She said "I can't help who I fall in love with..." Translation: "I cheated and digged my claws in my CEO affair partner/new husband. I couldn't help it, I'm a gold digger!"
Sounded like she didn't care about either of them for quite a while. When she talked about being there for his MIS degree and then "some masters program," it was pretty obvious that was around the time she checked out of the relationship. She had no clue what he got his masters in and didn't care or she would have been more invested in the relationship. I wonder if she used to work at the energy company her new husband is the CEO of.
except the case i saw before this where a woman who was married to a guy for 2 yrs, then started accusing him of having an affair with no evidence and she got 6800 a month, over half his income...
Star Anna umm yea no that’s not how this works. Try again. Shared custody. Shared responsibility. The child goes back and forth but he carries most of the financial responsibility. He was fine at first.... but “ their child is getting older so the expenses is getting higher. He shouldn’t have to struggle to make more money... she should contribute. This matter is simple here. A mother giving birth does not exempt her from financial obligations.
@@StarAnnasDream girrrrlll...if you were to say the same thing that you just said to a judge...legit the judge wouldn't even give a damm if you wiped that child's ass as a baby, judge would still make you pay your baby's daddy your hard work money
My mother (who was divorced) told me when I was growing up to NEVER trust a woman who doesn't have custody of their children.....period. She worked very hard to be able to support me and made it clear that real mothers will do whatever is necessary to keep their children with them.
That seems really narrow minded. Just cause the mother works hard she deserves to have the kids over the father Ben if he works his ass off to support the kids as well? He shouldn’t have custody what so ever? My mom also worked her ass off to have full custody of me and now as an adult I think my father was treated unfairly.
Your mom was right, I married a woman who didn't have custody of her kids. She was the type of person that it was always all about her. On the days she had them she conveniently would come up with something she needed to do, so I was home with her kids being the parent to them. She was a horrible woman and so glad she is now an ex. Her kids, now they are adults don't have anything to do with her.
@J. H. yes, and no. Unfortunately a huge majority of woman use their children as monetary gain after a divorce, but I've seen instances where it's not the case too.
Absolutely. As a mother myself, you fight for your kids until you've exhausted every option. Fathers can have custody too, but I always look at women who don't have primary custody of their children funny.
Could be that the new husband is smarter than we think and keeps a tight grip on the wallet. She's little more than the car he drives to him. I love how she wants compensation for passing on her education . . . she might as well have set fire to that money from listening to her.
Dont be fooled, her husband capped her "income" for a reason and potential forced child support paymemts. Ceos arent up there for no reason. He knows the courts will figure out the payment based on her income.
@Robert Vandevender a prenup is a sign agreement within the two parties if the marriage, that have a limited to unlimited amount of things in case the marriage fails. Example: The husband has to pay for all legal fees and/or cost of legal advice for the wife(ex) another example: Husband is to pay a settlement to the wife for X number of years for help to the wife(ex) if children are involved. Depends what the husband wants and the wife agrees to
I think that woman needs to go get a job and stop expecting men to take care of her cause her daughter will think it's ok and end up stuck in that type of marriage and that ain't good at all women need to learn that kids see it and they will follow those foot steps..
Its indeed sad no judge needs to get involved in this. She has her life perfect, but she should help out the ex husband pay for child support. I mean he is taking care of the child yet doesn't want to help with anything. Totally wrong. Girl seems like a selfish gold digger. Guy is a CEO is making obviously bank just by hearing the car is $200k is ridiculous guys is making good money period. She could of saved herself all this time and even money just communicating with the guy look I get this much I can give you this much. Girl doesnt even care for her own kid just plain sad how people are.
@Grossmesser1 you don’t have to believe an internet individual but do believe it’s not hard to inherit a million dollars. Hard work over 30+ years at a very well paying career will afford you that.
where is fairness here? if she say her husband only gives 500 a month then her child support would be only 100 dollars and if you call that fairness then what is not fair in this world? that woman practically made sure she say the amount to the judge so that she can exactly give a particular amount which she can spare on her child, no child should get such a mom.
Some of these comments are seriously concerning. This is not a real case, these are not real parents, she is not a real judge. The parties are paid actors, Vonda is just a regular lawyer, and the premise of the hearing is only loosely based on a real-life case. The odds of a judge holding a woman accountable for child support, when they are a stay at home wife with no “reported” income, are incredibly slim. Even if an adult woman were to get an actual allowance, there is no possibility sh would willingly offer that information up to the court. Outside of her own family going against her to inform the dad, it would be very difficult for dad to prove she had any income.
At the end of each episode she covers that it is a reenactment of a real case, and an explanation of the laws used to reach the decision of the judge, so it's still a real case.
@@chrishoch8046 Really? I guess I slowly see what the problem is with the US... You want me to tell you what to believe instead of googling for 10 seconds and realize she only became judge after her youtube videos. These videos was her playing make believe judge... Yeah and of course the jokingly bad cop actor and the cut in audience with a cheap video effect... Jesus Christ....
Friend had to pay $600 a month on child support. Found out later the child was not his. She purgered herself on the court documents. She now has to pay him back $6000 a month for fraud.
That's great news to hear. Back in my day, if you signed the birth certificate, paternity tests wouldn't matter; that child, and the support payments that come along with it, were yours.
She fully misrepresented her “allowance” amount. You could see when the judge started crunching numbers that she breathed a sigh of relief knowing only part of her “allowance” is being considered in this child support arrangement. I wouldn’t doubt her “allowance” is more like $1k each week.
And that's just an "allowance" for her to use as "play money", doesn't have to buy food, utilities, rent, or any necessities, I bet her car and fuel are provided free. Just the look of her yells gold digger. Once the tits and arse sags, the new husband is going to trade her in for a newer, younger ride and she'll get what she deserves. Hope the kid is doing well, not sure about the psychic thing tho.
Men do it out of spite, you can’t take humanity out of circumstances in society im sure we all should’ve been met with severe consequences for many decisions, I’m sure punishing the father for getting her pregnant makes sense to you also
My daughters dad got $5,300 a month & he always said he couldn’t financially help me support our daughter. I supported her financially alone until our daughter was 6 years old as that’s when child support caught up to him & made him pay $20 once a month from when our daughter was 6 years old to 18 years old. I told child support they may aswell stop it as it cost me more than $20 once a month for her needs & as she got older there’s was school uniforms, excursions with school, school photos, shoes, school lunches & snacks & juice for school. After school care. I had to come up with money for all those things by myself. He always said I can’t afford it. But he always had drugs, smokes, alcohol, take away food for himself. That’s where his $5,300 a month went on his habit.
The judge should not have assumed the ,$500 allowance is taxed, since it is a gift from husband to wife on his earnings thatv have already been taxed. This would then have made her liability more as she is getting the full $500 every week.
The father need to ask the Magistrate to Impute a Wage on the Deadbeat Mother.. in cases where they dont want to work the Courts can calculate a wage she should be earning and then use that to determine her obligations
I was thinking the same thing. I really doubt the woman files taxes on that $2000/month or $24000/year. Also couldn't they bring in the CEO husband and ask him to verify the amount he's "gifting" her weekly?
I concur and she really leveled up. However, she may not know her new husband's income but when he upgrades to a newer model, she will learn. Good for her.
I hope you're doing better 🫶 Idk if you believe in God, I do, but if you haven't gotten justice for what your perpetrator did, I hope you can find solace in the thought that God will bring them to justice one day.. So sorry to hear that.
@@Irisesess if you know you believe in God and unsure if the other person does. Why keep continuing to push God into your comment. I'm not a believer, but I am spiritual. I would've deleted your comment. Most people who follow God are the most evil people on earth.
@@Irisesess if you know you believe in God and unsure if the other person does. Why keep continuing to push God into your comment. I'm not a believer, but I am spiritual. I would've deleted your comment. Most people who follow God are the most evil people on earth.
You realize that this is all scripted and reality is that judges are buyest still and men are still divorce raped. The judges decision is based on how they feel like judging and most judges are against men and favor women and the kids staying with the mom. It takes only 1 false allegation with 0 proof for a man to lose everything, it's still a reality today. If this judge is actually faire in her own practice in non scripted youtube shows its good but she would be considered beyond rare.
Man i agree, most men dont run from responsibility. But getting 100% of the burden is so fked up. We dont want a leasurely life, just a fair split of the costs for children and such.
Jidge Vonda B, I have only discovered some videos of your cases and I gotta say that as a man and a father, I have huge respect for you that you are fair, straight to the point with no nonsense and making sure to be as balanced as possible for all as any great judge will be. Huge respect to you and you got a new subscriber all the way from Northern Ireland, UK.
@@Moreeelifeee yes and no its a re-enactment of real cases so there is a gold digger fuck toy not paying her child support lying her medically augmented ass off
It’s astonishing that she wasn’t ordered to pay minimum child support in the divorce. It’s even more astonishing that she doesn’t contribute to her own daughter’s life and activities. He daughter his fortunate that dad has legal custody.
She probably had no job back then, same as now. So she could not pay. That is a type of women who parasites from a partner. As soon as someone with deeper pockets turn around she is gone. And I bet she will have a child with new rich husband, to be sure to be secured for next 25 years and if she divorce him I bet she will not work and will ask the court to be payed allowance coz she was a home maker and stay home mum... type of a trophy woman who's whole life is wrapped around doing nothing and cash their body legally.. And rich guys for some reason fall for such, coz no ordinary average working man is interested in such women, we look our equal, a partner...
@@drunkenmozzie4712and even when they are, they often won’t pay and the court has been shown in multiple states to take a slow approach to holding women accountable like they do men.
@@jamesbrown3239yet woman are screwed over in so many other areas. I reckon it's about time we stopped dividing the sexes and go on a case by case basis, 'cause lets face it, humans and the most greediest, selfish beings around!
Wait, wait…you get an ALLOWANCE when you’re MARRIED? Hold up. No. I’m married and I’m the homemaker. I don’t get “an allowance”. We share the card and the account. The difference is that we both end up agreeing on whatever gets spent. He can’t go spending stuff without my input, and I can’t do it without his. It’s part of being in a mutual relationship. Most of the time, it’s “yeah, sure, no problem” but there are times when we’ve told each other “let’s hold off for a bit” and we’ve had to value the input of the other person. You aren’t a child, lady. You aren’t a pet. What is this? Get a job that pays for the child support, or tell your husband he’s required to pay it as part of your responsibilities as a mother. But I’m leaning more toward option 1.
I would assume the CEO husband has a prenuptial agreement with her like most wealthy individuals. He's most likely protecting his finances wrong or not cause although he married her he most likely also sees she's not one that holds honor and integrity to a higher standard
If I married my husband late in his career, I would understand if he wanted to “trial run” me to see how I manage finances. My hubs and I came up through poverty together so we trust each other. But late in life marriage…. Eh I dunno
Her current husband isn’t required to pay her responsibilities and the court wouldn’t allow for it. Nor should they. This is basically a deadbeat parent who happens to be a “mom” though it doesn’t sound like much of one. Her “allowance” is likely how the husband keeps her from spending up his credit cards or blowing through the monthly budget. But also, let’s be real, if she’s claiming “$500” a week it’s likely $800.
I just love this Judge!!! She is so well spoken, so fair, so polished, just perfect, for what she does. So pleasant, I could go on and on, but it's just so refreshing watching her do her job. She brings the honor to Her Honor
Y’all wouldn’t be taking offense if it was anything but a black judge being said well spoken about. Why you gotta being race into it? OP definitely just meant most judges aren’t as articulate and professional which is what well spoken means. Honestly. You morons. Great post OP I agree 100%
@@gilmoremccoy6930don't be silly, well spoken simply means someone who seems articulate with a good vocabulary. Got nothing to do with race... Sensitive ass
The dad is not jealous, he’s got a lucky break! A mum not even willing to pay for her child. It’s sad if a man or woman are that selfish to their fresh and blood.
Glad I discovered you Judge Vonda B. You are a wonderful example of a fair and modest Judge of the law needs to be. America is in dire need of more modest Judges like you. 🙏🏻
You are aware that she is not a real judge, correct? These are paid actors, and she is just a regular ole Texas lawyer. These hearing are supposedly based on real-life cases, but they have been alerted for dramatic effect.
You do realise she isn't a judge at all, don't you? This is a 'show' for 'educational purposes'. They are all scripted actors. Watch till the end, there's a text explanation.
Wow, I am speechless. This woman is ......oh my I can't even say what is on my mind. She gets $500/week allowance from her husband? Just to spend on herself? I feel bad for the child. A 12 yr old child can be really hurt for a lifetime hearing this. So heartbreaking.
@@kommando1476 shit in most animals species the basterds are immediately "removed" from the pack. But humans are to be above animals.. Because feminism and the law
She is not a real judge, and both parties are paid actors. These episodes are supposedly based on real life custody/spousal support cases, but enhanced and altered for dramatic purposes. Unfortunately, most judges still show extreme bias in favor of women, willfully treating men as substandard individuals.
These are really well acted! I was completely taken in and thought all these couples were the actual people. Well done all. Very natural and excellent educational work.
Think rich women get things like this. I heard one somewhere else say something like this. Also guarantee she's getting way more than 500. She's lying for sure
Listen here Ms Thang. It doesnt matter how much money he makes and what he spends it on. You still have to pay something for your child. Even if Dad has the child's day to day expenses covered, put the child support payment in a college fund, so she doesnt have to be bitter at her spouse for only giving her $500/wk or at her ex for not sending her to college.
If I was given an “allowance” I’d hide that information from everyone and let it reside between my husband and I. She clearly has opened her big mouth.
@@swervsplatt9672 I think the point of my comment soared so high above your head it may have knocked an asteroid out of Saturns’ rings. You can’t imply something like that off of a vague comment.
Should have been a larger increase than that . Her and husband driving a da** Lambo she's trying to fight not to have to pay $355 mo child support . Bunch of dead beat parents on here.
I get it that you find it embarrassing. I live in 3rd world country and my wife loves telling her friends that I give her an allowance so that she doesn't have to work.
I love this. Judge she's beautiful,smart. I just love how she handel the situation. Sometimes I could see she want to smile for the unexpected things they say/said.
I love this no-nonsense attitude! "Yes or no" questions, and when she asks if you understand, it's like "Ok I just need to know that you understand, I do not care about whatever extra bit you're trying to tack on."
When I practiced law, child support was based on combining income of both parents, then taken from a graph designed by the state legislature. Then, the income is split based on percentage of the total that each parent makes. At that point, the total child support is split by the same percentage. The custodial parent is awarded support based on the percentage of support from the non-custodial parent. So, if the total support based on total income is $600, and the non-custodial parent makes 80% of the total income, he (or she) would bay 80% of that $600. If one parent is not employed, a minimum wage income is still attributed to that parent, and considered part of total income for calculating the support. Taxes are not taken into account. Total gross income. There is no such thing as spousal support in the state statutes.
Well with the children I obtained guardianship of they went by the gross income amount from the biological parents not me. I overtook a child support case from one of the fathers and it was based on his income alone. One of the three parents are done with paying me even though he got away with not paying the full amount. I’m just glad to be done dealing with this with him. The mother is almost done with paying and the other father has skipped out paying for years but he’s in prison. He’s been paying a little bit since he is in there. He is hoping to get out next year and do his former CDL truck driving job and pay his part in 6 months to a year. I just so want done with it because I’m disabled now and it helps me with taking care of things with the kids but it screws with the benefits that I receive from social services.
I think child support is definitely needed in some cases, but the more I see these videos, the more it proves we need to revamp the CS system, and we need more level-headed judges.
@@gringa978 They are married and most likely file jointly and he has paid the tax on his income. there is no tax that I can find when a spouse gives money to the other spouse.
Mom's actions in the "educational" portion of the show tells me where her priorities are...messing with her wedding rings, adjusting her bracelet, moving her clothes to show off other things her CEO gave her. (I can't be the only one thinking that.)
Speaking as a 62 year old man who grew up without a Father in my life and never considered having children. My father left my Mother with 6 children. I've heard guys call thair x all kinds of names, just because she needed help with his child. I had a Dog and people would tell me how spoiled he was, I explained to them that I chose to have him in my life he didn't choose me.
She said "I can't help who I fall in love with..."
Translation: "I cheated and digged my claws in my CEO affair partner/new husband. I couldn't help it, I'm a gold digger!"
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Yep... and CEO hubby ain't no fool either, therefore the $500 allowance.
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Not once she said anything about her child and that speaks a lot about what really matters to her.
I mean, look at the man she picked. She probably dumped the father for the sugar daddy.
Exactly! Like she didn’t even say home much time she gets with her own daughter.
Sounded like she didn't care about either of them for quite a while. When she talked about being there for his MIS degree and then "some masters program," it was pretty obvious that was around the time she checked out of the relationship. She had no clue what he got his masters in and didn't care or she would have been more invested in the relationship. I wonder if she used to work at the energy company her new husband is the CEO of.
Sad !
Relax. It's not real. 09:35
Every time the Judge takes a sip.. that means “ girl please”!!!
And that's the TEA
I read this comment before she sip the tea and after she did I was like damn
That is the face she makes behind the cup, lol
Hahaha I said this to my bf 😂😂😂😂 i said “ohhhhh loook she is taking a sip she knows she lying “ his face confused like what I on about
Right? Hahahah 😂😂😂
I love this judge. She's full of common sense. No BS.
She's not a judge.
She's amazing and yes she is a real judge, Look it up bud. The show may not be real but she is an actual judge.
RIGHT!
@@jgale2590 She is not a real judge. Scroll to 9:35, look it up.
except the case i saw before this where a woman who was married to a guy for 2 yrs, then started accusing him of having an affair with no evidence and she got 6800 a month, over half his income...
She gets a larger allowance than 500. She's lying..
She should pay child support for her child father is doing best he can
Sharon Simmons no she shouldn't!! Gee whiz. She carried and gave birth and all the other obligations. Husband isn't entitled to HER income. Wrong
Star Anna umm yea no that’s not how this works. Try again. Shared custody. Shared responsibility. The child goes back and forth but he carries most of the financial responsibility. He was fine at first.... but “ their child is getting older so the expenses is getting higher. He shouldn’t have to struggle to make more money... she should contribute. This matter is simple here. A mother giving birth does not exempt her from financial obligations.
@@StarAnnasDream girrrrlll...if you were to say the same thing that you just said to a judge...legit the judge wouldn't even give a damm if you wiped that child's ass as a baby, judge would still make you pay your baby's daddy your hard work money
She needs to pay, she is lying.
I died when mom said “I need to recoup the $ that wasn’t spent on me during the marriage”.
Why
@@delpicsla65 cuz bitch
Every time she opened her mouth it was just “me, me, me.”
Right? Thats one of those moments of - thats spousal support not child support. However, even then she wouldn't get anything.
Y'all know this is fake, right? Lol. Check the 'about'
She’s really doing everything she can to not put a single dollar into her daughter
It’s disturbing isn’t it?
@@enjoyingmyvodka1013agreed
Look at the rack the mom has, maybe the money went there instead of to her child
Wow she a liar....
Right! With her having such a rich husband that we know takes care of her. You would think she would give the allowance to her child!
Basically she didn't want to pay anything towards looking after her daughter and instead spend the money on herself... what a lovely woman
Loved the "that should have been addressed during your divorce"
aren't many women like that ?
@@Unique_Monk bit of a genralisation no?
@@hibrydsart5403
Did I say all ?
Did I say the majority ?
I said many by which I stand by
@@Unique_Monk arguably just as many men that look to screw over their ex's
My mother (who was divorced) told me when I was growing up to NEVER trust a woman who doesn't have custody of their children.....period. She worked very hard to be able to support me and made it clear that real mothers will do whatever is necessary to keep their children with them.
That seems really narrow minded. Just cause the mother works hard she deserves to have the kids over the father Ben if he works his ass off to support the kids as well? He shouldn’t have custody what so ever? My mom also worked her ass off to have full custody of me and now as an adult I think my father was treated unfairly.
Your mom was right, I married a woman who didn't have custody of her kids. She was the type of person that it was always all about her. On the days she had them she conveniently would come up with something she needed to do, so I was home with her kids being the parent to them. She was a horrible woman and so glad she is now an ex. Her kids, now they are adults don't have anything to do with her.
@J. H. yes, and no. Unfortunately a huge majority of woman use their children as monetary gain after a divorce, but I've seen instances where it's not the case too.
Absolutely. As a mother myself, you fight for your kids until you've exhausted every option. Fathers can have custody too, but I always look at women who don't have primary custody of their children funny.
There ARE exceptions to that rule. I was one of those. My mother sent me away for my safety, remaining behind to care for my little brothers.
The Princess's actions and demeanor speaks volumes!
The daughter is in great hands with the father.
“You only get $500 a week?” That was definitely shade😂😂😂
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Could be that the new husband is smarter than we think and keeps a tight grip on the wallet. She's little more than the car he drives to him. I love how she wants compensation for passing on her education . . . she might as well have set fire to that money from listening to her.
shit man, i wish i got 500 a week just for existing
Dont be fooled, her husband capped her "income" for a reason and potential forced child support paymemts. Ceos arent up there for no reason. He knows the courts will figure out the payment based on her income.
Must be really hard being a women
The fact that she's trying to argue against 300 a month for her own daughter. This woman hasn't grown up since her teenage years.
considering she was blaming him for not spending money on her, i bet that CEO divorced her ass
"He needs to protect his money" meaning.. He made her sign a prenup so if that shit falls through she gets NOTHING lol
@Robert Vandevender and usually a prenup has an expiration, and has to be re negotiated…
@@artkingofwholefoods74 after 15 years yes
@Robert Vandevender a prenup is a sign agreement within the two parties if the marriage, that have a limited to unlimited amount of things in case the marriage fails. Example: The husband has to pay for all legal fees and/or cost of legal advice for the wife(ex) another example: Husband is to pay a settlement to the wife for X number of years for help to the wife(ex) if children are involved. Depends what the husband wants and the wife agrees to
@@breannacarlos-vega9090 In 15 years she's NOT going to look like that. He'll be done and moving on. He probably included that in the calculation.
@@qmj9720 I think they are all actors and not the actual litigants as it states at the end of the video.
When judge vonda sips from her cup it’s translation for “mhm ima let you finish ..but no”
I caught that too 🤣🤣🤣
This judge is too cool
yep very cool! But this isnt real though she is not a judge she is a lawyer.
More like ‘keep on digging, I wanna see how deep you can go’
I got the Wonka Tell me More vibes
She cared more about money than her own child sad.
I think that woman needs to go get a job and stop expecting men to take care of her cause her daughter will think it's ok and end up stuck in that type of marriage and that ain't good at all women need to learn that kids see it and they will follow those foot steps..
That’s why he new for hubby only gives her 500 dollars 😂
@@Rich-ms8dm Missed a couple English classes.
Its indeed sad no judge needs to get involved in this. She has her life perfect, but she should help out the ex husband pay for child support. I mean he is taking care of the child yet doesn't want to help with anything. Totally wrong. Girl seems like a selfish gold digger. Guy is a CEO is making obviously bank just by hearing the car is $200k is ridiculous guys is making good money period.
She could of saved herself all this time and even money just communicating with the guy look I get this much I can give you this much. Girl doesnt even care for her own kid just plain sad how people are.
@@giveafukisbroken9322 shut up dork .
SHE IS SO LYING ABOUT HER ALLOWANCE!!!!!!!
He drives a 200K car and you're only getting a $500 "allowance"? 👃🏾 I smell a lie being told.
Period lol
A week though that’s a lot asking me lol
@@skylarbills398 I made more as a consumer banker 😂
You would be surprised. Rich people can be incredibly cheap, and you could tell she was pissed about the allowance being so low.
@Grossmesser1 you don’t have to believe an internet individual but do believe it’s not hard to inherit a million dollars. Hard work over 30+ years at a very well paying career will afford you that.
Wow, a judge with common sense and a sense of fairness.
It's too good to be true... because it is... it's a T.V. drama...
where is fairness here? if she say her husband only gives 500 a month then her child support would be only 100 dollars and if you call that fairness then what is not fair in this world? that woman practically made sure she say the amount to the judge so that she can exactly give a particular amount which she can spare on her child, no child should get such a mom.
Except for the tax BS. There is no tax.
@@saihitesh5816 500 per week so x4
@@skarmex3439no its real cases, judge vonda is a lawyer, but everyone else here are actors renacting obscene child support cases
Her husband gives his wife 500.00 a week. There are no taxes on that.
The taxes were already taken out when her husband gets paid.
@Truth Seeker
What?
When I was a child I recieved an allowance, I never had to pay taxes.
Allowances are not a taxable income.
@@46L482 thats right but this allowence is really just what she makes as a stay at home mom, and shes just a gold digger fuck toy to the new husband
as it should be?
@@pittste88 i wouldn’t go that far....
I was thinking the same thing. She should have paid based on the full allowance.
She thinks she deserves an allowance?! Hell no. You are owed nothing, lady.
Kind of like a paid concubine
He seems like such a good dad. Just trying to do right by his kid. It makes me so happy to see that.
Some of these comments are seriously concerning. This is not a real case, these are not real parents, she is not a real judge. The parties are paid actors, Vonda is just a regular lawyer, and the premise of the hearing is only loosely based on a real-life case. The odds of a judge holding a woman accountable for child support, when they are a stay at home wife with no “reported” income, are incredibly slim. Even if an adult woman were to get an actual allowance, there is no possibility sh would willingly offer that information up to the court. Outside of her own family going against her to inform the dad, it would be very difficult for dad to prove she had any income.
@@makenziecely Thats the question I had from a distance: is this real or scripted ?
At the end of each episode she covers that it is a reenactment of a real case, and an explanation of the laws used to reach the decision of the judge, so it's still a real case.
@@makenziecelyshe is a real judge but the show uses actors, she's a judge from Dallas Texas
I know you may not see this, but I just want to thank you for supporting men in court equally as we all should be support. You're doing great work. 💪
What kind of mother who doesn’t have custody thinks it’s acceptable to pay 0$ in child support? Says volumes about the mom….
@@kaddyd1815 o I
@@kaddyd1815 ik a lot like her only difference they hold the kids and use the as a paycheck then a retirement plan when the child starts workin
These are actors.
Yes even though that is right doesn’t change these situations happen in real life
This judge does not play around, love watching her she sees things the way they are and calls them out and it doesn't matter who you are.
YOu do know she just plays pretend Judge? It's all just made up...
@@chrishoch8046 Really? I guess I slowly see what the problem is with the US...
You want me to tell you what to believe instead of googling for 10 seconds and realize she only became judge after her youtube videos. These videos was her playing make believe judge... Yeah and of course the jokingly bad cop actor and the cut in audience with a cheap video effect... Jesus Christ....
@@chrishoch8046 Yeah and I said you're lazy...
This is SCRIPTED!
These are based on real cases & situations she has had in the past
Friend had to pay $600 a month on child support. Found out later the child was not his. She purgered herself on the court documents. She now has to pay him back $6000 a month for fraud.
That's great news to hear. Back in my day, if you signed the birth certificate, paternity tests wouldn't matter; that child, and the support payments that come along with it, were yours.
You only get $500😂😂😭
You know what thats not my buisness.
🤣🤣🤣 she put it out tho
ong like girl that’s a cool 2,000 a month😂😂
Judge throwing shade, maaaannn ! 😎
😂😂😂
TAX FREE!!!
She fully misrepresented her “allowance” amount. You could see when the judge started crunching numbers that she breathed a sigh of relief knowing only part of her “allowance” is being considered in this child support arrangement. I wouldn’t doubt her “allowance” is more like $1k each week.
Judging from the fact that her husband has a car that costs over $200k, I'd be willing to bet she gets around maybe $10k a week
Nah, closer to 2k
She probably didn't have any proof of income so she probably had to unfortunately take her word on.
More like 2k a week
And that's just an "allowance" for her to use as "play money", doesn't have to buy food, utilities, rent, or any necessities, I bet her car and fuel are provided free. Just the look of her yells gold digger. Once the tits and arse sags, the new husband is going to trade her in for a newer, younger ride and she'll get what she deserves.
Hope the kid is doing well, not sure about the psychic thing tho.
its just mind boggling that so many ppl just think they can walk away from their children with no obligation
Agreed, or a greed.
Men do it out of spite, you can’t take humanity out of circumstances in society im sure we all should’ve been met with severe consequences for many decisions, I’m sure punishing the father for getting her pregnant makes sense to you also
@@seanwilliamson-oy7eo f around and find out
@sean williamson keep her fkn legs closed. Simp meister
My daughters dad got $5,300 a month & he always said he couldn’t financially help me support our daughter. I supported her financially alone until our daughter was 6 years old as that’s when child support caught up to him & made him pay $20 once a month from when our daughter was 6 years old to 18 years old. I told child support they may aswell stop it as it cost me more than $20 once a month for her needs & as she got older there’s was school uniforms, excursions with school, school photos, shoes, school lunches & snacks & juice for school. After school care. I had to come up with money for all those things by myself. He always said I can’t afford it. But he always had drugs, smokes, alcohol, take away food for himself. That’s where his $5,300 a month went on his habit.
The judge should not have assumed the ,$500 allowance is taxed, since it is a gift from husband to wife on his earnings thatv have already been taxed. This would then have made her liability more as she is getting the full $500 every week.
The father need to ask the Magistrate to Impute a Wage on the Deadbeat Mother.. in cases where they dont want to work the Courts can calculate a wage she should be earning and then use that to determine her obligations
I was thinking the same thing. I really doubt the woman files taxes on that $2000/month or $24000/year.
Also couldn't they bring in the CEO husband and ask him to verify the amount he's "gifting" her weekly?
EXACTLY! if the dad had a brain, he would've spoke up
I presume the husband already paid tax on his income. So no taxis paid or due on her spending money. @arnoldpatterson974
It might be Texas law to exclude a tax estimate.
The Judge was pure Gold & the ex wife was pure Gold Digger
I concur and she really leveled up. However, she may not know her new husband's income but when he upgrades to a newer model, she will learn. Good for her.
Who gets an allowance from a spouse.
more like gold excavator
I love this judge. $500.00 a week is pretty good if all your bills are paid for.
$500 throw around money is not considered enough LOL.
On top of all her bills paid and her not working at all.
500 bucks to keep her legs open.
As a man who went thru the divorce court system in the 1990's, and got raped, it is so good to see Judge Vonda trying to make things fair.
I hope you're doing better 🫶 Idk if you believe in God, I do, but if you haven't gotten justice for what your perpetrator did, I hope you can find solace in the thought that God will bring them to justice one day.. So sorry to hear that.
@@Irisesess if you know you believe in God and unsure if the other person does. Why keep continuing to push God into your comment. I'm not a believer, but I am spiritual. I would've deleted your comment. Most people who follow God are the most evil people on earth.
@@Irisesess if you know you believe in God and unsure if the other person does. Why keep continuing to push God into your comment. I'm not a believer, but I am spiritual. I would've deleted your comment. Most people who follow God are the most evil people on earth.
You realize that this is all scripted and reality is that judges are buyest still and men are still divorce raped. The judges decision is based on how they feel like judging and most judges are against men and favor women and the kids staying with the mom. It takes only 1 false allegation with 0 proof for a man to lose everything, it's still a reality today.
If this judge is actually faire in her own practice in non scripted youtube shows its good but she would be considered beyond rare.
Man i agree, most men dont run from responsibility. But getting 100% of the burden is so fked up. We dont want a leasurely life, just a fair split of the costs for children and such.
Jidge Vonda B, I have only discovered some videos of your cases and I gotta say that as a man and a father, I have huge respect for you that you are fair, straight to the point with no nonsense and making sure to be as balanced as possible for all as any great judge will be.
Huge respect to you and you got a new subscriber all the way from Northern Ireland, UK.
It's a show
Her husband is gonna be rich forever... I bet he was smart enough to get a prenup also. Lol
I hope so
Right....especially since she appears to be a little dull in the intellect department. She might not even know the terms of a pre-nup agreement.
And he's fucking other girls as well
Exactly
He better have gotten one!
I love this woman!! She calls it without hesitation! That mom! What a piece of work!
judge is weak.. i paid more than that even after i lost my job... i pay 540 a month
When the lady is talking about what her new husband makes. She’s lying because she’s fiddling with her earring.
I thought the same thing!!!
@@heatherherrera4307 I'm fiddling with my ear now! Am I am I lying?
….the show is fake.
@@Moreeelifeee yes and no its a re-enactment of real cases so there is a gold digger fuck toy not paying her child support lying her medically augmented ass off
@@Moreeelifeee someone didn't do the real research
The allowance is a gift. It's not taxable income. There should not be a reduction for that.
100 percent. She didn't even have to claim it, she could have just used his card for her expenses up to 2k but under his name.
The oil man and her agreed ahead of time to say $500 thinking they protecting all the rest.
It’s astonishing that she wasn’t ordered to pay minimum child support in the divorce. It’s even more astonishing that she doesn’t contribute to her own daughter’s life and activities. He daughter his fortunate that dad has legal custody.
Sadly women don't get held to these responsibilities like men are
She probably had no job back then, same as now. So she could not pay. That is a type of women who parasites from a partner. As soon as someone with deeper pockets turn around she is gone. And I bet she will have a child with new rich husband, to be sure to be secured for next 25 years and if she divorce him I bet she will not work and will ask the court to be payed allowance coz she was a home maker and stay home mum... type of a trophy woman who's whole life is wrapped around doing nothing and cash their body legally..
And rich guys for some reason fall for such, coz no ordinary average working man is interested in such women, we look our equal, a partner...
@@drunkenmozzie4712and even when they are, they often won’t pay and the court has been shown in multiple states to take a slow approach to holding women accountable like they do men.
@@jamesbrown3239yet woman are screwed over in so many other areas. I reckon it's about time we stopped dividing the sexes and go on a case by case basis, 'cause lets face it, humans and the most greediest, selfish beings around!
Wait, wait…you get an ALLOWANCE when you’re MARRIED? Hold up. No. I’m married and I’m the homemaker. I don’t get “an allowance”. We share the card and the account. The difference is that we both end up agreeing on whatever gets spent. He can’t go spending stuff without my input, and I can’t do it without his. It’s part of being in a mutual relationship. Most of the time, it’s “yeah, sure, no problem” but there are times when we’ve told each other “let’s hold off for a bit” and we’ve had to value the input of the other person.
You aren’t a child, lady. You aren’t a pet. What is this? Get a job that pays for the child support, or tell your husband he’s required to pay it as part of your responsibilities as a mother. But I’m leaning more toward option 1.
I would assume the CEO husband has a prenuptial agreement with her like most wealthy individuals. He's most likely protecting his finances wrong or not cause although he married her he most likely also sees she's not one that holds honor and integrity to a higher standard
Thats why the commentary said get a job and pay child support
If I married my husband late in his career, I would understand if he wanted to “trial run” me to see how I manage finances. My hubs and I came up through poverty together so we trust each other. But late in life marriage…. Eh I dunno
But she's good in bed soooooo
Her current husband isn’t required to pay her responsibilities and the court wouldn’t allow for it. Nor should they.
This is basically a deadbeat parent who happens to be a “mom” though it doesn’t sound like much of one.
Her “allowance” is likely how the husband keeps her from spending up his credit cards or blowing through the monthly budget. But also, let’s be real, if she’s claiming “$500” a week it’s likely $800.
I just love this Judge!!! She is so well spoken, so fair, so polished, just perfect, for what she does. So pleasant, I could go on and on, but it's just so refreshing watching her do her job. She brings the honor to Her Honor
Please be advised that the term "Well spoken" is a back- handed compliment. What does that even mean? But, I understand your praise is commendable. 🙏🏽
Gotta stop using "well spoken" as a compliment for black people. It's incredibly disrespectful
Y’all wouldn’t be taking offense if it was anything but a black judge being said well spoken about. Why you gotta being race into it? OP definitely just meant most judges aren’t as articulate and professional which is what well spoken means. Honestly. You morons. Great post OP I agree 100%
@@gilmoremccoy6930don't be silly, well spoken simply means someone who seems articulate with a good vocabulary. Got nothing to do with race... Sensitive ass
@@actnow3how can telling someone they are well spoken be disrespectful... Get the stick out your butt and the chip off your shoulder
It’s the drinking out of the cup and then the look that the judge gives when she’s doing it! Classic! I love this channel!
The dad is not jealous, he’s got a lucky break! A mum not even willing to pay for her child. It’s sad if a man or woman are that selfish to their fresh and blood.
I literally discovered this show 2 videos ago and already wholeheartedly believe this is the realest judge ever on a show
She's not a judge lol
It’s sadly a skit
@@KpopManiac_143 I realised and had my little heart broken a while ago.
@@nicoreuel2092 same. Same
. She is a judge now. Her swearing in was 2 months ago. The video is on TH-cam.
This woman needs to support her daughter, had a free ride for years.
She upgraded to a CEO. Has anyone ever heard of a woman doing that-Yes, well il be darned. Clearly loves her daughter soooo much.
She knows EXACTLY how much money he makes.
The level entitlement displayed by these women are incredible. 😂
It's hilarious to hear that the new husband put her in her place.
The new husband put her in her place? She gets an allowance, he's a massive simp.
@@stitch438who cares father won
We need a "where are they now" for these cases🤣🤣
Right lol
Yes, what Vicki said, these are actors and actresses.
These are based on real cases these are just actors
They're in the audience. 🤣
this aint shark tank 😅
That CEO is giving her more than $500
She hasn’t payed so far and now got away with less than $400.
Well played
I love the sassy-ness of the judge drinking her coffee and the look she gave after. 🤣
I think it's tea.
Yea it’s yea and she drinks it when people start spilling the family drama/tea 😂😂 she is great lol
I notice if she is not buying something she’ll sip that tea
4:30 Even the judge knew something was up. This woman is trying to get away with the bare minimum
I love her common sense and fairness! She needs to repace Judy, when she's gone.
Hopefully sooner.. People's court is horrible.
Judy is more about drama, a real judge should be impartial, Judy is not in most cases.
Sadly, this is just a T.V. show... she's not actually a judge :/
@@skarmex3439 yes - Vonda B is a real judge in Texas. She needs to replace Judge Judy FAST !!!!
@@lchiphopkins4518 9:36 read the first 6 words.
I need more judges were like this one! It's truly all about the kids for her.
Too bad she's not a real judge :(
I love the fairness and common sense that this judge has I'm hooked on real unbiased justice. Brilliant and fair heck yea!
What a bratty, selfish woman. All about me, me, me and nothing about their child
Glad I discovered you Judge Vonda B. You are a wonderful example of a fair and modest Judge of the law needs to be. America is in dire need of more modest Judges like you. 🙏🏻
You are aware that she is not a real judge, correct? These are paid actors, and she is just a regular ole Texas lawyer. These hearing are supposedly based on real-life cases, but they have been alerted for dramatic effect.
You do realise she isn't a judge at all, don't you?
This is a 'show' for 'educational purposes'. They are all scripted actors. Watch till the end, there's a text explanation.
She became a judge in 2023 .
Wow, I am speechless. This woman is ......oh my I can't even say what is on my mind. She gets $500/week allowance from her husband? Just to spend on herself? I feel bad for the child. A 12 yr old child can be really hurt for a lifetime hearing this. So heartbreaking.
That’s Bull 💩💩💩💩💩💩the cow is loaded ,gets 500 a week more like 5000 a week 👍🤥🤥🤥🤥
"I can't help who i fall in love with"
Sickens me to the core
thats what someone says when they date someone that is bad news and they know it
I know right. Like they have no say in the matter whatsoever.
She obviously loves herself ...not her child!!!
I can't help if I'm a gold digger and I hit pay dirt with this guy I'm married too
What a phenomenal judge. Mind blown! She is amazing.
The new husband is smart lol
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He's paying for another dudes kid just to fondle her bitties.. Nah he's foolish man with money to burn
@@kommando1476 shit in most animals species the basterds are immediately "removed" from the pack. But humans are to be above animals.. Because feminism and the law
Her husband is a dumb ass.
He’s an idiot, single mothers are only looking for one thing.
Its so good to see Judges actually following the Law!!
She is not a real judge, and both parties are paid actors. These episodes are supposedly based on real life custody/spousal support cases, but enhanced and altered for dramatic purposes. Unfortunately, most judges still show extreme bias in favor of women, willfully treating men as substandard individuals.
The mother never mentioned anything about her daughter’s needs, only her. Smh 🤦🏽♀️
JUDGE V ROCKS! Common sense isn't that common. Judge plays it straight. Love it.
I love this judge. Giving women a taste of the bullshite they put men through
It’s a skit 😂
@@lizeteavila8971 it's the truth
@@jamesadams2334 no it literally says in the disclaimer that they're actors and she is not a real judge.
The judge is spot on!
Naturally as a mother, I want to give my daughter more than I have
These are really well acted! I was completely taken in and thought all these couples were the actual people. Well done all. Very natural and excellent educational work.
2 years of paying nothing ! Can't he get that from her as well?
When Judge Vonda drinks her tea.. you know it’s about to go down! Love her!
You can tell she’s angry that she has to pay for her daughter 😂
These women think they are not to pay ANYTHING!
That's one badass court lady right there. Respect both to her judgment and her personality.
I would be embarassed saying I get an allowance from my husband. 😂
Why😂😂😂
I'd appreciate it considering these hard times
Why? Do you even have a husband?
Think rich women get things like this. I heard one somewhere else say something like this. Also guarantee she's getting way more than 500. She's lying for sure
i thought the allowance was for the daughter at first?! then i thought it was $500 a month but holy shit
But you wouldnt refuse it😂😂
This judge is awesome glad to see a judge standing up for men
Not necessarily for men, but rather standing up for RIGHT.
These people seem to not care about their own kids. It's weird.
This judge is a blessing 😢❤
Judge Vonda, I have nothing but respect for you. Always being fair when it comes down to it. Blessings!
Listen here Ms Thang. It doesnt matter how much money he makes and what he spends it on. You still have to pay something for your child. Even if Dad has the child's day to day expenses covered, put the child support payment in a college fund, so she doesnt have to be bitter at her spouse for only giving her $500/wk or at her ex for not sending her to college.
I love you Judge! You are awesome, you are always in the best interest of the child!❤
$500 a week is more than my paycheck...
I would quit my job😅
brandon dembowski then you need a better job.
phophi mufamadi yea me too
Shit!! That is more than my paycheck.
500$ a week is a lot??! Where u work @ Chipotle? That’s broke
“Tell me about your new relationship” . I died 😂
I wasn’t aware of “ Allowance Tax “
Guess Dad is going to TAX the kids Allowances from now on. Thank you for this Great Advice 👍🏾
I don’t think there is an allowance tax
Only $500 per week allowance to be a trophy wife?! She definitely got access to more money than that
If I was given an “allowance” I’d hide that information from everyone and let it reside between my husband and I. She clearly has opened her big mouth.
In order to avoid supporting the human being you made? Great morals....😐🤦
@@swervsplatt9672 I think the point of my comment soared so high above your head it may have knocked an asteroid out of Saturns’ rings. You can’t imply something like that off of a vague comment.
@@niki7716 sure you can.
Should have been a larger increase than that . Her and husband driving a da** Lambo she's trying to fight not to have to pay $355 mo child support . Bunch of dead beat parents on here.
I get it that you find it embarrassing. I live in 3rd world country and my wife loves telling her friends that I give her an allowance so that she doesn't have to work.
$500 a week in MAD MONEY plus credit cards..😥
Exactly, you know she has credit cards!!
And you know she doesn't pay any bills.
Yep no living expenses, credit cards for most of her purchases. And then the 500 a week is for her hair and clothes and going out with the girls
I love this. Judge she's beautiful,smart. I just love how she handel the situation. Sometimes I could see she want to smile for the unexpected things they say/said.
Thank you so much!❤️
@@JudgeVondaB is this really you? Or a media person or super fan?
I love watching judges be fair and not let people take advantage, the woman disgusts me in this scenario. Props to you Judge Vonda 🙏🏽🔥
Some women are such gold diggers. She admitted she's getting $500 a week for nothing that's $2000 a month, or 24000 a year for nothing.
500 x 52 weeks is $26,000
So Prostitution does pay!
I love this no-nonsense attitude! "Yes or no" questions, and when she asks if you understand, it's like "Ok I just need to know that you understand, I do not care about whatever extra bit you're trying to tack on."
I love how she called her on the bs. I also saw all I needed to know about the mom at the end when she's polishing her ring.
He is giving her more than $500 a week most like $5000 a week. she wants him to continue to struggle with that kid.
When I practiced law, child support was based on combining income of both parents, then taken from a graph designed by the state legislature. Then, the income is split based on percentage of the total that each parent makes. At that point, the total child support is split by the same percentage. The custodial parent is awarded support based on the percentage of support from the non-custodial parent. So, if the total support based on total income is $600, and the non-custodial parent makes 80% of the total income, he (or she) would bay 80% of that $600. If one parent is not employed, a minimum wage income is still attributed to that parent, and considered part of total income for calculating the support. Taxes are not taken into account. Total gross income. There is no such thing as spousal support in the state statutes.
Well with the children I obtained guardianship of they went by the gross income amount from the biological parents not me. I overtook a child support case from one of the fathers and it was based on his income alone. One of the three parents are done with paying me even though he got away with not paying the full amount. I’m just glad to be done dealing with this with him. The mother is almost done with paying and the other father has skipped out paying for years but he’s in prison. He’s been paying a little bit since he is in there. He is hoping to get out next year and do his former CDL truck driving job and pay his part in 6 months to a year. I just so want done with it because I’m disabled now and it helps me with taking care of things with the kids but it screws with the benefits that I receive from social services.
You can just tell by how she speaks, sits, and puffs out her chest how she thinks she’s all that and a bag of chips cause she got a sugar daddy
You’re hating
Never has been a woman born that doesn't puff out her chest,
Cans
Yes her chest seems to swells when she spoke but didn't work on the female Judge
Well thats pretty much what trapped em those giant hoots...
I think child support is definitely needed in some cases, but the more I see these videos, the more it proves we need to revamp the CS system, and we need more level-headed judges.
You know it’s great acting when people are commenting like they’re watching a real case unfold 😂 props to all the actors
how can there be a "net" income she is not paying taxes on the money, she is not an employee.
This was exactly my question
SHE STATED THAT SHE GETS $500 a week anytime you state how much you get or make under the table that money can still be used to pay child support
@@miaormimi4108 right so there should have been no tax taken from her “net income”. Therefore it’d be more money to be considered for the child
She should be filing it on her taxes…. It is taxable income…. Wether she pays or not is the irs’s problem
@@gringa978 They are married and most likely file jointly and he has paid the tax on his income. there is no tax that I can find when a spouse gives money to the other spouse.
If I got an allowance I would be using it on my child and their future.
Can we get this judge in NJ!!!
Mom's actions in the "educational" portion of the show tells me where her priorities are...messing with her wedding rings, adjusting her bracelet, moving her clothes to show off other things her CEO gave her. (I can't be the only one thinking that.)
Speaking as a 62 year old man who grew up without a Father in my life and never considered having children. My father left my Mother with 6 children. I've heard guys call thair x all kinds of names, just because she needed help with his child. I had a Dog and people would tell me how spoiled he was, I explained to them that I chose to have him in my life he didn't choose me.