Wow! What you said its very true. People back home don't know the difficulties which people abroad go through. Wisdom is of paramount whom you can help. I've recently sent money for my nephew's son I've never met for him to have maths, English and science lessons. He only did English and the rest of the money he bought clothes, gold watch etc. He shows off on his status. So I've told him that he's digging himself deep into a hole. No education basic O levels. I'm now retired was an RGN, RM, RHV and a degree in Psychology. I was working full time as a health visitor and went to uni in the evening to do my degree. It was very hard but by God's grace I passed. People don't realise how much we work hard abroad. Thank you and stay blessed.
"Know your family" so true. Also, something that also goes on, when you send money to someone you trust especially to elderly or teenagers, they get bully into sharing or giving up the money. Other relatives and friends know what they have coming in and will pressure them to ask for money. It's one sad story told to the one you trust and that one you trust get pushed into lying to collect money from you. So not only be careful who you send money to, but be careful how you send money. If a person asks you for say, 1 month of tuition money (and that's an investment in a kid's future.. all for it!), don't give them the money. Instead know who the school is, verify the student, unpaid balance and pay the school directly through secure trackable methods. Also ask for permission to review statements. See the payment history for that student. When you are asked for money, follow banks protocol. And if that parent says, "just give me the money and I'll pay directly" 😏that's when you know they are BS'ing.
From my experience living Abroad, I understood clearly that family problems can never end. Please my people take care of yourself first then if you have extra it’s ok to help. Biggest and simple way to solve the money request issue is DO NOT PICK UP THE PHONE. My phone is always on silent and only responds when necessary. One❤
As a new immigrant in Canada, I'd say take care of yourself first. Sort out your life and the life of your family (if married and/or have kids) . Personally, I can't be pressured on issues like this. I won't be forced to do what I don't have the capacity to do.
Some of the things you said are true. I’m facing the same thing. As a student everybody want me to send money. I tried to help them always, but the more I give, the more they ask to the extent of asking me to open businesses for them when my mother doesn’t even have a shop. They expect you to train their kids in school. They don’t think about my own sister and brothers. You cannot satisfy human beings. They always apportion blames and forget the time you helped them. Meanwhile many of them did not offer me a cup of water from nursery to higher institution even when they had and I was hungry. Yet I give and they want to turn me to their bank account. Now I’m giving myself some sense. May God help me.
Save your money Tell your family to go for family liberation, cleansing herbs, curse breaker soap, back to sender soap Repentance and forgiveness Midnight warfare prayers Stop being ungrateful and complaining Check your character and do spiritual consultation
I had the same problem my own siblings and mom never bother me but my relative and neighbours keep calling asking for help now i stopped giving am fed up i need to look after my mum and son as for my siblings i moved them abroad
Your standard policy should be absolute no unless they are old and can't help themselves. Otherwise, stop giving people that can work anything. Tell them to humble themselves and find work. Do not give them anything. At all I said.
This message inspires and encourages. Some of us have been told, “you’ve lived abroad for almost 30 years and have nothing to show for it.” What an insult! Yet our parents have a house worth millions in the village, all their food and hospital bills etc from diaspora. Sendwave stands at $77,000 in the last 6 years sent home to assist others, in the meantime, family please stop depressing others. We came abroad as newlyweds, had 3 kids who are now adults and I can tell you we raised them well by God’s grace struggling cleaning poop in nursing homes while attending college. We are now elderly with grandchildren but the asking arrogantly from family and others has not stopped. Most family members and relatives feel entitled yet God will inquire from them what they did with their own hands and feet, O! God save us! Thank you sir for your transparency 🙏
There are pschologists who went to school who don't know this stuff, which is why I suggest that they should include topics like this in the curriculum of the psychology classes/course. Diaspora is a big thing contributing billions of dollars to certain countries especially in Africa. Some countries even have a separate ministry dealing with this issue. Mr. Chorkor Millionaire is doing a lot of favour to us in diaspora as well as those expecting free money back home by teaching us the proper way of conduct that should be expected of either party. Know how & when to ask he said. Thank you sir. And keep up the good work. Bless.
As an American im so happy to hear people speaking out on this topic. I've seen coworkers work to the bone one man even passed away slaving at work to support ppl back home. You have to take care of yourself first. I don't mind helping but i have no issue saying no. It seems a lot of yall get taken advantage of because of an image ppl think you're living and that's not reality. Take care of yourselves.
When you help someone who is not ready to be helped,it backfires😮so true, enabling people to do wrong with money. Let the holy spirit lead you. Thank you,oh wise owl... 🦉
I don’t even have words to say, other than, thank you 🙏🏾 just to show you how much I have digested your words, I had to go grab some McDonalds, drove straight to the Walmart parking lot, turned off my engine, inclined my chair, started eating my food while soaking up all that you have said. Thank you!!!!
If i have my aeroplane i can put them and bring them abroad to help me pluck the money from trees especially here gulf where life is not easy at all,only air is freee oooo
This is definitely a different perspective that i had never guessed Africans were having issues with. I heard a little bit while in West Africa but yeah thanks for sharing.
ChorkorMillionaire, I am Osu Millionaire. I am not faulting you at all because you are a very smart speaker. I like your two videos that I have watched so far.
I can't begin to tell you how many times the Holy Spirit has guided me when dealing with people I help back home. Yes, No or wait. Thanks for this video.
You are correct sir, you need to be strong to be able to help others. I am new on your page and I like what I heard from you today...... Pls, keep it up!
I think is because most of them are not serious about moving abroad or they don’t have that mindset, years before I travel I have always wanted to travel abroad imagine I was a houseboy I saved money then I called my in-law to assist me with money so I can start taxi business he said don’t I want to travel abroad I said yes he said I should keep the money that was how travel, since I travel I have helped my siblings financially start up business for them I told them save a certain amount let see how I will help you travel even if is not the country I am because the country will not give you papers , this 10 years after none of them have come forth with any thing
Happy Birthday 🎊🎂 🇺🇸 Relatives back home will drain you of all your funds. You only can help them with what you can afford to give. Most of the time it’s not enough for them in their minds.🇺🇸
I have been following up with you and you have been helping alot of people in a good way, i need little advice from you sir please kindly tell me how to reach with you i will really appreciate thanks so much for your help so far may God continue to bless you more Amen.
I work two and three jobs here in America since 2010. Whenever I go back home to Jamaica 🇯🇲, all the people living there without a job are living better than me , they have nicer cars,nicer hose,nicer clothes, .latest phones drinking Hennessey and smoking weed.
You're 100% right. I had planned to speak on this very point but for some reason, it escaped me. Some of our brothers abroad do not want to help because they ant to see you down while they remain at the top. It is so sad but the truth for most people
@@chorkormillionairewhy is this the mentality of black people? Here in Jamaica the Chinese and Indians they bring back all their family members from back home and they work together and they are currently the largest owners in the food and appliance industry. What the hell is wrong with us black people?
Why do adults always want to be helped and if someone doesn't have they start saying that person doesn't want to see them prosper? Let's just be happy for those who have made it and work hard to get there one day too. Everyone has a different destiny, we can't all be the same.
Wow! What you said its very true. People back home don't know the difficulties which people abroad go through. Wisdom is of paramount whom you can help. I've recently sent money for my nephew's son I've never met for him to have maths, English and science lessons. He only did English and the rest of the money he bought clothes, gold watch etc. He shows off on his status. So I've told him that he's digging himself deep into a hole. No education basic O levels. I'm now retired was an RGN, RM, RHV and a degree in Psychology. I was working full time as a health visitor and went to uni in the evening to do my degree. It was very hard but by God's grace I passed. People don't realise how much we work hard abroad. Thank you and stay blessed.
Yes o. It's not easy at all helping someone who takes advantage of you or is not ready to be helped.
look after yourself first number one
Yeah which is why as an American we get annoyed with Africans always calling us lazy and talking shyt.
People also form friendships with people abroad in order to take advantage of people and put pressures
"Know your family" so true. Also, something that also goes on, when you send money to someone you trust especially to elderly or teenagers, they get bully into sharing or giving up the money. Other relatives and friends know what they have coming in and will pressure them to ask for money. It's one sad story told to the one you trust and that one you trust get pushed into lying to collect money from you.
So not only be careful who you send money to, but be careful how you send money.
If a person asks you for say, 1 month of tuition money (and that's an investment in a kid's future.. all for it!), don't give them the money. Instead know who the school is, verify the student, unpaid balance and pay the school directly through secure trackable methods. Also ask for permission to review statements. See the payment history for that student. When you are asked for money, follow banks protocol.
And if that parent says, "just give me the money and I'll pay directly" 😏that's when you know they are BS'ing.
Wise words. Thank you
It’s so sad it has to come to this. I’m from the US but similar situations happen to me because, “I’m the nurse in the family”.
From my experience living Abroad, I understood clearly that family problems can never end. Please my people take care of yourself first then if you have extra it’s ok to help. Biggest and simple way to solve the money request issue is DO NOT PICK UP THE PHONE. My phone is always on silent and only responds when necessary. One❤
😂😂😂😂😂
I tried solving them i have given up
You are like me, my phone is always in silence. And I am mainly using WhatsApp.
The ppl back home don't care about ppl in abroad and most of them plot u down fall.
From Cape to Cairo, all African people are the same and yes you are 100 per cent right !
What?😮
@sakhilemathumo-mhodi2901 Don't have to be African. It's the same story in every country. I am European, and it's the same
As a new immigrant in Canada, I'd say take care of yourself first. Sort out your life and the life of your family (if married and/or have kids) . Personally, I can't be pressured on issues like this. I won't be forced to do what I don't have the capacity to do.
That's me right there..thanks for sharing.
Welcome my brother
I wish I this wisdom when I needed help myself
I was helping ungrateful and selfish people
Some of the things you said are true. I’m facing the same thing. As a student everybody want me to send money. I tried to help them always, but the more I give, the more they ask to the extent of asking me to open businesses for them when my mother doesn’t even have a shop. They expect you to train their kids in school. They don’t think about my own sister and brothers. You cannot satisfy human beings. They always apportion blames and forget the time you helped them. Meanwhile many of them did not offer me a cup of water from nursery to higher institution even when they had and I was hungry. Yet I give and they want to turn me to their bank account.
Now I’m giving myself some sense. May God help me.
Way to go
Save your money
Tell your family to go for family liberation, cleansing herbs, curse breaker soap, back to sender soap
Repentance and forgiveness
Midnight warfare prayers
Stop being ungrateful and complaining
Check your character and do spiritual consultation
Called $greed$ change numbrer and live your life,
I had the same problem my own siblings and mom never bother me but my relative and neighbours keep calling asking for help now i stopped giving am fed up i need to look after my mum and son as for my siblings i moved them abroad
Your standard policy should be absolute no unless they are old and can't help themselves. Otherwise, stop giving people that can work anything. Tell them to humble themselves and find work. Do not give them anything. At all I said.
This message inspires and encourages. Some of us have been told, “you’ve lived abroad for almost 30 years and have nothing to show for it.” What an insult! Yet our parents have a house worth millions in the village, all their food and hospital bills etc from diaspora.
Sendwave stands at $77,000 in the last 6 years sent home to assist others, in the meantime, family please stop depressing others. We came abroad as newlyweds, had 3 kids who are now adults and I can tell you we raised them well by God’s grace struggling cleaning poop in nursing homes while attending college. We are now elderly with grandchildren but the asking arrogantly from family and others has not stopped. Most family members and relatives feel entitled yet God will inquire from them what they did with their own hands and feet, O! God save us! Thank you sir for your transparency 🙏
I feel your pain. You have poured out the realities of many of our people
Sendwave 😴😴😴😴
I don't really understand the religious references, but for the rest, your words are pure gold and a witness of great psychological insight.
There are pschologists who went to school who don't know this stuff, which is why I suggest that they should include topics like this in the curriculum of the psychology classes/course. Diaspora is a big thing contributing billions of dollars to certain countries especially in Africa. Some countries even have a separate ministry dealing with this issue. Mr. Chorkor Millionaire is doing a lot of favour to us in diaspora as well as those expecting free money back home by teaching us the proper way of conduct that should be expected of either party. Know how & when to ask he said. Thank you sir. And keep up the good work. Bless.
Thank you 😊
We Africans need to protect Mr Chorkor, He is loaded.
As an American im so happy to hear people speaking out on this topic. I've seen coworkers work to the bone one man even passed away slaving at work to support ppl back home. You have to take care of yourself first. I don't mind helping but i have no issue saying no. It seems a lot of yall get taken advantage of because of an image ppl think you're living and that's not reality. Take care of yourselves.
Thanks for wading in.
This video changed my perception on a lot of things, great video.
Glad it was helpful!
When you help someone who is not ready to be helped,it backfires😮so true, enabling people to do wrong with money. Let the holy spirit lead you. Thank you,oh wise owl... 🦉
Thank you
Happy birthday chokor millionaire God bless you for all you do...
God bless you
Thank you for keeping it real
Teaching us how to ask and show appreciation
what a great talk you have done Chorkor .a eyeopener and true you a sensable person your wife is lucky and hope you both get blessing
Omor, Chorkor you just blew it up open.. Thanks for this reminders...
I’ve taken all in my stride. Thanks for talking to both sides. God bless you
You're welcome
I don’t even have words to say, other than, thank you 🙏🏾 just to show you how much I have digested your words, I had to go grab some McDonalds, drove straight to the Walmart parking lot, turned off my engine, inclined my chair, started eating my food while soaking up all that you have said. Thank you!!!!
Thanks for the feedback. I appreciate it 🙏
Tis videos is timely... nothing but the truth,,, wisdom ..love from Nairobi Kenya
Entitlement mentality
Great inspiration always, Mr. Chorkor. Can't get tired of watching your videos. God bless you!
Walters, from 🇨🇲
Wow! You are my Leo mate . No wonder you are amazing and loving. Happy birthday in arrears bro
Chorkor Millionaire Congratulation on ur Birthday I wish you long life and prosperity in ur Endeavour.
Thank you 😊
Hmm, I can see that you 've learnt allot of lesson while passing through wilderness of life . Thanks for sharing this for us to learn.
Thanks
If i have my aeroplane i can put them and bring them abroad to help me pluck the money from trees especially here gulf where life is not easy at all,only air is freee oooo
💯 am Kenyan living in Dubai n I can attest to all that u have said.Nice topic....love you bro
This is definitely a different perspective that i had never guessed Africans were having issues with. I heard a little bit while in West Africa but yeah thanks for sharing.
You're welcome
hehehe this man will not kill meoo. '' before the person call you were you dying?''
This is serious education..
You are born teacher, God bless you sir
Thanks.
Happy birthday to a living encyclopedia! Your existence is continually blessed. Continue waxing stronger in Jesus name
Chorkor, you are an inspiration to many . Thank you for you service..
Happy birthday to you my mentor many more years to celebrate in a good health.
Your level of wisdom is unmatched keep up the good work . Boss player 🙌🏾
Appreciate that
You are indeed full of wisdom, thanks chorkor.
U are a realistic person
Wow Chorkor,,, what an amazing video.
My brother thanks for the vedio i always feel bad for not helping
I can tell you are from Ghana 🇬🇭, I can totally relate to what you’re saying
Happy Birthday to you Chorkor. Lines will continue to fall in pleasant place for you. long life and prosperity
Amen
Happy birthday Mr C. I wish you more healthy and fufilled years ahead.
ChorkorMillionaire, I am Osu Millionaire. I am not faulting you at all because you are a very smart speaker. I like your two videos that I have watched so far.
I can't begin to tell you how many times the Holy Spirit has guided me when dealing with people I help back home. Yes, No or wait. Thanks for this video.
35:36 "I'll fire the thunder out of your head!" 😳🤣
Hahaha
You"re one of the quality vlogging channels worth following watching from Qatar❤❤❤
Wow, thank you
God bless you for the wisdom. You have given us a different perspective to appreciate family and friends abroad
Thank you
You are correct sir, you need to be strong to be able to help others. I am new on your page and I like what I heard from you today...... Pls, keep it up!
Thanks and welcome
@@chorkormillionaire , Please I would like to join the subscriber group. i have already mail you regarding this but no response yet.
This is the best gift to me ever.
God bless you big brother!!
Happy Birthday Chokor millionaire. You are a blessing to our generation. Keep basking in God's love
Thanks Bro for the good job. You've just delivered a great truth. Blessings always🎉
God bless you
Excellent information Boss.keep the good work up.
great insight
I love my boss, always make me be positive minded. Which I know one day, I will win⭐⭐💯✨
Thank you
Happy birthday brother
Thanks
Happy birthday to you Chorkor millionaire! God bless protect and keep you in Jesus mighty name.🎉
Happy belated birthday my mentor 🎉🎉 showers of blessings!!!
Such wisdom, that is so true
Happy Belated Birthday to You.... May You Soar Higher and Continuously Bless You
Happy birthday🎉 August mate, God will continue to bless you and all that is yours
Happy belated birthday. May you remain blessed.
Thank you so much. You are an inspiration to me today. I always look forward to o hearing from you.
Thanks
HBD! May the Almighty God bless and keep you both now and forever more AMEN.
I love what you do becos.youre detailed and full of information which we all need to move or wake up from our sleep
Thanks
I think is because most of them are not serious about moving abroad or they don’t have that mindset, years before I travel I have always wanted to travel abroad imagine I was a houseboy I saved money then I called my in-law to assist me with money so I can start taxi business he said don’t I want to travel abroad I said yes he said I should keep the money that was how travel, since I travel I have helped my siblings financially start up business for them I told them save a certain amount let see how I will help you travel even if is not the country I am because the country will not give you papers , this 10 years after none of them have come forth with any thing
Happy birthday sir long life ijn
Connection connection 😂😂😂😂😂
Happy birthday brother may more year God blessing you
Happy Birthday 🎊🎂 🇺🇸
Relatives back home will drain you of all your funds.
You only can help them with what you can afford to give. Most of the time it’s not enough for them in their minds.🇺🇸
HBD! May the Almighty God bless and keep you both now and forever more AMEN. 4:58
Happy belated birthday to you wish you long life good health and prosperity 🎉🎉🎉
Belated Happy Birthday! Congratulations 🎊
Good work brother. How may I get in touch with you if possible? I will be honored to connect with you.
Great video 🎉🎉
Great message
Happy birthday to u brother wishing u long life and happiness
Thanks
Happy belated birthday snr man, may God bless you
Well said 👏,, always on point 👏 👌
Thank you Chorkor
Always u are there for us
God bless you mentor.. would like to share with you my experience in learning truck driving in Nigeria..from a recognized construction company..
You have say everything sir,you are really blessed with a wisdom ❤
Am giving you a big round of applause. You too much Chorkor. Your motivational talks inspire me a lot.
Great message bro !
Bless up on your earth strong fam
I have been following up with you and you have been helping alot of people in a good way, i need little advice from you sir please kindly tell me how to reach with you i will really appreciate thanks so much for your help so far may God continue to bless you more Amen.
Wisdom is profitable to direct. Thank you so much Mr Chorkor.
Happy belated birthday to you chorkor millionaire, May the Lord bless your New age.
You are doing a great job, God bless you.
Happy birthday Chorkor unending joy shall be your portion.
You are absolutely true brother
Thanks
honestly I must meet you when i land... i don't know why it took me so long to join your channel
Thanks so much for this video God bless you richly.
You are so welcome
Happy Belated Birthday Brother. May God bless you
I work two and three jobs here in America since 2010. Whenever I go back home to Jamaica 🇯🇲, all the people living there without a job are living better than me , they have nicer cars,nicer hose,nicer clothes, .latest phones drinking Hennessey and smoking weed.
Wow
💯Accurate
Well said Chorkor
Thanks
HBD,with fresh ideas,for eye opening,God Bless you
Happy birthday dear 💓 💛 💗 💖 💕 😘, live long in good health 🎉🎉🎉
Well this can true or not. Some people don’t want u to be on the same level with them no matter how polite you are.
that is where your faith comes in. you believe, declare, and decree yourself into prosperity. The key is your hands NOT theirs.
You're 100% right. I had planned to speak on this very point but for some reason, it escaped me.
Some of our brothers abroad do not want to help because they ant to see you down while they remain at the top. It is so sad but the truth for most people
@@chorkormillionairewhy is this the mentality of black people? Here in Jamaica the Chinese and Indians they bring back all their family members from back home and they work together and they are currently the largest owners in the food and appliance industry. What the hell is wrong with us black people?
@@DOW876It's a poverty mentality plus a crab in barrel mentality
Why do adults always want to be helped and if someone doesn't have they start saying that person doesn't want to see them prosper? Let's just be happy for those who have made it and work hard to get there one day too. Everyone has a different destiny, we can't all be the same.
Happy birthday to you. I now know your passion is from the month you were born ..August borns are great people 😊God bless you greatly for what you do