Wonderful story to help teach boys become a real man. There is truth to what the uncle lectured to him about loving his wife. Us ladies, we do not expect too much from our husband or significant other. All we ask are appreciation, acknowledgement, and love for the things we do for our family and others. Good luck to the couple and hopefully he continues to love her unconditionally.
I wish my husband has an uncle like yours. 😂 I am happy that you took your uncle’s advice to heart and changed your ways. That means you have a conscience. Many blessings to you and your wife!
Great story! Most women does not expect much from their man. All we ask for is respect, appreciation, acknowledgment, compassion & love. I’m glad that this man learned a great lesson from his uncle. Good luck to his relationship.
Great story! Definitely brought tears to my eyes! This is the older generations conditioning…to treat their wives as slaves. Hmong men need to change because life is different now.
My heart broke and i cried for your wife when all the other husband gave their wife their gift and you had nothing for her. I'm glad you finally realized how wonderful she is and changed after your uncle lecture you.
It's good to know that you realized your wrong doings before it was too late. Good job sir! Kudos to you! Just make sure it's ever lasting and not only for a short while cause you think "you've loved her" enough.
Hi Mab, Please put more stories (love your woman) out there like this one, so our husbands who listen to your channel will also learn something 😊 because if they really don't see anyone model that in their lives, they simply don't see it as important/priority. Thanks ♡
Good job brother. Yeah you should change. I'm glad to hear you change. Wish your family happiness . My husband always loves and helps me since we married 20 years still the same
Your father is a bad role model. Leej txiv coj zoo ces tub ki coj zoo yog leej txiv coj phem ces cov tub yuav coj phem ces zoo li no ntag mas brother. Glad that you changed and hopefully you continue to be a good husband and a good role model for your children.
Yog tias cov txiv neej hmong no txawj hlub wife li koj hlob thiab ho txawj pauv hloov li koj ces ntshe poj nrauj twb g flooding puv txhua qhov thiab 3 cov me ntxais txawj ntse twb g khiav mus yuav luag lwm hom neeg coob ua luaj os tus me txiv tsev aw
Koj hmoov ua neej tseem tshuav es koj thiaj li mus ntsib koj tu txiv hlob....yog koj tseem xyaum koj txiv es zaum qab xib taw daj lis txog thaum koj tu poj niam so kiag kua muag tsis quaj lawm ces ntawv yawg nrauj lo kiag koj lub hauv pliaj uas tsav tsav hwj chim ntag....nej paub poj niam tsawg thaum poj niam tsis quaj lawm ces ze ze qhov nej yuav raug tso tseg
A good father would never teach his sons to be lazy and not helping their wives do chores and taking care of the kids…this savage culture practices must be abandoned in the Hmong community…!
You are right! Only the unintelligent people would say such things to their sons! My husband’s parents had 4 sons and 1 daughter, They told the sons they had to do everything the daughter had to do, so they will not be so helpless. When I married my husband, He cooks, he washes dishes, He never waits on me for anything! 😐
You are lucky your wife haven’t left you yet. I feel sad for her for the first 10+ years of her marriage for you. I’m glad you woke up before she finds out what love means. You had bad male role model from your father. Teach your sons well.
Zoo kawg qhov koj pom koj tus kheej txoj kev coj tsis zoo es koj ho paub hloov lawm ua ntej nws lig rau koj. Vam tias koj yuav ua kom tom thawj es hlub hlub koj tus pojniam mus kom txog hnub kawg.
Typical toxic masculinity behavior that's passed down to Hmong men generation to generation. This is why Hmong women are more successful. We're raised to be responsible. We don't wait on anyone to do this or that for us. We find a way for ourselves. I'm glad you realized this before it was too late. There's only a few good men out there like your uncle.
We all grew up with our elders telling us men are on top and women should do there bidding. So some women just think it’s correct, other know better. Some men are thoughtful and know better, even though their parents thought them that way.
Kuv mas ntxub cov niag txiv neej uas tseem coj qub cwj pwm xyoo 75 es hais tias hauj dabtsi los yog poj niam li xwb txiv neej mas nyob li 1 tug nom luag ua tau ces khaws tawg xwb ib yam dabtsi tsis pab tsis ua hlo li
Kuv ces nyob lub niag neej zoo li no dua los lawm mas dhuav siab tshaj plaws. Nej cov niag txiv neej hmoob ces feem coob yeej coj li koj os. Only Peb cov poj niam hmoob thiaj ruam ruam es mloog nej hais xwb os. When you go out, you gotta open your eyes to see how other treat their wife. Cov es coj zoo ces yus kawm. Cov coj phem ces txhob kawm qhov phem ntawd.
Bro your father is the example of majorities of the Hmoob husbands which is so damn sad and heartbreaking heartbroken to be born Hmoob. Hmoob men act and believe to be helpless and useless that they can not learn to do the things to survive. Thank goodness bro you have changed for the better to help your wife out. Wish more men would change too. Hopefully they will after listening to your story.
Wow...my brother, I'm glad you'd come to your senses. You need to thank your uncle for the new you. I'm very happy, you became a real husband to your beloved wife and realized you mistreated her. I hope some of our Hmong brothers would wake up and treat their wives same way as u n ur uncle to an old age.
Men needs to be human first before becoming a gentleman which means they need to have a good heart love their wives and children and help out with chores in the house because household chores aren't only for women but for men's too. Those individuals needs to let go of their egos and face reality, stop acting like we still live back home and take charge of your wife man up and stop living the old life because men and women have the same right to everything in life, if you don't stop the way you act towards your wife you will loose your wife forever for taking her for granted in your life time.
This man if my spouse heard this. He will kick his but. There is no name or label say this is her or his job. This kind of man has no balls. He is a women. He deserve a good lady to teach him a listen.
Not all men are the same. My husband’s family is different My husband & his brothers were raised different They were told to do everything that their sister did Because they only had one sister. They cook, they wash dishes They never wait hands & feet on us wives like some terrible Hmong men 😐😐
Oh, yog thaub mus yuav saw los es rais ua nplhaib lawm mas hloov lawm tiag nawb 😂 Tiam sis thaum thaub qhuab ntuas lawv tom kawg, thaub tseem kom lawb tsis txhob nyoo siam piaj xwb ces….xyov yuav kav kawg hnub lau
Ces txhob yug yug lawm mas. Kuv niag zoo li xwb. Pom nws ua zoo li tag ces kuv ntsib nang maum tsis thas muaj mi nyuam txij kiag thaum ntawd los. Leej twg yuav nyiam hais tias koj yug ntxiv los kuv tsuas tias ‘NO’ not me.
@@ytv1610 you’ll be surprise to see that man like this exist in all race. If they’re so great, the women from their race wouldn’t be marrying out in the first place 😂
Last part 44:00 i thought he bought her a gold necklace with M pendant but you say a ring when he arrived at home. 😂 Btw. Glad the person in the story self reflected and changed before the wife recycled him. Alot of people should take a good look in the mirror before giving advices or judging others like this guy.
You were selfish. But I am glad your uncle lectured you and now you know. Womens expect the least amount from their s/o and to get something small for ur wife is all we need.
THAUB AW!!! NTSHE KOJ TXIV NEJ XAV TIAS POJNIAM YOG NEJ TUS QHEV, YOG ROBOT ES TSIS TXAWJ NKEES, TSIS TXAWJ TSAUG LEEG, TSIS TXAWJ SAB NO POJ??? NEJ KUJ MUAB KOOB LOS NKAUG POJNIAM SEB PUAS MUAJ NTSHAV TAWM NAWJ!!!! YOG MUAJ NO CES LUAG YEEJ TXAWJ SAB IB YAM LI NEJ THIAB OS??? LUB NEEJ NO YOG OB LEEG LUB, THAUM POJNIAM UA TSIS YEEJ LOSSIS NWS SAB 2 LAWM KOJ YUAV TSUM TAU PAB NWS THIAB!! NTSHE NEJ COV TXIV TUB XAV TIAS POJNIAM TSIS TXAWJ TU SIAB TSIS MUAJ SIAB NTSWS NO POJ????
Koj yog tus txiv caujkhaum tshaj plawg thiab zoo nkau li koj txiv siab phem ntag koj tsi tsim nyog ua ib tus txiv tsev rau tus pojniam zoo tsua yog koj tu poj niam thiaj nrog koj nyob xwb ntiajteb no hloov yus yuavtsum hloov raws lub ntiajteb no Thiaj yog neeg ntse ua li koj ua mas koj tseem ruam heev tus tub npab nauj koj txiv thiab koj ob tus tijlaug ms tseem ruam ruam kawg li yuav tsum tau hloov nawb.
You got lucky with your uncle who taught you how to love your wife and appreciate her and not take her for granted. Amen that you woke up and opened your eye's. Your father was cruel and misleading and from an A-hole man.
I APOLOGIZE FOR THE LOUD MUSIC AT 3.39 to 6.09 IT WAS AN EDITING ERROR. THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING.
Wonderful story to help teach boys become a real man. There is truth to what the uncle lectured to him about loving his wife. Us ladies, we do not expect too much from our husband or significant other. All we ask are appreciation, acknowledgement, and love for the things we do for our family and others. Good luck to the couple and hopefully he continues to love her unconditionally.
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I wish my husband has an uncle like yours. 😂 I am happy that you took your uncle’s advice to heart and changed your ways. That means you have a conscience. Many blessings to you and your wife!
Great story!
Most women does not expect much from their man. All we ask for is respect, appreciation, acknowledgment, compassion & love.
I’m glad that this man learned a great lesson from his uncle. Good luck to his relationship.
Great story! Definitely brought tears to my eyes! This is the older generations conditioning…to treat their wives as slaves. Hmong men need to change because life is different now.
Gosh guys! Mab already said it’s an error! Geez!!!!!! Give Mab a break!
But my blood boil from this story. Ugh.
Omg.....I love this uncle 1,000,000 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My heart broke and i cried for your wife when all the other husband gave their wife their gift and you had nothing for her. I'm glad you finally realized how wonderful she is and changed after your uncle lecture you.
That's was life changing for you and your wife. I'm glad you made up for your lost and sister kudos 👏 💐 for you.
Tig los ua zoo tsis lig nawb ua neeg nyob leej twg los yeej xa tau ke hlub ke pab pom txog luag lwm tus txoj ke zoo nawb
What a great story to learn from. May it help the men out there who needs help.
I love this story..I am glad you finally leqrn to love and treat your wife like she deserves.
It's good to know that you realized your wrong doings before it was too late. Good job sir! Kudos to you! Just make sure it's ever lasting and not only for a short while cause you think "you've loved her" enough.
Zaj no ua kev qhia peb cov txiv neej zoo heev li o, ua tsaug koj nawb niam neej vam kuv mloog mas kuv los kua muag kawg li o , from hmoob Australia
Beautiful story! Wish my txiv quav dev can change like you
Koj yog ib tug txiv neej siab phem tshaj plaws thiab Ruam tshaj plaws... Tiam sis ua tsaug uas koj tuaj muab piav ua kev kawm kev qhuab qhia rau peb sawv daws Kawm nawb
Hi Mab,
Please put more stories (love your woman) out there like this one, so our husbands who listen to your channel will also learn something 😊 because if they really don't see anyone model that in their lives, they simply don't see it as important/priority. Thanks ♡
You should put this in your inspiration story...the son such thanks his uncle for open his eyes and heart towards his wife...
Glad you witnessed real love and changed for the best. Keep the real love up
Feem coob txiv neejHmoob coj li koj txiv nej es peb pojniam Hmoob thiaj tsis xav yuav nej ces khiav mus yuav Miskas lawm mas
Good job brother. Yeah you should change. I'm glad to hear you change. Wish your family happiness . My husband always loves and helps me since we married 20 years still the same
Your father is a bad role model. Leej txiv coj zoo ces tub ki coj zoo yog leej txiv coj phem ces cov tub yuav coj phem ces zoo li no ntag mas brother. Glad that you changed and hopefully you continue to be a good husband and a good role model for your children.
Everybody know how to wash dishes. It just laziness that makes the difference.
Yeap! 100% true laziness
So sad .. but so happy that u realizes u have not love her enough n start love her …glad u learn from your uncle.
I'm glad you changed before it's too late. .
I'm happy you're changed for better for your wife and kids. If you water and fertilize your flower, she'll blooms beautifully.
Musiv siund too higj.
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Beautiful
Txiv hmoob never change
Yog tias cov txiv neej hmong no txawj hlub wife li koj hlob thiab ho txawj pauv hloov li koj ces ntshe poj nrauj twb g flooding puv txhua qhov thiab 3 cov me ntxais txawj ntse twb g khiav mus yuav luag lwm hom neeg coob ua luaj os tus me txiv tsev aw
Some men will definitely change but some they will carry their ego for life!!
Zoo lawm me txiv tsev haw yog koj tseem tsi tig los hlub koj tus me pojniam thiab ce tiam no yug los nkim tiam kiag li lawm os
Koj hmoov ua neej tseem tshuav es koj thiaj li mus ntsib koj tu txiv hlob....yog koj tseem xyaum koj txiv es zaum qab xib taw daj lis txog thaum koj tu poj niam so kiag kua muag tsis quaj lawm ces ntawv yawg nrauj lo kiag koj lub hauv pliaj uas tsav tsav hwj chim ntag....nej paub poj niam tsawg thaum poj niam tsis quaj lawm ces ze ze qhov nej yuav raug tso tseg
Wow love this story ❤
Glad to know that you didn't end up being a narcissist. Most older men were raised to be narcissist.
Your dad is wrong regarding a relationship
A good father would never teach his sons to be lazy and not helping their wives do chores and taking care of the kids…this savage culture practices must be abandoned in the Hmong community…!
You are right!
Only the unintelligent people would say such things to their sons!
My husband’s parents had 4 sons and 1 daughter,
They told the sons they had to do everything the daughter had to do, so they will not be so helpless.
When I married my husband,
He cooks, he washes dishes,
He never waits on me for anything! 😐
You are lucky your wife haven’t left you yet. I feel sad for her for the first 10+ years of her marriage for you. I’m glad you woke up before she finds out what love means. You had bad male role model from your father. Teach your sons well.
Is it just me or the music volume is higher than Mab's voice? If not, can we get a reupload
Sorry editing error.
Wow your ticket to Wisconsin worth a millions Dollars by going to your uncle's house.
Good thing you opened your eyes and learn to change. Glad you didn't stick with your father teaching.
Lub suab music nrov dhau lub suab hais story lawm os
Zoo kawg qhov koj pom koj tus kheej txoj kev coj tsis zoo es koj ho paub hloov lawm ua ntej nws lig rau koj. Vam tias koj yuav ua kom tom thawj es hlub hlub koj tus pojniam mus kom txog hnub kawg.
Niam neej vam aw Kuv mloog koj txoj no tag ma Kuv lub kua muag ca lo2 thiab o Kuv ce yog ib tu ntawv o
Typical toxic masculinity behavior that's passed down to Hmong men generation to generation. This is why Hmong women are more successful. We're raised to be responsible. We don't wait on anyone to do this or that for us. We find a way for ourselves. I'm glad you realized this before it was too late. There's only a few good men out there like your uncle.
Proud of you, brother, that you finally realize. Men never know how risky to carry a baby to full term and deliver it.
My blood already boiling when this man taught his son how to treated his future wife! Almost stop listened to this story that not benefit me. Lol!
Best story for hmong men to learn....there no such job for women...it everyone jobs...the only job that men can't do it giving birth...
We all grew up with our elders telling us men are on top and women should do there bidding. So some women just think it’s correct, other know better. Some men are thoughtful and know better, even though their parents thought them that way.
Kuv mas ntxub cov niag txiv neej uas tseem coj qub cwj pwm xyoo 75 es hais tias hauj dabtsi los yog poj niam li xwb txiv neej mas nyob li 1 tug nom luag ua tau ces khaws tawg xwb ib yam dabtsi tsis pab tsis ua hlo li
Nyob zoo kab lias niam neej vam, we follow you every time, love you voice , the more we listen the more it helps to justify our life
One of my favorite. Show me how to love my wife even more.
Why do need to listen to this in order to love your wife more? Love is always the same. When you only love because others showed you how, is it love?
Ua cas thaum yuav yog txoj saw nrog lub kib with the M cas thaum muab rau tus poj niam hov yog lub nplaib mas.
Twb yog nws tu siab txaus rau koj lawm los mas thaub laus ruam.
We women need a lots of love! Most men never understand.
Kuv ces nyob lub niag neej zoo li no dua los lawm mas dhuav siab tshaj plaws. Nej cov niag txiv neej hmoob ces feem coob yeej coj li koj os. Only Peb cov poj niam hmoob thiaj ruam ruam es mloog nej hais xwb os. When you go out, you gotta open your eyes to see how other treat their wife. Cov es coj zoo ces yus kawm. Cov coj phem ces txhob kawm qhov phem ntawd.
Yus txiv lim hiam ces cob yus lim hiam los nim khav tias yus mas tsheej txiv neej yawg tshaj cas quav dev ua luaj koj os yom hhhh
Bro your father is the example of majorities of the Hmoob husbands which is so damn sad and heartbreaking heartbroken to be born Hmoob. Hmoob men act and believe to be helpless and useless that they can not learn to do the things to survive. Thank goodness bro you have changed for the better to help your wife out. Wish more men would change too. Hopefully they will after listening to your story.
Wow...my brother, I'm glad you'd come to your senses. You need to thank your uncle for the new you. I'm very happy, you became a real husband to your beloved wife and realized you mistreated her. I hope some of our Hmong brothers would wake up and treat their wives same way as u n ur uncle to an old age.
Txiv neej hmoob Mas siab phem thiab tub nkeeg tshaj plaws ....Sim neej no dhuav neeg tshaj plaws ..nws Mas nim nyob cuag li nws yog Nom ...nws saib poj niam li yog ib niag qhev xwb ...ntxim ntxub thiab dhuav neeg ...dhuav siab tshaj plaws ...thiam nws nrauj yus lawm Mas yus Kaj siab lug xwb...tsis nco nws ib qho hlo li ...vim yus dim plaws tus neeg siab phem siab dub tsis muaj txoj kev hlub yus li xwb txhob nyob rau nws tsim yus lub siab lawm ...
yog pev cov poj jiam nthaw li kom xwb
Cov niag txiv tub nruam tub nkeeg leej txiv yog ib tug neeg nruam cob qhia me nyuam cov niag tub los tseem nruam tshaj niag leej txiv lawm thiab ua niam txiv yuav tsum sib pab koj tsis yog huab tais koj tub2 nkeeg log tseem qia2 dub thiab
Old wise man once told me…happy wife, happy life.
Txiv neej Hmoob yeej ruam li no. Tsi yog tsi txaej. Kuv xav tias siab phem xwb
Txivneej zoo li no ces txivneej ruam siab ruam thiab phem xav nqaim tsis paub hlub tus hlub nws. Ntxub chaj cov txiv zoo li no.
Mab, please dont include music when you start story. It's very distracting & hard to hear you.
Sorry editing error xwb os.
Your father raised you and your brothers WRONG. He raised you like 1975 men. I'm glad your uncle guided you on the right path.
Men needs to be human first before becoming a gentleman which means they need to have a good heart love their wives and children and help out with chores in the house because household chores aren't only for women but for men's too. Those individuals needs to let go of their egos and face reality, stop acting like we still live back home and take charge of your wife man up and stop living the old life because men and women have the same right to everything in life, if you don't stop the way you act towards your wife you will loose your wife forever for taking her for granted in your life time.
This man if my spouse heard this. He will kick his but. There is no name or label say this is her or his job. This kind of man has no balls. He is a women. He deserve a good lady to teach him a listen.
He still stayed through the whole event before going home!! I hope it took him faster to change!! ...I still say men are hopeless
Not all men are the same.
My husband’s family is different
My husband & his brothers were raised different
They were told to do everything that their sister did
Because they only had one sister.
They cook, they wash dishes
They never wait hands & feet on us wives like some terrible Hmong men 😐😐
Oh, yog thaub mus yuav saw los es rais ua nplhaib lawm mas hloov lawm tiag nawb 😂
Tiam sis thaum thaub qhuab ntuas lawv tom kawg, thaub tseem kom lawb tsis txhob nyoo siam piaj xwb ces….xyov yuav kav kawg hnub lau
😢 my husband is the same way. Thaum mus yug menyuam, nws twb tsis los xyua yus li. Nws tseem saib nws lus phone thiab pw thaum yus mob mob plab. Nws cas muaj lub hais rau yus tias yug menyuam tsis nyuab.
Ces txhob yug yug lawm mas. Kuv niag zoo li xwb. Pom nws ua zoo li tag ces kuv ntsib nang maum tsis thas muaj mi nyuam txij kiag thaum ntawd los.
Leej twg yuav nyiam hais tias koj yug ntxiv los kuv tsuas tias ‘NO’ not me.
Txiv neej hmoob mas muaj cov phem caug li koj ntag.
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what kind of men is this geesh
Hmong OG!
Some boys was raised to lives like king. My BIL was like this man. Good thing we lived together and I was able to put him in his place…
These aren’t men. Just hmoob guys.
@@ytv1610 you’ll be surprise to see that man like this exist in all race. If they’re so great, the women from their race wouldn’t be marrying out in the first place 😂
Kj qhov music nro dhau lawm xa kom kj tss txhob tso music puas tau
Ur music too loud can’t hear u
You are not a loving man and not deserve love from your wife
Last part 44:00 i thought he bought her a gold necklace with M pendant but you say a ring when he arrived at home. 😂
Btw. Glad the person in the story self reflected and changed before the wife recycled him. Alot of people should take a good look in the mirror before giving advices or judging others like this guy.
The music is too loud.
I’m glade you changed, you need to value your wife
Editing error. Music is too loud
Sorry error lawm xwb
Koj txiv lub maib kev cai ruam dhau lawm os. Nws Xav hais tias nws yog nom no kab !? Coj lis koj txiv hais ces neeb kawg puas xwb os. Txawm yog xyoo 75 los 2022 los ib leeg yuav tsum sib pab thiab lis zoo nawb. Nov thiaj lis yog kev hlub. Yog yuav Poj niam los UA qrhev xwb ces no way. Not calling love.
Mloog ua rau kuas muag los
Music in the middle of story is annoying asf
You were selfish. But I am glad your uncle lectured you and now you know. Womens expect the least amount from their s/o and to get something small for ur wife is all we need.
Your music is too loud. You don't need music
Music too loud. Turn down a bit more
THAUB AW!!! NTSHE KOJ TXIV NEJ XAV TIAS POJNIAM YOG NEJ TUS QHEV, YOG ROBOT ES TSIS TXAWJ NKEES, TSIS TXAWJ TSAUG LEEG, TSIS TXAWJ SAB NO POJ??? NEJ KUJ MUAB KOOB LOS NKAUG POJNIAM SEB PUAS MUAJ NTSHAV TAWM NAWJ!!!! YOG MUAJ NO CES LUAG YEEJ TXAWJ SAB IB YAM LI NEJ THIAB OS??? LUB NEEJ NO YOG OB LEEG LUB, THAUM POJNIAM UA TSIS YEEJ LOSSIS NWS SAB 2 LAWM KOJ YUAV TSUM TAU PAB NWS THIAB!! NTSHE NEJ COV TXIV TUB XAV TIAS POJNIAM TSIS TXAWJ TU SIAB TSIS MUAJ SIAB NTSWS NO POJ????
Tej niag ua koj txiv qhia koj expire lawm ov thaub ruam thaub hauv loj 😂😂😂. Lam tuaj nyob tebchaws vam meej xwb lub hlwb tseem nyob xyoo 75 🤣🤣🤣
You are bad with your wife
OMG THE MUSIC SHUT IT OFF!!!
Koj yog tus txiv caujkhaum tshaj plawg thiab zoo nkau li koj txiv siab phem ntag koj tsi tsim nyog ua ib tus txiv tsev rau tus pojniam zoo tsua yog koj tu poj niam thiaj nrog koj nyob xwb ntiajteb no hloov yus yuavtsum hloov raws lub ntiajteb no
Thiaj yog neeg ntse ua li koj ua mas koj tseem ruam heev tus tub npab nauj koj txiv thiab koj ob tus tijlaug ms tseem ruam ruam kawg li yuav tsum tau hloov nawb.
Wats wit the loud music
Too noisy.
You got lucky with your uncle who taught you how to love your wife and appreciate her and not take her for granted. Amen that you woke up and opened your eye's. Your father was cruel and misleading and from an A-hole man.
This one was hard not to judge but I judged the heck out of it. Sorry dude but you’re not royalty. You ain’t it.
Turn off ur music is to loud 😊
You are not a king!!!
Shame one you 🫵🏼