Lam Hlub Qhia Qhua~05/12/2024~
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 พ.ค. 2024
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Story description: After so many years of being married, this couple is losing the communications and bond that they used to have. So, every time they go out in public, they would paint a portrait of the perfect marriage just to save face. - บันเทิง
How sad, the fear of being a divorcee is greater than the fear of your own true happiness. Her husband knows exactly what kind of victim to pick for a wife. A submissive one who's going to continue sticking to their fake happy marriage while he cheats.
You can't complain if you're not going to take action to fix what's wrong. He continues that cheating behaviors because you let him and he knows he can. I wouldn't be able to stand him, let alone show up in public and pretend to be a loving couple.
Wow…... this is so sad.
Not sure which is worse; living with regret for not leaving or staying because fear of the unknown????
There’s only 1 life. May God give you strength to love yourself. Wishing you the best.
Cas yuav mob siab lwj siab ua luaj li os pab koj tu siab kawg niam laus
You should have divorced him before your first baby. He never loved you and you know it. He’s just using you to save his face.
Sounds like my life too. I understand how this woman’s feeling and just be there for remaining half of our 50 plus years.
Nrog koj tu siab os miv vivncaus aws tsis tsimnyog los sib tau ib zaug nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no li
Wow! Cas tseem muaj tej lub neej zoo li no thiab. Pab koj tu siab os tus vivncaus aw. Ua neej qhia qhua xwb luag lub siab tsis npuab yus ces zoo qhov nyias mus nyias xwb . You should’ve left him the first month of your marriage. You both need to stop pretending and be with someone who love you wholly. Take care of yourself, love yourself, and value your worth.
Tus niag txiv zoo li ko ces yog koj xwb os....yog kuv ces muab nws lub niag qe tsw lwj tsoo tsuag2 rau kwv tij neej tsa kom tag ces muab nws nrauj kiag mus xwb os....koj tsuas tau nws lub cev xwb koj twb tsis tau nws lub siab, nws tsuas lam yuav koj xwb os tus sister aw.....nrog koj tu siab kawg.
Wow.. ua ib zaug neeg xwb es yog vim li ca yus ho muab yus tus kheej tsim txom thiab g pom ib tug Txiv neej zoo hlub yus li.
Wow!! My heart also hurting by listening to your story sister. I am pretty sure your heart has been broken for so long and felts numbness but why stay for so long together? You should have been gone since you found out that he CHEATED on you with his x-girlfriend who’s is currently married to her husband or either you should report both of them to her husband about their relationship. This kind of behavior is unacceptable and considerings Heartless Cheater, it’s is a hurtful than you know about it!! Hope you find a healing solution soon for both of you become a meaningful loving in your old ages! Wishing you the best!! Happy Mother’s Day to you.
Tus me niam tais aw, tsis txhob dag yus Tus kheej os. Yog kuv rov dag kuv Tus kheej ma kuv yeej tsis muaj kev kaj siab kiag li. Thov qhuas koj Tus txiv neb txog kev sib hlub cuav. Koj keej kawg thiaj li ua tau li ko.
Aww sister don’t be sad, slowly move on
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Emotional cheating is way worse than physical cheating. When it comes to emotional cheating, you know his heart belongs to someone else, verses physical where he's just having sex with that person but has no intimate connection to that person. I can never be with someone whose heart belongs to someone else, it doesn't matter how old I am. I would rather be alone than to suffer for the next 10-20 years.
Tsis xum ua lub neej qhia qhua
Mab vaj cas neb daim duab yuav phim zaj neej neeg lub title kawg ha ha
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Sorry to hear that about your husband’s attitude. You wasted your life with this guy. You are a patient very person. May God blessed you.
Zoo kawg o kab lias, ua tsaug
Koj tsis nco qab hlub koj tus kheej lawm xwb, nco ntsoov hlub koj tus kheej.
Sister I feel you soon I will take your path too.😢
I’m sure half of the population lives in this lifestyle. Lol
So be it.
Muaj tej zaj li no thiab los ua neej qhia qhua li no na!!!
Yog kawg mam sister aw tiam no ces peb ib co niam txiv ces ua lub neej qhia qhua xwb, txoj kev sis hlub twb tsis muaj lawm os. Lub neej ces tsis xav muab qhuav vim tej me tub me nyuam thiab vim qhov vim es thiaj lam nyob tuav lub neej .
Nrog koj tu siab kawg pom daim duab xwb txhob ntshaw os lub neej tseeb yeej tsis zoo li daim duab.
Tu siab kawg
Lab koj tu siab kawg os niam laus. Lam nyob os mog. Kuv Lo’s ua poj nrauj 50 tawm xyoo los yeej tsis zoo thiab os.
Hom niag txiv dev siab lim hiam coj li no, txhob kim Koj lub sijhawm ua neej nrog, tus txiv neej coj coj siab zoo muaj coob os, ntxov nrauj ntxov kaj siab
Stop complaining and divorce him already 🙄. Fake love is not what you need. If you are not happy you could have leave when you are still young. Since you can't leave, you must love it like that too. It is 2024 and you are still stuck with him.
Wow idk how you can live that kind of life
tus niam tsev no hais yog kawg
Wow neb mas thiaj li yog ua cavlwj sibib thiag li os.., what kinds of love you both have in your marriage?
Things are not always what they appear to be. No matter how good or bad your current situation is in life, it’s not permanent.
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Whatever you believe or want people to believe…at the end of the day what is real is the truth and only you will have to face it…in every fake situation
This is a very sad story 😢
Txhob quaj ntsej txog nws lub siab ...kav tsij txaus Siab rau nws tes haujlwm uas nws kgwv Los pab koj xwb nawb lo..
I believe that u should do what makes you happy. I believe that if u are in a relationship where u play by his rules and u accept to be align with his rules, u are wasting ur life away. If that is not the type of relationship that u want, u do not need to bow down to his level. And u do not need to follow his rules to make him happy while u are suffering and hurting emotionally. Just leave him if that is not the marriage u want to continue to have for the rest of ur life. Dont waste your time on him anymore. Go after what makes u happy. There are plenty of men who can give u the marriage u want. If u dont leave, he will continue to take advantage of u and hurt u emotionally. Take all the money u can get without letting him know…and leave happily. U deserve to be love, respected, loyal, and with care sister. ❤ Take ur suffering as a gift and strength that u deserved to be treated well like how u would do to ur man too. Dont settle for living in denial. Acknowledge it and move forward with ur life.
That is one sad story. Fake love
Mi Viv ncaus aw koj ces tseem muaj qhov sib hlub qhia qhua os kuv ces hauv tsev los tsis sib puab tawm rooj los luag twb Tsai tsam ho muaj neeg puab tia yus yog luag tus poj niam no os tos yus paub ces luag twb mus los lawm xwb tos yus puab ces tej Viv ncaus nhug tiascas peb muaj lino lino es koj ho tsis tuaj koom peb es ho pom koj tus yawm xwb no rau yus xwb
Es tsis xav nyob los laus2 lawm es mus los tsis muaj dab tsi zoo lawm es lam nyob xwb os
Wow! Most couples maybe faking their love for each other! At least my life is not perfect romantic but it’s not fake love 💗
Qhov solution ces koj yuav tsum tham kom tau ib tug hluas nraug ib yam li koj tus txiv niaj hnub ua rau koj no mas thiaj tsim nyog sib pauj tiag tiag.
Qub dev qub ntxhia,,
Vim koj cia nws siv tau koj lawm ne! Koj tau nws lub cev hos lawv tau nws lub siab! Li cas los koj twb tau nws lub cev tau ntau xyoo heev lawm ces zoo siab rau yam koj twb tau lawm xwb mas..😊
That slap should’ve told you that you were his rebound….kowtowing for his face only.
Thaum nws khawm koj ti ti ces nws twb xav ntsoov hauv nws lub plawv thiab mws lub hlwb yeej xav hais tias yog nws tus hluas nkauj no xwb os nawb me ntxhais aw. Txawm li Cas Los twb us neej neej Los laus tag lawm tej me tub me ntxhais twb tiav hlsub tiav ces tag lawm lawm ces tsuav yus muss ua tau li yus lub siab lawm thoab ces lam ua neej rau tej me nyuam os mog nws Los yeej muss this taus lawm thiab os
❤hi
Poj ruam aw!!! Koj thiaj nyob xwb os. Lawm nyob xwb twb tsis tau siab es zoo dab tsis os . Muab nws pov tseg kiag xwb. Mam mus nrhiav tus hlub hauv lub siab tuaj thiaj tsim nyog os. Mob tsis tau txaus koj xwb os. Ruam dhau lawm os.
Sister I would have not stayed this long with him. He doesn't love you. Hope you find the courage to leave him. Love yourself enough to leave.
That's just a sad, miserable, loveless life.
Life is too short...sis!
Is me I run when early so upset when I listen it
Wow, 40 years of fake love. No thanks. You wasted your life with a man that doesn’t love you. He has a wife and a girlfriend, every man’s dream. What do you have? Misery, because you chose it. Deep down you still love him and hanging onto hopes that his heart will return to you but you are only lying to yourself. You are basically alone in your “marriage” so it doesn’t matter if you stay or leave him. 🤦♀️
Twb paub twb mag npuaj thaum pib thaum ntxov los koj twb tseem nyob qees txog tav no ces tsis thas yws yws mas nawb
Ib tug txiv siab phem npaum ko cas tseem yuav txuag nws lub niag ntsej muag dev ko thiab na sister aw muab nws rhuav kom ti ntsa nkaus es cia seb nws ho puas muaj peev xwm rov mus yuav nws tysqub hluas nkauj mas.
I don't know why you even marry him after he slap you. You should already know you will always come second.
Cas tej cov niag lus qab zib no ua rau kuv xob ib ce ua luaj ne
Nkawd ces niag zaus sib cuag sib deev tabsis Koj tsis paub xwb.
Cas ruam luaj na nws niag pog ham tsis tuaj cuag nws as
Koj tus txiv tsis mus cuag nws tiam sis tej zaum nws twb tuaj cuag koj tus txiv lawm os
omg, lady, when you wake up from your dream; leave him and never turn back! He doesn't even love you! idky you would birth kids for a man who has another woman in his heart, mind, home and office!!!!!
Ntuj aw koj niag txiv deev Liam ko es Cas nim nco nco nws niag qub hluas nkauj Cas koj tsis kom nws mus muab nqos ib tog zus mus kom nkag kom tag nrho rau koj niag txiv xuab lwj liam thiaj li coj zoo hlub koj fwm koj los mas niag txiv siab phem niag qub hluas nkauj xwb Cas yuav cuag yawg vwm.
Smh...this lady...tsis paub xyov yuav qhuas koj los yuav cem koj ruam.
Omg what a life wasted! Why the hell would you fake and put up with his crap for so long? Some people are unbelievable and willing to live in a fantasy. You still love him that’s why you never left him and never find someone else to replace him.
It's OK to divorce and find your happiness.
He doesn’t see your worth, so why are u sticking by him? The other lady is his life. You are his rebound. Please love yourself.
I dont get these people! If you're still stuck in the past. Just stay single, so annoying. Smh
Lady..you're not 5 years old. You allowed him to do whatever he wants and you still stay with him. It's your fault..no one hold you hostage.
Wow, you win the dumbest award of the year. Lady, you are not in love with him either. You are as obsessed with him as he is with her. You said so yourself. He's handsome etc etc. No person in their right mind would allow this kind of misery for 40+ years. All I got from your story were excuses.
If you're not happy in a marriage, get out. You're making excuses for your staying. You love him, but he loves her. Just admitted, you can let go of the picture perfect life either.
Who wants to live like this?? Makes no sense!!! You only have 20-30 years left so you give up and live a miserable fake life with a cheating man?? Wouldn’t it make more sense to want to live your life to the max being happy?? You STILL have 20-30 years left so live it up! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I don't feel bad for his wife she shouldn't have left from the start. Instead, she stay a man who still had their ex pictures up and will never be faithful.
Sister, y would u stay in that marriage, when u already know that ur husband doesn’t love u?? U deserve better & u need to love urself & respect urself. U don’t need a man in ur life to be happy. Get rid of that loser!! Let him go be with his lover that he can’t let go. I don’t know how u can still live in the same house with him, knowing u are not the woman he loves??
Sister, you should’ve divorce him took every penny alimony support in just travel and enjoy your life. You didn’t have to stay.
Nope…he already slapped you in the face…so there’s no point of married to him but go live on your own without living with parent. Hmoob hlwb 75 ces pheej kom koj rov qab xwb…ntsia neej yeej tsis kawg li os. Khiav mus yuav lwmtus xwb zoo dua yuav tus uas twb muab koj ntau lawm. Neej ntse ces tsis yuav tus txivneej siab phem li ntawd. Neeg ruam thiaj pheej xav nyob nrog tus txiv uas tsis hlub koj xwb os.
so your husband is almost perfect. If he was able to let go of the pictures and chatting with his ex he will be a perfect man. Hope you are able to forgive him and still love him. You should of loved him more and make him forget his ex. sounds like you make things harder for him and even doing things to get back at him.
What is the meaning of qhia qhua?
I would not. Why are you proud to be in a relationship that is so fake. Divorce him and live your best life Jesus people have some common sense.
What's your point? You know he doesn't truly love you, but you don't want to leave him. So what?
You have a choice as a full grown adult to leave your cheating husband but chose to stayed to fake it. You allowed it so don’t feel sorry for you.
What a depressing life to live!
Sister, you should have not go through with the wedding. First impression is very important and show who he really is. You were not important to him that is why he hits you. He is an @$$ and a narcissist. You can still divorce him!! Do not be afraid to be a divorcee!!! Love, respect, take care and put yourself first!
What a sad life you lived. How did you let a man do that to you.
What a waste of your life, still stayed with him and living a "fake" life like he wants you to.
Vwm. Pom quab ya tsis pom quab tsaw, leej twg txiav tsis pub kom koj tsis mus pom quab tswas? So stupid remarks. Getting married is a life time commitment, why using the excuse that you didn't know his home before the marriage. If your own fault rushing into the marriage without truth. So you should not now complain.
Koj mas cas yuav mus ruam thiab ntshaw koj niag txiv dev ko ua luaj!!! Thaum nws ntau koj xwb muab nws nrauj kiag mus!!! Koj paub tsawg txog txij nkawv sib tham thiab text hauv phone ces nkawv yeej mus pw ua ke tas lawm los mas.
Married for benefit only???
Why do you come share your story when you haven't done anything to solve your problem? If you want to stay in a miserable marriage then that's your choice. Don't come here to complain about your situation when you're not doing anything about it.
This's emotional cheating, which is not right
KavLiam lawm tsis hlub yus ces txog nws caij zaum laub txhob thaub thiab txhob nraws mov nws noj xwb masw
Why pretending? Why don't you have one guy on the side just like him. You are way below level 21st century. You need to upgrade yourself woman.
What s waste of a life
Your husband so fake outside the home
I don't see the purpose of your story. Living a lie? It's pointless to tell if you're not going to change
So sad
Nrug koj tu sab tas tau Cev tsis tau nwg lub sab. Nwg hlub koj ntawm dlaim taab tabsis hlub tug ntawv ti txhaa nkaus. Thaum pib tsis tau ua tshoob twb ntaus koj vim koj. Muab nwg nplooj sab cov dluab pov tseg lawm es Caag tsis txhob yuav. Has le caag los twb Ua neej laug le nuav lawm tes laam Nyob kom taag tam nuav es lwm tam muaj tag tes txhob ntsib lawm.
Ua neej nyob tau Cev tsis tau sab mas tu sab tshaaj. Tsaug Leej twg tug ntawv txha paub tas mob sab npaum Caag.
Ntuj aw...cas koj yuav siab ntev ua luaj li os..kuv mas mloog ces npau taws dhau...cas koj yuav pauj tsid tau kua zaub ntsuab ib qho me me li os..Sister aw...kav tsij mus Tham lwm tus mas..cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj li os.m
Ntuj aw...cas koj yuav siab ntev ua luaj li os..kuv mas mloog ces npau taws dhau...cas koj yuav pauj tsid tau kua zaub ntsuab ib qho me me li os..Sister aw...kav tsij mus Tham lwm tus mas..cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj li os.m