Money Expert Farnoosh Torabi On Protecting Your Finances, Leaving The City, & Outearning Her Husband

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  • @MzShonuff123
    @MzShonuff123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Just another reminder that there were large swaths of women who weren't at home with their kids because they were raising someone else's/cleaning someone else's house/working in factories for a pittance; women employed in domestic occupations made it possible for a lot of women to stay at home in the first place. It's important not to say things like "In the 1950s, women were at home with the kids" as a blanket statement not only because it's historically inaccurate but also because it erases the very real lived experiences of those women who worked and raised kids while also doing truly amazing things like-I don't know-organizing whole ass civil rights movements; this arrangement helped to lay the groundwork for the racial wealth gap that continues to widen to this day.

  • @ryanfulton1751
    @ryanfulton1751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    TFD saves lives! I'd rather be in quarantine with an emergency fund than without one. You guys prepared us for times like these.

    • @APennyPinchersGuide
      @APennyPinchersGuide 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's so true! I have some videos on Emergency funds on my channel. Don't get caught without one!

  • @user-zm9eo7gn9h
    @user-zm9eo7gn9h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Would love to see you interview a *regular* person in their twenties. Someone so average but that tries to be financially educated and make good choices. Sometimes it’s not the experts but our peers that we learn the most!

  • @nickwoo2
    @nickwoo2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I dont know about others but I have definitely been shamed for still living with my parents at 27, despite working fulltime and saving a lot for goals the stereotypes of the unemployed person living in the basement still persists.

    • @daejonmoody3304
      @daejonmoody3304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      nickwoo2 save all your money!!

    • @ninaanwamane8967
      @ninaanwamane8967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same, I also live with my mother but I pay my way and take care of her. I get pressured by others to move out when I’m perfectly happy staying at home and saving my money.

    • @gizanglyer5299
      @gizanglyer5299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what do you say when ppl give you a hard time?

    • @figuringitout4732
      @figuringitout4732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm in the same boat. I live with my mom, but I pay her $400 in rent and buy all of my own necessities. I'm saving so much right now, and I started investing about 1.5 years ago, and I wouldn't have gotten here without being able to stay at home. I know it's not an option for everyone, but there shouldn't be shame towards those who are able to do it.

  • @crystalgale15
    @crystalgale15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Funny thing, throughout my childhood and until now, my dad is so proud that my mom has a good paying stable job and he is a stay at home dad LOL he works as an auto mechanic with the shop at our home..money is inconsistent but he just loves to be the one taking care of us. Everything worked well. It's all about the pride of each party in the relationship. That's what I learned from my parents, do not be prideful and always communicate.

  • @Naatta
    @Naatta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    There was a time in my life when I hit rock bottom. We lived in a camper with a leaky roof, a crack in the tub that went straight through to the ground underneath, and even suffered with a bed bug infestation for many years. We also had some situations when money was tight to the point of paycheck to paycheck didn't even cut it.
    In those times, I tried to keep my house very, very clean. Why? Because out of all things that were out of control in my life, how clean my house was, was one thing I could control completely. After getting out of that kind of lifestyle, I make my bed every day, have a routine for cleaning (not a ritual, just a routine) and find it very satisfying and cathartic to come home to a clean bedroom, bathroom and house in general.

  • @marisellopez6022
    @marisellopez6022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Chealsea, what you do is very important. Very, you have changed my life and the way i thought about money.

  • @sneezeyeller
    @sneezeyeller 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I call work "mommy daycare". I am a much happier person working. My kids can see me work hard, succeed and also come home and have a relationship with them. The only time it matters that my husband or I make more, is if someone loses their job. And we both have my husband is always bragging and proud that I made more:)

  • @AnaRodriguez-wn8qq
    @AnaRodriguez-wn8qq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When Farnoosh said there was only 1 COVID19 case in NY - I’m sure that was only a few weeks ago but wow it seems like a lifetime ago! Pretty interesting that even at that point in time she already had so much foresight about what that could mean financially

  • @libraryminnie7674
    @libraryminnie7674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    These interviews just get better and better. I love that each show is given an hour so there is enough time for the audience to take away a significant amount of knowledge regarding their success, failures and many of their strategies and life choices that have gotten them to where they are now. Most excellent!!!

    • @APennyPinchersGuide
      @APennyPinchersGuide 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a good point. Having more time for the videos allows them to delve deeper into the topics. Going over topics like this is helpful in our life. If you are looking for more financial readiness videos I have some on my channel.

  • @tsubaith
    @tsubaith ปีที่แล้ว +6

    lmao anyone came here from the most recent Financial Confession episode to look for Chelsea's hair LOL?!

  • @sunrise2day462
    @sunrise2day462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    TFD is getting all people, but especially young people to think about what they are doing with their money before they get old and that is great!!!!

    • @APennyPinchersGuide
      @APennyPinchersGuide 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree! The earlier you start thinking about your financial future the better! I have some videos on that topic too!

  • @Ergmermerg
    @Ergmermerg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I had a deadbeat, jobless boyfriend at one time (not my finest post-divorce moment) who asked to see my card toward the end of a meal. I was confused but handed it to him... The guy seriously pretended he was paying for the meal himself when the waitress came by. Men like that are shocking.

  • @hmslivetv
    @hmslivetv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Cute hair, Chelsea, my internet financial mother

  • @CulinaryGuide
    @CulinaryGuide ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this conversation. It is so needed.

  • @mariat2834
    @mariat2834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    oh my god Confessions of a Shopaholic is such an amazing movie! I've seen it like a million times, and I'm so happy you mentioned it

  • @AshtonBurbich
    @AshtonBurbich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    “How do you not Cell Block Tango, these guys?” 😂 Chelsea is the best!

  • @platapapi420
    @platapapi420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thanks for the video Chelsea. Appreciated the discussion between the impact of these gender discrepancies on women. But one can imagine just how all of these impacts are exaggerated and inflated for single moms out there. They get the reduced salary because they are assumed to have a "provider" yet, given their reality, do not have the privilege to have those "providers" to actually fall back on at home...

  • @Chubbylito11
    @Chubbylito11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    when i make life changing financial decisions, i always tune in to chelsea. thanks for tfd

  • @toastlover
    @toastlover 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Chelsea's reaction when someone says they can actually leave NYC.

  • @GizmoAndKiwi
    @GizmoAndKiwi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I get the psychological benefit of making your bed, but you need to give it time after waking up so that the humidity can air out. This is especially important for people who have allergies, asthma etc but also for everyone to take good care of your mattress, blanket and pillow.

    • @Hasna256
      @Hasna256 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!! I don't get why people say you have to make it immediately. Better routine is to keep your bed uncovered for at least ten minutes while keeping the window open and you do something else, and then afterwards make your bed.

  • @islandboy4445
    @islandboy4445 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Idk what you're talking about in your more recent episode. Your hair is adorable here.

  • @Nandanyx
    @Nandanyx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When they started talking about how everything seems slow when you get out of NY: this happens everywhere. I live in Mexico but when I visit small towns around me, they all seem calm and all but 50 minutes later is like "does life here has a fast forward button?", Ive heard the same from people that come from Mexico City to my city

  • @lilidonna
    @lilidonna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rewatching TFC is part of my self-care routine. You learn a new thing with every re-watch. This time round its that Farnoosh sounds just like Alicia Silverstone!

  • @yinglin9537
    @yinglin9537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    All i can say is that all women i work with on a senior level feel guilty for not taking care of their children at home and the high senior mentors i have worked with, say that what they are most proud of in life are their children...as a single women with a high income living as an expat in China, the fact of being a foreigner sends the message to chinese men that they have to earn a lot of money to date me because in China, men have to be the breadwinner and foreigners here often have high positions and incomes. i can understand why this is a challenge for many women, because of men egos and traditional society values. A fun fact is i was brought up by the most traditional housewife mom and traditional father and both agreed to bring up two strong independent high educated and travelled women because of what they couldnt experience themselves...

    • @yeahgirl11
      @yeahgirl11 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's the cause of many problems in the world: ego. History shows that when men oppress women because of ego, society doesn't progress, and eventually WILL start going backwards (look at the middle east). We as humans CAN'T survive when people stick to rigid gender ideas/roles. I'm not saying that men and women are the same. I'm saying that expecting someone to act a certain way or do certain work BECAUSE of your gender is what causes backwardness/social stagnation.
      Good on your parents for raising you and your sister to be independent!

    • @asadb1990
      @asadb1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      im of the mindset both partners should work and earn to be competitive in the market. currently, im the breadwinner and i have the stress of providing for me and the wife. if my wife also earned money we would be in much better shape. so many thing we have to plan for that a dual income household can get without batting an eye. we save plenty but could do better.

  • @batirtzeurkiaga4973
    @batirtzeurkiaga4973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome conversation ladies. Thanks for talking about so many subjects.

  • @pJunies11
    @pJunies11 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okayyy, Loved this interview! I am already a fan of Farnoosh’s and now I’m also a fan of financial confessions! Keep’em coming!

  • @MzKesha05
    @MzKesha05 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I use to love listening to Farnoosh on Yahoo Finance Videos!!! I'm now following your podcast!!

  • @MB-km5hh
    @MB-km5hh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is an interesting video to watch with some changes in perspective over just a few weeks.

  • @kelleybuell5582
    @kelleybuell5582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All these stories make me aware what a great guy my husband really is.

  • @geneveiveharper
    @geneveiveharper 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It is not just the cut. Her hair appears to be a completely different texture. Looks good!

  • @queenlucysroyalmaid1
    @queenlucysroyalmaid1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    GOOD LORD, THOSE BANGS ARE CUTE.

  • @EhlieLuna
    @EhlieLuna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love TFD and I especially appreciated this episode today. Thank youuuu 💜

  • @emilyraskett6095
    @emilyraskett6095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE FARNOOSH ! have listened to her for years :)

  • @noname-gb3il
    @noname-gb3il 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Chelsea looks like the smart girl character in scoobydoo ♥️

    • @addbab1622
      @addbab1622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      velma

    • @cmntr_
      @cmntr_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now I'm imagining her in a yellow turtleneck

  • @razorsedge1
    @razorsedge1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're a catch Farnoosh! Your husband is a blessed man!

  • @elizabethbeckman7826
    @elizabethbeckman7826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The chop suits you so well Chelsea!!! You look so chic💛

  • @midnightcoalexpress
    @midnightcoalexpress 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    New Jersey still has high cost of living. Not as much as NY. But there’s a reason it’s top 4 or 3 state for cost of living. Pennsylvania is a better place for that

  • @tyresseferguson2462
    @tyresseferguson2462 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG...this was so refreshing to hear. I'm the breadwinner in my relationship and I was taught to keep a clean home so I do automatically take on the domestic tasks of cleaning to my standard.

  • @phaldaz
    @phaldaz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for such a wonderful interview to the viewpoint both of you ladies. This is very nit picky, but I wondered why the choice of fillet starting at 1:06:04? Maybe it's just a mistake, so keep an eye out. Thanks again!

  • @abilea4081
    @abilea4081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would love more talks about leaving the city for financial reasons, I feel like hollywood acts like you need to leave small towns for cities for the glamour and success but realistically most careers earn just as much if not more in smaller areas due to increased need

    • @asadb1990
      @asadb1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      also not to mention having 2h commute each way specially on public transport to and from big cities like nyc or la.

    • @abilea4081
      @abilea4081 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@asadb1990 Yes so true, I live so close to work it'd be a 15 minute drive with no traffic, however I catch public transport and it's an hour not including waiting time

    • @asadb1990
      @asadb1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abilea4081 the wait time in most public transports is the reason why i hate transit. most places are not like japan where the services are calibrated to the second.

  • @mariagabrielarodriguez1365
    @mariagabrielarodriguez1365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loooooved this episode!!!

  • @wendynoble6545
    @wendynoble6545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great episode!

  • @LadyDioRee
    @LadyDioRee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I also, love you that you guys say wherever you want in this show. Haha

  • @vickymc9695
    @vickymc9695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Taking turns paying for dinner, and making sure that you go to places you both can afford is a good work around. If one of you isn't working, a joint account works well.

  • @carolinaluna2453
    @carolinaluna2453 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Who else is here to see the hair cut 😂

  • @cltinturkey
    @cltinturkey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Farnoosh Torabi is great. Thanks! Here's an odd question. On the little sign between you "The Financial Confessions", why not have one arrow point towards each speaker? It's an exchange, a back-and-forth discussion, so that seems more appropriate. Just curious. Good job with the interviewing, Chelsea!

  • @calibby85
    @calibby85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOVE this new haircut Chelsea!!

  • @sewt885
    @sewt885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was great, thanks to you both!

  • @_aiborie
    @_aiborie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looking great Chelsea!

  • @nd8686
    @nd8686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Chelsea, i'm totally that woman! The one who's ambivalent about having children, but who's husband really wants them. He earns more than me, so I would be the primary caregiver. It's a tough spot to be in.

    • @katieelspeth2299
      @katieelspeth2299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm in a similar situation, I'm ambivalent and my husband REALLY wants one, but I am the higher earner. I think we do have the potential for him to be the primary caregiver, but I'm still the one who has to make and nurse the baby.

    • @asadb1990
      @asadb1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      why so afraid about having kids. kids are a blessing from heaven. and as far as raising is concerned, its the responsibility of both parents maybe no equal but in different ways.

  • @luzheaney8545
    @luzheaney8545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The few times I’ve been to NYC/Brooklyn I did feel rushed at restaurants. I felt like they wanted me out of there fast because of the excessive numbers of people per square foot. 🙆🏻‍♀️
    Everywhere we wanted to go also took forever, whether we were in the subway or in our own car. 😅
    Also not enough bathrooms, I was traveling with 2 little girls and majority of businesses didn’t have public bathrooms.

  • @chris230230
    @chris230230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Second too? Love your videos, thanks for the consistent great content.

  • @PrernaHarsha
    @PrernaHarsha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's the same all over the world..little more somewhere, little less somewhere .. but it's there. It's how we are brought up and how we are bringing up our kids. The narrative is same for women all across the globe, we are conditioned to feel guilty if we do anything less than perfection.

    • @asadb1990
      @asadb1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i find given the same task, women in general will do the task a little better. as far as the final presentation is concerned. in general women have an eye for detail than many men simply lack.

  • @TehBryanxx
    @TehBryanxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I KNOW ITS NOT A WIG but it kind of looks like it is. Alsoooo Farnoosh is so knowledgeable.

  • @anneshadas8249
    @anneshadas8249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The hair! ❤️
    Okay now i have to watch the video! 😋

  • @jmsl910
    @jmsl910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very interesting topic!

  • @margal3120
    @margal3120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I disagree - I didn’t realize I would enjoy my professional job until I was in it! We had already agreed I would stay home (granted, for the same reason you mentioned “your salary = childcare”) and he’s from a different country and the Mom stays home to raise kids and do all domestic chores. That was such a shock to me that I didn’t LOVE my new role now that I was in it. Communication isn’t always that easy when you come to these realities.

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This event has definitely brought to light what’s going on in people’s financial lives and made it less taboo to talk about. “When She Makes More” sounds interesting though. What does one do when the breadwinner needs paid leave to support the family? 🤔 I wouldn’t mind making less than a spouse from a masculinity perspective but, I’m competitive regardless of gender, situation, or whatever. I want to win.

    • @jclh21
      @jclh21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You’d be competitive toward your spouse in that regard as well? Interesting. I see it more as a team effort.

    • @BeautyOutspoken
      @BeautyOutspoken 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Seeing the need to compete with your wife is still from a masculinity perspective

    • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
      @CaseyBurnsInvesting 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Doing sports for 26 years made me competitive. It’s who I am. It has nothing to do with gender just to clarify. I’m intensely competitive with my best friends (also athletes). We’d do anything for each other but, it’s who we are as people.
      Don’t care if it’s a video game, finance, or whatever. We’re competitive and we enjoy it.

    • @yeahgirl11
      @yeahgirl11 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CaseyBurnsInvesting I appreciate that you seem introspective instead of just submitting to stupid conventions about masculinity. I've seen your comments on other finance videos, so that's why I'm familiar with you lol.
      I could see competitiveness being good, as long as it's healthy and your partner is the same way.
      I think it's important for men to have an active hand in raising their children. Sometimes that might involve becoming a househusband for some men. The problems humanity has is partly because men really didn't raise their children; they just worked or did whatever (depending on the culture, but many cultures still follow this pattern). I don't think this is how God really intended it to be. Children should be close to both parents, not just one. Men have a lot of valuable things to teach their children that will benefit society. But they don't because their ego is more important, so they just work. It sucks.

  • @johannaweigelt9163
    @johannaweigelt9163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I work in a restaurant and especially older men get so excited and giddy when they tell me that their wife is paying. haha

  • @businesswithsam
    @businesswithsam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great quality

  • @TheOfficialCurlyBae
    @TheOfficialCurlyBae 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did you ever watch confessions of a shopaholic? It’s my fave

  • @niac9568
    @niac9568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okay haircut! This is super cute Chelsea!

  • @saschamayer4050
    @saschamayer4050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1:47 start
    53:11 RFQ

  • @marluabarca7390
    @marluabarca7390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Like, omg, we had to leave the city, cuz PUBLIC SCHOOLS"...the privilege. 🤦

  • @isabelballester
    @isabelballester ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Looking cute as melon cat, Chelsea

  • @miaa7097
    @miaa7097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    im not having children .. plain and simple !!!

  • @nomipyar
    @nomipyar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so... no one’s going to talk about Chelsea’s BOMB haircut? 😍

  • @japonesa5186
    @japonesa5186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The reverse happens too with promotion... oh she doesn’t have a family 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @Selcrz
    @Selcrz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL DARLING

  • @SuperEbony5
    @SuperEbony5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Chelsea and TFD: I understand that you guys are running a business and that Intuit pays. But they're really kind of a shady company especially when it comes to taxes. To balance this, I would maybe suggest doing a shout-out for non-profit organizations as well, pro-bono? Like you could mention VITA services, or the Hebrew free loan society. Or a shout out for an FQHC that serves patients on a sliding scale basis.

  • @iankamau222
    @iankamau222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow.. “we have a case of Coronavirus in New York now”

  • @shybutopinionated1428
    @shybutopinionated1428 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    the cut.

  • @anaadventures7669
    @anaadventures7669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    omg her husband as her best investment *swoons* SO CUTE lol Chelsea's story is cute too albeit kinda creepy 😂

  • @hc5648
    @hc5648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    H C
    0 seconds ago
    I love when people who work outside the home pretend they spend more time with their children than a stay at home parent. You don’t, that’s OK, but by not admitting it you are perpetuating the same BS stay at home parents have had to battle for decades. We all make choices.

  • @suruthe7804
    @suruthe7804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you look..... bangin

  • @asharflo
    @asharflo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Chelsea I want to hear your husband's side of the story of dating and marrying you! It sounds like He's Just Not That Into You, but then he was into you. How?

  • @natureallmighty
    @natureallmighty 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    @AmandaMuse

  • @mausklick1635
    @mausklick1635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh god, the raw sexism on display here...

  • @chris230230
    @chris230230 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    first

  • @alexwyler4570
    @alexwyler4570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    fyi: portfolios for older people are ( before covid 19) staying in stocks because people ( before covid 90) lived easily to be 90. because we lost money in 2000, we were not as enthusiastic taking it out this time, like we wanted to do 2 weeks ago, so we lost a lot, now we have to ride it out and keep working until we are 70. we had over a million before being 60, i do not like your guest this week . she is a journalist. she does not think for herself like graham stefan does or the mortuary lady you had as a guest a couple of month ago. get suze orman on your show if you can. she started in the business by accident at 30, the age you are now. just a thought

  • @chuduy509
    @chuduy509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    nooooooooo, bring back the old hair!

  • @alexwyler4570
    @alexwyler4570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    eeeeesh. i am the age of her mother ish. her mother worries because it is biology, the guy chase the girl. i grew up in the 70s when we were told : " you call the guy"... human biology does not work like that. in birds, the guy is the colorful one, in other species, the guy is the big one that fights off other guys to win the girl. I hope your friend is the exception to the rule, i hope so, but most instances, the guy will leave her and take her money when she hits menopause. and him having good money, he will find a new younger honey. when a woman hits menopause, she will not leave to find a new young honey ( unless you are Madonna. the exception to the rule) . i remember in 1975 my mother needed my dad's signature to buy a car,she was working as a nurse. they were both mad about that. i assure you. your guest's mom is over the moon that her daughter makes her own money. i hope your guest knew the divorce lawyer you had on your show that was recommending prenups. ( i liked that guest - he thought for himself.). your guest today is not quite right in her thinking yet. when she is 60, she will have gotten a few HAHA moment. i do hope she is the exception to the rule you are OK with Mark because he picked you when he was his own man making is own money. now it does not matter if you make more then him. you met as equal. and you are each other 's best friends. Maybe it is the way your guest today expresses herself. her ideas are not quite done stewing yet. she is on her way though i hope. annd again, i hope she is the exception to the rule. i think what her mom sees is that she loves her husband more then he loves her. and if her dad is in agreement with her mom eeeeesh not good. hopefully

    • @yeahgirl11
      @yeahgirl11 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's exactly why women shouldn't depend on men. History has countless examples of why women shouldn't depend on men.

  • @sagu1lar
    @sagu1lar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The reason men feel like they have to be the provider, is not a social pressure, it is a biological one.
    Men who cannot prove social worth, do not get a partner. Monkey is just the tool we humans can show survival abilities. It doesn't matter if you have a beautiful heart, in the end, if a man has no money and no social credibility, will be left behind in society. The reason men feel very vulnerable when talking about being a provider, is because it is where we find purpose. To lose purpose feels like losing identity.

  • @romanzeekross
    @romanzeekross 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chelsea! I love you, I adore you, please do not let things like “thruple” make it thru the editing... yikes

    • @phaldaz
      @phaldaz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Which part of the vid was this?

  • @irmapham7887
    @irmapham7887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Chelsea, why do you always get the mom haircut? You dont even have kids darling, have fun!

    • @sexytrekkie
      @sexytrekkie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Irma Pham confused. Her haircut is a standard business haircut in my industry. Most of my female managers have that exact haircut. It’s considered a mom haircut?

    • @kseniyarosina2357
      @kseniyarosina2357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stevie Sanko I think most moms would opt out of this haircut - it requires maintenance (which by definition is too much). I am joking mostly, but not really

    • @thatjillgirl
      @thatjillgirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think it looks like a pretty standard and flattering haircut for a woman in her 30s, which is what Chelsea is. Also, I think it's plenty of fun.

  • @charlesphilpot1395
    @charlesphilpot1395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can you please interview Aja Dang please?? :)

  • @JeffTheEntrepreneur
    @JeffTheEntrepreneur ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow this was awesome reminds me of @empowerhermoney podcast