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  • @IrbyOCD
    @IrbyOCD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    It’s often referred to as “fake it till you make it” a smile and positivity will go a long way but also know when you can’t handle your emotions to talk about them. Friends and family will often lift you up by reminding you of you strengths and special characteristics you bring to a situation. You two both are very in tune with realistic situations.

  • @angiejenkins2003
    @angiejenkins2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Kesley I am so proud of the woman you are becoming, you really have grown and it shows in the best ways. You allowing yourself to be vulnerable and give advice will help so many teens and younger, know they aren't alone.

  • @lynnesawri2805
    @lynnesawri2805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    As a grieving momma whom lost my youngest son (28 yrs old) two years ago to suicide I want to thank you for this video. My son was always the kindness, funniest, giving child so when the depression hit him he was afraid for so many reasons to admit he needed help. There is so much stigma etc around mental health and it should not be this way. Thank you so much for bringing awareness to suicide and mental health with the upcoming concert.
    Love to you both ❤️

    • @londonbrown223
      @londonbrown223 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you are doing well and you are so loved ❤️❤️❤️

  • @emmapagano6799
    @emmapagano6799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    It means a lot to see this for me. I lost my grandpa to suicide last month and since then have wished that there was more awareness.

  • @Karla-wz1ly
    @Karla-wz1ly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Finding God is the answer. He is able to change our lives and will be the Rock for us to anchor too. Through Him we can have peace and confidence. He can shut down those negative thoughts and reading His Word can help you get through. Knowing He gave His Son for me makes me want to thank Him through my life and by showing others what He can do for them.

    • @chaiboix
      @chaiboix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Christianity>>>

    • @ysabellemaritza
      @ysabellemaritza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes 💓💓

    • @miaaviles1139
      @miaaviles1139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen🙏🏻❤️

    • @Xc662_
      @Xc662_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ameen☪️🙌🏻

  • @millieeee4597
    @millieeee4597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Kesley you are so inspirational, I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate you and support you!!! I love you a lot and thank you for being you!!🤍

    • @deenahvega
      @deenahvega 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kesley you are so inspirational I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate you and support you I love you so so much and thank you for being you

  • @maryweber9322
    @maryweber9322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    As an adult mother and grandmother, I applaud you for doing this video. This subject should not be taboo. It needs a attention. Thank you so much.

    • @keenacummings2017
      @keenacummings2017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree I’m A mom and a Nana I became a Widow in 03 lost my beautiful husband by suicide it hurts daily and no he wasn’t a cowered as ppl call them he served our country ended up with mental illness.. he was absolutely beautiful inside and out .. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @roede6765
    @roede6765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This was such an amazing video for you to have made Kes as it's clear that the majority of people are struggling at the moment, including me. The phrase 'times will get better' has really came true for me as in December I was in a hospital ward for anorexia and now I'm surrounded by love and on the way to recovery xxxx love you and thank you

  • @sarahg9040
    @sarahg9040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I wanna share this wisdom with others. “This moment is a speck of your whole life and you won’t even think about this in 5 years”

  • @gabriellapadilla5504
    @gabriellapadilla5504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love that us young people are having this discussion and trying to make things better with mental health.
    I think these conversations need to be had and people should not be afraid to have them. You both are awesome and seems like you’re doing amazing things keep the discussion going and keep being awesome much love

  • @dayleyhouse
    @dayleyhouse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    my son who is now a Senior experience several suicides in his friend and social group during his freshman/sophpomore year...he has struggled with it himdsef as a result and its heartbreaking..one boy was a neighbor boy and that beaks my heart too ...the aftermath of those choices cause ripples in others lives...if they only knew!! reach out and talk..see something, say something!

    • @poppygardner681
      @poppygardner681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am so sorry to hear that, im a 17 year old girl and i’m a junior. last year one of my friends committed suicide last year and it’s heartbreaking especially the ripple effect yiu we’re talking to. praying for your son, cause i understand how hard it is ❤️❤️

  • @lanarose3783
    @lanarose3783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    My friend passed on Sunday sadly . Thank you so much for bringing awareness. 💜

    • @verdiana.Catherine_24
      @verdiana.Catherine_24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i'm so sorry to hear that ❤️

    • @lanarose3783
      @lanarose3783 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@verdiana.Catherine_24 Thank you love 💜

  • @cameronmarrs7855
    @cameronmarrs7855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    you guys should do more videos like this together. this is very inspirational and helpful. ❤️

  • @sammiowens3648
    @sammiowens3648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Thank you for sharing the suicide prevention number hopefully more people going through a hard time will call and get the help they need thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and stories

  • @kenneditompkins3609
    @kenneditompkins3609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm so excitef for college life content I'm so happy for you Kes you deserve everything In more you make my day so much better you give me so much motiavtion you Inspire me everyday!!!!!

  • @LouiseKopp
    @LouiseKopp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I really thought that this was about you guys maybe getting together!! But I’m glad that this was all about what you said! It really makes people like me happy to have TH-camrs like you guys out there supporting everyone

  • @kaitlyn5126
    @kaitlyn5126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Awww this is such a wholesome video!!☺️ Thank you for making it because I think it is very helpful.

  • @karlimcarthur4131
    @karlimcarthur4131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is so inspirational kesley,you and smiths words were amazing and so helpful,personally I think doing a video like this is pretty brave and I feel like even you guys really opened up in this,you genuinely do really really inspire me as do all your family 🥰❤️xx

  • @crystalholmes6621
    @crystalholmes6621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great Q & A!!! Thank u Kesley for being so kind. U r a Beautiful Young Lady inside and out.

  • @idadalgaard1627
    @idadalgaard1627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm so proud of you Kesley

  • @tesstimmermans8427
    @tesstimmermans8427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It's amazing how mature and inspirational you are Kesley! You're a beautiful person 🧡

  • @brybry1550
    @brybry1550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    So happy for you Kesley!

  • @isabellefrye7333
    @isabellefrye7333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I Just wanted to say thank you Kesley you are just such inspiration to me and to everyone, This video is something that I really needed to hear. You are someone who I look up to on social media. I love you! ❤️💗

  • @BSBSPSensGirl88
    @BSBSPSensGirl88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's fitting that you provided the metaphor of your personal energy being like a fire. if it dims, for whatever reason - the emotional and physical demands of relationships, school and work, it can lead to a complete burnout. it's normal that this can happen in any part of life, which is why it's so important to have a good school/work-life balance. My company literally just sent out an e-mail advising that following a new bill recently being passed by one of Canada's provincial governments on disconnecting after work hours, this policy will be applied to all of their departments across Canada. it's very real and so it's good that you are giving tips, for anyone really but mostly for your younger audience, about it.

  • @alianaschultz9660
    @alianaschultz9660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i love how grown up she’s getting!! i was here when they first started youtube❤️

  • @kaylafischer9524
    @kaylafischer9524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Kesley you are so inspirational I struggle with anxiety every time I cry about something that would bother me or even that is something sad. How do I cope with that? Thank you for being you💖

  • @kariconroy1250
    @kariconroy1250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Kesley your videos are always awesome.

  • @romessatanvir
    @romessatanvir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Kesley you are so inspirational and helpful! Thanks so much, lysm ❤️❤️

  • @alyssakate877
    @alyssakate877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i am so grateful for you and sharing this video! i’m an incoming freshman and these tips are so so helpful. :)

  • @emmalabattaglia
    @emmalabattaglia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    as someone who struggles immensely everyday, for so long, thank you so so much. i applaud you for this

  • @user-xs4qu1jl1l
    @user-xs4qu1jl1l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The way he looks her 👀

  • @dustienelson2179
    @dustienelson2179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have Tourette’s and I’m trying to become a public speaker for everyone can know of what we all go through and how bullying has effect our life so bad

  • @brybry1550
    @brybry1550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Love you kesley! I’m so excited to see you go to college and do all of the fun things you’ll get to do!

  • @Evelyn-hu7gz
    @Evelyn-hu7gz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love this video so much!! It’s so real and helpful and kind. Thank you so much for making and sharing this video! 💜💜

  • @MariaIsraelsson123
    @MariaIsraelsson123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for sharing !!! Kesley you are so inspirational!!! I just wanted to let you know that I support you and will always support you! thank you for bring a role model to me and so many amazing young women and kids!!

  • @halarashwani9596
    @halarashwani9596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I loved watching this,it motivated me so much,love u kessley and shout out to ur friend smith he knows a lot!🥰❤️

  • @harrisonpeak7281
    @harrisonpeak7281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for putting this video out I’m struggling with meltdowns this week and I don’t know why and I struggle with like girls stuff like girlfriends etc never had one

  • @madisonmccusker3619
    @madisonmccusker3619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kelsey you are the best your videos make me happy! I love your positive energy 😍😍😍 I would love to see your workout routine as a video

  • @jennifertilford7447
    @jennifertilford7447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kesley thank you so much for making this video ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @annanewswanger8753
    @annanewswanger8753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Best video you ever did Kesley!

  • @ranad2312
    @ranad2312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So happy for you kes🤍🤍🤍

  • @leanacrowder796
    @leanacrowder796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My aunt is my go to when I’m down

  • @gialoren5975
    @gialoren5975 ปีที่แล้ว

    loved this video kesley!!

  • @kenneditompkins3609
    @kenneditompkins3609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing Video! I love your channel keep up the good work girl Kesley your super beautiful!!! Your smart, fun, loving, caring, loyal, generous, thoutful, kindhearted Incredible person ever ILYSM!!!!!!!

  • @hagen1305
    @hagen1305 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I absolutely loved this video. Great job to both of you. All of your parents should be extremely proud of each of you.

  • @noelle1880
    @noelle1880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful video🥰 You are amazing for sharing this. Reminder, God loves you!!

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good morning kesley happy Monday morning and I just wanted to say that your vlogs makes me feel happy and you are amazing Supporter I'm proud of you

  • @nadia9938
    @nadia9938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this friend relationship between these two. Kelsey is so beautiful. I love Kesley jacket. I support Kelsey. Thank you for being you and making awesome VIDEOS all VIDEOS entertaining me I have been WATCHING your VIDEOS for years. I have not been at school in five years. I did not like school. I did not have many friends. I found school very hard. Yes I had people I knew but I did hang out with them. Your VIDEOS make me happy. Sending lots of love from nz. ❤❤❤❤😯🤗 I am always nice to everyone I always try stay positive at school. At high school I do regret of what I said to a friend and the thing we did separate ways after high school but I said sorry and took awhile till she forgive me. I was jealous of this girl being friends with people I had become friends of girls and guys in later in high school. and now she finally forgive me and even though I have not seen her in years we do now talk now and then on sola media I always regret having to many crushs at high school but that in the past. I always now stay positive and just take day by day. ❤❤❤😁🤗🤗

  • @ElizaEbbyOlsen1313
    @ElizaEbbyOlsen1313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @Ashley Reeves’s (Utah influencer) self made company has ice rollers, she has mental health issues and the ice rollers really seemed to help her!!! The company is called Basic Body Love ❤️

  • @Macy.miller
    @Macy.miller 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love your videos 💕

  • @syd18121
    @syd18121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    3MINS AGO!!! Kes you are such and intelligent young lady

  • @jojob.4917
    @jojob.4917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for being brave enough to have this conversation 💕

  • @RobinGoodson
    @RobinGoodson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Kesley I hope you’re doing well we love you, you’re an amazing TH-camr your videos always put a smile on my face and make me laugh.

  • @k-jam6774
    @k-jam6774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg hiiii love you hope u and your family is doing good

  • @monicac.4388
    @monicac.4388 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loveeed. I needed to hear every word 🥹

  • @Sammy-my9kj
    @Sammy-my9kj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for this sometimes I feel alone but I get threw it 🥺❤

  • @rileyromero7269
    @rileyromero7269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl the way he looks at you!!

    • @chaiboix
      @chaiboix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not every boy that looks at a girl is in love, he knows his place.

  • @abigailschopp7185
    @abigailschopp7185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hi Kelsey, so lately I feel like I don’t have any true real friends in my life and the ones that I due I feel as though they only talk to me when it benefits them. I’m not really sure what to do and also I’ve been homeschooled my whole life so it comes very limited when trying to make friends. The ones I do have I feel like they are doing me no good but I feel bad breaking off the friendships and loosing the ones that I have.
    Any advice?

    • @claire_edwards_music
      @claire_edwards_music 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m homeschooled too and have been feeling the same way! Something that has really been helping me is working on myself and growing in my relationship with God and clinging to Him. I also spend a lot of time with my family and be friends with them! I know that my relationship with God and family will last forever, and with friendships, even though it’s really sad, that’s not always a guaranteed. You’re not alone!

    • @abigailschopp7185
      @abigailschopp7185 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww! Thank you so much! That means a lot and I know God has a plan for me and his timing is always perfect and I’m glad to here that you know that God and your family will always be there

    • @KesleyJade
      @KesleyJade  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Claire’s response is perfect. Remember ,while having friends and a social like is fun it’s not a requirement. A confident person does not needs to be surrounded by others because they are comfortable in their own skin. When I was in Jr High I felt similar to the way you are feeling. Take time to focus on you and your personal relationship with God. Find things you are good at and do more of it. Improve your own skills. Your confidence will attract others who are likewise. You got this Abigail ❤️

    • @abigailschopp7185
      @abigailschopp7185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much!

  • @Shrinaaa8298
    @Shrinaaa8298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The day of the concert is my birthday!!!

  • @junejip4785
    @junejip4785 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    He’s just lovely!

  • @selinashiny6343
    @selinashiny6343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the best channel you’ve ever made it will help many and Utah has very high suicide rates. It’s hard and lonely but we have each other

  • @Sleepyhead1086fr
    @Sleepyhead1086fr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Early yes I love your videos

  • @elliemantle
    @elliemantle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is such an amazing video! I live in the salt lake area and I’m definitely going to make the drive and go to the concert! Thanks Kes for making this video ❤️

    • @smithalley5062
      @smithalley5062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We can’t wait to see you there! ❤️

  • @abbyb3415
    @abbyb3415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is an incredible video 🤍

  • @girlie15
    @girlie15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi I am first and your one of my favorite TH-camrs!!!

    • @rooneytv
      @rooneytv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ur 9th

  • @mariadelcarmenjaimez9435
    @mariadelcarmenjaimez9435 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @amielinda3621
    @amielinda3621 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    most inspirational love u❤️❤️

  • @kaylamcdonald7774
    @kaylamcdonald7774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE THIS! Probably one of my favorite videos! God Bless y'all! MUCH LOVE! God is SO Good! Lean on The Lord! AMEN! ALL GLORY TO GOD! AMEN! :)

  • @emilybernritter3462
    @emilybernritter3462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kesleys videos make life so much better. Not to sound weird

  • @Spilt_milk4251
    @Spilt_milk4251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I come as fast as possible :)

  • @katherinepearson3897
    @katherinepearson3897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love u

  • @asmaaboobaker9688
    @asmaaboobaker9688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    early love your videos

  • @elisecohan4264
    @elisecohan4264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @gialoren5975
    @gialoren5975 ปีที่แล้ว

    i know you don't know me but I hope you know that you are my only friend kesley and you videos brighten my day

  • @alyssarose2108
    @alyssarose2108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kes are you gonna miss high school 🏫 love your videos 😻

  • @yumengclyde3801
    @yumengclyde3801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He cute doe Kesley

  • @imaan591
    @imaan591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hii!✨

  • @Isla_grace1231
    @Isla_grace1231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kes do you deliver to Canada Vancouver

  • @davidparnell3241
    @davidparnell3241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome

  • @katyping2704
    @katyping2704 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You my friend

  • @idaeriksson6811
    @idaeriksson6811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💓 💓

  • @camrynlaurelle5539
    @camrynlaurelle5539 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey kesley I have a qrection for you how long you do TH-cam with your family.

  • @rhemicarder4859
    @rhemicarder4859 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this ❤️

  • @sammartinokimberly
    @sammartinokimberly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you Kesley

  • @emmatacc_
    @emmatacc_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kes you are such an inspiration🤍. Smith Alley as well, seeing that you both are around the same age and have had a lot of experience around normal, maybe quite difficult, high school emotions. It’s a learning experience for sure, but everyone can do it, and no one is alone

  • @catherinewilliams1587
    @catherinewilliams1587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Made it in 18 seconds

  • @MrObrien01
    @MrObrien01 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Kesley 😃❤️❤️😃

  • @laurynblake3824
    @laurynblake3824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Smith looks like lip from shameless

  • @RobinGoodson
    @RobinGoodson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I clicked on the video at 10 seconds lol

  • @alyssarosebell928
    @alyssarosebell928 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kesley my grandma passed way and how do I support that

  • @itsmeky6492
    @itsmeky6492 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kesley, I have question
    How can you stop bullying cuz there is this boy in my school he is very mean to me and he also mean 2 of my other friends. And idk what to do
    And one more question
    I have a crush, and I told him that i like him but he says that doesn’t like and he also said that we could be friends but the thing is it looks like he likes me cuz he gives me hints that he likes he and idk what to do

  • @pringles28
    @pringles28 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Early!

  • @alyssarosebell928
    @alyssarosebell928 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    And I can't for give it about it

  • @isabellerosestarr
    @isabellerosestarr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    whos the boy

  • @Randomstuff-ld3iu
    @Randomstuff-ld3iu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you two dating

    • @KesleyJade
      @KesleyJade  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No! Just friends :)

  • @kevinottino9478
    @kevinottino9478 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💙💙💙💙💚💚💚

  • @katherinepearson3897
    @katherinepearson3897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First

    • @rooneytv
      @rooneytv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ur 3rd

  • @poppygardner681
    @poppygardner681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    one of my friends committed suicide last year in february and so suicide prevention is really close to my heart. so thank you for doing this🤍🤍

  • @anap.9145
    @anap.9145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What is Smith's ig?

    • @makayla1590
      @makayla1590 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ik his yt is Smith alley, maybe try looking something like that up.

    • @LuisGarcia-pb9gb
      @LuisGarcia-pb9gb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @dezzzzsmithsnutzz

    • @anap.9145
      @anap.9145 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@makayla1590 thank you.

    • @KesleyJade
      @KesleyJade  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @live.life.bigger

  • @sam-rn1vc
    @sam-rn1vc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First