Wynonna Judd on Recovering From Perfectionism | Dinner Conversations
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- Country music legend Wynonna Judd (www.wynonna.com) opens up about her lifelong struggle with and recovery from perfectionism, while her husband and bandmate Cactus Moser keeps things light and laughing with his distinctive brand of witty storytelling. Don't miss a single episode of Dinner Conversations-subscribe below! #DinnerConversations #MarkLowry #AndrewGreer #Wynonna
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"What It Takes"
Performed by Wynonna Judd and Cactus Moser
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My husband took his own life April 3rd,2022. He shot himself. I feel a kinship to the Judds. I feel their pain and I am broken. I have no idea how to heal. Watching their videos and hearing them talk about depression is helping me so much. God bless.
This conversation means a lot more now. So much respect for Wynonna
I hope she can truly drop the baggage and take her place among the strongest female entertainment survivors. I wish she could see herself as the rest of us see her. She's not broken, damaged or bruised. She's a fully-realized survivor put on this planet to lead by example and strength. I know she still has some work to do but she is raw power! Take it. Own it. Share it!
At 18 I was in High School, my own dear Mother had been diagnosed with Colon Cancer. I was in school 56 days, the rest of the time I took Mom to Chemo and radiation and other Dr. appointments. Every life rolls out before you in different ways. Through out the physical illness, the medicine contradictions, the organ failure, watching her no longer remember things, people, and me. I had a little over 5 years, none of it rolled out instantly, it proceeded at the pace of the Cancer and how and when it took a new path. I was not ready at 18, I was not ready at 25 when she went home to God at 11 days pasted her 66 birthday. I took the best care of her that I could, I had siblings who helped and lived through it but were not living it 24/7; I have never regretted being there for her. And just an aside I did graduate and she was there for me, with me, top third of my class. I am still standing, I walked on and it still affects my life.
May God bless you Judy! I pray that He will fill you with His peace constantly!
God bless you Judy!
You are an angel Judy🙏🏻😇 May your life be filled with blessings ❤️
Your words deeply touched me.
What a beautiful, powerful, vulnerable, strong, soft, straight shooter Ms. Wy is! You folks who object to her truth telling, her candor, her rawness, her realness, her pain, her amazing personal growth, her TRIUMPH over ancestral demons, stand ye back and get the f outta the way! A new chapter, a loving relationship, a new direction in her music--CELEBRATE her, be happy for her, uplift REAL!
Love your post 🙌🏼👏🏼 Wy is spectacular in so many ways. Yes, indeed, Brené Brown is a Godsend.
I look so forward to the day when there will be no more sad goodbyes, but only happy hellos.
🌼💛🌼💛🌼💛🌼💛🌼
Love you Wy and Ash, and Larry ! Praying for all.
Amen. K u r so right!
I love how real and humble Wynonna is. I am praying for her and am so sorry for her loss.
I feel her brokenness in her spirit. My prayer is that total healing comes to her heart and life. She is such a real and loving person. She deserves wholeness!
Amén times a million, now!!!
Well said ☮️
you know you are right! I'm so concerned about her mentors Brene Brown and Oprah are very worldly to me.
I like what she said another woman had told her, "You're not broken; you're wounded."
Interview of the YEAR here!!! I absolutely love her! 💕 She’s been the real deal since the first time she walked on that stage, and she doesn’t make apologies. That’s ok, why should she? Live your life, Wy!! I’m so glad that she’s found her happy with Cactus!!🌵
Soooooooo True!
I've loved Wynonna since she debuted when she was 18. What a talented, empathic human!
I can't even right now 🙏😥 . Wy is the queen of county music and, with everything she is dealing with right now...she and Ashley need our prayers and love more than ever. So thankful she has her adoring husband to help her through all this. After watching the Judds docuseries, my heart just breaks more. I have quite a bit in common with both Naomi and Wy. Rest in peace Naomi and let's cover Wy and Ashley in prayer 💜❤️💜
I absolutely love Wynonna and Cactus together. Their energy is unmatched. ❤️🎼
They are the cutest couple! I love Wynonna's realness, her heart, and amazing vocal ability!
i love Wynonna's gentle speaking voice. Her story is quite something.
What a down to earth and raw interview, these guys are great and how lovely Wynonna is. I am so happy for her she found peace and happiness.
LOVED THIS INTERVIEW! I've always said if you want to get to the heart of a conversation, come to the dinner table!
That voice. One of the most beautiful voices on the planet.
Why, you have grown so much. Thank God you have Mr. Moser in your life... and I thank God because he was truly a gift to you.... as I am sure you are to him.So wonderful to see you are a mature , real, feet in the floor adult.
Your version of “I can only imagine” is so wonderful. It is truly anointed. You were meant to to sing that song!! Love you, appreciate your talent, and am so happy to see you happy! Hang tough, Lady!!🥰
Wynonna is one of those people who no matter what she does, good, bad, she will ALWAYS hold a place in HerSTORY because she actually has a talent that MOVES YOU. She is a rarity in today's world of fake. She is one of the last few authentic talents we have.
Such a great voice! She seems like she has made peace with herself and is enjoying her life.
I've always loved Wynonna's realness, her voice no doubt is what introduced us all to her. But her growth, change and finding herself and the Lord have been the greatest thing I love about her. Being as transparent as she can be. I remember when God and other people were telling me to take down my walls and just trust God, I had no idea what they were talking about or even how to do that. But slowly He's shown me who I am in Him. That's all that matters
I love Wynonna! Let's keep loving the Lord girl! Let's seek to please Him and we'll be just fine! 🙏⬆️ for you and yours 💔
23:47 “What kind of noise is that sending to the heavens?” I was jolted. I played it over and over. That’s an excellent word that I needed. Thank you!
agreed it shook me
I absolutely love how real Wynonna is and have loved the Judds since I was a little girl! I truly felt the lose of Naomi and will forever remember these amazing women!
Wynonna is such a beautiful soul she's stunningly beautiful outside and in
I love that the Judds are real, nothing fake about them, I absolutely ♥️them! Wynonna you are so right! I’m very friendly & happy. Shocking people look at me like I’m crazy 😜 it don’t stop me🤗😀♥️♥️♥️Sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you all 🌹
Gosh Wynonna is good,I can’t get enough of her singing! Cactus is good for her!❤️🙏🎼👏🙏🎼
I thoroughly enjoyed this interview! That woman is so talented! If I could sing like her I would never shut up!❤️
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I have always loved this woman, I have purchased every single album, sang every song, loved every time her sound changed. I had to take a step back when you all were talking about being 26/27 and the struggles, I just recently turned 40 (30/10), and if it wasnt for Wynonna, I probably wouldn't be here today. When I was 26 I was in a dark place, I had been working non stop since I was 15, doing work that I hated, just to make everyone else happy. Long story short, as I was contemplating ending it all my playlist I was listening to started playing live with jesus, and I cried, I sang, and I cried some more. Now I am happy, i am working at a place i love, and 1 day I hope to meet wy, just to thank her whether she wants to receive the thanks or not lol. I had tickets for may 1st but unfortunately the concert was canceled. New subscriber!
Winonna’s voice has catapulted over the years to stratospheric new heights. She’s such an inspiration.
She is so underrated as a vocalist. Maybe because of her family. I don't mean that in a negative way. Just that Naomi was such a bright light. Ashley the movie star. Even her private life has overshadowed her talent. For me, she is in the same league as her "sheroes" 💜
So happy Wy has found her joy! We have all watched her be amazing , but so insecure and broken for so long.
Because of her mother and her moms mental illness. And how she was raised.
That's a big wall- I'd rather be right than be loved- wow I recognize that wall all too well. Praise the Lord He can tear that wall down!
2022..... I would love for Wynonna to write another book, from where the other book ended. A lot of things have happened since then. She is an amazing human being and I would love to see and hear her in person. 🎶
Wynonna is the queen
This was actually a really in-depth interview. I'm a big fan of Wy's but heard a lot of things for the first time.
She has such an honest serenity about her.
In Steel Magnolias, Dolly Pardon said "The best emotion is laughter through tears", and that is what I did. I love you Wynonna and you are more beautiful now than ever. This blessed me soooo much and for you to say that you lived where you took everything personal is exactly what I have done and I literally removed myself from almost everyone and stepped back to reassess who I am. It is a lot of work to lay down the baggage and sift through it all and toss the garbage and keep the gems. Cactus, you are a true gift from God to Wy as my husband is to me. He softens me and loves me through the ugly times as well and the good times. This was a fantastic interview. Thank you. :0)
I love Wynonna! I saw her in concert in September 2019 and it was a dream come true. She is one special lady! Cactus let me come up on stage to give Wynonna a gift. Special guy and he must have known how bad I wanted to meet her. I got a hug and all :) BEST DAY EVER!
I was just going to check this out for a few minutes; ten minutes in and I have to see it through to the end.
Wynonna, I so identify from where you are coming from. Omg, I can’t believe it. Share the same feelings, I’ve been a perfectionist, don’t accept compliments, I too see them as projections (this is unbelievable). When you mentioned that ppl are not normal, I could not agree with you more. I understand that this video was created years ago and perhaps you changed; as a result of your husband walking with you on your journey. I agree, Cactus is a real blessing in your life. May God Bless your family. ❤️
Greatest female voice country music has ever had or ever will have. Absolutely love Wynonna. I would love to hear her and Chris Stapleton do a song together. I think it would be amazing.
Yes!
Chris is the OTHER amazing voice!! Have you ever looked him up in pictures when he was younger?! I did that, several months back, out of curiosity, and I was stunned! Without all the hair on his face and short hair, he has such a baby face! He's adorable, but you'd never think he would have that sound!! ❤️
@@emiliadavis8247 I have seen pics of him when he was younger. He does have a baby face. I think him and Wy would put on one hell of a concert together.
@@americangal9292 We need to get that suggestion to them, somehow!! I'd be on the front row!!
@@emiliadavis8247 you and me both!
What an inspiring and talented Woman ...great team too ..with her husband
I saw her in concert twice in my life and I swear that she’s better live and in person. I would die if I ever had the chance to meet her
Love her, I cried when I heard her mother had died always a fan I pray for her. 💓
I cried to.
My experience has simply been accumulating enough failures, getting back up & realizing that is not something I want to do again, then I ask God to help me learn the lesson & His guidance toward being whatever it is He has created me to be & do. Experience is a huge teacher & as we age we continue to acquire more wisdom about the life we have lived & the things we choose to next, especially if we ask God to lead us wherever He wants us to be to do whatever He wants us to. I abandoned myself to God as I understood Him at the time, & each day my understanding grows & I am more available to follow His Will for my life.
What a beautiful couple. I am so happy they found each other. They are a perfect fit. God bless them.
That was the best interview I have ever seen. So moving, so powerful, and so loving. God bless you Wynonna. ❤️✝️🙏
I tell ya! Wynonna tells it straight!
The sentence... we have so much technology today and we are the loneliest we have ever been hit home for me! Thank God for my Faith and Spiritual Sisters!
I need some of Wynonna’s strength, to go deeper inside myself! To know who I am and what is Gods purpose for me in this world!
I grew up listening to the Judd’s and still do! Lol!
Prayers for them all as they feel this great loss. 🙏🏻
This Lady has more talent in her little finger than most of us have in our body! A voice unlike any other.
I heard and felt her message, and hope it's ok to share mine with her:
"I love you, you did the best you could today, and even if you didn't accomplish all you had planned, I love you anyway."
I don't know who wrote it originally, but whoever you are...bless you. Your words set me free to be who I am.
Your Soo Down To earth Ms. Wyonna & I'm sure besides ur Amazing voice!💜💜💜 it's ur Awesome personality that makes ppl attached! Ur soo right! there are more country singers who are down to earth more than gospel n some Christian n I even notice when receiving a Grammy or such Many Country singers Thank God💜-I never understand that myself-Ms.Wyonna God's Got You, Let Him 👑 Work Thru You-When You hear 🙏Just 🙏-He will do the rest-God Bless You~
The format, flow & personality of this interview is truly an excellent conversation-simply fabulous!!! THANK YOU💜💜💜
Wow, she has come so far with her healing! What a beautiful thing. Love and happiness for her.
Wynonna, Thank you 💖 You do not know what this talk has done for the little girl inside this 41 year old 💖 Mark was right, the anointing has always been there 💖 Love, A Recovering People Pleaser 💖💖💖
I've loved Wynonna since I was a kid! She just seems so comfortable in her own skin, and such a badass without trying. Her sister on the other hand...
She has such a magnificent voice, just unreal. But her smile will light up your heart. Wonderful lady, and always has been.
@LEONIDAS Why are you watching then?
I have listened and admired this beautiful soul all of my life. She is SO REAL! she is who she is. I can see the love her and Catus have for each other. Such a beautiful thing to witness and then to hear through Their music together is so touching, and inspiring to want such an open, relaxed, GOD fearing relationship. May god continue to bless the both of you for many many years to come.
I’ve listened to a lot of podcasts interviews and get through the whole interview, but this is one of the best! Wynona is funny, witty, and charming, especially, when she’s interrupting less. Great interviewers!
Whew you got that right ...! When you get 50 and up you appreciate every minute and take nothing for granted...
I am so glad she has her husband Cactus. They’re a lovely couple.
“Be an observer”, that’s particularly to ourselves.
Be an observer to the way you react to something and, ask yourself why.
Why do I feel that way about what he said?
Why did it hurt me?
Why do I feel envy towards someone?
Why do I feel offended?
Etc
It’s a good way to know ourselves
Wow! Great interview. This really helped me with my fear on my new journey and I’m going to half to walk through this fear. I’m terrified. But with God all things are possible. Wynonna finally is being set free. She’s really finding the Lord. She is finally showing the true her. Praise the Lord. She is the healthiest mentally she has ever been and God is still transforming her. I’m so happy she found a good husband. We sure learn from each other. God Bless
Twenty-seven? I'm so fortunate that I knew when I was ten what I wanted out of life. I missed being married at 23, but did marry at 26 and became a mother shortly after I turned twenty-seven. We were on our way to having six children. Still married to the man who helped my dream come true and now have four preschool grandchildren. BTW, I have a 70 year old sister who has the name Wenonah. We call her Nona.
Wynonna you are so very humble and kind even in your most heart breaking 💔 time in your life. Thank you Naomi for the wonderful gifts you left us in your wonderful daughters Wynonna and Ashley. God Bless you all and I will always pray for you and your beautiful family. I am so very sorry for your loss. Please 🙏 keep the music and message alive. It is time. Love never dies.
Wonderful interview. I heard Don Potter speak many years ago about when he use to play guitar with Wynonna, when she would sing "I can only imagine," the anointing was strong a d people were so touched and ministered to that were not believers. I love that she has her own style and sound that is powerful yet simply Wynonna.
"Love can Build a Bridge". For it all Wynonna. Hugs.
ALWAYS loved you Wynonna! You are the MOST talented SINGER in Country Music! A Voice of a GENERATION!
Love you Wynonna because you are REAL. You speak to me....
Ohhhhhhhhhhh that gurl can lay it down!!!! Such talent!! Musically magical!! Love her so much!!!
Wynonna has such a gift! I'm so glad she's discovering who she really is as a person. The between here her and her husband was do evident. ♥️ Such a great interview!
The observation that sound waves go on for infinity is profound. Thank you, Wynonna, for this piece of wisdom from your heart.
Wynonna is so real. You will be fine but take you some time to heal. I love y’all’s music and just got familiar with it a few months ago. I been watching endless videos of the Judds. We are praying for you and your family.
Oh this was so nice to see such a happy couple. I loved "The Judds" looking forward to hearing them sing as a couple. Would have liked to hear more conversation with them.
God bless.
I love wynnona. She is one of the best singers of all time
I had the great 👍🏽 opportunity to see WY in Las Vegas...I talked others into going. They were so happy 😃 and other family members who went as they didn’t get to do choose anything else at the time. Well, her voice is so freakin’ Amazing 😉 she blew everybody’s socks OFF. It was mid blowing and she’s so genuine to her fans. Seeing her LIVE is certainly worth it. 🙇🏻♀️🔎🎤👏🏽🎶🕊💕
I can relate so much to her journey to find and liberate herself from her people pleasing, insecurities, and negative self talk. I was never a big country music fan, but I've loved Wynonna as far back as I can remember. You feel every lyric she sings because she is extremely genuine, open, and soul touching which transcends genres.
Awww, I love you Sister friend! I’ve seen you so many times, been on stage with you 2x. Cant wait to see you again since your HAVING a 3rd career! Lol! I’m living in the western part of N.Carolina now! ❤️💕❤️💕
Thank you for this. I've followed Wynonna over the years, and she is so talented. It is wonderful to see her in this phase of her life, together with Cactus, and living her best life. I had the great good fortune to see them in concert in 2019, and it was just like she described, raw and real, and fantastic. I hope they come in my neck of the woods again. Such a great show, and such a privilege to be in the audience.
Loved their duet of this old song of hers. Timeless
Thank you for having Wynonna on!!! What a hoot! I've loved her and her momma since day one! Seeing her so fulfilled with her life with Cactus makes me so happy because she has brought millions of people such joy over the course of her career and it's about time she had true happiness in her own life for a change!
Mark I was playing one of you comedy routines for my husband and happened to notice you have these awesome shows. Delightful! You and Andrew are a blessing to behold.
Loved Wynonna and Cactus. Amazing couple.. May God bless you all.. Big hugs..
I've ALWAYS Loved Wynonna❤️ I went to one of her concerts probably 15 years ago at Pechanga. My Ex and I got to go back stage and meet her. I was able to get a picture with, it meant so much to me. I been wondering how she was doing. I'm so glad I came a cross with video. May God continue to bless her and her Family ❤️❤️❤️ I Love You Wynonna ❤️❤️❤️
I really enjoyed this interview. Wynonna has always been one of my faves. ❤❤❤❤ I'm an 88 cheatham county central high graduate. I would sing Judd songs for different high school shows. I don't have red hair, but everyone called me Wynonna and some still do to this day. I always take it as a compliment.
Mark, I saw the video of you and Chonda the other night. She is our hometown celebrity . Really enjoyed this.❤
Love her. Wynona is so feisty and authentic. Love that about her. She never holds back. No filter.
My, my, my! "What it takes" had my toes curling, I loved this. Sooo refreshing, so real! What lovely couple to listen to.
Cactus and Wy are a very loving, entertaining and real people. Always been a fan of Wys. Incredible talent, beautiful woman and has matured to an amazing lady. Blessings to both of them. ❤️✌🏼😎👍🏼🙏🏼
Even before I was much of a country fan, I loved The Judds . . .such amazing voices . .Wynonna has such a gift.
She has the most beautiful voice ever. Thanks for sharing your stories Wy. "Just being an observer". Love it. God bless.
You know that’s a great point Wynonna that you’re bringing up. It’s time we stop worrying about becoming are mamas. Mamas don’t get enough praise or credit for all the hard work they do as our first trainers. Your mom I wish you coach your preacher your nurse way before y’all had a career. Hearing you say that you’re becoming your mama’s music to my ears right now girl. Because that’s the juice. Every girl on this planet needs to hear that. Because Mama don’t have it easy. And there’s no award show for mamas, except when they reach those pearly gates.❤
I'm so glad I could watch your video from the beginning. Wynonna has such a beautiful heart. Thank you so much.
Thanks for watching!
@@dinnerconversationswithmar2965 WHY DID IT JUST STOP?
🔥 “I’m gonna do just what it takes to keep this smile on my face” 🎶 I love Wy & Cactus 🌵 together & this show I just discovered!!🥰
I LOVE YOUR SPIRIT WY' AND I AM SO BLESSED TO HAVE YOU IN MY LIFE
I just love her-music,voice,personality,faith. She is so real-nothing phoney or contrived about Ms Wynonna
Same here came for Wynonna
Subscribing because y'all are great
Sincerity verses blowing smoke
💡
Know the difference
I asked God to explain something to me and He did, it took the rest of my life to understand it and make it applicable, that's the human nature part of us ❤
ABSOLUTELY one of my favorite people of all time!
My family is like that at least the elders rather “be right than loved”. That’s a profound statement when you have lived with that all of your life.
Hopefully my "echoes in waves" will be pleasant to God. Such an awesome revelation.
I Love Her, I would Love to sit n eat a meal with her. So much in common. Would never happen, but my Soul Would Love This. God Bless n Stay Well
I relate to her so much! I had a sort of arrested development, having been either mentally or physically ill most of my life, ( Polycystic ovarian syndrome that made PMS basically a week every month where I quite literally was suicidal where no psych drug they tried would work, then being diagnosed with ovarian cancer at 29) then losing my mother at a very young 30 (I mean young! 30 years old and I had to learn how to make beds and do laundry etc) Then at 33 developing an autoinflammatory disease that leaves me bedridden and writhing in pain week at a time. At 41 I feel like the oldest and youngest person in the room simultaneously. Old by what my body and spirit have been through but young in life experiences socially and emotionally. I know if it wasn't for my savior I wouldn't be here today. I don't like the word overbearing because me and my mother were truly best friends and rarely argued, but, and it has taken a long time to not be ashamed to say this, she was nurturing to a fault and bigger than life so it took her death to step out of her shadow and to understand I had abilities and had worth outside of being her baby. A hard lesson to be sure.
One of the best interviews I have ever seen. More like eavesdropping on a conversation and fun between friends. Thank you.
I agree!
Wynonna! your music and your voice was part of my life! you don't realize how you have been monumental to music and not just country.. be strong and be safe!
Wynonna is such a gift to the world. Her authentic self brings great hope to the world. Life is all about sharing our lives together! Unfortunately social media and the smart phones are robbing the world of human connections. We are more alone than ever in human history.
WE NEED ONE ANOTHER now more than ever.
God bless Wynonna and Cactus. And God bless everyone of you
Gosh...it comes so easy and natural to her,so gifted!!!