OP needs to go to Court and get a permanent restraining order against the ex. Then she needs to acquire a legal firearm and learn to use it. She also needs to stop letting people into her house when she is alone.
Story 1: OP dodged a bullet by divorcing that ungrateful narcissist, but totally wasted her time speaking to him ever again & being his doormat to wipe his & his family's filthy feet on. She is lucky he didn't angrily unalive her.
In the USA, any court of law would fibd that gifts given belong to the recipient, not the gifter. The only exceptions are if the gift was a family heirloom like a wedding ring, watch, or something similar.
I’m laughing so hard at the ex,BRUH, how you go from married (to a Boss) to cheating after 6 months of marriage, to asking for a divorce, then coming back to the ex and ask for money to support him and side chick for their baby? The didn’t realize how good he had it until he left OP, what an idiot. Why isn’t the new gf doing something to help financially. But wait I get it, bc he’s so used to OP giving things with love that he doesn’t know how to provide properly and think about the consequences. I hope the ex has triplets
He just need to give OP back what was given to him. But he can't, because he has sold most of it. The audacity of him and his sister to think that OP should be generous.
OP, call the cops and get a restraining order against him. You have divorce papers and I assume that it is pretty obvious that that he had left town and had not mentioned you having his property before he left. Don't even miss with this POS. He is nothing to you anymore. If he actually does try to go further, I bet you could find so receipts and proof of the stuff you gifted him, and maybe even ask for the car back. Get the cops involved and file charges if you have to because it sounds like this is a person you what anywhere near you.
First story : Absolutely NTA OP. Your ex does not have a leg to stand on legally and you would be well advised to get a restraining order against him. It does sound as though he may have been 'working' with some very dodgy people (drugs?) and had to get away from them quickly. Now he just sounds entitled. You could make a list of all the expensive presents you got him, with any evidence you can gather, and give him a copy to show what he would need to return to you if you were able (and willing) to return his gifts to him. Don't forget his half of the wedding expenses etc., if he did not pay them at the time. Sounds like, one way or another, you have had a narrow escape from a definite no-no of a husband OP. Better luck next time.
OP is NTA. I say this simply because he didn’t ask for the gifts to be returned. Although, I think the Ex is in trouble with debt collectors. Or he’s on D.
Story 1: OP's ex is in some kind of addiction/drug situation. Get security cameras, flood lights, and a good protection dog. Don't answer the door anymore if you don't know who is outside and ESPECIALLY do not answer the door after dark. Stop meeting up with your ex. Stop responding to his texts or his family and friends. Stop being polite and reasonable with unreasonable, manipulative people. Show your freaking teeth and chase them away. Get a restraining order, threaten to sue for harassment. Don't just lay down for this crap.
Story 1: If the ex husband didn’t get those expensive gifts in the divorce, he has no claim to them following the divorce. He can screw off. OP needs a restraining order on the ex. He is scum.
Manager needed to call police. With all the anger and not letting her leave. That is the least he could do. And then have all the people who witnessed his behavior testify. Because he was acting crazy.
Wow wow I hope OP informed all his friends that was so concerned w his disappearance act.... I'd literally let everyone, every mutual friend especially the ones that were scared searching for him, let it be known that during ur entire marriage he had an affair & has been harassing / stalking u for 💰💰💰💰💰 because him & his affair partners dream of farming didn't pan out & their expecting a child.... Let them know he'll probably hit them up for cash too.... Be careful he's desperate & scary.... I'm letting everyone know just in case anything happens to me... Get a protective order ASAP.against him & his family....
I’d laugh in the exes face 😂 I’d say just get a damn job and save your money! You two will be fine lol Then I’d block all those crazy lunatics and get a restraining order
This is insane because how dose his family justify this asking money from the person who got cheated on then defend a gold diggers actions. They're probably thinking of the baby, but even then that's no excuse. Also I find it very weird that their ex gave up after that. But at least he did her a favor by cheating and divorcing so early on so she didn't have to be married to a bum like that any longer.
If she was in the same position he would help her? ROFLMBO 😂! Silly regrets being friends with her because she doesn't deserve it? 😂😂😂! Where was sil when her brother cold blooded divorced her and ghosted everyone? Nah, they're a bunch of lying, cheating crap holes.
i don't care a gift is a gift,if you are going to want it back don't give it hense it is a gift..... now after him telling me this i would have unblocked his sister ,called her back and asked after finding all this out, why should i help him why don't you help him out.
If the husband didn't ask for the jewelry from the court when they divorced, he does not have a legal leg to stand on now. That was her jewelry to do with whatever she wanted.
Why on Earth are you interested in knowing to what and why he did, what he did, and why waste your time, money, and energy in trying to find or dig the dirt what he was doing. This OP needs to learn to be straight and not beat around the bush. If the same scenario had happened to me or most of them reading this comment, I am sure you would kicked his butt out the first time he came back to her house in the middle of the night. I would have told him on the face, if he wanted his gifts back, then he will have to meet my lawyer and not to contact directly.
Pretty sure his parents knew about it. What happened to family helps family. Where are the parents and the sister bailing him and the pregnant girlfriend out?
*I did listen to another story like this, although that one was more heart breaking than malicious. The OPs husband suddenly asked for a divorce out of the blue weeks after their anniversary, it got stranger when he wanted her to take everything in the divorce they had accumulated over the years together. After the divorce he disappeared from her life until over a year later she got a letter from his mother. It stated that he found out he had terminal cancer & he didn't want her to watch him wasting away, or more likely she would try & get him medical care that would burn through their finances & had cut ties with everyone including his family. His lawyer delivered the letter to his mother after his passing explaining everything, OP did say he knew her too well as she would have given up everything to keep him around as long as possible.*
Ohhh wait. In some states where cheating is bad during a divorce can be sued for up to like 3 years if you find out in thosev3 years that the divorce was caused because of the cheating. Now that he confessed to cheating for half the marriage and that's why he divorced her she can sue HIM. Imagine suing him and getting the car and half the farm plus the money for the watches lol.plus you can sue the lover who cheated with the spouse so if she played her cards right she could pretty much own that farm.
I don’t care what ex husband told OP, This guy owes money to a loan shark DEFINITELY. He’s running from guys with middle name “The”: Tony the Mace, Jonny The Mole etc. Otherwise he wouldn’t be banging on OPs door at fucking midnight
OK I hate victim blaming but there were three times where OP was an idiot. First time letting him into her home after Midnight. If she had refused and called the cops on him right then it probably would have ended right there. Then meeting him in his hotel room when knew how irrational he is? Finally letting him into her home AGAIN??? I would guess it probably wouldn’t end there as he hasn’t yet had any consequences for his actions. I am honestly surprised she wasn’t harmed in someway.
@@robertx8020 Oh absolutely. It’s just that OP put herself in danger each time. The first time should have been a red flag. What rational person bangs on anyone’s door at midnight to demand things?
NO! He is acting so outrageous that he could kodnap you and hold you until you get the money to him. Please tell me you went with someone else. Just as a witness.
OP should have taken this and made a police report for continued harassment. Can go to her lawyers to get some kind of restraining order. She should quite literally stop letting people who have wronged her/screwed her over, into her house or onto property and just call the cops for trespassing. Heck, if you were willing to be petty you might as well blast the whole thing on the internet since clearly they are shameless enough to continue harassing OP even though they were the ones in the wrong here.
Gotta love all the 'smart' comments regarding a restraining order. Newsflash: the only situation in which such is even possible is cases of domestic violence.
Why is this a post? I hope she ain't going to add something dumb like aita. That would be dumb to ask knowing that they're your own gifts that he gave you why would you assume that you have to give back a gift even a court would tell you it is a gift so this is just a stupid post. Why is this woman even in contact with this family that's why I don't understand you're so desperate to continue to stay in touch with these people that you're going to sit here and allow this man to walk in your house with his little funky attitude then yell at you and a cafe and get y'all put out then put his family on you and you still talking to this man and his family you got to be really mental to be dealing with this person after all that he put you through.
I would have said are you sure you want to do this? Because we do that i am will take back my car i gifted and the watches. You never asked for them back in the divorce. If you dont leave right now, i will call the police!
Nope. Its all your stuff to do as you wish. You didnt ask about the watches and his car. I would have contacted my lawyer. I wont speak to you without him since you are being so outrageous.
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OP needs to go to Court and get a permanent restraining order against the ex. Then she needs to acquire a legal firearm and learn to use it. She also needs to stop letting people into her house when she is alone.
what kind of idiot opens the door with someone banging and screaming?
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Also change her will, and make sure ex and his family know it's been changed.
I don’t understand why she didn’t have her lawyer deal with it from the start. She should have dug out all the receipts for the gifts she given him.
Agree!
I’m guessing he’s gambling or using substances & owes very scary people money. Op should call the police. If I were her, I’d hire a P.I. too.
His entire family knew about the affair and they sure did help cover for him to go see the other woman
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OP makes some very odd choices.
I would reported him to the cops still and put a restraining order on him and his entire family
How stupid could OP be to let a stranger into her house two times.....
Apparently she's super duper stupid.
She needs to call the police, Its only going to get worse.
Story 1: OP dodged a bullet by divorcing that ungrateful narcissist, but totally wasted her time speaking to him ever again & being his doormat to wipe his & his family's filthy feet on. She is lucky he didn't angrily unalive her.
OP really should have served a cease and desist as soon as this nonsense started.
How did I KNOW that there was another woman and a kid on the way?! NOT a shocker there! What a jerk.
In the USA, any court of law would fibd that gifts given belong to the recipient, not the gifter. The only exceptions are if the gift was a family heirloom like a wedding ring, watch, or something similar.
Exactly! He wouldn’t have gotten them back even during the divorce proceedings. They were gifts to the recipient not communal property.
I’m laughing so hard at the ex,BRUH, how you go from married (to a Boss) to cheating after 6 months of marriage, to asking for a divorce, then coming back to the ex and ask for money to support him and side chick for their baby? The didn’t realize how good he had it until he left OP, what an idiot. Why isn’t the new gf doing something to help financially. But wait I get it, bc he’s so used to OP giving things with love that he doesn’t know how to provide properly and think about the consequences. I hope the ex has triplets
Your ex has zero legal leg to stand on. A lawyer will laugh him out of the office. And if he did manage to get a lawyer, a judge will.
All he had to do was return the gifts she gave. Problem solved. 😂
Call your lawyer , doormat - he’s harassing you and making ridiculous demands
My first thought was drugs. She needs to get a restraining order against him and his family.
He just need to give OP back what was given to him. But he can't, because he has sold most of it. The audacity of him and his sister to think that OP should be generous.
Should have called the cops the first time he knocked at op's door at midnight.
Sounds like he made a bed he didn't like. Oh well
This story requires a strong suspension of belief to enjoy.
Do not meet him; Do not trust him!
No and get a restraining order
OP, call the cops and get a restraining order against him. You have divorce papers and I assume that it is pretty obvious that that he had left town and had not mentioned you having his property before he left. Don't even miss with this POS. He is nothing to you anymore. If he actually does try to go further, I bet you could find so receipts and proof of the stuff you gifted him, and maybe even ask for the car back. Get the cops involved and file charges if you have to because it sounds like this is a person you what anywhere near you.
Shady... Shady... Shady! OP's ex is into some shady crap. OP should have called the police the moment he started demanding the jewelry back!
First story : Absolutely NTA OP. Your ex does not have a leg to stand on legally and you would be well advised to get a restraining order against him. It does sound as though he may have been 'working' with some very dodgy people (drugs?) and had to get away from them quickly. Now he just sounds entitled. You could make a list of all the expensive presents you got him, with any evidence you can gather, and give him a copy to show what he would need to return to you if you were able (and willing) to return his gifts to him. Don't forget his half of the wedding expenses etc., if he did not pay them at the time. Sounds like, one way or another, you have had a narrow escape from a definite no-no of a husband OP. Better luck next time.
OP is NTA. I say this simply because he didn’t ask for the gifts to be returned. Although, I think the Ex is in trouble with debt collectors. Or he’s on D.
Wow, that is some third level audacity. His affair woman's baby is not her responsibility to fund! What the actual #$@!
Why did she continue to interact with that clown.
She's a complete utter fool. She put her life at risk starting with the very first time she let him back into her life. Idiot.
Story 1: OP's ex is in some kind of addiction/drug situation. Get security cameras, flood lights, and a good protection dog. Don't answer the door anymore if you don't know who is outside and ESPECIALLY do not answer the door after dark. Stop meeting up with your ex. Stop responding to his texts or his family and friends. Stop being polite and reasonable with unreasonable, manipulative people. Show your freaking teeth and chase them away. Get a restraining order, threaten to sue for harassment. Don't just lay down for this crap.
Story 1: If the ex husband didn’t get those expensive gifts in the divorce, he has no claim to them following the divorce. He can screw off. OP needs a restraining order on the ex. He is scum.
How can he demand the gifts back when he didn’t return all she gave him too.
Honestly, I had drug dealer/loan shark as the cause given the desperation
She opened the door to her ex at midnight!!!😮😮 She's really crazy 😧😅
Why why why, just block him.
Manager needed to call police. With all the anger and not letting her leave. That is the least he could do. And then have all the people who witnessed his behavior testify. Because he was acting crazy.
Good stories, narrator is excellent.
Thank you kindly!
Wow wow
I hope OP informed all his friends that was so concerned w his disappearance act....
I'd literally let everyone, every mutual friend especially the ones that were scared searching for him, let it be known that during ur entire marriage he had an affair & has been harassing / stalking u for 💰💰💰💰💰 because him & his affair partners dream of farming didn't pan out & their expecting a child....
Let them know he'll probably hit them up for cash too....
Be careful he's desperate & scary....
I'm letting everyone know just in case anything happens to me...
Get a protective order ASAP.against him & his family....
Ngl i would've called the sister again just to curse her out
*OP should have gotten a restraining order the morning after he came to her house after midnight. He proved himself to be unstable that same night.*
I really dont understand how entitled certain people can be towards other people. OP needs to call back that SIL that she is one sorry individual.
First story NTA because once he gifted that stuff to OP it became HER'S TO DO WANT SHE WANTS TO DO WITH IT
I’d laugh in the exes face 😂 I’d say just get a damn job and save your money! You two will be fine lol Then I’d block all those crazy lunatics and get a restraining order
This is insane because how dose his family justify this asking money from the person who got cheated on then defend a gold diggers actions. They're probably thinking of the baby, but even then that's no excuse.
Also I find it very weird that their ex gave up after that. But at least he did her a favor by cheating and divorcing so early on so she didn't have to be married to a bum like that any longer.
The family are the only ones that need to help him. All of them are ridiculous and delusional.
I wonder if OP lives in a state where she can sue a cheating spouse and their AP bc she should look into that.
If she was in the same position he would help her? ROFLMBO 😂! Silly regrets being friends with her because she doesn't deserve it? 😂😂😂!
Where was sil when her brother cold blooded divorced her and ghosted everyone? Nah, they're a bunch of lying, cheating crap holes.
Oh you know he wouldn’t help. He would tell her to screw off but the moment she does it?! That’s unacceptable 😂
Sounds like the ex is on drugs and needs money to buy drugs. She needs to arrange a no contact order. And file a police report to start a paper trail.
i don't care a gift is a gift,if you are going to want it back don't give it hense it is a gift..... now after him telling me this i would have unblocked his sister ,called her back and asked after finding all this out, why should i help him why don't you help him out.
If the husband didn't ask for the jewelry from the court when they divorced, he does not have a legal leg to stand on now. That was her jewelry to do with whatever she wanted.
Why on Earth are you interested in knowing to what and why he did, what he did, and why waste your time, money, and energy in trying to find or dig the dirt what he was doing. This OP needs to learn to be straight and not beat around the bush.
If the same scenario had happened to me or most of them reading this comment, I am sure you would kicked his butt out the first time he came back to her house in the middle of the night. I would have told him on the face, if he wanted his gifts back, then he will have to meet my lawyer and not to contact directly.
Tell him todrop dead & get tf out then call the police. Your divorced! Who tf does he think he is?
No; NTA OP because he divorced you and did not ask for gifts back!
Why OP keep entertaining her ex-husband in her space?
The jewel belonged to the wife, gift is a gift.
Pretty sure his parents knew about it. What happened to family helps family. Where are the parents and the sister bailing him and the pregnant girlfriend out?
*I did listen to another story like this, although that one was more heart breaking than malicious. The OPs husband suddenly asked for a divorce out of the blue weeks after their anniversary, it got stranger when he wanted her to take everything in the divorce they had accumulated over the years together. After the divorce he disappeared from her life until over a year later she got a letter from his mother. It stated that he found out he had terminal cancer & he didn't want her to watch him wasting away, or more likely she would try & get him medical care that would burn through their finances & had cut ties with everyone including his family. His lawyer delivered the letter to his mother after his passing explaining everything, OP did say he knew her too well as she would have given up everything to keep him around as long as possible.*
"Gave him all my condolences "😂
listening to this doormat made me very furious. i just wanted to yell out "just call the police *itch" at the top of my lungs.
My guess is gambling, he should be able to afford his drugs.
Ohhh wait. In some states where cheating is bad during a divorce can be sued for up to like 3 years if you find out in thosev3 years that the divorce was caused because of the cheating. Now that he confessed to cheating for half the marriage and that's why he divorced her she can sue HIM. Imagine suing him and getting the car and half the farm plus the money for the watches lol.plus you can sue the lover who cheated with the spouse so if she played her cards right she could pretty much own that farm.
I don’t care what ex husband told OP, This guy owes money to a loan shark DEFINITELY. He’s running from guys with middle name “The”: Tony the Mace, Jonny The Mole etc. Otherwise he wouldn’t be banging on OPs door at fucking midnight
she needs to make sure she locks is SSN and locks her cards.
I don't believe the story is done and that there will be another update or 2
OK I hate victim blaming but there were three times where OP was an idiot. First time letting him into her home after Midnight. If she had refused and called the cops on him right then it probably would have ended right there. Then meeting him in his hotel room when knew how irrational he is? Finally letting him into her home AGAIN??? I would guess it probably wouldn’t end there as he hasn’t yet had any consequences for his actions. I am honestly surprised she wasn’t harmed in someway.
OP's ex is still the bigger AH
@@robertx8020 Oh absolutely. It’s just that OP put herself in danger each time. The first time should have been a red flag. What rational person bangs on anyone’s door at midnight to demand things?
@@robertx8020Op is still being an idiot though.
NO! He is acting so outrageous that he could kodnap you and hold you until you get the money to him. Please tell me you went with someone else. Just as a witness.
OP should have taken this and made a police report for continued harassment. Can go to her lawyers to get some kind of restraining order. She should quite literally stop letting people who have wronged her/screwed her over, into her house or onto property and just call the cops for trespassing.
Heck, if you were willing to be petty you might as well blast the whole thing on the internet since clearly they are shameless enough to continue harassing OP even though they were the ones in the wrong here.
Gotta love all the 'smart' comments regarding a restraining order.
Newsflash: the only situation in which such is even possible is cases of domestic violence.
Why is this a post? I hope she ain't going to add something dumb like aita.
That would be dumb to ask knowing that they're your own gifts that he gave you why would you assume that you have to give back a gift even a court would tell you it is a gift so this is just a stupid post.
Why is this woman even in contact with this family that's why I don't understand you're so desperate to continue to stay in touch with these people that you're going to sit here and allow this man to walk in your house with his little funky attitude then yell at you and a cafe and get y'all put out then put his family on you and you still talking to this man and his family you got to be really mental to be dealing with this person after all that he put you through.
So why hasnt op said she give him the money if he give her stuff back as well.
OP is slow
I really thought he owed money to unsavory characters
Please don't stay on a subject. You tend to circle around a subject.
I would have said are you sure you want to do this? Because we do that i am will take back my car i gifted and the watches. You never asked for them back in the divorce. If you dont leave right now, i will call the police!
Too long and tedious
Not my problem! You are not my problem anymore! You divorced me. So you stupidly quit your job and left. So i owe you nothing but a restraining order.
Nope. Its all your stuff to do as you wish. You didnt ask about the watches and his car. I would have contacted my lawyer. I wont speak to you without him since you are being so outrageous.
This is a stupid story.