliams49fruits 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome

  • @lynnowen5899
    @lynnowen5899 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You were beautiful then and you are beautiful now! You inspire me so much! I am 300 pounds right now and I am so ready to transform into a healthier version of myself!

  • @deborahlindsay3979
    @deborahlindsay3979 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this video- love that you found a beautiful dress and that you felt beautiful in it. You are a great inspiration!

  • @lynnslife6410
    @lynnslife6410 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You made me cry. I work at a Bridal shop and I have been following your story on Instagram before I found you here on TH-cam. You are beautiful. Your videos are very inspiring.

  • @barbieivy
    @barbieivy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a beautiful video!! I love the way you express yourself with love ❤️ and how beautiful you see and saw yourself!! Very encouraging!! 💕

  • @momzillaskitchen813
    @momzillaskitchen813 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so inspiring! I started to document my own weight
    loss journey, it isn’t easy but it’s time to change. Thank you for sharing your
    story.

  • @animalier2949
    @animalier2949 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Those people at the wedding shops were really awful! I am sad you had to go through that abuse.

  • @chrisgrantano7855
    @chrisgrantano7855 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have inspired me to try again to get back to my weight loss goals....I love watching you!

  • @fastingbutterfly6073
    @fastingbutterfly6073 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a new sub. This is the 2nd video I have watched of yours and I am completely amazed at what you have accomplished! Watching you, Kimonica, DivaSlimsDown and MzBrooklyn Journey has given me the motivation that I need to embark on my journey to better health. I am so happy for you. You are beautiful, inside and out (before and after the weight loss).

  • @PWMS-ij5bd
    @PWMS-ij5bd 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so inspired . . . I love your positive outlook. Congratulations on reaching your weight loss goals😊

  • @nickykeightley1724
    @nickykeightley1724 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big or smaller, you are an inspiration in every way. You're so brave to have lost as much as you did. You're beautiful and so is your dress. Thank you for sharing this video. South Africa

  • @rachiti
    @rachiti 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I adore this video. What a wonderful way to celebrate your healthy lifestyle. It also totally reminds me of exactly the same thing I like to do with the clothes I used to fit into. When I go to the plus-size section & look at the size I wore even just a year ago, I'm amazed at how big those clothes are compared to what I wear now. I'm wearing clothes I bought 20 years ago in high school because they finally fit me again. It's a wonderful feeling. Congratulations on your success.

  • @louisa274
    @louisa274 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    So amazing 😍 I love that you have no regrets about your special day!

  • @meelaf6615
    @meelaf6615 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are AMAZING. You didn't make excuses. You didn't blame anyone else. You just fixed yourself. Rockstar.

  • @lindzkinz6306
    @lindzkinz6306 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're such a beautiful bride!!! On the wedding day and now. I'm glad you guys can have a happy and healthy marriage. I'm totes going to do this when I hit my goal weight! When I got alterations done, the seamstress called me fat. It was so hurtful and I left crying. So, definitely understand what you went through.

  • @diamondqueengardens8745
    @diamondqueengardens8745 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! What a great accomplishment!!! I lost about 97 pounds after I saw our wedding photos. It really brings a sense of reality after seeing how huge I was. It took me about a year as well. Since seeing your video it has inspired me to take another go at losing this 40 pounds I set as my original goal. Best of luck to you!

  • @Nancy-pv7wk
    @Nancy-pv7wk 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found your channel and love it! You are so inspiring and real!!

  • @ejwilliams2002
    @ejwilliams2002 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just recently started following you on Instagram and just happened upon you on YT. Great inspiration!!!! Thank you!! Also, that wedding dress is absolutely beautiful!!

  • @joyedmonds4148
    @joyedmonds4148 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations! U have totally inspired me! What an amazing transformation!
    I am fed up with myself and starting my journey today!
    Thanks for sharing your story, I had considered surgery, but giving myself one more chance to do this!
    God bless you!

    • @bucketthebulldog9777
      @bucketthebulldog9777 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can do it without the surgery! Its very hard but why put your body through that and a lifetime of complications when slow but steady wins the race! Wishing you strength and success!

  • @ArathiQP
    @ArathiQP 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so motivated by you! Great work lady :)

  • @beccadawson8206
    @beccadawson8206 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well done on the weight loss and congratulations on your wedding. I too had issues with the bridal shops and my mum. One shop didn't even let me in the door as they would not be able to help me. My mum said she was disappointed that I didn't lose weight for the wedding. I actually got bigger with the stress and was a UK 24. Lost weight after. My husband has never seen my size and loved me for being me x

  • @SCM1949
    @SCM1949 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations ‼️. Your attitude is Fantastic ‼️ Keep up the great work, you should be soooo proud of yourself ‼️

  • @whitneymichelle8300
    @whitneymichelle8300 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SO ENCOURAGING!!! Congratulations on your awesome achievement!

  • @gonewiththekale
    @gonewiththekale 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely mind blowing. And you are stunning btw✨ I just can't believe how much you accomplished in such a short time. Just incredible👏🏼👍🏼👍🏼💪🏼

  • @rietosee05
    @rietosee05 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's very rare that people are beautiful no matter what their size inside and out you are an exception to that rule ! Your Beautiful and strong, look what you did for your health , your fucking amazing lady . I saw your beauty before I see your beauty after ...🌟🌟👍🏾

  • @noninoni454
    @noninoni454 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u for your videos. God Bless u and Danny. I am soo happy for the both of u.

  • @katieohara3222
    @katieohara3222 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I wish you would name the stores that were not nice to you so everyone can boycott them. That dress was beautiful. I had a friend make mine, so I didn't have to go through that. I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm proud of you. Thanks for sharing. 🎆♥☺

  • @gwynethgrove772
    @gwynethgrove772 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations, lovely dress and a wonderful wedding day. So glad you have made this journey. You look great well done.

  • @raquelchampion2005
    @raquelchampion2005 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are amazing and I love your spirit. So proud of you. Congrats!!

  • @readergirl84
    @readergirl84 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so inspirational. I’m crying 😭

  • @kate.k7507
    @kate.k7507 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    your such an inspiration for me, and helps me want to keep me working hard, so i can reach my goal. thank you❤

  • @joebate3051
    @joebate3051 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being on a diet for 3 days know its not long I exercised for the first time in a long time and my legs are hurting but this had made me not want to give up thank u :)

  • @33lamorena
    @33lamorena 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg thanks for sharing your story and give me hope for my journey ♡♡♡♡

  • @sarahmartin7598
    @sarahmartin7598 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Congratulations on all your hard work, what awesome progress!! I LOVE your wedding dress, it's so beautiful! I couldn't believe it when I heard you say you got married in October of 2015 because I did too lol! I got married on October 3rd, which day did you get married on? I have my wedding dress in our spare bedroom because I'm fighting to fit back into that size right now, and I can't wait to try it back on ❤️ Great video, keep up the good work!

    • @Fatgirlfedup
      @Fatgirlfedup  7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Also October 3rd! How cool! Thank you, you can do it!

    • @corinthiawoodford920
      @corinthiawoodford920 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sarah Martin That is my birthday.

  • @ReginaCordoba
    @ReginaCordoba 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank for sharing your journey! I'm back on my weight loss journey! You are truly motivating and beautiful! God bless!

  • @slaymarie_rdh_ntraining
    @slaymarie_rdh_ntraining 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wow you've come so far!! looking good keep it up

  • @aaronmeek3985
    @aaronmeek3985 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your journey!

  • @theayegerlehner7793
    @theayegerlehner7793 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your attitude. And your husbands! He loves you as you are! And you love yourself as you are!!

  • @brknemma
    @brknemma 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so impressed by your motivation. Congratulations on your success.

  • @cynthiahawkins2389
    @cynthiahawkins2389 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good going, honey...be proud, be happy, and you are, without even trying..helping LOTS of other people who may be thinking about weight loss. They watch your video, and they're like, "Gee, she looks great, maybe. I could try and do some things to change my weight too... and look after my health.." You're an inspiration!!

  • @kimorisuto1312
    @kimorisuto1312 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This reminds me of when little girls try on their mom's dresses and swimming in them lol I think it was adorable to do this!

  • @robinc120
    @robinc120 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so very happy for you. You're truly an inspiration to me! 👍

  • @k.a5765
    @k.a5765 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad that you are not ashamed of how you used to look. Show your old pictures proudly, you came a long way.

  • @makola1970
    @makola1970 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow - you’ve worked so hard. Well done x

  • @debbienewman7923
    @debbienewman7923 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations on all your amazing accomplishments. Also thank you for the constant inspiration,

  • @lstidham11
    @lstidham11 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh, you were such a beautiful bride. i'm so glad you still love your dress and understand you were as beautiful then as now. i know you weren't healthy, but you were lovely. you and danny are a beautiful couple.

  • @supportworker1000
    @supportworker1000 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look amazing keep up the hard work . Myself I am a 24 and you inspired me to do the same . I have already lost 3.7 lbs using supermarket food and it feels good to loose weight . I look at ur Instagram every morning before I get up . You go girl .

  • @ajwriter5699
    @ajwriter5699 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's a beautiful gown. Great progress!

  • @alejandral9906
    @alejandral9906 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations, you're such an inspiration!! You look amazing 😉

  • @veemercer1698
    @veemercer1698 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wonderful video. Please think about making a baby gown from your dress for your first child's christening or naming ceremony. All the best to you both.

  • @ivylamejor
    @ivylamejor 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are awesome !! love your transformation !!!

  • @ptownsend39
    @ptownsend39 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You and your husband look great. You both have done such a great job with your weight loss, gives people like me hope that this can be accomplished.

  • @atdepaulis
    @atdepaulis 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    the dress is beautiful! you look great! congrats on the weight loss!

  • @wendymorales3923
    @wendymorales3923 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Congratulation on your weigth loss , It easier said than done !

  • @BobbieesWorld
    @BobbieesWorld 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Congratulations!!

  • @marilynsimmons2560
    @marilynsimmons2560 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your story !

  • @bigsky445
    @bigsky445 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    YOU GO GIRL!!

  • @dianecrane3419
    @dianecrane3419 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations. ..what a fantastic journey. Incredible. weight loss. You have a fantastic attitude. Bless you and your hubby. 🌻❤🌻

  • @margarettadelacervantes4769
    @margarettadelacervantes4769 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW!!! Thank you so much for being an inspiration for everybody.

  • @latoshiaclemons7264
    @latoshiaclemons7264 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    so proud of you WINK

  • @gabriellahunt8617
    @gabriellahunt8617 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So sweet and wonderful wedding photos.
    and I'm so happy too with your video

  • @wildflowerhandmadeart1750
    @wildflowerhandmadeart1750 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your weight loss is amazing. Xx

    • @Fatgirlfedup
      @Fatgirlfedup  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sharon Hughes thank you!

  • @sunshinespectrum909
    @sunshinespectrum909 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    great work girl!!

  • @hollynapier1473
    @hollynapier1473 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You go girl!! 🎉🎉

  • @karenkotick9712
    @karenkotick9712 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are awesome. Congrats! Im on my way to lose 60 pounds. You are a inspiration. God bless.

  • @missdaisy8737
    @missdaisy8737 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    People do treat people that are overweight different, it's very sad. Heartbreaking that our society is discriminative.

  • @TWestProductions
    @TWestProductions 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Lexi!!! I've been following your instagram since the beginning of your journey!!! You're such an inspiration. I would LOVE to contribute funds if you were planning on having skin removal surgery in the future!!! I know so many other people would love to do the same. You should consider setting up a go-fund me page 🙃 love your motivation and bright spirit! Keep it up 💗💗💗 Love from Nebraska!!

    • @Fatgirlfedup
      @Fatgirlfedup  7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thanks girl I appreciate the support so much! I'm still loosing but thinking i may need it for my arms later. We will see what happens!

    • @MrMeddyman
      @MrMeddyman 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hit the bench and get swole. That's what I'd do since I don't mind my women with a bit of muscle on em, but some people feel differently.
      =P

  • @robintaylor5224
    @robintaylor5224 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your attitude. Congrats!

  • @yamisazuken
    @yamisazuken 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job you guys, keep at it!!!

  • @blessingsoflife9857
    @blessingsoflife9857 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍 love to see u so happy n dancing in ur dress keep going n b fit n fab :*

  • @dresses365daysayear3
    @dresses365daysayear3 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    just found ur channel...I got married in October 2015 also ❤ my dress was 16 & felt uncomfortable...I've gained some since...seeing how much weight u have lost in such a little amount of time is so motivating...I've lost 34 in 8 weeks but still bigger than wedding day...my goal is to lose 60 more pounds 👍👍👍 u look amazing ❤❤❤

  • @conchitabuena5203
    @conchitabuena5203 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy for you, stay beautiful. I know it was hard work, But you did it ! Lots of love to you!

  • @betsycollins601
    @betsycollins601 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    It pi%%es me off that people were not nice to you when you were larger. You were always beautiful and regardless of the lovely transformation you have made, you were always a person worthy of respect, of value! People can be so shallow!

  • @nenisjourney844
    @nenisjourney844 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, congrats, you looked beautiful with high weight, and your dress is really beautiful! And your journey is really an inspiration! ❤

  • @UniqueBeautie
    @UniqueBeautie 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats Beautiful!! 💖

  • @noninoni454
    @noninoni454 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its so nice you both have each other, even when you were overweight. I know my weight is the reason I have never found anyone who loves me.

  • @carolineholloway9483
    @carolineholloway9483 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing! Congratulations!!

  • @holisticleedriven8532
    @holisticleedriven8532 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are incredible! Keep up that healthy lifestyle! ;)

  • @chandroutieram7201
    @chandroutieram7201 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    congrats on your weight loss goals

  • @mlcmdwshnjfhn4222
    @mlcmdwshnjfhn4222 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was starting to lose my weight since April 21, 2017 and its amazing how my mother and sister support me to be fit.. And as of now, I'm still in my journey to lose my weight.. And I can say that, IT'S VERY HARD😂 I did cheat but I keep telling to myself that, I need to be fit for my own sake😊from 67 kg to 61 kg now.. Well my aim is 50 kg😊 hope I can make it😊😉 Thanks for giving me another inspiration to continue my journey. Lovelots😘😊

  • @LianaSeini
    @LianaSeini 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well done to you!!👏🏼👏🏼

  • @sophiacampos9333
    @sophiacampos9333 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you with all that power you have. It is the most beautiful thing you did. 🎀❤😁

  • @xtrak3820
    @xtrak3820 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    New subbie, your dress is beautiful and so are you then and now.

  • @diamantechica5201
    @diamantechica5201 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    congrats on your journey

  • @fat2fitnerd100
    @fat2fitnerd100 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    How wonderful! You look so great!

  • @chrissy_crumbles
    @chrissy_crumbles 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What about the change in size of your wedding ring??

  • @graceythompson5528
    @graceythompson5528 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, you are so beautiful, you truly did look like a princess on you special wedding day. Great job my sister you are such an inspiration to me who is also struggling to loose some weight.