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From about the age of 8, all I ever wanted to do was go to America and especially New York. I made it to the big apple 20 years ago and although I'd built it up so much, it did not disappoint at all. I was walking around in a daze. I haven't returned there yet but I definitely will. I do think it is the greatest city in the world.
I spent a week in Manhattan with my girlfriend in 2016 - bothof us middle-aged, from genteel Hampshire in England, staying in a Hotel in Seaport. We had a tremendous time, but a few culture-shocky things stood out. The sheer amount of street-food vendors and the ever-present smell of cooking food, particularly the pungent odour of roasted nuts, was one of them. Aother thing was the general sense of hustle and tension in the air, even agression. One one occasion, we rode the Subway in a very crowded carriage, where everyone was crushed shoulder-to-shoulder, and it triggered a woman next to me to turn and shout at me as if I were intending to push into her for some nefarious purpose when it was clear no-one could help coming into bodily contact with others because of the crush. I dunno, maybe she had suffered siome sort of assault in the past which sensitised her to the situation. On the same journey, two guys close by started arguing about one of their rather bulky back-packs. On another day, we were in a hurry to get to the Rockefeller Tower for a pre-appointed guided tour time and my partner, only five feet one inch tall, as we turned a corner, accidentally bumped into a burly six-foot something guy who turned and cussed her out: "Watch where you're going, bitch!" She was quite upset for some time afterwards. It's like New Yorkers have taking offence on a hair trigger all the time. Oh, yes, the other thing that stuck out was every lamp post or traffic light stand and similar street furniture was plastered with fly-posted stickers; the city's street-cleaning services obviously weren't briefed to get rid of them. What an unsightly mess. The following year, we vacationed in Venice, Italy. We couldn't possibly have chosen a city of greater contrasts. Talk about chalk and cheese. Or should that be chalk and cheeseburger with fries?
I’ve been to the city twice, both times in my 20s back in the roaring 1980s when Times Square was a dangerous adventure. I loved it - it was just my speed! 😂 Ahhh the museums, the fabric district, Chinatown, a meal at an old Italian restaurant, even the stinky subway. Even met Candice Bergen and Louis Malle at the Met waiting in line for an exhibit. ❤ But I knew it would only be fun to live there if I had money. Anyway, I’d like to visit again, but more time in the boroughs. PS Really enjoyed your conversation!!
Lived there for 11 years, three different time periods. I love how it’s always changing with the buildings but then it also makes me sad. Love how people come to live here from all over the world. It doesn’t really feel American. It’s so special.
Lived in the us for a while outside LA, visited a few states, loved NYC, I’m ashamed to say I wouldn’t visit at the moment, there seems to be a lot of issues,I’m not comfortable with. Homeless and crime. Very sad, it’s an amazing city, I just loved the vibe.
Lived in NYC for 6 years; NYC is America's hustle culture on steriods. Loved living there but got burnt of from the work culture and trying to keep up with the sky high rent and moved to Chicago (aka NYC lite). After COVID finally decided to move out of the US entirely to digital nomad and move to Europe (most likely Spain) for a higher quality of life, safety and overall peace of mind.
What do these Hustle Culture Americans / New Yorker's do then? Or what is on their schedule? Their job + commute? How many hours does that regular 9to5 administrative assistant work in NYC? And then what else is on the schedule?
I tell this story a lot. I had some NYC lawyer friends visit me in Bangkok for a couple of weeks in 2018. At the end of their stay her husband made the unsolicited comment, “I’ve been here 2 weeks and I haven’t heard anyone yelling at anyone else!”
My word of advice is get out of New York fast. There are alot better states to live in. New York is currently a sanctuary city where illegals are getting free stuff including housing while US citizens work their butts off . New York became lax on law enforcement. You will not see that in conservative states except where Democrats have control of cities. New York is very expensive where it cost $4000+ for a small apartment. Other states it is like $1000 for a large Apartment.
I’ve lived in the UK, Spain and France, and one thing that I’ve learned in my life is that there’s no such thing as “European” culture. There are instead many cultures, just as there are in the US, and big city culture will always differ from small city or town culture wherever you go. (Some of your descriptions of NYC - like the rushing, the pushing, the lack of casual conversation between strangers, the honking and sirens, could describe my daily life in Paris to a T.)
Exactly my thoughts. Come back to the US and pick the craziest, most expensive city to do your interview. I really dislike southern culture.. It’s a nice place to vacation but I could never live there. To each their own I suppose.
Yep, I'm European and I couldn't agree more. I live in rural Czechia, it's a hilly and foresty countryside with a village every 3 kilometres and helpful and quite chatty people. There's a huge difference from, say, rural Latvia where you often have just kilometres and kilometres of flat pine forests and no house in sight, and the people you ocassionally meet are patient and quietly going about their business. (Read: a densely populated Central European Catholic region vs. a sparsely populated Northern European Protestant region.)
i don't agree completely - there are ceratain behaviours, attitudes, foods, cultural background, stuff that you are familiar with that are more common and for people easier to bond with each other. UK is a bad example here as they are exception in pretty much any topic, they and Ireland are sitting in more of a anglosphare bubble
I’m with you Kristin-give me slow European culture & great food any day over fast American culture & bad food that’s making the health care industry #1. I survived NYC 1yr at 25yo & never again!
I agree, US food is very hit and miss like all countries, but, the produce is poor quality compared to us over the pond, our food standards and regulations ban a lot of the stuff the US allows. I do believe that impacts the health of poor citizens of the US. You all deserve so much better.
A big lesson for me after traveling quite a bit is that every country has good and bad parts. What really makes a difference to your experience is (first) your attitude going into it and (second) the people you surround yourself with. People are everything. Bonus if you have friends in those countries because your fun there will multiply.
Absolutely! Your insight is spot on, Alexia. Approaching travel with a positive attitude and an open mind can greatly enhance your experience in any country. Thanks for sharing your valuable perspective! 😊
Always badmouthing US really does not help. Don't you dare to come to this "godforsaken" country named USA, if everything about it is sooooooop baaaaaad! Just surrender your US passport and go away for good. US will be better off without your kind of people !! Happy 4th of July USA!!
As a European/British person visiting New York, it’s the most incredible city in the world. Maybe as a tourist, one is able to step back & avoid the wild whirlwind of everyday New Yorker life. Also due to the fact American/New York culture is so popular, it feels like you’ve stepped into a movie set, which is a surreal feeling. Granted, there is definitely a faster pace of life, but that can be said of any large major city. The few times I have holidayed in New York, the vast majority of people have been charming & helpful. There is certainly a slower pace of life in most parts of the UK too. But I’ve found people are people wherever you go in the world, and most are happy to help & guide visitors.
Variety is the spice of life, especially when experiencing new & different cultures. Keep up the good work, your content is very entertaining and informative.
There are lots of small towns and states in the USA that are slow paced. It’s mostly the big cities that are fast paced. I’m born and raised in Nyc and it’s been bad i wanna leave.
New York’s the center of the world not just because of the United Nations but also because it’s the biggest city in the most powerful country in the world and you have so many choices in virtually everything that’s it’s absolutely amazing!
I'm from Manhattan NYC originally. Been living in NorCal for almost 40 years. Sounds like not much has changed. Don't miss NYC at all! I remember coming back from a vacation in Scotland decades ago and feeling that culture shock then. The noise, pollution and hustle and bustle really struck me. Thanks for the video!
@marycarver1542 ok that kinda a over shot its not that bad as it was nyc got better Tho i now tourist dont care but for people who come from nj to work here that is a lot of people btw we dont care adout anything but 1 thing our mass trainst and oh you dare mess with it
You pretty much covered it, however ..I lived in NY for 30yrs till I moved to Newcastle upon Tyne in England, and what always upsets me is How dirty and greasy NY is, whenever I go back I never feel clean, it is like the air itself is grubby, the underground is filthy also, and the food, don't get me started, I recently learned about all the garbage that is injected into America's food, it all looks twice as big and perfect but tastes of nothing, I very rarely return home now as my family would.much rather come to the UK and visit me which suits me down to the ground, to be honest I wish they would live here with me and see how life should be lived, and how real genuine relationships can be forged without all the time constraints and hassle and bustle, Americans talk the talk about freedom, but it is only when you leave you realise what true freedom is
@@TravelingwithKristin I could see that you didn't want to be to disrespectful infront of your friend, expecially as it is her home state, granted I have not been back since covid began so maybe they cleaned it up since then but compared with London which has buildings almost 1000yrs older the grime and flakey paint all over is just depressing especially considering how proud of it all newyorkers are
@andymac900 How do you like Newcastle's Metro, haha? People moan about it, but have never seen the NY subway. I am looking forward to the new trains (I am such a dork). We moved from the Southern Tier of NY to South Shields 5 years ago. We're heading to the Stand to watch Danny Bhoy tomorrow night. I absolutely LOVE it here.
@@michellemaine2719 hi, to be honest, I love the metro it is so clean and reliable (however someone had chest problems and an ambulance was called, so we were a bit late last time) but what a great service. We were at south shields last week strangely enough
I am Swiss living in US for 2 decades. I don’t have the culture shock phenomena , but I guess because I frequently traveling between both continents.. I can quickly switch my mind between countries.
I once walked from 14th Street to Times Square. I was tired when I got there. Times Square was so overwhelmingly noisy it was oppressive! I lived in Staten Island near the VNZ Bridge & Expressway. The police were constantly chasing speeders up & down the Expressway! There were two fire houses, a hospital and a motor cycle club nearby. Sometimes the noise scared me and my cats! We would all jump! I recently moved to a small town in Eastern Pennsylvania and it is SO QUIET!
I’m from London and have been to NYC four times. I’ve loved it every time. Ive also been to Boston and Vegas but NY is my favourite. I can’t wait to go back but I would never ever move to the states because of how employees are treated.
I moved from NYC to my native country of Colombia a few days ago(after being there for 22 years), so this video is not only perfect for me, I also happen to agree with everything Kristin feels! I’m thrilled to be back.
Yes my family is from Colombia and my daughter wants to move there. She loves it. My moms friend just moved back to Colombia after retirement. She just can’t afford this place. In Colombia they have a huge multi family house. Everyone has their own floor. Her rent is only $300 monthly. She’s happy.
I live in Scotland but lived in London for 10yr. I would never return to live in a big city. I did return to London in May for a few days, i enjoyed the visit but...wow...the air quality, the noise etc 😢 The population of Scotland is Approximately 5 million, so lots of space to fill your lungs with fresh air😊😊
@@TravelingwithKristin The cities are all interesting in their own way and anywhere on the west coast is gorgeous - you can't go wrong anywhere in Scotland (biased opinion)
@@TravelingwithKristin look at the west coast, very easily accessible, from Loch Lomond all the way through the highlands. If you go to Glasgow you can take a one day tour bus that takes you up to best sights for approx £75, the tour guides are very entertaining. My favourite is loch long.
That's a quite unfair comparison comparing a huge city with the whole of Scotland your comparing apples with oranges....maybe a more fair comparison would be comparing London with Glasgow?
Being pushed...that hustle vibe "me-me-me" was ONE of the reasons I wanted to turn around and go back to the UK...and I was at Phila Intern'l!!! I'm still considering moving back to PA, (Phila born, raised in the suburbs) I miss the (REAL) cheesesteaks man! That's "Americana" to me!👍🏻😄 As far as food quality, UK is better; not as sugary. Someone pointed out that obesity was not an issue where I lived (East End and Surrey) in comparison to here in the US. Great content as usual!👍🏻
Originally from Philly but lived in NYC for 5 years. Philly is a big city with a small(er) town vibe and closer knit people. You can “breathe” there. All my PA friends who moved to Manhattan ended up missing home and eventually moved back.
This conversation you two had is VERY interesting! SO many fascinating observations! I confess, however, that I have never been to NY, and I would probably not care for so many people around me all the time: I need my alone time, on a regular basis. However, for those who love NY, I can understand the attraction. Just not for me, I think. Thank you, Kristin, for yet another great presentation!
Nyc can be really calm its just on certian days because a big part is its nj people that just want to get home safe after work that is the rush but there is no rush in the tourist area you can sit in time sqaure at rush hour and be fine once you get into pensation or around 34th street that because everyone want to go home after work
You said it “work-life balance” in the US is a little out of whack. It is worn as a badge of honor to the point that people will look at you funny if you are not super busy, like you don’t work hard enough.
You know, I think this is the reason USans over-complicate the food. Simple with few ingredients = poor (and man, they are scared to be or seem poor); 10 min. preparations means you have not worked enough to get the dish done :)
@@TravelingwithKristin agree Kristen, after living there many years ago, I still have the same ethics and always super busy and focussed it drives other colleagues mad, I expect the same commitment from them as I give to the job.
But what do these busy people do? How many hours does that average 3 year college educated person work per week? The average 9to5 administrative or customer service assistant? What is so "hustle" about it? Where is the ambition - goal oriented part for the business?
@@Plan73 Isn't like post-materialism or neo-humbleness in the realm of decluttering/simplifying/minimalism on the rise? As these lifestyles would not indicate poor, but simple and humble?
So true NYC IS NOT typical, as an ex-New Yorker, we move, talk and think FAST! And their is a toughness shield. BUT AS SHE SAID, FOLKS will help if you don't seem CRAZY they may insult you while helping LOL (recent meme) Our food is CHOSEN for shelf life-BEFORE FLAVOR or NUTRITION.
Things definitely move fast there! There's a hurried, rushed energy in the air. I'll have to look up that meme, lol. I would believe that shelf life is more important than flavor or nutrition. You can tell!
Yes, people need to keep in mind that the US has 330 million people to feed...so it’s quantity over quality unfortunately. We also have the best food (if you have the money). I lived in NYC for 5 years-most smart, helpful people I’ve ever worked/lived with. Also, on the meme you mentioned: the west coast personality is nice but not kind, the east coast personality is kind but not nice 😂 I’ll take kind any day...
@@ImOk... Europe as around double the people of the US, but we have better infrastructure, and transport and you don't need to be a millionaire to eat great food either, and health care is for everyone.
Living in the UK I am proud not to see the Union Jack everywhere, seeing flags from around the world flying all over the place really is the proof of harmony.
I grew up/lived in NYC (Richmond Hill, Queens) until 24. Now 60, I live in San Jose. I have culture shock every time I go back to NYC to visit for work or family. I love the diversity, the energy and I feel alive walking (lots of walking) the neighborhoods, and the city (Manhattan). Great museums and shoppers paradise. Out here in San Jose and in many cities in USA (car culture) we do not do much if any walking or public transit. One thing is when you get there as you mentioned the rush to get off the plane, to crowd the luggage carousel, to not miss the train or get the taxi from airport. We step back and let them go by but then we move about at a more relaxed pace. We have met people during our stays on the train, in Central park that stop and talk with us to ask directions or small talk and surprise - they were from California too and thought we were New Yorkers! Like you said in the video, I know from growing up there we minded our own business but if you needed a hand or were lost or car stuck in the snow the neighbors came to the rescue ASAP. I chalk it up to living in a big city. Out here if you go to a shop and say what is good today they talk with you and make recommendations, etc. In NYC (Manhattan) I showed my wife.. I asked Good morning, what bagels are good, the man waved his hand for me to move aside and said NEXT! My wife was in shock - how rude! (she grew up in California) Same thing if you ask for service at big department store they look at you like REALLY? - I have 20 customers in line here, etc. They are too busy to help, you have to help yourself or forget it. That said it is a great place to visit and outside the city has great beaches, the mountains, etc You can really have a full and varied vacation. Coming back home, even though the area is beautiful and I live in a "city" it feels like a blah suburb where you have to drive everywhere.
The one that got me when I got off at Newark Liberty was the huge proliferation of flags. We generally don't bother with flags all over the place in the UK. For the most part, we don't need to show how 'patriotic' we are.
@@TravelingwithKristin i become more confuse which one to choose between Singapore or America? which have better system. In Singapore there in no freedom but the country it less crime
The us flag in the us holds a lot more then just being patriotic we lower it at half staff for specical events we cover the caskets or people in a flag when they made the Ultimate Sacrifice to serve this contry every one in american will say its bad here but dont realize all the freedom we have here the flag unties us all
My biggest shock is mainly how backwards the US is the second when you land. The jetway from the plane is usually a closed tube, whereas most EU airports, these are made out of glass. Once in the airport, all looks old and the areas where you go through lines are always temporarily set up even though these have been there for years. The immigration parts also are like old school. No facial recognition and automation. Once you go out of the airport and you are in a city with public transport, the transport system is so old and dirty that you think you are back like 50 years. The infrastructure is so out of date and falling apart and that is especially true for New York. All is just patched up to make/keep it work, no money spent to make it new.
I agree. I was just in the San Francisco Bay Area and have been to NYC many times. I lived in Bangkok for 6 years. The train system, airports, and public transportation in BKK, in general, is superb.
I have gone to NYC 1-2 times a year for the last 17 years for business. What a vibrant yet soulless city. It is amazing & overwhelming in its culture, art and commerce. But you can walk the streets for an entire day without a single person looking you in the eye, seriously! Everybody is into their own thing. Can’t wait to leave every time I go there.
Love New York. If you talk to people, they'll talk to you. Smile and they'll smile back. I'm from Northern England and they are friendlier than the South of England.
@@TravelingwithKristinI have to disagree with the human connection part. For all it's fault people connect and will hold you down( meaning look out for you)
I visited NYC one time. It was most certainly an experience lol. Fast paced, everyone in their phones, rushing, cars honking left to right, and just go-go-go. Still had a good time but I know I couldn't live there. Right now, my focus is peace of mind, culture, serenity, and where I will get the most bang for my buck. Which is why I am researching Spain and Portugal as mentioned in another post.
Adjust you expectations when you visit NYC and you'll enjoy your stay here. You can do and see things here you can't anywhere else. We have a different culture too. Sure, it used to be brutal here in the 70's and 80's but now it's pretty safe if you have wits and there's no end to the fun you can have here. Best advice I can give is to make friends with the locals. You'll get the best tips and tricks to enjoying your stay. At least half of NY'ers are from somewhere else. The city embraces everyone. That's the charm.
I very much enjoyed this interesting discussion. The best strawberries I have had was in Belgium-small but very flavorful. Trader Joe's in Manhattan offers some good value, which I think is better than Whole Foods and far better than Fairway. Cook for oneself is far better than eating out. Manhattan is unique (the fast pace never bothers me) and the rest of the country does seem to be slower. In terms of Europe, I actually prefer countries that are not main tourist destinations. I like Estonia a lot-very friendly people and beautiful landscape. Croatia is also very beautiful and much cheaper too.
Thanks Thomas! Interesting tip about Belgian strawberries... I'll make sure to try them sometime. In the UK, look for "wonky strawberries" at Aldi - they taste delicious. I love Estonia as well! An underrated place
@@TravelingwithKristin Thank you for the "wonky strawberry" reference, Kristin! I will be in Bath, England, next month and will definitely look for them.:) Aldi is a great chain and I used to frequent there when I lived in Germany.
Traders Joe is owned by Aldi North (while ALDI in the US is Aldi South). Both goes back to brothers who split up due to a fight about something and had split Germany in two markets, one for the North, one for the South. Now they are still different companies with a different management but they also cooperate on strategies. And one is that they split the global market. In one country is Aldi South, in another Aldi North. You dont have both. Traders Joe in the US has another concept than ALDI (but both are based on efficiency of the underlaying structures). Aldi is btw. the abbreviation of ALbrecht (family name of those brothers) and Diskont (due to being very inexpensive) = AL + DI = ALDI ... a bit similar to Adidas. Also a German brand. One brother with the name Adi Dassler (= AdiDas) who also had trouble with another who then created its own company: Puma ...
Growing up in London and as I got into late teens and 20s, I realised how great London is. But NY was really the only other place I thought could give London a run for its money. Ive still not been to NY. But I hope to get there this year
That's wonderful to hear, Danellis! Both London and New York City are vibrant and dynamic cities with their own unique charms. I'm sure your visit will be an exciting experience. Enjoy your trip to New York soon! 😊
You can´t compare USA with Europe, since USA is one country and one culture basicaly, while Europe are many different countries, with different languages, different cultures, and different ways of living (specialy comparing north to south).Of course we have many things in common in Europe, but as said before, also many differences. You can get a culture shock just moving from one country to another inside Europe. I live in Spain, and we are mostly focused on enjoying life (we work to live, while in other countries, people tend to live to work). Interesting vid, tks for sharing.
I don't agree with one culture in the US. It is very different for each region. New York is different from Tennessee. Louisiana is different from Tennessee and New York. People in the big cities for the most part don't care about the others around them. In the more rural towns and small areas, the people care for one another. In the south it is called southern hospital. Country star Tracy Bird sung, I'm from the country and i like it that way. Also add in the fact that many migrants and illegal immigrants come into the US and don't want to learn our culture or our language.
I recently flew into JFK from 2 weeks in the south of France and Italy.... Europe was amazing! Great TASTING FRESH food, infrastructure is well thought out, beautiful, Modern and ancient at the same time. You WALK & TRAIN everywhere - NO CARS NEEDED. 2 weeks of pure joy!!!! AND THEN.... Coming home to NYC.... JFK was like Uganda 1992 - it was a mess. Passport check looked 3rd world, they alerted people of THE APP to get to a shorter line which led to a scramble, then THEY pushed you right outside into the street - so many cars, cops, yelling, pollution, NO organization, just a smelly mess. JFK was a DUMP. Welcome to MERCA NYC... every day must be garbage there, and the amount of homeless and violence is a sign we are rolling DOWN HILL FAST!
Ok sow to not pop your bubble here 1 i am a native nj person here sow i now what i am talking adout 20 years born and raised here bin to nyc a lot of times work there and bin homeless in that city Btw i am talking adout the five boroughs of New York City if you dont now look it up i am not talking adout new york state agina google it i am not exp it To live here its all adout rent rent and rent btw i find it stupid to live in nyc any ways 1 you need to find a jod that can mange you to live there btw this is really hard to pull off sow what most people do is they all live in nj and take the train to come to nyc to work and then go back home because rent here were i used to live in somerville nj 2k usd 1 block away from the train sation to get to nyc wich is a lot more cost better you can live still
@@peterfus926 sorry to hear you were homeless…hope things are better for you now…cannot think of anything much worse than not having somewhere to be safe….
It is always interesting to see how there are many differences between the US and Europe (or anywhere overseas). After I return home from a big trip overseas, I always find myself noting different things which could be improved on here in the US. I can definitely agree that people tend to have more of the "hustle and bustle" lifestyle here especially in the big cities compared to anywhere else.
The “busy” thing is definitely an American trait. A lot of these culture shocks you’ve discussed have been distinctly NYC (or traits of big cities) but living in rural VT we definitely have a problem with being too busy. Figuring out when my friends and I can see each other always seems to be difficult!
@@nenaj1 It's not about the pace of the city. Almost all Americans have this need to constantly prove themselves through hard work and being overly busy and productive. It's a country of neurotics.
Maybe it's the chasing the American dream thing I think countries in europe(im not going to say europeans because even that varies)have a more relaxed work/life balance?....maybe people in european countries work to live and in the USA people live to work?
The really good thing about NYC is that if you accept it, it will accept you back without reservation - the only place in the world where no matter where you come from, you won’t feel that you are a foreigner. There are hundreds of languages and accents spoken in this city. It still remains a capital of the world, with all its glitter and its blemishes.
Absolutely, @jpny! It's a place where individuals from different cultures and walks of life can come together and contribute to the dynamic fabric of the city. Thank you for sharing your insights!
This excellent video brings back a lot for me…including the subtle ‘welcome back’ experience at JFK! 🗽 I lived in NY as a kid (2-15 yo) and young adult (20-35 yo). Everything mentioned about food, life-style, cost, diversity and opportunity in NY is all true. Nonetheless, I consider myself very fortunate to have lived in Italy during my formative years (15-20 yo). Living in IT was a life-changing experience as it made me realize the life-style I was living in NYC. We moved to SF 30 years ago…improved life-style (particularly for our kids) but still a far cry from the one in IT (I experience culture shock everyday…not only when I travel). Looking to retire in IT or Portugal asap w/my EU passport.👋🏻
As soon as you began to speak about noise, Seville Spain came to mind. I remember the garbage trucks in the middle of the night. Then May Lin brought up Seville...i guess i wasn't the only one. Living in Mexico now, the hardest thing to get used to still is greeting people that you walk by on the street, morning, noon, night. I love and hate it about Mexico and NYC. I wish people were friendlier in nyc but i also wish i didn't have to say good morning to strangers in Mexico. Haha
Not been to New York, but what you describe also sounds like London. I think the hustle is a big city thing more than just a US thing (though it may be exaggerated in the US ofc). Other US cities I’ve visited - Phoenix, Boston - didn’t seem as “rushed” as London but are also much smaller.
I grew up in Connecticut about 50 miles from NYC in the 70’s. Now as a retiree and a longtime Salsa dancer 🕺 I know NYC as the salsa dancing capital of the world. Unfortunately my other lasting impression of NYC is the intimidating and unwelcoming experience of the “famous” NY subway system. I now live in Thailand, the global opposite of NY hustle. I just spent 2 weeks in the US, San Francisco and Atlanta, and I have no regrets about leaving America.
It's interesting to hear about your experiences and your current perspective as a retiree living in Thailand, Marty! It's great that you have found a place like Thailand that suits your preferences and offers a different pace of life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us!
If I had only known you were here in NYC. sigh! I would have loved to meet you. I'm a real New Yorker and have lived here all my life. If you are not from here and especially if you have never been here you don't understand what it is to live here. You have to have a really THICK skin to live here. It's a tough city disguised as a mystical place. When people think of NYC who don't live here they think of Broadway and MSG and the Empire State building. They think of the Mets and the Yankees and Central Park. NYC is all that and a lot more but it's also cripplingly expensive to go to a show or see a concert. Most New Yorkers rarely do those things. There are a lot of high wage jobs here but you pay to live here in more ways than money. You have to have a special kind of grit to really thrive here. As a New Yorker when I go to most any other place in America or even abroad and look around I say to myself, "Gee it's nice that it's quite over here in THIS place but it's also kind of DEAD!" What NYC gives you is access to so much of just about everything as long as you know how to find it.
Your comments and prospective about the US was filled with so many stereotypes, NO ONE lives their whole lives that way, especially when they are pursuing a fulfilling life.
I'm a dual US-UK citizen living abroad more than 20 years.... In my 20's and early 30s I lived in southern England and always told myself I wouldn't live in either NYC or London. Guess who was wrong on both counts! I lived in NYC for 2 years and it's less appealing because of the crowds, noise, etc. Hate the subway (and the Tube!) Depending on who you ask in my US family, New York is either a total nightmare or or the great city to visit, but not live.
Welcome back and happy the 4th of July. Check out Boston, my favorite city!!! I did some "context switch" when visiting fine cities like Lisbon, Bruge, Hamburg and Amsterdam two months ago :) God bless America.
@@iliriacum666 I was getting shoved on the sidewalk it made me want to turn around and punch someone, but when I did nobody was making eye contact. I've never been treated that way anywhere else. And the garbage trucks slamming dumpsters at 2am, you can't even sleep.
To be fair, many Americans get culture shock visiting New York City, especially Manhattan. It's "the city that never sleeps," as the song goes. It's also one of the most expensive places to live in the US. The people you described in England sound similar to midwesterners in the US. That region has many thoughtful and helpful people.
I’ve never been to NY. Haven’t wanted to. I think of the movie Escape from New York when I think about going. The chicken is bathed in chlorine or something like that.
I love Europe but I need to defend NYC! Yes, it’s expensive and can be hectic in spots like midtown, but there is so much wonderful culture, and much of it available for free or very low cost. Central Park is also such a gift. Kristin, next time you visit, I’d love to share some of NYC’s hidden gems.
Are u an Nyc native? Transplants glorify this place too much. It’s been bad lately. The way it was in the 80s and 90s. Soon all natives will be gone and only transplants and migrants will be left.
It isn't simply people are in a hurry it's the " I'm more important, move out of my way". America is a me, me ,me country where others can be left behind.
Hello Kristin. I’m LOL-ing (Incorrect Grammar, I Note)@ “Nobody Talking To Me”...In NY, After Living In Manchester (My Birth Town) Where Strangers Chat To You & Say, “Hello *Love”.😊 A Great Feeling! I Was In San Francisco For 2 Whole Weeks Once and NO ONE Spoke To Me (As People Usually Do In SoCal...Laguna Beach; Rodeo Drive Etc. I Was Shocked & Found It a Disturbing Experience! Fortunately I Was There Giving a Paper At a Conference So I Had Other Academic Colleagues To Interact With. Oh, I Then Crossed To Sausalito Where I Was Invited To *Drink Tea By 3 Different People Within 30 Minutes Of Leaving My Hotel To Stroll Main Street! Thank Goodness! :)) Anyway, Just Anecdotal Comments Given Your NY Post UK Experience!💙
Was in NY in 2000 visiting from London, and had just been to a few museums and was staying with a friend´s grandparents who had an apartment they had lived in for over 50 years overlooking Central Park. As I waited for a bus at a bus stop to get back to their apartment, and was not sure which bus to take, I thought of asking one of the other people at the bus stop and suddenly, I had this strange feeling that I was going to talk to someone who would tell me something about John McEnroe! It´s the first time I had that kind of ´premonition type of feeling´. I approached a lady in her 50s who was wearing a very smart purple suit, and who thinking about it later, probably worked in TV, who knows....Anyway, she was very helpful about which bus to take and she asked me where I was from and which museums I had visited. Then she told me she lived in a very famous building and that John McEnroe lived at the top of her building and owned several floors! It was really amazing! She told me that many famous people lived in her building. She was very nice and friendly. Then she got on her bus and left. The friend whose grandparents I stayed with, took me around NY and we were in Battery Park when she said, ´Look those are the Twin Towers! You should take a picture, They´re pretty famous! ´ So I did, and that was in June, 2000, the year before 9/11.
It's understandable that everyone has different preferences, @dragasan! Each person's experience and connection to a place can vary, and it's important to prioritize what makes you happy and comfortable. 😊
@@TravelingwithKristin I was traveling with my pregnant ex-wife. We were in NYC and she was due any day. I told her that we had to hurry up, pack and leave New York ASAP. She asked, "Why?" I replied, "Because if she was born in New York, she'd know everything, and we just can't have that!" 😂
Europe, and Latin America, seem to have it worked out, slower pace, kinder, that is the way to go! I'm not a big city girl, NYC would not be my happy place. When you decide to settle down, buy a home and use it as a home base, which country would you choose?
I appreciate your perspective, Cindy K! It's always a personal preference when it comes to choosing a place to settle down, and I haven't choosen one yet. However, I'm grateful for the opportunity to travel and discover new places along the way. 😊🙌
You look stressed. When you are in The North of England, you look relaxed and happy. Up North is good for you.(I was 25 years in the DC area. Now retired in York (the original one). Up North is good for me, for sure).
Your friend said, 'Europe uses one specific strand of breed or what have you'. Totally not the case. I work in a supermarket and in the last three months we've had nearly a dozen different varieties of black grapes alone. They come in from Chile, Peru, South Africa, etc... but even from each country, we may get several varieties depending where they come from in that country. When you get back to the U.K., pick a couple of fruits and vegetables and over a month look at the variety name and country of origin.
Being busy does not mean being productive. Some Americans love being perceived as busy because they think it is good. But it is not always good. I think the result of the busy mentality is stress, low quality of life, lack of connection with other people, aggression, and division.
"We are also the nicest if something really does happen." During WW II approximately 350,000 allied soldier were evacuated over a 9 day period and considered one of the most complex operation in WW II. During 9-11, approximately 300,000 people from lower Manhattan was evacuated by water in a 9 hour period. Government agencies (USCG, Fire Dept, etc.) evacuated a bit over a third with the rest being civilian ferry operators and small boats (to include rubber dinghies) evacuating the rest. During the "Miracle on the Hudson", when an airliner conducted a water landing, ferry captains immediately reponded without prompting, rescuing passengers from the slowly sinking aircraft. NYC is the dynamic. It is the land of "ASAP", "In a New York Minute", and "I Want it Fucking Yesterday!". It is also incredibly crowded. At street corners or in mass transit during rush hour, personal space is non-existent. As such, New Yorkers avoid intruding on what little personal space other may have, as a courtesy. I have notice this in other ultra density cities, like Tokyo and Hong Kong. However, stand-offish New Yorkers can be friendly if invited. At that point, they would not be intruding on your personal space or privacy.
A friend from college in California in the 70s played his Martin guitar and loved bluegrass. He told me then that NYC, his real neck of the woods, was the city that never sleeps. You could always get live music all night, any kind you like. Post- Covid, I wonder what the story is now. Can you still get any kind of music any night in NYC? BTW, my friend became one of the reptile staff members at a NYC zoo (the Bronx Zoo, I think). He always loved snakes, and had some kind of Boa even way back then--his girlfriend never seemed to mind it, but it was a big terrarium). He was from the East Coast and went to college here with a cadre of prep-school friends who all enrolled in the same college in California--"that hippy school" where my Dad taught. I saw him on a TV interview a couple of years ago (right when I reached retirement age) in a project where he was collecting and studying rattlesnakes in AZ. He consistently had super-fast eye movements during that on-location interview, probably from working with those snakes. He kept referring to them as 'animals'. You find the 'animal' here (he'd located one under a desert rock outcropping for the camera man) and get the data on 'the animal' and return 'the animal' to its natural environment. He hadn't changed a bit! Way to go, Hugh! He's an alum who realized his ambition in actuality. So, is live music of all kinds still available in NYC? It's not a case of reverse culture shock, but my question is definitely cross-cultural. The thing is, different cultures are all totally at home in NYC somehow. How is that?
This country is sad. Yes I used to live in NYC. I live in Maryland now. I don’t miss NYC. I like visiting cuz the food is Amazing but I 1000% prefer Maryland and being closed to DC and Baltimore.
Your comments and prospective about the US was filled with so many stereotypes, NO ONE lives their whole lives that way, especially when they are pursuing a fulfilling life. I don't live in New York, but I been there multiple times (live in NC) but I am so glad that when I want that NY experience I can go (without a passport) and get my fill and (most importantly) come back to NC or (anywhere else in this country) to get a different experience be it vistas, mountains, desert or tropical, (all without a passport). The appreciation of this has never be lost on me. No, this country is NOT perfect, absolutely if I wanted to gripe and nitpick I certainly could (a some days I do😊) But I always come back to have bless I am to be here. Be it all equal, I really wouldn't want to live anywhere else, issues and all.
That's wonderful to hear, Roy! New York City is indeed known for its vibrant energy and diverse street performers. It's always a treat to come across talented buskers and street magicians while exploring the city. These little moments make a visit to NYC memorable. 😊
The first and only time I visited New York was exactly a decade ago. Below is the caption I wrote for my NYC Facebook photo album. I still stand by it. Would go back to visit in a heartbeat. Could never exist there though. Absurd cost of living aside, it's just "too much". "New York City grabs you, shakes you, slaps you...and like a true diva - does not apologies make. A delicate Vancouver disposition is no match for its sensory overload. I defiantly hated it (or tried), then secretly loved it...fiercely resisted it, only to voluntarily succumb to it. The grit, the glamour; the dirt, the splendour; the poverty, the opulence; the calm, and the chaos...it is a Great Big City of paradoxes that weave their narratives through streets and avenues, and manage to make cordial neighbours. I would lie if I said that I did not breathe a sigh of joy and relief when the wheels touched the tarmac at YVR...but, if I’m to tell the whole truth then I must admit...NYC will seep into your veins, hook you...and beckon you to come back. Just don’t expect it to beg - it’s too cool for that."
@@TravelingwithKristin I know you love Vancouver....funny, since I'm in the process of selling all my stuff and leaving it after 25 years. I'm gonna give the DN thing a try, and you were a partial inspiration! First stop will be my native Poland, and then Bansko, just to get my bearings and plop myself in a quiet town with an established DN community. Of course I am committing the cardinal sin of not having online income figured out prior, so a bit of cart before the horse type of situation...but I do have savings and have done quite a bit of research, so I know what I'm getting into. To go back to the Vancouver theme - it's unfortunately not the same city I fell in love with two decades ago. The cost of living is absurd, drug addiction and homelessness are rampant, healthcare is abysmal....it's actually quite sad to see this city deteriorate into as someone once described it "knock off Monaco". Basically a playground for the rich, with most average people barely hanging on.
I currently live in Madrid but from NYC and living there and visiting just like in any city is different. When you see the same people on your commute and daily life you develop unique relationships. I love Spain and enjoy my life. If and when I ever come back to the states it will always be back to the culture and diversity of NY.
I have lived in Manhattan for 10 years before moving to sub-urban NJ to start a family in 2002. I have been commuting to work in Manhattan all these years. I hv also travelled to a lot of places and have experienced some really cities. and yes NYC has always been a hustle but is not the only one. Go to Hong Kong and some major cities in China and they are not any less than NYC. Now that I am reaching age to retire and I am strongly considering moving to UK, probably London to me more specific. Yes it may sound crazy to retire in London but as long as I do not need to participate in rush hour commuting I think that should be fine.
I’m sorry, but her comments about the homeless were so feckless and shallow. She said there was more homeless population during the pandemic because there weren’t shops open, why are they homeless in the first place? Then you should be nice and pack up your DoorDash food to give to them because they’re going through a bit of a rough time. You think? People should be out in the streets protesting not throwing them a bone in the form of your fancy delivery food. Very out of touch
It's all relative i guess, i live in the UK but come from New Zealand, the UK to me always seems overcrowded and busy although work culture is similar. The thing that always struck me is how few places are out of earshot of traffic, so many places in NZ are completely silent bar a few birds chirping.
My American brother and wife came to visit us in England and we drove to Stratford-upon-Avon to do the tourist crawl thing. They insisted on seeing every site in the area, going on the tour and just cramming everything in from mid-morning until dinner. We could not get them to stop even for a quick bite at lunch, my British wife and I (American) had to literally buy Shakespeare souvenir shop fudge to keep us from starving and to make it through until evening. There's no way my wife and I would do that, my wife (and her family and friends) generally has a more laid back, English attitude, she'd never insist on dragging anyone around or bothering to manically see everything in 1 day, she'd just acquiesce and just enjoy the few things she could in a leisurely fashion, stop and have some lunch and just enjoy the day. Certainly not all my American friends and family are like that but your talk about New Yorkers and how fast they go and the scheduling got me thinking of that time!
NYC isn't any different for residents than any large multi cultural city around the world. It's dog eat dog.....every man and woman for themselves. That said the experience is different for tourists visiting for a short period. I was there once in 2017 and loved it and can't wait to go back. I know it's expensive but you know that before you go.
I'm from Morecambe northwest England, hour from Manchester and great to say I've been to New York but never again not my thing , arrogant people some nice people but same as London not my thing , where as Liverpool wow awesome city love it go there when possible football or day out on train £20 return awesome ,just back from benidorm amazing xx respect 🙏 come visit Morecambe, not far from lake district beautiful x
Thank you for sharing your perspective, Andrew! It's great that you found Liverpool to be an awesome city that you enjoy visiting. Exploring new places and finding the ones that resonate with us is always a unique experience. Thank you for the invitation to visit Morecambe, it sounds like a lovely destination to explore.
Are you saying Americans don't stop and help people? This country has some of the nicest and kindest people in the world. Europeans themselves can attest to this. Every country/culture has both good and bad aspects. This is not an American problem. I've also lived in both Europe and America and there is the hassle culture on both continents.
It really depends where you are in the US. I've been to 42 states. The first time I visited San Francisco was as a student in 1995. It was great. You could walk around the city day or night and I never felt unsafe. Going back over the years I could notice the gradual change. Was there last May and while parking the car some guy smashed my rear door glass and tried to steal a rucksack while I was sitting in the car. Luckily, i had attached the rucksack to the seat belt so he didn't succeed. He didn't ever run off, just walked away!😂
London is just as cosmopolitan and international as NYC. It is also twice as big as NYC. The five boroughs of New York cover a total area of 300 square miles. London covers 610 square miles.
@@TravelingwithKristin Yes it is. Both cities have populations of over 8 million, many great restaurants, a very varied range of cuisines, plenty of things to see and do, a huge range of shopping. Also, in the case of London, more history than you can shake a stick at, as well as the largest amount of green space of any city in Europe. It really is a remarkable place.
Kristen in the UK people are actually very helpful except inside the M25 motorway ring road and London. People actually have time for others in most parts of the uk other than the South East
Too many Americans think it is the best and greatest countries in this world. But they have never been anywhere else. Also not many paid holidays to discover the world.. In NYC many beliebe the bank account balance is the high score of life 😊regarding food, you get anythink and more then nyc in Municg, Germamy or other places
@@TravelingwithKristin Yes, not many holidays, fear of being away too long, financial pressure, no job security, no social security net. Anyone can fall down from the top easily. So many clever people become homeless - highly educated people who spend a fortune on non-free education. The US needs a social security net, health insurance for anyone, free universities etc. or the rich and poor population gets separated even more. Also police violence is harsh. Any innocent citizen could be at the wrong place at the wrong time and be shot or arrested for nothing.
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From about the age of 8, all I ever wanted to do was go to America and especially New York. I made it to the big apple 20 years ago and although I'd built it up so much, it did not disappoint at all. I was walking around in a daze. I haven't returned there yet but I definitely will. I do think it is the greatest city in the world.
I spent a week in Manhattan with my girlfriend in 2016 - bothof us middle-aged, from genteel Hampshire in England, staying in a Hotel in Seaport. We had a tremendous time, but a few culture-shocky things stood out. The sheer amount of street-food vendors and the ever-present smell of cooking food, particularly the pungent odour of roasted nuts, was one of them. Aother thing was the general sense of hustle and tension in the air, even agression. One one occasion, we rode the Subway in a very crowded carriage, where everyone was crushed shoulder-to-shoulder, and it triggered a woman next to me to turn and shout at me as if I were intending to push into her for some nefarious purpose when it was clear no-one could help coming into bodily contact with others because of the crush. I dunno, maybe she had suffered siome sort of assault in the past which sensitised her to the situation. On the same journey, two guys close by started arguing about one of their rather bulky back-packs. On another day, we were in a hurry to get to the Rockefeller Tower for a pre-appointed guided tour time and my partner, only five feet one inch tall, as we turned a corner, accidentally bumped into a burly six-foot something guy who turned and cussed her out: "Watch where you're going, bitch!" She was quite upset for some time afterwards. It's like New Yorkers have taking offence on a hair trigger all the time. Oh, yes, the other thing that stuck out was every lamp post or traffic light stand and similar street furniture was plastered with fly-posted stickers; the city's street-cleaning services obviously weren't briefed to get rid of them. What an unsightly mess. The following year, we vacationed in Venice, Italy. We couldn't possibly have chosen a city of greater contrasts. Talk about chalk and cheese. Or should that be chalk and cheeseburger with fries?
I’ve been to the city twice, both times in my 20s back in the roaring 1980s when Times Square was a dangerous adventure. I loved it - it was just my speed! 😂 Ahhh the museums, the fabric district, Chinatown, a meal at an old Italian restaurant, even the stinky subway. Even met Candice Bergen and Louis Malle at the Met waiting in line for an exhibit. ❤ But I knew it would only be fun to live there if I had money. Anyway, I’d like to visit again, but more time in the boroughs. PS Really enjoyed your conversation!!
Lived there for 11 years, three different time periods. I love how it’s always changing with the buildings but then it also makes me sad. Love how people come to live here from all over the world. It doesn’t really feel American. It’s so special.
Lived in the us for a while outside LA, visited a few states, loved NYC, I’m ashamed to say I wouldn’t visit at the moment, there seems to be a lot of issues,I’m not comfortable with. Homeless and crime. Very sad, it’s an amazing city, I just loved the vibe.
Lived in NYC for 6 years; NYC is America's hustle culture on steriods. Loved living there but got burnt of from the work culture and trying to keep up with the sky high rent and moved to Chicago (aka NYC lite). After COVID finally decided to move out of the US entirely to digital nomad and move to Europe (most likely Spain) for a higher quality of life, safety and overall peace of mind.
Sounds like you put in a good effort and now time to relax and enjoy life ☀️🍷
What do these Hustle Culture Americans / New Yorker's do then? Or what is on their schedule? Their job + commute? How many hours does that regular 9to5 administrative assistant work in NYC? And then what else is on the schedule?
States like Tennessee have the opposite culture of taking it easy.
I tell this story a lot. I had some NYC lawyer friends visit me in Bangkok for a couple of weeks in 2018. At the end of their stay her husband made the unsolicited comment, “I’ve been here 2 weeks and I haven’t heard anyone yelling at anyone else!”
I'm here six months and have not heard an argument, even a road collision and its completely civilised. F the west
My word of advice is get out of New York fast. There are alot better states to live in. New York is currently a sanctuary city where illegals are getting free stuff including housing while US citizens work their butts off . New York became lax on law enforcement. You will not see that in conservative states except where Democrats have control of cities.
New York is very expensive where it cost $4000+ for a small apartment. Other states it is like $1000 for a large Apartment.
I’ve lived in the UK, Spain and France, and one thing that I’ve learned in my life is that there’s no such thing as “European” culture. There are instead many cultures, just as there are in the US, and big city culture will always differ from small city or town culture wherever you go. (Some of your descriptions of NYC - like the rushing, the pushing, the lack of casual conversation between strangers, the honking and sirens, could describe my daily life in Paris to a T.)
Yes diffrent etnic groupa and culture..
Exactly my thoughts. Come back to the US and pick the craziest, most expensive city to do your interview. I really dislike southern culture.. It’s a nice place to vacation but I could never live there. To each their own I suppose.
Yep, I'm European and I couldn't agree more. I live in rural Czechia, it's a hilly and foresty countryside with a village every 3 kilometres and helpful and quite chatty people. There's a huge difference from, say, rural Latvia where you often have just kilometres and kilometres of flat pine forests and no house in sight, and the people you ocassionally meet are patient and quietly going about their business. (Read: a densely populated Central European Catholic region vs. a sparsely populated Northern European Protestant region.)
Absolutely ! We Brits are very different from most Europeans. Each culture to their own , as it should be !! What a boring world otherwise 😬
i don't agree completely - there are ceratain behaviours, attitudes, foods, cultural background, stuff that you are familiar with that are more common and for people easier to bond with each other. UK is a bad example here as they are exception in pretty much any topic, they and Ireland are sitting in more of a anglosphare bubble
I’m with you Kristin-give me slow European culture & great food any day over fast American culture & bad food that’s making the health care industry #1. I survived NYC 1yr at 25yo & never again!
The slower pace of life is definitely for me!
Never lived in NY; but your food comments...💯
In the UK the government found place for every ruff sleeper during covid. It would be impressive if it had stayed that way.
I agree, US food is very hit and miss like all countries, but, the produce is poor quality compared to us over the pond, our food standards and regulations ban a lot of the stuff the US allows. I do believe that impacts the health of poor citizens of the US. You all deserve so much better.
@@jasmineteehee3612 👨🏻🦱Thank you for stating that, actually I wanted to say that but I didn't want to cause controversy! Cheers👍🏻😎
A big lesson for me after traveling quite a bit is that every country has good and bad parts. What really makes a difference to your experience is (first) your attitude going into it and (second) the people you surround yourself with. People are everything. Bonus if you have friends in those countries because your fun there will multiply.
Absolutely! Your insight is spot on, Alexia. Approaching travel with a positive attitude and an open mind can greatly enhance your experience in any country. Thanks for sharing your valuable perspective! 😊
Always badmouthing US really does not help. Don't you dare to come to this "godforsaken" country named USA, if everything about it is sooooooop baaaaaad! Just surrender your US passport and go away for good. US will be better off without your kind of people !! Happy 4th of July USA!!
As a European/British person visiting New York, it’s the most incredible city in the world. Maybe as a tourist, one is able to step back & avoid the wild whirlwind of everyday New Yorker life. Also due to the fact American/New York culture is so popular, it feels like you’ve stepped into a movie set, which is a surreal feeling. Granted, there is definitely a faster pace of life, but that can be said of any large major city. The few times I have holidayed in New York, the vast majority of people have been charming & helpful.
There is certainly a slower pace of life in most parts of the UK too. But I’ve found people are people wherever you go in the world, and most are happy to help & guide visitors.
Yes; for a holiday it’s quite a destination! Unlike any other city in the world. But definitely a contrast to UK.
Variety is the spice of life, especially when experiencing new & different cultures. Keep up the good work, your content is very entertaining and informative.
There are lots of small towns and states in the USA that are slow paced. It’s mostly the big cities that are fast paced. I’m born and raised in Nyc and it’s been bad i wanna leave.
With age, you want less and less to step into a movie set. Instead, you want good food and wine.
New York’s the center of the world not just because of the United Nations but also because it’s the biggest city in the most powerful country in the world and you have so many choices in virtually everything that’s it’s absolutely amazing!
I'm from Manhattan NYC originally. Been living in NorCal for almost 40 years. Sounds like not much has changed. Don't miss NYC at all! I remember coming back from a vacation in Scotland decades ago and feeling that culture shock then. The noise, pollution and hustle and bustle really struck me. Thanks for the video!
I know that feeling, same in Philadelphia for me upon my return from London.
Same here bro. 👍🏻
Gosh coming from Scotland would be a huge shock! I much prefer the lifestyle in NorCal as well. Enjoy it!
@marycarver1542 ok that kinda a over shot its not that bad as it was nyc got better
Tho i now tourist dont care but for people who come from nj to work here that is a lot of people btw we dont care adout anything but 1 thing our mass trainst and oh you dare mess with it
I’m born and raised in Nyc. Good thing u left. I wanna leave too.
You pretty much covered it, however ..I lived in NY for 30yrs till I moved to Newcastle upon Tyne in England, and what always upsets me is How dirty and greasy NY is, whenever I go back I never feel clean, it is like the air itself is grubby, the underground is filthy also, and the food, don't get me started, I recently learned about all the garbage that is injected into America's food, it all looks twice as big and perfect but tastes of nothing, I very rarely return home now as my family would.much rather come to the UK and visit me which suits me down to the ground, to be honest I wish they would live here with me and see how life should be lived, and how real genuine relationships can be forged without all the time constraints and hassle and bustle, Americans talk the talk about freedom, but it is only when you leave you realise what true freedom is
I forgot to mention the smell of New York... it's pretty bad in the city center. Very poignant what you said at the end!
@@TravelingwithKristin I could see that you didn't want to be to disrespectful infront of your friend, expecially as it is her home state, granted I have not been back since covid began so maybe they cleaned it up since then but compared with London which has buildings almost 1000yrs older the grime and flakey paint all over is just depressing especially considering how proud of it all newyorkers are
@andymac900 How do you like Newcastle's Metro, haha? People moan about it, but have never seen the NY subway. I am looking forward to the new trains (I am such a dork). We moved from the Southern Tier of NY to South Shields 5 years ago. We're heading to the Stand to watch Danny Bhoy tomorrow night. I absolutely LOVE it here.
@@michellemaine2719 hi, to be honest, I love the metro it is so clean and reliable (however someone had chest problems and an ambulance was called, so we were a bit late last time) but what a great service. We were at south shields last week strangely enough
The states sucks.
I am Swiss living in US for 2 decades. I don’t have the culture shock phenomena , but I guess because I frequently traveling between both continents.. I can quickly switch my mind between countries.
That's interesting! As May Ling said, when she lands, she goes into New York mode. The human brain is so adaptable.
@@TravelingwithKristin we have no choice I guess just adopt to void emotional trouble. ☺️
That’s great!!!
It's really sad though. I bet Russians have the same feelings of patriotism. But to the rest of the world it looks like indoctrination.
I once walked from 14th Street to Times Square. I was tired when I got there. Times Square was so overwhelmingly noisy it was oppressive!
I lived in Staten Island near the VNZ Bridge & Expressway. The police were constantly chasing speeders up & down the Expressway! There were two fire houses, a hospital and a motor cycle club nearby. Sometimes the noise scared me and my cats! We would all jump!
I recently moved to a small town in Eastern Pennsylvania and it is SO QUIET!
That's a good walk! I was staying just outside of Times Square but I didn't go all the way into it. Kind of avoided it for the same reason.
@@TravelingwithKristinit’s so obvious you hate NYC. Why do you keep coming back?
I’m from London and have been to NYC four times. I’ve loved it every time. Ive also been to Boston and Vegas but NY is my favourite. I can’t wait to go back but I would never ever move to the states because of how employees are treated.
It's nice to visit the US but I'd take the UK benefits any day!
You're kidding. London is the city NY wishes it was.
I moved from NYC to my native country of Colombia a few days ago(after being there for 22 years), so this video is not only perfect for me, I also happen to agree with everything Kristin feels! I’m thrilled to be back.
Yes my family is from Colombia and my daughter wants to move there. She loves it.
My moms friend just moved back to Colombia after retirement. She just can’t afford this place. In Colombia they have a huge multi family house. Everyone has their own floor. Her rent is only $300 monthly. She’s happy.
I live in Scotland but lived in London for 10yr. I would never return to live in a big city. I did return to London in May for a few days, i enjoyed the visit but...wow...the air quality, the noise etc 😢 The population of Scotland is Approximately 5 million, so lots of space to fill your lungs with fresh air😊😊
Sounds amazing! I’m going to Scotland in August - anywhere you recommend?
@@TravelingwithKristin Skye, Applecross, Glen Coe, to name a few, anywhere on the NC500 is also very Picturesque
@@TravelingwithKristin The cities are all interesting in their own way and anywhere on the west coast is gorgeous - you can't go wrong anywhere in Scotland (biased opinion)
@@TravelingwithKristin look at the west coast, very easily accessible, from Loch Lomond all the way through the highlands. If you go to Glasgow you can take a one day tour bus that takes you up to best sights for approx £75, the tour guides are very entertaining. My favourite is loch long.
That's a quite unfair comparison comparing a huge city with the whole of Scotland your comparing apples with oranges....maybe a more fair comparison would be comparing London with Glasgow?
Being pushed...that hustle vibe "me-me-me" was ONE of the reasons I wanted to turn around and go back to the UK...and I was at Phila Intern'l!!! I'm still considering moving back to PA, (Phila born, raised in the suburbs) I miss the (REAL) cheesesteaks man! That's "Americana" to me!👍🏻😄 As far as food quality, UK is better; not as sugary. Someone pointed out that obesity was not an issue where I lived (East End and Surrey) in comparison to here in the US. Great content as usual!👍🏻
Originally from Philly but lived in NYC for 5 years. Philly is a big city with a small(er) town vibe and closer knit people. You can “breathe” there. All my PA friends who moved to Manhattan ended up missing home and eventually moved back.
Thanks Luis!
@@ImOk... 👨🏻🦱That's ANOTHER vote for the Cheesesteaks!!! 👍🏻😄💥🔥🌟🌟🌟
I really like your friend - well spoken and obviously very bright. It would be fun to travel with you both!!
Thank you so much for the kind words, Michelle! 😊🙏
This conversation you two had is VERY interesting! SO many fascinating observations! I confess, however, that I have never been to NY, and I would probably not care for so many people around me all the time: I need my alone time, on a regular basis. However, for those who love NY, I can understand the attraction. Just not for me, I think. Thank you, Kristin, for yet another great presentation!
Thanks Ocho! It was great to be able to sit down with May Ling and record our chat!
Nyc can be really calm its just on certian days because a big part is its nj people that just want to get home safe after work that is the rush but there is no rush in the tourist area you can sit in time sqaure at rush hour and be fine once you get into pensation or around 34th street that because everyone want to go home after work
You said it “work-life balance” in the US is a little out of whack. It is worn as a badge of honor to the point that people will look at you funny if you are not super busy, like you don’t work hard enough.
It's an illness that we have in our collective culture/national psyche.
You know, I think this is the reason USans over-complicate the food. Simple with few ingredients = poor (and man, they are scared to be or seem poor); 10 min. preparations means you have not worked enough to get the dish done :)
@@TravelingwithKristin agree Kristen, after living there many years ago, I still have the same ethics and always super busy and focussed it drives other colleagues mad, I expect the same commitment from them as I give to the job.
But what do these busy people do? How many hours does that average 3 year college educated person work per week? The average 9to5 administrative or customer service assistant? What is so "hustle" about it? Where is the ambition - goal oriented part for the business?
@@Plan73 Isn't like post-materialism or neo-humbleness in the realm of decluttering/simplifying/minimalism on the rise? As these lifestyles would not indicate poor, but simple and humble?
So true NYC IS NOT typical, as an ex-New Yorker, we move, talk and think FAST! And their is a toughness shield. BUT AS SHE SAID, FOLKS will help if you don't seem CRAZY they may insult you while helping LOL (recent meme) Our food is CHOSEN for shelf life-BEFORE FLAVOR or NUTRITION.
American culture is insane!
Things definitely move fast there! There's a hurried, rushed energy in the air. I'll have to look up that meme, lol. I would believe that shelf life is more important than flavor or nutrition. You can tell!
Yes, people need to keep in mind that the US has 330 million people to feed...so it’s quantity over quality unfortunately. We also have the best food (if you have the money). I lived in NYC for 5 years-most smart, helpful people I’ve ever worked/lived with. Also, on the meme you mentioned: the west coast personality is nice but not kind, the east coast personality is kind but not nice 😂 I’ll take kind any day...
@@ImOk... Europe as around double the people of the US, but we have better infrastructure, and transport and you don't need to be a millionaire to eat great food either, and health care is for everyone.
@@g-man4297 Europe isn’t a country
Living in the UK I am proud not to see the Union Jack everywhere, seeing flags from around the world flying all over the place really is the proof of harmony.
It’s not harmony for black people tbh
I grew up/lived in NYC (Richmond Hill, Queens) until 24. Now 60, I live in San Jose. I have culture shock every time I go back to NYC to visit for work or family. I love the diversity, the energy and I feel alive walking (lots of walking) the neighborhoods, and the city (Manhattan). Great museums and shoppers paradise. Out here in San Jose and in many cities in USA (car culture) we do not do much if any walking or public transit. One thing is when you get there as you mentioned the rush to get off the plane, to crowd the luggage carousel, to not miss the train or get the taxi from airport. We step back and let them go by but then we move about at a more relaxed pace. We have met people during our stays on the train, in Central park that stop and talk with us to ask directions or small talk and surprise - they were from California too and thought we were New Yorkers! Like you said in the video, I know from growing up there we minded our own business but if you needed a hand or were lost or car stuck in the snow the neighbors came to the rescue ASAP. I chalk it up to living in a big city. Out here if you go to a shop and say what is good today they talk with you and make recommendations, etc. In NYC (Manhattan) I showed my wife.. I asked Good morning, what bagels are good, the man waved his hand for me to move aside and said NEXT! My wife was in shock - how rude! (she grew up in California) Same thing if you ask for service at big department store they look at you like REALLY? - I have 20 customers in line here, etc. They are too busy to help, you have to help yourself or forget it. That said it is a great place to visit and outside the city has great beaches, the mountains, etc You can really have a full and varied vacation. Coming back home, even though the area is beautiful and I live in a "city" it feels like a blah suburb where you have to drive everywhere.
The one that got me when I got off at Newark Liberty was the huge proliferation of flags. We generally don't bother with flags all over the place in the UK. For the most part, we don't need to show how 'patriotic' we are.
I should add that I was transiting to Montreal and while there are a few QC flags in Montreal, it's also not to the same level of overkill.
Thanks for sharing your insights on the topic, Etienne. 😊
@@TravelingwithKristin i hope my country be like America but the bad about America it is not save? People dont afraid do the crime
@@TravelingwithKristin i become more confuse which one to choose between Singapore or America? which have better system. In Singapore there in no freedom but the country it less crime
The us flag in the us holds a lot more then just being patriotic we lower it at half staff for specical events we cover the caskets or people in a flag when they made the Ultimate Sacrifice to serve this contry every one in american will say its bad here but dont realize all the freedom we have here the flag unties us all
My biggest shock is mainly how backwards the US is the second when you land. The jetway from the plane is usually a closed tube, whereas most EU airports, these are made out of glass. Once in the airport, all looks old and the areas where you go through lines are always temporarily set up even though these have been there for years. The immigration parts also are like old school. No facial recognition and automation. Once you go out of the airport and you are in a city with public transport, the transport system is so old and dirty that you think you are back like 50 years. The infrastructure is so out of date and falling apart and that is especially true for New York. All is just patched up to make/keep it work, no money spent to make it new.
The USA sucks. Like living in the Middle Ages.
I agree. I was just in the San Francisco Bay Area and have been to NYC many times. I lived in Bangkok for 6 years. The train system, airports, and public transportation in BKK, in general, is superb.
Interesting obervation! Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences, @gloofisearch and @martypoll!
It’s only replaced when it really falls apart. That is just how things operate in USA.
Nyc u mean.
Sooo amazing to catch up with you! Hope your viewers come visit NYC. 😊😊😊
Always a pleasure! Thanks for sharing your story with us!
One of the great things about being a New Yorker is that when you travel abroad, everyone seems super friendly! Lol!
I have gone to NYC 1-2 times a year for the last 17 years for business. What a vibrant yet soulless city. It is amazing & overwhelming in its culture, art and commerce. But you can walk the streets for an entire day without a single person looking you in the eye, seriously! Everybody is into their own thing. Can’t wait to leave every time I go there.
It's a strange paradox. Full of people and culture yet little human connection.
Love New York. If you talk to people, they'll talk to you. Smile and they'll smile back. I'm from Northern England and they are friendlier than the South of England.
@@sandrabentley8111 Everyone is friendlier than Southern poofs.
soulless ?? how so?
@@TravelingwithKristinI have to disagree with the human connection part. For all it's fault people connect and will hold you down( meaning look out for you)
I visited NYC one time. It was most certainly an experience lol. Fast paced, everyone in their phones, rushing, cars honking left to right, and just go-go-go. Still had a good time but I know I couldn't live there. Right now, my focus is peace of mind, culture, serenity, and where I will get the most bang for my buck. Which is why I am researching Spain and Portugal as mentioned in another post.
It's definitely a big contrast with Spain and Portugal!
Adjust you expectations when you visit NYC and you'll enjoy your stay here. You can do and see things here you can't anywhere else. We have a different culture too. Sure, it used to be brutal here in the 70's and 80's but now it's pretty safe if you have wits and there's no end to the fun you can have here. Best advice I can give is to make friends with the locals. You'll get the best tips and tricks to enjoying your stay. At least half of NY'ers are from somewhere else. The city embraces everyone. That's the charm.
I very much enjoyed this interesting discussion. The best strawberries I have had was in Belgium-small but very flavorful. Trader Joe's in Manhattan offers some good value, which I think is better than Whole Foods and far better than Fairway. Cook for oneself is far better than eating out. Manhattan is unique (the fast pace never bothers me) and the rest of the country does seem to be slower. In terms of Europe, I actually prefer countries that are not main tourist destinations. I like Estonia a lot-very friendly people and beautiful landscape. Croatia is also very beautiful and much cheaper too.
Thanks Thomas! Interesting tip about Belgian strawberries... I'll make sure to try them sometime. In the UK, look for "wonky strawberries" at Aldi - they taste delicious. I love Estonia as well! An underrated place
@@TravelingwithKristin Thank you for the "wonky strawberry" reference, Kristin! I will be in Bath, England, next month and will definitely look for them.:) Aldi is a great chain and I used to frequent there when I lived in Germany.
Traders Joe is owned by Aldi North (while ALDI in the US is Aldi South). Both goes back to brothers who split up due to a fight about something and had split Germany in two markets, one for the North, one for the South. Now they are still different companies with a different management but they also cooperate on strategies. And one is that they split the global market. In one country is Aldi South, in another Aldi North. You dont have both. Traders Joe in the US has another concept than ALDI (but both are based on efficiency of the underlaying structures). Aldi is btw. the abbreviation of ALbrecht (family name of those brothers) and Diskont (due to being very inexpensive) = AL + DI = ALDI ... a bit similar to Adidas. Also a German brand. One brother with the name Adi Dassler (= AdiDas) who also had trouble with another who then created its own company: Puma ...
Fascinated by how to felt on your return to New York - I feel the same way everytime I visit London
I can imagine! London isn't my cup of tea, either (no pun intended haha)
I live in York UK , it's great to hear you say nice things about Northern England Kristin :) p.s. I do love New York too!
Growing up in London and as I got into late teens and 20s, I realised how great London is. But NY was really the only other place I thought could give London a run for its money. Ive still not been to NY. But I hope to get there this year
That's wonderful to hear, Danellis! Both London and New York City are vibrant and dynamic cities with their own unique charms. I'm sure your visit will be an exciting experience. Enjoy your trip to New York soon! 😊
Forever and always my love, my muse, my happy place!! NYC!💜
You can´t compare USA with Europe, since USA is one country and one culture basicaly, while Europe are many different countries, with different languages, different cultures, and different ways of living (specialy comparing north to south).Of course we have many things in common in Europe, but as said before, also many differences. You can get a culture shock just moving from one country to another inside Europe. I live in Spain, and we are mostly focused on enjoying life (we work to live, while in other countries, people tend to live to work). Interesting vid, tks for sharing.
I don't agree with one culture in the US. It is very different for each region. New York is different from Tennessee. Louisiana is different from Tennessee and New York. People in the big cities for the most part don't care about the others around them. In the more rural towns and small areas, the people care for one another. In the south it is called southern hospital. Country star Tracy Bird sung, I'm from the country and i like it that way.
Also add in the fact that many migrants and illegal immigrants come into the US and don't want to learn our culture or our language.
I recently flew into JFK from 2 weeks in the south of France and Italy.... Europe was amazing! Great TASTING FRESH food, infrastructure is well thought out, beautiful, Modern and ancient at the same time. You WALK & TRAIN everywhere - NO CARS NEEDED. 2 weeks of pure joy!!!!
AND THEN.... Coming home to NYC....
JFK was like Uganda 1992 - it was a mess. Passport check looked 3rd world, they alerted people of THE APP to get to a shorter line which led to a scramble, then THEY pushed you right outside into the street - so many cars, cops, yelling, pollution, NO organization, just a smelly mess.
JFK was a DUMP. Welcome to MERCA
NYC... every day must be garbage there, and the amount of homeless and violence is a sign we are rolling DOWN HILL FAST!
I've never been to NYC, and I have a feeling that when I do, i'll definitely fall in love with the city and will want to move there.
It's very dynamic!
That’s probably because you’ve never been…
Move to London instead - a city NY wishes it was.
Ok sow to not pop your bubble here 1 i am a native nj person here sow i now what i am talking adout 20 years born and raised here bin to nyc a lot of times work there and bin homeless in that city
Btw i am talking adout the five boroughs of New York City if you dont now look it up i am not talking adout new york state agina google it i am not exp it
To live here its all adout rent rent and rent btw i find it stupid to live in nyc any ways 1 you need to find a jod that can mange you to live there btw this is really hard to pull off sow what most people do is they all live in nj and take the train to come to nyc to work and then go back home because rent here were i used to live in somerville nj 2k usd 1 block away from the train sation to get to nyc wich is a lot more cost better you can live still
@@peterfus926 sorry to hear you were homeless…hope things are better for you now…cannot think of anything much worse than not having somewhere to be safe….
Food in the US has always been crap, but 30 years ago, when I lived there, it was at leadt cheap.
Now it's more expensive than most of Europe.
It is always interesting to see how there are many differences between the US and Europe (or anywhere overseas). After I return home from a big trip overseas, I always find myself noting different things which could be improved on here in the US. I can definitely agree that people tend to have more of the "hustle and bustle" lifestyle here especially in the big cities compared to anywhere else.
The “busy” thing is definitely an American trait. A lot of these culture shocks you’ve discussed have been distinctly NYC (or traits of big cities) but living in rural VT we definitely have a problem with being too busy. Figuring out when my friends and I can see each other always seems to be difficult!
Interesting. Thanks for sharing your insights and experiences, Jennifer!
No there are lots of small towns and states that are slow paced. Bot all the USA is the same.
@@nenaj1 It's not about the pace of the city. Almost all Americans have this need to constantly prove themselves through hard work and being overly busy and productive. It's a country of neurotics.
Maybe it's the chasing the American dream thing I think countries in europe(im not going to say europeans because even that varies)have a more relaxed work/life balance?....maybe people in european countries work to live and in the USA people live to work?
The really good thing about NYC is that if you accept it, it will accept you back without reservation - the only place in the world where no matter where you come from, you won’t feel that you are a foreigner. There are hundreds of languages and accents spoken in this city. It still remains a capital of the world, with all its glitter and its blemishes.
Absolutely, @jpny! It's a place where individuals from different cultures and walks of life can come together and contribute to the dynamic fabric of the city. Thank you for sharing your insights!
Pretty sure that those same languages will be heard in London and in many other cities.
This excellent video brings back a lot for me…including the subtle ‘welcome back’ experience at JFK! 🗽
I lived in NY as a kid (2-15 yo) and young adult (20-35 yo). Everything mentioned about food, life-style, cost, diversity and opportunity in NY is all true. Nonetheless, I consider myself very fortunate to have lived in Italy during my formative years (15-20 yo). Living in IT was a life-changing experience as it made me realize the life-style I was living in NYC. We moved to SF 30 years ago…improved life-style (particularly for our kids) but still a far cry from the one in IT (I experience culture shock everyday…not only when I travel). Looking to retire in IT or Portugal asap w/my EU passport.👋🏻
I can relate - that studying or living abroad experience is very formative. Lucky you can move soon with your EU passport!
@@TravelingwithKristin Indeed 😊
As soon as you began to speak about noise, Seville Spain came to mind. I remember the garbage trucks in the middle of the night. Then May Lin brought up Seville...i guess i wasn't the only one.
Living in Mexico now, the hardest thing to get used to still is greeting people that you walk by on the street, morning, noon, night. I love and hate it about Mexico and NYC. I wish people were friendlier in nyc but i also wish i didn't have to say good morning to strangers in Mexico. Haha
Not been to New York, but what you describe also sounds like London. I think the hustle is a big city thing more than just a US thing (though it may be exaggerated in the US ofc).
Other US cities I’ve visited - Phoenix, Boston - didn’t seem as “rushed” as London but are also much smaller.
I grew up in Connecticut about 50 miles from NYC in the 70’s. Now as a retiree and a longtime Salsa dancer 🕺 I know NYC as the salsa dancing capital of the world. Unfortunately my other lasting impression of NYC is the intimidating and unwelcoming experience of the “famous” NY subway system. I now live in Thailand, the global opposite of NY hustle.
I just spent 2 weeks in the US, San Francisco and Atlanta, and I have no regrets about leaving America.
It's interesting to hear about your experiences and your current perspective as a retiree living in Thailand, Marty! It's great that you have found a place like Thailand that suits your preferences and offers a different pace of life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us!
Kristin great blog and interesting video ,come back to the uk We’re already missing you..)))❤🇬🇧👊
I'm back now! ❤
In the US they wash the chicken in chlorine to kill bacteria which is why it tastes different.
I sometimes make deliveries into JFK Airport. What's common out there is ' if you slow,you blow' . Take it for what it's worth.
Great insights! I live in SoCal but work for a UK company. The best of all worlds.
That's great! good benefits, too, I'd imagine :)
If I had only known you were here in NYC. sigh! I would have loved to meet you. I'm a real New Yorker and have lived here all my life. If you are not from here and especially if you have never been here you don't understand what it is to live here. You have to have a really THICK skin to live here. It's a tough city disguised as a mystical place. When people think of NYC who don't live here they think of Broadway and MSG and the Empire State building. They think of the Mets and the Yankees and Central Park. NYC is all that and a lot more but it's also cripplingly expensive to go to a show or see a concert. Most New Yorkers rarely do those things. There are a lot of high wage jobs here but you pay to live here in more ways than money. You have to have a special kind of grit to really thrive here. As a New Yorker when I go to most any other place in America or even abroad and look around I say to myself, "Gee it's nice that it's quite over here in THIS place but it's also kind of DEAD!" What NYC gives you is access to so much of just about everything as long as you know how to find it.
Couldn't agree more! Great comment!
I almost did a meet-up there but ran out of time. Thanks for the local insights though! I'm sure there's a lot to see and do in hidden nyc.
Your comments and prospective about the US was filled with so many stereotypes, NO ONE lives their whole lives that way, especially when they are pursuing a fulfilling life.
Like another youtuber has said very well, "notjustbikes", a fellow American living in the Netherlands:
"Cities are not loud, cars are."
I'm a dual US-UK citizen living abroad more than 20 years.... In my 20's and early 30s I lived in southern England and always told myself I wouldn't live in either NYC or London. Guess who was wrong on both counts! I lived in NYC for 2 years and it's less appealing because of the crowds, noise, etc. Hate the subway (and the Tube!)
Depending on who you ask in my US family, New York is either a total nightmare or or the great city to visit, but not live.
Welcome back and happy the 4th of July. Check out Boston, my favorite city!!! I did some "context switch" when visiting fine cities like Lisbon, Bruge, Hamburg and Amsterdam two months ago :) God bless America.
*Bruges, Belgium
Thank you! Happy 4th. Lisbon, Bruges, and Amsterdam are some of my favorites! They are featured in an upcoming video...
New York City makes me extremely uncomfortable. I don't like how people act there. I'll never go back if I don't have to.
Same, I left NYC for good and never want to go back
@@iliriacum666 I was getting shoved on the sidewalk it made me want to turn around and punch someone, but when I did nobody was making eye contact. I've never been treated that way anywhere else. And the garbage trucks slamming dumpsters at 2am, you can't even sleep.
I barely slept for 3 days because of the dumpsters - horrible.
To be fair, many Americans get culture shock visiting New York City, especially Manhattan. It's "the city that never sleeps," as the song goes. It's also one of the most expensive places to live in the US.
The people you described in England sound similar to midwesterners in the US. That region has many thoughtful and helpful people.
I took my dad on his last trip to Philadelphia, I was moved by how well people, mostly Americans, treated him.
I’ve never been to NY. Haven’t wanted to. I think of the movie Escape from New York when I think about going.
The chicken is bathed in chlorine or something like that.
Cool video, very interesting. xx
Thank you :)
I love how real you are, Kristin. Authentic personality goes a long way for great content!
Thank you so much for the kind words, @saintluke2nd! 😊🙌
Kirstin i 'm v pleased to know that u spend time in Manchester ,about an hours bus ride from where i live
I love Europe but I need to defend NYC! Yes, it’s expensive and can be hectic in spots like midtown, but there is so much wonderful culture, and much of it available for free or very low cost. Central Park is also such a gift. Kristin, next time you visit, I’d love to share some of NYC’s hidden gems.
What we talking is nyc exp in rent food or what?
Are u an Nyc native? Transplants glorify this place too much. It’s been bad lately. The way it was in the 80s and 90s. Soon all natives will be gone and only transplants and migrants will be left.
@@peterfus926yes expensive
Nyc isn’t only Manhattan either.
@@nenaj1 yes i now the diffrance bettween nyc and new york state i live in nj and bin to nyc a lot of time and a couple of time to new york state
I have been traveling for a year for the sake of cultural shock. Kinda look forward to reverse cultural shock when I return to US in a few months.
If you need any tips on the reverse culture shock... th-cam.com/video/2NENBlCEd9M/w-d-xo.html 😊
It isn't simply people are in a hurry it's the " I'm more important, move out of my way". America is a me, me ,me country where others can be left behind.
Always a pleasure! 😊
Thanks again, @jozsefizsak!
Hello Kristin. I’m LOL-ing (Incorrect Grammar, I Note)@ “Nobody Talking To Me”...In NY, After Living In Manchester (My Birth Town) Where Strangers Chat To You & Say, “Hello *Love”.😊 A Great Feeling! I Was In San Francisco For 2 Whole Weeks Once and NO ONE Spoke To Me (As People Usually Do In SoCal...Laguna Beach; Rodeo Drive Etc. I Was Shocked & Found It a Disturbing Experience! Fortunately I Was There Giving a Paper At a Conference So I Had Other Academic Colleagues To Interact With. Oh, I Then Crossed To Sausalito Where I Was Invited To *Drink Tea By 3 Different People Within 30 Minutes Of Leaving My Hotel To Stroll Main Street! Thank Goodness! :)) Anyway, Just Anecdotal Comments Given Your NY Post UK Experience!💙
Was in NY in 2000 visiting from London, and had just been to a few museums and was staying with a friend´s grandparents who had an apartment they had lived in for over 50 years overlooking Central Park. As I waited for a bus at a bus stop to get back to their apartment, and was not sure which bus to take, I thought of asking one of the other people at the bus stop and suddenly, I had this strange feeling that I was going to talk to someone who would tell me something about John McEnroe! It´s the first time I had that kind of ´premonition type of feeling´. I approached a lady in her 50s who was wearing a very smart purple suit, and who thinking about it later, probably worked in TV, who knows....Anyway, she was very helpful about which bus to take and she asked me where I was from and which museums I had visited. Then she told me she lived in a very famous building and that John McEnroe lived at the top of her building and owned several floors! It was really amazing! She told me that many famous people lived in her building. She was very nice and friendly. Then she got on her bus and left. The friend whose grandparents I stayed with, took me around NY and we were in Battery Park when she said, ´Look those are the Twin Towers! You should take a picture, They´re pretty famous! ´ So I did, and that was in June, 2000, the year before 9/11.
My family in the States is originally from NYC, but they couldn't pay me enough to stay there for more than several days.
It's understandable that everyone has different preferences, @dragasan! Each person's experience and connection to a place can vary, and it's important to prioritize what makes you happy and comfortable. 😊
@@TravelingwithKristin I was traveling with my pregnant ex-wife. We were in NYC and she was due any day. I told her that we had to hurry up, pack and leave New York ASAP. She asked, "Why?" I replied, "Because if she was born in New York, she'd know everything, and we just can't have that!" 😂
Europe, and Latin America, seem to have it worked out, slower pace, kinder, that is the way to go! I'm not a big city girl, NYC would not be my happy place. When you decide to settle down, buy a home and use it as a home base, which country would you choose?
I appreciate your perspective, Cindy K! It's always a personal preference when it comes to choosing a place to settle down, and I haven't choosen one yet. However, I'm grateful for the opportunity to travel and discover new places along the way. 😊🙌
You look stressed. When you are in The North of England, you look relaxed and happy. Up North is good for you.(I was 25 years in the DC area. Now retired in York (the original one). Up North is good for me, for sure).
Your friend said, 'Europe uses one specific strand of breed or what have you'. Totally not the case.
I work in a supermarket and in the last three months we've had nearly a dozen different varieties of black grapes alone. They come in from Chile, Peru, South Africa, etc... but even from each country, we may get several varieties depending where they come from in that country.
When you get back to the U.K., pick a couple of fruits and vegetables and over a month look at the variety name and country of origin.
Two lovely and charming ladies.
Being busy does not mean being productive. Some Americans love being perceived as busy because they think it is good. But it is not always good. I think the result of the busy mentality is stress, low quality of life, lack of connection with other people, aggression, and division.
Good point; being busy often interferes with productivity.
Burnout
"We are also the nicest if something really does happen."
During WW II approximately 350,000 allied soldier were evacuated over a 9 day period and considered one of the most complex operation in WW II. During 9-11, approximately 300,000 people from lower Manhattan was evacuated by water in a 9 hour period. Government agencies (USCG, Fire Dept, etc.) evacuated a bit over a third with the rest being civilian ferry operators and small boats (to include rubber dinghies) evacuating the rest.
During the "Miracle on the Hudson", when an airliner conducted a water landing, ferry captains immediately reponded without prompting, rescuing passengers from the slowly sinking aircraft.
NYC is the dynamic. It is the land of "ASAP", "In a New York Minute", and "I Want it Fucking Yesterday!". It is also incredibly crowded. At street corners or in mass transit during rush hour, personal space is non-existent. As such, New Yorkers avoid intruding on what little personal space other may have, as a courtesy. I have notice this in other ultra density cities, like Tokyo and Hong Kong. However, stand-offish New Yorkers can be friendly if invited. At that point, they would not be intruding on your personal space or privacy.
A friend from college in California in the 70s played his Martin guitar and loved bluegrass. He told me then that NYC, his real neck of the woods, was the city that never sleeps. You could always get live music all night, any kind you like. Post- Covid, I wonder what the story is now. Can you still get any kind of music any night in NYC? BTW, my friend became one of the reptile staff members at a NYC zoo (the Bronx Zoo, I think). He always loved snakes, and had some kind of Boa even way back then--his girlfriend never seemed to mind it, but it was a big terrarium). He was from the East Coast and went to college here with a cadre of prep-school friends who all enrolled in the same college in California--"that hippy school" where my Dad taught. I saw him on a TV interview a couple of years ago (right when I reached retirement age) in a project where he was collecting and studying rattlesnakes in AZ. He consistently had super-fast eye movements during that on-location interview, probably from working with those snakes. He kept referring to them as 'animals'. You find the 'animal' here (he'd located one under a desert rock outcropping for the camera man) and get the data on 'the animal' and return 'the animal' to its natural environment. He hadn't changed a bit! Way to go, Hugh! He's an alum who realized his ambition in actuality. So, is live music of all kinds still available in NYC? It's not a case of reverse culture shock, but my question is definitely cross-cultural. The thing is, different cultures are all totally at home in NYC somehow. How is that?
This country is sad. Yes I used to live in NYC. I live in Maryland now. I don’t miss NYC. I like visiting cuz the food is Amazing but I 1000% prefer Maryland and being closed to DC and Baltimore.
Amen… complete decline & decay of USA!
Where in Maryland? I haven't been there except the Baltimore Airport. I'll have to check it out!
I've never been to America but always thought maryland seemed a nice place to go.
@@jordizee I love Maryland
@@TravelingwithKristin I live in Southern Maryland…closer to DC but I love both DC and Baltimore. 🥰
Your comments and prospective about the US was filled with so many stereotypes, NO ONE lives their whole lives that way, especially when they are pursuing a fulfilling life. I don't live in New York, but I been there multiple times (live in NC) but I am so glad that when I want that NY experience I can go (without a passport) and get my fill and (most importantly) come back to NC or (anywhere else in this country) to get a different experience be it vistas, mountains, desert or tropical, (all without a passport). The appreciation of this has never be lost on me. No, this country is NOT perfect, absolutely if I wanted to gripe and nitpick I certainly could (a some days I do😊) But I always come back to have bless I am to be here. Be it all equal, I really wouldn't want to live anywhere else, issues and all.
Can't beat Scottish Beef , but I guess it's all subjective, one thing though London and NYC are very similar
I'll have to try it when I go to Scotland. I agree NYC and London are very similar.
I used to say when I lived in nyc that I just had to walk out the door and I’d spend $20.
That settles it - it's a thing!
Been twice and a definite energy about the place, saw a few street magicians/ buskers who were great ( apparently licenced in NYC!).
That's wonderful to hear, Roy! New York City is indeed known for its vibrant energy and diverse street performers. It's always a treat to come across talented buskers and street magicians while exploring the city. These little moments make a visit to NYC memorable. 😊
The first and only time I visited New York was exactly a decade ago. Below is the caption I wrote for my NYC Facebook photo album. I still stand by it.
Would go back to visit in a heartbeat. Could never exist there though. Absurd cost of living aside, it's just "too much".
"New York City grabs you, shakes you, slaps you...and like a true diva - does not apologies make. A delicate Vancouver disposition is no match for its sensory overload. I defiantly hated it (or tried), then secretly loved it...fiercely resisted it, only to voluntarily succumb to it. The grit, the glamour; the dirt, the splendour; the poverty, the opulence; the calm, and the chaos...it is a Great Big City of paradoxes that weave their narratives through streets and avenues, and manage to make cordial neighbours. I would lie if I said that I did not breathe a sigh of joy and relief when the wheels touched the tarmac at YVR...but, if I’m to tell the whole truth then I must admit...NYC will seep into your veins, hook you...and beckon you to come back. Just don’t expect it to beg - it’s too cool for that."
Wow - I love it, Maggie! You're quite the poet. I would take Vancouver over New York any day 😬
@@TravelingwithKristin I know you love Vancouver....funny, since I'm in the process of selling all my stuff and leaving it after 25 years. I'm gonna give the DN thing a try, and you were a partial inspiration! First stop will be my native Poland, and then Bansko, just to get my bearings and plop myself in a quiet town with an established DN community. Of course I am committing the cardinal sin of not having online income figured out prior, so a bit of cart before the horse type of situation...but I do have savings and have done quite a bit of research, so I know what I'm getting into. To go back to the Vancouver theme - it's unfortunately not the same city I fell in love with two decades ago. The cost of living is absurd, drug addiction and homelessness are rampant, healthcare is abysmal....it's actually quite sad to see this city deteriorate into as someone once described it "knock off Monaco". Basically a playground for the rich, with most average people barely hanging on.
You had joy and relief when you got back to Vancouver because you didn't wake up the next day to culture wars. Or guns everywhere. Or general idiocy.
New York is special. In the UK we have places for special people.
I currently live in Madrid but from NYC and living there and visiting just like in any city is different. When you see the same people on your commute and daily life you develop unique relationships. I love Spain and enjoy my life.
If and when I ever come back to the states it will always be back to the culture and diversity of NY.
I have lived in Manhattan for 10 years before moving to sub-urban NJ to start a family in 2002. I have been commuting to work in Manhattan all these years. I hv also travelled to a lot of places and have experienced some really cities. and yes NYC has always been a hustle but is not the only one. Go to Hong Kong and some major cities in China and they are not any less than NYC. Now that I am reaching age to retire and I am strongly considering moving to UK, probably London to me more specific. Yes it may sound crazy to retire in London but as long as I do not need to participate in rush hour commuting I think that should be fine.
I’m sorry, but her comments about the homeless were so feckless and shallow. She said there was more homeless population during the pandemic because there weren’t shops open, why are they homeless in the first place? Then you should be nice and pack up your DoorDash food to give to them because they’re going through a bit of a rough time. You think? People should be out in the streets protesting not throwing them a bone in the form of your fancy delivery food. Very out of touch
Wonderful vlog.
Fruit and vegetables have different varieties, breeds is something different.
It's all relative i guess, i live in the UK but come from New Zealand, the UK to me always seems overcrowded and busy although work culture is similar. The thing that always struck me is how few places are out of earshot of traffic, so many places in NZ are completely silent bar a few birds chirping.
If your in london the country side can be far away, but in other cities it can be about 20 minutes bike ride and your in the country.
The USA culture is whatever YOU make it. In most everything. That's what make this country so amazing.
Thanks for sharing
Thanks for watching! 😊
My American brother and wife came to visit us in England and we drove to Stratford-upon-Avon to do the tourist crawl thing. They insisted on seeing every site in the area, going on the tour and just cramming everything in from mid-morning until dinner. We could not get them to stop even for a quick bite at lunch, my British wife and I (American) had to literally buy Shakespeare souvenir shop fudge to keep us from starving and to make it through until evening. There's no way my wife and I would do that, my wife (and her family and friends) generally has a more laid back, English attitude, she'd never insist on dragging anyone around or bothering to manically see everything in 1 day, she'd just acquiesce and just enjoy the few things she could in a leisurely fashion, stop and have some lunch and just enjoy the day. Certainly not all my American friends and family are like that but your talk about New Yorkers and how fast they go and the scheduling got me thinking of that time!
Are you going to go back to Manchester? From your videos I could tell you just loved it there.
Yes I'm back already!
@@TravelingwithKristin Whew.
Great incites, New York and London are so twinned!
Indeed they are! Thanks for watching the video, @gigteevee! 😊
NYC isn't any different for residents than any large multi cultural city around the world. It's dog eat dog.....every man and woman for themselves. That said the experience is different for tourists visiting for a short period. I was there once in 2017 and loved it and can't wait to go back. I know it's expensive but you know that before you go.
I'm from Morecambe northwest England, hour from Manchester and great to say I've been to New York but never again not my thing , arrogant people some nice people but same as London not my thing , where as Liverpool wow awesome city love it go there when possible football or day out on train £20 return awesome ,just back from benidorm amazing xx respect 🙏 come visit Morecambe, not far from lake district beautiful x
Thank you for sharing your perspective, Andrew! It's great that you found Liverpool to be an awesome city that you enjoy visiting. Exploring new places and finding the ones that resonate with us is always a unique experience. Thank you for the invitation to visit Morecambe, it sounds like a lovely destination to explore.
@@TravelingwithKristin your welcome 🇺🇸🏴✌️x
Just back from benidorm last week too awesome place x🍻🏖
Are you saying Americans don't stop and help people? This country has some of the nicest and kindest people in the world. Europeans themselves can attest to this. Every country/culture has both good and bad aspects. This is not an American problem. I've also lived in both Europe and America and there is the hassle culture on both continents.
Tokyo Disneyland home sweet home and you could even call their country Tokyo Disneyland beautiful.
Here in Canada we say "Americans live to work" and We "Work to live". Pretty much sums it up I think.
It really depends where you are in the US. I've been to 42 states. The first time I visited San Francisco was as a student in 1995. It was great. You could walk around the city day or night and I never felt unsafe. Going back over the years I could notice the gradual change. Was there last May and while parking the car some guy smashed my rear door glass and tried to steal a rucksack while I was sitting in the car. Luckily, i had attached the rucksack to the seat belt so he didn't succeed. He didn't ever run off, just walked away!😂
London is just as cosmopolitan and international as NYC. It is also twice as big as NYC. The five boroughs of New York cover a total area of 300 square miles. London covers 610 square miles.
London is like the NYC of Europe it seems!
@@TravelingwithKristin Yes it is. Both cities have populations of over 8 million, many great restaurants, a very varied range of cuisines, plenty of things to see and do, a huge range of shopping. Also, in the case of London, more history than you can shake a stick at, as well as the largest amount of green space of any city in Europe. It really is a remarkable place.
London is the city NY wishes it was. You didn't mention that London is also clean.
Kristen in the UK people are actually very helpful except inside the M25 motorway ring road and London. People actually have time for others in most parts of the uk other than the South East
Too many Americans think it is the best and greatest countries in this world. But they have never been anywhere else. Also not many paid holidays to discover the world.. In NYC many beliebe the bank account balance is the high score of life 😊regarding food, you get anythink and more then nyc in Municg, Germamy or other places
Are you German?
The US should have a national mandated paid leave plus maternity leave, imo. People are too busy and not enough time to relax.
Finally, with all the homeless & drug addicts on every street corner, Americans are starting to realize we are declining & decaying….
@@TravelingwithKristin Yes, not many holidays, fear of being away too long, financial pressure, no job security, no social security net. Anyone can fall down from the top easily. So many clever people become homeless - highly educated people who spend a fortune on non-free education. The US needs a social security net, health insurance for anyone, free universities etc. or the rich and poor population gets separated even more. Also police violence is harsh. Any innocent citizen could be at the wrong place at the wrong time and be shot or arrested for nothing.
Everytime i mention healthcare costs to an American i find this throws them seriously off balance. I'm English.
Avoid main cities and life in America is still by far beautiful in any sense.
The nature across America is astounding
How so?