Why Women Seek Validation & How To Stop It | Chai Chat
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ก.ค. 2024
- In this video, I am talking about how women struggle with finding validation all their life, especially in a society like Pakistan. This episode highlights how difficult it is to be a woman in this society and how detrimental it sometimes gets for many women but we do not need to seek validation from others. We are a complete beings and only we need validation from our own selves.
00:00 Highlights
00:33 Why do women seek validation?
15:53 Why it's important to work on your own identity before getting married?
19:07 How to set up boundaries?
22:25 Outro
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Love from India. Came across ur insta reels.. resonate so much with u. Thank u from women from India.
such an awsome video. each and every girl listen to this. JazakAllah khair for this.
Thank you so much,For such informated video.. May Allah ease ur journey towards him ❤nd mine also
Ameen sum Ameen 🤲
Thanks for the video I needed this badly
I'm so mad at myself of not setting boundaries for 13 years in marriage
Now I'm changing and going towards self development.
I hope you can talk more about this topic
Specially how to honour yourself small steps
This was really thought provoking...thank you for your efforts..great work 👍
Thank you for this video ❤
So relatable....loved the whole narrative and its linkage to other problems.
Salam....Absolutely loved this talk...Jazakallahu khairan kaseera
Superb...a single word matters..God bless you
Much needed topic.
You have done amazing job
This is excellent...
This was amazing you are doing a wonderful job
I am glad I watched this video thankyou so much 😇
So therapeutic 😊 feeling very relexed after watching this.
Excellent i love the way you explain feelings ,thank you so much for guiding us ❤
THIS IS THE BEST VLOG I HAVE EVER WATCHEDDDD ❤️
Love you api.really infomative
Omg! I was advised yahan apne behes krti ho wahan ja kr ye nhi krna wo nhi krna jo wo kahain wo krna woi manna. Apni taraf se kuch mat khna k mjhe ye a ha lgta hai mjhe wo acha lgta hai. Kuch bhi nhi khna. Nkhre nhi dikhanay and on top of everything my father also lectured very randomly not to sit in front in the car if the Mil is with you. Why was I lectured because I used to be opinionated
Maine aaj pehli Baar apki video dekhi Hai AUR Mai ab bhtttt Acha feel Kar Rahi hon apki video dekh kr AP bhtttt Acha guide Kartin Hain 😊😊😊😊 Thank you so much 😊☺️☺️
Thank u so much ap ki in bato ne soch ka nazareaya badla he mjhe apna baba se communicate karne ma issue hota he aksar so its really helpfull ma try karu gi k wo bridges banao or apne ap ko sakoon or khushi du... ❤❤
Your conversation is so helpful ye bara positive change laya hai muj main
jo bh ap btati hn everything is so damn relatable to me.. jo bh past m hua n ab future m kese apni boundaries set krni boht kuch apse seekhne ko mila .. you are a very good inspirer .. keep going .. i know ap boht aage jaengi ❤️☺️
U r my inspiration ma'am love u a lot❤️
Mjhy apki batyn sun k boht sukoon milta h u r such a nice spoken lady bohtt himmt multi h mjhy apki batyn sun k mra dill chahta h ap bolti rhyn mn sunti rhoo seriously....boht acha topic tha aj sy khud ko badlo ge inshallah isi trha ki agli video b laeynn jldiii..mn apki ek video ko 3 sy 4 bar dekhti huu sukoon miltaaa h ♥️♥️
Lots of prays 😊 lots of love for u
Wowwww !! I love the way you have explained everything. This is something we need to absorb in our mind. Thumbs up😍
Glad you liked it!
So realistic
Amazing information yar pr ye b btain k khud KO fainacaily kesy strong krin jinho nyy apna graduation complete nai Kia howa
I really like your way of thinking..plz ek video bnae k ham apni baat good way m kesy agly ko phnchae....bcz m tou badtameez hojati hun🤣
The same way my mother did this for whole life and now at the age of 50 regretting ..
May Allah bless you with more power to share your wise thoughts 💕 I am in this process of not being a people please because nobody is pleased at the end.
Hi erum i would love to message and talk to you!..you give very sensible advice!..I have a dilemma..its just that im married with one child in a joint family!…so the type of person i am is an extreme people pleaser and very quiet person and into ert badically and have been most of my life!..i got married very young at the age of 19 and now am 30 so its been a while i have been living with my inlaws whoch is my mother and father in law and my brother in law and his wife and 2 kids..i just feel like because of my personality which is me being extremely quiet and basically having no opinion about anything and quietly listening to everyones bullshit throughout the yrs i have bottled up has no erupted and now i dnt know how to change everything!..inlaws just feel they can say nything to me cos i quitly listen and do as they say whereas the other daughter in law is very outspoken so noone dares to say nything to her…pls help me how can i slowly change myself plz help!!..im literally getting depressed over the fact that why do i have to be so quite 😢😢😢😢😢plz help and reply
Agar ap apna ap ko value dy raha ho shadi ka bad phir bhe sab ya chahay ka ap adjust karo char cheze ma to kya kara insan or ap ke nature bhe ase ho ka zabardasti kiya hoya kam bhe ni kar pa raha ho? What do you think?.. what the person should do?
So realistic. but sometime you suffer because your mother seek validation from other .what your suggestions for such children?
Yes exactly
Children suffer. When relatives take their mothers for granted they take children for granted as well.
How to deal with some so called mufte who always address that financial independence is fitnah of west and islamic culture is that urat ghr ki char diware MN rhe also some mulana their fav topic is four marriages and early marriages according to them girls should get homeschooling rather than going universties ...plz address these jahilana baten someday.
I really want a video on this topic.
I am a non muslim I studied islam and read some Qur'an and when I listen to these things about girls I don't think it's islam. I think in islam there is segregation of genders but I don't really think that islam restrict women from financial independence. 😮
I really want a video on this. I like islam but when I hear these things that all should marry 4 women I don't think polygamy is for everyone. There are conditions for it. Some men have the capability to do that. And they will be rewarded for it. If they do it properly.
You know 4 marriages is not for everyone. A man should be prepared in all aspects to support 4 women and specially emotionally and spiritually. These Maulana should not encourage every man to take up 4 wives. Rather they should give guidance on taking 4 marriages. And women should be provided guidance and support. Then only the marriage will flourish. Don't focus on marrying 4 women. Rather prepare yourself for fair treatment of spouses