@Uzerina Goog to begin with, I have to say that scholar agreed that, that is not the core of Islam that means yes this can change ANYTIME, because it depends on CULTRE, it doesn't depend on religion. Secondly, you may ask "How could Muslims allow such this behaviour?" The answer is because of circumstances. Before the last 300 years ago the expected life time was between 20 and 30. For example now in Turkey ,where I live, you can't marry if you are under 18. If people die 2 years later the marriage, how can humanty survive? So they married maybe when they were even 12 -This was not traumatic-. Now I ask you "do you allow 12 years old people marry with their owns?" This is why their parents were choosing their partner. To be honest I can't see any difference between now and then in this context, because saying you can't marry now is also one kind of choosing. Isn't it? We always say that because Islam is for whole humanity it embraces every culture but harmful ones for humans in reality.
okay...i dont get why people mix arranged marriage and forced marriage. islam forbids forced marriage. arranged marriage is when you are not pressured and you have a say to it and you can basically choose your spouse. smh
That's not from Islam. Media just shows that. Forced marriage is a cultural thing. In Islam women get the power to choose who ever she wants. Even if a guy wants it or her dad, if she says no. No one can make her marry. You can arrange a marriage but if the women is not happy with the guy it's off. Media just lies most of the time
@@mongrelslayer7902 nooo thats not how you do it. they let you decide. no guilt tripping and shit. that forced man. and im fearing my dads side of the family will do that before i agree on marriage. but my mom is okay with love marriage and if not i can ask for an arranged mrriage when i feel ready. so i know momma is gonna fight for me in this haha. i heard tons of stories abt how family pressures you to get married. ugh
For the Last tweet. We should remember Hazrat Khadeeja (RA) First wife of Prophet Muhammad (SAW) send the perposal herself. She was 15 years older then Prophet Muhammad, Divorcee, and a business women. Breaking all taboos of even today's society.
In Minangkabau tribe ( Indonesia ), this practice still going on. The female bride is the one who " proposes" to the male bride, and their kids inherited the family ( clan name) from the mother! ( •w•)
@@adamdamiri4823 children are supposed to inherit their father’s name, that’s proper as they belong to their father not to the daughter of another man.
my parents had an arranged marriage and they were cousins, so both of my grandmothers are my great aunts. i dont have a family tree, i have a family circle.
Same 😂😂 and my fvking cousin has the audacity to confess to me Me and the whole family are against it like wtf man both your parents are relatives , both my parents are relatives and both his and my parents are relatives So NO thank you and we have spent a lot of times together as siblings where tf these feelings came from
Tbh I'm Christian and i don't know anything about islam but I'm kinda enjoying watching this clips, and for some sort gives me to learn more about you guys❤️
Would anybody give viewpoint on a Shakespeares Novel never once having read it from cover to cover? But everybody has viewpoint on Islam never once having read Holy Quran from cover to cover?😂
@@ProphetGooglePeaceBeUponHim You are here to hate only for your kind information we are not a cult. It's a religion,Respect it. the actual line what you are talking about is this,Ever heard of the say that 'You are not allowed to talk about someone elses thing if you don't properly know it'. Stop attacking us ۞ وَٱلْمُحْصَنَـٰتُ مِنَ ٱلنِّسَآءِ إِلَّا مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَـٰنُكُمْ ۖ كِتَـٰبَ ٱللَّهِ عَلَيْكُمْ ۚ وَأُحِلَّ لَكُم مَّا وَرَآءَ ذَٰلِكُمْ أَن تَبْتَغُوا۟ بِأَمْوَٰلِكُم مُّحْصِنِينَ غَيْرَ مُسَـٰفِحِينَ ۚ فَمَا ٱسْتَمْتَعْتُم بِهِۦ مِنْهُنَّ فَـَٔاتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ فَرِيضَةًۭ ۚ وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِيمَا تَرَٰضَيْتُم بِهِۦ مِنۢ بَعْدِ ٱلْفَرِيضَةِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيمًا حَكِيمًۭا it means: Also ˹forbidden are˺ married women-except ˹female˺ captives in your possession. This is Allah’s commandment to you. Lawful to you are all beyond these-as long as you seek them with your wealth in a legal marriage, not in fornication. Give those you have consummated marriage with their due dowries. It is permissible to be mutually gracious regarding the set dowry. Surely Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise.
Thank you so much for creating these content! As a revert Muslim since almost 3 years now, married since 2 years... Ignorant people is what hurts me the most!
Eh this questions are funny. I live in southeast asia, muslims are majority but at the same time we're mulitcultural. Stereotype questions about muslim or any other races or religions are tiring, I rolled my eyes seeing them. Some people stay in small world, you have to traveling and go out your social zone and know more people. Thank God now we have internet to communicate people about the truth, but also lies, but people more open minded these days.
"Men buy women" lol I guess they are talking about "Mahr" coz that's an amount compulsory on a husband to give his wife, according to his income, BUT THEY DON'T KNOW IF YOU DIVORCE YOUR WIFE YOU ARE MORE OBLIGED TO GIVE IT!!! IS THAT STILL BYING??😑😑😑😑 DUMB
@@olymolly3637 concept of dowry isn't in Islam in fact there is no dowry in Islam, man is responsible for providing all the necessities to his wife. This concept of dowry is nothing but indian culture
@Scarlet Overkill Yeah I know about mahr... But for me ofcourse there is difference between mahr n dowry. Dowry is culture n mahr is must on man to give in Islalm even if he divorce his wife
@Scarlet Overkill No! Actually I was talking about people saying that mehr is something like you pay to buy a women! So I was mentioning that even a person if he divorces his wife he has to pay mahr if he hasn't paid it yet, therefore mahr is never considered as buying of a woman. If you listen the video they say that muslims buy the women probably they are talking about mahr, therefore I was mentioning that...
@@mobiledev6037 well not rlly bc I mean yes but like no basically its when in order for a man to marry a woman in Islam he must find a way to pay her the amount of money she wants and that money will then be hers otherwise he can't marry her until he gives her the amount but i mean it doesn't have to be money it can be whatever she wants soo its not rlly buying.
@@mobiledev6037 can you take care of your kid if you got no money? Should have answer that Q of yours right. Thats the short version. Now, Its not buying, its responsibility. Which cost money. Wanna have a bite at those two forbidden chest fruit? Or have a taste of that halal sausage? Gonna cost you man. Which the 'western' men hate coz they just wanna dip and go as many pies they could get before someone got bloated and come knocking for money to buy diapers. Then real life start. The school dropped out, the part time worker changing weekly, the alcohol and drugs, the wife and kid beater. So yes just like any proper marriage in the world irregardless of religion/race. You dont buy your wife, but you need money to keep a family and future. As any parent would rather have a man with money that could somehow guarantee their daughter financial wellbeing than one that is living in his car picking up recycle trash. So is it still 'men buy women'? No. Does it still cost money? Yes. You want all 4? Not including the other rules of being fair to all and make them happy and what not, two things. Can you last that long in bed?lol if no isnt satisfied, then dont even think of no 2 much less no 4. And 4 definitely gonna cost you more than 1 so YES you need more money. Unless you an oil baron from UAE or crazy rich asian, better stick with one. Haha.
Also all the wives of Prophet Muhammad (Saw) except Hazrat Aisha (RA) were either Divorcee or Widow. Polygamy is not there for fun. But to support Women who or if they need it. even there are restrictions to support and love equally and if one person cannot do that. he is not allowed to have another wife.
@@ashmirrahnashihinzahlan8786 offcourse not. There are rules, regulations, guidelines and values that dictate the lifestyle. Polygamy is not there just for pleasure but rather actually it has higher moral value. Unfortunately what society has done is to make it an excuse for their personal benefits like having a son over daughter, gaining dowry, personal pleasure etc.
that's why in Islam it is clearly stated that it is better to marry one and if you do marry more you have to treat them fairly and guarantee their happiness provide the same amount of spending and emotional engagement. this practice started to shelter wives and families of fallen soldiers and divorced women in the first place not for men to go hunting.
@@hasnaeatif4381 true. Only the truly brave and strong deserve to voluntarily choose a life full of trauma. Alhamdulillah I do not need to worry about this. There are truly better ways to live one's life.
This was an episode dedicated to the MUSconceptions people have about marriage and Islam. Hopefully we've helped clear them up! Enjoy all episodes so far! www.shorturl.at/sBE69
even some of the muslims don't know certain laws behind having 4 wifes, first of al your first wife needs to reason with it and accept that you will marry a second one and that goes for all the other wives all the wives need to accept it, and financial psychological and not to forget you have to give each wive the same amounts of attention. you don't marry more than one wife in the islam for fun but to expand the Islam it's not for fun in other words. so basically all those rules will make it impossible for most men to marry more than one wife. "why are women not allowed to marry 4 men" according to our religion (i only know one reasoning) you can't know which child is from which man. (please correct me if i made a mistake with proof)
Arranged marriage is a bit similar to blind dates but your parents are the ones finding you the dates. You have discussions and conversations in front of family to keep it halal, but of course you can also get some private time together as well to ask each other some personal questions too. And then if you like each other well enough, you get engaged to keep the meetings halal and then from there it can lead to marriage or no marriage depending on what you've learnt about each other.
" Men buy women , that's the marriage process . " The saddest thing is that once I was having a conversation in the comments section of a fb post that how you shouldn't force your wives to have sex with you . And this Muslim guy tells me , " The fact that I give mohrana , permits me to do whatever I want to with them ." Even many Muslims nowdays don't follow the rules or just bend them to their favour .
You shouldn't force your wife. On the other hand spouses should also now they have responsibilities towards one another and should respect the right to intimacy of the spouse(s).
Forced marriages cases also happened in USA where people are well educated,even they are not Muslims & Civilized then other Countries, its not related to religion, its your own Societies issue & personal behavior, But Media just highlights that type news when some incidents happened in Muslim Societies.
The ignorance in these tweets are astounding. The first one however seemed like a genuine question from someone who is genuinely trying to learn and may/may not be on the path towards converting. At the end of the day though. That was pretty cool to see
Errrmmm, you can married more than 4 if you are NON-MUSLIM. Like, people before married 10, 100, 1000 and probally 10000. Islam is the only religion that put a limit for how many you can married
Marrying the 2nd wife, you need the permission of your first wife and at what cost do you want to take another wife? Why? Are they poor? Are they suffering with deadly illness and wanted to fulfill her last wish to get married because she knows she wont be long anymore in this world? And that is when its fine. Nobody even willing to share your life partner with another women. (except for personal or family issues~we cant say that because it is a huge topic~
I think when people are talking about how men buy woman they’re talking about how the men gives like the wife money or like her family money so they can get married (i’m probably not getting everything correct because I don’t know that much about it actually but it’s something like that)
God damnit why aren't these people changing clothes ? I've been seeing 'em for a long time. Is this video recorded in a single day and you're just sharing part of it every now and then
Did someone said one by one (Korean/maybe?) 0:26 Q4:3 If you fear you might fail to give orphan women their rights, then marry other women of your choice-two, three, or four. But if you are afraid you will fail to maintain justice, then one or those female slave in your possession. This way you are less likely to commit injustice.
1. "Do you have to marry your cousin" that is a culture thing. Islam didn't require you to marry your cousin. That is like asking a christian if they marry their cousin when the royal families go by christianity in the olden times marry their own cousin. That's culture. Not religion. Islam put a boundary, you can't marry your siblings, half-siblings, or your milk siblings. Cousin is a 'fair' area. Come on, back then, human's genetics are stronger, as long as you don't do it often enough, marrying your cousin won't cause any genetical side-effect. 2. Having four wives is not obligatory. It's just mean you're someone who is capable to support FOUR FAMILIES. And the women must be willing, if not, you have sinned. And it's advised to marry your wives from the type that can't support themselves; like widows. Back in the prophet's era, it was a warring time, there were so many widows and it was advised for the men to marry them and took them under their wings for protection. And the men visited themselves to make their own PROPOSALS, if the woman rejected, they backed down. One of the prophet's wives initially didn't want to remarry, despite many respectable men came knocking her door asking for her hand in marriage. Eventually, the prophet came to propose himself, and after a lot of thoughts, she finally accepted him after warning him she was a jealous type. You are OBLIGATED to take care of them financially, if you didn't- you have sinned. It's hypocritical for westerners who don't know anything about islam to say this practice is weird, when a lot of westerners have open relationship, having sex with people that weren't even your spouse. I'd say, marrying four women with their consent is more respectable than cheating left and right without even giving your 'mistress' a safe life or any form of responsibility. 3. "Men buy women. That's the marriage process" False. Women had the right to choose their husband as seen in point 2. There is a mahr, where men had to put aside a percentage of their income for the woman he's going to marry, but literally, it can be anything. We do, however, have a teaching that women must obey husbands, why? Because he's the leader of the household. Women had the responsibility to obey husbands' words, but AGAIN not as a 'slave'. Like, for reasons, women didn't actually have to cook for husbands. Yup, nope. Islam didn't dictate that. Women cooking for husbands is counted as her appreciation for her husband. While women have to obey their husband more rather than her own birth family, a woman's son HAVE to obey his mother. Right. Islam respects women. When the prophet was asked who is the person who deserves respect in life, the prophet answered "Mother." THREE times before saying "Father" 4. "Muslim women don't get to choose their husband" False. As referred to in the points above.
0:27 Brother is misinformed. You can indeed have 4 wives at the same time, just cant sleep with them all at the same time. 0:40 Ta'addud (marrying more than one wives) is not cultural. Muslim who want to, but dont...in west primarily do not do it because of the laws of the land. 0:49 Rules are with the first marriage as well. and there is NO rule that you cannot have 4 just because you want to. This is perfectly acceptable reason to have more than one wives. Just remember that the rules of rights etc still apply. 1:55 Why do we have to misrepresent the general practices. Yes, under normal arrange marriage most women due to family pressure and high level of shame wont be able to "choose", but their consent remains essential to the process of nikah. But if the qualms are with lack of choice, then the majority of hinduism in india still do arrange marriage. We do not need to change the narrative.
@L Drago The sunnah is more than 10 wives :) in this case we follow the statements of Rasulullah ﷺ and how Sahaba radiallahu anhum followed it. Therafter Fuqaha' have stipulated the base conditino from the ayah of the quran about "fear" of not being just with them. Perhaps some study will help. I welcome you calling me wierdo. Nabi ﷺ has stated that this religion started as ghareeb (strange) and shall return to being strange.. : )
@L Drago Seriously, you are a waste of time during Ramadhan. The last wife of Rasulullah ﷺ was Sayidatuna Aisha radiAllahu anha. How old was she and how divorced was she? Please stop misrepresenting islam with some apologetic self baked understandings. Nabi ﷺ was excluded from the how many wives he had, but ummah has been sanctioned 4 at any given time. Sahaba were commanded to let go any wives more than 4 and choose the 4 they wished to keep.
Actually in the middle age people used to have like 10 or 20 or even more viwes, that a man can have 4 viwes rule is there to put a limit to this. And it is uncouraged and not recommended to have more than 1 wife in Islam. You also have to treat them both equally. You can marry more than one woman anyway, it's just limited in Islam and stated, because there are so many reasons as to why you would marry another woman also and just because it is limited like that you don't have to have 4 wives. Like you can have 5 if you are not a muslim, if you say you would never do it for your own principles then that shouldn't change once you are a Muslim too. It's just now you can't have 5 or more and only 4 maximum. And I am a Muslim female btw, I would probably not accept if my husband just wanted to marry someone else for his own pleasure. I mean women in Islam have the right to divorce someone so...you can always do it.🤷♀️
@@yas-sine7031 ik that but i was talking about the misogyny and how they try to cover it up behind religion, so the religion gets a bad view from other ppl because they think islam promotes misogyny but it actually teaches about eaquality and teamwork in the household
A women came to Prophet(PBUH) and said"My father forced me to marry to this guy but i dont like him.whag should I do" Our beloved prophet(pbuh) replied(SubhanAllah):Your marriage is not valid
I'm not native speaker, can you please add english subtitles, because i dont understand every word the accent is really different and i want to laugh moooore :( They are incredible!!!!
So many people think that it is super easy to marry & have 4 wives. In islam you dont just marry more than 1 just for fun. Original intention and reason for the rules was to help women especially widow and to free slaves during that times in the past. And it is NOT a must for man to have 4 wives because god already mentioned that marry more than one ONLY when you can be fair. So, the most important rules in poligamy is -- FAIRNESS (in financially, physically, emotionally & spiritually). Just a simple example so that people can see: if you buy house for wife 1, you also must buy house for wife no2,3&4. If you give this amount of love to your wife 1, you also need to give the same amount of love to the rest of your wives. In my country at least, a man who want to marry more than 1 will get assess by lawyer, etc first. They will check your reason, financial situation, your health and mental condition, and other factor.
Well, in some parts of the Islamic world, women are forced to accept their future husband, but it has nothing to do with Islam. It's purely cultural and pre dates Islam. I'm Muslim btw.
@@yonissaid714 of course +"not exceeding the regulations that guides you during your journey" so it would be as a journey without a map .....then as a result .👉 get lost👌
@@crystalreed7624 exactly ....I'm not forcing .... Just telling her the truth with the evidence to be satisfied that I'v done my duty as a muslim by advising people and to do as the prophet said من راي منكم منكرا" فليغيره..." who sees a bad behavior try to change it ..... But of course in a respectfull manner as far as I can as our prophet taught us. .. By for example using these flowers 🌹🌹🌹😅 or my way ... And I don't offense to any body at any way and if happens ..it must be unintentional 🌼🌸 may Allah guide us all
having 4 wives isn't easy you need need permission of your first wife to marry the 2nd , permission of 1st and 2nd wife for 3rd marriage and vice versa also you have to or try your best to treat them equally financially , physically etc , which even a lot of muslims dont know or dont care about.
Once, I read a comment in fb about "Only muslim fathers married their daughters" like, how they make that conclusion??? Who told this man that muslim allowed incest??? That's haram dude.... Sometimes I thought this people just wanted to spread hate with ridiculous stereotypes (which is most of the time the stereotypes doesn't reflect Islam at all)
This is really nice, but please have a panel who is slightly more informed about Islam than this one. I don’t know if you’re trying to spread awareness or just have fun but if it former than I would recommend a well-informed panel is necessary
If my husband ask me if he can marry other woman, my questions are: 1. Can you imagine having another one like me ? I'm fine being friends with the second wife 2. Are u prepared yourself having more in-laws ? Especially asian in-laws 🤣🤣🤣
In islam, You can't marry a women when she doesn't want to. it's totally haram (forbidden)
when she "doesn't"!
@@itspersiangulfmoron.repeat2242 oh yes, my english is pitty so..
@H yes i am 💕
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@Uzerina Goog to begin with, I have to say that scholar agreed that, that is not the core of Islam that means yes this can change ANYTIME, because it depends on CULTRE, it doesn't depend on religion. Secondly, you may ask "How could Muslims allow such this behaviour?" The answer is because of circumstances. Before the last 300 years ago the expected life time was between 20 and 30. For example now in Turkey ,where I live, you can't marry if you are under 18. If people die 2 years later the marriage, how can humanty survive? So they married maybe when they were even 12 -This was not traumatic-. Now I ask you "do you allow 12 years old people marry with their owns?" This is why their parents were choosing their partner. To be honest I can't see any difference between now and then in this context, because saying you can't marry now is also one kind of choosing. Isn't it?
We always say that because Islam is for whole humanity it embraces every culture but harmful ones for humans in reality.
People really need to differentiate between culture and religion.
Jazak Allah, 100 percent!
I agree
Exactly!
True
Finally someone said it
okay...i dont get why people mix arranged marriage and forced marriage. islam forbids forced marriage. arranged marriage is when you are not pressured and you have a say to it and you can basically choose your spouse. smh
LOUDER 👏👏👏
They know islam from the media
Arranged Marriage is basically let your own brain and those of your family guide you instead of just following your heart.
That's not from Islam. Media just shows that. Forced marriage is a cultural thing. In Islam women get the power to choose who ever she wants. Even if a guy wants it or her dad, if she says no. No one can make her marry. You can arrange a marriage but if the women is not happy with the guy it's off. Media just lies most of the time
@@mongrelslayer7902 nooo thats not how you do it. they let you decide. no guilt tripping and shit. that forced man. and im fearing my dads side of the family will do that before i agree on marriage. but my mom is okay with love marriage and if not i can ask for an arranged mrriage when i feel ready. so i know momma is gonna fight for me in this haha. i heard tons of stories abt how family pressures you to get married. ugh
Can we have longer episodes please, this is so enjoyable, I'd love to watch more
Yeah
Yeah
Yh
True
Short and sharp makes the videos more fun in my opinion. Having them too long can make you get bored of them too soon.
Idk why but that asian guy is just too wholesome
Enjoy all episodes so far! www.shorturl.at/sBE69
I know right? He's my favorite as well.
most of them are asian who are you talking about?
@@moses7336 I think he mean the Far East Asian guy.
@@moses7336 Chinese guy he's from chine
For the Last tweet. We should remember Hazrat Khadeeja (RA) First wife of Prophet Muhammad (SAW) send the perposal herself. She was 15 years older then Prophet Muhammad, Divorcee, and a business women. Breaking all taboos of even today's society.
In Minangkabau tribe ( Indonesia ), this practice still going on. The female bride is the one who " proposes" to the male bride, and their kids inherited the family ( clan name) from the mother! ( •w•)
@@adamdamiri4823 wow I never knew this thanks for this information ❤️
@@adamdamiri4823 children are supposed to inherit their father’s name, that’s proper as they belong to their father not to the daughter of another man.
@@kermet18 "belong" ? Anyhow they want to do it is fine
Just cause it's the norm where you are doesn't mean it should be everywhere
@@kermet18 and is he not the son of another man? Did he fall from the sky?
WHO’S EXCITED FOR RAMADAN THIS YEAR!
I am!!!!
I think every Muslim is always excited for Ramadan but anyways I am!!
Me!!
@@hudaali1814 my favourite islamic holiday!
Me!!!!🥳🥳
my parents had an arranged marriage and they were cousins, so both of my grandmothers are my great aunts. i dont have a family tree, i have a family circle.
Ok that's funny 😆
Same 😭
Also if they are ready to possibly get a child with disabilities because cousin intercourse, then I support it 100% as well
Same 😂😂
and my fvking cousin has the audacity to confess to me
Me and the whole family are against it like wtf man both your parents are relatives , both my parents are relatives and both his and my parents are relatives
So NO thank you and we have spent a lot of times together as siblings where tf these feelings came from
@@Rkive71 lol, at least you got confessed at
Funniest moment of My life:
When a non-Muslim asked Me, why you guys say "A-stuff-Gorilla" everytime something bad happens?
If someone said that to me, I would laugh for three days straight
@@oo3006 Yup! It still makes Me go ROFL everytime I think about it.
XD im never going to stop laughing
Astagfurallah 😂😂
Astaghfirullah 😌
ain't a muslim but I enjoy watching this, hope there would be more longer episodes. would also love to convert someday.
You're always welcome, sister! SubhanAllah :)
mashaaAllah, may Allah guide you sister ❤️
we’ll welcome you with open arms 😊
May god show you the right path 💜
I see Azz kun in your pfp, that's awesome, I just started watching that anime and I'm loving it
Tbh I'm Christian and i don't know anything about islam but I'm kinda enjoying watching this clips, and for some sort gives me to learn more about you guys❤️
It's funny how some people think it's like I choose you and the woman has to marry. I feel like they have been watching too much Pokémon
🤣
Gotta marry em all.
The question: Men buy woman
That one girl : *damn no one wants to buy me*
What a mood
Why is she putting on a fake black american woman accent? Lame
@@ye23. let her be bruh 😒
@@ye23. Why do u give a shit?
@Danish Sabih it's called humor
@@ye23. are you her lung or smth
Islam has given women alot of freedom. It's the cultures that have bounded them
Would anybody give viewpoint on a Shakespeares Novel never once having read it from cover to cover?
But everybody has viewpoint on Islam never once having read Holy Quran from cover to cover?😂
Exactly!!! Thank you for saying this 🫂
@@ProphetGooglePeaceBeUponHim You are here to hate only for your kind information we are not a cult. It's a religion,Respect it.
the actual line what you are talking about is this,Ever heard of the say that 'You are not allowed to talk about someone elses thing if you don't properly know it'. Stop attacking us
۞ وَٱلْمُحْصَنَـٰتُ مِنَ ٱلنِّسَآءِ إِلَّا مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَـٰنُكُمْ ۖ كِتَـٰبَ ٱللَّهِ عَلَيْكُمْ ۚ وَأُحِلَّ لَكُم مَّا وَرَآءَ ذَٰلِكُمْ أَن تَبْتَغُوا۟ بِأَمْوَٰلِكُم مُّحْصِنِينَ غَيْرَ مُسَـٰفِحِينَ ۚ فَمَا ٱسْتَمْتَعْتُم بِهِۦ مِنْهُنَّ فَـَٔاتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ فَرِيضَةًۭ ۚ وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِيمَا تَرَٰضَيْتُم بِهِۦ مِنۢ بَعْدِ ٱلْفَرِيضَةِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيمًا حَكِيمًۭا
it means:
Also ˹forbidden are˺ married women-except ˹female˺ captives in your possession. This is Allah’s commandment to you. Lawful to you are all beyond these-as long as you seek them with your wealth in a legal marriage, not in fornication. Give those you have consummated marriage with their due dowries. It is permissible to be mutually gracious regarding the set dowry. Surely Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise.
Makes sense
the other day, someone (a woman) literally asked me if i was married. after i told her i was 15🤣
Wtf
Lol
😂😭✋🏻
Thank you so much for creating these content! As a revert Muslim since almost 3 years now, married since 2 years... Ignorant people is what hurts me the most!
Eh this questions are funny. I live in southeast asia, muslims are majority but at the same time we're mulitcultural. Stereotype questions about muslim or any other races or religions are tiring, I rolled my eyes seeing them. Some people stay in small world, you have to traveling and go out your social zone and know more people. Thank God now we have internet to communicate people about the truth, but also lies, but people more open minded these days.
Where are you from? I’m from Malaysia.
My face through the whole video was like “😂😂😂😂😂😂” lmao subhaanallah
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Black woman's smile 🌻 literally noor (glow) on her Face
Girl in orange sounds like Hermione Granger
So true!
And looks like Emily Ratajkowski
I didn't even notice that!
"Men buy women" lol
I guess they are talking about "Mahr" coz that's an amount compulsory on a husband to give his wife, according to his income,
BUT THEY DON'T KNOW IF YOU DIVORCE YOUR WIFE YOU ARE MORE OBLIGED TO GIVE IT!!!
IS THAT STILL BYING??😑😑😑😑
DUMB
Yeah literally the same as their concept of dowry. No difference there.
@@olymolly3637 concept of dowry isn't in Islam in fact there is no dowry in Islam, man is responsible for providing all the necessities to his wife. This concept of dowry is nothing but indian culture
@Scarlet Overkill Yeah I know about mahr... But for me ofcourse there is difference between mahr n dowry. Dowry is culture n mahr is must on man to give in Islalm even if he divorce his wife
@Scarlet Overkill No! Actually I was talking about people saying that mehr is something like you pay to buy a women! So I was mentioning that even a person if he divorces his wife he has to pay mahr if he hasn't paid it yet, therefore mahr is never considered as buying of a woman.
If you listen the video they say that muslims buy the women probably they are talking about mahr, therefore I was mentioning that...
@Scarlet Overkill yeah some people delay it by the permission of their wife that's why I was saying that.
Love this series
true
@Truth Speaker Another troll to be reported
@@salafimuwahhid3109 Yeah , just don't reply such comments, All they want is attention, we should just simply report it
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@Truth Speaker no u
Love the content sooo funny
@kids Abiduma agreed especially the tweets they read out.
@Truth Speaker all of this hadist, are they are shahih, hasan, or dhaif?
@Truth Speaker I found another troll and Islamophobe, report time
@Truth Speaker for the second one the Hadith is not talking about slaves from where did you get the information from??
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I AM SO EXCITED FOR RAMADAN THIS YEAR!!🥰
If you so excited fast right now brother!
"i want to have 4 wives"
hun get the money for 1 first then think about the others -
Get the Physical power to pleasure One during night then think about the others (only if you are a bull 🐂)
@@yas-sine7031 LMAO plsss😭
So men buying women part was correct after all?
@@mobiledev6037 well not rlly bc I mean yes but like no basically its when in order for a man to marry a woman in Islam he must find a way to pay her the amount of money she wants and that money will then be hers otherwise he can't marry her until he gives her the amount but i mean it doesn't have to be money it can be whatever she wants soo its not rlly buying.
@@mobiledev6037 can you take care of your kid if you got no money? Should have answer that Q of yours right. Thats the short version.
Now,
Its not buying, its responsibility. Which cost money.
Wanna have a bite at those two forbidden chest fruit? Or have a taste of that halal sausage? Gonna cost you man. Which the 'western' men hate coz they just wanna dip and go as many pies they could get before someone got bloated and come knocking for money to buy diapers. Then real life start. The school dropped out, the part time worker changing weekly, the alcohol and drugs, the wife and kid beater.
So yes just like any proper marriage in the world irregardless of religion/race. You dont buy your wife, but you need money to keep a family and future.
As any parent would rather have a man with money that could somehow guarantee their daughter financial wellbeing than one that is living in his car picking up recycle trash.
So is it still 'men buy women'? No.
Does it still cost money? Yes.
You want all 4? Not including the other rules of being fair to all and make them happy and what not, two things. Can you last that long in bed?lol if no isnt satisfied, then dont even think of no 2 much less no 4. And 4 definitely gonna cost you more than 1 so YES you need more money.
Unless you an oil baron from UAE or crazy rich asian, better stick with one. Haha.
Also all the wives of Prophet Muhammad (Saw) except Hazrat Aisha (RA) were either Divorcee or Widow. Polygamy is not there for fun. But to support Women who or if they need it. even there are restrictions to support and love equally and if one person cannot do that. he is not allowed to have another wife.
Polygamy is not a joke though.
@@ashmirrahnashihinzahlan8786 offcourse not. There are rules, regulations, guidelines and values that dictate the lifestyle. Polygamy is not there just for pleasure but rather actually it has higher moral value. Unfortunately what society has done is to make it an excuse for their personal benefits like having a son over daughter, gaining dowry, personal pleasure etc.
@@adeelkiet yeah. Sadly most people think polygamy is like having a harem.
They didn’t know the responsibility behind it.
Dude, managing 1 wife is hell, y'all want 4 of them? Suicidal much?
Lol...i feel it too...
1 wife and 2 daughter...everyday is brutal screaming...
that's why in Islam it is clearly stated that it is better to marry one and if you do marry more you have to treat them fairly and guarantee their happiness provide the same amount of spending and emotional engagement. this practice started to shelter wives and families of fallen soldiers and divorced women in the first place not for men to go hunting.
@@hasnaeatif4381 true. Only the truly brave and strong deserve to voluntarily choose a life full of trauma. Alhamdulillah I do not need to worry about this. There are truly better ways to live one's life.
@@yousufhasan3933 i don't quite understand what you mean?
lmao if they ever knew the rules probably will never think about it again 😬
'we definitely out here hunting now" 😂 period
Love that they are having fun, joking around, and making things light.
Allaaah!!!
I'm loving the way you guys react to these super funny tweets
But I'm also happy that people are so much attracted towards Islam 😉
Whats with all the marriage questions!
I mean most of the time the only thing thats different is that your parents choose possible choices
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@@ezz1912 Indeed, it is a pun
Love this series! Hilarious but delivers the message!
"We're definitely here hunting." that hilarious Ma Syaa ALLAH
I like these videos...Aside from informative, very light and happy
even some of the muslims don't know certain laws behind having 4 wifes, first of al your first wife needs to reason with it and accept that you will marry a second one and that goes for all the other wives all the wives need to accept it, and financial psychological and not to forget you have to give each wive the same amounts of attention. you don't marry more than one wife in the islam for fun but to expand the Islam it's not for fun in other words. so basically all those rules will make it impossible for most men to marry more than one wife. "why are women not allowed to marry 4 men" according to our religion (i only know one reasoning) you can't know which child is from which man. (please correct me if i made a mistake with proof)
Arranged marriage is a bit similar to blind dates but your parents are the ones finding you the dates. You have discussions and conversations in front of family to keep it halal, but of course you can also get some private time together as well to ask each other some personal questions too. And then if you like each other well enough, you get engaged to keep the meetings halal and then from there it can lead to marriage or no marriage depending on what you've learnt about each other.
" Men buy women , that's the marriage process . "
The saddest thing is that once I was having a conversation in the comments section of a fb post that how you shouldn't force your wives to have sex with you . And this Muslim guy tells me , " The fact that I give mohrana , permits me to do whatever I want to with them ." Even many Muslims nowdays don't follow the rules or just bend them to their favour .
You shouldn't force your wife. On the other hand spouses should also now they have responsibilities towards one another and should respect the right to intimacy of the spouse(s).
Forced marriages cases also happened in USA where people are well educated,even they are not Muslims & Civilized then other Countries, its not related to religion, its your own Societies issue & personal behavior,
But Media just highlights that type news when some incidents happened in Muslim Societies.
Yes, same in my country too
Loved it, we need more like this
“Men buy women” that’s the marriage process.”
Okay I’m going to die bye🤣🤣🤣
Also "Arranged marriage" is not "Forced marriage"
Ahahahah! Thats soo funy. Butt i love ittt soooo much♥️♥️⭐
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The ignorance in these tweets are astounding. The first one however seemed like a genuine question from someone who is genuinely trying to learn and may/may not be on the path towards converting. At the end of the day though. That was pretty cool to see
They're all so cute. mashaAllah ❤️ love watching these.
1:24
Damn no one wanna buy me !!
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When you are so single 😁
Errrmmm, you can married more than 4 if you are NON-MUSLIM. Like, people before married 10, 100, 1000 and probally 10000. Islam is the only religion that put a limit for how many you can married
@Alan Walker atheist... still a non-Muslim 😶
@Alan Walker ok Alan, tf are you on this video for? Its not for you
Marrying the 2nd wife, you need the permission of your first wife and at what cost do you want to take another wife? Why? Are they poor? Are they suffering with deadly illness and wanted to fulfill her last wish to get married because she knows she wont be long anymore in this world? And that is when its fine. Nobody even willing to share your life partner with another women. (except for personal or family issues~we cant say that because it is a huge topic~
"We're literally hunting" omg 🤣🤣🤣
I think when people are talking about how men buy woman they’re talking about how the men gives like the wife money or like her family money so they can get married (i’m probably not getting everything correct because I don’t know that much about it actually but it’s something like that)
God damnit why aren't these people changing clothes ? I've been seeing 'em for a long time.
Is this video recorded in a single day and you're just sharing part of it every now and then
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@@islamchanneltv yup they're all superb and funny.
Guys can anybody link me to the website where you can buy wives 😅
Amazon
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That guy did say eBay though
It’s a joke
You people are genuine, genius and funny 👍👍
Did someone said one by one (Korean/maybe?) 0:26
Q4:3
If you fear you might fail to give orphan women their rights, then marry other women of your choice-two, three, or four. But if you are afraid you will fail to maintain justice, then one or those female slave in your possession. This way you are less likely to commit injustice.
this series is gold
Oh its fun to watch i love it ❤️❤️❤️
Wow..it was really enjoyable!
Love the contents 😂😂
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@@islamchanneltv I have already seen all the contents and they are amazing 😂😂
I loveeeeeee when they read tweets about Islam make it longer plzzz
1. "Do you have to marry your cousin" that is a culture thing. Islam didn't require you to marry your cousin. That is like asking a christian if they marry their cousin when the royal families go by christianity in the olden times marry their own cousin. That's culture. Not religion. Islam put a boundary, you can't marry your siblings, half-siblings, or your milk siblings. Cousin is a 'fair' area. Come on, back then, human's genetics are stronger, as long as you don't do it often enough, marrying your cousin won't cause any genetical side-effect.
2. Having four wives is not obligatory. It's just mean you're someone who is capable to support FOUR FAMILIES. And the women must be willing, if not, you have sinned. And it's advised to marry your wives from the type that can't support themselves; like widows. Back in the prophet's era, it was a warring time, there were so many widows and it was advised for the men to marry them and took them under their wings for protection. And the men visited themselves to make their own PROPOSALS, if the woman rejected, they backed down. One of the prophet's wives initially didn't want to remarry, despite many respectable men came knocking her door asking for her hand in marriage. Eventually, the prophet came to propose himself, and after a lot of thoughts, she finally accepted him after warning him she was a jealous type.
You are OBLIGATED to take care of them financially, if you didn't- you have sinned. It's hypocritical for westerners who don't know anything about islam to say this practice is weird, when a lot of westerners have open relationship, having sex with people that weren't even your spouse. I'd say, marrying four women with their consent is more respectable than cheating left and right without even giving your 'mistress' a safe life or any form of responsibility.
3. "Men buy women. That's the marriage process" False. Women had the right to choose their husband as seen in point 2. There is a mahr, where men had to put aside a percentage of their income for the woman he's going to marry, but literally, it can be anything. We do, however, have a teaching that women must obey husbands, why? Because he's the leader of the household. Women had the responsibility to obey husbands' words, but AGAIN not as a 'slave'. Like, for reasons, women didn't actually have to cook for husbands. Yup, nope. Islam didn't dictate that. Women cooking for husbands is counted as her appreciation for her husband. While women have to obey their husband more rather than her own birth family, a woman's son HAVE to obey his mother. Right. Islam respects women. When the prophet was asked who is the person who deserves respect in life, the prophet answered "Mother." THREE times before saying "Father"
4. "Muslim women don't get to choose their husband" False. As referred to in the points above.
Ohhhh finally someone speaking about cousin’s marriage ❤️ most of the ppl I know they are married to their cousin and they have healthy kids
Thank you for showing the real Islam
Islam is such a diverse religion. ☪️❤️
The 4 wives is so exaggerated. While it is allowed technically, it is neither a requirement nor it is encouraged in normal circumstances.
The best part of this video is the diversity of people
0:27 Brother is misinformed. You can indeed have 4 wives at the same time, just cant sleep with them all at the same time.
0:40 Ta'addud (marrying more than one wives) is not cultural. Muslim who want to, but dont...in west primarily do not do it because of the laws of the land.
0:49 Rules are with the first marriage as well. and there is NO rule that you cannot have 4 just because you want to. This is perfectly acceptable reason to have more than one wives. Just remember that the rules of rights etc still apply.
1:55 Why do we have to misrepresent the general practices. Yes, under normal arrange marriage most women due to family pressure and high level of shame wont be able to "choose", but their consent remains essential to the process of nikah. But if the qualms are with lack of choice, then the majority of hinduism in india still do arrange marriage. We do not need to change the narrative.
@L Drago The sunnah is more than 10 wives :) in this case we follow the statements of Rasulullah ﷺ and how Sahaba radiallahu anhum followed it. Therafter Fuqaha' have stipulated the base conditino from the ayah of the quran about "fear" of not being just with them. Perhaps some study will help.
I welcome you calling me wierdo. Nabi ﷺ has stated that this religion started as ghareeb (strange) and shall return to being strange.. : )
@L Drago Seriously, you are a waste of time during Ramadhan. The last wife of Rasulullah ﷺ was Sayidatuna Aisha radiAllahu anha. How old was she and how divorced was she? Please stop misrepresenting islam with some apologetic self baked understandings.
Nabi ﷺ was excluded from the how many wives he had, but ummah has been sanctioned 4 at any given time. Sahaba were commanded to let go any wives more than 4 and choose the 4 they wished to keep.
@L Drago What a superb display of civility and Masnun decorum. Introspect dude, Now is the time.
Actually in the middle age people used to have like 10 or 20 or even more viwes, that a man can have 4 viwes rule is there to put a limit to this. And it is uncouraged and not recommended to have more than 1 wife in Islam. You also have to treat them both equally. You can marry more than one woman anyway, it's just limited in Islam and stated, because there are so many reasons as to why you would marry another woman also and just because it is limited like that you don't have to have 4 wives. Like you can have 5 if you are not a muslim, if you say you would never do it for your own principles then that shouldn't change once you are a Muslim too. It's just now you can't have 5 or more and only 4 maximum. And I am a Muslim female btw, I would probably not accept if my husband just wanted to marry someone else for his own pleasure. I mean women in Islam have the right to divorce someone so...you can always do it.🤷♀️
Now is four wives truly the limit or more suggested talk than direct? The prophet (pbuh) had more than four so I’ve always been curious
bwahahahaha...
twitter : "Man buy woman"
comment : "well...like on ebay or something"
I literary died laughing sooooo hard.....🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Fun video as always..
However, so tiresome that people continue to interpret cultural practices for religion.
1:55 I'm pretty sure he shot his shot at that moment
Im waiting for this
Dear Non-Muslims, Forced marriage is forbidden/haram in Islam.
Wow..,well said by all of you.
Hope they'll see this video who tweeted this sh*t..!
People need to learn the difference between religion and culture
Dowry is a duty in islam
@@yas-sine7031 ik that but i was talking about the misogyny and how they try to cover it up behind religion, so the religion gets a bad view from other ppl because they think islam promotes misogyny but it actually teaches about eaquality and teamwork in the household
even khadijah ra "propose"/chose muhammad saw to be her husband.... what more could you ask for an example
If in the backround theres music pleases avoid ist
Hahahah thank you. Made my day. So funny
"Muslim buy women"
Me who is broke: "Oh well"
A women came to Prophet(PBUH) and said"My father forced me to marry to this guy but i dont like him.whag should I do"
Our beloved prophet(pbuh) replied(SubhanAllah):Your marriage is not valid
why do non-muslims think that Muslims are a different type of species😂
I'm not native speaker, can you please add english subtitles, because i dont understand every word the accent is really different and i want to laugh moooore :(
They are incredible!!!!
So many people think that it is super easy to marry & have 4 wives.
In islam you dont just marry more than 1 just for fun. Original intention and reason for the rules was to help women especially widow and to free slaves during that times in the past.
And it is NOT a must for man to have 4 wives because god already mentioned that marry more than one ONLY when you can be fair. So, the most important rules in poligamy is -- FAIRNESS (in financially, physically, emotionally & spiritually). Just a simple example so that people can see: if you buy house for wife 1, you also must buy house for wife no2,3&4. If you give this amount of love to your wife 1, you also need to give the same amount of love to the rest of your wives.
In my country at least, a man who want to marry more than 1 will get assess by lawyer, etc first. They will check your reason, financial situation, your health and mental condition, and other factor.
most of the time people just confuse between religion, nationality and culture
Well, in some parts of the Islamic world, women are forced to accept their future husband, but it has nothing to do with Islam. It's purely cultural and pre dates Islam.
I'm Muslim btw.
@Abeera Khawaja Yeah, in some parts of Pakistan, women are living in hell.
The worst part is that ignorant people think is this real Islam.
Muslim women" must" wear hijab ...for the woman with no hijab.. Because it is mentioned in Qura'an and sunnah so it is obligatory for muslim women
وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا ۖ ......🌹وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَىٰ جُيُوبِهِنَّ🌹 ۖ......👈 وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا لِبُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَائِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَائِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي أَخَوَاتِهِنَّ أَوْ نِسَائِهِنَّ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُنَّ أَوِ التَّابِعِينَ غَيْرِ أُولِي الْإِرْبَةِ مِنَ الرِّجَالِ أَوِ الطِّفْلِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ يَظْهَرُوا عَلَىٰ عَوْرَاتِ النِّسَاءِ ۖ وَلَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِأَرْجُلِهِنَّ لِيُعْلَمَ مَا يُخْفِينَ مِن زِينَتِهِنَّ ۚ وَتُوبُوا إِلَى اللَّهِ جَمِيعًا أَيُّهَ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ لَعَلَّكُمْ تُفْلِحُونَ (31)
in islam. Do whatever you want, heaven is the main goal, and you gotta work to get there.
if you dont, you dont get there.
simplest way i can say it.
@@yonissaid714 of course +"not exceeding the regulations that guides you during your journey" so it would be as a journey without a map .....then as a result .👉 get lost👌
well it's her choice
in Islam you can't force
@@crystalreed7624 exactly ....I'm not forcing .... Just telling her the truth with the evidence to be satisfied that I'v done my duty as a muslim by advising people and to do as the prophet said من راي منكم منكرا" فليغيره..." who sees a bad behavior try to change it ..... But of course in a respectfull manner as far as I can as our prophet taught us. .. By for example using these flowers 🌹🌹🌹😅 or my way ... And I don't offense to any body at any way and if happens ..it must be unintentional 🌼🌸 may Allah guide us all
@@WAHRHEIT402 yah and she should wear hijab when she is comfortable
having 4 wives isn't easy you need need permission of your first wife to marry the 2nd , permission of 1st and 2nd wife for 3rd marriage and vice versa also you have to or try your best to treat them equally financially , physically etc , which even a lot of muslims dont know or dont care about.
If you're into romance novels or drama series you'll find that a very popular theme is arranged and forced marriage. Ever wonder why?
Once, I read a comment in fb about "Only muslim fathers married their daughters" like, how they make that conclusion??? Who told this man that muslim allowed incest??? That's haram dude.... Sometimes I thought this people just wanted to spread hate with ridiculous stereotypes (which is most of the time the stereotypes doesn't reflect Islam at all)
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This is really nice, but please have a panel who is slightly more informed about Islam than this one. I don’t know if you’re trying to spread awareness or just have fun but if it former than I would recommend a well-informed panel is necessary
The guy with tattoo, i need his story how he convert islam
If my husband ask me if he can marry other woman, my questions are:
1. Can you imagine having another one like me ? I'm fine being friends with the second wife
2. Are u prepared yourself having more in-laws ? Especially asian in-laws
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Most muslim marriage are like interviews instead of falling in love or arrange marriage which makes it better than arrange marriage
I am just addicted to these videos
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ramadhan is near
Why is that one arab girl putting on a fake black american woman accent...cultural appropriation
0:25 Masya Allah He Look Like Jackie Chan Maybe
I really wanna know if there is non Muslims watching this is there any?
There isn't a right man or woman ,except that you should learn to love and grow with one another's faults understand one another embrace each other