how to be a high value man
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1) Aesthetics
2) Fitness
3) Grooming
4) Skincare
5) Style
6) Ambitions
7) Personality
8) Utility ( Being a useful, resourceful person)
9) Hobbies
10) Sports
Sports and hobbies same point, for anyone just reading comments
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@@cbazxy2697not always because almost all sports can be a hobby but not every Hobby can be sport
@@cbazxy2697 you do know there’s hobbies outside of sports right?
8) Utility ?
One thing to become valuable man is to have self respect and never talk bad about yourself.
That is the only thing that seems out reach to me.
I agree but that is not always the rule imo. A confident man in the right setting can joke about his weak spots (height, facial feature, etc) in a playful manner with people or with a girl and come off as having a good sense of humor and not so uptight. Its the execution that needs to be mastered as joking about yourself in the wrong contex, can backfire
if you made a mistake, than you can be bad at yourself. if you dont, than you are ego maniac.
And to achieve that make the things bad about you Lower
Vulnerability is a service to humanity
Rule number one:
Talk to yourself and set a clear blueprint of what type of man you want to be. How you want to carry yourself, how you want to treat people and be treated, how you want to be perceived, what you can tolerate and what not. Then, based on that, write out some guidelines/rules for yourself and act by those rules.
That will enable you to stay true to yourself and be authentic. And that authenticity will provide you with the most stable type of confidence - internal confidence. And no amount of money or flashy items can give you confidence like that.
I swear to God people who read this will hardly ever find this type of material again, so take notes already!
This channel is slowly turning into one of my favorite channels. Keep up the good work.
This is clean and straight to the point
I've been thinking that something's missing from all the self-improvement advice I see on the internet and that's utility! Thanks for that
Rule number one:
Create boundaries and do not cross em.
After physical bullying of 3 vs 1 in school I became very angry, for the next 3 years of my life I kept fighting against myself in my head that I was
eating shit during every meal. While eating tomato or chilli sauce I fought against myself in my head that I was eating menstrual period blood.
During EVERY single second of those 3 years I also kept fighting against myself in my head that the bullies were sodomizing me and my family members.
Even going to other schools didn't resolve this mental torture because the anger was still there.
As a result I severely couldn't concentrate during exams and classes.
I am still having self esteem issues 14 years on from the incident. I went to army and didn't do some admin work due to fighting myself in my head
and army people thought I was lazy and thus bullied me as well. This is why I have zero sympathies and zero tolerance for bullies. I am 33 years old
and don't even have a first girlfriend, partly sabotaged due to bullying, masturbating to myself everyday like a loser.
I have also missed out on $400,000++ of opportunity cost in earnings from jobs. I went to teach the bullies a lesson by cyberbullying/harassing them online,
the bullies were so "strong" until they went to call the police LOL, but like I mentioned above, I have zero regrets and I don't see it as something wrong
because I went to the police and they said they could do nothing about it, plus because I was teaching them a lesson :)
When I finally cried after 3 years due to constantly fighting against myself in my head it was an outbreak of tears across my whole face, it was so bad
until my mucus reached my forehead. Please spread on this comment so that people can know how serious the aftermath of bullying is and have lesser cases
of bullying in the future.
I've got a few channels I watch for advice and in order to better myself as a man, and this is certainly and will always be one of those channels I'd watch whenever a new video is released
2023 is our year boys let's get it!!!
im starting to get into self improvement, im trying to workout more and take care of myself more, i started watching people like hamza and you more often and im just trying to improve on myself in general
Your channel is rapidly growing so that hour a day tip is really working
I think there’s plenty of bad or messed up advice for men nowadays. But this type of videos are really good and motivating
Don't be afraid to make mistakes you'll be super hot and cool eventually after all that working out and business doing and everyone will love you.
thanks,clear and concise advice
maybe a video on recommended shoes for lifestyle, formal attires, gym training, running, etc...?
I love your channel because it encapsulates being masculine in a healthy way instead of being typically toxic and aggressive. Thank you for these tips, man, it helps a lot :)
Masculinity doesnt just mean high value men
YUP.
love the vid man
onpointfresh is so goated I swear
amazing video, love the inspiring content
Lets be real here also, be yourself. Don't live a life trying to impress people you don't give a shit about, and won't ever give a shit about you. Be the best version of yourself, but don't change the things that make you a unique human. Look for inner growth, give love, and love will follow. Screw the term high value male.
Exactly! If you are yourself, those people who appreciate your personality and who you are overall will then be around you and that’s the real value
Great list. May I also suggest doing your shadow work. Find out what that is, how it applies to you, and do the inner work. Learn to engage and manage your emotions.
True. Most men fail at emotional intelligence and mistake boundaries for emotional disassociation and low emotional intelligence. Basically, men are victims of society as well (boys don't cry etc)
I would suggest psychotherapy because there is always plenty to work on when it comes to healing traumas. And accepting and acknowledging that we have traumas even though we are men is not weakness as some would think but having balls.
Just be yourself and do everything as if it's the last
God bless everyone!
being able to drive, cook and take care of yourself and others are the most important ones.
Please do upload weekly videos
Common OnPointFresh W as always
great vid
Need, THAT!
Thank you
i have an exam tmr. it's 11:55. i haven't even started. ugh
Im not a man but I save this because I think it's universal for everyone.
Thank u
word of da day ... “paramount”
Nothing matters bro if you have money
make a video on head shape for haircuts
Discipline is ability to dominate urself.
Can you make a video on grooming body hair
Hey I love your content where do you get your stock footage?
I FEEL VALUED
lol i have almost everything checked but still single as fuck because of my personality
My personal take always:
1. Mentioning "Good diet" then showing bread and pasta - nope for regular meal. As a weekend treat, yes.
2. Cool content but shallow. It's just a better version of a copy-paste research during high school or college. Would be better if you put on more of your personality and personal experience like what you mentioned at the "Sports" section.
3. Monotonous voice. Maybe add some giggle or laugh or mannerisms to make it sound engaging.
I have been watching your videos that is why I felt the need to suggest something. All the best!
2:45 bruh who wear glasses like that😂
= to be the man created by pop culture. I strive to develop myself in those directions you’ve listed. However, I’m not attaching them such a high priority. These are the things other people want you to do. It is mostly about conformity. I put more value on intellectuality, for example. Overall, I don’t like the idea that if you do not possess features you’ve named you have a low value.
i really like the videos, but you guys could improve the commentary alot
My problem is that i dont know, what path i will go and what hobbies should i start
That's nice
So glad I’m already tall, attractive, and built. Just gotta work on mental
If you enjoy topics about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
All the best to you!
If I'm getting into martial arts like Muay Thai, should I be concerned about head damage/brain damage? I don't plan on fighting beyond friendly spars
As long as you not getting hit too hard you would be alright, try to not do hard spars
Do bjj instead then
If it’s just a hobby, don’t worry, you shouldn’t be doing any hard sparring. You can also leave at anytime if you don’t agree with what your coach is putting you up to.
spar with a partner who understands this. A lot of people go full force and end up injuring their sparring partner.
@Akhil there will always be the risk but work on your defence and head movement
MONEYYYYY that is the most important and hardest to achieve
Important but not hard if you learn how it work
@@tanveerahd can you point me to the direction of how it works
@@rohang8246 "learn"
A real high value man is determined by his correct use of masculinity his character, his behaviour and his moral code.
Become more high value.
The art to Attracting women by james Francis it is essential reading for any man
Damn! I have a little work to do, for sure. However, as an older guy - and I know similar rules apply - age might have got a mention here?!?! Although, I suppose it’s an issue similar to height and looks and is about making the most of you?
Be Kind man, The rest will be all good.
The proper title for this video is (How to look like high value man)
Philippians 2:3-5
King James Version
3 Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.
4 Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.
5 Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:
2:15 the actor got caught lacking
Firearms are a great martial art.
2:07 I’m not doing that I have long hair
Advice for you to turn on the translation feature in Arabic so that everyone can benefit from your videos
Step:1 - have so much money that tax deduction doesn't affect you
Step 2: Know something about money. The more rich you are, the more you can deduct. We’re talking about shaving 5 figures off 6. Or even shaving 7 figures off 7. Being rich isn’t about being DGAF, it’s about giving big f***s about big f***ing s***.
Remember kings, high value women only will find high value men
Yup
On the topic of hobbies, I think a well rounded person should have different types of hobbies:
Physical
Creative
Intellectual(ly stimulating)
Social
Now obviously some hobbies would fall in more than one category; playing a sport could be physical and social, and writing could be both a creative exercise as well as an intellectually stimulating one.
A well rounded person should how many ever hobbies he wants/he can have + financially support
And most importantly have interest in
You don't need to tick of any boxes like you mentioned
I'm 22 years 8 months, my height is 5 feet 2.5 inches. I don't know why I always become upset and feel unmotivated. I always hesitate with my heights. I can't accept it, I don't know why but I just feel it. What should I do?
When you are out of their league
I'm 5,8 and feel sorry for myself
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While I can agree on a lot of things (fitness, grooming, etc). You are wrong about "style" to an extent. When you become too concerned about your "style" and how you are perceived by others, you have already lost. Don't give af what others think about you (eg. the way you dress). True alphas don't care what other people think of them.
True alphas look sexy in what they wear. A woman is attractive without clothing, a man is attractive with the proper clothing.
@@JM-zz3vs I suggest you understand what an "alpha" is before you comment. An alpha male is a mentality, not a "look" or outward appearance. Some of the wealthiest and most successful people I know dress extremely casual / never "dress up". Why you think billionaires like Mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, Mark Cuban where jeans and a plain ass T-shirt everyday? Bc they don't give AF. They know they're a boss and don't have to impress anyone.
Need to be tall enough
2:06 who is man
A ''high value man'' well if you're reduced to looking on youtube for tips, you know you're not a high value maaan.
There’s so much that goes into being a high value men and sadly you have to already have the core parts. Women simply aren’t worth it and doing it to find a date WILL burn you out. You have to develop these habits naturally. I suggest reading mastery by Robert Greene.
They are very worth it, and make up a high value man. If women dont like you, you arent high value. Theres no need to cope, you should accept the fact that women dont like you. This is not an insult, but a wake up call. I am not liked either, but im working on my phsyique/appearance/financial situation
Dont look at it as finding a date. You should build yourself in a way that makes you attract women. Rather then you chasing them, they should chase you, and they will if you are of high value
@@baconheadhair6938 I don’t need a women in my life 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@@baconheadhair6938 again they’re not worth it? Yea men should pursue this anyway and be the best version of yourself regardless. But women simply aren’t worth it. It’s a easy way to set up for failure
@@1178570 Wrong. Youre coping with the fact that you cant pull
@@spacecandygames7575 Youre an incel. You cant talk to women, so you cope by telling yourself that theyre useless. This isnt an insult, but the first step to imrovement is acceptance. I used to be an incel like you. Pretending i didnt need women. Once i finally accepted the fact that i was just coping, i started to rapidly imrpove
Can gym make you taller?
Can gym make you shorter?
Pls answer this cause I am interested going to the gym
No and no bro,,, but I highly recommend the gym! Make it a lifestyle
@@edwardflores9435 already did mate😏
@@edwardflores9435 it was worth it💪
Screw skincare aesthetics and all this BS - everyone can have those. It's much more about how well you are mastering your craft and how much value you bring towards the progress of society as a whole. Someone like Elon Musk does not care about most of the things you mentioned, however he's higher value than all the people on YT due to the outstanding value that he produces by running Tesla, SpaceX and so on. Have depth in terms of knowledge and analytical skills and you'll be on top.
Quite sad how society has become when videos with this kind of title appear.
Lemme guess, cold showers, lifting and hustle?
This is all surface level stuff, if you want be high value you have to have a high value moral compass
To be a High value man you should sub to this channel first
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I have to disagree, shortness will always work against you no matter how much you have achieve in your life and you have to overcome it by doing limb lengthening surgery even if it hurts. The prospect of being high value is to get rid of anything that can be used against you. Society has this way of pulling one of your shortcomings into a major thing even when you have achieve so much. Do not give society any ammo, if six feet is the goal achieve that six feet by any means necessary. Always operate on the perception that everything and everybody want to keep you down and your only solution is to make them your bitch. I know it's impossible but fight on, kings.
You need therapy mate.
@@sairen5121 I'm curious what your starting height and final height is?
@@xristo303 5 feet 7 before and 6 feet 1 now.
In the US if you are black or lgbtq you are automatically high value
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bros a little confused
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Can a short and ugly man become a high value man? Its a urban philosophical question. What does it actually mean to be a high value.other than being rich. Make a video on it next
Imagine a short guy, like under 5’5 and who’s also not so good looking. This guy decides to dedicate himself to the gym and gets ripped shredded and muscular. Imagine this same guy gets a fresh haircut/fade, gets himself a high quality wardrobe, cologne, nice shoes, maybe even grows some facial hair.. now imagine this same guy is making 100k+ a year, is well travelled, plays an instrument, speaks more than one language.. I would say this supposedly “ugly” short guy is the most high status version of himself. Problem is most people are not willing to put in the work to make that a reality
@@rebelsocietynd now imagine Vinnie Hacker walks next to him. Suddenly, he is invisible to all women in collective view.
Isss oooovah!!
@@rebelsociety Truest thing ive ever heard
@@xtdycxtfuv9353 And when will Vinnie Hacker walk by him? Has he ever walked by you? I assume not, so shut up. Stop making up scenarios that will never happen. Theres obviously always someone better, which is the exact reason you need to be competent. Appearance isnt everything. The average man is out of shape and making minimum wage. Now imagine this short guy standing next to the average man. Wonder which one of them would seem invisible to females.
@@rebelsociety thats the problem. all you can do is imagine. what about reality.
Bro can you stop with this self improvement shit, i thought this was a fashion channel
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Huge L.
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he's literally telling us to work on our physic, style and habits what's wrong with that?
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Just think you are, people will believe eventually
Low body count, self respect, having compassion, empathy, loyal, never cheating, supportive. It apply to women as well. If you have high body counts, you’re not a high value women or men. You’re delusional. High body counts means: no self respect and lowers your value.
Lot of womans don't care about how Many girls a guy slept with. They just don't care and they find it attractive because it means that guy has experience.
Many womans prefer a man with experience in bedroom.
Mans on the other hand have a different Point of view.
It's just different.
That depends. I certainly don't want a fuc boi and I know people who don't want sl*t girl. But they certainly don't want me either lol, Im sure they like each other's openness and not my reservedness.
We shouldn't think our values are universal that can determine what is high value and not. For example, to some people just being not part of the religion make your value negative to certain people and being part of other religion make you negative in others.
@@gt500dox8you nailed it perfect. Stole the words out of my mouth
@@gt500dox8not really it's better both don't sleep with others other than their loved ones
How about 0 body count?
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