You said “no” naturally as a child. Then you went through 20 years of psychological abuse called “school” where you were conditioned to obey an authority figure and get punished for saying “no”. Now you have to buy a book to undo the psychological damage and get back to how you were at 2 years old.
Depends. I've gone through school and I have said no a lot. I actually had issues with saying yes because I was always against authority figures. It wasn't until I started saying yes that I started making more money. At the same time, I wasn't use to this new habit at all. This isn't making me unlearn a skill but rather how to utilize a skill that I already had much better than before.
👉 *7 things to master before this year ends:* ✅ *1. Don’t chase anyone* ✅ *2. Don’t beg anyone to stay* ✅ *3. Know your worth* ✅ *4. Save space for people who matter* ✅ *5. Accept what cannot be changed* ✅ *6. Leave what isn’t for you* ✅ *7. Love yourself*
The first comment. I want to use this opportunity to thank the Productivity Game for the amazing content you put out, it has been so helpful. Fan for Life👌
In my early days at college, I used to say yes to everyone and everything, just because I thought I'd have been seen as selfish or lying If I said no. This led to a lot of failed projects of others and mine. After being aware of this, I started saying no to nearly everything. Sure I lost some deal-like friendships on the way, but the freedom I earned was well worth it.
This is a sign that you're right where you need to be. Stretch the corners of your mouth upwards. Breathe in this new knowledge. May all your worries wash away and may you find pockets of peace throughout your day! 💗
All through out the years been saying yes to please others despite how miserable I felt those time and how discontent I felt and felt burnt out all the time.. It's amazing to see some people shows support and saying no doesn't have to be huge deal in our day to day life and social circle.
I have said NO to all other channel..Cos I know that value you provided to all your subscriber thanks for putting your great efforts.. god bless you brother and keep up the good work..
Why it's hard - upbringing Saying Yes = Saying NO to everything else. Strength to say NO 1) It increases Generosity - you may feel bitter towards others - say YES to person well being 2) Saying NO for right reason - people will value your time 3) No = yes to what matters How to say - 1) Categorial NO 2) only Sunday 3) Committed to something else 4) Counter offer
Could you please make a video explaining how you can read so many books. Do you have a special technique or help. This would be very helpful to me and others!
How cool would it be if you could say no without coming up with an excuse like referencing a commitment or proposing a counteroffer? Even I have been preconditioned by society to not say no without at least offering an explanation. And there are some people who are shocked when my explanation for not helping them involves some leisure activity that I have planned. Moral of the story is, if they get angry than maybe you shouldn't surround yourself with such people.
Thank you! Really need this today as I sprint to a very important presentation on Thursday. I like the concept of categorical no, but it makes me feel I’m close-minded… is there a way to phrase it, say, with deeper reason behind the “rule”?
But saying "yes" opens doors.. and allows divine intervention to more clearly obstruct or rather, put you back in alignment, more directly, into fates trajectory.
This is easily the worst book I've known. It violates the first principle of how to influence people (Robert Cialdini), reciprocity, in the worst possible way. People by and large don't have a tendency to reach out for help. So when they do, they really need it. Saying No to them is the a virtual guarantee of damaging those relationships. Reaching out and helping people before they ask is key to influencing. When someone asks for help, your help will pay back big time. This book builds on very flawed premises. Saying yes does not mean you lend someone $100 when you only have $110 in your bank. The book that should have been written is "How To Say Yes Without Damaging Your Priorities". Do not do what this book promotes. Nurture your habit of saying Yes. You will regret saying Yes once in a while, but it's a great way of living and influencing people.
I disagree with this sentiment. The book is a bit of fluff, but it teaches strategy for successful methods of saying no, but never directly tells you when to say no. Anyone who spots a gullible fool will certainly ask them for rides, house sitting, help moving, and any other thing they can take advantage of, but its up to the reader to identify when no is the best option.
You said “no” naturally as a child. Then you went through 20 years of psychological abuse called “school” where you were conditioned to obey an authority figure and get punished for saying “no”. Now you have to buy a book to undo the psychological damage and get back to how you were at 2 years old.
Very sad but true. On the bright side, now we are aware that we have choice :)
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Depends. I've gone through school and I have said no a lot. I actually had issues with saying yes because I was always against authority figures. It wasn't until I started saying yes that I started making more money. At the same time, I wasn't use to this new habit at all. This isn't making me unlearn a skill but rather how to utilize a skill that I already had much better than before.
It is an underrated skill that really can save you a ton of time - and that really is the most valuable resource
👉 *7 things to master before this year ends:*
✅ *1. Don’t chase anyone*
✅ *2. Don’t beg anyone to stay*
✅ *3. Know your worth*
✅ *4. Save space for people who matter*
✅ *5. Accept what cannot be changed*
✅ *6. Leave what isn’t for you*
✅ *7. Love yourself*
Thanks for this. 👍
My favourite channel ❤
Yes to ‘NO’!
You are a true gem of TH-cam!
💎 💎 💎
The first comment.
I want to use this opportunity to thank the Productivity Game for the amazing content you put out, it has been so helpful. Fan for Life👌
In my early days at college, I used to say yes to everyone and everything, just because I thought I'd have been seen as selfish or lying If I said no. This led to a lot of failed projects of others and mine. After being aware of this, I started saying no to nearly everything. Sure I lost some deal-like friendships on the way, but the freedom I earned was well worth it.
"Start Tomorrow?" I stopped the video within 2 min and corrected that problem. My time is valuable. Thank you!
This is a sign that you're right where you need to be.
Stretch the corners of your mouth upwards. Breathe in this new knowledge. May all your worries wash away and may you find pockets of peace throughout your day! 💗
All through out the years been saying yes to please others despite how miserable I felt those time and how discontent I felt and felt burnt out all the time.. It's amazing to see some people shows support and saying no doesn't have to be huge deal in our day to day life and social circle.
This channel is sinfully underrated ❤️
You deserve more recognition mate
I really love this channel and people coming on this channel.
I was going to subscribe/check out your books but after watching this I agree: “just say no” Nothing personal-too many distractions already.
Amazing start into the week with this one ☝️🙂
Great book and fantastic summary.
Many thanks!
This is a really great presentation. Thanks a lot.
I have said NO to all other channel..Cos I know that value you provided to all your subscriber thanks for putting your great efforts.. god bless you brother and keep up the good work..
These guy content is pure gold ❤❤❤😊😊
i need to read the whole book! lol great summary!!!! as always!!!
This channel is just so great that gives me lessons without reading thanks😊
Thanks for the video man!
Your channel has immensely helped me.
Thank you!! ❤️
I've lost thousands of my precious hours saying 'yes' for silly things.
Same here. But no more.
Why it's hard - upbringing
Saying Yes = Saying NO to everything else.
Strength to say NO
1) It increases Generosity
- you may feel bitter towards others
- say YES to person well being
2) Saying NO for right reason
- people will value your time
3) No = yes to what matters
How to say -
1) Categorial NO
2) only Sunday
3) Committed to something else
4) Counter offer
I hadn’t heard of this book before, thanks for sharing mate, keep up the great work! ☺️
*Some of us think holding on makes us stronger, but sometimes it is letting go that makes us stronger.*
I believe in you, have an amazing day... 🖤🙏
Could you please make a video explaining how you can read so many books. Do you have a special technique or help. This would be very helpful to me and others!
How cool would it be if you could say no without coming up with an excuse like referencing a commitment or proposing a counteroffer? Even I have been preconditioned by society to not say no without at least offering an explanation. And there are some people who are shocked when my explanation for not helping them involves some leisure activity that I have planned. Moral of the story is, if they get angry than maybe you shouldn't surround yourself with such people.
What if we say No to a good opportunity.
This book is so necessary.
Thanks for the summary. I wonder how great this book would sell in Japan... :)
This one is hard for me to watch which means I really need to watch it a few to ten times at lest
Thank you for posting
This is so useful and necessary!
Reflectively realized.
Thank you!❤️
Can you do THE POWER OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND by Joseph Murfy
Hidden jewel 💎 of TH-cam!!!!
Sugestion here!👋😊 please Create a summary of the book boundaries by dr.henry&john townsend
Thank you! Really need this today as I sprint to a very important presentation on Thursday. I like the concept of categorical no, but it makes me feel I’m close-minded… is there a way to phrase it, say, with deeper reason behind the “rule”?
Thanks brother, i need book for leadership
what software do you use for animations?
Just say No, simple
But saying "yes" opens doors.. and allows divine intervention to more clearly obstruct or rather, put you back in alignment, more directly, into fates trajectory.
I really needed this
Awesome
Can you add your channel to Rumble?
Can you tax-free wealth by Robert Kiyosaki tax advisor and more books on real estate? Thank you in advance.
I’ll experiment 🧪 saying NO more often to my wife 👩🏻🦰. What’s the worst that can happen 🤔.
No.
There. It's easy. 😁
When u say no to the outside u say yes to the inside
This is easily the worst book I've known. It violates the first principle of how to influence people (Robert Cialdini), reciprocity, in the worst possible way. People by and large don't have a tendency to reach out for help. So when they do, they really need it. Saying No to them is the a virtual guarantee of damaging those relationships. Reaching out and helping people before they ask is key to influencing. When someone asks for help, your help will pay back big time. This book builds on very flawed premises. Saying yes does not mean you lend someone $100 when you only have $110 in your bank. The book that should have been written is "How To Say Yes Without Damaging Your Priorities". Do not do what this book promotes. Nurture your habit of saying Yes. You will regret saying Yes once in a while, but it's a great way of living and influencing people.
I disagree with this sentiment. The book is a bit of fluff, but it teaches strategy for successful methods of saying no, but never directly tells you when to say no. Anyone who spots a gullible fool will certainly ask them for rides, house sitting, help moving, and any other thing they can take advantage of, but its up to the reader to identify when no is the best option.
I'm still gonna say no though
Saying no to some things means saying yes to other things!
*"When something is important enough for you, you do it even if the odds are against you."*
-_Elon Musk_
Sounds a little bit like a "either/or" way of thinking.
innovativee should hear it ❤😘👎🏻👅🍑🛌