Tos luag muaj txoj lug tias tus lawv txaus siab lawm ces lawv yeej txawj txawj hloov lawv tus kheej los yeej muaj tiag ne yom. This is a very good story. I enjoyed very much.
This story is a great example of when a man doesn't and can't change but for the woman he truly loves. Unfortunately, his girlfriend and first born wasn't enough to change him. But glad to hear you turned your life around and became a loving person, especially towards your parents. 👏🏻
Wow!! He is the hero to this woman. To the woman involved with this neej neeg -Please love him dearly because he saved you from evil hearts. To the man, you have a good heart and please continue to be good for the life you chose.
Zoo tiag li os brother! Zoo siab koj tig los ua ib tug neeg zoo, los coj koj cov kwv tij, los yog ib tug zoo txiv tsev, zoo rau koj tus niam tsev, ib leej txiv zoo rau koj tej menyuam, los hlub koj niam koj txiv thiab koj niam tais yawm txiv li ko👏👏👏 Proud of your bro!
What a wonderful story!! Thank you for sharing. Always believe that if you are not dead, you can always change for the better. Glad you took that road. May God continue to bless and watch over you and your family.
Great message Brother! Let it be known that lives can change, it’s just a matter of how much you want it! No more excuses people…your life is what you make of it! Good for you Brother!
You are right, brother! Change starts within. No one can change you unless you want to change. Glad you turned your life around and are now happy with a family.
This is such an inspirational story. I'm so proud of you, brother for changing into a good person and loving and protecting your wife and kids. I'm glad both sides of the family learn to see that you are finally a changed person.
Good story! Thanks for changing and being a great example and for sharing your story. The way you are with your family reminds me of my husband. He’s super protective of his family and home.
You both saved each other so love each other. You saved her from your bad evil gang members. She saved you from getting you out of the gang life. Glad you changed your life around because of the love you have for your wife. Your wife must’ve loved you so much to want to be with you even though you were a bad person.
I guarantee nobody here will be ok with a 27 year old man trying to take their 15 year old daughter out to “hang out” or will believe any 27 year old man stalking her just to make sure she is “safe”. This isn’t a love story nor anything he should be bragging about. He should be ashamed of himself.
In Hmong words (kav tsis tau laus or kav tsis ntev us zoo). Wow! Back in those days our Hmong peoples just barely arrived here in the US, we were poor some of the sponsors rented those cheapest housing in the hood, ghetto areas for some of our Hmong peoples but we pride felts that we were came to America, soon enough pride turn into tragedy for those came to live with so many gangsters around them. So many Hmong families destroyed by their son’s & daughters were recruited to jointed gangs, parents lost life due to the facts that their youngester joined gangs situations! Glad you’re back into the real world with beautiful heart inside!!
If I met this man when he was 20 years old, I would probably run fast in the opposite direction. Now, I see him as a hero. Wow, what an inspiring story!
Back in the 90 Laib still got heart to respect the elderly. Even the head of the gang still respect his parent and they wouldn’t hurt their family. Kids in the 2000 till now they don’t get AF, their family gonna b their first target
Very true! Laib is loving and loyal to their wives! Mines a laib Laus and. Never let me down ❤ It’s great that you’ve changed for the better n a man will change his way for the one he loves ❤
Ua tau li no ces zoo heev li os. Txoj kev phem tsuas yog yuam kev lawm xwb tiag tiag li. Menyuam laib Pauv tau tsheem zoo dua cov txiv tsev es tsis hlub poj niam menyuam es niaj hnub tham hluas nkauj; cia poj niam menyuam txom nyem quaj ntsuag. (This shows that your early choices really were just mistakes. In a new country even your parent could not protect you from that life. You are a very thoughtful and good hearted person. Changing for the better is better late than never. You changed into a better man than some “good” men who choose to cheat and not take care of their wife and kids; who are willing to throw away their family for booty.)
No one can change you. Only you can change yourself if you are willing to change it. God bless you and your family that you found your true love and turned your life around and change for the better.
I think assertiveness gets us in trouble in the Hmong culture bc they are always wanting and teaching obedience ... the more we listen and follow we become the "good kid"... then yet when we don't listen we are called "laib" I had a lot of thought that maybe we should grant/ "foom" our kids to "ua laib" so in the future they will "laib ub laib no li lub siab xav". Tam sim no cov menyuam mloog lus dhau lawm... lawv tsis muaj hom phiaj li lawm.
Metub hnub no koj paub tias ua niam ua txiv hlub menyuam npaum lica kuv tsis yog koj niam tabsi kuv zoo siab tias koj ho txawj los ua 1 tug tub zoo rau niam thiab koj hloov ua neeg zoo xyoo 1986 1996 ntawd ma peb cov niam thiab txiv ma chim tshaj plaws lios metub aws tej tug ce ua ua laib raug laib tua tuag tej tug ce raug kaw 20 30 xyoo hnub no koj ho ua niam ua txiv koj paub tias mob lica zoo siab rau koj los ua neeg zoo lawm
.........I think there's more to this story then told. There's another side. I don't believe all because stalking and predatoring a minor shouldn't be the case no matter what the situation is. If you feel she's not safe,, there's way you could help her like notify others. And doesn't matter if she safe or not he all ready took her home. Non of his business after he told his guys to stay away from her as well as he should too. Why he stalking her?? No matter if she wanted to be with him at the time, the right thing for him is stay away and tell her she's a minor. He knows she's a minor and had his eyes on her since that is why he ordered his guys not to touch her. Not to mention he left his first child and his ex girlfriend too. If you think you're as good as you are, you shouldn't leave your child and predatoring or stalking a minor. I believe there's more to this story you didn't disclose but that's ok. As long as you take care your family now but back then you knew, you stole her heart as she was a minor. You knew exactly what you want from this crying little girl. You knew it wasn't right but your had your lust and you had eyes on her since. I don't think you're good as your story here and not as good as everyone think you are or inspirational due to the fact you stole a minor's heart.
Brother, it's great you got out of the gang life, but the gang cannot let you go. It will catch up and find you. My nephew wS in the worst if the worst gang, he got out and married with 4 children. But 25 years later he ran into an old gang and 2 weeks later he was dead...drive by. You are in for life, like the marriage vow til death do us part. Good luck.
Hey brother everyone has it's own down side, but you're just an out of the ordinary. Keep up the good work and good luck to you and your family. A clan good leader is no stronger than a person with the kind of history like yours.
Tos luag muaj txoj lug tias tus lawv txaus siab lawm ces lawv yeej txawj txawj hloov lawv tus kheej los yeej muaj tiag ne yom. This is a very good story. I enjoyed very much.
This story is a great example of when a man doesn't and can't change but for the woman he truly loves. Unfortunately, his girlfriend and first born wasn't enough to change him. But glad to hear you turned your life around and became a loving person, especially towards your parents. 👏🏻
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Wow!! He is the hero to this woman. To the woman involved with this neej neeg -Please love him dearly because he saved you from evil hearts. To the man, you have a good heart and please continue to be good for the life you chose.
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GREAT STORY! Not too many of these guys can turn back and become good. Glad you were able to change your life style around...
Zoo kawg nyias mam kawm nias thiaj tiav os.
Wow, what a great story. Xav kom txhua tus txiv neej txawj xav li koj. Your wife and kids are truly blessed! You’re a good man!
Zoo tiag li os brother! Zoo siab koj tig los ua ib tug neeg zoo, los coj koj cov kwv tij, los yog ib tug zoo txiv tsev, zoo rau koj tus niam tsev, ib leej txiv zoo rau koj tej menyuam, los hlub koj niam koj txiv thiab koj niam tais yawm txiv li ko👏👏👏 Proud of your bro!
What a wonderful story!! Thank you for sharing. Always believe that if you are not dead, you can always change for the better. Glad you took that road. May God continue to bless and watch over you and your family.
A man will move mountains for the right one ☝️
Towards the end of the story you said, you saved her....I believe it was the other way around...she saved you
Good job turning your life around. I think it’s because you met someone who you were willing to change for.
Great message Brother! Let it be known that lives can change, it’s just a matter of how much you want it! No more excuses people…your life is what you make of it! Good for you Brother!
Motivation, courage, strength, and success
Zoo heev li me brother aw tsuav yog muaj lub siab zoo tig tau rov los uas neeg zoo ov.
It's hard to love a gangster! You either at the table or in the menu. Glad you're a changed man.
You are right, brother! Change starts within. No one can change you unless you want to change. Glad you turned your life around and are now happy with a family.
How many of you gangster men's are in here listening to this story. This story is a really good one, similar to mine in some ways.
This is such an inspirational story. I'm so proud of you, brother for changing into a good person and loving and protecting your wife and kids. I'm glad both sides of the family learn to see that you are finally a changed person.
good person? I hope you’re not letting 27 year olds take out your 15 year old 🤦🏻♂️
Life changing experience happy for you brother only you can rediscover yourself
What a great story to share. People can change. What love can do for a person. Wishing you well, mister.
Koj hais yog nej cov laib yeej muaj siab ntsws. Kuv muaj ib tug nus uas huam nab laib tabsis tamsim no kuj muaj lub neej zoo lawm thiab hlub kuv niam kuv txiv lawv.
Good story! Thanks for changing and being a great example and for sharing your story. The way you are with your family reminds me of my husband. He’s super protective of his family and home.
Laib txoj kev hlub tseem zoo duas cov tsi yog laib e ua neej nrog lwj lwj siab
You both saved each other so love each other. You saved her from your bad evil gang members. She saved you from getting you out of the gang life.
Glad you changed your life around because of the love you have for your wife. Your wife must’ve loved you so much to want to be with you even though you were a bad person.
Agree 💯
Wow sounds like k drama story
Nkawv txoj kev hlub zoo li kuv txoj tab si tu siab vim yu hlub lawv tag siab tab tu siab lawv tsi hlub yu tiag
1 out of 100 menyuam laib will turn back to do good! Back in the early 90s to mid 90s.
Very good and inspiring story. Love it. Happy for you and your wife
Love your story. Such inspirational story. May God bless you & your lovely wife.
I guarantee nobody here will be ok with a 27 year old man trying to take their 15 year old daughter out to “hang out” or will believe any 27 year old man stalking her just to make sure she is “safe”. This isn’t a love story nor anything he should be bragging about. He should be ashamed of himself.
That’s wonderful you changed for the better. You changed for the one you love.
In Hmong words (kav tsis tau laus or kav tsis ntev us zoo). Wow! Back in those days our Hmong peoples just barely arrived here in the US, we were poor some of the sponsors rented those cheapest housing in the hood, ghetto areas for some of our Hmong peoples but we pride felts that we were came to America, soon enough pride turn into tragedy for those came to live with so many gangsters around them. So many Hmong families destroyed by their son’s & daughters were recruited to jointed gangs, parents lost life due to the facts that their youngester joined gangs situations! Glad you’re back into the real world with beautiful heart inside!!
Zaj no zoo heev li
If I met this man when he was 20 years old, I would probably run fast in the opposite direction. Now, I see him as a hero. Wow, what an inspiring story!
I would be scared too. He likes little kids
The few good men. Glad you made it.
Cuag ntuj aw yv hais li cas thiaj zoo lub siab os
Nrog koj zoo siab kawg kwv tij.
😆😆😆....yeej tseeb nawb
Yog ib qho Zoo thiab yog ib txoj kev kawm muaj nqis...Laib tsis txhais tias yog neeg phem tus neeg phem hloov ua neeg zoo muaj nqis li ib thooj kub
Glad you changed for the person you love. No one can changed a man but a man can changed themselves for the women they desire is you.
💯
Back in the 90 Laib still got heart to respect the elderly. Even the head of the gang still respect his parent and they wouldn’t hurt their family. Kids in the 2000 till now they don’t get AF, their family gonna b their first target
Koj tsis yog laib os koj tsuas yog nyiam li ntawd xwb koj thiaj tseem muaj lub siab zoo es tig tau rov los lawm
Zoo qhov koj tiag ua neeg zoo lawm ma rau siab ua neeg zoo xwb. Txho mus taug kev phem li qub xwb.
Tam sim no peb civ me nyuam tsis nyiam ua laib lawm, cov ua laib tsuas yog cov Laus thiaj ua laib lawm.
WOW. bro, you were the laib clawing upward!!
Good to hear OG!!! So proud of you! Only some of us will understand each other!!!
Ua tsuag qhov koj los ua neeg zoolawmos
Tseem2 ua poob, es poob2 peev laus tas. Mam tshav ntuj rau yav laus-
What a great life lesson! God bless!
Very true! Laib is loving and loyal to their wives!
Mines a laib Laus and. Never let me down ❤
It’s great that you’ve changed for the better n a man will change his way for the one he loves ❤
Ua tau li no ces zoo heev li os. Txoj kev phem tsuas yog yuam kev lawm xwb tiag tiag li. Menyuam laib Pauv tau tsheem zoo dua cov txiv tsev es tsis hlub poj niam menyuam es niaj hnub tham hluas nkauj; cia poj niam menyuam txom nyem quaj ntsuag.
(This shows that your early choices really were just mistakes. In a new country even your parent could not protect you from that life. You are a very thoughtful and good hearted person. Changing for the better is better late than never. You changed into a better man than some “good” men who choose to cheat and not take care of their wife and kids; who are willing to throw away their family for booty.)
Great story for the younger to learn
Great story. Good lesson.
No one can change you. Only you can change yourself if you are willing to change it. God bless you and your family that you found your true love and turned your life around and change for the better.
Good for you. You qre a lucky man
So proud of you bro. You have turned your life around. That is very good!
This is a once in a million story better luck playing the lottery.
Great story good for you brother
good lesson story.
Kv nyiam koj cov neej neeg heev li kv caum koj txhua hnub li o
Koj zaj neej neeg no kj yog tus phaj ej laib siab zoo lis lawv ua mov vim lawm os
Props to the dude in this story
So sweet brother. Keep it up that's so sweet
I think assertiveness gets us in trouble in the Hmong culture bc they are always wanting and teaching obedience ... the more we listen and follow we become the "good kid"... then yet when we don't listen we are called "laib" I had a lot of thought that maybe we should grant/ "foom" our kids to "ua laib" so in the future they will "laib ub laib no li lub siab xav". Tam sim no cov menyuam mloog lus dhau lawm... lawv tsis muaj hom phiaj li lawm.
Nrog neb zoo siab os tus me tub
You are very fortunate to survive, Maybe is not your time. Is your wife who saved you from your gangsters life. Love each to the fullest..
Metub hnub no koj paub tias ua niam ua txiv hlub menyuam npaum lica kuv tsis yog koj niam tabsi kuv zoo siab tias koj ho txawj los ua 1 tug tub zoo rau niam thiab koj hloov ua neeg zoo xyoo 1986 1996 ntawd ma peb cov niam thiab txiv ma chim tshaj plaws lios metub aws tej tug ce ua ua laib raug laib tua tuag tej tug ce raug kaw 20 30 xyoo hnub no koj ho ua niam ua txiv koj paub tias mob lica zoo siab rau koj los ua neeg zoo lawm
Omg 15 and 27
Today's young men and women will not listen to these Hmong stories.
Inspire word
What an inspirational story, brother. Glad you changed for the better for your loved ones.
So many great words of wisdom
wow koj kuj g dog dig ner yog li nahloov ua neeg zoo ces yog ler
Niam hluas May Vang lam noog koj es koj thiab Jenny Vang neb puas yog viv ncaus koom niam koom txiv ne ????
Kuv saib npaum twg los neb ob lub ntsej muag zoo ib yam li tiag .
yuav ua cas thiaj sau tau neej neeg rau koj
Nws xaiv koj vim koj rab yaj phom nkaus xwb, ib niag me nyuam ntxhais ces nws mag tus twg ces nws vwm rau tus ntawd lawm.
80s and 90s laib, people change for the better. just not hmong people. people do change, it's America. we r hmong mountains people.
Let me guess... it was hmoob against hmoob. (Your gang years) 🙄
Thug love here
Gangsta love
Tu Korea’s you in tu laib laus xwb
Tsis xav hmoog
I don’t understand this story what the reason for?
.........I think there's more to this story then told. There's another side. I don't believe all because stalking and predatoring a minor shouldn't be the case no matter what the situation is. If you feel she's not safe,, there's way you could help her like notify others. And doesn't matter if she safe or not he all ready took her home. Non of his business after he told his guys to stay away from her as well as he should too. Why he stalking her?? No matter if she wanted to be with him at the time, the right thing for him is stay away and tell her she's a minor. He knows she's a minor and had his eyes on her since that is why he ordered his guys not to touch her.
Not to mention he left his first child and his ex girlfriend too. If you think you're as good as you are, you shouldn't leave your child and predatoring or stalking a minor. I believe there's more to this story you didn't disclose but that's ok. As long as you take care your family now but back then you knew, you stole her heart as she was a minor. You knew exactly what you want from this crying little girl. You knew it wasn't right but your had your lust and you had eyes on her since. I don't think you're good as your story here and not as good as everyone think you are or inspirational due to the fact you stole a minor's heart.
Brother, it's great you got out of the gang life, but the gang cannot let you go. It will catch up and find you. My nephew wS in the worst if the worst gang, he got out and married with 4 children. But 25 years later he ran into an old gang and 2 weeks later he was dead...drive by. You are in for life, like the marriage vow til death do us part. Good luck.
Zoo heev uas koj ua laib ua ntej mam los tabcuab ua neej zoo tom qab thiaj kav laus.
Txoj kev koj ua yog qab ke luag xwb qab ke yog koj kwv koj tij nco qab ntsoov qab ke yog koj kwv tij xwb.
Zoo siab uas nws tsis mus ua qab ke luag es nws ho hloov los ua neeg zoo ces tsuas muaj zoo xwb
Hey brother everyone has it's own down side, but you're just an out of the ordinary. Keep up the good work and good luck to you and your family. A clan good leader is no stronger than a person with the kind of history like yours.