Should I trust my ex-husband to change?

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  • My ex-husband picked bamboo shoots and sold them to me for money. Should I trust my ex-husband's sincerity?
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  • @snowylee9331
    @snowylee9331 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    No!! He tried to steal you child again! Even though let him see his child. Remember he kicked you both out’ for his pregnant mistress! Does. He even care what happened to that child!!

  • @sandrachevela4986
    @sandrachevela4986 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    NO. This ex sees what you have, what you can build and created with your own hands, while they still wallows in their own self pity and he wants back. He cheated on you, is an alcoholic, tossed you and your daughter out on the street with just the clothes on your back, and you created a beautiful home for yourself and your daughter. He has another wife and child and he did the same to her. He sat in his house drinking with his buddies and sold all the crops, you helped plant but was so selfish to not give you a bag of grain. And you had to call the authorities. He thought nothing of you and your daughter. His second wife came to your home every day and fought with you, destroyed your home and was caught trying to burn your home. Again, you had to have the authorities involved. If he picks and sells bamboo shoots, he needs to pay child support and buy his alcohol. I would not give him the benefit of the doubt, he will do it again. Please secure your fences all around. You put a lock on your gates, he sleeps at your gate every day while you are gone to the market, but he now comes into your home through the back hill, and that is breaking and entering. This ex thinks he is entitled, he is far from it. That should be reported and he should be arrested. Stay strong Thu May. Think twice. No, do not trust this ex's sincerity, he has none.

  • @user-fn4wq3kg6m
    @user-fn4wq3kg6m 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    As an answer to your question. Only time will tell! He is going to have to earn your trust. Take the money. He has an obligation to support his daughter!❤❤

  • @marciathompson1237
    @marciathompson1237 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    No Men that are cheaters and abusers rarely change. Please be very careful and Stay Safe. Love your child and make her your priority. You're doing a good job on your place. You were sick and passed out and fell down in the last video are you okay healthwise?

  • @ackelly1349
    @ackelly1349 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Don’t trust him you can forgive him for your own piece of mind. However, remember how he treated you and your daughter have him give money for your child!

  • @anacrespo9726
    @anacrespo9726 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    MY DEAR FRIEND
    .EVERYONE SAYS HE DESERVES ONE MORE CHANCE. WELL YOU CAN GIVE HIM A CHANCE TO VISIT EAT AND SHARE TIME. BUT HE ( MUST) STAY IN HIS HOME AND YOU IN YOURS.
    THIS WILL BE THE TEST OF TRUST. IF HE CRES FOR HIS FAMILY HE WILL ACCEPT ( YOUR TERMS) ❤
    BUT IF YOU DON'T LOVE HIM HIS CHANCE OF BEING WITH YOU IS BLOWN. 😅DON'T DO IT FOR THE CHILD .SHE WILL GROW UP THINKING THIS OS THE WAY TO LIVE.BLESSINGS FROM PUERTO RICO ETERNAL LIFE MANY ADVENTURES. ❤😊

  • @terencebrown3804
    @terencebrown3804 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You are your own person do what makes you happy either with him, without him, or with someone else. Stay encouraged we are here for you and I'm praying 🙏 for you and your beautiful daughter!

  • @user-fz3gc3bw1c
    @user-fz3gc3bw1c 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Go 🚶‍♂️ forward, never backwards ❤❤❤.

  • @marciathompson1237
    @marciathompson1237 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    No Do Not Take Him Back Because You're Doing Better Without Him. Look At All You've Accomplished By Yourself. You Are Doing So Much Better Without Him. He just wants you to take care of him. Stay Safe Please.🙏🕊️🥀🌹🌻🌼☕💜❤️👍

  • @user-up3co5vo3w
    @user-up3co5vo3w 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    No dont trush him remember he kick you out of his house and he let his mistress stay in his house.

  • @nene5485
    @nene5485 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Big no! Dont trust him again.

  • @mariarosales9244
    @mariarosales9244 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Bao don’t you think that it’s time for your daughter to go to school to kindergarten it’s going to be better for her to start learning to read and for your husband I would not trust him at all he has 2 children a girl and a boy and he doesn’t even try to look for him not even to see if he is safe from his crazy mother that was trying to sell him and why his only interested in your daughter after he pushed you out of your house when you were carrying your daughter with you and your daughter saw that just show off so in front of his mistress when you are his wife not his mistress just be careful with him his no good he betrayed you once he will do it again you are better off with out him blessings amen

  • @KampanjeKondwani
    @KampanjeKondwani 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    THE MORE YOU GIVE HIM CHANCE THE MORE HE WILL TAKE A WAY YOUR DAUGHTER ONE DAY

  • @JCPKiara
    @JCPKiara 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I am very surprised you are asking us that question.
    Carefully, review EVERY DETAIL about what he has done to you and your child.
    Then ask yourself if you can trust him. I am sure you will come up with the right answer.
    Having said that, a person that REALLY cares for you and your daughter, will come at the front gate. He will not use the back door ... so to speak.
    Besides, what happened to his mistress and that little baby of his?
    Knowing she abandoned the baby and you took care of that baby.
    When she came with the authorities to claim the baby, did your ex back you up or he backed her up?
    What happened to that misfortuned baby?

  • @mariazelaya6598
    @mariazelaya6598 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    NO ya tu hiciste tu vida.con tu hija eres una Madre trabajadora podras sacar a tu hija sola vive en Paz tranquila tambien eres muy bonita y joven me te mereces algo mejor tambien tienes que pensar en tu niña tan bonita y inteligente se da cuenta de todo piensa por favor el ejemplo que le das a tu niña Dios te Bendiga siempre desde Florida USA

  • @l0veletter194
    @l0veletter194 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    애기 아빠 한번만 받아주지 많이 반성 하고 있던데 😂😂😂

  • @reneehedin2252
    @reneehedin2252 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He needs to help support your child. Take the money. And whatever he brings you. But be careful about him. what He did to you and your child is wrong. Then he did the same to the new person and child. He will do to you again

  • @wapi70
    @wapi70 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    one thing I can tell you is to do the right choice, if you want to take hm ack no one can stop you, only one thing you must be shure of is, that you must put your house and land and evreything that you have know, writing on papers, I do not know if in your country you can do that, remember that he kick you out of his house for another woman, make shure that everything that you have work for, is on black and white at the law, legally yours, also the coustody on your daughter should be yours, remember that you lost the little boy that you was taking care of.
    use wisdom and not emotions❤

    • @JCPKiara
      @JCPKiara 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Like that phrase a lot "USE YOUR WISDON AND NOT YOUR EMOTIONS"
      I had to do that many times in my life to avoid being swapped away by the current of deception.
      Be careful. Trust ONLY those that #1. Have never hurt you. #2 Have never lied to you, and #3 Have never deceived you.

  • @NewsarahJane
    @NewsarahJane 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    No they never are willing to change don't forget what he did to u and your child I won't give him a chance

  • @leticiacuevas2814
    @leticiacuevas2814 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    que tal chica ya le dejas ver mas ala bebe asu papá no le quites que lo mire ellos no entienden los problemas de los grandes yesta bien que le depor lo menos lo basico deja que lo aga tu seguidora desde chicago

  • @carolbennett163
    @carolbennett163 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Everyone one needs a second chance, just like God gave us

  • @mponengmorabe2815
    @mponengmorabe2815 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Everyone deserves a second chance! But the final decision is yours. 🇿🇦🇿🇦🤔🤔

  • @PaulineRobinson-ig1zi
    @PaulineRobinson-ig1zi 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love all your builds, your farming, tending to the chickens and ducks, and of.course how you care for your daughter. Though I have to ask, please, please, please plant some.fliwers to brighten up home.
    Talk to your husband without shouting and shoving, then make your decision.

  • @juliebecker6049
    @juliebecker6049 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    No don’t trust him

  • @barbarasteede4327
    @barbarasteede4327 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Everyone deserves a second chance in life. God forgives us daily. I believed he realizes his mistakes and is really trying hard to make you happy. Give him a chance.

  • @patgorham4796
    @patgorham4796 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You don't need him, trust someone who is an asset to you and your daughter, if he abused you once he will do it again!

  • @nicoleduntin8598
    @nicoleduntin8598 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi my friend how are you hope you are okay everybody deserve a second chance in life but when given one who breaks your heart a second chance you must proceed with caution forgive but don't forget allow yourself to give him a second chance but with caution my friend have a nice weekend❤❤❤

  • @evangelinaovejero1773
    @evangelinaovejero1773 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hola lo bueno que dejes ver a su hija después si perdonas es tu problema y tu hijita es hermosa habeces sañuda al que la filma 😂😂 me hace reir ❤❤❤❤

  • @carlottasmith3114
    @carlottasmith3114 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Allow hi hin to visit during the day time so he can spend time with his daughter but must leave at night, when you can trust him then you decide what's next

  • @noimenatividad1490
    @noimenatividad1490 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dont trust him again,if you accept him you will suffer again,your life is good now be happy with out him in your life.

  • @patriciasmith852
    @patriciasmith852 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Good Day from New York. God allow us to go thru things to see where our faith comes in. Trust but don’t forget what has happened to your family, allow him to come during the day and help but at night let him go home. His life is not what he thought it would be by throwing yall out. And if yall do get together again make sure stuff goes in your name.. stay safe nd 💪🏾

  • @ericschrack7809
    @ericschrack7809 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Don’t trust him he did once he will do it again he see that you can do it without him that’s why he wants you back You can move on without him

  • @cintakontigogong
    @cintakontigogong 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    yes please give him one more time for your lovely child

  • @debragamez9489
    @debragamez9489 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    No don’t trust him he throw you out with your child. He won’t change. Remember on how he treated you. Follow on what your heart says.

  • @denesebramblette3548
    @denesebramblette3548 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Do not trust him. If he is helping you, who is taking care of his other wife and child? This man is irresponsible. Be careful.

  • @lindab6490
    @lindab6490 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Men never change. Don't trust him

  • @Sasslette
    @Sasslette 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Not sure I watched the same video as some of the comments. What I saw was an EX come to visit his child, Mum asked the child and she said yes. Mum let him in and went on with work giving him one on one time with his child (NO idea what he does for his son with his former girlfriend) Time for him to go and he is pushing money at her which she clearly says she doesn't want it. MAYBE she has dealt with this before with him, thinking a little money will change things and it doesn't. Sure she can call it "child support" but in fact it is few and far between for that. This woman was abused and kicked out with the child with nothing but the clothes on her back. She has worked very hard to build a life and home for her child Mum is allowing him to visit ( he was invited for her Birthday Party), he should be very thankful and not pushing the issue she clearly doesn't want.

  • @arletesorato5861
    @arletesorato5861 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Você deveria pegar o dinheiro,ele também tem obrigação de ajudar você a sustentar sua filha ❤🇧🇷

  • @ElizabethGomez-rz5zq
    @ElizabethGomez-rz5zq 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    NO.

  • @anitamarrujo5033
    @anitamarrujo5033 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He is changing. He does❤n't drink . He does help out, and remember you fainted it could happen again. Think about your baby.

  • @susanwardrope6495
    @susanwardrope6495 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    has she died or is. she or ok.

    • @sunnykat2762
      @sunnykat2762 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She’s ok 😊

    • @antoinettecattanoallen2673
      @antoinettecattanoallen2673 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why would you lie to people that care about you. I will not watch any longer

    • @sunnykat2762
      @sunnykat2762 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@antoinettecattanoallen2673 I think when they say passed. I think they mean they passed what ever was wrong and gotten better. Another said passed on adopted orphan that was really sick 🤒. Not passed away like what we mean.

  • @user-rs2gn6zo6l
    @user-rs2gn6zo6l 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Only you can decide that.we are to forgive. That don't mean we have to forget. I have friend who stayed with her husband. It was her choice. It's taken a lot to let go of the past. I personally have a hard time not bringing up the past. You might be better at letting it go. It's on him too. Only you know. I wish you the best in your decision. Ask our lord to guide you.

  • @evaavant8569
    @evaavant8569 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A BIG NO!!! I agree with comments #40. He’s no good for you, don’t be stupid concerning this man. The choice is up to you, just think about it for a moment.

  • @carolannes7100
    @carolannes7100 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I think we all have made mistakes and he was under substance abuse. If we want ppl to change, why not trust them. He has proven that he is not under substance anymore. How would you like if if no o e gave you a second chance? Yep we should not throw stones at someone if your guilty of any wrong doing g. We are not perfect. Only one man walked this earth who was perfect and we killed him" . Now let's think about this child. Let's not give misery company. Be kind, and tell this lady to give her family a second chance

    • @sunnykat2762
      @sunnykat2762 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes we all have made mistakes and we should give others a second chance…. We are told to turn the other cheek. But last time I checked we only have two cheeks. So she has given biblical chances. What did that get her. She was thrown out with the clothes on her back with her beautiful daughter. To live outside with only a banana leaves roof in an area that rains a lot. They slept on top of plastic. No blanket and no pots to cook with because that selfish man wouldn’t give any of her things as he threw her out. He let that beast of pregnant new wife beat on her, destroy her property that she worked so hard to build. Our host is a good woman, mother and business owner(she works hard on her farm) to let that selfish abusive man back into her life. Let him see his child yes. But if he’s bad to that baby girl cut off all contacts.
      As far as drunks goes. My uncle was an alcoholic he loved his family and would work hard 😓. What did booze get him? Fired from a job(he installed tiles in homes) that he loved and was great at even when drunk. The clients didn’t like him being drunk at their home. The company gave him many chances to quit drinking on the job. His wife was tired of always having to come to his sisters for money to pay their bills. She was tired of having to make excuses for his behavior and she gave him many chances to stop drinking and would send him to his sisters to get him to stop drinking. She said either booze or your family. He died in his early 50s from cirrhosis of the liver due to drinking. He never stopped drinking he lost his job and his family. He would cry often from missing his family and his wife… but he loved alcohol more. The differences between my uncle and her husband is my uncle never threw his wife out for mistress with nothing but the clothes on her back. He never shoved his wife, Liz, like our host husband did.
      Her husband only wants what she’s got now so he don’t have to work. He’s a lazy man that only wants to make babies with other women. He wants her to work and he will take her money once again she’ll be left out in the cold. I hope she’s too smart to let this happen again. He’s ran out of chances with her. She knows she can survive without him. he needs to go back to his lazy other baby mama of his son.

  • @miriamortizurcina2234
    @miriamortizurcina2234 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Ten cuidado, cuando más lo necesitaste,vte abandonó con tu niña y con aquel el moño de la amante, él sabia wue ella te lo había dejado en tu casa.

  • @zeinamarkabawi6928
    @zeinamarkabawi6928 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    No never. Never never. Omg don"t give any chance for avil snake.🖐

  • @susanwardrope6495
    @susanwardrope6495 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    you should take money he will only. drink it put it in bank. for your daughter

  • @user-df8wo1cx1d
    @user-df8wo1cx1d 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Please dont trust him where is his new wife and children. A Leopard doesnt change its spots. Please rust your instincts.

  • @user-wt3jb5li6v
    @user-wt3jb5li6v 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Почему он не интересуется вторым ребенком

  • @ridhamedalia8927
    @ridhamedalia8927 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Don't trust your ex husband,he is too evil for you and his child,too hurtful for you to make him rnjoy being with your child

  • @petrathompson2591
    @petrathompson2591 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Do Not thrust your ex husband,He IS alone and what He did to you and your girl No way He kicked you Out bad

  • @user-ry7wr8iy8l
    @user-ry7wr8iy8l 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    youre daughter is cute 💕

  • @harleyconstant3397
    @harleyconstant3397 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Once gone stays gone. Do not trust him

  • @evangelinaovejero1773
    @evangelinaovejero1773 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Y si agarra la plata x que en otros paices no se si en ese los padres pasan la cuota de mantencion a sus hijos es una ley xas separados que esten y el como padre le tiene que dar de comer a su hija como al otro es hacerse cargo ,x eso repito en otro pices lo obliga la ley no se ai besos ❤❤❤❤

  • @mirianaparecidabonifaciode8273
    @mirianaparecidabonifaciode8273 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    É uma pena mas não vou mais ver seus vídeos não tem tradução,aí não dá sou do Brasil

  • @leticiacuevas2814
    @leticiacuevas2814 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    tu respuesta

  • @mariadapazdasilva2773
    @mariadapazdasilva2773 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Eu não entendo se ela não vive com ele porque essas filmagens com ele trabalhando no vídeo dela.

  • @renamartin2669
    @renamartin2669 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    no

  • @beneditadita9743
    @beneditadita9743 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Boa noite gosto do seu vídeo mas está ficando chato sem legenda português Brasil não sabemos o que vc está falando ❤❤❤

  • @leticiacuevas2814
    @leticiacuevas2814 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    traducir a español

  • @titahernandez1931
    @titahernandez1931 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    WHY YOU ACT LIKE HE GIVIN MONEY TO YOU!! IT'S FOR HIS LIL BABYGIRL, DUH!!! BUY HER THE FAVORITE CHIPS SHE ALWAYS GETS!! HE NOT GIVIN MONEY TO YOU SO YOU TAKE HIM BAC, HE'S BEIN A DADDY, HE LOVES HIS LIL GIRL TOO!! MAYB HE NOT WANT YOU BAC!! NOBODY KNWS WHAT'S GOIN ON CAN'T READ LIPS, NOT UNDERSTAND WHT HE SAYS OR WHT YOU SAY!! SAME STORY LINE EACH TIME!! HOPE LIL GIRL BUY HER CHIPS W/ THE MONEY HER DADDY GAV HER!! 😊

  • @Sherryarnaz
    @Sherryarnaz 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yes he deserves one more chance. Let him have one more time.

  • @gloriaayala4874
    @gloriaayala4874 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Porque no quieres entender déjalo que miré a la 👧 y qué se vaya pero no lo dejas entrar a tu casa el lo que quiere es que lo mantengas nunca se mira que trabajé porque no busca a su otro 👶 para que miré aver si la otra no lo vendió como quiso hacer un dia no seas tonta dile que no no

  • @antoinettecattanoallen2673
    @antoinettecattanoallen2673 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I don't like the untruth on these videos i will unsubscribe

  • @NormaClaudio
    @NormaClaudio 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Give him a chance for ur daugther

  • @mareykerondonuwu8683
    @mareykerondonuwu8683 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Just give him a second chance.....so take him back so don't have to work so hard.....it's not easy to be singe mom you do this for your daughter GBU ALL

    • @adrianblackman8013
      @adrianblackman8013 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Are you real why would she want to take back a man who put her and his child out on the streets without a care in the world

    • @sunnykat2762
      @sunnykat2762 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@adrianblackman8013 yeah he literally shoved her on the ground many times. When he threw her out she had nothing except her baby. They were sleeping on plastic with a banana leaves roof. He didn’t want to let her have a pot and pan or a blanket. He just wants part of this farm and her TH-cam money. Also she has given him chances.

    • @zeinamarkabawi6928
      @zeinamarkabawi6928 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If tiger changed the forest itneber be chand th skin's colours. Don't be mad.piz

  • @mariafilingeri9320
    @mariafilingeri9320 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Non capisco adesso vuole vedere sua figlia però quando li ha buttati fuori di casa stai attenta non accettare dei soli da lui lui sta facendo tutto per così tu lo perdoni non fare questo sbaglio

  • @mariafilingeri9320
    @mariafilingeri9320 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Ecco mi fa una rabbia ti diciamo di non lo fare entrare e non accettare dei soldi e tu li hai presi ti sta comprando Enutile che ti diamo dei consigli tu non li vuoi sentire mi dispiace