I had to listen to my wife get murdered - Dan Cross tells his heartbreaking story

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  • @TangotheCaique
    @TangotheCaique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    I’m From Hemel Hempstead and this tragedy sent shockwaves through our town, I don’t know how I would have coped in Dan’s position , he is incredibly strong . Can’t imagine for a second what that must have been like . You are a credit to your kids Dan, your wife would be very proud. God bless you 🙏

    • @georgeredmond7151
      @georgeredmond7151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      very well said, This guy is a tower of strength, No revenge thoughts, I couldn't think of anything worse . I could easily spend time with this guy Dan, Articulated, calm , Motivated , Fit and an incredible father

    • @Just_BaconOfficial
      @Just_BaconOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your British I’m British

    • @blondeandchatty7842
      @blondeandchatty7842 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lovely comment. I agree. It's difficult to know what to say. You summed it up perfectly. @@georgeredmond7151

    • @lrlcd
      @lrlcd ปีที่แล้ว

      When did this happen? I’m from Berkhamsted and I’d not heard of it. 😢

    • @SBMCProduction
      @SBMCProduction 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lrlcdit was 8 years agi, as he stated 6 years in the podcast and it was released 2 years ago :(

  • @alanvincent9551
    @alanvincent9551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    What a fantastic human being Dan is, his positive attitude is unbelievable. His kids are & will be extremely proud of their dad. Top work James.

    • @JamesEnglish
      @JamesEnglish  3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He’s a warrior - thanks Alan

    • @SinisterScoundrel6562
      @SinisterScoundrel6562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      His kids grew to love their new stepmom.

    • @WRLD-ic4dj
      @WRLD-ic4dj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How he doesn't think of revenge is beyond me, I think I'd do something terrible to those B*stards 🤬world is a sick sick place 😢

    • @nannyplum0194
      @nannyplum0194 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The need for revenge would be put on back burner as he would be more concerned for his children and their future.
      Once he got help for them he sorted himself out coming to terms with the tragedy.
      Revenge is counter productive and it doesn't solve anything.
      I thank God he is a strong man and he has coped admirably.

  • @AUBZ72
    @AUBZ72 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Words can’t explain of this event 😢
    Dan is the biggest man I’ve come across for sure , as for being a father , No one on this planet can match him , strongest is an understatement ✊

  • @cpfcselhurst8159
    @cpfcselhurst8159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    How can anyone give this interview a thumbs down for this brave guy is beyond me!

    • @martinswaney2892
      @martinswaney2892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree. Shame on them

    • @samjones4323
      @samjones4323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe people that think he hired a hitman

    • @smokeyj1656
      @smokeyj1656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@samjones4323 😒

    • @spencerglover1
      @spencerglover1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Unfortunately it’s the world we live in, full of negative rotten people with bad energy

    • @Champ7611
      @Champ7611 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samjones4323 what brain dead people? Anyone who thinks that should be locked up

  • @Maree_37
    @Maree_37 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Everything you went through and the way you deal with it is your truth. Thank you for sharing and encouraging men to speak up about their traumas

  • @shonabeggs4640
    @shonabeggs4640 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I lost it when he said how his son is scared of everything, and his daughter wonders whether her relationship with his wife is the same as it would be with her mum. Utterly heartbreaking. 😢 I hope their scars fade enough for them to feel safe, secure and happy.🙏

  • @rhianbrown2080
    @rhianbrown2080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I can never explain or thank you enough for this episode. I am a trauma victim (I hate saying that) and I really needed this, it has been 10 years and I really needed this.

    • @kasaralaimani8777
      @kasaralaimani8777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hope you’re doing ok ❤

    • @rhianbrown2080
      @rhianbrown2080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kasaralaimani8777 aww thank you so much! Just take each day as it comes and plenty of cuddles from my dog haha xx

    • @tamxo2451
      @tamxo2451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wishing you all the best! You have courage :)

  • @liverbird956
    @liverbird956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    What a traumatic experience to go through, to actually listen to your loved one being attacked and murdered, not knowing if his kids were ok and being so helpless must have been absolutely awful.
    Glad he and his son got the help they needed.
    Dan you and your children deserve all the happiness in the world. What a lovely fella.

  • @teec5533
    @teec5533 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    What an inspiration if a man!
    James you always do the best interviews, thank you.
    Love to Dan and his beautiful kids ❤️

  • @daniellemorrison9788
    @daniellemorrison9788 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    What a horrific story and what a amazing guy you are Dan sending love and prayers ❤

  • @lukejones3040
    @lukejones3040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Utterly heartbreaking couldn't think of anything worse but what a man to come through it like he has wish him and his family all the best. Powerful interview 👏🏼

  • @davechapman9544
    @davechapman9544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    What a gentleman. This guy is great... So humble and an absolute advocate/ role model to people who have suffered trauma. Fair play to him

  • @gman5375
    @gman5375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    That is a real man right there. Such compassion and strength. Been a fan ever since seeing him on SAS. Glad to see him kicking on

  • @everydayimwingingit3875
    @everydayimwingingit3875 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This made me cry. Those poor children 😢 and to have to hear this and know there's nothing you can do must be the hardest thing ever. What incredible people. I hope they have a life time of happiness and mummy is looking down ❤

  • @kerriparr615
    @kerriparr615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Absolutely heart breaking. So glad that he's more at peace with it all now and the help he's giving to others. A true strong gentleman. James love what you do here.

  • @lindaharper4624
    @lindaharper4624 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a amazing man and a inspiration, i suffered domestic violence for 23 yrs before i escaped , i still feel extreme anger towards the person who did this to me but im alive , after seing this im trying to change my mindset and not let this anger consume me , this man has amazing courage .

  • @missruth26
    @missruth26 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow this man is an absolute warrior. My heart breaks hearing his story.
    Omg the strength he had to find…. What an incredible man, and Father.

  • @maeve3386
    @maeve3386 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Just watching today and it’s the anniversary 🥲wishing you and your family happiness and good health 💚love from Ireland ☘️🇮🇪
    Great show as always James🙏

  • @laurawilton8844
    @laurawilton8844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can genuinely say this is the most heartbreaking story I’ve ever heard. This man is a true warrior and an absolute hero in my eyes. Honestly puts so much in perspective. Have so much admiration and respect for this man and his family. ❤️

  • @nuka5619
    @nuka5619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You’re exactly what your kids needed, extremely strong man

  • @ElSappo83
    @ElSappo83 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm a 40 Yr old father of 3 from Luton and if I can grow up anymore I want to be like you. Your an amazingly strong man. Your kids are lucky to have you.

  • @peaceatlast2684
    @peaceatlast2684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So glad he has been able to come through this earth shattering event with such Grace and dignity his family must be so proud xx

  • @martinswaney2892
    @martinswaney2892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What a guy. Heart of a lion. Puts your own problems into perspective. Another great guest James . 👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻

  • @johngammon963
    @johngammon963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    The police are an absolute disgrace.

  • @JohnHonda101
    @JohnHonda101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    All I can say is this has brought a tight feeling to my chest and made my eyes well up.

  • @skyhawk747
    @skyhawk747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can't even begin to try to comprehend this. What an inspirational human being who has suffered so much and has come out the other side. Much love to you brother and I am so sorry for your loss. You are an amazing inspirational father to your kids.

  • @planethoth1238
    @planethoth1238 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This man has the most immense mental strength known to man. I honestly don’t know how I would cope if I was in this situation. But he has to be strong for the kids and I just hope that his life and their lives remain healthy and strong 🙏🙏

  • @glennscrafton238
    @glennscrafton238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This man is beyond strong. His positivity after all hes been through is remarkable. God bless ❤

  • @chase6710
    @chase6710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Your attitude is amazing mate, couldn’t imagine the pain you have went through. Really hit me hard hearing this one. Keep up what your doing the kids are lucky to have you as a Dad, much respect

  • @laurencook872
    @laurencook872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your son is also so very brave. I really hope he finds peace within himself x

  • @raygrimes9203
    @raygrimes9203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    17 minutes, horrific , can not even imagine what this guy was going through, truly sorry for what your family went through

  • @WSCØØTS
    @WSCØØTS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Listened to this all the way from Southampton to Essex yesterday driving. What a powerful story, such strength 👏👏👏

  • @kevinmcnally8984
    @kevinmcnally8984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What a story , such an incredibly strong human. everyone can take something from this man's story . God bless mate 🙏

  • @carolsheenyhailstoneartgra3977
    @carolsheenyhailstoneartgra3977 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a man he is! Absolutely fascinating interview loved it.. best wishes to Dan & his family 💪🏼👏🏻

  • @abbiebrown6861
    @abbiebrown6861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    What a traumatic experience to go through Dan and his kids. I'm glad Dan and his kids got the help they needed. Respect to Dan for sharing his story

  • @soniauk4284
    @soniauk4284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What an absolute cracking podcast. Trauma and recovery is rarely talked about so openly. Thank you for sharing your experience and I wish all the best for your family Dan 🙏

  • @laurencook872
    @laurencook872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a brave brave guy. I could not imagine going through this. You walked through hell and come out fighting for your kids. Your one amazing human dan x

  • @carmenramos4593
    @carmenramos4593 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am left speechless, it fills me with happiness that she is overcoming the trauma, has remarried and has another daughter. All my love to your 2 children. They deserve to be happy. How proud to see that you have created an organization. a big hug from Spain!

  • @danielmoore2142
    @danielmoore2142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    How Dan tells his story without breaking down I don’t know.. such a gentleman, my heart bleeds for him and his kids…

    • @WRLD-ic4dj
      @WRLD-ic4dj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes he is a very strong bloke, I honestly wouldn't be able to cope with the questions he was asked 😢

  • @lancevernon4394
    @lancevernon4394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What a strong man and inspiration this guy is to his children. Absolutely heartbreaking story but to stand back up from this horrific ordeal and to keep moving forward I can only imagine takes a great deal of strength. Your kids are very lucky to have you

  • @shanetaylor3116
    @shanetaylor3116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Wow what a watch. That is every man's nightmare he's gone through.
    Best podcast I've ever watched had me crying my eyes out .
    GREAT WATCH JAMES ENGLISH 👍

  • @dansdailyvideos7
    @dansdailyvideos7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    James English improves with every episode, what a guy 🙌this story gets me everytime.

  • @wicanlegend
    @wicanlegend 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Some story this. Not many people understand that there is a difference between feeling suicidal and being suicidal. This guy is an absolute legend and how he has coped is beyond me! X

  • @brettrussell6207
    @brettrussell6207 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! That was totally gripping! What an inspiration to all of us. Wishing you and your family all the very best for the future. Amazing human being.

  • @stephenkelly9633
    @stephenkelly9633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    my heart goes out to you and your family bro, can not even begin to imagine what it must of been like. stay strong brother stay positive. i wish you all the happiness possible in the world.

  • @TommyLeeBaker
    @TommyLeeBaker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mass amounts of respect for this guy. Hats of to how strong he is proper genuine bloke.

  • @adamharley6688
    @adamharley6688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wish Dan all the best in life. Role model for us all & his kids will be proud of him.

  • @freckles1874
    @freckles1874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What an amazing strong man. Nikki would be so proud the way he has brought up thier children. To have the compassion for the mental health of the chap that murdered his wife is outstanding 🙏🏼💕 your here to help heal others with yoir inspiration ❤

  • @ChristineLlewellyn-c7w
    @ChristineLlewellyn-c7w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a lovely strong man, it's terrible what he as been through and deserves to be happy now for himself and his children.

  • @garyreid5629
    @garyreid5629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What an amazing inspirational legend this man is. So strong 💪

  • @bevphillips56
    @bevphillips56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Best interview I have ever watched. What a heartbreaking story but omg what a fantastic guy Dan is.
    All the best Dan to you and your family and you James ❤️
    Rip nikki x

  • @JmacAt
    @JmacAt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    When i first hear about this it really hit me hard, this guy is so strong and I hope his kids fed of this and they grow in confidence and be able to live without fear, and they will be a shining example to all, bless them all. Another great podcast James sending a message to say that despite whatever has happened or is happening in your life you are strong and you can get through things, I hope people take inspiration from this

  • @cakielala
    @cakielala ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is incredible. What an amazing human being to have endured through such a tragedy. ❤

  • @smurphy6767
    @smurphy6767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely heartbreaking.. such an incredibly brave, strong man.. so sad

  • @payne15462
    @payne15462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a man and father !!!! Gave me goose bumps the way he talked about the trauma

  • @lyndseycrawford6355
    @lyndseycrawford6355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This guy is a hero, I remember watching him on SAS. Serious chap and has a mind of absolute steel.
    Your an inspiration to mankind fella.

  • @NorthEastMick
    @NorthEastMick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You’ll not find a guy stronger than Dan Cross. All the best for you and your family 👍

    • @NorthEastMick
      @NorthEastMick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks James, keep up the hard work brother you’re smashing it out the park with these podcasts 🤜⚡️🤛

  • @marygee3209
    @marygee3209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hero's come in all shapes and forms Dan! You are strong, big love to you and your family!

  • @darlingjaels
    @darlingjaels 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nikki is proud of you , Dan! You're doing exactly what you were left on this planet to do. What an inspiration! I appreciate you for sharing your story for others to learn from.

  • @deansharp7023
    @deansharp7023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an amazing human being this man is I've got a misses 2 children and they are everything to me and his an inspiration to keep going and helping and understanding mental health fantastic interveiw James one of your best,please from me and I'm sure all your listener's tell him his an amazing man stayed blessed 🙌

  • @paulpaulson35
    @paulpaulson35 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tough tough man. Am glad he had his kids around to help him through. Am proud of him and dont even know him. Nothing but love big man 🙂

  • @chrisdev9839
    @chrisdev9839 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That was incredible !! One of the best ones yet James ! Hats off to Dan. What a guy to have came through all that and is now using his experience of trauma & pain to help others. Such a selfless thing to do ❤️❤️

  • @darrenmurphy0511
    @darrenmurphy0511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hands down the best pod done purely because its every single persons worst nightmare. I'd want/need to hurt the person who did that to my family. Dan you are truly an inspiration to each of us mate.

  • @rankoutsider1977
    @rankoutsider1977 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A Warrior and an inspirational Gentleman you are Dan 🤜🏽💥🤛🏽
    All the very best to yourself and the family forever Mate ❤
    #onelove

  • @helensephton8572
    @helensephton8572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Looking forward to this one James hes such an amazing man dealing with what he had to hear and know that your children are there as well so sad 🙏💔

  • @adelejones5059
    @adelejones5059 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    RIP to his poor wife and his children to witness this terrible crime 💔

  • @kelleysullivan5336
    @kelleysullivan5336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This story is just crazy!
    That cop afraid to get cut on the broken glass🤬
    Strong man .. Your children are lucky to have you.
    Thank you to the interviewer for letting this man tell his story asking all the right questions no interruptions.

  • @aprilbennett540
    @aprilbennett540 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing this story. If you can please let Stanley know he was/is very brave. To live through something like that and not completely shut down shows great strength. He is a remarkable little boy. I wish you all the best.

  • @martinh131269
    @martinh131269 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What an amazing guy. A true inspiration.

  • @stephenferris5018
    @stephenferris5018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good show James as always, and what Dan has been through and come too is a inspiration to many people

  • @Bornblue1872
    @Bornblue1872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a top top bloke, absolutely incredible how he has got himself through that and been there for his kids 👏🏻

  • @McN48G
    @McN48G 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dan, what an inspiration! You are indeed a warrior! Keep the fight up brother. James, outstanding work here also!

  • @markgough6259
    @markgough6259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an inspirational man your a credit to yourself and your children

  • @daviddarcy7670
    @daviddarcy7670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Absolute love this esp... This brought back alot of memories for myself.. My father was murder by mistaking identity 10 years ago this 28th of November from a horrible women who had no remorse for killing my innocent father... Brought back alot of past thaughts and memories.. Fair play to this guy hes an inspiration

  • @abulkahar4869
    @abulkahar4869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a strong individual !! Don't know what I would have done. Wish you and your kids every happiness for the future mate. To stay strong for 2 young children through all this, you are truly amazing.

  • @Jamie-hv6sf
    @Jamie-hv6sf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Like most others here I saw this man’s story first on the news and then on tv SAS. But listening to this podcast fucking hell what a man. What a man, what a father.

  • @frederickkay4308
    @frederickkay4308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the motivation you need in life when you think life is tough... True inspiration brother that the heartache you went through but still look at life in a positive way... True courage and wish you all the best for everything you have been through... Keep going bro.. Stay strong, stay blessed, stay focused.. One love xxx

  • @sharonsinclair5184
    @sharonsinclair5184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another brilliant interview James, the first time i heard Dan’s story was on this morning then I watched him on SAS what a brave man he is. I am glad he is in a better place after the horrendous murder of his wife, my heart goes out to him and his kids I pray that one day his son will find himself. Sending love to Dan and his family.....

  • @melseymizouri4792
    @melseymizouri4792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I remember seeing him on sas he who dares wins. This story broke me. That call is with him for life. Such a strong man. My heart goes out to him.

  • @franmaddocks3359
    @franmaddocks3359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow thought I might have to watch this in parts as it would be to emotional but it was a brilliantly done interview, as always by James, obviously a gut wrenching event but mixed in with hope & positivity. Dan honestly what an inspiring bloke! You deserve all the happiness & I wish strong man all the success xx

  • @colinelliott9916
    @colinelliott9916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a man I really don’t think I could have managed it like him good luck to him and his family

  • @linadukstaite3502
    @linadukstaite3502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    James is always sharing so much about him self what realy helps his guests relax and share they story! Can't wait when he begins doing his own life coaching videos!

  • @matty2418
    @matty2418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great interview what an inspirational man to come through the unimaginable hats off to him,best of luck too to him and his kids.

  • @scottgibson7467
    @scottgibson7467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Biggest RESPECT to this gentleman dan for speaking about it on cam!james congratulations on The W+Thanks for an emotional one this week 👏

  • @roslyngray3310
    @roslyngray3310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Dan is an amazing man for what he has been through 💖🌟💖 Dan and his children are all earth angels and warriors 💖💫💖, emotional and inspiring interview🌟💎🎤💜🌟

  • @edz619
    @edz619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hands down this is the most emotional interview you have ever done! I was driving up the M40 with tears rolling down my cheeks! This is the most unimaginable horrific experience you could imagine! The feeling of helplessness for him being so far away must have been awful! What a strong man, I have so much admiration for you Danny Boy!
    PS - James, you are looking well brother! A picture of health!

  • @joenation1000
    @joenation1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amazing strength from this man , inspiring to say the least .
    Having lost my girlfriend of 6 years suddenly last October when she was just 28 , I can relate to a lot of what Dan is saying regarding the guilt of moving on and letting yourself be happy again , he's right about anniversaries and dates raising anxiety .... this vid hit home , true inspiration

  • @grimbles1273
    @grimbles1273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope the man is never ever released. My heart breaks for you and your kids. I saw the start of this on tiktok and followed it here. Sending love and warm light from australia 🇦🇺 ✨️ ❤️ you may not feel like it but your an amazing strong man and an amazingly great father. You kids have the best.

  • @Loud-pakz
    @Loud-pakz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    BIG RESPECT TO DAN WAT A STRONG STRONG PERSON WAT A WARRIOR

  • @kimberleygoodings1676
    @kimberleygoodings1676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is the best interview I’ve ever bloody seen! Dan was so at ease because you let him just tell this horrible incident and some of the best interviews are by people who just support but let the guest speak. I remember when this happened, all those that say he done this wrong or that wrong are the absolute scum of society, until you even think a glimpse of what this man and his children went through these folk are the height of ignorance! This is rare and thank fuckng god it is because this situation is the worst crime for a person to go through! Walk a mile in someone’s shoes before opening that big trap to criticise this absolute gentleman!

  • @jeanbilly8466
    @jeanbilly8466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Best pod I've seen
    I'm actually a emotional wreck
    So sad .💔..I can't express how much I admire this guy's strength.♥️

  • @robert22333
    @robert22333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This actually sent shivers through my spine , what a man , honestly cried watching this one hell of a horror story no wonder he'd been on so many journeys with his kids / himself I know the feeling when he says he needed to see the video to put something to a close in his mind & most of all not been able to say goodbye 💔 😢 I lost my only son and I live with this feeling daily 😢 💔 I just wish he could come onto my dreams / come to me sit om my bed giving me a hug 🫂 and I could feel atleast a bit of this goodbyes it's destroyed me !! Your such a inspirational mam to your children and I belive the lady you have maried to day she has been sent to you from your beautiful wife above the stars 🌟 to help you and your children get through every day wow this so touched me ; such a broken man trying to get you to see light again, ❤️ 💙 never heard such heartbreaking story ever !! You got this Dan, keep every beat of you close to your heart your kids & your & wife love will win Dan keep strong you have GOT THIS , I'm so sorry you had to suffer this harrowing horror story in your life 😢 I wish you every bit of happiness in the future 🙏 God give this man love peace health & happiness and his children ❤️ 💙 I felt every bit of his story so sad , 😞 such a strong man Dan !!
    What a story James , your strong when you can still sit there and share your life experiences 🙌 and give advice 👍 brillant James, keep going your podcasts just get better ❤️ thanks for sharing Dan story !

  • @sarahcarter3865
    @sarahcarter3865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are an inspiration. Nikki would want you and the kids to have a happy life. It's easy to say you shouldn't feel guilty about not being there, but on the other hand, your children could have lost both their parents that night.
    Thank you for telling your story 💙

  • @sueLH44
    @sueLH44 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an amazing man.. true inspiration.. love the podcast James.. always have the best interviews xxxx

  • @rickymcgarrigle1827
    @rickymcgarrigle1827 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That calmness is just surreal!
    I'm sure James would agree that when you see that guy back at trial then the urge would be to fuckin immediately pounce on him. The growth, mental stability and maturity of Dan is amazing. He has went through the only thing worse than losing your kids alone, and he almost lost them too...There's a lot of men that wouldn't be able to turn that around.
    For any lads out there that need to talk or help, please speak to someone because no one knows what you're going through!
    Amazing podcast and I sincerely wish Dan the best and hope his wee lad gets past the mental barriers that he has done so well to manage ❤

  • @elliedenning6514
    @elliedenning6514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amazing podcast , such incredible strength ❤️

  • @vickyrees6102
    @vickyrees6102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Dan deserves every ounce of happiness. His late wife would want a lovely woman with him and nurturing her children. She sounds like a tonic for dan and his young children. Your an inspiration to many and I wish u and your family lots of love and happiness. Great interview James. Hope you had a lovely xmas.

  • @SHOVoff
    @SHOVoff ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. What an inspiring chat. Thank you for sharing

  • @UNITED8993
    @UNITED8993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think this is and always has been one of my worst nightmares. Hats off to this, guy it’s easy to talk about the things you’d do to the person when you get hold of them and I’d never be brave enough to do what he did. I don’t think I’d ever get over it.

  • @lyndonsmith8626
    @lyndonsmith8626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I work nights and I have a six year old I couldn’t even listen past 18 mins..
    How this man and his poor children got through this is unbelievable !
    Much respect and love